How To Know When You've Found "The One" & Overcome Separation | Finding The One #12

In this week's episode of Finding The One, we dive into a pivotal moment in our relationship-attending Jen's sister's 40th birthday party. We explore the challenges of cultural differences, share a profound spiritual dream, and discuss the importance of overcoming societal constructs that create separation. Join us as we navigate our first public outing together, reflect on personal growth, and provide insights on how to know when you've truly found the one.
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[@Dolce916]

Every time I’m irritated by Danny’s narrowness, Jen comes in with a beautiful balance to save the day! “It doesn’t have to happen that way”- yesss we are all on different journeys even though we are all co-creators of our lives ✨

[@LizzyJ09]

lol! We want to hear about the Amazon packages 🤣🤣🤣

[@Valentina-zx1pi]

Danny and Jen watching your videos has been so healing for me, especially for how highly Danny talks about Jen. I don’t ever want a man unless he expresses himself that way about me, the way you see her deep value and how you communicate it to the world is so pure and beautiful. You truly see her as the biggest prize in your life and she honours and respects you! A very balanced and divine dynamic. Thank you for making this videos for us and for your vulnerability. ♥️

[@jadelouisetibbles]

Honestly, I look forward to every Monday and listening to you guys! As a fellow twin flame who has been brought to Egypt and is now in a relationship with a Muslim Egyptian, I can relate to this episode so much! My relationship has brought up so many battles with people around me yet I am so grateful to have the deeper perspective as you mentioned in the video about being in love with the soul more than the 3D self. As long as me & my partner understand our relationship, it doesn't matter to others! Thank you for being so raw, authentic and vulnerable as a fellow twin flame is incredible to hear just how similar this journey really is!

[@SRTsoulsessions]

Me too!!!!

[@jadelouisetibbles]

@@SRTsoulsessions oh wow! Love this!

[@dietante494]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@Iamsuhaill79]

Jen is a whole CLIP!!!!

[@chaobella6643]

I wake up excited every Monday to listen to your podcast. So many gems in this one. We want to hear about the Amazon packages 📦

[@pavloasantamaria3256]

Boom! Jen killed it on her answer!!!

[@mazytiamergytia]

After binge watching all the episodes since Thursday 😅, today something clicked in me. I can’t even explain it in words, it’s like one of those deep insights on the medicine journey ✨. That deep inner knowing what you actually mean by ‘finding the one’, that it’s actually finding the one inside of me. The pressure of finding the one externally just lifted off my shoulders. So grateful for your work guys 🙏🏼💗

[@danielledaniels6749]

I'm so addicted each week. Why? The honesty and truth behind the connection and how you get through uncomfortable moments. You're teaching so many where we didn't learn from our upbringing for some of us. Thank you❤

[@jaspreetkaur-dm9wd]

Wow!!Just brilliant. This episode is on fire 🔥

[@rahilaanwar3621]

I agree with Jen, if there is no marriage and a woman dedicates her life to raising a family, come divorce time, she has drawn a short straw. If the world was perfect, full of honourable people, be-it man or woman, it would be fine. But the fact is that there are plenty of people out there who would deprive you of your rights happily! Not everyone is honourable like you Danny.

[@sunsuel8888]

Danny and Jen Thank you for sharing your story. I feel like I know you from a million lifetimes :)) My partner and I live in Poland, and our relationship is completely different but in the some time very similar. We woke up together and help each other find ourselves within ourselves. I really value your honesty because it allowed me to find a puzzle piece. I set the intention for our paths to cross, and it would be great to sit together by a campfire

[@allthingsvalery8320]

My Monday novelas 😂 I love you guys

[@sharonbarrerogarcia]

This episode spoke to me soooooo much. Jen what you said about the lessons with you partner and non attachment really helped me with my current relationship situation. I am going to definitely have to replay this episode a few times. And YES please we need to hear about the Amazon boxes, especially as I'm one to get many boxes 😂 as I live in the country away from the shops 😊

[@melindagrose9589]

You know you've found the one because the question disappears.

