This Is What Makes Her Think About YOU CONSTANTLY!

[@jmar385]

Don’t chase the butterfly. Nourish your garden, in due time the butterfly will come

[@krgaurav1511]

Wow

[@KASRG-gf7lj]

Facts

[@chrisdelvalle6745]

Powerful words... love it 💪

[@georgedunn320]

Sounds very Zen; "When the student is ready, the master will appear."

[@kimikhuzaimi9402]

Brilliant

[@Razorwirez]

Say one negative thing and she remembers that forever she says a thousand negative things you forgot it a week later...

[@Jo3K1n6]

Travis Lovell 😂😂and when you’re in an argument you can’t bring up any evidence to back up your claim

[@Cpennington57]

The plague of my relationship 😔

[@roymckenzie3566]

Whit a thousand negative things you didn't even mention

[@SseriousGgamer3]

*she tells you a thousand negative things and you didn’t forget cause you didn’t listen in the first place lmao

[@SaturnVII]

Nah sometimes you got to just throw caution to the wind and treat her like a person. Literally just got this girl to wake up on me and had a great conversation, scheduled a date by making fun of her for being unemployed. Instigation. Once she's replying you can take it any way you want. First thing she tells me "don't be a dick", I go: "Well being nice wasn't getting you out of your shell lol".

[@jeromeierome4523]

This explains why women continue to go back to that bad boy. Because one minute the bad boy is ignoring her feelings and the next she’s his world. He’s taking her on a roller coaster.

[@marktwain580]

Better to wait for her to break from her bad boy. Then take advantage of the opening. And don’t bank on her staying with you.

[@southwestxnorthwest]

I swear to god, none of this crap was a problem before texting messages and social media were created. The days of meeting a girl at a bar and writing her number on a book of matches or the palm of my hand were so much better. Dating is such a pain in the ass now.

[@mperformance3502]

Your old ass is still single. Obviously whatever you did back in the 90’s didn’t work lmao

[@mohamedtoufikbouchala5492]

@@mperformance3502 like your old ass

[@joebuchanan9563]

Too true Tim, too true!

[@filiphanic802]

I'm like 30 now and I can't agree more

[@Adrian-fi2nk]

Amen to that!

[@underrated7725]

Women dont like guys who respect them. They walk over the nice guy. The guy that talks crazy to her that's the guy she respects. I seen it too many times. Women are crazy. Straight up

[@drivventodrumm1]

Underrated 77 absolutely correct brother. If I’m nice to her she starts looking around, but if I’m a dick she follows me around like a puppy

[@raymeester7883]

The nice guy is a suspect. It's not a good sign.

[@TenkenTKY]

Zero truly red pilled👏🏾

[@josephcudini88]

@Zero so true brother, girls with high value and good jobs and know what they're worth, won't let you talk them down for very long. End of the day to stuff like brain surgery

[@kidfromcropu2812]

because so called nice guys are low value,and woman respect high value,if you"re a cry baby how the hell can she rely on you when you cant even rely on yourself,make sense?

[@ModernMessiah]

Engaging her emotions but also making it fun as hell to be around you then disappear for 2 days.

[@breadwinner9920]

2 Days hell no that’s not long enough try 2 weeks at a time this is an alpha male strategy that’s why alpha males fuck 50 different women a year and y’all probably can’t even fuck 5 a year just saying

[@YeshuaIsTheTruth]

@@breadwinner9920 sounds like AIDs city... Also, why are you even watching this?

[@atp1579]

😂

[@frankshanks9726]

Wth? Why would you disappear 2 days? You let them message you first and wait 30 minutes to a few hours to respond.You go 2 days between conversations she’ll just move on.

[@frankshanks9726]

@@breadwinner9920 You’re wayyyy off.

[@sustainf]

Simple: If you are still in the uncertain stages of a relationship. Be sweet and kind and at the same time push her away a bit. This is the push and pull or ‘the rollercoaster’ of the emotions she’s talking about.

