How To Make A Guy Miss You Even If He's Already Gone. Make a Guy Always Think About You When Gone

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Elliot Scott

Elliot Scott

Күн бұрын

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@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating 5 жыл бұрын
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@bcvc3365
@bcvc3365 6 жыл бұрын
this will work with guys that have an avoidant attachment style...but in the end the cycle will start again ..he will lose interest and pull away again. save yourself the heartache and just let him go.
@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating 6 жыл бұрын
agree with this 100%
@gmatinky3965
@gmatinky3965 6 жыл бұрын
BC VC Yess Amen
@makeitcount2985
@makeitcount2985 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed any man that can't act like an adult should not be chased
@jhangirshah4163
@jhangirshah4163 5 жыл бұрын
Spot on!!!
@naynamangalore
@naynamangalore 5 жыл бұрын
Seriously, let him go what's not meant to be is not meant to be!
@maryswenson5357
@maryswenson5357 6 жыл бұрын
If he wants to make it happen he will make it happen. Stop thinking about it until he comes back
@weekendgetawaywithme
@weekendgetawaywithme 6 жыл бұрын
Geez! Why can’t I accept tha?! Is it my ego? Am I mentally challenged? Am I addicted to pain? What is it?!!! Ugh.
@maryswenson5357
@maryswenson5357 6 жыл бұрын
BeautyBeholder know what you mean it's hard keep reassuring yourself you are worthy of real love
@Blondie727
@Blondie727 6 жыл бұрын
BeautyBeholder Watch Sheraseven1 here on KZbin. She is like the sister/aunt/mom that you never had to coach you. She is also entertaining and funny as well. She makes a lot of sense and is all about ladies empowering themselves to get a man that treats them very well. I’m a bit older and still trying to figure things out. Some ladies don’t feel complete without a man and end up settling.
@coneko
@coneko 6 жыл бұрын
BeautyBeholder I can totally relate to you because it means that the guy has all the control no matter what. If he likes us he gets us and if he doesn’t then he moves on with no fuzz. Seriously, this is mentally and psychologically exhausting trying to profile the opposite sex since we are wired differently. No wonder people turn to same sex marriage 😝. Jokes aside, in other words we cannot control other people it’s best to invest in ourselves than investing on others hoping they love us back.
@nunya257
@nunya257 5 жыл бұрын
BeautyBeholder They say it’s really an addiction. Literally in the same part of the brain as drug addiction. Every time you think about him it’s like a little hit of that drug so it keeps you hooked. You don’t have him so all you have are thoughts of him, so you obsess and scratch that itch. Just like I do. The only way to get over him is to keep redirecting your thoughts when you think of him. And journal about what you’re thinking to get it out of your head.
@beckyzolu5072
@beckyzolu5072 5 жыл бұрын
He came back.... Then decided I didn't want him😂😂
@lollipoprandom5249
@lollipoprandom5249 4 жыл бұрын
Damn!!!! Good for you.🥰
@caterinadelgalles8783
@caterinadelgalles8783 Жыл бұрын
Excellent 100% 😂
@MJordangame6
@MJordangame6 7 ай бұрын
😂😂❤❤
@martinecooper6669
@martinecooper6669 5 жыл бұрын
Games games all f-ing games!!!!! Just tell me you're thinking about me, you miss me, and I'm driving you crazy. Dammit, I can't stand games
@aquatarotmarjie_g1368
@aquatarotmarjie_g1368 5 жыл бұрын
U remind me of a young Abe Lincoln
@AleViridiana
@AleViridiana 11 ай бұрын
😄😅😂
@dirlenelopez6033
@dirlenelopez6033 5 жыл бұрын
If a guy really likes a girl and she likes him, there is no need for anything... things just happen naturally. I prefer this way... it has always been like this for me.
@freedomringshome4984
@freedomringshome4984 5 жыл бұрын
When I'm done, I'm done. Cold turkey. No games and no coming back.
@Bella-Mae0422
@Bella-Mae0422 5 жыл бұрын
Guys start missing you and going crazy is when they think you really are done and that there is nothing you can say or do to change your mind. It doesn’t work for every girl but if the guy ever cared about you romantically at one time he’ll miss you when he thinks you’re no longer an option.
