how to kiss your CRUSH for the FIRST time

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how to kiss your CRUSH for the FIRST time
hey Dutchy fam!! Y'all asked and I delivered :') In today's video I decided to finally provide you with a step by step guide on how to kiss your CRUSH or significant other for the first time :O !! let's face it - a first kiss with anyone can be a little scary, so I tried my very best to provide you guys with heaps of hints and things you can do before, during and after kissing your crush to ease that anxiety a little!! I also think this will be my last video for the year (WHAT!?) so crazy how time flies - I could CRY. But I am super keen to see what 2020 has in store for us all. Thanks for being a ripper family to me on here. Your support means the absolute world to me and I cannot thank each and every one of you enough awww man!!! Can't wait to chat with y'all in the comments! Love you all & hope you have a great Christmas and a Happy New Year! xoxox
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@MsDickerz
@MsDickerz 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Dutchy fam! This was my last sit down video for the year 🥰🥺 show some lurveee! let’s blow up the comments & make sure you send this to any friends who need this advice ❤️❤️❤️❤️ P.S wishing you all a very MERRY CHRISTMAS and a HAPPY NEW YEAR ❤️❤️❤️
@vic-eo4bl
@vic-eo4bl 4 жыл бұрын
Merry christmas dutchy i love you!!!
@ashrose3180
@ashrose3180 4 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year :)
@deezballs4733
@deezballs4733 4 жыл бұрын
I love you and Merry Christmas!
@siobhandickson7932
@siobhandickson7932 4 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year thank you for your advice
@srrwfulflwrs637
@srrwfulflwrs637 4 жыл бұрын
merry christler!! ❤️
@teachmehowtodougie.mp3997
@teachmehowtodougie.mp3997 4 жыл бұрын
bold of you to assume my crush likes me lmao
@frankie5602
@frankie5602 4 жыл бұрын
oh god same
@thatweirdval6265
@thatweirdval6265 4 жыл бұрын
My crush hates me :/
@morgrugyn
@morgrugyn 4 жыл бұрын
My crush hardly knows I exist
@exammole4545
@exammole4545 4 жыл бұрын
The most coming out thing i got from my crush is asking him to sign my spare shirt. It was graduation day for primary.
@MsDickerz
@MsDickerz 4 жыл бұрын
Hahaha bless
@roisinb.2587
@roisinb.2587 4 жыл бұрын
*sobs in single bisexual*
@unicorntomboy9736
@unicorntomboy9736 4 жыл бұрын
Same here
@lucarudloff687
@lucarudloff687 4 жыл бұрын
Same here
@bacalaitos23
@bacalaitos23 4 жыл бұрын
you aint alone mate.
@lucasjacobs2604
@lucasjacobs2604 4 жыл бұрын
Joanne Kelleher can relate
@Zanderren
@Zanderren 4 жыл бұрын
Joanne Kelleher you single? JK
@vapecat2876
@vapecat2876 4 жыл бұрын
Sis that's gay 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
@b4tsnbugs
@b4tsnbugs 4 жыл бұрын
no u ;)
@vapecat2876
@vapecat2876 4 жыл бұрын
@@b4tsnbugs Ya caught me XD
@Zanderren
@Zanderren 4 жыл бұрын
It'sMePinkyyy hi how are you
@MsDickerz
@MsDickerz 4 жыл бұрын
Heck yeah sis
@vapecat2876
@vapecat2876 4 жыл бұрын
@@Zanderren I'm pretty snazzy. You?
@yul4432
@yul4432 4 жыл бұрын
me: -has a crush -never took it a step forward to even being friends -still watches this video and takes notes
@hellcritter6668
@hellcritter6668 4 жыл бұрын
Xdd same
@kjviiiable
@kjviiiable 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@rainiiday6216
@rainiiday6216 4 жыл бұрын
Sameee
@diamondd5846
@diamondd5846 4 жыл бұрын
Nice likes 👌
@yul4432
@yul4432 4 жыл бұрын
@@diamondd5846 HAHAHAHA
@deezballs4733
@deezballs4733 4 жыл бұрын
*cries in gay*
@MsDickerz
@MsDickerz 4 жыл бұрын
Daddiii_Sam ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@moelester4420
@moelester4420 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly I just wish being gay and stuff wasn’t awkward in society because it wouldn’t be such big news that I’m gay... like all I ever hear is “are you gay, are you bisexual, what boy do you have a crush on?”
@unicorntomboy9736
@unicorntomboy9736 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like same way
@MsDickerz
@MsDickerz 4 жыл бұрын
YEP
@lil_cash_dracoglock3011
@lil_cash_dracoglock3011 4 жыл бұрын
Hey hmu on insta at lil_dawg_16
@diamondd5846
@diamondd5846 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it's not like you have to come out as straight is it?