[@N1portequoi1]

Dating shouldnt be that difficult. If she's into you she will like everything about you. From the lame jokes to your bad breath in the morning. And it's okay for someone to not be into you. That doesn't necessarily mean you're doing something wrong or that you may be uggly. It could just mean she/he is not the right one for you lol. Periodtt

[@datboymike9650]

not how girls are today

[@MrRogertennis]

Women look at you and decide in 15 seconds if your a potential lover or going into the friend zone. If she sees you as a lover you can blow it by beeing to needy etc,dependent etc.But you have to blow it.She wants to sleep with you far more than you do with her,but convention forces her to play the mating game.But rest assured shes made up her ming one way or the other in 15 seconds. So take your shot and move on if your not her type. Its a numbers game and fish in the lake that stocks the type of fish you want to catch.

[@Ja-Rell]

Sounds blue pill to me

[@Master_Zu]

It Difficult in the western countries because of women right, child right and animal right

[@joutuber4714]

thats why there is the the 90/10 rule

[@americanprepper6401]

Men!!! Never listen to a woman for dating advice. 1. Ignore them and they will come. 2. Never be available when they ask. They need to believe you have options. 3. Make them laugh 4. Learn how to be a good lover. Master those and you’re golden.

[@fccoz8348]

Facts

[@TikTokTrends-dc5sb]

Totally agree with you, just even I've said something smart and ignored my girl, then she sent 69 messages to me and even called, that's insane!

[@fallenafterling4128]

You know she's gone over these exact things right

[@marcusmvpgoat1236]

@@fallenafterling4128 you know she hasn’t dated a girl right

[@DesignerAdvocate]

IDK @9:21 - @11:26 is truth.

[@sultanwarcabinet]

Figure out what she likes. Women are complicated when it comes for them to tell what they like. So figure out and surprise her. Listen her carefully. Give her pure crazy love. Support her in her goals of life. Be patient because you gonna need it a lot. Good luck 😉

[@crackheadstuff6474]

a girl here... I gotta say wow! This is the healthiest most beautiful mindset of how to love I've ever read.

[@jusgoonin]

Don’t be thirsty be confident high value males don’t chase. Abundance mindset and focus on. Your goals and dreams easy

[@simplyplayn324]

I had a huge crush on a girl and asked her out, she said no. I looked at it as a positive thing because I had her on a pedestal... so now I stopped trying and just think positive like I dodged a bullet... and I'll find someone better. Now she approaches me.

[@sulemanhussain2013]

Be mysterious like your on a secret undercover mission and no one can no how you are what you do.

[@EnoI539]

Trying to get a girl nowadays is like eating an ice cream sandwich in the oven.

[@romulusempire2425]

True and well said especially a far way relationship

[@danielperkins8656]

Hilarious 😂

[@shawnvining9851]

No its not step back and relax in do time you will get what u want meantime just keep bettering yourself. Somethings God can only show you in troubled times like these. But together we all will make it

[@josesierra2440]

I don’t agree. My experiences haven been like that.

[@stephensalex]

@@josesierra2440 I'm with you, but then again I've been with my girl for 12 years so I've been outta the game a long time. Dating sucks anyway.

[@ajanitau3405]

Apollonia, I love your content and I think you're on point. I've done the rollercoaster effect and it works! However, I realize by watching tour videos that I've done it by accident! The more I watch you, I realize I know very little about myself and women. You ate giving me the tools to rebuild my self esteem and that's powerful!...and attractive. Instant fan!

[@thespoookytales]

Steal her money 😁 She will not forget you

[@roymckenzie3566]

Fo real

[@Wilson_Enyi]

😀😀

[@yungmagic7346]

💯💯💯💯😂😂😂I’m fuckin ctfu

[@STSTV94]

My nigga

[@michaelscurlock5371]

You must be from Memphis-10...like me😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀🔝that way

[@jamesroy7683]

Appreciate your advice and insight, just out of a long term relationship(fiance), it didnt work out, but the main thing that shook and shocked me was i lost her during her revelation she was fighting an addiction. She saw my weakness and fear that I was too needy of her constant love and her telling me she was there for me. After a relatively brief time I have realized she wasn't good for me but i continued to pursue. I appreciate your help. Excellent tips, and really what you say is a reminder of who i was before my divorce.

[@DeCurtaRican]

I friend-zoned a woman that I really wanted once, and it made her more interested, especially when she saw that I was serious, or at least able to keep a consistent appearance! I dated women right in her face, and she eventually broke down. It took a year, but she finally asked me why I didn’t look at her as potentially more than a friend.