[@merilyncampos-yz4ne]

This episode is so good!! Every Monday as I’m on my way to work, I’m excited to tune in and hear about your beautiful love journey. I deeply value your honesty and truth. Loved how you addressed race in this episode. As Latina/ Jew, a child of a Jewish mom and a Latino dad I could identify. And P.S to Jen, we want to hear about the Amazon packages

[@charlottemacdonald4167]

This is a conversation about feeling and being treated like the "other". Even though I appear white, I am 75% Celtic with brown spots called "freckles"; Irish/Scottish with a well known history of cruel discrimination by the British lasting 800 years. Also my family made is well spoken and loves being educated. It's a rich tapestry, and because of this we kids matured, at least mentally, early. Intelligence was protected and encouraged by thoughtful conversation. My family was liberal and progressive, which we think might have been because of some French Huguenot ancestors. This background one would think could only be an advantage in life, but for me, as a teenager, moving into a small town in California, people were terrified of me. I had no friends for 6 years and there was some overt negative activity towards me, as well. Being treated as the "other' (excluded) ; having to live daily like there was something lacking about me, could have discouraged me from experiencing a fulfilling life. It's a terrible experience, at times, because people attack one's personal life as well. I have reflected on this alot generalky, and a few years ago I made friends with a Mexican/Italian woman in San Francisco where I lived for many years. She opened my eyes to the ongoing persecution she routinely suffered. I had no idea. But as time passed I realized that treatment was the same as what I had experienced, and I settled on the idea that the primary emotions discrimination is based on is fear and jealouly. Jealousy is not a benign, mild, negative emotion, it is attacking and pernicious; character assassination I learned this in the corporate world. Race, or anything else people don't like about you is simply a pretext to mask the fear and jealousy. People use it to manipulate others into doing what they want, and it is intimidating, but identifying the hidden emotions behind it is freezing. It loses its power. One more thought, intelligence (intellectual and emotional) can be threatening to some people as well, since they have not learned to think and converse. So sometimes it has nothing to do with race, but again the pretext is used. My reaction to you and Jen is that you are quite similar in your intelligence; she also comes from a background of persecuted (scaoe goated) people. There is a sympathy in both of you that is same. Very lovely. I hope you won't argue too much, but take a step back and breath deeply, then embrace each other in friendship and love. ❤❤❤❤

[@chrisvine8065]

Danny, your answer to the question was SPOT ON! I love it when I've had my special me share their goals and aspirations and I especially love it when they ask for my input. I feel the value me and I am someone special to share with. So good! Thank you.

[@hippie_pilot]

Omg what Jen said at 28 minutes was GOLD, thank you for reminding me not to get attached to an idea/person/outcome!! Also Jen's hair looks amazing so if amazon packages have anything to do with it I must know.

[@lunifo333]

YESSSS

[@gamarberhum9039]

Gush! You guys are wonderful together and amazing communicators 😍 you shade light to all the important yet minimally addressed issues in our marriages... Love you🥰

[@elinabek2373]

I love this podcast, thank you ❤️

[@user-pq4ti2dk7d]

I love you both!! I love how raw and honest you are!! I get excited every Monday knowing I get to see you both again!! In addition to all the knowledge and wisdom you both share. Thank you❤

[@emilyyoungblood444]

I’m on a journey of finding the one (in myself) . But I love hearing your story and all of your knowledge as Individuals and in a relationship. It gives me hope.

[@reginayoder1214]

Another beautiful one!!!! I listen as I'm on my morning walk, you make me smile, I'm shaking my head in agreement n I sign off invigorated!! Thank you so much!!!!!

[@bearojas2941]

Amazing episode ! Full of so much valuable information !!! Thank you 🙏🏽

[@valeskaguerrero1976]

Beautiful! No BS. I love it! 🌸

[@KenaCiscomani-we7gm]

I was feeling I missed you guys and was super sad because I had cought up with the videos and suddenly remembered yesterday was Monday! 🎉 and here I am excited to learn so much from you!

[@SandraGomes-et9rk]

The best episode ever. I needed this so much. Jen you are a gem.