@emthewitch4814
@emthewitch4814 4 жыл бұрын
dutchy: your local aussie therapist
@MsDickerz
@MsDickerz 4 жыл бұрын
Em the Witch bless upppp ❤️❤️
@sparrowwestlake7267
@sparrowwestlake7267 4 жыл бұрын
Dutchy The bushfires though!
@bladesofderp4649
@bladesofderp4649 4 жыл бұрын
istg Australia is the country equivalent of that one Minecraft world where u just destroy e v e r y t h I n g except it’s god and he’s just giggling as he sets flames to the continent
@cactuscat2942
@cactuscat2942 4 жыл бұрын
*gay screeching*
@MsDickerz
@MsDickerz 4 жыл бұрын
Cactus Cat hahahahaha oath
@sparrowwestlake7267
@sparrowwestlake7267 4 жыл бұрын
I mean... Yeah.
@youreinvalid8493
@youreinvalid8493 4 жыл бұрын
16 and still haven't had my first kiss, my parents made jokes about it for ages but then found out it's because I'm gay and where I live, there's literally nowhere safe that I can kiss my girlfriend without fear. Sad but it gives us more of a reason to keep fighting so hopefully the next generation won't live in fear of who they love, no matter where they live.
@sammybeddingfield1014
@sammybeddingfield1014 3 жыл бұрын
Same but I'm going to get my first kiss soon
@blvshingrin1356
@blvshingrin1356 3 жыл бұрын
@@sammybeddingfield1014 congratsss
@ysi7045
@ysi7045 4 жыл бұрын
Imagine your crush likes you back... Imagine having a crush... I'm so lonely...
@makena_g15
@makena_g15 4 жыл бұрын
Dutchy: thinks it’s weird to kiss her hand Also Dutchy 19:07
@chloesuarez9074
@chloesuarez9074 4 жыл бұрын
Bro the only time I’ll ever kiss my crush is in my dreams
@tjhawkins3582
@tjhawkins3582 4 жыл бұрын
chloe suarez YESSSS ME TOO
@ratboy2
@ratboy2 3 жыл бұрын
aww i dont even get to do that. ive never dreamed about any of my crushes...
@NightWolvesHowl
@NightWolvesHowl 4 жыл бұрын
8:35 she said only do 90% and let them do the other 10%.. but what if we both watched this video😂
@pushplatabhatnagar1467
@pushplatabhatnagar1467 2 жыл бұрын
It'd be a good 180%😂😂
@maryanadote8764
@maryanadote8764 2 жыл бұрын
Tbh it should be 100/100
@atlaslamb6503
@atlaslamb6503 4 жыл бұрын
She’s my current girlfriend and is also going to be my first kiss but also need serious help with this because I am a super shy chicken. Thanks for making a video about this!
@rita9942
@rita9942 4 жыл бұрын
Aww that's so cute good luck hope all goes well
@idontreallyknow840
@idontreallyknow840 4 жыл бұрын
Good luck dude!
@atlaslamb6503
@atlaslamb6503 4 жыл бұрын
I finally got up the courage to kiss her (on the cheek because I’m a coward) and she kissed me back! She is the most adorable person on this earth.
@atlaslamb6503
@atlaslamb6503 4 жыл бұрын
Update: I kissed her on the lips and she was my first kiss and it was amazing! Thank you for your time.
@aspenlol4244
@aspenlol4244 4 жыл бұрын
@@atlaslamb6503 congrats
@okmeowokmeow
@okmeowokmeow 4 жыл бұрын
Lol my first kiss was with a girl who was my crush and my friend for a long time and she literally went like "I wanna make out with you, can we make out?" And I'm just like.... SURE?! And nothing like that ever happened to me again 😔 too bad because I'm way too shy to even ask people out for coffee.
@techtipstricks6578
@techtipstricks6578 4 жыл бұрын
By reading that I got butterflies.
@pushplatabhatnagar1467
@pushplatabhatnagar1467 2 жыл бұрын
You're sooo lucky... I have a crush on my best friend and I don't know if she's straight cuz she's never really dated anyone or even considered dating someone.... She literally confuses me along with the physical tension I'm already in when I meet her....😔😔
@Demol1tion-lovers
@Demol1tion-lovers 4 жыл бұрын
1. Get an anime crush 2. Realizes they’re all very feminine (longish hair, rounder hips, etc) 3. Realize your a lesbian Congrats now your gay
@sageleaves5447
@sageleaves5447 4 жыл бұрын
Pppperioyt
@user-zp1jo5xd2o
@user-zp1jo5xd2o 3 жыл бұрын
Periodt
@changaroo8936
@changaroo8936 3 жыл бұрын
No way that was me but with a kpop idol
@oro6666
@oro6666 2 жыл бұрын
THIS IS WHAT HAPPENED TO ME IM CRYING
@emxtionalgaming6340
@emxtionalgaming6340 2 жыл бұрын
My life
@augustusemersonduncan1520
@augustusemersonduncan1520 4 жыл бұрын
This won't happen to me for a while because my girlfriend is an adorable, innocent little bean, but I'm watching anyways!
