how to know if you're trans/nonbinary

[@hache422]

as a nonbinary agender person this is sooo real, i've been trying to explain to my cis friends whats nonbinary means and they just don't get it so i just go by telling ppl im a trans guy

[@hache422]

btw English isnt my first lenguaje so sorry if i made any grammar mistake

[@Mazyb0i_lol]

I don't know what I am, I know I'm not my birth gender but my gender usually changes a little, most of the time I feel Demiboy but here lately I've been going back and forth between Agender.. AHHHHHHHH my gf said I'm probably either trigender or genderfluid but I don't like those terms

[@hache422]

@@Mazyb0i_lol if u don't feel comfortable with those terms, don't use them, labeling is not always necessary:)

[@Mazyb0i_lol]

@@hache422 it's just hard to explain to others who I am :(

[@Free_Notions]

@@Mazyb0i_lol, it feels difficult for you because you think you need to create some unique "reality" to use when presenting yourself to the world as an individual, instead of simply accepting REALITY.

[@adish1401]

Like Jamie said ones, "If your body disappears and you are just a floating head, are you still a woman?" My answer just wasn't "yes" Recently I found my old sona made in 2018, and I was pretty surprised to find out that it is indeed a dude, just like I realized I do feel right this year. For some ungodly cis reasons not only I made a dude sona to represent me, but I also knew nothing gender at the time, I just felt comfortable that way. My parents are transphobic, not in a hate trans people, but afraid of trans stuff kind of people... I tried to talk them preparing them for the findings but I think I only got myself further in trouble Seing a dude with distorted wrong looking body, while realising this body is well, pretty, is scary. I remember when I said that I might be bi mom gave me such a reaction as if I am terminally ill Well good news mom, I actually might be straight... Haha... Just not in the way you wanted...

[@aWERFRGT6545BGFG]

but body doesnt mean woman. why do people see breasts as a girl thing. Nothing is gendered

[@i3ignorantidelweb43]

I’m a trans masc in kind of denial my first dude character was the pokémon protagonist of that game in the DS5 when it asks “are you a male or a female?” (after it says it won’t matter for the storyline) and I was so hyper conscious about thinking “if I pick male in the videogame it’s different than irl and it won’t mean I’m a boy irl but in the videogame i deeply want to be identified as a male just like in my imagination” (when I was 10 I didn’t know who trans people were so even if i thought i belonged to boys I was born a girl and look like a male was a desire not applicable in real life so when I had a videogame I could make my imagination “realer” in a way)

[@batfacts_are_cool]

I'm Sawyer (he/they) and I recently started exploring my gender identity by switching up pronouns and such. I'm genderfluid, and gosh golly I've gotta say this channel is SUCH a treat. You're pretty straight to the point, and your personality has such a familiar energy to it that's just so inviting and humorous. I just want to thank you for your hard work! Here's some bat facts for you because you're cool :) -Vampire bat saliva contains a powerful anticoagulant that is used in treating stroke patients -Less than 1% of bats carry the rabies virus, and they usually pass within the timeframe of 24 hours -The Townsend's Big-eared Bat and the Spotted Bat have large ears which curl against their heads like ram horns as they rest 😌❤️

[@TheosGhost]

OMG thanks for the bat facts glad you like my channel ✨✨

[@jojogottagogo9234]

Dude your voice sounds so masculine. Not even in the sense that it’s deep (though it is quite deep), it just has this masculine vibe to it. Even before I saw your face and didn’t know you were trans, I immediately read you as a guy based on your voice.

[@Lobotomized_raccoon]

As a trans guy named Elliot, I take offense to this video. In all seriousness tho, this is probably the best video I’ve ever seen. This is the most comforted I’ve ever felt in my identity and my transness. I’ve spent the past few days questioning if I’m actually trans or if I’m just faking it and this is literally the only this that has helped me to tell my brain to shut up so thank you.

[@Vero2yu]

Actually maybe the brain is trying to tell you to stop being insane, stop believing in the Trans sickness cult, obviously you are faking the trans bcz your brain is disturbed. A person are what they are born as which is either male or female and since you will always be that then it is much better to just accept it, nobody can change from what they are since birth. So bye.