@AuthorJanaeMarie
@AuthorJanaeMarie 6 жыл бұрын
I'm 31 years old I am too old for these games. If you take 24hrs or longer to respond then you lost out. I know my worth as well.
@ashleydiaz8739
@ashleydiaz8739 4 жыл бұрын
Reading with Janae Marie I just turned 31 ..I’ll be honest.. I’m terrified of ending up alone
@ladennayoung2939
@ladennayoung2939 4 жыл бұрын
@@ashleydiaz8739 don't be! If it's God's will the one He have for you will be there right on time. Try to focus on building yourself in the meantime. It will be alright either way.
@XxxX-wx3er
@XxxX-wx3er 4 жыл бұрын
Ladenna Young - God has nothing to do with it. People’s husbands die all the time and they end up alone. Life is life, if you go out and find a guy, you get someone, if you don’t, you don’t. Life is life and we make our own future.
@beckytull8505
@beckytull8505 4 жыл бұрын
Ashley Diaz oh please girl, 31 is still young. I’m 42, still look 31 and I can’t find a man who I even WANT to date. Being alone isn’t so bad you get to do whatever you want. As long as you have friends that’s all you need. Having a man doesn’t prove your worth to the world. Sure I wish I had love but I don’t want to play games to get it, I want real, authentic, committed to growing together love. This is almost impossible to find with men until they are over 45
@Lovepinkdress
@Lovepinkdress 3 жыл бұрын
@@beckytull8505 Becky did you meet someone good?
@lauraw3338
@lauraw3338 6 жыл бұрын
My number one rule is to never accept a friend request from the guy you’re dating on social media. I never allow a man access to any social media account!!! I do this because if the relationship fails you don’t want him trashing you on your account! Keep your settings private for your friends only. Don’t let him see what you’re doing or what you’re posting. If he wants to see your account because he’s worried then sit down beside him and show him your site. Never give a man access to your life outside of him until you’re ready. Men need to wonder what you’re doing. Being mysterious goes a long way.
@petitpimentglace7063
@petitpimentglace7063 6 жыл бұрын
So right.
@lilbabytears
@lilbabytears 6 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@Handle18880
@Handle18880 2 жыл бұрын
ABSOLUTELY! Never add men you’re dating on social media until THEY are public ally claiming you. This sends the message that they are not a priority until they take more responsibility and commitment in the relationship.
@goddessdellas
@goddessdellas 6 жыл бұрын
Ladies take it from a woman who's gone through this a few times. If the guy wants to play games and ignore you do the same thing right back even if you like them; it's just like Elliot is saying we make it too easy for them. show them they are not your top priority and treat them as if you would a guy you don't like, in the sense that you would prob take days to respond and give him crumbs of flirting or attention making him want more. Most times we start falling for them and we are too vulnerable and available. If after playing it cool he doesn't bite and is still distant or only messaging you late at night or to Netflix and chill he only wants sex and you should walk away. My two cents 😊
@blackirishrose4040
@blackirishrose4040 6 жыл бұрын
goddessdellas yup! If they want to play games We gotta show em how it's played!
@thatjamericankidd6637
@thatjamericankidd6637 Жыл бұрын
I did this and his response was ur lack of effort has made me uninterested goodbye
@user-pe2yx9kt4e
@user-pe2yx9kt4e Жыл бұрын
@@thatjamericankidd6637 he’s a loser- is he the woman in the relationship that he needs to be the one openly chased/pursued? Seems like he doesn’t have too much agency over his own life
@spinnerchic5772
@spinnerchic5772 6 жыл бұрын
True, did this 15 years ago before internet advice. Cut fast and cold, he was pissed, verbally ruthless and the awkwardness continues. So, I know I made the correct choice. I am not an option.
@ida4587
@ida4587 5 жыл бұрын
Very true, had this guy tell me I could "stalk him" on his social media if I wanted then we became friends on Insta. He then ghosted and took me off his social media. It was worse that way. Since then I don't even ask them or give them access to my social media. I might show the guy my social media inadvertently my looking for just one photo I want to show him when he is with me and that's it.
@fabfab5450
@fabfab5450 6 жыл бұрын
This is all just exhausting. I mean....what the heck???
