How To Get Your Date's Name When You've Forgot | First Dates USA

Meet Dylan, a 27-year-old shipping manager who usually brings a wingman along on his dates. Dylan's date is Yvonne a 28-year-old financial analyst hoping that tonight will give her a chance to start over. However, it's clear the sparks weren't quite there on this one.
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[@robynneRN]

This guy has a drinking problem (or one brewing) and hasn't admitted it to himself yet. His friends know him as a mess (as evidenced by the phone call), the memories he recalled are about getting drunk with his friends, he talked about booze during the date, he talked about booze with the bartender, he talked about booze in the pre-interview. I used to be the same way. He's on a slippery slope.

[@mo1976ney]

He was not just talking about booze in all parts of the conversation, he seemed drunk, the slow movements, the lazy speech, the constant frowning, moaning, sighing, not making eye-contact, the lack of attuning to the other person, to her. Horrible. That should be a regulation of the show, to not show up under the influence. He managed to make her feel sad in one short date. Alcohol will have you ruin more than you care to.

[@thenhl1015]

ye he was totally sloshed from the very beginning of this date

[@RSD22.]

@@thenhl1015 lol sloshed

[@rosiemackenzie5976]

Yup.

[@audhumbla6927]

If he ever sees this, I just want him to know that he is such a stunning gorgeous man, a dream guy, he has ALL reason to be healthy and get his sht together. He deserves all the love, and he has to give it to himself first. God Bless Dylan.

[@Sam-_-]

Hilarious. So drunk he lost his card. “My name’s Dylan” as the date ends. “Yeah..”

[@MillerTheOriginal]

💀💀💀💀😂

[@sarahkissaify]

At least he had fun lol

[@hlratliff5025]

He's drunk, high and broke, too?!! The ONLY GOOD THING about this date is he now has a video of why he's single and needs help. I hope he watches it sober.

[@lunarsabbatical7906]

If he watches this and doesn’t feel like his life needs to change he has a serious problem. To do this on tv must be humiliating for all they know him

[@awc001137]

shes really nice for actually being patient and stayed till the end. and didnt even reject him brutally but kindly explained it.

[@heleng9940]

She was lovely, he needs to go to AA.

[@daniellereeve3988]

Or maybe this experience was a lesson for her to stop being so considerate of other people’s feelings and needs, and listen more to hers? Could have been a great opportunity to step out of the nice girl persona and set proper limits for herself. Being nice is not always the right answer. If a guy shows up drunk on a date, why put up with it? It’s a complete lack of respect, no matter what his story is.

[@MeanMachine1992]

Dude was drunk out of his mind. His loss, she was a keeper.

[@pcbangbros8350]

nah she was a like 6.

[@PaulAllen786]

She is NOT. She’s 28 and single which means she obviously can’t lock a man down long enough to get married. She does not have any maternal qualities or feminine qualities. She’s a career focused, delusional, about a 4

[@shanelejoseph]

I thought he was stoned lmao

[@TheGlowjoe]

Talking painfully slow

[@tatskamaster]

@@pcbangbros8350 cope

[@AnotherAnonymousMan]

They did this girl dirty. 😕

[@marzenabaginska1612]

I feel sorry for the girl because he was not the guy for her. She deserves much better. She is taking her life seriously and that's a good thing she doesn't sleep around just with anybody

[@selvamani1973-p7b]

she went back to her ex.

[@growlerfrown487]

She deserves better, why?

[@jessejames96]

She deserves better? Perhaps so but she creates her own problems... going back to her ex is a mistake.

[@huntermark1160]

He was a pitiful drunk!! He mucked it up!!!

[@Taran532]

She’s 28 and fast approaching the wall. Probably needs to take whatever she can get, but not a drunkard.

[@sarahcellblockh1562]

He is wasted!!!

[@donnabuttery9316]

Oh yeah.💯....nerves n alcohol bad combination 😳

[@sarahcellblockh1562]

@@chaniseaustin9960 when I look in his eyes I see some sadness there, the eyes are like windows into the soul.

[@hafrunmariazsoldos7151]

Fentanil like symptoms 😂

[@Literallyarealhuman]

He’s a chicagoan

[@jasonburdette6921]

Exactly

[@Ou8y2k2]

This is freaking hilarious! Did my dude step out of a methadone clinic and onto this show? Either he drank too much or too little because he ascribes "hotness" as worth and gets nervous because of it. Dude, just get to know her.

