How to instantly click with others - MIRRORING TECHNIQUE

[@woolfy02]

I noticed that a lot in the past 6 months. At first I thought maybe people were just trying to imitate me (Not sure of the word for it). And for that reason, I was still confused on why people were doing it. Sometimes felt like they were mocking me. This video all makes sense though now, as it was driving me nuts trying to figure it out.

[@stijnfox7328]

Your a god. thank you. I think therapy is the best thing too make me realise i was on the wrong path 🙏

[@ExpertEnglish]

Thank you so much

[@justanomorifan3059]

If you want to be more likable, dont just look at the person themselfs, but their friends. That way you can know who they lean to.

[@ExpertEnglish]

Yes, but what if it's just you and the other person in the room?

[@justanomorifan3059]

@@ExpertEnglish if you hung out with them before, act like their friends. If you just met them look at their posture, and then approach them Quietly. How they respond will tell you alot, and the mood they set.

[@ron1836]

I think sometimes in group setting people who are nervous will often start to mimic movement of the more assertive talkative person. I had this happen recently snd i was trying to study it as it was happening. I was with two guys i barely knew helping move furniture. The other two knew each other well. Afterwords we stood and talked and one guy was mimicing every movement i made. It was bad! For likr 20 minutes. I was talking and joking and the mimicker seemed nervous or waiting for me to leave i think. And this was making him tune into me. Because he was very focused on how i was a stranger and he was unsure and uncomfortable.

[@georginajovanovic]

Breath at the same rate? breath in when they breath in? Out when they breath out?

[@jake9671]

Quality content

[@victorcesar8314]

So your saying if i want to interact nicely with someone else then being original in my way isn’t how to do it?

[@ExpertEnglish]

Of course it is important to be authentic. This technique can be helpful if you find it difficult to connect to others.

[@OfCourseICan]

Very impressive video, great content. Best from an appreciative new Aussie subscriber.

[@ExpertEnglish]

Awesome, thank you! Much appreciated :)

[@OfCourseICan]

@@ExpertEnglish : Not only are you a great communicator but a thorough gentleman. Respect Sir.

[@banderas2000]

well presented

[@tonygombas491]

Cool 😎

[@LuisRivera-eu9gf]

I can mirroring people when it's just me and one more person. However, I run into trouble when I meet that same person in a group context. The person I originally mirrowed has an image of what I am but then they see me mirror another person, and they realize what I was doing. Any advice on what to do?

[@ExpertEnglish]

Of course this is more of a challenge in a group setting than doing it one on one. The thing is to do it in a subtle natural way so the other person doesn't realise you are mirroring.

[@jedichild6815]

@Luis it’s good to have a good sense of who you are authentically, before you mirror people, or you may come across as fake. The authentic self is what people will be most magnetized to because it’s the most real, pristine, no facade, no ego, no fake.

[@Novapsihoanaliza]

Maybe is time to read some psychology, or anything.

[@lyndseymeagenwalker3057]

Yeah actually... this technique has been used by Narcissists since their father rebelled. It’s actually called Manipulation.

[@ExpertEnglish]

Yes I agree this technique can be used to manipulate but it also can be used to improve communication. To really connect to the other person. I have used it in many situations and it really helps. And to reassure you: no one was ever harmed by it.

[@stijnfox7328]

Jeah i found out after my relationship,i was thinking what the hell i she doing.i was thinking i was going crazy

[@stijnfox7328]

@@ExpertEnglish interesting, can you feel ore see a difference? Good or bad? Omg and i was so scared from other people afterwards because it reminded my on the bad things that happened wit that person. And afterwards i was thinking are they all bad. But you have the key🤔

[@stijnfox7328]

Its nlp synchronicity narcisme and maybe more..

[@stijnfox7328]

I seen it, on the chess game a played, if you download a chess app and you play online. Start game and play a game of chess online. if you fitst move is the knight. the others going too play it too most of the time and so i found a piece... for mirroring

[@lalivagyokigazi]

Won't be you boring to the person you do this to?

[@ExpertEnglish]

Most people are not even aware of it. Actually in many cases we do it naturally.