@SK-no2pp
@SK-no2pp 5 жыл бұрын
You really are so great Elliot. I called you maybe 2 years ago and you told me to cut him off and dump him. He was a low ego man. I finally listened and have never been happier. It’s painful when you are in the middle of it.
@yowasabiii7306
@yowasabiii7306 6 жыл бұрын
I'm doing this right now. Wish me luck everybody ☺️
@blackirishrose4040
@blackirishrose4040 6 жыл бұрын
Anelle Endozo good luck.....I started around the same time u did....just hang in there! Keep these bros on "Arctic Blast"
@ashleyfischer
@ashleyfischer 6 жыл бұрын
let me know how it went
@astralsalixxo6320
@astralsalixxo6320 5 жыл бұрын
Anelle Endozo did it work?💜
@RupyAvaani
@RupyAvaani 5 жыл бұрын
Anelle Endozo Oh girl good luck me too X but I hope it works
@oczaz
@oczaz 5 жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@XxxX-wx3er
@XxxX-wx3er 4 жыл бұрын
Basically men don’t like women. They just like the idea of women. And what women actually are disappoints them. They think women are these mythical creatures but when they find out that the woman is just a regular person like him, he’s disappointed. Elliot is basically teaching you to keep yourself away from him because once he get to know you he won’t like you anymore. He’s saying give him as little as possible of yourself because men don’t actually like women, especially you.
@ciggytwiggy
@ciggytwiggy 3 жыл бұрын
hahahhaa yes
@cherrylane79
@cherrylane79 2 жыл бұрын
@@contribution741 Not after if they treat them like carbage.
@caterinadelgalles8783
@caterinadelgalles8783 Жыл бұрын
😂
@nouaranouara9939
@nouaranouara9939 6 жыл бұрын
1- i cut him off fast He said i am crazy 2-no contact He said i don't care about him and i don't love him 3- i posted one picture with one friend of mine ( man of course) He started to shout,,i knew it u cheat me" 4- i tried to start a small conversation after no contact time He shouted in me again,,what do u want now from me? " Conclusion- your advices made us break up for ever 😂😂😂😂...thank you
@sheyhooray682
@sheyhooray682 6 жыл бұрын
nouara nouara r
@eveheart2876
@eveheart2876 6 жыл бұрын
Lol listen to ur guts
@audrinamoon7032
@audrinamoon7032 6 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooooo xD
@legingembrefou5981
@legingembrefou5981 5 жыл бұрын
nouara nouara Alternate Conclusion: your guy is a douche 😖
@ariesariesfearless4810
@ariesariesfearless4810 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 Means u dont really love him hahhahaga
@qwrrsfgccipknbggsdrw
@qwrrsfgccipknbggsdrw 6 жыл бұрын
Video on point Elliott. Ladies get some backbone, teach him how to treat you! It's okay to go genie for a minute than pop up like a genie 😉
@annieepie8356
@annieepie8356 5 жыл бұрын
all of this wont work if he already inlove with somebody else
@makeitcount2985
@makeitcount2985 5 жыл бұрын
Men who have an avoident detachment style, who are addicted or cheaters should be avoided completely... No point investing in a man whose seriously damaged.If he's not invested then leave life's short time is precious
@christinenichols7333
@christinenichols7333 5 жыл бұрын
I fell for a smooth talker. Said he loved me and played the part for 14 months while sleeping w other women. I threw him out over 2 months ago. Hes not bothered by it but my heart refuses for some reason to heal and move on. I still love him and hate myself for it. Dont know what to do. Ive been dating but its him i want. Its hopeless.
@makeitcount2985
@makeitcount2985 5 жыл бұрын
@@christinenichols7333 realize that a man who loves you commits to you, the fact that he sleeps around shows he does not love you. Actions speak louder than words
@wildangel4452
@wildangel4452 6 жыл бұрын
How about just let him and be with someone who's consistently consistent. For how long Will you keep doing the push and pull game.
@PinkSweaterAllday
@PinkSweaterAllday 4 жыл бұрын
My heart is in million pieces. Just running through where I went wrong and why he pulled away to the point of ghosting. I went with it. When he pulled away and I pushed for a week then I pulled away.