[@teeheetummytums5609]

Me: *gasps* Omg im trans! Also me, already knowing i was trans:

[@i3ignorantidelweb43]

yeah denial is a bitch

[@Honey-pies]

Gender is hard 🧍

[@Moccason]

You said it 😔🤚

[@jewelcurrie345]

As a person questioning their gender real hard, I couldn’t agree more

[@desen7752]

this really helped with my gender identity and what i am, thanks dude

[@Vero2yu]

What you are is what you are born as, male or female, also this retard behind this channel. Nobody can be the opposite to what they are born as, if you think otherwise then answer this, can people return back into the womb that they came out from? Only if you returned to the mother's womb and came out the opposite would you be one. So, no, impossible.

[@ch4lk250]

so THIS is the video i’ve needed for months. Thanks for being so straightforward and not complicating things, i have ADHD and do that enough in my head already. This gave me such a confidence boost in that i’m nonbinary.

[@rattersworld1016]

LMFAO that sounds just like me

[@emaelsb]

I was out as a trans boy for almost five years, but lots of questioning myself again, I realized i am non-binary, and I feel lot more comfortable with the term. I came out to my closest friends last week and they were all so cool about it, they asked what pronouns I would like to use, if I was gonna change my name (again!), and was just overall happy about it. Anyway, I still have to came out to my family again, which is not that big of a thing since I won't change anything. Evan is already a somewhat unissex name, and I've been using it since 2018, and I like being called he/him

[@nixdoesart7480]

as someone who selected Kat as my main name and Void as an alternative name, i am very proud that i am primarily named after a candy bar

[@macnfrogs7770]

It’s so weird looking back at ‘old’ videos (and they’re not even that old) and seeing you excited at almost reaching 800 subscribers. Congrats on 5k man, excited to see what you do going forward!

[@Vero2yu]

If the person behind this channel is female, born female, that means you can not say ''congrats man'' lol. Say male if someone is born male or female if they are born female otherwise they are not.

[@rattersworld1016]

I feel like the "dysphoric vs. insecure" thing could be solved by thinking "if I had this type of gendered body but it looked different, would I still feel this way?" If you would feel bad even as the most attractive person of that sex, then you're probably feeling dysphoria, right?

[@Joe-kj8oy]

hey, I love ur videos and I know I missed the due date but heres some questions if u consider a part 2/have the answers. context: im a trans guy, ive been out for about 2(ish) years and im trying to go stealth in a new school (I dont even know if there are any good answers to these but whatever) - I have this deep fear of detransitioning that made it very hard to come out and still kinda haunts me today (my parents always used detransitioning against me) does this mean anything? / is there anything you know of that could help? - what are some good ways of trying to get parents to say yes to medical transition? - any tips about dealing with internalised transphobia? sorry for dumping this here, dont feel obliged to reply :)

[@TheosGhost]

-fearing detransition is totally normal, but it's important to know that there shouldn't be any shame in detransitioning and you shouldn't let people hold it against you -let them get used to you being socially transitioned first and maybe provide them with resources letting them know its safe, because they might just be consuming cis media's misinformation about medical transition with minors -try to engage with more positive trans media, steer clear of truscum/transmeds because all they really do is perpetuate their internalized transphobia and look to others who have found joy in their transness (i think mars wright is my favorite advocate of trans joy)

[@whateverwerwq]

this is totally true, the thing is i´m so scared i just manipulated myself to think I dont feel like my assigned gender at birthnasdfjpa

[@cakeloverx1]

throwing this out there for ari but i had top surgery at 15 in oklehoma after being on t for a year so its not imposible but if you are turning 18 soon it might not matter anyway @_@

[@pecopeco2815]

hey i like ur ritsu pfp

[@cakeloverx1]

@@pecopeco2815 thx lawl

[@UrDad000]

I’m an anxious person and question myself a lot so vids like that are always nice :)

[@mapaug8413]

