Thank you for posting this video. My oldest son is a violent alcoholic. It’s tearing my family apart. I’m riddled with guilt but I remind myself my son is 30 years old and has to want the help he needs. As a parent I keep looking back wondering what I did to make him this way and trying to fix him. But now I have to let go and trust God. I can’t fix him, and it hurts so bad. Because I can see my son’s pain and I want to fix it. I’m just letting go and letting God intervene it’s all I can do at this point is to trust God. I pray for my child and pray he gets the help he needs.
@brickhouserecoverytv666810 күн бұрын
We are so sorry for what you and your family are going through. You are all in our prayers. Thank you for posting this, I know its not easy to talk about your struggles, please make sure you are protecting yourself too.
@bobbiechavez74162 жыл бұрын
I'm letting my son feel his pain, it pains me also. I feel he's also suicidal so my fears are terror. I'm physically sick with worry and sadness, never thought this would be my life.
@brickhouserecoverytv6668 Жыл бұрын
Bobbie, I am so so sorry for the pain you must be experiencing. I would like to offer a little solution that will help you feel better. Here is my life's work in the book, Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover. unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/
@donnakaye2015 Жыл бұрын
Bobbie, I am there right now. I am scared he will hurt himself but also so mad at his choices. All I do is check on him everyday and cry. I feel your pain.
@bobbiechavez7416 Жыл бұрын
@Donna Kaye I'm also sorry you're experiencing this pain. You repeat and repeat to nothing but false promises. I literally sound like a broken record. He knows what he needs to do he knows he's ill, I can only pray he strong enough to overcome this existing not living. I now say you know what I feel. you know what you need to do. I'll be here for you every step of the way. I hope before tragedy strikes he will get help. There is no way getting them committed, nor is there any support or help unless they make the choice. My God keep them safe here with us. Good luck to you
@donnakaye2015 Жыл бұрын
@@bobbiechavez7416 Thank you. I am not giving up hope.
@jasonbachelor6045 ай бұрын
If you want to keep him alive, tell him to come over on drugs or not. Do not buy into the enabling BULLSHIT
@ABendintheRoad Жыл бұрын
I so appreciate this video. even though this was posted 5 years ago, it speaks exactly to the NOW of what I'm going through with my Son.
@glendaclarke79915 ай бұрын
And my daughter . I need accountability to stay in my lane with her .
@brickhouserecoverytv6668Ай бұрын
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@brickhouserecoverytv6668Ай бұрын
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@sandylee19342 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video. As a parent, especially a mom, it’s very hard To set boundaries but the more it is emphasized to me the more I believe it. I keep telling myself let go and let God.
@brickhouserecoverytv66682 жыл бұрын
You sound like you’re working and progressing. Would you like another resource? Check out unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/
@piirakkaseta61995 ай бұрын
im 22 year old man and had a problem whit alcohol since 18, started drinking on the weekend when i was 17. relapsed for a week long bender after a month of sobriety. feeling sick and tired of this. i have commit this time to sobriety.
@CarmenReyes-f1s Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your video I don’t know how to help my son his a alcoholic he’s 23 years old. It’s so painful journey and he lives with us.
@dianalewandowski74215 ай бұрын
As difficult as it is, I'm an addict myself and the best thing that happened to me was all the doors closing. I also learned this in al anon. It's detachment. It is not easy. But doable ❤
@brickhouserecoverytv6668Ай бұрын
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@sheilajernigan15275 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I needed to hear all that. It's so hard as a Mom to just let him go.
@brickhouserecoverytv66685 жыл бұрын
Sheila Hartley I am so glad that it is helpful. More to come :-) also check out my new book 👍 and course. brickhouserecovery.com/unhooked/
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@sondraharris535 жыл бұрын
Same here, Sheila! Hugs!
@brickhouserecoverytv66683 жыл бұрын
Praying for you sister 🙏🏼
@HakaFakarin2 жыл бұрын
Me too but i want to tray let him go tomorrow 😭😭
@experimentalmodel7172 Жыл бұрын
My brother was a moderate drinker until he started a relation with his gf. He started consuming excessive alcohol and food, resulted in rapid weight gain. Not only health issues, moral issues showing up such as making parents pay for what he purchased online. My parents still respect him as an independent adult and letting him go, but always worry about him because his life style & health condition remind them of my grandfather who became bedridden in his early 40s.
