HOW TO KNOW YOU’VE FOUND “THE ONE” - TMI PODCAST KE - EPISODE 17

After last week's very triggering episode (check out "Episode 16 - How to know your partner is cheating" if you haven't), we are on the other side of the spectrum this week. How to know you have found or you are with 'the one'. We appreciate that 'the one' means different things to everyone. We also know that the one may not be this 'soul mate' but it is the one who aligns with you in a healthy way and you are both committed to each other. That said, we will are using 'the one' for the purposes of this conversation. The one who you want to spend your life with, the one who has inspired the best in you, the one who you have a happy, healthy relationship with and are committed to have a future with. We have been with enough wrong ones to know that there is something different about the ones we find ourselves with now. We each have different reasons why but the feeling is the same.How did you know yours was “ the one”? Let us know in the comments.
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[@sashawambui]

I just came here to say that as every episode goes by I fall more in love with Lydia 🤣 She is so emotionally intelligent and articulate 😍🥰

[@evawacu7712]

My thoughts exactly

[@_incarnate]

Say no more!!

[@mimikanini7259]

💯

[@winnienjeri7425]

We're super happy for Lyd.Aren't we? Bacauseee ghurrrll been smiling whenever she talks about Mike.😊😊😍

[@missfuraha]

A few years back I couldn't relate with most of these points🤦‍♂️the getto!I thank God for peace and genuine love💕I conquer with all these points, I pray whoever is reading this comment get the one you deserve and blossom 💕

[@estherkinya3643]

Submission is a natural reaction to real love.

[@tetyootornado5881]

Who else feels this Podcast should be one of the courses in Campus, I mean can lectures review their Course Outline!!

[@princessly_precious]

Totally 💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@rosemarymbonika8945]

Pleaseeeeeee pls consider doing a duo with over 25. I love u guys so much keep up!

[@ChifuTamurai]

I second this please consider

[@__mwesh__]

Yeeees! Yeees yes please!

[@nancyndichu8088]

looking forward to that day too

[@sharonoluoch9824]

Yees please

[@nyamburawaritho]

Miiiike look what you've done to our Beebs😍 like Lyd is all smiles at the mention of Mike or talking about him😍😍😍we love to see it as inbetweeners❤️❤️

[@winniewangui9661]

I absolutely agree when you're with the right person you have peace, you feel relaxed and happy and when you're making decisions together it makes you feel appreciated.

[@periswamwea7584]

Hapo Kwa fights I've learnt alot from Murugi all the way since Yummy mummy era. I honestly was the toxic one in terms of how I handled conflicts. Rn am a pro in drawing boundaries and creating healthy space for everyone to express their feelings bila judgement

[@___luvuno]

Watching this episode as you tick your boxes confirming he's definitely "the one" feels so nice 😭❤

[@_incarnate]

Lydia, YOU ARE THE ONE !!

[@carolegachanja5372]

For me, I knew I have found the one when we both have the same Goals in life and you are partners in everything and they always motivate you to do and be better and they support you to achieve your Goals in life.

[@nafularakuomi44]

Aaaaaargh! I keep loosing focus by the mere fact of how happy, calm and contented Lyd is speaking of her relationship. I tap into that when it's time for me 😊❤. Loving the nuggets kama kawaida 👌🏼

[@mrnguitui8490]

Hats off, Mike. Kazi yako tunaiona ✊🏾😌

[@deenimu1078]

I really love this episode❤️. Despite being in a long distance relationship and still knowing he is “The One" makes me move more forward ❤️. Long distance is like a headache that is always there with you 🥺, Heals at the airport hugs and starts again at the airport goodbyes🥺. Glad I know he is the one ❤️😘.

[@queenluigi]

You are wise Lydia. Watching y’all from Uganda!

