How to Make a Woman Think About You Non Stop Before & After Dates

[@gregthompson9434]

Thank god I’m single

[@emlovz]

LOL. If you're ever trying to NOT be single....I'd love to have you in my free FB group. We have a lot of great stuff going on over there....including a free training on how to find your next long term relationship with a woman you're super excited about :) Here's the link if you'd like to join: facebook.com/groups/thedatingformula. Once you're approved, I'll have Jessie drop you the free training inside the group :)

[@StrengthandVitality]

Bro. Haha

[@gregthompson9434]

@@emlovz I might consider you for dinner , but that’s it 😉

[@mikestroud9969]

Bingo. Same here 👍👌💯✔️✔️

[@mijobloom]

Agreed. This is just too much🫤😄

[@humbletrader5479]

At 65, I don’t have time to play games, just keep it real.

[@sergiosolis4538]

Who has time to be on multiple dates with multiple people? They must have a lot of time on their hands.

[@emlovz]

Or a lot of goals to hit

[@DavidPaxton-tj1wt]

Dont spend more than 10on the first date??? You cant even take a date to McDonalds for $10 Just a movie for 2 is over 10??? I guess you could go to the library for cheap...

[@paulgiarmo3628]

OMG, the hoops men have to jump through and the games we have to play to get women. So ridiculous all the manipulation instead of just being honest and direct , but I guess that women just don't respond to honesty, despite what they claim. Women overthink relationships then wonder why men are fed up with and given up with women.

[@ChocolateMilk..]

Women love men that are fake, smooth, hollow, perverted etc. It's all bs!

[@DrYouMrTube]

Disagree about playing games of any kind. Like, telling her you can't do one day, tell her you will get back to her to get your value higher. Just childish. And when I see women doing it, I lose my attraction. those" I am busy this week, but let's maybe try next" are a big no. If you can't squeeze 1hour in a week to see me, then I see you as not interested me . Same goes if you don't text for 2-3 days. This is NOT a good start for relationship. Great perhaps at playing games.

[@dimitrilalushi4693]

All those things are true but they will fail if they are acted as a technique. They have to be the natural offspring of an inner maturity of the soul. And such a maturity is not learned through a coaching process, it is something that takes a deep experience of life. Something which inludes the actual tasting of many painful situations during the flow of life. But anyway, despite all those considerations it is very joyful to watch such a video from such a beautiful woman with such a lovely speech manner.

[@timdane6132]

When I heard social media is involved, F it, I'm gone. Lots of photos on my phone, but don't post on social media.

[@emlovz]

It works tho.

[@SeanyGunit]

What does TDL mean?

[@mapsandglobespro]

I'm nearly 65 and haven't dated for a very long time. So now it sounds like you must have a cell phone to date. I'm old school and believe dating shouldn't be complicated.

[@mirola73]

I'm afraid you do, times have changed. I haven't dated for 25 years and yep, finding out all has changed at 50. If you want to meet people, social media is the easiest first step, then pull it into the real world and continue 'the old way'.

[@MultiTEazy]

What about this… If you are a guy or girl, and you don’t like taking pictures, just don’t. She or he has to accept you for who you are. If a girl lost her interest in me because i did not have awesome pictures on my social media (maybe because i don’t like being on social media) im happy she’s gone. Maybe she would have a great time with me.

[@bobbyrebholz2183]

Great tips. I think men who say this is too complicated and that they don't care simply don't care to improve. It's probably why they land and settle for 5's instead of 8-10's.

[@speciallion1135]

I’m a widower, after 32 years of a wonderful marriage. I’m here for curiosity, but the one thing my gut tells me, is just to be my authentic self. I wish women would be too. The little dance that’s played out - to me - is nothing more than manipulation. I do get the mysterious & curiosity thing, but this is something I cannot consciously subscribe to. My late wife had a little saying; ‘to make a friend, you have to be one yourself’ for me, that starts with authenticity. When you contrive mystery about yourself, in order to gain another person’s trust, you have set up that dynamic, which one day will fail.

[@emlovz]

I’m sorry for your loss. :)

[@3dScience_uk]

Agreements between countries are easier ...

[@emlovz]

Hahahaha

[@Solar.767]

I never compliment. Only in the moment.

[@johnwilliamsscuba6487]

What is a TDL?