[@riturajchoudhury4422]

@MrOrigen69 my man! 😎

[@gsprmssr2011]

Basically what Apollonia is saying is: If you’re desperate and interested in a particular western feminist woman and want her to fall in love with you, all you got to do is match her drama.

[@roymckenzie3566]

By the time you try to do that ...the hair on your head will fall out,and your nuts will get wrinkle

[@Slickness1980]

Lmao true

[@AdrianColley]

This is actually intriguing. I always thought that constancy and reliability were central to masculinity. I had no idea that made me monotonous!

[@radfoo72]

"You're always loved" was my favorite part 🥰

[@tangho4705]

this is nice, i find myself more emotionally intelligent after your vids.

[@sohail1855]

So good and open hearted you are to tell men these good tips. From your emotional Rollercoaster effect tip, it reminds me of a JiuJitsu Brazilian/American guy Rener Gracie. When he explains things to the audience, his voice tone and intonation let you ride a rollercoaster too. You can't ignore his single word he is telling us. He is a perfect example of, how to tell a story, or explain things.

[@savagewarrior5343]

Apollonia, my role model for youtube. Thanks a lot again for the information but also inspiration!

[@justinlareau2227]

Thank you for being a woman who is open enough to break down a woman's mind and and spelling it out for those of us that weren't gifted with being a smooth talker and great at picking up women. I will admit it I suck in the beginning of getting someone interested. However once I get passed that I do great. And videos like this I'm able to notice things I'm lacking or should tweak in my approach

[@OmniKrauzer]

Facts once again Apollonia and nothing but facts. Much respect💯

[@ApolloniaPonti]

I appreciate you

[@manasmhatre8200]

Thank you apollonia , I saw a video that she loves you but doens't want a relationship , I did exactly what u said , she agreed to that .

[@DK-cm4qf]

You still keep giving high quality information! Your energy is contagious!

[@morrispolynkiukakea3796]

This is the first women in my life in such instructional video that is talking from a very VERY honest vantage point. Kia Kaha (stay strong).

[@pratiksawant8468]

You are an Amazing Coach !!! Your points are So precise. Thank you appolonia ❤️

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you! xo

[@sundayaito4366]

Patrik we want, she is the real deal...

[@surendrasharma7617]

You Are Genius. You Are The Best Coach In This Entire Universe.

[@snorlaxcom]

Telling her a story of your heartache? Say hello to the friendzone.

[@neilmoomey]

Unless she is a professional dating coach for men. Her advice is in sync with male dating coaches.

[@alzahir]

Depends! If you're all mopey crybaby about it, sure. Friendzoned in the drama King section! But if you frame it right, you will come off at someone resilient and self confident. Self confidence is a high value lady's cocaine. "Yeah, such and such happened to me [I'm a human like everyone else], but look at me now! See how far I've come? [I overcome to become a badass, unlike everyone else]"

[@kidfromcropu2812]

@@alzahir exactly,there is a difference between sharing yourself when connecting with a woman and crying and bragging,and it makes all the difference

[@IevaKambarovaite]

@@alzahir exactly!! That's how we connect

[@2livenoob]

@@alzahir Who gets to decide the right amount of emotions to share when someone is telling their own story?

[@gspotjazz]

It doesn't take much to make a woman happy, but it takes a lot less to make her mad.

[@SantiXiAmaru]

This video has a lot of substance and the problem with a lot of men is that they do not know who they are and lack balance. Emotional intelligence is key. When a man is grounded in himself and balanced in his center. Once a man is in that place, then when he watches these videos, he can consciously look at himself, integrate the knowledge, and grow into who he really is as a complete, self actualize, masculine man. Muchas gracias por eso! 🌹✊🏾🖤🇨🇺🇨🇺🇨🇺

[@OctogonOxygen024816]

1:24 Emotional Rollercoaster for a low-value emotion? Lol okay sure I guess. 4:33 emotional conversations? Got it. 5:13 Response : Voice Ratio. Got it, make it feel or think emotions.6:18. 14:20 I needed to hear this lol 14:44 Challenge effect, got it !

