How to make friends at school and overcome shyness

[@Afsana125]

I seriously hate the whole first day of school feeling. It's the worst. Feeling like everybody else knows each other and you're just kinda there.

[@Suntro]

When in doubt, whip it out.

[@jyotisayami]

interesting points ,if anyone else trying to find out exercises to overcome shyness try Skyarza Stop Shyness Star (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some incredible things about it and my buddy got amazing success with it.

[@jamalcrawford3608]

I swear I feel the same way every year!... I just be feeling lonely asl sometimes😂

[@jiquariusdixon1625]

same here

[@jerimiegante1965]

your right . thats what i feel too . im filipino im in 7th grade and studying here in germany . but they speak english . and i feel like akward .tho

[@chriscodling6573]

I think that perspective is key just remember that high school is not that serious and no one is greater than you or less than you, at the end of the day people are just are people that want to be appreciated.

[@ceyanipratt6739]

This made me cry a little because last year when I started fifth grade I got bullied countless times because of how I looked or how I talked because I'm english and haitian .

[@andreachmelinova5187]

Ceyani Pratt so sorry about that, hope things are better now xx

[@abs20x]

Really needed this for uni in sept! And that lipstick looks soo good on you :)))

[@lovefashionandmakeup1428]

Great video yet again trisha. Sometimes I find it hard to talk to people and I am a very confident and talkative person. Your advice videos are amazing your such in inspiration to me. Xxx

[@bassib1587]

Your a life saver! Going to college in a few months and was really nervous and terrified but you have gave me some confidence! Thank you x

[@kishentanna]

Such a helpful video!

[@yanaangel4248]

***** Not certain about the points made but ,if anyone else is searching for best books for getting over shyness try Megarno Shyness Magician (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some great things about it and my work buddy got great success with it.

[@ErikaCupcake]

Laki Angel thanks!

[@el4234]

I'm moving to school in a completely different place in september so I have 9 days left in my current school, I didn't really know how I would fit in and make friends but this was a really helpful video I got loads of really good advice! thank you:)

[@KamileMac]

This really helped me! I am going to visit my new secondary school in a few weeks and I am going to listen to your tips!

[@hannahfox8403]

You really helped me out a lot as I'm going to high school next year and now I know what kind of things to talk about and what to do! Thank you so much.

[@sashafranchot2412]

Loved this video Trisha. x . But I do disagree with some things. Starting a new school is not easy at all. Best tip I would give is to stay calm and smile and be happy. By looking hapy and confident and even smiling it will attract people towards you. Get a conversation going. Don't worry about people judging you. Just stay true to yourself. Also, SOCIALISE. Don't always hang on your phone and act like a recluse. Get involved. I don't think playing on your appearance is a good thing as mentioned in this video. It may just come across as you're really insecure ot that you don't put in the effort. Be different. Don't "bumlick". You are your own person so NEVER be dependent on someone else. Do what you have to do!. Speak out. Don't be the quiet one in the corner. Trust me, once you get comfortable you wont be able to be quiet. Stay calm, cool and collected. Good Luck to you all. xxxx.

[@vaishalirasiklal7]

Again...You're awesome Trisha!! Im starting uni in september and I will definately take this advice when I walk into my first lecture:) xxx

[@lasyoutubechannelarmoa1834]

I don't remember how my friends became my friends

[@aquarius2989]

Same

[@alexaour5206]

same

[@jazzhemmings9719]

i love this, thank you!!! i'm incredibly awkward and i don't know basic social cues and this really helped!

[@kevinearner]

one of the best videos here on youtubeiii please do keep them comingiii namasteiii

[@trisha60]

Kevin Earner thank you x

[@Jojazmine]

trisha60 I love this video particularly the part about complementing someone who is sitting next to you in class. I found this useful tips on how to overcome shyness; overcoming shyness is Skyarza Stop Shyness Star - search Google if you want - how do you overcome your shyness

[@lovebunny6106]

This is so helpful, I love your videos x

[@CiecieNewson]

Real good useful advice. Shyness is a head game. People think too much of themselves and take themselves too seriously. Everyone is imperfect. Love yourself and others will come to love you.

[@shumouu]

Thanx for the advice trisha!! Rly good video!! Keep it up! Love ur nails! xox

[@sadafahmed2184]

This is soo helpful as I'm starting college soon, thank you Trisha xx

[@alienac5433]

Thank you so much for this! Im starting at a new college soon and ive always had social anxiety so this was very helpful trish, thank you xx

[@brieanabernal2790]

This video is amazing, great tips!