@brickhouserecoverytv6668 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for contributing.
@angelagardner64154 жыл бұрын
Thank you I was nearly going to cave and let my son come back but this has helped knowing that feeling the pain and being desperate is where change can happen.
@brickhouserecoverytv66684 жыл бұрын
Angela Gardner absolutely! May I also suggest checking out my book that will take you to the top of the learning curve. Here is the link.
@brickhouserecoverytv66684 жыл бұрын
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@chrisdolle16874 жыл бұрын
I thought I was over it the fear or anxiety I feel knowing my son (41 yrs old) is out there without family he’s on his own he’s failed so many times all because he can’t say no to drinking so I visited your video here and I know I’ll have to hear more on how to help my alcoholic son but I too need help when I keep busy I don’t worry so much but times like now when I sit still my mind and emotions go crazy !
@brickhouserecoverytv66684 жыл бұрын
Thank you for commenting! Have you checked out my new book for family members? It will absolutely help. All proceeds go to treatment scholarships. unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/
@autumnmeadows40793 жыл бұрын
I too feel anxiety over my son. He is in a rehab at this time and should be discharged soon. This time he cannot come back to the house. I am working so am keeping busy. He comes into my thoughts and it is painful. I think about how he was before he became this. He was supposed to be better than this. I still do not know what brought this on. I do know that I am his mother and I tried to help, but I could not. damn alcohol, social media, cell phone apps to buy liquor.
@jacquelineking32862 жыл бұрын
Hes a jerk! Go get a life and forget him.He chose to fuck shit up and put you through hell Do nothing for him Let him go He needs to have no mommy The hell w that bastard
@teresahuston66505 жыл бұрын
So glad I listened to your video. My son is drinking again. I can't take it anymore. I needed advice. Thank you.
@brickhouserecoverytv66685 жыл бұрын
So sorry for the delay. Check out my book here. It will help I promise. www.unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/
@msreannmarie2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story! Seeing pic of you and your mom, hit me! What a strong woman who faces her fears! As a mom, all you want to is rescue and help snd knowing she got through this and seeing your success, gives me hope!
@brickhouserecoverytv66682 жыл бұрын
I thank you for your comment. It’s a journey and there are resources to help. Check out my playlist coaching calls. Also, here is the link to the book. It will help. unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/
@melissadavis2974 Жыл бұрын
I have an alcoholic adult son. Can you please help me? This is affecting my entire life. 😢
@bfrk5 ай бұрын
So do I. I don't know what to do. I'm a very weak mom. A single mom.
@Swanslin2024Ай бұрын
@@bfrkI do to I'm lost to
@Swanslin2024Ай бұрын
I do to
@GaryRayMathis Жыл бұрын
Hi, my son is an alcoholic that works in construction and lives in a sober living facility. He's been doing this for over 5 years. I've let him live this hard life excepting him to turn things around when he became so uncomfortable with his situation but it's never come and he's just getting worse. He was in the hospital for acute alcohol poisoning last month. I've set boundaries let him feel the pain of his decisions. I don't see my actions as helping him recover. I'm lost
@brickhouserecoverytv6668 Жыл бұрын
In my opinion, it sounds like you are doing more good than you may realize to help him. Have you checked out my book unhooked: how to help an addict and loved one recover?
@karenkim1891 Жыл бұрын
Thank you I am that mother, who tries to help my son by control my sons life Now I have learned I was on the wrong path to help him Thank you
@brickhouserecoverytv6668Ай бұрын
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@brickhouserecoverytv6668Ай бұрын
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@CCreedUT Жыл бұрын
Our alcoholic son lives with us. He is almost 40. My husband is enabling him and this has been a battle between us for years and is much worse now. We are also in Utah. One of the hardest things is that he has 50/50 custody of his 2 year old daughter:-( I am hoping to get my husband to watch this.
@dawnbodger59794 ай бұрын
Ly heard of a young man set totally free. H😊e was on his way to suicide when his dad hugged him. He cried out in repentance and was set free
@brickhouserecoverytv6668Ай бұрын
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@brickhouserecoverytv6668Ай бұрын
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@angieroyall15164 жыл бұрын
Finally a clear concise explanation of what to do with your adult extreme alcoholic son thank you. new subscriber. need to learn more.