I'm afab and since I discovered what non binary is (a couple years ago) I've identified with it, but when i took the courage to tell two of my friends (both are cis) it was awful bc they barely understood anything so I've continued to tell ppl I'm a woman and idk if I'll ever tell anyone else in real life honestly, I just feel comfortable telling ppl I use any pronouns. It's really nice to find other ppl who comprehend how I feel (Sorry if grammar is bad or repetitive, English is not my first language and I'm not the best at describing my feelings)

[@Vero2yu]

Afab is your name? Also, they are not ''cis'' smh, they are just male or female like stop using the Trans infected cult words when people are just male or female. Nobody is ''cis'' so just use male and female, that is my suggestion, also stop being infected by the trans cult. Sick.

[@EggCakes27]

i liked the colour blue

[@TheosGhost]

validest transgender moment

[@angwy_goose]

im lucky to have been born with a gender neutral name (bailey) but it has such a feminine connotation to me now. i've been tossing around the name "oliver" and it's kinda growing on me,, i be a chaotic enby babeyyyyy (currently looking into a getting a hysterectomy :] ) edit: callin me out as a future "oliver" i see

[@katfanq]

LMAO when you said having convos abt gender w/ cis ppl is way too true, ive tried explaining to my dad (a 50 yr old cishet man) that im transmasc nonbinary (demiboy to be specific) & i can practically see his head explode every time i have convos w/ him abt that or that there are many other gender identities 😭

[@AndesMints94]

Unironically going inside my "Authentic" trans shirt to get warmth, like an egg. I believe I'm nonbinary, I don't really agree with feminine beauty standards, they are just unrealistic. However, I still like to dabble with makeup a little bit, as an AFAB, and who is horrible at keeping my hand steady due to being heavily medicated. It's all good though. By the way, great video! I hope to see more!

[@sezi9plays]

I’m genderfluid and when I switch to my assigned gender at birth I sometimes doubt that I am non-binary but even when I am feeling fem I still prefer my chosen name.

[@Brittani_Harmeyer]

I REALLY love this video, seeing it a long time after you posted, but I really appreciate the humor in your attitude and very straight forward approach. This video was very helpful, and affirming, as I am identifying as gender fluid, and sometimes feel like a trans man. The part about being Trans masc and still wearing femme clothes sometimes reallllllly helped ❤

[@hazbinwolf9851]

I constantly get people asking what I was born as is and I alway hesitated when i had to tell them I was a women, it never felt right

[@UntamedSimmer]

Omg thank you so very much for this video! I have been gender dysphoria since last year in late October figuring out if I'm Nonbinary or a Trans guy, and about a month ago I identify myself as Trans-Nonbinary then after watching your video this really helped alot and I'm comfortable with Any Pronouns. I am so happy and proud to identify myself as Trans-Nonbinary💜

[@teefoff5368]

i’m so confused with everything.

[@EmoPrincxss666]

I don't know you, but I love your hoodie. You're now officially my favorite person in the universe.

[@pillbugjam]

!hey, i have a question regarding name changing, might go on a little rant here sorry. My dead name holds a very special place in my heart both bc it's considered unique where I live and bc it's roots are from my mom's culture so.. needless to say i am quite attached to it even though it makes me uncomfortable, I've thought about changing it to the "masculine" version of it but my insecurities tell me that is not what a "real" trans person would do, and i feel like people close to me won't take me seriously if i do + i don't want them assuming all trans people are like me. Any tips in how to deal w this? lmao, great video tho!

[@pillbugjam]

all good if you don't have an answer btw !! just typing it out eased my mind a little so :) thanks (english isn't my first language so grammar might be all over the place, apologies)

[@TheosGhost]

I actually know a few trans people who didn't change their dead name at all despite it not quite fitting their new gender presentation, so if you want to keep it, keep it!