@cococonstance9822
@cococonstance9822 Жыл бұрын
SAME HERE!!!
@YoungSIS058
@YoungSIS058 4 жыл бұрын
14:39 Lmao forget to cut something of there 😂😂
@littlelynx243
@littlelynx243 4 жыл бұрын
I kissed my girlfriend the first time yesterday, we were having a netflix night and she made the move- Jesus Christ, I’m gay af.
@eduki5396
@eduki5396 4 жыл бұрын
Last week I went on a date with my crush (that also watches you. I posted a comment about it on your last video) She wants another date and guess what...I think this video was the perfect fit for my needs Thank you so much Dutchy! I probably wouldn’t have dared to ask her out if it wasn’t for your videos (: This is the first girl I’m officially dating after coming out to myself and my family/friends❤️
@MsDickerz
@MsDickerz 4 жыл бұрын
Nysne Oh my goodness this melts my HEART 🥺❤️ bless UP! I’m so proud and happy for you!!!!
@kirileesmith8981
@kirileesmith8981 4 жыл бұрын
My crush and I told each other last night that we wanted to kiss each other and we’re meeting up today so I’m nervous (this is going to be my first kiss ever)
@atlaslamb6503
@atlaslamb6503 4 жыл бұрын
EllaLee good luck! I want to kiss my first girlfriend soon and it will also be my first kiss.
@kirileesmith8981
@kirileesmith8981 4 жыл бұрын
@@atlaslamb6503 Good luck to you too!
@beewilliams1344
@beewilliams1344 4 жыл бұрын
Ahh! How did it go? :)
@sparrowwestlake7267
@sparrowwestlake7267 4 жыл бұрын
EllaLee Good luck y'all! Tell us how it went!
@kirileesmith8981
@kirileesmith8981 4 жыл бұрын
@@beewilliams1344 I became very very shy, but it happened :D
@ash1118
@ash1118 4 жыл бұрын
The flirting doesn't help.. Bc my friends flirt with me A LOT and I flirt with her I go like "kiss me" and she's like "make me" But she actually doesn't like me so..
@hellcritter6668
@hellcritter6668 4 жыл бұрын
Oof
@sparrowwestlake7267
@sparrowwestlake7267 4 жыл бұрын
Oof indeed
@lavnkkelhy3952
@lavnkkelhy3952 4 жыл бұрын
Damn :/
@terracottateeth8246
@terracottateeth8246 3 жыл бұрын
i feel like she does
@Ash-ph2eb
@Ash-ph2eb 4 жыл бұрын
I've kissed my crush already. A lot actually. She's also my best friend. I know she's bi and she's said she likes me too but she has a boyfriend.sooo.....fingers crossed🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
@Ash-ph2eb
@Ash-ph2eb 4 жыл бұрын
Ahhh she liked my comment I love you Dutchy!!!!!
@mayusky3955
@mayusky3955 4 жыл бұрын
Strangely enough, I'm in the same exact boat that you're on!
@Ash-ph2eb
@Ash-ph2eb 4 жыл бұрын
@@mayusky3955 really??
@mayusky3955
@mayusky3955 4 жыл бұрын
@@Ash-ph2eb yeah she's like my oldest friend and she's bi but she has a boyfriend and I don't think she's planning on leaving him..
@mayusky3955
@mayusky3955 4 жыл бұрын
@@Ash-ph2eb well yeah I've done that too, then I realized I was gay so 😗
@magdalenafojtu6998
@magdalenafojtu6998 4 жыл бұрын
Rainbow is everywhere🌈🌈🌈
@MsDickerz
@MsDickerz 4 жыл бұрын
Magdaléna Fojtů Heck yeah ❤️🌈
@hellcritter6668
@hellcritter6668 4 жыл бұрын
Oh, I think im in gay heaven
@magdalenafojtu6998
@magdalenafojtu6998 4 жыл бұрын
@@hellcritter6668 ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@emilyrubalcava2706
@emilyrubalcava2706 3 жыл бұрын
@@MsDickerz yay rainbows!!!!!