@HellcatMad
@HellcatMad 6 жыл бұрын
Dude, I have watched a few coaches after getting involved with a narcissist. I have a very high self esteem but he was very low self esteem. You are absolutely the best. The information you share is very easy to understand. I do agree and like the viewpoint you have. Thanks for sharing.
@cynthiabarrera5599
@cynthiabarrera5599 6 жыл бұрын
Everything you said was so spot on for me, I'm 51 yrs and I've been using these same methods all my life!
@justinejackson1409
@justinejackson1409 6 жыл бұрын
I haven’t hear from a guy I scared off with my neediness for about 6 months. I think it’s safe to say he isn’t coming back, ever
@alexandravtensek1216
@alexandravtensek1216 6 жыл бұрын
I AINT SORRY it is safe to say that. Work on yourself now. Once you get past the neediness and become strong and confident, you will do better next time. Say to yourself, "I BELIEVE IN ME."
@makeitcount2985
@makeitcount2985 5 жыл бұрын
Then he was an ass, block him, delete him and don't go back.
@andinallugiqi2600
@andinallugiqi2600 3 жыл бұрын
Update?
@Butterfly-444
@Butterfly-444 5 жыл бұрын
How bout not giving a F!
@cr4228
@cr4228 5 жыл бұрын
When do the GAMES end!
@MariahFan09
@MariahFan09 4 жыл бұрын
I get the most out of Elliot's videos.... love that he is bold enough to say these things
@JenniferCamara
@JenniferCamara 5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes these video’s make me not want to date at all. Lol! Actually...I’m not dating anymore. Too many games! Bring back the good ole days please!!!!
@shanicehunt9548
@shanicehunt9548 6 жыл бұрын
He blocked me on everything 😂 there is my answer
@B4BESS
@B4BESS 5 жыл бұрын
No. I unfriended him on Facebook, blocked him on WhatsApp, and left the phone...if he really cares, let him call me, but if he doesn't... good rediance to bad rubbish
@ileanaespinosa533
@ileanaespinosa533 5 жыл бұрын
What happened then? Did he found the way to contact?
@B4BESS
@B4BESS 5 жыл бұрын
@@ileanaespinosa533 I have not heard from him, although, four months later, he called. I think because I had mailed him the coins he left on the tables the last time he visited. I had no need of the money, because it felt like an insult for him to leave 4 pounds and some pennies of change behind, so, I mailed them to him. I did not hear the phone ring so I could not pick his call, and I didn't call him back.
@MsShaw-uv8vy
@MsShaw-uv8vy 5 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a job
@johncharnock6872
@johncharnock6872 6 жыл бұрын
'All is fair in love and war' so says the maxim... What people need to realise is that love is war!!!
@jacklinemirembe8921
@jacklinemirembe8921 6 жыл бұрын
I have this dude who left me for someone else because I'm far from home but it's okay I'm waiting to revenge on him using my facebook page and I swear to God I'll make him feel that pain he made me feel.that ass hole.
@MsMatahari84
@MsMatahari84 6 жыл бұрын
Good luck sister!
@lmsshade6733
@lmsshade6733 6 жыл бұрын
Bruh I did this to the person I'm nw dating in the earlier stage. It almost killed him😂he literally started stalking I gave him one whole week.. when we do ran in each other because we live near each other he was devastated n why I blocked him from everything I told him I gave u space he was like space why? After everything tho he begged me nt to do it to him again.😅😅 truth is I had to because we were getting close n I felt like he was running cold for a bit I drop that shit on him and he hated it.
@lilgigs1
@lilgigs1 6 жыл бұрын
Wish I could’ve seen this video before he ghosted me 😒
@mirandamerkel8014
@mirandamerkel8014 6 жыл бұрын
Your eyes in this video tho 😍 (oh, the advice is awesome too lol)
@annasthoughtsandmusicalpar2239
@annasthoughtsandmusicalpar2239 6 жыл бұрын
Miranda Merkel agreed
@diananguyen9421
@diananguyen9421 4 жыл бұрын
Just ghost him. Feels good. 10/10 recommend.
