Easy, make them think you don't like them and got better shit to do. Your welcome ladies.
@kky.x4 ай бұрын
Shit works. A guy would ignore me for weeks until i stopped being interested. Now he’s obsessed and idc
@kkthanxbye094 ай бұрын
@@kky.xhow did you change the dynamics?
@kky.x4 ай бұрын
@@kkthanxbye09 You have genuinely not care. They sense it and it drives them crazy lol
@ivasekerija19454 ай бұрын
Literally. Like just have goals and view him as sth that is an option.
@sunflowerrayne60264 ай бұрын
@krissy.x yup same for me. I was chasing a man because he got me interested, and then he ghosted me. So when I started ignoring as well, he started reaching out.
@MandyJRoss4 ай бұрын
Focus on you and the focus becomes you.❤
@britiroy97584 ай бұрын
Margarita ❤
@sunnisunshinee4 ай бұрын
Texting sets you up for failure, creates a false sense of relationship bond. Also hinders from actually seeing you, if these texts aren’t planning for the next hangout.
@MariaLuckyxo4 ай бұрын
I always say my phone is a tool for 2 things, to make plans and get money. 💰💰💰🤑 Men are welcome to do both😘
@akuasalaam4904 ай бұрын
A word!
@crzellmer4 ай бұрын
I've been giving him the same amount of texting he gives me. If he takes forever to respond, once he does, I will look at it and take a few hours before I respond. Or I wait until the next day. Sometimes when I wait to respond he then asks when I'm free to actually go on a date. I hate playing these "games" but it works. And stop social media altogether. Somewhere along the lines people stopped posting for intention and are now posting for attention. Just don't. Leave a bit of mystery about yourself, your life and what is going on with you. Not everyone needs to know everything about you. You don't need the external validation. And do not lurk on their social media or you will just drive yourself crazy.
@shaybar934 ай бұрын
This is one of the most balanced and accurate podcasts I’ve ever seen from a man. I agree 1000%. I absolutely abhor men who only wanna be pen pals. I move on so quickly. And most importantly, it’s been hard for me to rush into relationships because I really have such a fun and inspiring life. So, you have to be special and add to the peace and happiness I already have.
@CassieAfricanQueen4 ай бұрын
Treat every guy like you are repulsed by him. Basically. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 he will chase.
@danilaroche1156Ай бұрын
Repulsed? No I disagree. Out of reach and a challenge. Yes.
@holistic.kate.4 ай бұрын
Damn this is so true. The guys I don’t care about and don’t care to text chase me and the top 10 guys I try to text more because I’m interested don’t seem interested at all.. I need to stop texting for sure. Thanks for the tip 😊 ❤
@cortneyozment78254 ай бұрын
Exactly
@lewiel32894 ай бұрын
Stop thinking too much about it. If he’s interested, you texting or not isn’t gonna jeopardize that. You extract more out of him if you employ this whilst he is interested.
@nancytamil7144 ай бұрын
10 is too much y'all
@ShikhaSingh-xy9qy4 ай бұрын
Exactly The same I have Experienced
@yasminflower51403 ай бұрын
10??!? Wtf
@derencebailey4 ай бұрын
Bro the squeaky voice impersonation be taking me out. 😂 I love this man
@yosr1114 ай бұрын
Literally ❤😂
@missnoellechristine4 ай бұрын
Literally obsessed
@biggbakari4 ай бұрын
0:08 😂
@ellem4music1564 ай бұрын
By now, we the women have understood this very well with all the tips and strategies from places like KZbin, books and what have you. It's no news. The thing is, most of us did try the " don't chase, let them come to you, ignorance is bliss,"etc. but, the issue is not just that right now. The thing is, even after following those ways, the complaint from the other side was that, we didn't show any concern about them, so they weren't happy either. Therefore, I think, it's not because we didn't follow the assignment, we did, but they weren't cool with anything we did. There's always something they don't like about, they aren't sure about, and then they go. Imagine, both parties follow the " don't chase" module, this human race won't run in the next 200 years.