[@sarenwalk6639]

i was kinda in a similar situation and my name now is a more masculine version of my old one! idk how good your friends are with trans stuff, mine didn’t know much about it at first, but were very quick to use my new name and it made it almost easier? for teachers to use it too? most people i meet still take it seriously tho, and not just as a nickname, so yeah. idk, just my take, good luck dude

[@javitaxy]

Pretty late but your name is whatever you want it to be (as obvious as that is), which means that, yeah, ofc you can keep your birthname. It's your choice and there isnt a "right" or "more valid" way of being trans. I know someone who kept their name even though we speak a very gendered language, with very gendered names.

[@dontreadthisplease2416]

You could consider it making it your middle name (that's what I'm going to do if I ever change my first name)

[@i3ignorantidelweb43]

17:45 about this as trans masc I correct people by repeating the phrase if it’s possible but with the right pronouns or like i give an extended answer (just like when in english there is the short answer “Yes, I’m” or the long answer “Yes, I am” or for any other contracted verb), for example (in my language there are more feminine and masculine divisions than english) “you should be proud of yourself” (F) and I say “Yes, I’m proud of myself” (M)

[@strawberrybluu]

God I really needed that “it doesn’t matter as much as you think it does”

[@jasperthefriendlyghost6155]

One way to approach the question of whether or not you're trans, you could word it as "Can I see myself as my AGAB?" basically pretend that you never heard anything about gender, or queerness, and can you see yourself now in your AGAB position. If the answer is no, CONGRATURLATIONS, ITS A TRANS PERSON! YAYYYY

[@jasperthefriendlyghost6155]

sorry i was like half asleep when i was doing this ive woken up now i meant is you could ask yourself whether or not you can see yourself now as your AGAB. sorry for any confusion

[@lasagnafrenchtoasthoneybutter]

4:59 brobrobrobrobrobrobro! but what if I don't though...?

[@lasagnafrenchtoasthoneybutter]

can't even make my own

[@helloIisperson]

Omg i love this person! validating ppl who dont medically transition! Making it clear that dysphoria & euphoria are irrelevant! ;] i personally have dysphoria & might transition medicaly but even if i didnt **I'd still not be cis because i dont identify as my AGAB** I feel like ppl forget that so thank u :]

[@Lockwood-strangerthings]

''u cant be nonbinary at birth'' *intersex people existing*- ''am i a joke to u?'' XDDDD

[@matissecaron9076]

No one is identified non-binary at birth but some people are unassigned at birth

[@magicalgirl4]

i'd just like to mention that transneutral is a term that exists so anyone who is agender can use it!!

[@DavidBezer]

Thank you for this video it's so amazing to know I fit for sure I always thought non Binary and transgender were so different. I didn't get surgery but am socially trans at times you have really helped me and I can talk to my partner. I realized I was non binary and it really helped me made me relax the more I could dress feminine and masculine I was feeling so relaxed and weight off shoulders Loved your video

[@Indigo42Kitsune]

I am out to some of my friends and even though some of them don’t understand that I am agender, at least we are all able to talk in good faith.

[@CR1MR0S3]

my dad says im not trans because i used to love dresses and girly stuff as a kid???? what he doesnt know is i also liked boy stuff but he wouldnt let me lmaoaoaoaoa

[@TheosGhost]

bro i LOVED girly stuff as a kid and im still violently transgender

[@CR1MR0S3]

EXACTLY LMAO

[@andrea446]

I've always hated dresses and my parents say I liked it even though I cried everytime they would force me to wear girly stuff lol

[@silwerish]

I tried to come out to my mother as trans masc (not sure if am trans man) but she said something along the lines ”oh but you were girly when you were a little child, so i dont think you are trans” (im still a child, 13, so i think you could say that i was trans from very young age, dont know?) But my mother saying that kinda hurt, and now i am really scared to try and come out to anyone help. (But my friend who is also trans, i think (or demiboy)) Sorry for my bad english.

[@Frosty7575]

OK...but what if you maybe just want to identify with a gender different than what you were assigned? Is wanting to identify the same as identify?