[@CDWI211]

Thanks for not editing your videos. And thanks for not using cue cards. It makes what your saying much more authentic and straight from the gut💯

[@captainace4987]

Good morning Apollonia! You look amazing and I'm loving this video.

[@livinglimitless7962]

I dod the exact same thing to my wife. On a date she asked what I like. I said blonde hair white, but I told her I love her energy and how she holds herself. Love it.

[@tfredrick5004]

I firmly believe that this video is the most important of all the videos. Why? Because the information disseminated provides you with a valuable resource to emotionally connect and maintain a relationship with the woman of your dreams.

[@joebuchanan9563]

Huh?

[@johnrobinson6476]

This is a great video on the emotional roller coaster in communicating with a woman.. Thank you Apolliania!

[@yashishmanandhar6611]

The only coach I listen to.♥️ your advice are always appreciated. Thank you

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you. I appreciate your loyalty.

[@seanster625]

This video was very well done. From my experience, this stuff works. Thank you for including some examples and phrases. I genuinely appreciate this video

[@simonsiyakhulisa4181]

Why when a man respects a woman she loses interest in him...? But she always falls for the man who disrespects her? .

[@IevaKambarovaite]

It is a woman who is attracted to an unavailable man. If she's someone who truly knows her value and is not interested in playing hide and seek, she's not going to chase you. The second she sees you're disrespecting her she'll lose interest.

[@VoiceOfThe]

IEVA Kambarovaite It’s innate for a woman to chase a man. Men are the prize. Not the woman.

[@melmothrowe7621]

I'm getting hooked on your videos. full of wisdom

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you for your support.

[@elvinjonas7922]

Right on Michael Peterson,hooking up with women shouldn't have to be as hard as Chinese arithmetic.

[@falcongarcis6930]

Thank you for your insight on women.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Glad it was helpful!

[@strugglecuts]

You almost lost me. But i stayed for the whole video and u make sense. Thank u

[@karlmagro8806]

Subscribed for not editing out 0:30. I feel confidence rising just my listening to you. You’re so fuckin great and my hero for 2020.

[@danielsoares3737]

What ever happened to having and developing a real connection?

[@myname1715]

I feel like when social media started that method still exists but in a different way

[@J24777]

Don't exist these days unfortunately!

[@EnoI539]

The feminist

[@shadowfire1678]

That last tip was very enlightening...Completely changed my perspective

[@Santoshrailwaywala]

I always recommend your videos to my friends...thank you apollonia

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you!!!

[@Kenneth14621]

This was very good when you said "If you come off with high confidence and she doesn't like you to move on because she's not the one for you." I constantly run into people like that. I have high confidence in how good of a person I am. And I constantly run into women that want me to act worse than I am. I am like, I don't care how bad you act why do you care how bad I act?

[@DanielCamargoTalks]

This is a lot simpler than you think: those women are just too masculine for you.

[@MoreisMor]

Jesus, my head hurts

[@dancehallovaload637]

Lol

[@jeankabumbu7633]

Literally 🤣🤣

[@snaketv9310]

Google they know it all 😂😂

[@pepega5560]

fauk this, this shet too complicated for me low IQ... i'd rather be gay than learning to be someone im not...

[@andrewilson2321]

😂🤣

[@xytoll2385]

Ty for having all these videos on yt I recently got out of a relationship and this has made me feel a little better on why we broke I understand where I stood

[@mariusyanthan4426]

Yes, rightly said... Variety is also the spice of lasting relationship... Guys will gain much from this video, Ponti, as usual. Thank you...

[@isaacaragon5900]

Your body language on the pictures for your video is killer flirting body language. Amazing for posting and talking to guy. Good job Apollonian!!!!

[@danteholliday8873]

I'll stay single, thank you.

[@bryanmoreno5743]

😂😂 💯

[@michaelcollins8328]

Yeah. Life does seem to be a lot simpler when you avoid the spider's web that is the mind of a woman

[@li-an7700]

ur on point mah brotha!

[@ckaggs]

😂😂

[@davidd6003]

Nope just throw your game at them if they take it good if they don't fuckem

[@georgelake1972]

She nailed it 100% it works listen up guys!

[@salannymhlanga4263]

PLAYERS tell you EXACTLY what you want to hear but disappear when they get the trophy.

