How To Make People Sorry For Doubting You | Alex Hormozi

[@ChrisWillx]

Hello you beauties. The full episode with Alex is now live! Watch here - kzbin.info/www/bejne/g2Wzq4Kggpp1gLM

[@Mazda.Fit.]

Hook, line & sinker. New sub earned.

[@Tharuruu]

I don't like the way you talk

[@Tharuruu]

You sound annoying and you talk way too much

[@mr_deluzional]

I was bullied in high school. Its been 4 years since I left and I still have scars from the wounds they gave me. I have used my pain as my motivation to work hard in my life but I realized that no matter how much I achieved, they didn't care. It seemed like it was I who cared more about the people who hurt me, so I deleted their numbers and moved on with my life. And I think that has made a great difference in my life. To anyone reading this, let it go and move on with your life. Your success is not about them

[@rohanremi]

In beating them at their own game, they already won by default because they got me to change the game I was playing. 🤯

[@b4zz3d59]

Facts. That's why they are always changing words and definitions, and lying and projecting.

[@barefootarts737]

I agree, if you grow up wanting to be rich, than they already beat you! Because someone tricked you into thinking that this is the only worthy game in town. For some this is mimicry at its finest. And all the the conformity that goes into this game, is evidence of the vicious and banal repetition that it thrives on. Successfully derailing generations of people from greater purposes. Like how you described it.

[@drjohnnysaint8779]

​@@jayandgemzee joos

[@CMA418]

And then the game is over. The board goes back in the box. And then you can ask yourself, “What reality did I miss out on while I was playing the game?” Everything comes at a price, even winning.

[@desmondnana-bentum9589]

4:45

[@kylerobinson8336]

This is why I like Alex so much, he teaches things that sets you want to pathway to feel fulfilled and not fuel yourself with resentment and anger, which can help you progress with your goals but it’s still in the framework of you only feel good when you get approval from others, rather than approval from yourself. I recently had a shift like his, and it has left me fulfilled and weirdly enough more motivated.

[@CMA418]

And yet the title of the video still implies that it’s really the regret of others, or lack thereof, that is the impetus to our choices and actions. Remove all others from the equation and the game is solitaire. Do you still play? And if you play, to what end and for what purpose? To pass the time that is coming to an end? Or to prove to yourself that you can win against the deck that has been dealt while you are still here? And even if you win this or that game of solitaire, you will know it was only possible because the shuffle landed in your favor, and the next shuffle may not, if you’re even granted another shuffle at all.

[@keano7165]

Success is the only revenge. As you expand they shrink into irrelevance. As you get louder, no one can hear them. You don't beat them, you cast a shadow no one can see them to begin with. ❤

[@jackallen7950]

Alex has to be my favourite guest to listen to. The way he explains things is world class

[@Aryan.Biswas]

DROP THE WHOLE PODCAST!!! 🥲😭

[@denverkachaka4129]

You might not see this, but you've helped me in ways you can't imagine.💯

[@PhysiqueWildCard]

That solitude portion is real. Builds immense character.

[@mariolongtin8271]

What a great admin or teacher!! I had nothing like that in high school or college. I feel you on that one Chris!

[@itzajdmting]

The opening paragraph of this clip spoke to me so powerfully and personally... I must have rewound it half a dozen times... It really vibes with some things I'm wading through at the moment and feeling very alone in doing so. It's so reassuring to know how others have dealt with the same things, and not just coped with them but have soared high above them so that they are now barely even on the radar.

[@hish33p32]

"The greatest way to avenge yourself is to not be like the ones who wronged you" "The best revenge is getting yourself to a place where you no longer have to take revenge"

[@Yooooosh]

what if somebody wronged you by bullying you in the past, but now you want to take revenge and fight them, what would you say to that?

[@edheldude]

​@@YoooooshThe bully still has an emotional/spiritual hold over you.

[@Kx0195]

Fantastic video Chris. I love how you open up and allow people to relate to your childhood trauma, along with Alex and other people including Goggins. His mindset changed my life and allowed me to believe in myself and grow and get rid of the victim mentality that I was stuck in. People need to look internally and start asking the hard questions like "Am I the problem" and thats how you grow as a person. Nobody wants to do that nowadays and it's so sad to see such potential wasted.

[@labibbinbakar]

Your Content Stands Out In A Refreshing Way! I Truly Appreciate The Absence Of Background Music In Your Videos, As It Allows Your Message And Personality To Shine Through Without Distractions. Keep Up The Great Work!

[@pyoodiepie]

imagine having it all. the Muscles,Brains, Looks and Money.

[@Adamod3df]

You can! You don't have to imagine 💯👊🏾

[@arigutman]

Always appreciates Alex's wisdom from sheer experience, there is nothing more powerful!

[@dotpenji]

Great video with Alex! His realization of the futility in trying to beat someone else at their own game is truly insightful. It's amazing how these experiences have turned into powerful life lessons. Instead of constantly trying to outshine others, I've learned that focusing on personal growth, setting my own goals, and embracing my unique strengths and passions has been incredibly rewarding. I genuinely believe that the path to fulfillment lies in staying true to ourselves and pursuing what truly matters to us. It's all about the personal journey of self-discovery and self-improvement, guided by our values and aspirations. And when we do that, we can find authenticity, contentment, and an exciting sense of purpose in everything we do! 😊🌟

[@monalizapantoja8490]

101% Agree! It's a beautiful reminder that we should focus on our own growth rather than constantly comparing ourselves to others.

[@monicasoriano8581]

Great work Alex! Embracing individual growth, setting personal goals, and celebrating unique strengths aligns perfectly with the philosophy of finding fulfillment through authenticity and self-discovery.