@srrwfulflwrs637
@srrwfulflwrs637 4 жыл бұрын
oml thank you so much for this video i really needed it dutchy!! i met this girl through a friend and she’s bi (i’m pan) i said that she was pretty and she said i was too, ive been texting her for about a week now and she keeps dropping serious hints and all of my friends keep saying that i should ask her out but she keeps saying that she’d like a girlfriend for christmas so on christmas day i’m going to ask her out wish me luck!!!!! 😁😁❤️ update: turns out she felt the same way too! I LOVE MY GIRLFRIEND:)))))
@ellietommo1238
@ellietommo1238 4 жыл бұрын
The thing is at my school there is no other lesbian my age that I could talk to and re!ate to #lonely lesbian
@marijablecic2978
@marijablecic2978 4 жыл бұрын
big_gay_ass_girl 123 same. Sometimes I just need someone to talk to or relate to (when it comes to homosexuality) but everyone is straight
@butterflyclip
@butterflyclip 4 жыл бұрын
probably just closeted ones all around you
@idontreallyknow840
@idontreallyknow840 4 жыл бұрын
DUDE. I FEEL YOU.
@jeffpoobie7797
@jeffpoobie7797 4 жыл бұрын
Just run into school and be like Come out the fucking closet!!!!!
@staciedrag5764
@staciedrag5764 4 жыл бұрын
I have a ton of bi and pan people but no lesbians😭
@ash1118
@ash1118 4 жыл бұрын
I have a crush on my friend who isn't my friend anymore, she already said she doesn't like me. But I still want to hang out..
@zoiezozo
@zoiezozo 4 жыл бұрын
8:15 *”why am i nervous? it’s my fucking hand”*
@ptt773
@ptt773 4 жыл бұрын
A couple weeks ago, I told my friend I had feelings for her, and now I have a cute as hecc gf. I seriously never thought she would like me back, because she never said if she was into girls, but I'm so glad she is because she is the absolute sweetest little angel ever.
@carlygraham9044
@carlygraham9044 4 жыл бұрын
I came out to my mom recently and it was such a big reaction, it felt weird, as coming out to my friends was not a big deal, as most of them at lgbtq+
@Skeletor8387
@Skeletor8387 4 жыл бұрын
I AM *NOT* GOING TO USE THIS BECAUSE NO ONE LIKES ME :’,D
@lucarudloff687
@lucarudloff687 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@hadley5505
@hadley5505 4 жыл бұрын
Story time! My best friend invited her friend to the indoor park we were heading to. I realized I had a crush I on this girl and told my best friend. My best friend told this girl and the girl admitted to liking me. Dutch you always post the stuff I need just when I need it!
@norgarciagrau6845
@norgarciagrau6845 4 жыл бұрын
This is so freakin useful because now I have gf and I'm her first partner so she hasn't had a kiss yet and I wasn't sure how to make her feel comfortable and now I know how!! Thank you so much Dutchy!! I NEED YOU TO BE MY PERSONAL ROMANCE COUNSELOR ❤️❤️❤️
@langa2903
@langa2903 4 жыл бұрын
"" (Commenting this coz I'm an OG who always reads every inch of the description!❤❤)
@cake_pop6217
@cake_pop6217 4 жыл бұрын
Early. Love you Dutchy after I came out to my friends and parents (I’m bisexual) and some of them didn’t understand I watched your LGBTQ videos and they really helped you are a queen!!!❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️‍🌈 I now have a girlfriend who I love, you really helped me accept myself so thank you. Much love and Merry Gaymas🏳️‍🌈🎄❣️❣️❣️
@unicorntomboy9736
@unicorntomboy9736 4 жыл бұрын
How did you get a partner? I don't know how to get one (preferably a boyfriend)
@cake_pop6217
@cake_pop6217 4 жыл бұрын
Just go for it the worst that will happen is they reject you and you cry and eat ice cream then get over them good luck ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
@unicorntomboy9736
@unicorntomboy9736 4 жыл бұрын
@@cake_pop6217 I did/do had a crush on another bisexual guy, but sadly he was engaged to someone else.
@chloeboey
@chloeboey 4 жыл бұрын
Eeeeeee I’m so excited! I can be early for once! 😂
@y8952
@y8952 4 жыл бұрын
Hi dutchy I'm yorck I'm gay and I love it
@MsDickerz
@MsDickerz 4 жыл бұрын
yorck van Someren I love that!!