[@Blueberryguy-b5d]

I have the same penguin plush as in the backround:D YIPPEE

[@RivLoveshine]

First, I want to mention how cool your hoodie is! I love emo music abd I used to have a shirt that said "Make America Emo Again". Secondly, I just subscribed. Thirdly, I want to mention some common childhood signs (NOT REQUIREMENTS) for being transmasc. When doing pretend play (something I did a lot) I would almost always be a man. I hated my assigned name at birth and never felt like I connected with it. I would only wear boys clothes (even down to the underwear) for a long time. I felt so upset and fought when my parents started making me wear feminine bathing suits and not just swim trunks. I tended to like boys toys and games, and I couldn't stand dolls. I didn't mind TV shows that might have been borderline/somewhat girly, but I couldn't stand overly girly ones like Hannah Montana. Now if course, someone could be transmasc and not relate to these things, but many transmasc people do.

[@sterndrache...ok.]

thanks for this video... it was nothing new for me but it was still helpful and just comfy... I'm very confused about my gender currently and it's a bit scary, but yeah... Just nice to hear people talk about this topics...

[@lasagnafrenchtoasthoneybutter]

you know, my answer to the first question (do you identify with agab) is always no, and then I follow up with, well you know, I don't like it but how do I know that that means anything? I'm dumb as rocks.

[@ratboy2]

As a (still rather confused) transmasc enby, my cis-people gender is male lol Something that helped me! How do you relate with people who are the same gender as your agab? I have noticed a certain feeling, or maybe an “essence” that is different between men and women. If you feel something like that, is your “essence” the same? (there’s also some nonbinary ones but they differ a bit more) … im wheezing rn bc in that list of “names to avoid as a transmasc (/lh)” is the name of the first trans character i ever made…. his name used to be alex and he was nonbinary, but he eventually turned into a trans man……. named _Oliver._

[@ashneuling7811]

what if i identify as a agender transmasc and want go on t because of my voice but also want to keep the more " feminine" parts of my body, am i still valid or is it wrong? also your channel has helped me a lot along my journey while coming out and i just want to say thank you.

[@TheosGhost]

if you go on t long enough to have your voice drop, when you go back off of it all of the "feminine" aspects of your body should come back (not an endocrinologist though so just talk through with one what changes you do and don't want)

[@egoiustusnuntius3682]

I am afab and was oddly given one of the names you listed at birth. I’m personally not complaining as I currently identify as transgender ( questioning ). I honestly adore your videos Admittedly, this is my first yet, a wonderful experience nonetheless. You are just so helpful and kind, I cannot thank you enough for the help you have offered to each and every one of your viewers. I understand that I am quite late to this situation though, if you happen to still be checking the comments, I do have a few questions. Even if you do stumble upon this comment, it is quite alright if you do not wish to respond as I am familiar with the burnt-out feeling that often comes with online and physical engagement with others. 1. I remember first questioning, clicking through videos during what I believe to be pride month. It was when I first came to terms with my asexuality and wished to laugh a bit, I watched some pride videos filled with memes and tips for those in the community. That was when the video had cut to some text which read “ a good way to know if you are trans is if you were offered a button to be the opposite sex. Everyone would recognize you as this gender and would remember you as though you had always been this gender. You would only get this opportunity once and not be able to reverse it, would you press it? “ I know it sounds foolish and perhaps even childish, however, it has caused a lot of thought to spur. I had instantly though that I would then, caught myself, realizing what had just taken place in my mind. As time went on, I began to think about physically transitioning. I would like to be seen and addressed as male, to have a deep voice and flat chest but, I don’t think I would actually be able to do it. I am quite honestly horrible when it comes to change and, even if it’s good for me, something I want, I don’t handle it well. Even HRT sounds a bit frightening in my opinion. I know I have to be mature and face these troubling situations though, I can’t help but fear the possibility of side effects, the knowing that things will change. I’ve been wishing to start binding for some time know but, I happen to be in not the best situation to do as such. I simply wish to know if you have any tips to assist me with this. Weather it be on how to confront this properly or any alternatives that may get me to some temporary solution that I may use for the time being. 2. You see, I am not necessarily dysphoric. I know how I wish to be perceived and do get euphoria. The levels of euphoria I receive varies from time to time, regardless of the encounter. I sort of feel invalidated by it. I mean- I know what I want, I just can’t help but second guess myself. I have considered voice training though, have had very little time to commit to it as I am quite busy and have little time alone. My desire to know and understand everything about myself and the human mind is quite contradictory as what I do not know for certain causes me more troubles. This has lead to me genuinely fearing being incorrect about my pronouns and gender. I will often panic when asked my pronouns. I know what they are and am confident however, when needing to be public about it, everything goes south. I don’t necessarily know how to cope with this as I worry that people may begin to believe that I am in fact transphobic by my lacking response to people wishing to know my pronouns.

