How To Know When She’s Ready To See You After No Contact Works

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@reksir8098 6 ай бұрын

I've been no contact with my ex for 3 years and she has not reached out once. I have grown into a confident, desirable, and masculine man during this time. 35 lbs of muscle and 2 business degrees later, I hope that one day I find someone I can love with that same intensity... except this time without the lies, manipulation, and disrespect.

@krishna335 6 ай бұрын

If you have to play games or go no-contact often to make her value you, you're better off not investing in her. A bond either be free-flowing or non-existent.

@re_flow 6 ай бұрын

Your mindset is amazing and would be applicable in an ideal world. However, we are dealing with humans who have emotions, and not robots unfortunately. While I do get your sentiment of valuing yourself highly by going for the ones who only sees your value from the beginning, it is not practical for the common person in reality. Again, we are dealing with humans so they are bound to make mistakes. Of course, it is not a good idea to bend over backwards and let yourself to keep getting pulled the rug under you. Yet, giving others a chance is quite a loving move as opposed to none. Be firm with your boundaries, but not build walls that keeps everyone out.

@AndrewAung1992 6 ай бұрын

@@re_flow I hope you enjoy getting friend zoned, when you get too emotionally attached.

@krishna335 6 ай бұрын

@@re_flow, fair point. Give people a few chances, but if the same things continue, let go asap.

@robgrant5272 6 ай бұрын

Well said

@CreatingExcellence 6 ай бұрын

Read the book 10-15 times man. It’s not playing games, it’s improving yourself so she’s re-attracted to you. If you focus on your mission, purpose and courtship there will be no need for no contact because she will not dump you.

@daveblackman816 6 ай бұрын

This girl came running back to him, dropped so many hints, and he still was like “derp herp”.

@codederick6920 6 ай бұрын

It's interesting how guys can literally have success blind spots, due to years of lack of success with women.

@andrebaxter4023 6 ай бұрын

Dayup dayup 😂

@13sprintuser 6 ай бұрын

Most guys are like this. Especially guys that grew up without dads, like the guy in question

@Majestic_Dark_Horse 6 ай бұрын

So-so dangerous. Not back to my crib(s). Neutral arrangement: Coffee, chill, then (Front driver seat of Lexus 600 while I'm stargazing) & aftercare. She's back to repair her Super-Ego...not on my housing expense. ~Bachelor, I Stand...I'll reward you.

@lionelt7882 6 ай бұрын

I had a girl comeback after no contact, once she realized I moved on to someone else lol. Didn’t beg or plead. Just disagreed with the break up and immediately stopped all reaching out and focused on myself. When she came back, she was stonewalling during the first hang out, even tho we had sex. I didn’t get butt hurt and realized women’s emotions are always changing. She started getting flaky a week after that, probably testing, and once again…I didn’t get butthurt, just hung out with someone else. She reached back out again. Then when she came over after that, she was super submissive. You literally have to treat them like they’re cats. Edit: this was a two year relationship. The longer the relationship, and the less problems you had, the more likely she’ll come back after no contact. Not sure if it would’ve worked on a short term fling or a situation where you only dated a few times

@jamesh5552 6 ай бұрын

How long did it take for her to come back after you stopped reaching out and walked away?

@lionelt7882 6 ай бұрын

@@jamesh5552 3 weeks. But I want to emphasize…when I say no contact, I literally stopped everything and assumed it was over. It wasn’t me not doing anything in hopes of anything

@Destinyzx 6 ай бұрын

I'm in a similar situation and I walked away.

@Destinyzx 6 ай бұрын

@@jamesh5552if you are anticipating for her to come back, your mindset is wrong and you don't value yourself. A woman won't love a man who doesn't value & respect himself. You gotta walk away, focus on yourself and start seeing other people, just like what coach Corey teaches.

@giovannipantorno884 6 ай бұрын

Relationships seem amazing in your head. However when you look back your relationship with your ex is mostly shit.

@hsamzsd 6 ай бұрын

if you're a prize a good woman will do everything to keep you

@avenue.central 6 ай бұрын

Lol out of all my years of following Corey I NEVER thought I'd hear DragonBall being brought up in a video😂

@AMo1- 6 ай бұрын

Need coach to give me a kamehameha

@lukehart7225 6 ай бұрын

Same fam 🤣 it’s crazy

@yungdynamic471 6 ай бұрын

Right. I was shocked 😂

@seanc546 6 ай бұрын

I don't care how few times someone has the read book--when she brought up how she missed the sex they have, anyone with common sense would've known she was giving a green light to ask her over.