[@gabrielh7517]

1. Don't over text especially before first date. 2. Keep first date under an hour 3. Don't text a lot between 1st and 2nd date if you need to talk call her 4. Don't talk more than 20% of the time on first date 5. Don't text without intent (intent= planning next date) 6. Share social media influence (create fomo) 7. Give intermittent reinforcement 8. Demonstrate your life 9. Make a date with other people (make your time seem valuable) 10. Don't reach out to her when out of town 11. Demonstrate you are having an amazing time on social media when away 12. Don't smoother her ( maintain independence) 13. Segment time alone

[@rjsledz]

Give intermittent reinforcement ?? Lol ... Hmm

[@DryWall-wd4ei]

Good reminder why I no longer bother with dating or relationships. I don't have any interest in these counterintuitive psychologcal games. Its not worth it.

[@Cpt_JohnRackham]

"Be an obnoxious piece of shit in 13 steps"

[@DavidKuhn-q1i]

This is all nonsensical to men.

[@guangxidavidliu]

Girl: Any man spend that much thoughts and plots on dates is a BIG losers. I wonder when he has the time to think of making more money or gain more power or position. For men, Money and career is the cake, women are the icing. Without the cake, where to put the icing? No money, no honey, so good men go after the money, honey will come with the money. Your way is sort of cart before the horse, and for poor men / losers. No offense.

[@emlovz]

No sweat, but how is your strategy working for you?

[@guangxidavidliu]

@@emlovz Girl: You ways are for strangers meeting each other In the bar, or better in the church. But most relationships are formed in work related places. I met beautiful bank tellers since they knew how much money I deposited each time and how often into my accounts. Other girls know me through clientele relationships, hear all the good things about me and my work from their bosses or colleagues. So, it is their honor finally meeting me or even hugging me. I believe spending time to make oneself "valuable and desirable" (so one can love himself) is much better way than playing games in women's heads in the long run (BUT, most men just want one night stand with women, love only the first sight). Love will be much stable and last if women respect or even worship a man, his capability, judgement and opinion.

[@omarmsai2081]

Thank you so much for this very important information. I feel very stupid when it comes to dating. At one time I was making a great deal of money, driving a Porsche, and living in a waterfront condominium. But I did not have my dating game together and women treated me like shit. listening to you has given me a whole new perspective, much healthier, much more pleasing than the way I was dealing with ladies before. God bless you, darling. If you ever come to Manhattan, I would love to buy you lunch..

[@AaronAaron247]

I did about 4 things “wrong” according to you on my first date with my current gf of 5 years 😂. Guess I’m lucky she thinks I’m really cute

[@bryansolis3139]

Jesus Christ Son of God Almighty, All of this for P🐱 Something is definitely wrong. Everything done with moderation 😅😂😂😂

[@miltonruiz2923]

LoL, but in a long term relationship, if you don't "confess" everything you do to your gf/wife, she will think that you are cheating and hiding things.

[@davidwright7588]

I was wondering whether to text her today and looking for advice. Thank you so much for the tips. I’ll let you know how it goes 🙂

[@toddbowles2973]

Truly exhausting.

[@bespokearms]

Men are not interested in woman that use social media. Telling people to share things on social media to impress a person that will never see it does not seem intuitive. I do not use any of them either and am definitely not going to create a social media account. Feels creepy to make a social media account just so this girl you barely know can see what you are doing.

[@damianleboeuf3346]

Well in today's world, and with today's women, a gentleman is neither a leader nor a follower. Its best to remain really great friends. Because at the end of the day she can go her way, and i can go mine.

[@kingvii7250]

You are the only one that I feel are for real... I have 100% trust in your advices. You're unique

[@emlovz]

Thank you King! 10 years of coaching :)

[@dankmoves]

Just be yourself, not something/s you’re not. That way later she nor you will be disappointed and your not living a lie.

[@JamesZakrzewski-h2l]

Is it me and when you see a woman likes you and you step back and it seams she becomes more attractive to you

[@عبداللهغفاری-ق4ح]

Now I understand why I see unemployed men as more successful in dating women.

[@djjemo]

I am too old for this advice. There is too much thinking and mind games involved.

[@hujinom]

All this women logic games are fuckin stupid tbh

[@tempaccount7104]

I think I'd have a better chance learning brain surgery

[@emlovz]

That’s not true and you know it :)

[@douglascampfire678]

What’s a “TDL”? I googled and still …nothing

[@timmypaxton5376]

Emlovzyouaresocuteiloveyou Haveagreatweek

[@eylam90]

This advice is only relevant for men who can enjoy the kind of lifestyle that is suggested here. I don't like posting to social media often, it takes away from the things I love in my life, not contributing to them. I like being direct with women, telling them i find them attractive as soon as i do and if its too much for them, they are not for me. I do agree about the texting, a good phone call is more fun and less time consuming than texting for hours.

[@Yousoundconfused]

Actually some very good advice here. 👌

[@iceman5891]

Like what you said for strategies on women. When your in somewhat of a relationship, your really trying to read between the lines, so as to say. It can be confusing & misunderstanding to what your trying to understand about her.