@wonderwomandiana6461
@wonderwomandiana6461 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Elliott, I don't fear losing this man. He hides and puts an strong effect for me not to even see him with another female. I don't look for a relationship . I don't stray . I dingo haywire if I find out he is dating someone else. I find out he knows it's a fact there's no coming back to me. I'm not in love or in love with him. I just care cordially. He is a drama queen . He likes to deny what he says "I never said that " I have no proof except my memory. I'm not the daring type. I'll meet you wherever we decide to go. He is a gentleman pays for anything when we're out. I love your KZbin channel. Growing up i wasn't into dating
@tbtb9431
@tbtb9431 5 жыл бұрын
If you really love someone that much... is worth the efforts...
@PARISGx1
@PARISGx1 6 жыл бұрын
GREAT ADVICE!!!
@gin376
@gin376 6 жыл бұрын
So my boyfriend and I broke up. I didn’t text him after I did the no contact rule. Well he text me saying “just because were not together doesn’t mean we still can’t talk” I told him actually it does mean we can’t talk and that I hope he has a good life. Well a week goes by and he text me again asking how my holiday weekend was. I was short with my answer and he got mad saying “ a little conversation wouldn’t kill me” and he said I’m bogus because I don’t want to talk to him because I want it all or nothing! Which is true if he’s not willing to try and make it work what’s the point of us talking right? Well then he basically tried to get me over to have sex. Then tried to say he text me because he was thinking about me. He asked me if I wanted him to stop texting me. I responded if you have no intentions on being with me let me go and let someone that deserves me have me. But I kind of feel bad and I don’t know why! I miss him so much. But I refuse to get hurt again. Is he just playing me or does he really miss me?
@lalisasmr
@lalisasmr 6 жыл бұрын
Queen gingin sounds like he isn't sure what he wants. Did he keep contacting you?
@gin376
@gin376 6 жыл бұрын
PandaEats Yes he did contact me. He basically told me he wanted to be friends with benefits and that he’s not ready for a committed relationship. He told me to put my feelings aside and that we would make it. 🙄 I’m trying to slowly get over him I don’t trust him and I feel like he’s seeing other girls.
@lalisasmr
@lalisasmr 6 жыл бұрын
Queen gingin wow, the nerve. How convenient for him. I'm so sorry.
@blackirishrose4040
@blackirishrose4040 6 жыл бұрын
Queen gingin rotating door bro eh? They are the worst!
@oksanasveryda2389
@oksanasveryda2389 6 жыл бұрын
Queen gingin I was in precisely the same situation. Believe me, if a guy tells you he doesn't want anything serious he means it. There's nothing you can do to change it. It's not your fault. He doesn't care about your feelings, he just wants to have fun with other girls and occasionally contact you for sex. He will only do enough for you to stick around and hang there waiting for the next time it'll be convenient for him to get in touch. He wants to avoid the responsibilities that the actual relationship implies but still have you as an option for when he's bored of fucking around. You should only proceed if you manage to get rid of your feelings for him. Casual relationship is never going to work if one party has expectations for something more (you want to have a relationship where the guy is commited to you and he will not commit). Otherwise you'll only be hurting yourself over and over again trying to convince yourself it's okay and enough for you only because you don't want to lose him. You'll be wasting your time and a chance to meet someone who will be able to love you and give you the care and respect you deserve over a guy who's just stringing you along. For him you are just one of multiple options and the odds are not on your side because if you let him treat you this way he sees you as an easy prey who has no respect for herself. In the end he'll most probably dump you and won't even feel guilty about breaking your heart because he hasn't got any serious feelings and doesn't value you in the first place. Believe me, he is so not worth it. You don't even have to waste time explaining yourself, simply dissappear. Block him off everything and never see him again. Doesn't matter if it hurts (it will as fuck), don't look back! Take time to recover from this toxic, selfish person. Realise you'll be better off without him. Realise that by ghosting him you have managed to preserve your dignity since you haven't let the guy who wanted to use you play by his rules. Don't feel guilty for him, that's the least he deserves. Move on with your life. There are so many interesting men that'll make you feel right and you are one heartbreak closer to finding your real love.
@mariamayub212
@mariamayub212 5 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed this one! Never thought about the scale that you showed before but it makes a lot of sense. Thank you for the tips!
@bridgetterenee3515
@bridgetterenee3515 6 жыл бұрын
Would love to see you do some videos on dating men with aspergers as they have a very different mindset and we contend with things like Theory of Mind so we never know if the pulling away is that or not. If they're just being an aspie or playing games. There are really no vids out there on this subject and many Facebook groups filled with ladies struggling with this.