[@doctorposting]

😂🤣🤣🤣

[@ms2am]

Methadone clinics must be totally different wherever you are. 😂

[@happydays5989]

Methadone doesnt make ppl drunk

[@sm3296]

If he’s like this now, can you imagine being married, bills are due, baby is sick and you’re tired. Don’t even start with someone like this. He shows up drunk on a first date? No class, no manners, no respect.

[@erichchan3]

He has 1 drink and he's plastered.

[@tatskamaster]

@@erichchan3 He most definitely downed the whole booze drawer at home already.

[@goofaccount]

This guy sucks. She’s so down to earth and they gave her a brainless frat boy. Justice for her 😢

[@Burningarrow7]

"Justice" for her..Radical much? Are you some feminist?

[@jessicamoceri3308]

They usually do better matches. Damn! But there are definitely slim pickings out there!

[@BlueRazor69]

Did he show up to his date hammered? Way to go buddy

[@andrewphillips470]

We’ve all done it

[@chrystianaw8256]

​@@andrewphillips470who is we?

[@yasminedey8612]

Exactly, I thought so too😮

[@ameliaodell9505]

Oh my goodness, what a sweet girl to have been totally let down. Hope she finds someone special!

[@selvamani1973-p7b]

yes, she's with her ex.

[@crocodilebelfast]

@@selvamani1973-p7b They are ex's for a reason which in time she will remember again.

[@selvamani1973-p7b]

@@crocodilebelfast you have a point, you shouldn't have an ex

[@Shaara1]

I'm afraid this is her future now. One bad date after the other. The quality of men don't get better only worse. After a few years of awful dates like this she will give up. Buy a cat and start crocheting classes.

[@MrCassett]

@@Shaara1 I really hope that's not it for her

[@cindyblair]

Wow, drove her back to the ex 😂

[@deadeyes4626]

I would 2!he seemed off it from the beginning🔑 🙃🔫

[@cindyblair]

@@deadeyes4626 drunk before he got there I’d say 😂

[@paige1225]

lmao!!

[@laurasalva7256]

She is so sweet and classy. Hope she finds what she deserves and doesn't settle.

[@Swagkia_Kuchiki]

Classy? Her chest was almost popping out lol. Scratchy voices, ex boyfriends etc. Red flags.

[@Cookieman524]

@@Swagkia_Kuchiki Im a red blooded dude and I didn't notice her chest. She came across respectful and dignified even despite dealing with the unexpected. She held her own. I think that what is meant by her being classy. Its not all about dress and physical appearance or even the past.

[@Cookieman524]

Yes, me too.

[@skinnymac2411]

That was awkward, he was wasted and just saw a pretty girl. Hopefully he won’t need to rely on the drink after this

[@erichchan3]

Yvonne is a looker and even offered to go Dutch. She definitely has a good personality. I hope she finds another guy that is not plastered before the date.

[@LMLification]

Yeah, because she already saw that he was a loser and wanted no false hope provided to him regarding a second date.

[@casachezdoom2588]

Do people _really_ feel like "a few months" without a partner is a _really_ long time? Don't get into a relationship just to not be alone.

[@katechipata9934]

This

[@jessicareid7613]

Hahah i know right? Jeez. I've been single for 8 years.

[@jessicareid7613]

Its a shame. He seems like a nice guy, but the alcohol realĺy did him dirty.

[@MeanMachine1992]

Yes. Even a few days without a _partner_ is too long. Implying that it isn't leads me to think that you've never had a real _partner_ in your life. Not a boyfriend, not a F-buddy, not someone you live and eat and have $3x with, but a real _partner_ who _gets_ the whole you. It's okay though, most people go through life without finding their partner. Once you do however, it's really, really, _really_ tough to lose them and go back to normal.

[@purplebutterfly314]

@@MeanMachine1992 That's a lot of words for "I have no self-esteem and constantly need someone else's validation". A few days away is torture? Sounds like an attachment disorder to me.

[@Elmerphant]

She was an ANGEL. So chill about everything. I hope she finds a good dude who shows her what love and trust is. Dylan man you genuinely need therapy. The anxiety and self-esteem issues driving you to over indulge are not healthy. You have a lot of work to do. Good luck (truly).

[@RSD22.]

Such an accurate & mature comment!

[@NecromancerTO]

That guy is in slow motion

[@oceanictherapylondon7953]

I really hope he watches this back and realises he is an alcoholic in the making, at 27 he sounds like an emotionally immature school kid. This date didn't help her self esteem, especially going back to an untrustworthy ex. How awful for her. Both could use some therapy IMO

[@dojiaa1377]

I feel sorry for her i have been through this before it’s awful The guy seem so drunk

[@AndyMcCann]

And he lied to her about how much he had to drink.