@y8952
@y8952 4 жыл бұрын
I love you so your asom
@y8952
@y8952 4 жыл бұрын
@@MsDickerz thanx
@merijndijkhuizen7298
@merijndijkhuizen7298 4 жыл бұрын
my firsst kiss with my gf went wrong 3 times and we still haven't had a proper make out session… I actually feel so stupid
@ellasimmons9124
@ellasimmons9124 4 жыл бұрын
"Why am I nervous? It's my fucking hand." Honestly, girl, same
@aceclover6563
@aceclover6563 4 жыл бұрын
i just kissed my first boy friend it was so awkward
@aceclover6563
@aceclover6563 4 жыл бұрын
@AceOfSpades 93 thanks i had a fase of calling myself that its not my real name
@aceclover6563
@aceclover6563 4 жыл бұрын
@AceOfSpades 93 thanks
@matthewdeleon9095
@matthewdeleon9095 4 жыл бұрын
Dutchy you have made such a positive difference in my life and thank you so so so so much for that🌈
@matthewdeleon9095
@matthewdeleon9095 4 жыл бұрын
Also I read the description
@alyx2581
@alyx2581 4 жыл бұрын
I. HAVE. BEEN. WAITING. ALL. DAY. Luv ya c;
@killjoytw1nk
@killjoytw1nk 4 жыл бұрын
After being depressed watching the Rise Of Skywalker ending, Dutchy made my day ❤️
@Zanderren
@Zanderren 4 жыл бұрын
мαяα тѕl Hey
@killjoytw1nk
@killjoytw1nk 4 жыл бұрын
@@Zanderren Hi ❤️
@Zanderren
@Zanderren 4 жыл бұрын
мαяα тѕl I was worried well not worried that you have got a crush on me I would understand?
@killjoytw1nk
@killjoytw1nk 4 жыл бұрын
@@Zanderren Actually no, I view you as a good Internet friend. I have a bf irl
@killjoytw1nk
@killjoytw1nk 4 жыл бұрын
@Crescent Tears ok ❤️
@maggieo1683
@maggieo1683 Жыл бұрын
I'm watching this again 2 years after it came out because I just got myself a girlfriend, we've been on a few dates to get to know each other but we haven't kissed yet, or even held hands or anything lol. We have our 5th date later this week, and instead of going for coffee or ice cream as we have on all our other dates, this time we're going to be watching TV at her place. I want to begin the more intimate stuff with her, but I haven't had a whole lot of practice. I've dated 2 girls before, the first was my best friend and we made out a few times, but the second was a Tinder date and we pecked lips 2 or 3 times and cuddled, but not more than that. However, this girl I'm dating has never been kissed, I'm the first person she's dating. At any rate I want to try holding her hand as we watch TV, and maybe cuddling if she's up for it, and I might want to go in for the kiss, if she's comfortable with it. Wanted some good old Dutchy tips lol. Anyway most likely no one will read this but I'm going to post it anyway for the heck of it.
@saelie4043
@saelie4043 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Dutchy love ur videos so much
@MsDickerz
@MsDickerz 4 жыл бұрын
Kinda Gay aww hello! thank you so much that means the world to me
@jadepoortinga2432
@jadepoortinga2432 4 жыл бұрын
YESSSSS a new video from my favo youtuber love youuuuuuuu
@MsDickerz
@MsDickerz 4 жыл бұрын
Jade Poortinga bless ahhh love you!
@jadepoortinga2432
@jadepoortinga2432 4 жыл бұрын
Dutchy OMG YOU REACHT I AM SOOOOOOO HAPPPPYYY YOU ARE SOOOO AMAZING
@froggyqueen1435
@froggyqueen1435 3 жыл бұрын
IF YOU'RE WITH AN ASEXUAL OR DEMISEXUAL PARTNER, MAKE SURE THEY'RE OK WITH KISSING/HUGGING/TOUCHING ETC! SOME PEOPLE ARE FINE WITH IT, SOME AREN'T! Of course, this goes for any partner, not just ace pals, but just be extra respectful!
@keeperofkeys3186
@keeperofkeys3186 4 жыл бұрын
love you dutchy
@MsDickerz
@MsDickerz 4 жыл бұрын
Love you more!