[@chriswalls5831]

Lol I've done that before

[@truthimagination2997]

Thx for being Real! Not to too many people reach ur level of maturity... (If that's even possible to obtain; like true leadership.)

[@westkraig]

Damn I'm doomed! If I could remeber all this while being with a date, I could be a scientist!

[@mattnash5159]

You are a real woman. Your type is so RARE. Ty so much for your time/video😙

[@rogerfed2030]

10:10 This is probably what we all been looking for. Listen to this advice.

[@steffanhoffmann8937]

No!

[@donnellharrisonsr.8979]

A woman’s virtues are an eternal vibe!!! 🔥🔥🔥

[@TwinkieCakey]

Now you see, I love it when these words and sentences in the video come from a woman. It is sure a great way for me to understand some things about women. I have a girl same of my age, we're in late 20's, and we start talking on FB and so on. Long story short, I'm usually for brunettes, always liked them, but this girl is a blonde. During our conversation, I have realized how strong she is. She's really holding herself as a woman. She's really confident. I'm not, but working on it. I have to be honest, I am nervous sometimes when we talk and we don't talk much but enough to keep the interest going on. She still hasn't blocked my ass off of FB so I guess I'm on a good path lol.

[@jhonhernandario2335]

You want her to block u it will happend

[@sushilsalins3576]

Has she blocked you now?

[@DualisticPerspective]

I adore your lisping apollonia Its One of those details i like in a woman Much Love from sweden

[@hamish8767]

Professor Tom Lykis called it back hand compliments 20years ago.

[@coltonhart.videos]

Thank you Apollonia! This has recently helped me initiate intimacy more smoothly into my dating, almost like magic. I feel like I just got an upgrade ❤️❤️❤️💙💙

[@JeoJetsonmusic]

It’s hard to poke fun at her because she can get very upset out of nowhere

[@tusharadhikary8785]

First time a KZbinr really giving some right examples.

[@jjlewis617]

Great advice as usual🤔... I need to start paying you for this knowledge. ❤🦸‍♀️.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

HaHa! The way you can pay back is by sharing my videos with men who need it. xo

[@jjlewis617]

@@ApolloniaPonti 👍Done Deal.. ❤🦸‍♀️

[@jaykay-_-ok]

@@ApolloniaPonti Thank you so much for keeping it free! 🙏

[@ntsambaknight8853]

there are so many things that i have come to understand that women always want a man to be there for her,... listening to your advice always helps me understand women even much more despite been in a marriage for some time ,.. you teach some valuable things indeed!!!

[@AdityaSharma-premium]

Take a girl on emotional rollercoaster...use mystery...that's all

Ok thanks Brad Pitt

[@oceanhedonist265]

@ Lol.

[@mikea.4477]

Aditya Sharma Try that and tell us how it turns out buddy. Fact is...women (particularly American) don’t know what the hell they want!

[@acharich]

😎

[@Juli-n-David]

@@mikea.4477 lol seems like it

[@vincenzo3371]

You're not only Beautiful but you're Good at what yuu do . Thanx .

[@iGo0gIe]

“Toss her to the side” throwing shade at alpha 😂 I see u

[@versatilelord8893]

iGo0gIe I love apollonia. She gives really good advice for us guys but ams still the goat lol

[@raymeester7883]

True.

[@acharich]

😂😂😂

[@jramir2]

I think out of all the videos you had, this one made the most sense. Especially the roller coaster effect. That encapsulates all the best relationships I've had from friends to family, and x's. It took courage, to just open up and go through the monotone, fun downs, and exhilarating ups. I've noticed it with my brother, we respect our times, talk about stuff, and then have fun talking smack playing video games, to cook outs and jokes. And with my friend, its everything, from joke, to really embarrassing times, traveling, chilling at home, stuttering to boasting. And I seen it fall with my x's back to the same fights, no more ups or downs, just stuck in one spot. But the great times, whew we did so much, visited so many places, explored things in the bed, but at some point it stalled. And with current crushes, I mean now I see why its good to just feel different things in a conversation instead of always trying to hit it to put it bluntly. Awesome vid, go more in depth.