[@egoiustusnuntius3682]

Forgive me for ending it so abruptly, i am exceptionally tired and am unable to write much more. Thank you for taking the time to read this, I wish you all the best and the fondest of valedictions

[@Vero2yu]

@@egoiustusnuntius3682 Nobody even asked you to write anything, smfh, retard.

[@bforbeautiful6273]

thank you so much for making this video, i've been so damn confused for 6 years now and this is the most informational and clarifying content that is actually helpful that i have ever received, so thank you so much for being so clear and concise and helping me realise who i am

[@n3mo1123]

I'm sure your content is geared toward people around your age/younger than you, but I just wanted to say... I'm 33 years old and this video really helped me a lot. Thank you!

[@Dodo-jw3jq]

is there a time where it is too late to use hormone blockers/go on T? i‘m 18 and i am still very confused about my gender. also my Family is homophobic/transphobic so i couldnt even start anytime soon.

[@TheosGhost]

its never too late to medically transition don't worry!

[@Echo____________]

This video help me so much im fukin cying I am a 15 yr trans boy and this valadaded me so much

[@CrescentCanine]

16:42 Called out. My name is Kai 🤣

[@d_lynn421]

For me: NB doesn't feel like it's specific enough, and TM feels too much? And I'd say Transmasc but that only applies to my physical body, presentation (clothes, etc) is more femme (bc F society, I'm still gonna wear skirts), and I still use she/her bc it doesnt bother me. I really like genderqueer, but not sure how to explain that. 🤔

[@Dannylopez8901]

I have no gender ,only social anxiety.

[@Snowbird5779]

17:23 Not my new name being semi-inspired by Lucius Malfoy 🤣 Literally no one has questioned it.

[@Fluff]

I feel like the way you put it in the beginning finally made it click for me that I don't think I am trans. Fully explaining that all it means is that you either check a box or you don't really put it in perspective for me in a way that nothing else ever has. I feel like I'm comfortable not checking that box while still presenting somewhat masculine or androgynous sometimes. So anyways you lied, some silly youtube video can tell me my gender woah thanks

[@pinguimdoclubpenguin2900]

This helped me a lot to find out who I am Thank you so much Theo!

[@Simon_is_cool34]

17:07 I named myself after Simon from cry of fear :3

[@nothing.at_all]

ok well now I'm more sure thank you really for that Video :3

[@luteixeira8658]

my mother keeps telling me that is just a phase... and that when i was younger i was feminine so im a cis woman(she also tells me that my name is beautiful and i should not change it) . i don't have any support from anyone and I have no one to talk about this. And i'm portuguese, here every single fricking word has gender, so im ALWAYS being misgendered.

[@asoftepilogue]

I randomly found this video and I just wanted to say that this really enlightened me. Thank you

[@mesholberatsonallibi]

i feel like Melanie martinize i just rescorected and realizing i’m non binary

[@rainbowdemon5033]

regarding the names: I've got pretty attached to Rainbow, since people on discord were using it as nickname. So now I'll try to get the name Rainbow in a Country that's not English speaking lol

[@grifixgod730]

2 weeks on TEA☕☕

[@mesholberatsonallibi]

i thought i was in love with my non-binary freind ,now realizing i’m probly slightly in love but mostly just jelous of their gender /look

[@oliviaullvin8894]

I have this conflicting thing that I am probably non binary and that obviously makes me trans but I don’t identify as trans, because I still identify as a part of who I am or was. I don’t know if this makes sense but I feel that I don’t want to change who I was at birth but also I don’t want to stay the complete same, it’s like I’m half trans

[@TheosGhost]

a lot of nonbinary people don't actually claim trans as a label, totally normal thing 👍

[@g5studio21]

I think the term you're looking for is demi-boy/girl

[@Gumballcom]

this is quite a weird question but if you’re intersex and you identify as genderfluid are you still technically transgender? this doesn’t apply to me but i’m just curious.