[@TheCrux009]

Nice video ! Specially for those who felt quite secure about moving to a new school because they didn´t see any challenge out of it, now after watching this, they must be terrified

[@lkas234]

Hey Trisha, I'm starting uni in september. Im so nervous about meeting the people in my flat, it would be really great if you could do a video explaining how to get a conversation going, guys can just say 'wanna play fifa' but for girls I think it may be a lot different! Brilliant video, you make me laugh every time! Thanks for all the advice. x

[@kavitahhhh]

I'm in the same boat. I'm so nervous. yikes.

[@beigelover95]

Same here although i'll be living at home :p

[@dantedelgadillo7090]

:| i havent had a friend since 4th grade and im in 9th grade (freshmen) now, but i have becomed a antisocial guy, and i get to nervous just to talk to people that the only think i can say its just hi, then it gets akward and they just leave, but for me, trying to talk is like a test that i need to get a good grade on and if i try talking i stumble in my words and cant say things right, and thats why i dont have friends at all, people know me but they just say hi and leave, nothing to do with me

[@pinkymay09]

Thank you for this video! It helped my niece thats starting middle school. It made me laugh too though. Cx

[@OrangemintPop]

Great tips. I would love to see a video on networking.

[@Queeniexx-hz1ex]

When I started at secondary school, this really helped a lot! thanks

[@Marceline374]

This was unbelievably helpful thank you so much

[@ellabella7731]

I’m 12. I’m shy. VERY shy. Been bullied, moves primary schools 2 times watching my old friends when we were like 5 grow to have friends and be happy and everything and I’m sat here, with 1 friend who I’m not even sure is even my friend anymore. Got her a present that was late for her birthday because I could only give it to her on my birthday, the day of gymnastics. 10th July. She said “I forgot your present sorry”. I was upset because the main reason I went to gymnastics was to give her a present so it would be really late. I even forgot the present and rushed home to get it. She’s been to my house 2 times and been to gymnastics about 2 times since that. Still no present. I just can’t seem to make friends. I’m just ‘evil’ according to my class. When someone needs to leave a group they go “You go” and when another group wants someone to leave the group so they can have enough people, they will say “Can someone leave your group, someone who actually talks though” then my group says “(my name) go in their group and speak”. Then they say “No she doesn’t talk she doesn’t do anything”. I just feel like I have no friends anymore and I’m just worthless.

[@coolcatdancer9733]

Thx the video is so helpful I'm in the 6th grade and going to a new school and I haven't gone to school yet but I know it will help I think you have very good perspective on the problem

[@alexaour5206]

i started a new school 3 months ago with my old friend with i went to school with since 2nd grade. Me and her are the shyest people you will meet,i mean not shy like run away I'm the corner but like we can't start a conversation. so we have been trying to talk to everyone, there is some girls that are funny and seem like fun to hang out with but they are the complete opposite to shy, so they clicked like really quick and now its harder to get to know them. I really don't want to be like all alone at school when my friend is sick or away or what it may be. Several times I've thought to move school because i don't see me and my friend in the girls group. The only girl were kind of talked to is one of the girls and she is really nice, she invited us in there group chat (this is very like 3rd gradeish but were in 7th grade and its a pretty big deal) and like the group chat is like for only the ''cool ones''' no even everyone in the girl group was in it. so thats the only thing about that. But pelase if you have any tip, suggestions or anything please let me know! thank you if you read this all the way to here :))

[@karratts]

Wish this video existed 12 years ago! Great words said

[@rcsg16]

Hi Trisha!!! What camera do you use to film?? Thanks in advance :)

[@beigelover95]

Although this was directed at high school/sixthform kids, i'm starting university soon (on a gap year) and i thought it was quite helpful :D but it would be more awesome if you made a whole video about FRESHER'S Week and making friends at university :) thanks alot x

[@kufre4real]

This videooo was definately helpful to me because i'm the "shy" type...lol

[@zehraj1968]

Great video! :) can you do another video where you talk more about "how to make conversation"/"how to carry on a conversation"? It would help a lot because I really suck at it... Love from Sweden

[@aneesahfarooq6337]

So helpful and informative.. I love your videos xx

[@maisieeblett260]

This video really helped me, thankyou so so much! :)

[@trisha60]

Maisie Eblett aww im glad maisie x

[@zobayershamim]

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[@keshikesh8667]

A very helpful video.Also I would like to suggest Renkarter Stop Shyness Report a product one of my friend found amazing for those who are dealing with shyness and want to overcome shyness in middle school .Google it if you're interested.

[@napolitrash1150]

hi guys, the greatest results that I have ever had was with the Seans Shy Program (i found it on google) - definately the most helpful resource i've seen.

[@JusTinLoveYooou]

in less than 2 weeks im starting at a new school, and its new for everyone cuz it separates, so im reallyyy excited now

[@sayalibonde]

Thanks for this video!

[@amazasmarty]

OH MY GOODNESS THANK YOU!!!!! I have a question. I already had my first week of school, but I know realize I did everything wrong. I was nice enough, but is it possible to start using these tips on the second week of school?