@bridgetterenee3515
@bridgetterenee3515 6 жыл бұрын
Tee Gee thank you so much!
@darquequeen2323
@darquequeen2323 6 жыл бұрын
I’m with you there! I watch these videos and have a feeling that a lot of these tips don’t apply. Mine is a puzzle wrapped in an enigma.
@alexispalmer8123
@alexispalmer8123 2 жыл бұрын
Defo would like this,
@jacci7776
@jacci7776 6 жыл бұрын
I loved the metaphor about g-ma 👌🏽 I don’t watch your vids for help with men anymore I just love your ideas 💡👑 ❤️
@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating 6 жыл бұрын
It's all good. I hope you and that guy are doing well.
@Kaylieeeeee1234
@Kaylieeeeee1234 6 жыл бұрын
What do you say when he comes back, asks what happened and why you just stopped talking?
@stephanymariah5890
@stephanymariah5890 6 жыл бұрын
Yup I'm going through this ahhh!! 😬
@beatrixoliveira7625
@beatrixoliveira7625 6 жыл бұрын
Watching this again and realizing this is great with friends who are taking you for granted or putting other people's well-being first and not caring shit about yours. Cut them off, it hurts, but it's the best thing to do. If you care a little too much and they don't... well, fuck'em, no one needs that and then you get more time for yourself and people who are actually interested in being friends or whatever.
@angelabvlogs5490
@angelabvlogs5490 6 жыл бұрын
Love you Elliot, so glad you’re uploading vids!
@LamiAtZenith
@LamiAtZenith 6 жыл бұрын
Hit the nail on the head with this one, thanks
@danamumphrey2186
@danamumphrey2186 6 жыл бұрын
I am a hypochondriac too! It’s a struggle. I love your videos, you’re very smart, logical and honest! They help me a lot
@lifetobelived9102
@lifetobelived9102 6 жыл бұрын
Have you looked at mindfulness videos. My therapist works on it with me but I am not great on it. My problem is that I have health issues which have turned my already anxious personality into an even more anxious personality.
@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating 6 жыл бұрын
I would be better if it wasn't for the "what if". It's that question that kills me
@danamumphrey2186
@danamumphrey2186 6 жыл бұрын
Life tobelived yes! I try to watch mindfulness videos as much as possible. What helps me is eckhart tolle! Also I’ve been eating healthy, exercising and taking vitamins, which has helped drastically ! I take magnesium glycinate which has helped me sooo very much! It’s amazing ! You should look into it! I’m here if you have any questions! We will get through this
@danamumphrey2186
@danamumphrey2186 6 жыл бұрын
Elliot Scott Attraction Coach yes , that’s what gets me because no matter what way you look at it getting sick is always a possibility and can happen to anyone ! Check out my response in this thread ! Maybe those things can help you too
@lifetobelived9102
@lifetobelived9102 6 жыл бұрын
ah I think to much what will happen in the future instead of letting it just reveal or unravel on its own. So many times when I want to intervene in a situation if I just set still it will take care of itself. Of course, some things need immediate intervention.
@nailed_sa
@nailed_sa 6 жыл бұрын
Been using your advice alot Elliot thanks for all your help you are fantastic 👏😃
@aromanova
@aromanova 6 жыл бұрын
Don’t be scarce for too long! Missed you
@celine2717
@celine2717 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this great advice elliot. Looking good!😘
@semionwalker2391
@semionwalker2391 6 жыл бұрын
Your analogies are the best, Elliot 😂 That dog one with the fence killed me
@Jessica-fg5nl
@Jessica-fg5nl 3 жыл бұрын
Im a hypochondriac too! It sucks
@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating 3 жыл бұрын
Yes it does
@joysdiary3257
@joysdiary3257 5 жыл бұрын
Omg! The color of your eyes are so amazing😍😍😍
@brittanybruce1108
@brittanybruce1108 6 жыл бұрын
Your videos are amazing thanks for making them
@ninajoe2028
@ninajoe2028 5 жыл бұрын
I love your vibe
@Marina1686
@Marina1686 6 жыл бұрын
Well, I cut this guy for almost two weeks for telling me something really mean and selling me out the next day and everything got worse. Now he's "offended" and acting very defensive.