@brickhouserecoverytv66684 жыл бұрын
Thanks Angie! Sorry for delay. Have you checked out my book yet? unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/
@ArjunPandit7866 жыл бұрын
I am so lost, your video help me, i am going through this same thing. But i can leave my son alone. he is too precious for me.
@brickhouserecoverytv66685 жыл бұрын
Arjun Pandit 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
@maryreal38254 жыл бұрын
Arjun I am a parent going through my son’s addiction what is your situation if u could please share with me please
@ArjunPandit7864 жыл бұрын
@@maryreal3825 He was going through the sessions with therapist, He understood that only he himself can help. He is taking therapy, now by grace of god he is doing quite well, lots of supports from family and AA group and his sponser.
@kathleenmorris9309 Жыл бұрын
Iam going thru this.. Tonight was bad.. Alcohol.. Drugs.. Sex.. The most loving person when off alcohol.. I have been told AA is the key.. Prayer to Jesus..
@autumnmeadows40793 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness, this must be the second time watching this. Natural consequences which he needs to feel the pain.
Thank you for your book Unhooked and your videos. They have made such a difference for me deaing with my son.
@dawnbodger59794 ай бұрын
I'm so angry about this subject. So proud of your parents (even though I don't even know them)Thank U for sharing.
@brickhouserecoverytv6668Ай бұрын
Thank you! Check out more advice here: Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover a.co/d/1uFhT1D
@AJungianatheart3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your effort to teach mom how to best bring the right responses. I’ve been saddened and of course the guilt is all consuming, ugh 🙏
@brickhouserecoverytv66683 жыл бұрын
Thank you. These videos will also help a great deal. kzbin.info/aero/PLJa580py_zCTb62e9XcBNTmNVWc4dLbZR
@pl60355 жыл бұрын
needed this...walking thru it now
@brickhouserecoverytv66685 жыл бұрын
P L I’m so sorry for delay. I hope these vids are helpful.
@mahvashpibworth27515 жыл бұрын
It was very brave and hard for your parents, and thank god for you and them, this strategy worked. Do you think some people will just not be helped, whether due to personal choice or incapacity to help themselves. Our son has lost his business, his home and his children. We are helping him with a place to live, and although he has started to work again, it’s two steps forward and a few more backwards....we are at a complete loss....it is the fear and the guilt to let him go completely, which stops us.
@brickhouserecoverytv66685 жыл бұрын
Mahvash Pibworth I have more insights on this struggle you’re in. Take a look at my new book and let me know if this answers all your questions and gives you the path to freedom and influence. unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/
@chrispyne28492 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I needed. Thank you!
@brickhouserecoverytv66682 жыл бұрын
You are most welcome! Have you check out the videos on the playlist “coaching calls” on my channel?
@chrispyne28492 жыл бұрын
@@brickhouserecoverytv6668 no but I will . Thanks. I live in Utah as well.
@sondraharris535 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I needed this tonight.
@brickhouserecoverytv66685 жыл бұрын
Sondra Harris you are so welcome. 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
@websterlee77086 ай бұрын
This showed this morning after my wife and I had another talk on where we were to go with this very issue. Wonderful segment thank you so much. We will go through more segments.
@brickhouserecoverytv66685 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Websterlee7708
@charmainemartins3 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much im a mother and my son is alcholic and its a painfull journey keep up the good work
@brickhouserecoverytv66683 жыл бұрын
This book will really really help you. Trust me. unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/
@Time.for.tea. Жыл бұрын
I loved the information you shared! (The background music made it challenging for me to pay attention but that’s an issue I have most of the time so it’s my problem, not yours)
@brickhouserecoverytv6668Ай бұрын
I agree. The music is horrible. Thank you! Check out more advice here: Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover a.co/d/1uFhT1D
@jasonbachelor6045 ай бұрын
Tell him to buy from a reliable person, that you'll always be there on drugs or not. Remind him that addiction is a complete fabrication and he can stop whenever he wants
@jonasbrundage7 жыл бұрын
Love your videos Jason! Thanks for sharing!
@brickhouserecoverytv66687 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jonas.