[@usadaytrader]

Everything makes sense in this video except the multiple dating. That is on the edge of a moral dilemma for some. Can totally push someone away

[@emlovz]

Hard to find your life partner by not comparing enough women.

[@usadaytrader]

@emlovz I understand the purpose, but it doesn't have to be at the same time. It could be sequential. Right? I envy the few lucky ones that are one and done. Saves a lot of heartache. Anyways good content. Oh u mean all first dates, I get that, but I would think one should know after the first date.

[@Legendary_Twan]

My only problem has been overspending 😭

[@SGTrainingStable]

Your advice is very helpful!

[@HorseRadish403]

Step1: 6 ft Step2: 6 pack Step3: 6 figures

[@emlovz]

Tell me how you flipped the script and got her to think about you....

[@bdel80]

Pass wind on her face will get her thinking about you

[@oonojoe]

Very Lovely and Intelligent.

[@briansomogie]

Whatever happened to old fashioned romance? This is way too much work to create any type of relationship.

[@TracyNewcomb-rq8nq]

What is your number....??

[@PMMagro]

Very interesting to hear about dating in other countries. Mostly similar but still.

[@emlovz]

Where are you?

[@timmypaxton5376]

Emlovz you are so cute I love you have a great week

[@cacaoo97]

Thank you so much for the good tips.

[@emlovz]

You’re welcome Ariel :). Happy it was helpful. Question.....Is there any specific topic you’d like me to cover for an upcoming video? I’m creating new content for some upcoming videos now

[@cacaoo97]

@@emlovz I would say, maybe, you can talk about how to start a conversation on Tinder. What to take into consideration and such. Thanks again!

[@emlovz]

Anytime :-) I will add that video to my list. I did write an article on this specific topic a couple years ago: www.emlovz.com/how-to-start-a-conversation-on-tinder-for-guys/ Perhaps you can read this for the time being before we make this video for you. If you’re not a subscriber I’ll jot you down and notify you when the video is ready...

[@tristacloar4797]

Thank you for the advice!

[@csrnibbler9912]

Wow! This lovely lady is on point guys! If this was 20 years ago, I would say that she is a master PUA (pick up artist)..but not the sleezy kind. Lol.

[@timmypaxton5376]

Emlovzot milk andcookies

[@chriswalls5831]

Shes thinking of me hmmm I got a few that are thinking of me ;)

[@CliveBridgeman]

What is TDL?

[@dantegamedev]

too much work

[@JOz-il2cr]

Whats a TDL?

[@AaronAaron247]

TDL?

[@FrankyboyFloyd]

Listening to this, I'm saying to myself I'm way better alone! Like every woman is superficial that much? Damn!

[@scottroberts7463]

Showing off your amazing life seems to be just another way to show her how many resources you have as most "amazing" things cost money to do. Sure, you can take a picture of a hike but other things like concerts, nights at restaurants and clubs, a nice car, travel etc is really what I imagine you mean.

[@emlovz]

Nah. Lots of free things that are cool. Like sitting on an epic beach

[@bdel80]

@@emlovz gotta spend money to get to the beach

[@josegonzalescedillo2399]

Your definitely right ✅ 👌

[@ArcherBlack]

Short dates? Under an hour?

[@Hoops590]

I'm homeless and don't have a car so I won't be dating anytime soon and my front teeth fell out three years ago. Good advice nonetheless

[@emlovz]

Thank you very much :-)

[@Cam-sl8ve]

wtf lmao

[@scholaroftheworldalternatehist]

At least you have KZbin I guess

[@Hoops590]

@@scholaroftheworldalternatehist in a year i got a car a job and a home and I was dating someone broke up and lost my job and im being evicted

[@jeffalewis5917]

Hello I'm wearing traditional silver metal braces on all my top and bottom teeth with coil springs that go between my brackets on my front teeth and 6 rubber bands! If you see a older wearing metal braces on his teeth is it a turnoff?

[@faceluckcell9484]

thinking abaut you (to) make crazy. when. good is about (to) crazy crazy

[@trevorgolding9200]

OK, what’s a TDL? B/c I don’t think you’d ask someone out with a to-do list.

[@frostkill5075]

If you should only text with intent eg; to arrange or confirm the next date. What do you do if they send you one of those "hey, how's your day going" msgs?

[@emlovz]

Respond but don’t go on and on, then use the communication to plant the seed for the next date

[@djcaly84]

The woman's purpose of texting you with that type of message is for you to arrange a meetup. That's her saying "Hey, I miss you, and I want to see you!".

[@jimg6476]

I dated one woman that was a stalker couldn't breathe . She called me 6 times a day.. finally had to tell her 1 call a day. And 5 text messages. Sure it was fun in the beginning but felt like was smothered.