@neawilliams72044 ай бұрын
You are so spot on 🗣️ as I watched the video: it had great points and I even took a page or two from this gentleman’s book. However: the majority of the video both reassured what I already knew and annoyed me at the same time. The part about “dangling the carrot” as a way to get a mans attention is an exhausting game I do not wish to play. I get having a balance to spark interest/curiosity, but many take advantage of that. If I have to play this cat chase mouse game so you’re interested in me, I will gladly pass. I like it when someone makes it CLEAR they like me and stand on business to make me feel as such. And no it’s not asking too much despite what they say. Especially whenever he talks about the pursuit of chase, daily texting etc. I completely understand not wanting to text 24/7 (I don’t even want to do that) but it’s a complete difference between that and not checking in with me at least once a day. If they can’t even do that, I don’t see a relationship with that person anyways🤷🏾♀️. Second: it’s just best to live your life until time reveals who your soulmate is. All this advice, rules, and steps to dating gets so exhausting sometimes. I know most people are mostly spreading awareness, but it sums up how everyone thinks these days. Dating should honestly not be this complicated, draining and hurtful. Most people can’t get over their ex, haven’t unpacked past trauma, no one wants to make the first move because no one wants to look stupid etc etc. It’s too much, it’s sad our society has came to this point. But who knows: maybe it’s best to let this gross infested dating pool subside until we can truly unite again. Forever invest into yourself as well❤
@marygilmer96352 ай бұрын
How did all the ppl before us do things? No one is teaching their children the basics of dating or setting examples? They didn’t have social media to teach them all these things
@alysham.20134 ай бұрын
So dumb. I wish we could start replacing the word chase with “showing up”. Chasing is not flattering, being mean to people & acting like you don’t care in hopes of reverse psychology is not the type of people you want to attract into your life. Those people are damaged. We should be teaching people what healthy people are, how they behave.. And how they show up for you because they WANT to
@moonlightstargem10064 ай бұрын
But apparently that’s not how the world works unfortunately.
@zlatnimjesec27064 ай бұрын
Bravo!
@Zuzzamma3 ай бұрын
@@moonlightstargem1006 this.
@jav98093 ай бұрын
Finally someone with IQ
@nyanestor1412 ай бұрын
Perfectly said!! 👌 But alas, other people like that (outside of you and myself apparently) are considered unicorns....
@jesssoreal3 ай бұрын
Literally all of your videos I’m binge watching and taking notes and even will rewatch and program myself with it all.
@Sanctuary5054 ай бұрын
WHERE WAS THIS WHEN I STARTED DATING
@user-gu2pb7km8f4 ай бұрын
🎉self-happiness😢 is ur Lottery ticket!😊 it hurt leavn but I refuse to be mistreated. he was very jealous of my confidence etc. Instant subscriber. this man is a G.O.A.T!!!
@misslucky934 ай бұрын
I did this to my bf from time to time. Overtime relationship will become boring. So this idea is really good to hype up the relationship. Be mysterious. Let them think and be curious.
@lillyvalak92544 ай бұрын
But how do you do it once you get into the relationship with them? I feel too comfortable to go back to these games then, need tips :(
@gogetta65323 ай бұрын
@@lillyvalak9254I need tips too
@danilaroche1156Ай бұрын
My mom was married 45 years. She wasn't always around to cater to my step-dad. She had a full life. He never stopped wooing her. She didn't constantly validate & show interest. Only sporadically. Kept him on his toes.
@karmicsoul44444 ай бұрын
When a guy says he only has Snapchat I run a mile...fake as shit.
@JaymeDunn-tj1be3 ай бұрын
This is exhausting.. 🤣 I watched for curiosity. Thank God I’m already married good luck ladies
@yeahso314322 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@navimarlow4 ай бұрын
WE DONT CARE! Leave us alone! I don’t want to be “chased”!
@victoirequeen38513 ай бұрын
Chasing ?? I don't like marathons, as my gender said we don't care 😂
@mariamjackson29944 ай бұрын
The best advice ever shared. I had no choice than to subscribe. Thank you mate!
@jagrutishirsath47504 ай бұрын
You speak really good..... I likes to hear your clear cut words & accent 💛
@kulsumalik4 ай бұрын
Went all wrong wish I found this earlier I miss him so much but he's happy with someone else
@johannajo13593 ай бұрын
I did this though not on purpose but being very busy they seem to see that as not being interested. 😂
@natividadramirez46964 ай бұрын
I love that you record ur podcasts !!!
@cwilli1014 ай бұрын
This is definitely true… unfortunately on the female side, it always feels like such a game
@nduh_simelane71054 ай бұрын
dating is a sport 😪😪
@dinab.34404 ай бұрын
Life is basically a game the cards are in your hand though 😂
@cwilli1014 ай бұрын
@@dinab.3440 facts!
