Kojo, the way you presented and explained this topic is the best, most honest, yet compassionate way I have ever heard. Exactly why I subscribed the first time I heard you speak. Thankyou for being a blessing to so many.❤
@CindymeCindy4 ай бұрын
My birth mother set out to make my sister hate me. She constantly told me she only cared about that sister. She would hold up cute tiny clothes at the thrift store to show me and I’d say “oh I love it!” And she’d say, “it’s not for you, it’s for Angie!”. She NEVER remembered my birthday but only Angie’s. I realize now that she of course DID remember my birthday but just wanted me to think she forgot. When I was with her, having fun, and then bumped my head or stubbed my toe, she would have the most diabolical laugh (a laugh like I totally deserved it). I used to say, “it’s like you hate me or something “. And she would never answer, but just give a diabolical smile and turn away. She did a million diabolical things to me to hurt me and I took it because I wanted my birth mother in my life. Finally, after 33 years she called me a “hypochondriac“ again. Both my sister and I got autoimmune diseases in our early 40s and my sister was believed, while I was called a hypochondriac. So when she called me a hypochondriac this last time , I told her “That’s it. You’ll never see me again “. I broke up with her in 2010 and never went back. Now some 14 years later, she has a vengeance for wanting me dead like you have never seen. She thinks I abandoned her for no reason and she wants me dead. Her obsession has almost killed her.
@FktGT3 ай бұрын
Compassionately explained, you are so calming to listen to. Great vibes of empathy & insight 🙏