@lourdesmquinn3847 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!! You put this wonderful
@naomipillay1042 Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed listening to the good advice. My can't control drink and smoking weed. And doesn't want to work. I need him out my house so badly .so depressing
@peggyobrien39432 жыл бұрын
This was helpful! So fearful to think of the discomfort he will encounter in this relapse!
@brickhouserecoverytv66682 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment. If you want more meat, check out the Coaching Calls playlist on my channel. Also check out my book Unhooked on Amazon or Audible 🙏🏼
@AnnetteRoss-q8o4 ай бұрын
I really needed to hear this!
@brickhouserecoverytv6668Ай бұрын
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@glendaclarke79915 ай бұрын
So glad to find this ! I am struggling.
@xiqikxx89678 ай бұрын
My older brother has cirrhosis…he has been to rehab 5 times all paid by our father but it’s never worked he’d go back to drinking. Just 3 weeks ago, his wife finally kicked him out of their place after he refused to help her pay the mortgage and spend his money buying alcohol. He had my cousin drive him 433miles to my parent’s house because no one wanted him at their place….now he is at home with no job but he somehow buying alcohol and getting drunk everyday at the house, my father doesn’t know what to do with him. He refuses to believe he has cirrhosis and keeps trying to schedule appointments with different doctors just to be told the same thing. My brother says it’s from my father abandoning him after he got married to my mother, dad didn’t abandoned him, his mom took him away from dad and wouldn’t let him see my brother. My mother left my older brother in a different country just to come to America and yet my brother never felt abandoned and he doesn’t even drink and him and my mom are very close. We told my brother that we will send him to rehab if he wants to be helped but if it fails again then we will have no choice but to kick him out into the streets..both my parents are old and retired and they can’t be taking care of care of him forever he is 45years old and no one in the entire family wants him…..if my boyfriend agrees, we could let him stay with us but he’d need to get a job and have his paycheck given to us so he won’t use any of that money to buy alcohol…we’d send the check to his wife to help with their kids
@brickhouserecoverytv66688 ай бұрын
First, I want to thank you for taking the time to share your story and be vulnerable. Its hard, especially when you are close to someone struggling. There are so many things that you guys can do to help yourselves in this time of need. Maybe see if you want to attend a Alanon meeting, or even check out the book Jason wrote, its called "Unhooked." I have attatched a link below. www.amazon.com/Unhooked-Help-Addicted-Love-Recover/dp/1941555403/ref=asc_df_1941555403/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=344057892690&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=11703934487787118996&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1016202&hvtargid=pla-762031622092&psc=1&mcid=df4bdc8b790f39b5a3c1c35d178577d9&tag=&ref=&adgrpid=69543896552&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvadid=344057892690&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=11703934487787118996&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1016202&hvtargid=pla-762031622092&gclid=CjwKCAiArfauBhApEiwAeoB7qLQWcwH9eNf93DfnAsH4PYJKrx1AHO2WTzIuRzvFJEta2-wHMIOZbhoC3twQAvD_BwE
@gordoncroft20956 жыл бұрын
Benefited from your video. Just one comment I struggled ignoring the music played. But please continue with more help
@brickhouserecoverytv66686 жыл бұрын
Gordon Croft I totally agree. We are coming up with some new videos to fix the issue.
@tbowen21693 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I just began this process it is not easy.
@alvarojoseortiz4 жыл бұрын
Jason... Thank you so much... God bless you!
@autumnmeadows40795 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, he lives with us. DUI, court, attorney, lie after lie, threats, this is so awful. He is not ready to leave, not enough money, extremely bad attitude.
@sondraharris535 жыл бұрын
Autumn Meadows I hope you’re doing well, Autumn Meadows!
@brickhouserecoverytv66685 жыл бұрын
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@tanyastinson16774 жыл бұрын
I live the same way my son is 26 and such a bad alcoholic.He shakes like he has Parkinson's without it with bad seizures and he is killing me and my husband.
@emilybuffey56173 жыл бұрын
My brother is 28 on the same page as your sons. I really want to help my parent get through this. I ordered the book (waiting to receive it) Have you found more resources that have helped? Do you kick him out of the house if he refuses to get help?
@autumnmeadows40793 жыл бұрын
@@emilybuffey5617 We did a thing called the Marchman act here in miami dade county. It is supposed to give the addict a chance to recover by outpatient and if that does not work, inpatient. Well this is his second time and I just don't know. I do know that I miss who he was. Presently, we are practicing self preservation. The damage caused to his family has been monumental. I despise alcohol.