@hugorabe4395 5 ай бұрын

Well, my ex does that constantly (telling me how amazing our sex was) but yet she still declines when I ask her to come around...

@AlleyCatAirHockey 6 ай бұрын

I love when you transform into Robot Corey. Lol.

@silent1823 6 ай бұрын

Video start at 4:20

@Digitalizedx 6 ай бұрын

Coach only person I have enabled notifications on! Thanks for the continued learning!

@duckyh9712 2 ай бұрын

The emotionless robot expression had me dying

@thanosforever 6 ай бұрын

Coach Corey, It would be great if you did some live Q&A where we can pay cash to ask questions and they can be answered in a rapid fire question way.

@donovanmitchell9776 6 ай бұрын

Corey, are you blocking people from posting on your KZbin comments? I’ve noticed that comments from 2 of my accounts aren’t showing up on your channel, even though I’ve been a fan of yours for years and have said nothing but good things about you. If this is the case, then you need major help and need to eliminate this negativity and ego.

@ScaleAutoGarage 6 ай бұрын

I think certain words, phrases and references immediately get removed. It is all part of good business.

@CoachCoreyWayne 6 ай бұрын

If you are being an ass, the girls will block you. I see your negative comment here. Maybe your comments are going to spam? It happens.

@NewyJon7787 6 ай бұрын

I think back on past mistakes made and it's absolutely traumatic 😅

@sebastianrodriguez8692 6 ай бұрын

Anyone that comes into this comment section to argue, even with the Coach no less, is missing the point of his teachings. The idea here is to learn, not to debate.

@slimjme41 6 ай бұрын

Hi Corey, I’m new to your material, I just downloaded your book on audible, it’s very straight forward so far. I’m trying to get back with my Ex of 6 years, it lead me to 7 principles of getting your ex back. Which I’ve sort of been doing already, she recently reached out to me by text, but it was to ask for something of hers, I’m not sure if I should be asking her for a date or not because it didn’t seem like the tone. Do you have any specific material or videos on what to do in this situation?

@simonthepukkapieman1387 6 ай бұрын

Being aware of a women's cycle is one thing I put to the back of my mind, I just tend to plough those fields a bit more carefully as the strawberries are extra ripe😉

@brandon_pappas 6 ай бұрын

Corey, would love to hear your insight on the parallels between romantic relationships & business relationships. For example, sales methodology vs dating methodology. Sales closings vs closing for a date etc.

@brandon_pappas 6 ай бұрын

Also, in business, does strategy & technique change depending on the prospects gender?

@TCR2025 6 ай бұрын

Man, this guy is doing the opposite of everything he needs to keep her. He pushed her away

@brianbondy5667 6 ай бұрын

This is a classic case of buddy thinking he is doing better than he really is, once he hears back from her after no contact.

@jeremiahrod363 6 ай бұрын

She reached out after 7 months NC in a new relationship. Talking about my new puppy after the 3rd question I answered and ended it with it was good catching up. Did I ruin things?? It’s strange to me that she’s trying to talk to me while in her new relationship that she wanted so bad.

@Cowkill 6 ай бұрын

Her new relationship is not as good as your was. The limerence phase is dropping so she thinks about you/your relationship in a better light.

@justincaldwell8954 6 ай бұрын

Why would you want a girl that would leave her bf for another man? Even if you are the other man.

@jeremiahrod363 6 ай бұрын

@@justincaldwell8954 No I just want to make sense of why she would reach out. And if my response was appropriate

@kvs7876 6 ай бұрын

Reading the book and comprehending the book ,not the same… dog

@TonyTimpa-ll8ni 6 ай бұрын

One of my best friends, who also is an avid daygamer, hasn't gotten a date, pull, or lay in 2 years, despite approaching consistently the entire time. The dude needs major help. He doesn't realize that isn't normal. Even ugly or socially awkward guys are getting way more results than him. But his problem seems to be that he is picky beyond belief. He only goes for good looking blondes in their early to mid 20s who are in the 5'2-5'4 range. There is nothing wrong with going for these type of women. However, they show ZERO interest in him year in and year out, yet he makes zero adjustment. It would be like a chronically unemployed person ONLY applying for jobs at Apple and Amazon, getting rejected every single time, yet failing to apply for more realistic employers. I bet his approaches reek of desperation, too, now, since he hasn't gotten a single positive result in years.

