How to Have Better Relationships | Sandals Church

[@milkteaful]

Speaking right into me at the perfect time wow.

[@BekaEllen]

I just had the penny drop; 4 is seen as negative. I never stop being negative; you don't think it's true because you compare yourselves to others and come across as optimistic but optimism is related to your expectations for the future and that can only be such a dramatic contrast from the present if you're so unsatisfied with what you've already got. In the first few months of marriage some friends tried to be real with me and told me I was complaining too much about my husband- picking him apart; I knew they were right about what was coming out of my mouth but I also thought they were idiots because there wasn't anything positive to comment on. I couldn't see anything else. I was just starting to learn that I'm so so good at picking out the things that can be improved that it is actually a blindspot to see the things that are right. They ask you to say positive things about each other like you can actually do it; that's not helpful- if I'm going to get better at it I need to watch someone else that I look up to and want to be influenced by and hear how they practice being positive. I have a lifetime of practicing it ahead of me should I want to grow but ironically it seems daunting and fake.

[@catrinacute8359]

Please make for enneagram with wings

[@RandolphTheWhite1]

Papa?

[@aureliac1629]

Is there a placement test or do I self diagnose myself?

[@AlexSanchez-123]

You self diagnose it

[@conkerdaquik]

Jeffs career isnt over tho

[@yeah1774]

why don’t my parents love me