[@eleonorarusso3481]

Jen you totally nailed it

[@prabhjotsidhu1170]

Thank you for the show . You guys supported my believe. I was so in middle of situation, where I felt weather it exits or not, the love , the connection , that deep. I was always thinking my mind is just creating an illusion, but listening to your all episodes till date , made me clear about all the experiences I am having. I was brought to same situation again n again till my inner said to work on myself. And today’s episode made me so confident and proud to accept that, even if I feel myself in twin flame relationship, still its journey of finding myself and working on myself. My heart to both yours hearts : so much love. So much blessings

[@maritanizam9124]

Gong to work now. Can't wait for my Monday routine of listening to your new episode when I get home. It makes my Monday fun!

[@nicoleheynes9927]

Ooooof this episode got me good 👏🏽👏🏽

[@Ela-fu5pz]

Love 😍 your story, you are an work in progress. Genuine couple. You deserve the very best

[@chrisvine8065]

Jen, your answer to the question was so good! Very, very wise and I concur,

[@Spoiledlittlesisters]

I am so happy you shared your number guides and the luggage when asking is she the one. I do this and I felt crazy sharing it with others. And I always got my answer in such a knowing way

[@katherinsohrabian2848]

Another great episode ❤️🦋

[@alexandrasofiiia]

Oh you know we want to hear about the amazon packages😂

[@noushnrz2818]

Sponsors to sposor all those fine Amzon packages please 😂😅🤣 love it guys and love the transformation from the beginning to the end! Thanks as always 🤍✨️

[@lunifo333]

More Jen please . We love her ♥️

[@tabithabocook4593]

Absolutely best questions. And The answers given 🤴👸🏼

[@tabithabocook4593]

After the story, having q & a podcast sessions would be divine too :)

[@oneliamartin7488]

I want to hear the story about the Amazon packages 😂❤️

[@Sassssha87]

Epically on point 👌👌👌👌👌❤

[@moncyliu99]

You guys should start a dating app for the people who follow you and your students so that we can meet like-minded people that are on the same page with your teachings. This would save us soooo much time😅

[@dulcermz4937]

Amazon packaged yessss! And it should be a clip 😅😂

[@vidalamari7141]

Getting excited for Miami Awaken 💚

[@tanikaallen11]

Beautiful💞

[@fernandapinillos7983]

Love you guys!!!! I laughed a lot with Jenn today! My husband showed me the AMAZON orders for this past month: 20! 😱😂🤣 I knew it got serious when as driving into the driveway the other day, he got so excited, his fave lighted up, and he said: “wow, no amazon boxes today! Yeahh”” my poor baby! 🤣😂 he is the best, so i told him i can take a break I deleted the app! For a while though, cant make promises 😂😂🤣🤣 they make it sooo easy for you to place orders! Seriously! 😂😂🤣

[@flatminni]

I love that Jen acknowledged some people have more than 1 partner and that some people are not meant to be with just one person their entire lives. Some are, and some aren’t. And that is okay. And I disagree about the law, if a man and woman aren’t married and they weren’t legally married, the woman would be on her own with nothing. The law exists for a reason. Remember that. 😊

[@hellosunshine53]

the challenge is to stay in love and not go into fear in our life circumstances

[@lesliestewart6239]

Thank you for this podcast, I've become like everyone else - excited to see a new one pop up. My ex H is definitely one of many 'soul contracts' - his was a biggie for me, and we were only together 5 yrs. I grew up in a white affluent town (SF Bay Area, but still not super diverse) and then at college, it was a very diverse city. I fell for a hispanic boyfriend, and that started my journey of different races that I dated, (also dating white men and my ex H is jewish) - so much so my friends called me 'the Beneton girl' l- but I've always felt 'love is love'. In my Human Design I'm in a more selective phase now (6/2, and the 6 line at 50 yo starts a 'soulmate or bust' cycle which is exactly how I feel) so it's interesting but feels true

[@catalin.bautista]

#amazonpackages I have invited friends to learn together, a trigger always arises, an aha moment and above all, responses and confirmation. I am intentionally looking for the triggers, intentionally knowing myself and healing. Thanks for the podcast ❤❤❤

[@landcal]