@ScaleAutoGarage 6 ай бұрын

Wow the pitch for paid membership really adds to the runtime of these current videos. 😂

@CeeT-wg3hz 6 ай бұрын

You complaining while getting free information, is wild.

@ScaleAutoGarage 6 ай бұрын

@@CeeT-wg3hz assuming you know anything about me, what I’ve already paid for, or the fact that you assume you know what complaining is, is wild.

@CeeT-wg3hz 6 ай бұрын

@ScaleAutoGarage that fact that you are getting butt hurt is already crazy enough. Go ahead keep complaining

@ScaleAutoGarage 6 ай бұрын

@@CeeT-wg3hz lol, your killing me man. Butthurt? WTF? Where did you get that from? Your assumptions are off the charts!!!

@ScaleAutoGarage 6 ай бұрын

@@johnnycalderon9951 actually, I have read all of Rollo’s work and have watched a ton of Zander videos as well. It actually pays to be fully educated in all spectrums so you can come up with your own informed opinions. Corey’s stuff is still the best IMO but lacks some of the depth or the psychology of why but as he says, he may not always be right but he is never wrong.

@Hanashi_mma 5 ай бұрын

Rip one time for the goat Akira Toriyama

@Mikedastud 6 ай бұрын

Hopefully the girls read the book 10-15 times

@avantegarde123 6 ай бұрын

What if she (ex) reaches out to say that she wants to hook up, but she is in another country and won’t be back for months. To avoid the non-sexual contact, would it be okay to tell her to just talk when she gets back?

@lionelt7882 6 ай бұрын

I’m sorry, why would you want to talk instead of having sex?!😂

@highresopenings4610 6 ай бұрын

Using the creator of dragon ball to reach out again ooh shes good

@harls7317 6 ай бұрын

Video starts at 4:30

@CoachSteveJandS 6 ай бұрын

PPMM pelvis pounding meat missile... 😮😂😂

@Gwizzl 6 ай бұрын

Guys I'm hurting. Legitimately found a unicorn, she asked me to be exclusive date 3. I said I wasn't sure. Not only that but after things fizzled out the next 2 weeks, she sent a long text saying she wasn't feeling the kiss when we went back to her house. I was a virgin at the time with no experience. She broke things off. I was upset so I went to the club the next day and lost my virginity. The girl I fucked told me I was a bad kisser, confirming what the girl I wanted said to me. We haven't talked in 3 weeks. She was a needle in a haystack without a doubt and I fucked it up because of my lack of experience. Just needed to let someone know how I felt.

@Gwizzl 6 ай бұрын

@RonInTheUSA222 thanks man. Reading the book and got a number off cold approach today. Those small wins feel good. Can imagine how they pile up and feel someday

@lionelt7882 6 ай бұрын

You weren’t sure but another man probably will be. Lesson learned. On to the next one

@GTS300Coupe 6 ай бұрын

Corey if you're ever in Canada I owe you a beer

@Majestic_Dark_Horse 6 ай бұрын

@andrewlawson5478 6 ай бұрын

What if she’s an aimless uninspired person who can’t stand you because of your success AND she’s the mother of your child. You know she’s attracted to trash and coparenting from different homes will lead to the kid being exposed to less than favorable circumstances. How do you make an insecure mother feel comfortable with a purposed father?

@chriscarr7397 6 ай бұрын

No, I wouldn't believe for a moment that she'll ever be ready to see you after no contact. I would just turn her down and stay no contact!!

@CoastLifee 6 ай бұрын

Corey Wayne is really that guy!

@kenwyatt44ID 6 ай бұрын

Cory as robot. 😂❤👍🏽

@hugorabe4395 5 ай бұрын

Well, how to handle an ex-gf that always tells me that she misses the sex with me and that I was the best she ever had but still does not want to meet up?

@GregD-rm9od 6 ай бұрын

This coach Corey seems like he has some good advice but he never ever addresses long distance relationships. His technique of your # 1 goal is just to set up a dinner date for her to come over is great but iimpossible when your 1200 miles away from ex. Wish he would address individuals in my situation & what we can do to get an ex back when there long distance.

@emptysoul2757 6 ай бұрын

Uhh.. do nothing

@lionelt7882 6 ай бұрын

If your ex is 1200 miles away, assume it’s over. She has plenty of options that are just around the corner