@breeaortiz3866
@breeaortiz3866 2 жыл бұрын
My Favorite 🙌🏾💪🏾💯💣 Broke It Downnnnnnnn !!
@j3marti515
@j3marti515 5 жыл бұрын
Dude your language makes so much sense to me. Really thinking on doing your program, cause I don’t have any game right now and no psychological apprehension as to how this all works. Can u plz also tell me some of the psychological aspects men face after divorce; and not having their shit together. The ones that just want to have fun- what we as women can do to make us stand out during that period, or if it’s a lost cause. Another question. I know it’s too late, been a year, I go round and round missing this person. Yet have no one to get over them w. He’s moved on; and I’m stuck, so Wtf do I do, besides the obvi and go out w friends, etc. it’s a horrible dating world out there these days.there’s got to be a better way to handle this crap then being busy yet stuck in my head.
@PhanRegSop
@PhanRegSop 2 жыл бұрын
Did you get over him? I need to know what you did. Time?
@fayefornea2925
@fayefornea2925 6 жыл бұрын
Ur the man. Coach.... Ur too helpful everytime I watched ur videos thanks a lot god bless...
@maryamkim1281
@maryamkim1281 6 жыл бұрын
Elliot. THANK YOU.
@haylie1689
@haylie1689 6 жыл бұрын
What if he doesn’t have any social media?
@Reidamnpage_
@Reidamnpage_ 6 жыл бұрын
Haylie1689 this is my dilemma too 😂
@onlyme6662
@onlyme6662 6 жыл бұрын
Mine too I took his phone stripped it down to manufacturers state! He lost all his shit! I check frequently to see he will not have any social media accounts. If so I do it again! 3rd time.. cell gets shut off and buried in backyard
@Nina-jc3be
@Nina-jc3be 4 жыл бұрын
I am the one who doesn't have social media lol
@leahgannon8838
@leahgannon8838 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Elliot, your videos are excellent, and motivating 👍🏼 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
@gotrinigirl76
@gotrinigirl76 5 жыл бұрын
This is great! Thank you!
@Nicoleiia
@Nicoleiia 5 жыл бұрын
So, basically once he's gone, he's gone.
@crissieroserose
@crissieroserose 5 жыл бұрын
yep. i think alot of this has the potential to back fire, i always am cautious a bout applying these strategies
@MC-rw2bk
@MC-rw2bk 3 жыл бұрын
I don't add men to my social media and I don't let them come to my house. I also keep the conversation light and avoid personal information. This protects me from abusive men while also adding mystery.
@amakaemma2120
@amakaemma2120 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Mr osekhametalor He can recover your relationship back.
@amakaemma2120
@amakaemma2120 3 жыл бұрын
Text him on wha'txpp.
@whisperingwind7730
@whisperingwind7730 6 жыл бұрын
Great video Elliot, thanks for sharing~🙏🏻 Btw ur hair is looking on point!!👌🏻and those eyes...Dammmmn!! 🙊 U are such a handsome fella~ 😉😽
@iceluna9123
@iceluna9123 5 жыл бұрын
..ok,, fourth video I watched from you.. I subscribed.. 😊😊
@szohbe1
@szohbe1 4 жыл бұрын
Do you think there is an infatuation switch that happens in men to get their sole focus?
@judyjb2305
@judyjb2305 6 жыл бұрын
Great topic!
@marlisemarai9552
@marlisemarai9552 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all your great advice. I wish I would’ve known this a few years ago🤦🏻‍♀️.. 😂
@alexandravtensek1216
@alexandravtensek1216 6 жыл бұрын
Marlise Marai I am 49 and wish I had known all of this. My example was a mother who was literally a slave and a doormat to my dad. The stories I could tell!!! Sadly she passed away 16 years ago and my dad is living it up on the Adriatic Sea with his girlfriend!
@marlisemarai9552
@marlisemarai9552 6 жыл бұрын
Lexy Brown I’m sorry to hear about your mom❤️. Im glad you came across this channel . Elliot is very smart. Let’s keep learning from him 💙...Never forget your worth💜
@tbirdsgal9195
@tbirdsgal9195 3 жыл бұрын
I love your videos I have recently discovered them thank you so much could you possibly make one of these videos if theirs kid's involved cause I would love to hear what you have to say if kid's are in the mix.