[@debrahkantas9843]

I am regretting why i didn't find this channel early enough. I really feel at peace listening to you guys

[@viviannabulime1218]

Me too girl , me too😍

[@julietakech4957]

I was literally taking notes, rewinding and replaying over and over again.... meanwhile writing notes on all the reasons im going to give man's as to why I'm leaving our suituation.im struggling to have relearn and refind my self worth but let me just say just by listening to this I know for a fact that he's not the one.so thanks lydia and murugi .also not that I've not always known that he wasn't the one I just really needed to hear it from big sisters😜

[@sharonwanja7303]

Just followed you guys, done a recap of all your episodes and they are informative as in you ladies are the it

[@moraamageka5058]

Mungu alijua tu natafuta the one cant wait fr the guide thnks loves 🥰☺️

[@K_GWG]

I believe that when you know...you know! 😌 You always know. If they are the one or not. Just but at times we are in denial, and hopeful that things will get better. But you always know who is good for you ☺️!

[@kalambasharon1428]

Okay after this episode I just figured none of the ones I thought were the ones none was,geeeez, earth is tough ooooo,lol 😂 but heeey,at least I have a list of things to check when I feel like I have found the one😂😂

[@fahadaabdullahi7660]

Hello beautiful ladies. this has to be my favorite episode of TMI. I can just listen to guys all( which I do, I’m always in your Dms 😭). Keep doing the hood work sisters ❤️

[@dicostakawira2617]

TMI is always my number one podcast, I love you guys. Always glowing ❤️❤️❤️

[@janenjoki4815]

can you make this episodes two hours long?.Iam obsessed ,so much wisdom.Thank you for sharing yourselves with us.

[@effieoluoch9959]

Finally, my Wednesday just got better, love you guys

[@judychebet613]

You 2 are a powerful combo......Ever since I subscribed to TMI.....I love it

[@samanthamueni6322]

Lydia i love you girl you make this show worth watching much love guys ❤️💙

[@trevormbuthia5019]

Loving this!! Sitting in silence is the one for me. Without feeling the pressure to talk when you don't want to is amazing. Can't agree more, the feeling is so calm and amazing.

[@wambuikiiru2474]

Its the part "pause for effect" amazing episode ladies

[@AZ-be1om]

iam learning alot Murugi & Lydia keep it up From Malawi

[@geah6205]

Was following up on Eric omondi's tea...I am here now team TMI

[@viviannabulime1218]

Definitely taking notes here, thank you ladies.

[@bilhajoy]

A must watch show!!!! Keep doing it for us my beautiful women ❤ 💕

[@hallejudy]

I enoyed this episode I was all smiling. One thing I would add that has caught my attention is; the one is attentive to the little details. I'm a big talker and a sucker for details. That's something I've always battled with in my past relationships. But with Steph it's his attention to things I least expect him to remember. I'm glowing like silly teenage girl in love

[@_nelimma]

Finally guys I have been waitingfor you to upload 😂😂😂you guys are part of my Wednesday routine

[@maureenchelimo6466]

Its how Murugi says "Lydiaa!😂" when she is kidigo disappointed in her😂

[@winniemomanyi4810]

Love love love listening to the TMI podcast very educative..insightful.Like every time i listen to it i learn something new .So proud of you ladies ❤️❤️

[@Karenbugingo]

Hi ladies, Love love your Chanel. Literally Wednesday never comes soon enough because my ladies and I are always ready for a new episode. However as a Rwandan, just wanted to say; Please be mindful when mentioning about the Genocide because it’s a very sensitive issue for all of us who have been greatly impacted. I know Murungi means no offense to anyone( because you are just awesome🧡) but just wanted to highlight that for your Rwandan audience which is here cheering you on. Anyway keep shining ladies, so much love from here Kigali-Rwanda 🇷🇼✨

[@conqueror3928]

Thank you so much Karen. I was looking for a way to phrase this! I know they mean no harm at all but it is a sensitive one!❤️

[@wambuimburu8317]

Okay, I want Lydia's voice on radio please 🥰🥰

[@kcr7prince]

You guys are amazing 💕 late watcher peweni mbili mbili.....