@autumnmeadows40793 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@lubaunderwood9682 жыл бұрын
Such a helpful information I am starting to put it into practice
@brickhouserecoverytv66682 жыл бұрын
Your comment means the world. Have you checked out my book Unhooked?
@rahelbella1883 Жыл бұрын
incredibly helpful thanks
@brickhouserecoverytv6668 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@Melvindeleon103 ай бұрын
My brother is 29 years old who doesn’t want to work, wants to stay in bed all day. His routine so far is sleep late drink wakes up late eats and go goes back to bed sleeps. He has access to wifi, food. Everything. He Currently lives with my parents. My mother always talks to him with love and explains how it’s affecting his health. He says he’s fine that he just needs to find a job. This has been happening for a year and half now. Everytime he finds money he goes and buys alcohol. Even when he doesn’t have money he finds a way to get more. At this point we don’t know what to do with him it’s frustrating. If it wasn’t because of my caring parents he would be homeless by now. At this point what else can we even do?
@brickhouserecoverytv66683 ай бұрын
Hey Melvindeleon10, that sounds like a lot to be dealing with. We are sorry to hear your family is going through this. you can call our admissions team at 208-650-7359. Of course, he has to be at a place where he is willing to make the change. We have many other videos you can check out that might be helpful to you and your family.
@JayBChannel-q3x2 жыл бұрын
My family needs help. My mother needs help . My younger brother is 49 years old and has been alcoholic for decades . My mother has always been permissive of anything he does including letting him get drunk to the point where he’s falling all over the place . He gets drunk at 9am in my mother’s house when I talk to her about this incorrigible behavior , all she does is yell At me and tells me “to leave her alone “ or “ I don’t want to talk about it” . I instantly become the bad guy every time . She yells at me for saying I don’t want my children to be around this behavior . Im not sure who’s worse my brother or my mother who lives in perpetual denial . Should I just leave them alone and let them live in dysfunctional bliss?
@elvaherrera7970 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. This video was very helpful.
@mia-jx8bi7 ай бұрын
great story especially for us moms!
@marlenenahavandi5928 Жыл бұрын
Great suggestions @
@brickhouserecoverytv6668Ай бұрын
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@karmakomodia6 жыл бұрын
Oh Thank you so much for sharing your story
@debbiestanish1527 Жыл бұрын
I need direction with my adult alcoholic son. He lost a very good job due to his drinking. He just had an arbitration hearing g for that job and could very possibly get it back. But today he has been drinking. I don't understand why. I want to understand why. In a time that he should be trying to stay away from alcohol, he is drinking. Why? And even more important, what should we do?
@tcooper802 Жыл бұрын
I understand your story completely. I don't understand these things either . How did things go?
@adamginsburg60725 ай бұрын
Thanks, great information!
@RameyRocks5 жыл бұрын
I have 2 sons. One has just turned 24 the other just turned 23. The 24 yr old is the alcoholic and his step dad kicked him out today for coming home drunk again after he promised a week or 2 ago he wouldn't do it again under the warning of getting kicked out the next time. My heart feels like it's being ripped out and my gut is in knots. His stuff is still here because he hasn't found anywhere to go yet. My 23 yr old took him somewhere as we were coming home this evening. Idk where. The alcoholic son has no job no money his truck is torn up. Idk what he is gonna do. I don't know what I'm gonna do.
@sondraharris535 жыл бұрын
Missi R I understand your pain!
@brickhouserecoverytv66685 жыл бұрын
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@tanyastinson16774 жыл бұрын
My 26 yr old son is a severe alcoholic and my husband and I completely support his habbit and everything else.I wanna put him on the street so he could hit rock bottom but it's so hard.Im afraid he's gonna die.
@moshedayan2810 Жыл бұрын
😢I am sorry for what you are going through😢😢
@acccsisaaronseymour9513 Жыл бұрын
Excellent Information
@brickhouserecoverytv6668Ай бұрын
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@positivethinker093 жыл бұрын
This is what I needed
@brickhouserecoverytv66683 жыл бұрын
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@sareenachinnery7271 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou. Very helpful x
@elizabethhammel444610 ай бұрын
Thank you! We are suffering
@brickhouserecoverytv666810 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@sharonsmiler49388 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video ❤
@brickhouserecoverytv66688 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching, we all make a impact(:
@yvonnekearney45452 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@SehrKhan4 жыл бұрын
This video was brilliant.
