How to Get on The SAME PAGE with Your Partner | Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu

What should you do when there is a collision of habits between you and your partner? One likes to get the day started early while the other gets rolling at night. Can you have a healthy and happy relationship when your routines collide with one another? Tom and Lisa address ways to keep your relationship at peace without causing each other absolute misery. Showing each appreciation of what you both do without turning anything into an expectation is necessary. Tom and Lisa reveal their secret communication tips to help you survive each other’s crazy habits.
Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance and bond in your current relationship, Tom and Lisa are sharing their 20 years of experience. They’re taking questions and giving relationship advice that will enhance all of your relationships.
SHOW NOTES:
Daily Routine | How to adapt and compromise with each other’s daily routine [0:23]
Meaningful Habits | Ways to have your partner do meaningful things on a regular [3:44]
Signaling Habits | Lisa on ways to communicate through habitual signals you both know [6:02]
Messy Habits | When your habits don’t align and one is messy the other is clean [7:34]
Being Disrespectful | Tom on how to not agree peacefully without forcing values [10:48]
QUOTES:
“We have to say, we can't agree on this. I don't need you to adopt my values. But don't make your values my problem either.” Tom Bilyeu [11:27]

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How do you attempt to get in sync with your partner?

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I love this example you've shown us about how to decode one another's language about the things we do for each other and how they are perceived. So often it comes down to this... and how we communicate or don't, over these small infractions. After a short time, they become big, insurmountable issues that no one can untangle because they don't even know what it's about it anymore. Having a similar enough value structure, and learning how to navigate where it differs, when able, is one of the best parts of this entire conversation. You both are an inspiration. Thank you for this video!

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This is definitely something I struggle with comprehending how to do well. Even listening to them talk, even though they did well, I experienced a lot of anxiety and stress just hearing them talking about arguing.

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It can definitely come down to practice sometimes ♥

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It’s weird to me because she is doing something to enhance clean and organized living which is what adults do (or strive to). Whatever he gets away with will create a bigger household load for her (hence why boys shouldn’t just expect mommy to pick up their laundry from the floor - if mommy asks him to pick up his laundry he may just ignore her or complain and whine to get away with not doing it). So this goes to his resistance to being obedient for the FULL functioning of the family (for instance, in the military everyone works together and is disciplined for the sake of the whole not the individual). Basically, he is getting to do what HE (the individual wants to do) while she is doing something for the household to keep chaos and mess to a minimum. He should be helping the WHOLE to keep things clean and tidy for everyday easy use rather than her helping him keeping his crap all over the floor until he deems it ready to pick up. He should just be single so he can trash his own place and she should find someone who wants to keep a clean home with her or have her own place where she gets to reap the benefits of living clean and tidy.

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Only 3 times? This isn't a god given connection, Lisa was with Tom when Tom was an absolute loser. Tom was not a big shot yet we admire their growth. They actively choose each other and committed to every sense of what that meant. People these days are too afraid to open themselves like this

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I love how you guys show us exactly how you talk and discuss through things!! Keep em coming! ❤️🙏🏻 Thank you guys!

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This was a great video i needed this going through this right now. Can a relationship work if values are different and there seems to be no compromise?

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Lisa was there for Tom at his lowest. In another video She is quoted to say "I bet on you.". As a man, I have never been given this level of trust in my relationships. Most women take men at face value. How many women can say they stuck around their man at his lowest? How many men will stay when their wife gets ill? The people who are in relationships don't care about being in sync. They are actively busy working on the relationship to view these videos. So Tom And Lisa are the lucky few that have a relationship and these "50 steps when you're already into a relationship" videos do nothing for the majority of people who have not been given the grace of trust by their partner as Lisa has for Tom.

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I’ve been there for my man at his lowest… when he had cancer. Not sure what’s going on now but I feel the pull to live my own life now.

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3:55 Dont make your relationship fake like hollywood man. You understand you BUILT UP to that type of communication? So In the beginning what was the friction like?

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idk man sometimes you guys are hit but often i feel so disconnected from your reality that it just feels like im watching a flirting convo. I can't take value from this when it feels disingenuous

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