[@JamesCraigWhoop]

Dude was lit

[@Devinn777]

Suboptimal

[@Burningarrow7]

I know and it was hilarious

[@cbeautifulworld11]

They matched a beautiful, intelligent woman with an immature, vapid boy. Why would they do that? It seems so unfair. I wish they would have a redo and match her with an incredibly wonderful man.

[@tacthom]

Makes for good reality tv...these producers are ruthless.

[@johnawbrey4445]

he seems like he is perpetually high

[@NecromancerTO]

Feel sorry for the girl. She deserves better and she’s a Nina Dobrev lookalike

[@selvamani1973-p7b]

she should be in therapy

[@vikendarakjian2612]

What was he thinking being wasted like that on a date 😱😱

[@dougn2350]

Yvonne is really into fashion. That electric Tiffany box blue outfit and the orange dress with the designs. She carries it off well

[@marthastrayton]

That was so uncool! Drunk guys are the pits! He better sort himself out! Girl you dodged a bulled there, do not give it a second thought!!

[@Who-cu9eu]

Best way to save money is just wear Hugo boss and Calvin Klein stuff never runs out of fashion

[@Freelythoughtful]

Dude needs to get it together...and cut out the preloading !

[@tomcravero6395]

This geezer was so bad he made her go back to her ex 🤣actually dying but did find a good way of remembering her name

[@marzenabaginska1612]

The girl is so beautiful and kind person. They should bring her back on the show and watch her with somebody much better than this guy who knows how to behave and treat a lady.

[@selvamani1973-p7b]

she's with her ex now.

[@marzenabaginska1612]

@@selvamani1973-p7b I hope not because she's just would waste her time with him. He was her x for a reason because he was not good for her.

[@selvamani1973-p7b]

@@marzenabaginska1612 it says at the end lol

[@sococomfort22s34]

How do you that the ex isn’t good for her? You are just assuming the worst case scenario

[@animeman197]

Her skin isn't that good.

[@declancorcoran-eu1hs]

She did well to last out the date, respect!

[@rodrigomondingo6553]

Dylan seemed impaired the whole date!

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

The "Do you have any nicknames" is something George Costanza would do lol

[@abiola33]

This is really sad to watch. This man clearly has a problem in the making, and he needs help. And the young lady deserves so much more.

[@Melle_Tanya_]

“Dude this girl is a smoke show” 😂😂😂😂😂

[@zacatkinson3926]

shes not

[@OroFlows]

Plot Twist: Dylan and her X are best friends. That was him on the phone. The goal was to put her on a date so horrible she would come running back. Mission accomplished.

[@sergiomacias5145]

Lol she clearly dumped her ex thinking she could do better. She stated they had a deep connection and chemistry yet she dumped him? Probably to liver her “best” life being ran through

[@jarrodhall3686]

@@sergiomacias5145Tell us the rest of your life story

[@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij]

@sergiomacias5145 You definitely watch Red pill and believe everything they say! From her account it sounded like she couldn’t trust her old Boyfriend who lied to her. Stop being toxic

[@cedricliggins7528]

She has a warm caring personality and kind heartedness. Such pretty dark eyes

[@embisonjones4996]

If any man ever questions the patience of a woman, just watch this traumatic event. The most puzzling part is how she managed to get to the end without escaping via the fire exit.

[@amberflores1615]

I completely understand where she’s coming from, thinking you’re over a past relationship just to wish that you had it once again after connections aren’t working

[@clivesimpkins1]

He certainly has a novel way of 'impressing' people. 🙄

[@anne666]

5 months being single isn't long I've been single for 7 years ones..

[@dawnjones82]

I felt so bad for the last girl, she deserved to have a nice time. Wanted to hug her when she cried.

[@jaehwan123]

How do you get drunk and forget your credit card on a first date?

[@believeinyourself7511]

It looks like he started drinking early in the morning and is burned out already.

[@davidgane5786]

They absolutely should go on another date , I would pay to see that happen I haven’t laughed so much in a long time , she wanted a guy that doesn’t take himself seriously she got what she asked for .

[@casachezdoom2588]

Feels to me like she wasn't done with her previous relationship (she went back to him after this, proof enough). He went there pissed drunk. That's a pretty big red flag. Alcoholism is no joke.

[@jokidasxm5288]

That's why it didnt work out with her previous bf since she didn't want him to take himself seriously with her😁

[@jokidasxm5288]

​@@casachezdoom2588 Exactly! He seemed very off.

[@amandamason9978]

He was high!