[@TheosGhost]

i don't see why not, if someone who's genderfluid wants to identify with the trans label they can regardless of AGAB or anything like that

[@gamers12086]

Iam transgender because.. 1. I dont like my male body 2. I sit down and walk like a female plus when i sit down my back gets heavy. And when i get up my legs feel weird plus i cant get up and stand completely like a male.. 3. I did wish to one day to wake up as a female. 4.i breath fast and my heart beats fast instead of being normal.. 5. My body hurts aswell.. So yeah..iam transgender..and iam trying to change my gender..because of these that has happening to me..also cool video Also i want to name myself (rose) once i changed my gender because iam a transgender. (Thanks for reading the comment tho)

[@kc3592]

i’m in a binder and still in denial

[@shadow_walks]

I cried over having a chest and still in denial =(

[@epitomicmess]

I'm commenting kinda late but I've got a super weird chosen name, Mess. Got it from my favorite vocalist's name, Jon Mess. And I'm shocked at how many people are just.. cool with it?? I've barely gotten any weird comments about it

[@myflippingleafe]

Thank you so much this helps me out cause I heard from another KZbinr that only some of the non binaries use the trans flag and I didn't know if I could use it until I saw this video trans non binary bigender and glitch gender and static gender that's me : D pronouns are They/Ze/Ve/E

[@janellecande]

love the hoodie 🖤

[@hzznipillz9711]

oah, i understand that genderfluid dude who said that he hates when someone calls him by she/her pronouns, and i just made some flag for ppl like him and me, im calling it Poli-a-fem-gender, where u can use any pronouns or/and gender positions, except female, hehhehehe))).

[@TheosGhost]

omg new gender just dropped 🥳

[@andii-]

am i agender and know it ? yes, but its swag anyways

[@koiyei]

So I’m very late (such is the way of hot people 😪) but I was wondering if you were still going to make that video where you get people to dm you pictures of their faces and assign them names? It seems like a fun video concept and I would 100/10 watch but if not that’s okay too! Thank you and thank you for this video :D

[@who2who416]

So like I'm a transmasc and know that many trans people experience dysphoria (top bottom any) but I like don't really feel dysphorick?? (I can't spell) I don't like my chest and I want to bind. I just want to know if it's normal

[@averagediscoenjoyer]

that's normal! i'm also a transmasc lad, and for me i just dislike having a chest, and to alleviate that i bind it.

[@TheosGhost]

non-dysphoric trans people exist and are totally valid and normal

[@kratosboy5557]

I’m not trans but a mate of mine is good guy

[@wetperspectives9612]

So being trans is being part of a club?

[@TheosGhost]

it is if you make enough friends 😎💪

[@oliver434healy]

Could you do Mason aka dipper form gravity Falls

[@TheosGhost]

what about dipper?

[@Everettalla]

If you’re looking for a name, my name is Lake. I think its pretty cool and we dont know each other so who caresss!

[@angelgaming4569]

Hii, if anyone could help me it'd be very appreciated! Every few months I have a freakout over my gender. I was born female but I have very high testosterone levels, I like the way my body looks, curves and breast but I genuinely believe that I would truly love myself if I had a deep masculine voice, and I always think about have facial hair! Always! But I wouldn't want to have surgeries. Having a hairy chest and deep voice whilst keeping my body feels like a dream. I always convince myself that I'm lying to myself and going crazy which ends in me crying and breaking down as I can't talk to ANYONE about this, my mom won't understand! If anyone can help me figure out what I'm feeling or anything please help!