@keeperofkeys3186
@keeperofkeys3186 4 жыл бұрын
@@MsDickerz Merry Christmas Dutchy❤🌲
@lenaboerboom5423
@lenaboerboom5423 4 жыл бұрын
EXITEDDDDD IS MY LIFE HAS COME TO THISSSS
@idontreallyknow840
@idontreallyknow840 4 жыл бұрын
OML NO JOKE MY FIRST RELATIONSHIP WAS A TOTAL *NIGHTMARE* Swear to god it would be 10000 times less terrible if i had seen this video when i was in it. (Well maybe a *little* better -m-) Listen so Im shy like SUPER shy, but despite this, *I* was the one to ask my crush at the time, out. We were best friends until i realized i liked as more than a frendo. So I ask her out, she says yes, and the first week is great. We were hanging out more and since it was still the beginning of my first relationship, I was super shy and REALLY bad at flirting. So like, I mostly didn't, except occasionally because well im shy (but like at the time I was SUPER shy. So like basically me now just like times 200) and i just wanted HER to do all the flirting and i was just gonna go along with it. In spite of my hopeful thinking, she never did make any moves so LITTLE SHY WEEBISH KID HERE HAD TO DO HER BEST TO MAKE ALL THE MOVES, WITHOUT HAVING HER LITTLE HEART BEAT SO HARD IT FELL OUT OF HER CHEST. (Anyways, enough speaking in 3rd person) SO, the relationship kept going and i tried to do my best to flirt but it really wasn't going anywhere. One day she started acting different. She started to snap at me a lot, and push me around and take my small size to her advantage. (Not like sexually just like hitting me and pinching me and grabbing and not letting go, just like stuff i wasn't comfortable with. And i couldn't fight back because well 1) Im like really weak and 2) I dont like confrontation, but nonetheless, i did my best to ask her to stop but she just DIDNT. She'd just laugh it off and say "Calm down it's just a joke!") So i also had this one friend, who I considered to be my best friend and before my relationship with this girl, she really didnt like her, but later on they became friends. (This'll be important in a sec i promise) So as my gf at the time was doing this, i started to get fed up w/ her bs and started to fight back. When she would snap at me, I would snap at her, when she would push me around, i would snap at her, and when she would take advantage of me, i would snap at her. So remember how i mentioned my best friend at the timr right? She started to snap at me too. My gf had been telling her all about me snapping at her and now my best friend started calling me a terrible gf and wouldn't even *think* about thinking otherwise. Thats RIGHT my gf had been talking about me BEHIND MY BACK, WITH MY BEST FRIKING FRIEND. After that they BOTH started snapping at me, they BOTH started pushing me around, and guess wut? THIS SHY LITTLE WEEB LET THEM. I am SO pissed at myself for letting them do that shit to me, i swear to god. Anyways, you might be asking rn 'But why does that have anything to do with this video??' Well let me give u the answer my little gay children. The two of us decided to break up and i asked her why she was also so pissed at me. HER RESPONCE MAN- I CANT EVEN. SHE SAID THAT THE REASON THAT SHE WAS ALWAYS SO PISSED AT ME, WAS BECAUSE I WAS SO SHY, THAT SHE WAS SCARED TO MAKE A MOVE AND DO ANYTHING THAT WOULD REMOTELY MAKE US A COUPLE, BECAUSE SHE DIDNT WANT TO FORCE ME INTO ANYTHING. I SWEAR TO GOD MAN. ALL YOU EXTROVERTS OUT THERE DONT UNDERSTAND THE PAINS OF A GAY INTROVERT.
@idontreallyknow840
@idontreallyknow840 4 жыл бұрын
Damn that turned into more of a vent than a youtube comment holy shit
@idontreallyknow840
@idontreallyknow840 4 жыл бұрын
*SCREECHES IN HAPPY LESBIAN IN RESPONSE TO A HEART FROM DUTCHY*
@bugjuice111
@bugjuice111 4 жыл бұрын
This is so crappy that I actually can relate (except I’m too shy to even get a gf let alone ask someone out). I’m feeling your pain ‘man’. God that sucks.
@idontreallyknow840
@idontreallyknow840 4 жыл бұрын
GASP :0 YES. I HAVE MET ONE OF MY SHY BRETHREN. COME, SISTER, LET US FIND HAPPINESS TOGETHER IN OUR MUTUAL LACK OF DESIRE FOR SOCIAL INTERACTION. (yay! im so happy that someone gets it!) (also im sorry i get really weird around other shy people lol)
@bugjuice111
@bugjuice111 4 жыл бұрын
BIGGER GASP :00 FINALLY I HAVE MET ANOTHER SHY ONE THAT UNDERSTANDS HOW TO ACT NORMAL (kinda) BUT STILL QUIET AROUND OTHERS SOCIAL HUMANS BUT WHEN THEY COME ACROSS ANOTHER ONE LIKE THEM THEY GO CRAZY AND IT’S LIKE AN ANTISOCIAL SOCIAL PARTY!
@ashrose3180
@ashrose3180 4 жыл бұрын
we are early yass I turned the bell notifications onn
@ashrose3180
@ashrose3180 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness you liked my comment ahhh
@popsicles4life
@popsicles4life 4 жыл бұрын
Oh Dutchy, what I would’ve done without you this year! Love you, have an awesome Christmas and New Year! ❤️
@leonlovegood350
@leonlovegood350 4 жыл бұрын
Video: how to KISS your CRUSH for the first time Me: Been there, done that, never got the promotion -_-.