[@InnerLifePhotography]

This is more complex then john nash’s theory

[@theowerle1638]

Im an alpha myself and not a pick artist... I see lots of value in your work, it has also help me with few questions. Please do ignore all the haters comments. You are a great looking woman and bring us lots of value (for those ready to listen of course) Thank you.

[@adrianlopez3023]

What about how to attract the woman you really deserve like she's everything you value in a woman

[@petergorm]

Some faith in women are restored again by your videos. I am learning a lot from them. You are good at this. Your new subscriber from Denmark.

[@RamDaDon]

Why you can't just be yourself 🤣🤣

[@ModernSpartan300]

RAM MAHARI You should

[@Mauitaoist]

If you can be yourself if you've got it together if you don't have it together maybe you shouldn't be yourself

[@johnnyampatin442]

This tips isn't for us men to act fake, but rather to develop an abundance mindset and confidence. Don't ever fake anything, just work on your mindset, have a purpose. Have a life outside dating.

[@TonyVega123]

I just met an incredible woman thanks largely to your techniques. You're an awesome human being Appolonia.

[@James-he4cr]

Your passion for what you do is amazing. 😘

[@rayallen7627]

Ur coaching skills are top notch

[@randomguy3055]

You poisoned your brother. No thanks on the advice to get crazy chicks.

[@antixisunknown]

lolll

[@EnoI539]

💀😂😐

[@Alex-wt9nf]

😂😂😂😂

[@dwainemassey7863]

Lmfao laxatives aren’t poison you moron. You’d have to take a very very high dose to die from that. Otherwise the person is just gonna have to shit. That’s not that bad...

[@Newjerseypest732-640-5488]

IKR LOL

[@felipears2092]

Very good conversation... I see this as talking to an older sister, which I wish I had 👏🏿👏🏿

[@alzahir]

Great advice, as always. Thanks! I'd add only that one cannot be minding all this stuff while having a conversation. It should come naturally from a place of confidence, self respect and respect for the other person. If one is satisfied with one self and has sincere appreciation for the other person's feelings, things will flow. There are, of course, people who are very good at minding this stuff on the spot and manipulating other's emotions for their own gain. These are called con men. Don't be a con man.

[@sujoysen7389]

Thank you Appolonia Ponti. Good Advice, thanks for making this video!

[@Native2music]

WRITE THAT DOWN WRITE THAT DOWN

[@Dynamics556]

the more you talked about the theory of attraction from your point of view, I am interested even more keep making more videos

[@vi_EviL_iv]

I'm going to have issues with this roller coaster crap. I'm grounded, high energy at times, mellow, shy and a little introvert meaning it takes time for me to show you my other side but cross me I'm cold...

[@slavicgirlagency5290]

So true. It is difficult for a woman to distinguish at the beginning of an acquaintance: a man always communicates like that or wants to make some kind of impression. Good dialogue can break the ice.

[@STOPEJECTPLAY]

I want a woman who has sense of humor that can make me laugh my ass off. Never found. I don't think someone like that exists.

[@krthDMPR]

STOPEJECTPLAY I found one. But I also found out she was married an hour into our date. *sigh*

[@duncanmcauley7932]

@Kennedy Harris well that’s a little disappointing lol

[@maartenbass328]

Ohyeaaah she does!

[@steffanhoffmann8937]

Correct

[@andrejohnson1179]

My mind is fried listening to this video.

[@90s-Trance_86]

My reaction to a female colleague: She: I trained in the weekend Me: ah cool....how much did you gain 😂😂😝

[@christopherchilambe1292]

You are the best coach ever for me you have changed me thank you so much Apollonia

[@90s-Trance_86]

When you talk about the blond, blue eyes thing thats actually a push-pull technique. This method (Push/ pull) you can use when you know like 70% he/ she is into you. Other wise it will be hard I think...

[@blackbirdinthesky67]

this channel and apolonia is the jackpot

[@tavepkz9281]

Where’s the guy that sums up the video? Man I ain’t got time for 15 mins 😂😩

[@ogadam1]

The cliff notes dudes are savior's lol

[@sanatmeher2243]

I am also searching for the same one

[@hninoowai1431]

I told my crush how I really feel towards her in honesty and she loves what I said a lot because I was vulnerable to let her know how I am really feeling