@brickhouserecoverytv66684 жыл бұрын
Thank you for commenting! Have you checked out my new book for family members? It will absolutely help. All proceeds go to treatment scholarships. unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/
@julianamitchell21203 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@brickhouserecoverytv66683 жыл бұрын
Absolutely welcome. Do you want to check out the coaching call videos on the channel? They will help. Also here is another resource to help. All proceeds go for treatment for others. unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/
@WonderWearGuruGirl6 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this, thank you
@brickhouserecoverytv66686 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@starrbrendengen8059 Жыл бұрын
This may be in the comments and if it is, my apologies. How do you establish boundaries if he lives with you?
@Andopiy2 жыл бұрын
Thank you thank you thank you.
@janetm60929 ай бұрын
Thank you for your work
@brickhouserecoverytv66689 ай бұрын
Thank you, and thank you for taking the time to comment!
@alicervantes5976 Жыл бұрын
I need help, i need to be connected to support group. My son is an alcoholic and I don't know what to do.
@deliagutierrez3042 Жыл бұрын
Hi thank you for this video, I just subscribe to your channel im staring this journey with my son 😢
@teresalangford61102 жыл бұрын
What do I do if my son has alcohol withdrawal seizures I’m an enabler but I’ve got to stop what do I do I buy him alcohol because im scared he will die from the withdrawals
@julieete2573 жыл бұрын
I don't know about letting you sleep on the street I've seen so many homeless that started like you and their parents let them just like your mom. The difference is that you got an epiphany not everyone gets one. I would still help my son get into recovery or something but let him leave on the street.
@brickhouserecoverytv66682 жыл бұрын
Thank you. The principle is to allow the addicted loved one to experience natural consequences. It is different circumstances for each family.
@terrilancaster716011 ай бұрын
Such a painful subject.
@brickhouserecoverytv6668Ай бұрын
Thank you! Check out more advice here: Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover a.co/d/1uFhT1D
@Free-flyBE5 жыл бұрын
Need advice: my son's gf enables him by paying all their bills & driving him around. They live 3 hrs. away & never hear from them except see his drunken posts on FB:(
@brickhouserecoverytv66685 жыл бұрын
So sorry for the delay. Check out my book here. It will help I promise. www.unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/
@experimentalmodel7172 Жыл бұрын
Is he ok now? My brother is in a similar situation. I know it is fun to drink with gf who also likes to drink, but it's too often & too much. I hardly recognized him when I saw his selfie recently as his face was bloated and looked sick. He wasn't like that last summer but changed so badly in 6 months.
@pixieazul1910 ай бұрын
I wish it had occurred to me to use KZbin as a resource years ago 😢
@brickhouserecoverytv666810 ай бұрын
If you have any more questions feel free to reach out, we would be happy to show you some more of our videos.
@beverlyspicer71504 жыл бұрын
Calming, hopeful and informative.
@brickhouserecoverytv66684 жыл бұрын
Thank you for commenting! Have you checked out my new book for family members? It will absolutely help. All proceeds go to treatment scholarships. unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/
@stephaniesmith90722 ай бұрын
I need to have my son leave our home. He’s drinking every day and I found multiple bottles of alcohol throughout his bedroom. I’m afraid for my son out on the streets. I don’t know what is the right thing for me to do.
@brickhouserecoverytv66682 ай бұрын
This is a hard thing to deal with Stephaniesmith9072, were sorry your going through such a rough time. Boundaries are so important when dealing with loved ones that are struggling. There is a book called unhooked that you can get on Amazon, and there are other resources available for not only your son, but you as well.
@cheriemuckian80893 жыл бұрын
How do I get the book
@brickhouserecoverytv66683 жыл бұрын
Hello friend! Here is the link, or you can snag it on Audible and Amazon;) it will really help. I promise. If it doesn’t I’ll refund you. unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/
@kcartsy40082 жыл бұрын
So hard to watch him slowly die. Can you tell me how to get your book??