[@zama1629]

@@amandamason9978 Sky high.🤭

[@wge621]

jeez. usually watch the UK version. why are american versions of shows so cringe?

[@slipperydick]

I think they are culturally just so different 🤷‍♀️ even all the competition shows feel more wholesome from other countries, rather than the ones from the States, I never watch them.

[@ryancaldwell9463]

He did leave his card at the bar. The bar where he had the few beers beforehand to loosen up. 😂 😂

[@jermainep5314]

He drank a little too much before the date! I get it, to help with his nerves! Unfortunately, he over did it! They're young, there is plenty of time and plenty of people!

[@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij]

Perfectly said!

[@Melle_Tanya_]

Dylan is living his authentic life

[@carlydubbya7620]

I have a feeling Yvonne's dance card got a lot more names on it after this aired. What a sweetheart.

[@hoops8534]

What on earth?? Is the this guy for real? 😂. Poor girl.

[@darryljones8369]

Alcohol ruins lives ... And dates.

[@MCcreedLP]

I hope he will work on himself and I hope both will find their right partners.

[@donaldduck7461]

This is Charlie from Always Sunny in Philadelphia! This bloke is a legend! 😅

[@Melle_Tanya_]

“We gonna stand in a circle” 😂😂😂

[@TopNotch770]

Poor girl. Hope she doesn't lose hope or start lowering her standards.

[@sergiomacias5145]

Poor girl ? She dumped her ex that she had a deep connection with. She got greedy thinking she could do better and wanted to play the field. She got karma and she begged her ex to take her back 😂

[@jasonburdette6921]

More than 1 glass of wine. He got buzzed big time

[@ClydesBonnie007]

That's sad! He shouldn't have been allowed to participate if he was drunk.

[@sylacauga]

She seems like an awesome girl and deserved so much better. And then she had to pay for this trainwreck date! The show should've paid her for having to put up with this dude.

[@marzenabaginska1612]

The girl is beautiful, smart, funny and like to have fun by traveling to wonderful countries. You can see she got a big heart for animals and loves family life. There is nothing wrong with that it's actually very attractive because it shows you have values and good morals. I think they misunderstood her when she said " I don't take my life seriously" and set her up with a player who doesn't know how to teat a lady. Please bring her back and set her up on the date with someone who knows how to treat a lady and who got good values , someone who wants a wife material not so crazy easy one night stand.

[@selvamani1973-p7b]

he's a player? he got drunk because he was nervous haha

[@TomNook.]

stop simping for her. She went back to her ex so obviously she doesn't have that good values

[@marzenabaginska1612]

@@TomNook. How do you know? Do you know her and her x that well I doubt it. You just making crap up just to put her down.

[@marzenabaginska1612]

@@selvamani1973-p7b He should know better not to get drunk on his first date and to bring his wallet with him. Looks like he was looking for one night stand not to meet someone special. He have to get his act together otherwise he will always screw things up

[@selvamani1973-p7b]

@@marzenabaginska1612 nerves

[@robhigdon1415]

He thought that her name was Mulva.

[@ceetteet]

👏🏼

[@AnthonyMonaghan]

Dylan was hammered before he even got there..."I drink alone, indeed I do"

[@remfan170]

Hey, it's the guy from my high school/college. I grew up in Chicago, there are soooo many of these dudes. Like Bill Burr said, "We've got that guy already, stop making that guy!" Seeing her cry was tough, I know that feeling she's talking about. The right guy is going to go slow and work with her trauma and trust issues. She may feel broken at times, but she's not.

[@user-pf4zb6bv9e]

Drunk stifler from american pie

[@aglayapiano]

Why would they set up her with this guy?!

[@Ou8y2k2]

Because alcoholic Chad is what she asked for.

[@RadioWhoPoo]

Maybe he wasn't drunk in the beginning of the interviews!

[@mickanvonfootscraymarket5520]

for entertainment

[@Literallyarealhuman]

He’s chronicly lazy. He’s looking at her for the wrong reasons and calling her so hot but acting like he couldn’t care less around her. Fail

[@gaildavis8004]

I disagree. I think he’s incredibly insecure and that’s likely why he drinks….

[@naobe5]

I would like to see what he's like when he's not drunk!

[@step9624]

Probably struggles to string a sentence together hence why he has to get drunk

[@tlade7]

He’s a drunk

[@TomNook.]

First woman I've ever seen fully pay for the date!