@sakurabuttercup1110
@sakurabuttercup1110 4 жыл бұрын
I had my first kiss literally a couple days after my birthday and it was a girl I had a crush on for almost 2 years now, and at the time she was 13 and I was 14 so it was hard to tell someone you like them in middle school when your gay, but I actually needed advice b/c I wanted to make the first move but literally 2 months ago she walked me home and she kissed me and I didn’t even need to go for it so Dutchy glad your here to give some advice
@ari-os1gy
@ari-os1gy 3 жыл бұрын
i manifested her to like me back so now i just needed this😌
@rrebecca3149
@rrebecca3149 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the great video! I only found your channel a few days ago and I love it! Finding this channel was like an early much needed christmas present. Greetings from Germany!
@gretchensmith6451
@gretchensmith6451 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so exited I’ve been waiting all day!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️‍🌈
@chadlind7952
@chadlind7952 4 жыл бұрын
I don't have a phone and I'm a girl.so I.have to sneak my dad's phone just to watch the best person ever alive....LOVE YOU DUTCHY and you've helped me through so much
@finch3333
@finch3333 4 жыл бұрын
Aww we have had a amazing decade and an amazing years. We will be excited for the gay content of 2020!!! Best of luck, happy holidays, and merry gaymas.
@emmalol3925
@emmalol3925 4 жыл бұрын
Just the vid I needed, Dutchy. Timing is on point 👌🏼
@reynehoshizora
@reynehoshizora 4 жыл бұрын
GUURRRRLLL UR THE MOST AMAZING KZbinR EVER!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@isamae6125
@isamae6125 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Dutchy! Great video :) Happy holidays, and have a healthy and happy 2020 xx
@keeperofkeys3186
@keeperofkeys3186 4 жыл бұрын
I've never been this early lmao. Love you Dutchy❤❤🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈💗💜💙💗💜💙
@ameliecole9191
@ameliecole9191 3 жыл бұрын
This women deserves more subscribers!
@robynnelson8060
@robynnelson8060 4 жыл бұрын
Needed this so much...thanks Dutchy!!!
@laiya2039
@laiya2039 4 жыл бұрын
HOW DID DUTCHY KNOW IM A LOYAL SUBSCRIBER THAT DIDNT REALLY NEED THIS BUT IS STILL WATCHING IT I-
@cathrinevinholt3086
@cathrinevinholt3086 2 жыл бұрын
Yesterday I told my crush i have feelings for her, it went really well, she didn't reject me, but also didn't confess back, so like I guess it was a maybe. But her reaction was so cute, we had a good conversation on a quite sweet walk and she was super happy I chose to tell her, because she wasn't sure if I liked her (she was suspecting it). Anyway, after watching this video I think I'm prepared to kiss her if we're ever in a situation where it feels right and if I think she wants to. Thank you
@alexbattisti1392
@alexbattisti1392 4 жыл бұрын
Lol I'm excited for all of Dutchys videos!! 🌈❤🌈
@harlyn9521
@harlyn9521 4 жыл бұрын
Same :) she's wholesome
@harlows.journey
@harlows.journey 4 жыл бұрын
I haven’t had a crush yet, I’m a loner.
@tabifawc
@tabifawc 4 жыл бұрын
Yay I can be early for once:D
@alyx2581
@alyx2581 4 жыл бұрын
YASSS
@MsDickerz
@MsDickerz 4 жыл бұрын
Isabella Alvarado ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@langa2903
@langa2903 4 жыл бұрын
Best Christmas present ever! Have a blessed one❤❤❤❤
@insecto4207
@insecto4207 4 жыл бұрын
Me: can’t even get my crush to like me back and skips step two (ask her out) and gone to three (🎵 “gO oN aNd KiSs ThE GiRL” 🎵) that was a sad Disney joke nobody will recognize... :,3
@aceforein2240
@aceforein2240 4 жыл бұрын
My love life: Me:I like u Her:I’m straight Me:I like u Her:I have a GF
@ms_midnight._
@ms_midnight._ 4 жыл бұрын
I was literally thinking about that and then you posted that video... Thank you
@lucyenglish8215
@lucyenglish8215 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Dutchy , I watch all your videos & i love them . You are fabulous . Love you Dutchy xx
@joanadeus8198
@joanadeus8198 4 жыл бұрын
Literally the best tutorial of kissing ever! Thx
@lassam333
@lassam333 4 жыл бұрын
Great advice video! We just recently had our 25th dating anniversary, so it's also 25 years since I last kissed my crush for the first time.