Love the episode. I normally agree with much of what Jen and Danny say, but the discussion about race in the USA vs. UK was a bit off for me. I am American and have lived in London for about 8 years and trust me, it is VERY racist here. I was never a race-focused person and discovered how racist America is later as an adult. But living in the UK, oh boy! It's on a whole other level. Maybe in Jen's circles they are more open-minded, but I find London to be multicultural but EXTREMELY divided by race, culture, and class. I would go as far as to call it rigid, and I find it so disheartening that I am likely going to move back to the USA. Maybe things are worse for people racialised as Black. I wish it were different. Though I do agree that being in multicultural spaces and relationships can be great opportunities to breakdown separation mindsets, and I love the message of finding the one as finding yourself. And holy moly, at 34:13, that point about being seen is so profound.

[@nataliakmiecik7254]

Last question … good advice something for me ❤

[@lesliestewart6239]

Amazon Packages!!! ;-)

[@vidalamari7141]

Amazon packages!!! ❤

[@heyitslo]

Curious on going deeper in what Jen meant by this lifetime being your last together!

[@rahilaanwar3621]

By the way guys, I want to hear the Amazon packages story please 😁 also there were lots of adverts this time, is this going to be the case now?

[@queenE7497]

Is there somewhere in the UK u can recommend for mushroom journeys? Thanks

[@janethrodriguez6973]

We totally want to hear about the Amazon packages 😂

[@karliperold1223]

Danny this question is for you. I related so much with you when you spoke about your spiritual messages you received telling you that Jen was going to be your life partner. It wasn't an easy journey because there were many bumps in the road particularly, Jen telling you that you weren't her person at that time. My question is, how do we overcome that? How do we keep on believing when we know with all our heart that Source has given us a message, but in reality life hasn't quite caught up yet. I am experiencing the exact same thing you did and I want to know if you have any advice. Thank you. Karli From South Africa.

[@andrea.karacic]

💚

[@eleonorarusso3481]

Amazon package please 😂😂😂😂😂 Want to know how Danny reacted

[@dietante494]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@trakalosabby]

How do you know you found the one? Starts at 22:52✨✨✨

[@elena-251]

🙏🤗

[@bellagoode6200]

Amazon package story pleaseee

[@cynthiashouse4631]

What do you mean by “doing ACL” together? I tried looking it up and all that comes up is a tendon

[@iamandreadaniela]

Austin City Limits! It’s a live music festival in Austin 😇

[@KatWyb]

Danny you should have bought lottery tickets!!

[@lraejo]

Fuck this is good!

[@eleonorarusso3481]

Hahaha 🤣 he’s back online

[@SRTsoulsessions]

Amazon story please!? lol 😂

[@Kelleynolimit]

Kind of a skewed interpretation of California no fault laws guys… otherwise I’m enjoying your podcast!!

[@user-tw7bp3nr4d]

I know race is such an important topic for people, but I don’t see Danny’s race or colour (if that’s the right word), I just see Danny xx

[@rosiewright2935]

I keep hearing Selina cry, is that my imagination?

[@ChristinaKM]

I have a Colombian friend, she always knew she would marry a white man, she did and they have been married happily many years ❤

[@janicesilva3002]

😂😂😂

[@rimsbi8649]

🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸

[@chrisvine8065]

Danny, you are not the norm. I've seen most marriages where the men screw over the stay at home mom. Even with seemingly a "nice" guy for 32 years.

[@Camille-st6mz]

Amazon packages 😂. Tell us the story

[@ivapetrova4447]

I disagree age does play a big role in perceptions and understanding and race does as well based on the upbringing and cultural differences not because of skin color which does not matter. This is my opinion, thanks :)

[@Soul_whisperer_]

It’s terrible that the outer appearance of people, religion etc needs to be discussed. Because it shouldn’t matter at all. I don’t feel comfortable at all listening to the discussion about “jewish girl” and the darker skin of Danny etc. I am so grateful that I grew up in a family where it was only important what kind of person you are and not how you look like, where you come from, what is your religion etc.

[@ZahraaNoori-ci4ci]

Lovvvvvve to listen to you guys talking about your story ,, and yeah danny you said you wanted to talk about that amazon packages subject , why changed your mind🥲