[@sergiomacias5145]

All it took was too get drunk to get a free meal. Nicely played 😂

[@fabianblijd4818]

i feel your pain yvonne dont give up keep going dating is not easy and lost of times difficult you will find a guy who wants a real good relationship with a lovely wonderful girl like you u are worthy of real love everbody is good woman deserves a good man.

[@amiblack8294]

She deserves a lot better than what she got here. She was also a lot nicer to this crass individual than I would have been. This man needs serious help.

[@simonohalloran7180]

Ex boyfriend hired him to go on a date with her 😂😂

[@junior.santana]

The nickname question was such a good trick but he he goes: uh what IvonAA. And then "My name is DYLAN" 😂

[@whatamachine89]

Dude is slurring like he's already had a few. Who is the matchmaker for this show!!??

[@ASAljamel]

They should repay her damages

[@selvamani1973-p7b]

what damages, stop being a snowflake

[@ASAljamel]

@@selvamani1973-p7b this os not what the program pledges to offer! And btw I dont knw y ur comment made me laugh... And no I'm not a snowflake

[@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij]

Sorry for rant but women work too!

[@ASAljamel]

Different cultures....

[@jasonbrittain7110]

tip #1 don't show up to a date already drunk

[@erichchan3]

bro had 1 drink. Dude is a light weight.

[@dougn2350]

I have a couple of male friends who hit puberty late, like 17 years old. It affected their confidence throughout their life but when it did hit they became very masculine, hairy men. Like this guy.

[@zacatkinson3926]

How is it possible to start developing at 17?

[@liliwms508]

This is really sad; he needs help. This show absolutely wasted her time; they need to vett their participants better. She’s a beautiful young lady.

[@smitha5022]

i met a guy on bumble who was exactly like this loser. He couldnt make a full coherent sentence. I got up and said "I gotta go" He slurred "Where are you going?" I was like "You are my worst nightmare!" and I just left.

[@CozmicFirefly]

I believe everything happens for reason, and it is apparent that Yvonne had to get out there and find out what she didn't want so she could clearly see what she does. I hope her and her boyfriend's relationship is stronger for it.

[@tiagoagm]

The guy was so nervous that he drink too much before.

[@linthoi6456]

Is he high or something?? Why he sleep talking ??

[@a697ag]

He's drunk. He pregamed.

[@dougn2350]

He gave up jogging because he kept spilling his martini

[@Real-comment-unreal-name]

😂

[@HansBohr]

I feel bad for the guy (not much! I want to be clear here) She seems over his league, he lack confidence and look wasted from beginning to end… Should work on himself (find positive things to do and share), speak about those things and not get wasted too much. I don’t have any doubt on the girl future success. It will be, comparatively to the guy, very easy to find someone.

[@jessyjonas4988]

“Don’t know if I’ll like where I’ve never been “ Mental gymnastics man😢

[@noonoo4774]

Poor guy needs to work on self confidence and not relying on alcohol to get through. They can be hard lessons to learn, but very important

[@noodlesderose]

This poor man he needs someone to be honest with him and tell him " You are a really great guy but you're wasted and you seem like you're better than this. Talk to those bro's and get help man. You deserve it.

[@super44nova]

First Dates you clearly didn't find a good match for her ON PURPOSE, and what is this fixation on portraying some girls as "good girls" and whatnot? It's quite different to First dates UK.

[@Gerhard2770]

Unfortunately, this stunning girl will never give guys like me a chance.

[@RuPaulCharley]

When someone has a mouth full of food and takes a drink; it grosses me out 😅

[@SamStone1964]

Yes talking with your mouth full and taking a drink with your mouth full is repulsive. Other than that she was smart, patient and gorgeous lol.

[@celticbro1]

She was really sweet and kind. He obviously has issues with alcohol and hopefully he'll watch this and wake up and get help.

[@leilaan9344]

Guy needs help like yesterday "I don't know if I've ever liked what Ive been" goodness

[@Literallyarealhuman]

Literally THIS IS DATING IN CHICAGO.

[@AdamFrancisco]

He is damn near blacked out

[@Zombie101]

Guy has no game. You can't just keep telling a girl she is "hot"... They have heard it a million times. Actually get to know the girl... She is just a person too. But she is equally damaged, going back to her ex.... Sigh

[@michellecaldera1955]

he is missing some neurons ahahahah

[@donnyreiss1180]

being drunk might calm ur nerves but it is a fine line as to acting a fool

[@pookiroo]

Not a good sign when you forget your credit card!

[@wge621]

this guy is the real life charlie kelly

[@stlaw08]

So nervous, he looked on something, a bit spaced out, not fully there, maybe afraid. He had too much wine before & screwed it up completely. Poor girl.