[@thepixeledpig1297]

+Jessica P. Same with me haha, I think we can just apply what she told us and just see what happens.

[@kenleff4453]

How about a video on talking to strangers as an adult? At an adult party, for instance.

[@LeenaMoonshine88]

Really brilliant! Thanks! :)

[@missingartist4176]

Love this video really helpful! Could you do something more focused on uni and making friends there that would be amazing and so helpful :)

[@nicholasjones2277]

Helpful from a beautiful girl thank you I just clicked subscribed!!! Also love your accent :)

[@aleksandralewandowska8981]

Love this video!!

[@skaiivodka9053]

I am going to a new school where everyone is going to be new In my class so it will be easier to talk to them and to make friends ...I was shy and I have a little more confident now ...OMG I think my High School life is gonna be way more easier now ...thank you BTW I am going to high school from Middle school ...

[@dodongai5754]

This video is really helpful and your like really pretty !

[@eleanor540]

what would you do if ur going to high school in a different village to were you went to primary school and everyone else in ur year went to the same primary school in the same village as the high school?

[@zawarudo93]

I'm literally just about to start high school in less than a week and I'm rlly freaking nervous omg....but I'll take ur advise and see how it goes...

[@meganpedicini5088]

Really helped! Just clicked subscribe :) x

[@trisha60]

Megan Pedicini THANK YOU SO MUCH! X

[@abdelkaderbousaid644]

I've been studying top treatment for shyness and found a fantastic resource at Seans Shy Program (google it if you're interested)

[@ItsDerpiela]

Great video ;)

[@angelique_ghr]

i wish i was confident :( thanks for your advice!!

[@glowinggirl6821]

thanks for the advice but what if you went to a boot camp and they made do exocises and drill you and go upstate and make you learn crazy things like cpr and you have to get up and do it in front of everyone and they pick you when you dont want to be picked on what do you do what if you werent listening and your face is red and u are so scared wishing you could be out of the situation? im so scaredd that is the situation i am in and it is hard for me to speak to people because i am socially akward because of my anxiety....

[@jessicamonsma1805]

This was so so helpfullll!!

[@ayli2843]

Thanks so much!! This video was really helpful...

[@bobbseytwins891]

Thank you so much for this video.

[@retrodiamondsgamer7447]

I'm gonna give these a try tomorrow fingers cross :)

[@bebedallas7679]

Great video! I go back to school in a few weeks and I just joined my schools volleyball summer camp where the schools team is also doing the camp so I'll be meeting people from my new school. Everyone there is super great at volleyball and I just started. So I feel everyone thinks I'm very annoying for being the worst there. How do I talk to people who don't really want me there. I'm not scared to go up to someone and ask their name but what about after that. What should I talk about to keep things going and not awkward?!? Please help

[@lilmissyy16]

This is soo helpful ☺️

[@jojoxx14]

wow this helped me so much

[@zsofia_nagy]

This was really helpful!

[@jonathanmackinnon611]

just started new highschool. have my bf but he's really confident and funny , I wanted to make new friends but I'm very shy I talk to loads of people from my class on social media but we don't really talk in person. I was making friends with these people but then my best friend kinda stole them with his jokes 😢 just very depressed

[@Pooplydoo]

Love your videos!

[@dawgassmemi1664]

I'm like so shy at first but once u get to know me I'm funny...its just way to hard to talk to ppl at a new school

[@anjazakrajsek2740]

You're amazing😉

[@kiran922]

very helpful :)

[@fierypotion8035]

I loooove your accent!!! :D

[@sumanbahal1283]

This was helpful thanx xx

[@andresg2139]

Thnks help a lot

[@tc-dw6qn]

thanks Really good!

[@eyrunsigurjonsdottir2278]

Will this also work when it's your second semester at school and the kids know you but you haven't talked to them because of shyness?

[@sharelove9786]

Thank you

[@kavitahhhh]

Brilliant. I really really need this. thanks Trisha. :*

[@레인보우위저드]

Omg your so pretty

[@AdventuresWithMeh]

I actually have to start a new school

[@baileymiller3424]

sooooo helpful

[@johnsam1542]

Thanks I made a lore of friends and I love u too

[@robinhood7874]

GOOD ADVICE, NICE ONE YOUNG LADY

[@trisha60]

+Robin Hood thanks x

[@nalinsenevirathna1639]

+Robin Hood I'm researching treating shyness at home and found a fantastic website at Seans Shy Program (google it if you are interested)

[@valerykaravasilev6397]

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[@lunamoonlight9851]

I'm not new to a school, but I had no friends in preschool and in primary school I began making friends with a boy called Archie Carlson, then we kind of, ummm... Became gf and bf, but lately my relationship with him is a bit shaky, he made two new friends Tyler And Lucas and they bully me and whenever I try to sit next to Archie or talk to him Tyler and Lucas are in my way and they push me around and stuff 😢 so I try to avoid him nowadays and now I have no friends 😦 And now Archie has a *NEW* girlfriend! And I'm kinda jealous 🙀 This video helped a tiny bit but I'm still searching for something else *my age* Please Help Me!