[@cycy6861]

weuuuh guys kumbe i was not subscribed!! love you guys

[@ninaemonde1726]

Loved this!1 I've never resonated with anything so much. Everything you said! Right on mark. And yes ladies you need to push yourself out of what you don't want to get what you deserve.

[@thegodlyprincess_kenya]

Me telling my man my struggles then he says oh pole Sana so utadu? Also me: In whose hands are we safe, tell me Murugi Munyi&Lydia In whose hands are we safe🤣 Anyway, may God sustain your marriage/relationships so that you continue sanitizing us with wisdom. #nomorecharacterdevelopment✌️

[@simplegirljusttrynnalive.6776]

🤣🤣🤣in whose hands

[@cl499]

😂😂😃

[@sakuraesther6309]

Leave

[@cl499]

Is it not weird, that all these green flags will be there and at some point they still betray you? I have learnt to have no expectations and just enjoy the moments,and keep an open mind

[@wanjiruwambugu5215]

Omg Lydia!!!!!! 😍😍😍 I pray, I summon, I manifest, the happiness and glow you have❤️🥳. We love to see it girl! ☺️☺️

[@beloncekamz2821]

I'm one hour late to the party😭😭 aki si kupenda kwangu. 17 is a special number for me😘. Topic moto moto kama kawa😍🔥🔥, keeping 💯👏🏾. Nawapenda tu bure.

[@ceciliawanjiru4473]

weuh i had to pose nione kaa nimesubscribe...this is too much wisdom in one day.......yea i had done the thing.....thumbs up gals

[@TheCookingNurse]

The moment Joan mentioned not a vitz i was down🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 how are people not following this channel yet, like yoooo

[@solvewithwinnie]

Oooh Sam not psalm. This made my day😂😂😂

[@EmmahRoberts]

Love this conversation, am thankful to have the one!

[@sakuraesther6309]

Do you have additional tips

[@J.G7088]

You two together are just...’the one’

[@joycenyambura2637]

The episode was fiiire

[@njerikimani648]

Its the filling your cup for me😪. Especially if you've been in a draining relationship previously kwanza😒. The peace ❤ you never disappoint us. Always an in betweener💫

[@mollykabuteh7144]

Kila mtu akona kitenge??? Y'all gave me the push...get ready, I'll invite y'all

[@judithbosibori5628]

another one on knowing that u have found the one always happy when you talk about the person ..there is just that feeling.......

[@wahubabz]

New sub. Love your content.

[@florahleivas]

I love your conversations ❤️❤️❤️

[@Ruethamy]

I love it here 😊

[@margaretkanganga4882]

Every time i was around my ex he always told me i was extremely slender like a primary school kid ,,it was really hard to get out of that toxic relationship but thank God i finally found the one comfortable with everything in me.

[@SafariByHal]

And Lyyyddd😭😭😭 si happy for you girl!! The jouuuurrrnneeyyy some of us have had same tear seasons and now love seasons.. see God!!!!

[@sylviawangui219]

LYDIA you are it!!!

[@furahathestar]

Murugi😅😅😅you are soo funny...Kwanza the Psalm part..Lydia was sooo sure😅

[@SafariByHal]

You know how it feels when am just doing my check box am like tick ✅✅… aaah love is definitely beautiful with the one

[@thegodlyprincess_kenya]

Yaaaaaaaaaas thanks for the shout-out💋💋💋💋💋💋💋

[@TheCookingNurse]

Joan please pay, please we don't want trouble, the whole time i was yelling please don't bettttttt🤣🤣🤣

[@IamWamise]

Amazing content ! Just something ....the video seems to be a bit off...like there's some 'layer' on top . We normally call it noise. Please don't come for me. just trying to make the viewing better.

[@annewacuka]

Joooaaann!! You better give Lyd that 5,000 cos yooo, I was shouting that you didn't know Psalm was Kim's kid😂😂😂😂. You love the Kardashiansss...