@brickhouserecoverytv66682 жыл бұрын
brickhouserecovery.com/resources/
@brickhouserecoverytv66682 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@abbysstuff65724 жыл бұрын
Good but tough to do.
@brickhouserecoverytv66684 жыл бұрын
unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/
@3gsteelers6002 жыл бұрын
My son is rehab now at his request and in 3 weeks he will be back in my house and I'm not sure how to help him. I travel a lot for 1 - 2 weeks and I am not comfortable leaving him alone while I'm gone or do I just stop traveling and stay home fulltime?
@brickhouserecoverytv66682 жыл бұрын
I know this sounds like a sales pitch but I highly recommend reading my book Unhooked as soon as you can. It answers this question in depth.
@dawandasampson71232 жыл бұрын
I’m in tears as a mother I need help for my son before I loss him please help me hi already lost a child at the age of 19 he killed his self please help me please help me
@dawandasampson71232 жыл бұрын
I feel lost as a parent when I did the best I could raise him in the best of the best areas went to military school and now I just don’t know what to do he’s 27 now He graduated with a high score he went to college he took up a trade still trying to figure out where did I go wrong
@dawandasampson71232 жыл бұрын
Tears ?????????????
@dawandasampson71232 жыл бұрын
Yes that’s how I feel please help me I don’t know how to get On the offense
@brickhouserecoverytv66682 жыл бұрын
Do you want to snag a copy of unhooked? If so, I reference you to the third chapter. Also the Steps to Surrender so you can truly feel relief.
@terrilancaster716011 ай бұрын
Me too. My heart hurts for you.
@mayasivanpillai30902 жыл бұрын
My16 yr son ayush is addicted since since yrs.now in worse stage.his fr is under after effect of stroke since 6 yrs ,now49yr .being his mom I am helpless .pls help me.i was after my parents ,in laws on their cancerous last stages as bystander.so he misused these times.not gog to school.hiding in the dark and from public. Pls help me
@santoshvaid75656 ай бұрын
Please help . my son is 28 , alcoholic and unemployed .
@brickhouserecoverytv66685 ай бұрын
Hey Santoshvaid7565, you can call our admissions team at (208)-607-8395.
@jcastro9123511 ай бұрын
My son still lives with me just started drinking again
@brickhouserecoverytv666811 ай бұрын
Were sorry to hear this, if we can help please reach out.
@kenneshaforrest10172 жыл бұрын
How do you do this when they live with you?
@brickhouserecoverytv66682 жыл бұрын
Such a good question because it’s unique to every family’s circumstances. I think you will really benefit from the free vids under my playlist Get Unhooked Coaching Calls.
@positivethinker093 жыл бұрын
Where’s the link
@brickhouserecoverytv66683 жыл бұрын
To the book? Check out unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/
@dawandasampson71232 жыл бұрын
Yes I am new I need help please
@karenconder6418 Жыл бұрын
Why the music ?
@brickhouserecoverytv6668Ай бұрын
I know. It’s the worst music.
@5d51210 ай бұрын
Great vid, but why "son" and not daughter too?
@brickhouserecoverytv666810 ай бұрын
great question 5d512, this video is applicable to both son and daughter, this is based on Jason's perspective of being a son in addiction.
@deliagutierrez3042 Жыл бұрын
😢
@kateroth7154 Жыл бұрын
Please remove the music.
@brickhouserecoverytv6668 Жыл бұрын
I agree. The music is distracting. I wish I could
@angelagillett25884 жыл бұрын
Not an easy road
@brickhouserecoverytv66684 жыл бұрын
This may help you unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/
@timallsopp962211 ай бұрын
Attend Al anon.
@brickhouserecoverytv666811 ай бұрын
Al anon is a great program for family/friend's who are struggling with someone in addiction.
@medicci98082 жыл бұрын
Nice video but stop telling people to buy your book your just putting this relaxing music in the background with your soft tone sad story, give advice stop asking for money
@brickhouserecoverytv66682 жыл бұрын
Wondering if it changes your perspective knowing that 100% of sales is donated to help families recover through various resources.
@thabangmotlabane20123 жыл бұрын
thank you
@awaygirl Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video!!!
@brickhouserecoverytv6668Ай бұрын
Thank you! Check out more advice here: Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover a.co/d/1uFhT1D