[@maxstewart635]

Like every thing in live money is personal freedoms but it can't biy evreybodey and everything. But I would rather hav it than not hav it £

[@pianoLee-sx9dx]

Good advice and is great to see that your methods are aligned with mystery and Kezia Noble..

[@bryanmccallum4614]

This was great information thank you!

[@emlovz]

You’re welcome

[@timmypaxton5376]

Gotmilk

[@brianyoung938]

Dating single moms, are a little more tricky.. and when she lives a hour away! Making dates are more tricky and alone time!

[@xaviergamble7416]

When do I Texter after the first date I know you’re probably gonna get to that and by the way it’s normal watching six minutes and 32 seconds of this video but when do I Texter I know the tenant is no such thing as the right time and wrong time but you clearly are saying there is a right and wrong time to communicate with her and Becky said don’t text too much and you can realize what each individual situation of each individual human being in person or in this case each individual woman there is a right time to call her or she’s a Texter how long do I wait until I Texter on accident or on purpose

[@thebrinksf69]

What if you're one month between dates. Should I not text anything until its close to the date?

[@rjsledz]

You're very nice and helpful ... Thank you

[@emlovz]

Thank you :)

[@bryanmccallum4614]

I always seem to open door's for people for everyone. Am I weird?

[@andrewbenally484]

How do you recover from making all the don'ts and start from scratch?

[@JayJay-qb9cc]

What can you do that's less than 10 dollars? Even fast food costs around that much now

[@mr.m3302]

2 black coffees

[@emlovz]

Yep, easily under $10. 2 coffees and a stroll

[@cyrusck5723]

Very good information Thanks

[@paulh6067]

This is all in the too hard basket lol 😆 🤣

[@tonykemp4645]

Ignore her for 2 weeks , do not call her in the meantime ,iff calls say no to her make her goes crazy control your mind

[@emlovz]

I wouldn’t play games

[@abstract-thoughts]

Talking about making her wonder, I also heard it's best not to ask for another date on a date so she wonders if you'll ask her out again.

[@emlovz]

Disagree 100%

[@abstract-thoughts]

@@emlovz can you elaborate?

[@garvinherman5172]

Thak you for message

[@richardmiller8574]

Glad I’m single!

[@alphabravo3566]

Damn aunt em. You spilling some beans lol

[@billmack21]

Great advice.

[@emlovz]

Thanks Bill

[@erbthatsright1103]

Gold. Thank you!

[@emlovz]

You’re welcome

[@peachpetal0]

Love never works out. Let's be real here.

[@kebman]

Get children. It'll work out.

[@leftinline]

Very very good, covered it all, thank you

[@braveheart2955]

The richest man in Babylon you mentioned made me see how smart you are 🤣🤣🤣💯💯💯I have no social media nothin and all this time I just been building up my life but female are a challenge as you can never know what's in their mind so I live it that way and never chase 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯💯💯💯

[@emlovz]

Ok but when’s the last time a beautiful woman knocked on your door and asked to be your girlfriend though?

[@braveheart2955]

It's a tough one when you know self worth as they always come after you but it's great when you look after and take care of yourself and stay pure as it makes you strong and powerful in the heart and life daily.

[@tonykemp4645]

Your a angel the words you speak are so true the mystery is the key , surprise her every time mix it up

[@xaviergamble7416]

That’s not gonna work for everyone this whole social media thing I got nothing against your method or something a feeling that’s telling me about what am I to say to you has a certain what’s the word guess connotation of them correct whatever the what I’m trying to find out and figure out that the energy is hovering in my middle my head you the advice specifically about social media you’re not necessarily know you’re not at all showing the pros and cons cons of posting everything you want you don’t have a social media what you’re saying but stop making everything some blanket term but then again though this is just a video oneand one is a different story when you’re coaching 101 I got nothing against that but just like you say nowadays come to your conclusion I’ll be free to question something we’re not robots and or puppet or artificial intelligence Kak A.l

[@frostkill5075]

Trying to read and make sense of anything you wrote is impossible. There is not 1 single solitary complete thought written, the only thing clearly conveyed is you disagree with something.

[@ackbuilder8262]

If a girl is not trying to win you over to marry/date up ( hypergamy), just keep walking doing your thing.

[@bobburch2151]

Another great video. Thank you so much

[@semenivanoff8615]

It all sounds like advices for peopled intended to live 200 years. Who makes plans for a date in a week?! First lots of things can change during a week. Second, dating is about feelings and emotions. Do you plan your emotions?! Third, you must have things now, because tomorrow is late. Or you can die. There was fourth, but i forgot.