How to Handle Broken Promises: An unfortunate inevitability

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Because I said I would

Because I said I would

Күн бұрын

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@laurenspivack1903
@laurenspivack1903 5 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to all those I have broken promises too. It breaks the trust between others as well.
@RedouaneKhrifi
@RedouaneKhrifi 3 жыл бұрын
go tell them this, not us
@marianamartinezchismetoker1003
@marianamartinezchismetoker1003 4 жыл бұрын
Disappointed and angry an sad because this person is giving you know real validation and respect.
@MyaDAvila
@MyaDAvila 6 жыл бұрын
Hello, you came to my school one day and your speech touched me, I wanted to get a picture but to be honest just to be able to hear your speech was a blessing enough, you are such a wonderful person in this world and I thank you for taking the time out of your life to go to my school, I still wear the bracelet "because I said I would " , I made so many promise cards and I have kept them all , I thank you so much for being who you are and thank you , I am very sorry for repeating my self but I am just so thankful for being able to see you and hear your word's! Your an awesome person and may god bless your life !!
@tsunami8248
@tsunami8248 2 жыл бұрын
I just don't understand what drives people to repeat a broken promise,like for years and why we are so naive to wait and hope for it to come true like we don't know any better
@watchspotting
@watchspotting 4 жыл бұрын
My mom CONSTANTLY breaks her promise and she wonders whyI can't trust her.
@RPXFC
@RPXFC 2 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@SR77736
@SR77736 4 жыл бұрын
I don't make promises I can't keep because I value honesty. Try dating someone who promised to bring you around family and settle down with you on several occasions then breaks up with you over and over. Despite you opening up and expressing your love, they still push you away and blame you for it. But they dont apologize or own up to it. No. I don't do this because I'd never put someone through this. And yea I can say this with confidence because I am not this type of person. Whether it not it happens doesnt give people a free pass and we dont have to tolerate it. Not saying that's what is being said here in this video. I even asked them to explain and I got a weird story and the person changed the subject. This flustered me even more. There was a lack of care in explaining. It was then I expected accountability. Ownership of dishonesty is wise as you mentioned. Hard to get over it if the person has done nothing to fix it. Then later turned arguments on me demanding I explain when I didn't do an action close to what he did. I resent that. Sucks. They should watch this video because the steps are reasonable and can be effective.
@LonjeMarie7
@LonjeMarie7 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for putting the video together it is so well constructed your voice is amazing great content and the editing is phenomenal
@evamarek5205
@evamarek5205 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@nina-ni1pf
@nina-ni1pf 5 жыл бұрын
It hurts real bad when someone broke promise....my dad promised that when you turn 13,I will get you puppy...the day came and he never got me a puppy😢😢😢😢😢😢
@tiffy537
@tiffy537 4 жыл бұрын
My mom made me a promis im not going to say what it is but she broke it for the first time..I crime and screame
@SleepDeprivedDuckling
@SleepDeprivedDuckling 3 жыл бұрын
When I was six I saw a chocolate cake at the store and my dad said he would get me that chocolate cake He never got me that chocolate cake 😞
@CLOUDGUYY
@CLOUDGUYY 2 жыл бұрын
A girl I loved with all my heart promised me so much now she didn't do any of that and am gonna give her the promises I made to her and disappear to live my life
@heart755
@heart755 Жыл бұрын
Same
@coriwhite9304
@coriwhite9304 5 жыл бұрын
My mom always breaks promises and now I have to say every time she says she’ll do something I have to say don’t get your hopes up no kid should have to say that
@brandysweet1235
@brandysweet1235 4 жыл бұрын
im going though this with my dad but he continues to do so and he promises things i dont even ask for i get my hopes up never see it tho he promises he gonna take me to a place and never does it yesterday i asked him to take me to walmart and i made him promise he'll take me woke up and hes gone didnt even take me with him and hes only running errands and he wont come back til nighttime and by that time walmarts closed for pandemics its like he doesnt understand hes breaking my trust in him i only got like 20 percent trust in him to follow through with something, thats why i am now learning no matter what he says dont get your hopes up
@coriwhite9304
@coriwhite9304 4 жыл бұрын
brandy sweet123 EXACTLY
@arthurswanson1755
@arthurswanson1755 2 жыл бұрын
My parents made me study hard for a ps5 I've been wanting for 2 years. The day came my exam result came out and I did beyond their request but when I asked they said they couldn't get me a PS5. I'm fine with it but it's the promise that makes me furious
@deprived1814
@deprived1814 3 жыл бұрын
In Canada we rarely have nice days where I live and today was one of them. A friend of mine said that he will go to the park with his brother but decided to ditch us even though he made a promise and left us sitting at home while he was playing baseball. Unfriended him for that
@thenutella1895
@thenutella1895 4 жыл бұрын
I know this is a while but I have a question. What can you do if the person forgot/pretends as if the promise never happened. I'm unsure how to deal with difficult and unreasonable behavior.
@samanthamakhafola3014
@samanthamakhafola3014 Жыл бұрын
Cut them off
@zion367
@zion367 9 ай бұрын
Then then they are gaslighting you and you just stand your ground in the truth and ket them go.
@lisaariottiart
@lisaariottiart 2 жыл бұрын
I recently met someone who future faked the heck out of relationship. It was so weird. He constantly said we should meet on particular days then always ghosted. Its not like he ever made a direct promise to show up on these days but to me each time he suggested that we do so then ghosted in my mind he broke soul contracts .
@Blue84Stang
@Blue84Stang 6 жыл бұрын
How do you deal with a promise that was not broken by the promise maker, but by the person to whom the promise was made?
@MrPBody-ug8pl
@MrPBody-ug8pl 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks this helped me because in roblox, bloxburg my friend deleted the house I built her and someone else was building her house for her...............................................................................
@michikaili5878
@michikaili5878 5 жыл бұрын
My fiance promise of 2yrs was never came true,and stiil yet never till this day..
@angeliquemaulit
@angeliquemaulit 3 жыл бұрын
My ex boyfriend name alex i told him to go to a 90's theme disco and he promise we will go but, he change his mind.. He always did that everytime i asked him to go outside and have what somthing to do like to go to a park or watching movies
@SpudGirl
@SpudGirl 5 жыл бұрын
But why is Scott in a MRI machine ?
@TahitianBlissMeeBee
@TahitianBlissMeeBee 4 жыл бұрын
LMAOOO
@iceddrea7517
@iceddrea7517 4 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@robotman3611
@robotman3611 6 жыл бұрын
My mom said she would give me 400 robux (idk if you know what roblox is) if i finished my homework and it took me almost a day to finish it and my mom didnt give it to me and made a exuse and i did all the work for nothing !
@lennygosheesh
@lennygosheesh 3 жыл бұрын
bruh lol doing homework for 4 dollars worth of robux how old are u to have believed her and its nothing i got straight A pluses for 4 years straight and got nothing i was promised :(
@CLOUDGUYY
@CLOUDGUYY 2 жыл бұрын
Everyone knows what is roblox is 😭
@TahitianBlissMeeBee
@TahitianBlissMeeBee 4 жыл бұрын
Annoying buzzing background music needs to go away
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