@sonyaandrews17733 ай бұрын
lol “the squirtle”. So very true and hysterical name for “it” .
@bet-ty943 ай бұрын
Am from East Africa and am glade to get you on youtube i used to see u on tiktok this is the best relationship advice i've ever get thank you my brother ❤ am learning alot of things ❤❤❤❤
@winner2.0594 ай бұрын
Love the video, very helpful ❤ Can you make a video like this for how to make him chase you when you been together for a long time and/or married or about to be married please 🙏🏽
@kayt26934 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this. You now have a new subscriber
@positivel5530Сағат бұрын
Just wanted to show your channel some love 💕
@Nyenae19 күн бұрын
Dropping a comment for engagement. This video is ace, 100% truth. Thank you for posting this :)
@aleadalopez11274 ай бұрын
Thank you I needed this guy friend advice cause females be lieing to us
@gabrielnadia10854 ай бұрын
Stop
@goddessshala4 ай бұрын
It’s so crazy because I get this and do this naturally ! When I’m not interested but boy… when I like a man lmao here I am relearning like my brain is putty 😂😂
@realwhitneyvanessa6 күн бұрын
Girl, same 😩
@yeahso314322 күн бұрын
The carrot scene got me 😂😂😂
@xstinalifecoach4 ай бұрын
This is 💯. I preach this on my channel as well. Keep it up!
@catarinaarg9144Ай бұрын
Gonna go listen to wizard liz andn sheera brb 👀 they low-key preach the same as you but this video is on point ngl
@Chosen3024 ай бұрын
Thank you. Big sis here. I’m loving that you can help me with valuable advice. Subscribed.
@ChloeJones-ne6ck4 ай бұрын
This is great advice, thank you.
@MusicandVG4 ай бұрын
As a Pokemon fan I will never hear Squirtle the same again 😅
@mymissm2064 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@GamerTeague14 күн бұрын
Made some good points on this one but , being too much of the "reward " which usually feeds in an in individuals narcissism is not the best advice , makes your man/woman who have any form of self respect extremely exhausted thus loosing interest to pursue thinking your just playing hard to get making life difficult for you.
@jaylentv14 ай бұрын
He is spot on...
@lastarrwicks3067Ай бұрын
I have been with my husband for 31 years we met in high school...I just wanted to say that your advice is on point. I have went from the golden retriever to the black cat "its never too late, lol". I enjoy watching your show & ive even picked up some great pointers, keep doing what you do
@marvimalik3042 ай бұрын
Thank you. Like a real brother
@sabrinahendricks50724 ай бұрын
Gold nuggets!
@kitihot4 ай бұрын
You so right thank you i learned so much ❤
@missnoellechristine4 ай бұрын
This channel >>>
@dorcas_in_splendor3 ай бұрын
I love how direct you are
@m_b_alx4 ай бұрын
Coming from a man, i really appreciate it, thank you ❤
@03-five-r.193 ай бұрын
You are a gem. You are a man full of knowledge.you speaking like an old wise man. You are an eye opener.I subscribed you fast
@NinaLuscious114 ай бұрын
This was super helpful! Thank you so much
@good11252 ай бұрын
Wow this is your best video!! 😍
@TenariusKing-tw8cv3 ай бұрын
This man is Gold ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨🌟
@jesssoreal3 ай бұрын
I have to go back and take notes while watching your videos.
@DashaTheDivineDivahКүн бұрын
Your level of honesty and directness is me in a male body. It's hilarious and so necessary, because I remember being in my 20s and 30s and being so delusional, creating these fantasies out of bare minimum effort and action. And if these young women are willing to actually listen to what you are saying, they will save themselves so much time energy, tears and unnecessary Hope I will save it for the proper oneYour level of honesty and directness is me in a male body. It's hilarious and so necessary, because I remember being in my 20s and 30s and being so delusional, creating these fantasies out of bare minimum effort and action. And if these young women are willing to actually listen to what you are saying, they will save themselves so much time energy, tears and unnecessary Hope they will save it for the proper one
@user-qk7or7vs8o3 ай бұрын
After I watched your “Don’t be dumb” video , I no longer have a desire to watch this😂 If I ever meet a guy and I’m wanting to figure out how to get him to chase me forever then he probably isn’t my guy but from what I’ve heard so far you do have some good texting advice.
@Solov_d4444 ай бұрын
Golden advice ❤❤❤
@tonyalee52573 ай бұрын
Great advice
@Ravilette2 ай бұрын
Your skin looks great and thank you for the video. It's Except instead of accept.