[@niesha1678]

what country are you from

[@paulbols1304]

hi guys, the greatest success that I have had was with the Seans Shy Program (i found it on google) - without a doubt the no.1 info that I have ever seen.

[@SabrinaCrumpler]

1st comment yay!

[@ashleejade4012]

Great video very useful :)

[@annafee8886]

Thx

[@Bubbles0011]

I feel like u understand me!

[@bhavnasoni26]

such a hilarious video!! Trisha60 im going through a few problems is it possible to get some advice?

[@trisha60]

Sure inbox me

[@bhavnasoni26]

where?

[@trisha60]

on youtube

[@Pooplydoo]

Love how kishen tanna commented lolol

[@whooopsiesssssssss9770]

Can anyone help me plzzz I have a sister nd she started secondary school 4 months ago but she doesn't have any friends she doesn't seem to get along with people she has no confidence she doesn't talk to anyone nd all she does is stays in library at break time and lunchtime by herself nd whenever I look at her I feel really bad bcz I just cant do anything for her so plzz tell me wht should I do to help her make friends?

[@adamhannah3492]

im the same no one likes me and i dont like alot of people my friend hangs about with people that are mean

[@abdultv4819]

yeah, actually i have started a new school for the past 2 month but i haven't got any friend, but the problem with me is that i don't talk to anyone, i just think that if a talk to someone he/she may do something wrong or talk to me in a bad way. but people talk to me and i also talk to them that just all, if you have any solution to my problem please try to help me out. much love @ trisha60

[@kassandraramirez7876]

I'm not even going to school I'm being normal since I ever started school I havent had a friend I try to be myself and I am in middle school life is just hard nobody even wants to text me😿😿😿😿 you just don't know what I'm going through and I need advice

[@kierajade8418]

What if your sat next to a boy?

[@rebelliouskfc7267]

I have a bad reputation at my school since im really immature when i was grade 4 and yet i still dont know i was immature until my cousin strted teasing me that i was immature and childish that decreased my confidence im paranoid on every single thing that i say if its immature or mature i cant talk to anyone anymore like i used to since nursery-grade 3 until now im grade 7 i still cant make friends this really makes me sad i wanna go back to being a grade 2 student since i had many friends when i was grade 2 pls just pls help me i cant do this my classmates also classifies me as a crybaby pls help me i wanna be mature,friendly, i want to grow up if you guys pls just help me

[@gracejackson476]

+Unarmed Chicken Hey, it's don't worry. There are tons of websites, books, videos, people etc. that can help you. x

[@rebelliouskfc7267]

+Grace Jackson can give an example?

[@viniciusdugue2928]

oh my god i feel you. im in 8th grade and i look like a ten year old and because of that they treat me like im immature and dont take me seriously. I get paranoid.

[@walterpayton8747]

beautiful and helpful sister..:/ good one but i'm still that guy from somewhere else..

[@kassandraramirez7876]

oh sorry I am not going to a new school

[@catherineparker1788]

um my problem is diffrent I go to a school and everyone thinks I am crazy and think my laugh is creepy my teacher makes me stop laughing :(

[@DpsEagle]

:c sad story , most people think i m a good dude but my friends and i know im a cunt that makes fun of others but no one knows except my friends . I do this as a joke which only they understand

[@carolinesr3746]

It's not as easy as you think yeah the 13 year old girls are such snobs but how could I talk if it kills you really hard and makes your heart tear apart and cry inside. I wish I had friends but people are animals scary creatures to me I wish I could make friends but to my eyes humans are cruel supremely cruel.

[@inhajoju]

Same here, :( everytime I try to talk with someone about something I get the same feelings. I found a decent person but she has her own friends, hopefully we can do it. One step at a time, one step at a time. Best of luck!

[@yashalslife2076]

😀

[@kraljsrki]

It wasn't shit at all. It was good.

[@jesus-kun7327]

I Know right its super bad I really cant make friends outside im like omg Im trying but I play on the computer everyday that's so just D; SSSSSSSSSSSSad! but thank you when school comes back on I will dow hat you said I will try to make jokes about stuff and yeah and blinding in sometimes ppl are mean its sad but still like at the same time your mad and sad its just : already posted :

[@ErikaCupcake]

Belle Constantine don't force yourself to make jokes, if it's not in your personality don't do it. People will see that you are not being real. Instead of being in front of a computer, join clubs or activities that you enjoy doing and start from there. It always works out for me to make new friends that way. :)