@Who63
@Who63 6 жыл бұрын
Not agree to the girl reaching out. Not gonna work.
@rebecca3811
@rebecca3811 6 жыл бұрын
Change your mobile number and let’s see if he shows up in your neighbourhood 😱
@91pinklipstick
@91pinklipstick 8 ай бұрын
Im a hypochondriac too and it absolutely sucks 😕
@GetchaaPull
@GetchaaPull 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent video
@jenniferhowley5103
@jenniferhowley5103 Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@camillawilliams1418
@camillawilliams1418 2 жыл бұрын
Should I delete him from snap and insta??
@angelinachristina3904
@angelinachristina3904 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I saw this before. He pulled away and I haven’t heard from him in three weeks. I didn’t pursue him after he pulled away- he’s going through a separation. But the dude kept me on fb. I’ve seen some of your other videos so I’m leaving the dude on social media- but not checking in. Just living my life 🤷🏼‍♀️ no posting sad BS posts just stuff I’m out doing with friends.
@elizabethseiden1867
@elizabethseiden1867 4 жыл бұрын
I’m going to ghost guys for the hell of it! It makes the guys stay on their toes! 🤓💪🐯🎀😘🍓
@elenageorgiou6345
@elenageorgiou6345 6 жыл бұрын
Very good advices
@dynastyj1152
@dynastyj1152 6 жыл бұрын
Together for almost a year and After almost 3 months I broke no contact. Mistake 1. Then i was trying to talk to him by calling him non stop. Mistake 2. He blocked me. I then emailed him and told him off very badly. Now i know for sure he will never contact me again.
@pgirl9959
@pgirl9959 5 жыл бұрын
I too am a hypochondriac and was pulling away due to a health scare. It's a tough world 😩 Any tips for managing it??
@kimvannote5024
@kimvannote5024 5 жыл бұрын
Mr. Scott, you have the most beautiful hair.
@brendajones8073
@brendajones8073 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for ur advice on a lot situations.
@candy5742
@candy5742 6 жыл бұрын
Tiny Harris need to watch this
@Chelskae88
@Chelskae88 6 жыл бұрын
No hope for her 😂
@SS-in1ts
@SS-in1ts Жыл бұрын
Yep! It was a little fast and I just went with it and then he broke up with me after planning tons of things for the summer- we bought tickets and everything!
@ritarosado4673
@ritarosado4673 6 жыл бұрын
You are awesome 😉 Thank you.
@crissieroserose
@crissieroserose 5 жыл бұрын
hhaaaa luv the big mac analogy !! so funny
@GENRTS
@GENRTS 6 жыл бұрын
You look great in this one
@landriahm6161
@landriahm6161 4 жыл бұрын
I've been scarce from the beginning.... he's so used to me not being around.... so don't know how this will work. He doesn't like texting...but calls me every couple days.. when we meet up we have so much fun... I just don't care to contact him... and so he's always planning the next date when we see each other... lol
@iceshades
@iceshades 6 жыл бұрын
He got angry and upset when I refused to accept a terrible thing he did. I refused to let him explain it to me, then he blocked me eeeeeverywhere. And he was supposed to be a mature guy. I worked through my anger and I miss what we had and what he used to be, the fight was childish. Is there any chance he will grow out of his negative emotions and come back around?
@carolinejephson2854
@carolinejephson2854 6 жыл бұрын
Elliott! PLEASE Can you elaborate more on nr 5. So What to Do when he then reaches out? What to say? Ignore? How to make a high value answer.... Tnx!!
@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating 6 жыл бұрын
if you're worried about what to say when he reaches out in fear of saying the wrong thing or losing him then you have your answer. You already lost him. He don't give a shit.
@EugeneRaees
@EugeneRaees 5 жыл бұрын
Elliot i like the last part because thats exactly wjats happening to us.. When he dont response to my messages for a while then i dont message him but then the moment he message me because probably i didnt message him i reply back right away seems that he keeps doing the same thing.. So im changing it and ill take your advice not to make it too easy for him and he has to invest gor it and not just message me when he feels like...
@annieliz7842
@annieliz7842 6 жыл бұрын
Boy would I love your opinion on a few things !
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