@Wizard-Girl93 күн бұрын
I prefer the damn old TELEPHONE ☎️ 📞!!!
@ayd73304 ай бұрын
I lost at the first step 😢
@OluwadamilolaOriade-fe7dv4 ай бұрын
I enjoyed listening to your video
@weightlossjourney36414 ай бұрын
The cry threw me to the ground.😂😂😂who else? 😂😂😂
@lightsky64984 ай бұрын
Very instructif video 👏
@chitra_8883 ай бұрын
This video was golden! Thanks ❤️
@user-sy4bb5ol2d3 ай бұрын
The impersonations are hilarious 😅😅😅😅
@gogetta65323 ай бұрын
I need video on how to keep a man chasing you that you live with
@TheWolffamily2022Ай бұрын
Same! At this point I'm taking my power back and just focusing on me.
@gogetta6532Ай бұрын
@@TheWolffamily2022 girl I moved out and now he regrets how he was treating me and begging for me to come back
@JHW44Ай бұрын
Same advice, live your life 😊
@cytinachavis9157Ай бұрын
PLEASE TELL ME ARE THERE ANY MEN WHO DON'T PLAY THESE POWER STRUGGLE GAMES?!
@tfushtfushtfush2 ай бұрын
Dude you are my miracle
@gbgfilms_4 ай бұрын
I love this video so much! thank you!
@SR777364 ай бұрын
Good advice.
@JesusLightsYourPath4 ай бұрын
How to get over the fear of in person conversations?
@auroragold7994 ай бұрын
So then what do you do/say if hes just ok with FaceTiming and talking on the phone all day
@user-ow9hp2rb9z8 күн бұрын
You so funny when you start talking funny 😂😂😂
@mia2spot4 ай бұрын
😂 I like this LOL
@JHW44Ай бұрын
You’re snap chatting the side of your face, the ceiling! 😂😂😂
@rayyanrayyan7059Ай бұрын
god, save this man, he s a hidden gem
@kaylamorais96014 күн бұрын
PLS i need to know what your zodiac is lol. P.S. I love your videos. Keep them coming!
@tinaseta12113 ай бұрын
Wow, you’re good
@SusanSummer4 ай бұрын
You actually made me smile 😊
@gerdunnibye85534 ай бұрын
How old are you? What you are saying is so true👍You are just amazing.😍👍 Greetings from a mature lady🤗
@user-wk4uq5bi4n4 ай бұрын
nobody wants a grown man to chase her around forever
@lareesalmon77414 ай бұрын
Not a picture of his toothpaste 😆
@iwonderful472 ай бұрын
you’re raising my standards!!!
@s.gomez0553 ай бұрын
Ur carrot analogy 😂😂😂 but very true ☝🏽
@lmmogz3 ай бұрын
I’d love to give this a try. Thank you ❤ How long will it last for in the fridge please?xx
@veronice_ronnie3 ай бұрын
I do all this naturally. I watched the video as a judge tbh😂
@lr483074 ай бұрын
wow ur amazing i really love this content
@findmysoulgarden9144 ай бұрын
Everyone is an expert on Social Media! People are clueless... 😂😂😂
@sheneetje39994 ай бұрын
Lovee lovee your videoss !🥹🌈🍀✨
@CassieAfricanQueen4 ай бұрын
That’s still a stranger 📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢
@user-gs9gl3jt1v4 ай бұрын
Your funny I enjoyed this and learned a lot 😂
@chelseashamim914829 күн бұрын
Men will chase what they want no matter what they do
@zainabrose964 ай бұрын
jus subscribed
@lovewins80454 ай бұрын
This was really good!! Keep them coming..very informative and entertaining.
@lavenderbudtree3 ай бұрын
What if you’ve been dating for 5-6 months? Would you still not reach out?
@hediyaCАй бұрын
Does this apply to women over 40?
@johannajo13593 ай бұрын
I am not an in person person. I do not meet before texting a while. 😂 If online we met.
@debraarnold52504 ай бұрын
Remember also no matter what there is what we call creation/manifestation to draw ✍️ something into existence that already exist therefore we can completely clear out past circumstances to where the person shows 🆙 in ways we couldn’t see for ourselves. And in listening to this it’s assisting in seeing things in which we believe and a new script is being written oh snap 🫰 thank you 🙏 for this information 🥰