[@marthamwaura882]

Loved the topic..am abit conflicted thou coz am thinking am i the right person for my partner....yes i love him ,he brings me peace and i feel its mutual but then when it comes to timelines we are not at per..we have 6 year age gap he is ready to settle am not so am here asking myself if 'will this be a deal breaker at the end'?...am i really right for him or am i just wasting his time ..(thinking out loud)

[@Ms_ivayo]

Hey mama, have you both talked about it? Have u communicated how u feel to him? Maybe you should 🤗

[@bettykanjatv]

Tuned🙌

[@Carolyn_kagure]

Fire episode as per usual

[@beatricemuringi4120]

Great content. Just wondering, could you talk about the different forms of intimacy. Coz pple be out here believing sex is the only way to be intimate.

[@meggykarimi9982]

T...time E... energy E... effort M... money... Men spent this 👂where thier heart is✅

[@catherinemaina3146]

Mimi na Murugi kwa games would be same wozap. No doubt! Very competitive 😎

[@mariemartin593]

I've been busy,but I can't miss TMI Here I am 😍

[@jenwm]

After seeing mike on insta, Lydia did the thing

[@tps8518]

I wanna visually meet him😍

[@shanieTemima]

Effort Energy Time Money. I love you ghels.

[@shishh2516]

May God copy paste the peace and calmness i have seen in lyds to my life

[@kareynjeri3982]

new word in town "from lovely lydia" the word is .............""""dynamics """"!!!!

[@angelawamuyu4769]

its the I for me....what about me ?love love you guys

[@michellekahia]

You guys should definitely do the episode on how to fight.

[@WangariKihato]

I would recommend kitt Kiarie's channel for this one. She did one with her mom, Apondi.

[@michellekahia]

@@WangariKihato Thanks

[@faithmbeke9771]

Tunned in inbetweener , I hope I find the one someone once told me if a guy tell you I'll get married at a certain age ps just know yr nt in the picture, I was like so what are we doing?🤣

[@esthermuthoni2765]

It's sad, the anxious Lydia of the 2nd relationship? Thats me right now 😪

[@mercywambui4498]

Love u guy's

[@rizikimichelle5885]

Great conversation. As a single girl I’m getting Fomo for days . But I’m really happy for any lady who is experiencing beautiful things and love .

[@nginamusembi4730]

Murugi.....pay the 5k already....🤣🤣

[@joyceodhiambo6274]

I thank God I found the one.

[@musinare]

Episode 17💃💃💃💃💃💃💃

[@firdawsalaga3919]

Hiii, can you add subtitles to the part you speak Swahili 🥺. Nice content by the way, ❤️, 🇳🇬

[@bethnyambura6720]

He's definitely the one 😍

[@_incarnate]

😄 Celebrate??

[@bethnyambura6720]

@@_incarnate foshooo 😂

[@mariellewambui2036]

❤️❤️💜💜💙💙

[@nimo2681]

Am just here thinking 🤔...

[@shery553]

here after the break up 😭

[@brendakipchoge5784]

Murugi you guys are not allowed to make me cry☹️☹️. Self betrayal!! Mimi someone constantly kept telling me either directly or indirectly how I should tone down on my boldness. They were like, when you are with people you need to just chill and listen, ati hoooo sijui it's good to listen and say little. And even the devil knows how I can die doing that 😂😂😂 I love expressing myself, I feel like am very eloquent. But then now this kiguy is making me question myself. You guys are so refreshing 🙂🙂

[@Tru.kwamboka1]

I really loved this episode, won't lie. But after the scandals murugi has been having, things changed. No one is perfect but why depict your relationships as perfect, giving your audience a false hope. Maybe the topics should just not involve love or "the one". As a fan am hurt, this is really affecting our brand.

[@Tru.kwamboka1]

Anyway I tots wish you all the best ❤️

[@annwachuka1893]

It's how Lyd says i got it for me.

[@agneswanjugu5494]

❤️❤️

[@penelapymwende6272]

😂😂😂I just laughed when Murugi insisted on betting 5K when she was definitely very wrong 😂😂😂

[@rispermuthoni3076]

💖

[@wawiragichobi5886]

Murugi trying to cheat. We see you. Pay Lyd already.