@kuu3904
@kuu3904 4 жыл бұрын
LOVE U AND HAPPY HOLIGAYS
@SBaer-iu3hn
@SBaer-iu3hn 4 жыл бұрын
your videos really help me a lot. I recently found out that I like women and I am now very nervous about the first kiss. so thanks for the video :D
@marian4892
@marian4892 4 жыл бұрын
getting ready for when I finally meet my long distance girlfriend in person
@spocksthyla8709
@spocksthyla8709 2 жыл бұрын
you are literally saving my life
@salemvelasco4795
@salemvelasco4795 3 жыл бұрын
dutchy: do not break eye contact my adhd: *no*
@majcia9636
@majcia9636 4 жыл бұрын
ughh im so nervous i'm going over to my crush for new year's eve and i wanna kiss her sooo bad but i'm very scared of her pulling away or don't wanting too and that would make the rest of the night super awkward. anyone any tips ?
@shyrox7319
@shyrox7319 4 жыл бұрын
Just wait until the ligts are out🤫then she maybe dont know who kissed her
@giovannaflister7167
@giovannaflister7167 4 жыл бұрын
Idk, ask her if she's cool or something and if she says no it's okay too, you'll find someone eventually. You have to be okay to the situation and she has too, good luck 😊
@alexthemainbase
@alexthemainbase 2 жыл бұрын
I will say, as awkward as this might have been for you to film, this was really helpful and calmed my nerves for this (hopefully) upcoming moment. Thank you
@nanna.s6998
@nanna.s6998 4 жыл бұрын
Thaaaaanks dutchy! ❤️ that actually helped a lot! I'm 16 and haven't kissed anyone before, but I have someone I really like, and I might think we could be something, I don't know 😶 but I hope 😅🤞🏼🍀 But whit your advise I feel a little bit more ready than before I watched this video! 🥳❤️ So thank you! ❤️ I love you a lot! And I hope you will have a merry Christmas and a happy new year! 🥳❤️
@itsnerdo
@itsnerdo 4 жыл бұрын
I know this may have been awkward to film but this is a really good tutorial. I wish I’d seen it when I was in that period of life ❤️
@itsnerdo
@itsnerdo 4 жыл бұрын
(Also low-key wish I could have shown this to my last guy-kissing partner because that whole “tongue straight in” thing happened and he NEVER MOVED IT)
@i-have-an-idea
@i-have-an-idea 4 жыл бұрын
no one: Dutchy: 1:20 h e c k 🥺💕
@laurie4096
@laurie4096 4 жыл бұрын
OMG YAY DUTCHY!🎉❤️ ""
@shoshoshuffle
@shoshoshuffle 4 жыл бұрын
Idk why I'm watching this now but I'm still taking notes for when the quarantine is over
@nowiknowishallnotsee30
@nowiknowishallnotsee30 4 жыл бұрын
I want to come out to my family as a lesbian. I know they’ll be accepting about that, but I don’t know how happy they’ll be when I tell them I’m not a virgin... 😂
@closetmoth1915
@closetmoth1915 3 жыл бұрын
I- just dont tell them that part
@maryanadote8764
@maryanadote8764 2 жыл бұрын
I wanted to say "You do you, mate!" But then i finished reading your comment and now i'm not so sure
@ChickenMccZoe
@ChickenMccZoe 4 жыл бұрын
I can successfully say that these videos have helped me get my current girlfriend. Thank you, from a random stranger in England. ❤️ Also, have a happy holiday season!
@kingaolah
@kingaolah 4 жыл бұрын
"put on a gloss that's more matt" lmaoo
@lottiestirling8043
@lottiestirling8043 4 жыл бұрын
not sure this will work for 5000 miles away I can only try
@Zanderren
@Zanderren 4 жыл бұрын
Lottie Stirling Hundred from me if I could
@lottiestirling8043
@lottiestirling8043 4 жыл бұрын
@@Zanderren it sucks
@hellcritter6668
@hellcritter6668 4 жыл бұрын
Good luck.
@Zanderren
@Zanderren 4 жыл бұрын
Smudges hi like your profile picture
@hellcritter6668
@hellcritter6668 4 жыл бұрын
@@Zanderren Thanks! xD I drew it
@ariannamichelle6628
@ariannamichelle6628 4 жыл бұрын
I love your hair like that it's adorable
@doctorshnoot
@doctorshnoot 4 жыл бұрын
Dutchy i cant believe your nearly at 70k
@crystal4millar167
@crystal4millar167 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like I’m getting my hopes up by watching these videos as if it gonna happen 😂😂😂
@DaniDesMarais250
@DaniDesMarais250 4 жыл бұрын
Love a bicon who talks about consent! Consent is SO IMPORTANT!
@keylimegreendog
@keylimegreendog 3 жыл бұрын
Summary of the first 5 seconds: *flag dropped* "Ooaaauuewww mYy Go-A-hAeD"
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