[@JenniferT-rw8tc]

I thought having dysphoria was the whole point of being diagnosed or labeled as transgender. The dysphoria makes you not agree with your body and you want to fix it to whatever makes you happy? I have dysphoria and I am Genderfluid so the whole “you don’t need to have dysphoria” through me for a loop

[@TheosGhost]

Being trans isn't solely about medical transition and having a medical diagnosis it's just about your personal identity which doesn't require any type of dysphoria to be incongruent with your AGAB

[@Yourl0cal1diot]

I’m a trans boy Pronouns he/him/his/they/them/theirs

[@HajoonFF6123]

Just a note but if you are gendet fluid and don't feel masculine or feminine, if you feel no shift I gues to feminine than that is gender faun, and feeling no shift to masculine is gender fae. This is something I as a gender faun person stewed over for a while, and thought this might help someone.

[@christypersaud955]

ITS TRUE GOOD LORD. whilst gender is still very confusing for me i feel like its confusing in a completely different way than it is for cis people. i feel like they Literally Cannot grasp the concept of gender being something that's fluid or changeable which !!! u know !!! good for them that they were born in a body that fits the gender they identify as !!!! (i suppose that since its not a personal experience then it would be difficult to comprehend) but like its so completely alien to them which is find funny and horribly frustrating to explain. so i ,,,,,,,,,,Dont elemayo. also picking a name might be the most difficult task ever in the whole entire world no one ever at all has ever struggled as much as me. ever. very obviously a joke but somehow finding a name that i actually love and doesn't feel completely embarrassing like 20 mins later is so ??? HARD?? ive gone by loki (cause isn't set gender and also yes i Do identify as a problem), casper (deadass bc i was like,,,,casper the GHOST,,,,,ghoSTS HAVE NO GENDER!!!!), chris (shortened more masc version of real/deadname). rn im debating on nico cause ive always really liked it ??? (yes bc nico di angelo i am Also sad and gay just not Italian). this is a completely irrelevant rant but. love yall u guys r hot and valid no matter what. written by ur local triple a battery slayyyy

[@St3llaaaaaa]

I see your videos all the time so I just followed you I love your videos

[@andermadariaga7906]

I'm a trans man and i still have a partial connection to neutral genders, i'm valid? It's valid if i call myself a trans man? I'm being a guy kddjdjd

[@TheosGhost]

ya valid

[@andrea446]

Maybe you're a demiboy or libramasc, but that still counts as transmasc so yes, you are valid

[@bonnie6153]

Yay!!! I'm trans!!!

[@TheosGhost]

congrats!!

[@bonnie6153]

@@TheosGhost :)

[@helenalovelock1030]

I don’t think there should be a box to tick. Why do people have to commit to a label just because they don’t want one way or the other. I think it’s strange that you say if you don’t identify with your gender assigned at birth that you are trans. I think you are extremely wrong and shouldn’t be telling people this

[@helenalovelock1030]

Surely people can identify in between. This is like saying you are either gay or straight and only one or the other

[@flow_dojo]

❤❤❤❤

[@malougraf2705]

What is this? D: Please! Kids, do not listen to this. Trans is a medical condition and more serious than they like to think. I’m not going to say more because the internet is a hopeless place, just do your research and love yourself, your true self, and that self is not an identity, it is you.

[@patygomez5185]

no bc this is fucking genius, like i never thougth bout my gender that way and how its not that important

[@kavyabanka4482]

insane

[@stephhanes4624]

emo was never great.make america great again!

[@TheosGhost]

ur so real for this steph 🙏

[@luteixeira8658]

13:25

[@dutchxnederlandsexgirl9407]

WHY ARE YOU CALLING MY NAME OUT LIKE THAT?!?!? /jk my name is Alex BAHAHAHAH (account is this name caus parrents)

[@thirdpowerful1]

Don't listen to your psychologist, your teachers, your mom, or your guidance counselor. Listen to this kid, instead.

[@neckbackcripplinganxietyattack]

I’m still trying to convince myself I’m cis plEASE YT RECOMMENDED LET ME LIVE IN DENIAL

[@TheosGhost]

there's no escaping the inevitable 😏