how to know if he’s the right one for you

[@HeyHammy]

The low self-esteem thing is so scary because for someone who has that, and is experiencing dating with someone who is secure and is good for them. They find that uncomfortable and slowly self-sabotage thinking they "dont deserve this" and end a perfectly healthy relationship / a relationship that's worth fighting for. You live and you learn. Great video! Also props for the subs much respect, must've taken awhile XD

[@Chesstunes1]

Good on you finding your partner.

[@talawanda5164]

People don't even know what a relationship is about or for... People just go into it with EXPECTATION and thats when they have already lost. There is a very good reason why friendships, relationships & marriages are collapsing in society. There's gonna come a time when 7 women will fight for 1 man. Because the 'single' female pandemic is growing exponentially now. And women are depressed already beyond imagination. Relationships are only for the purpose to know more about yourself, if you don't know that then you aren't ready to be in any type of connection to anyone to begin with. Relationships, just as sex are extremely over-rated, people think you have to have it in order to be happy. Societal programming at its finest!. Just as when you don't have any self love you will never be able to love somebody else. Most relationships end abruptly and thats because a person gives up because they have no self development and when one thing goes wrong in the female mind, which has been programmed for decades now that if something goes wrong it must be the wrong guy!. And the problem is so many people are in "relationships" which i just call 'battery companions' to leech attention and energy of others. Most people have no self-development or understanding of it all. So in short, "THE ONE" does not exist. You are presented with a like-minded person because thats how life works. There is only attraction in the universe there is no such thing as repulsion or invalidation. So you get what you need in life whether it comes in the form of a person, a book, an experience. Its all the same thing. People who evolve slowly will find themselves in romantic relationships. People that evolve quickly will always find themselves to be single, mostly for an entire life!. Because that is the spiritual path. If your happiness depends on someone else's response to you or response in general then you are nothing more than a slave to that person, you're not an equal. So for the ladies i suggest. Love yourself first, learn to not get attached, build up your own reservoir of self love and always make sure its filled!. Don't play games with guys and be honest and authentic. And if something presents itself that is difficult in the connection you two share then work it out. Don't walk away to find another guy because i guarantee you, you'll only find the same type of guy and go through the same kind of lessons over and over and over again. Until you understand it!.

[@MakSilver-q5c]

Thank you for your good advices

[@xiaobaetv]

you’re welcome 🫶

[@luchiNalo]

you from which country..want to be a ur 2nd boyfriend ❤️

[@Shi_naee]

girll ur vidoes are soo good I dont understand how r u so underrated🙏😭

[@xiaobaetv]

pls this comment made my day 😭🫶

[@Korolev_igo]

Hello😊

[@khrisy3602]

wow it is so rare to find people with secure attatchments in dating/relationships online that also make good and informative content - you're amazing. sorry if it seems like im glazing but its so damn true, a majority of content online with relationships is soo bad lmao. i actually went through a similar self help journey like you, except mines took years and i had tons of trauma and childhood abuse to work through. i watched a lot of HealthyGamerGG videos mainly, also reading a decent amount of articles as well as mindfulness practice and learning how to thrive and succeed with ADHD and coming up with my own loosely research or anecdotal based methods for success. edit: also maybe add "[x number] ways set boundaries" to your future video ideas list, i would like to hear your thoughts on the topic!

[@xiaobaetv]

thank u sm for the comment! It’s definitely really hard to do all that yourself .. I was stuck for my whole life until I read my first self help book and it was a speed run healing process from there 😂 I’m just starting out on KZbin (it’s been a month) and will definitely add that to my list of topics! Thank u for the suggestion 🫶