[@davidpascoe293]

Don’t let them live rent-free in your head.

[@johnman559]

They won't leave Dave! They're squatting😢

[@davidpascoe293]

@@johnman559. Man, that is rough. I’ve gotten some solid mileage out of narrowing my focus. CBT through journaling about the traumatic parts of my childhood. And doubling down on figuring out how to fulfill my dreams.

[@johnman559]

@@Stierenkloot I have! They're not paying up. hhhHELP !!!!!!

[@GOATLAVISH777]

@@johnman559so use it as fuel, don’t go through pain in vein, use that energy to win

[@edheldude]

Charge them $1200/month!

[@ChiTheAesthete]

This is probably also an example of why men in school is so important for kids especially boys.

[@wojohowitz5432]

well, the Education system has been hijacked with an agenda, so there is no support for young boys to grow into men.. and that is by design.

[@HardcoreLegend]

The book launch on Saturday was Alex playing the game his way. I knew he was going to give everything away for free because that’s what he’s been saying the whole time, but seeing people tearing up was very profound. He was so proud. He like took GaryVee’s message of Kindness and 10Xd it!💪🏽

[@islandqueen1252]

Thank you this video really hit home and resonated with me today.

[@fedesupi]

I really hope to keep seeing interactions between these two. There's so much chemistry that it becomes addictive for people thirsty for learning 💪

[@Goals9]

Success is the only to be ahead in life many people of doubts before you even reach success. Years later if you work hard for year after year and don’t quit. You will eventually achieve what you want the car, the work ethic you want etc. you want even care what you see other people are doing with there life all you have to do is win so big so all of them constantly compare themselves to you and you will forget they exist . Work hard so you can be ahead of those people, financially, successfully and with nice things to

[@PodcastPapi1]

Beast.. coming from the right place as it pertains to the game you're playing is so important

[@JamalW239]

I’ve heard this guys name but I’ve never heard him speak. That first part about revenge really got my attention

[@vital.elements]

11:30-ish: "I'm still largely that." Most of us are. It's only with the courage to face this that we can actively integrate this stuff and move past it at all. 🖤✨️💥

[@lesliethurston2151]

"Decide what to be, and go be it." The Avett Brothers 'Head Full of Doubt'

[@tisurmaster]

this is me right now. people about me doubt me, but what's funny is I know I can do better than them. However, they don't see it. Doubting me makes me just to want to prove them wrong, but should I waste my energy to prove it?

[@thaliakate444]

“Motivational spit roast,” is that just riffing straight off the dome Chris Williamson? If yes, I’m impressed. 😂 On a more serious note: To appreciate the treasure of trauma, I suspect people need to transform PTSD/R into its lesser-known counterpart PTG (post-traumatic growth).

[@aldorodriguez7310]

1:14 Mr. givens started it all.

[@RalfSRobotRalf]

I doubt it

[@thedayisnigh5886]

Success is the only revenge everything else is petty when you win you not gonna come back you have to win so big that they compare them self to you give people fuel

[@Ormrod17]

Thank you guys for the wisdom.

[@mcraeimmobilien2271]

Michael Jordan and Kobe Bryant used personal slights to help motivate them in various situations. Obviously the high road is more noble but as for reaching your goals I think many roads may lead to Rome.🤷🏽‍♂️

[@emberdiosa]

Permajacked 🤣😂🤣😂🤣 Great video as per usual. Much love.

[@Ferelmakina]

realest talk I've listened to in a while. These fuckers are trying to be honest with themselves, gotta love it

[@CMA418]

A man should always have these two rules in readiness. First, to do only what the reason of your ruling and legislating faculties suggest for the service of man. Second, to change your opinion whenever anyone at hand sets you right and unsettles you in an opinion, but this change of opinion should come only because you are persuaded that something is just or to the public advantage, not because it appears pleasant or increases your reputation.

[@yourimprovement908]

4:55-5:27 'this is why people conform to societies norms. You change the game you were playing in order to get respect etc' I love this. It's important to recognise how powerful this pull and emotion is for those of us who are more competitively driven to prove others wrong. In a weird way, by recognising how powerful this pull is gives me more of a willingness to forge my own path and figure out what I'm trying to achieve. It's like the next layer of living, and channelling that drive into something you actually want

[@johnzohan6004]

Shout out to "Biker Mice From Mars", loved that show and action figures 😅 Amazing conversation to learn a lot from. I'm so happy you guys opened up about this stuff 😊🙏

[@akumpi]

First I was like "pff nobody ever doubts me". Oh yeah.. Maybe I should make people doubt me sometimes.

[@UNDFTD_Aesthetics]

Woman in the black dress is my new favorite analogy ☝️🔥

[@XTen1000DaysX]

Alex I hope you visited that teacher and thanked him

[@RonPro-u1t]

Alex is a G.

[@carolspencer6915]

Indeed. 💜

[@thedayisnigh5886]

Success is the only revenge everything else is petty when you win you not gonna come back you have to win so big that they compare them self to you give people fuel the only thing is put everything into your goal and win that when everything else doesn’t matter

[@momekh]

"I can't split test life" I'd buy that t shirt Chris fersure!

[@magicalfrijoles6766]

Revenge? Make someone regret doubting you? No thanks. My self worth isn't dependent on other people. I don't let people live in my head like that. You just aren't that important to me.

[@yangchen7982]

Would you release the damn episode already ffs 😂😂

[@ΑντρέαςΣωτηρίου-π8γ]

Mind Body Spirit Wins EveryDay

[@alisterrebelo9013]

One day you will realise that chasing material goals will never fill the void that your soul is constantly trying to fill. Those of you with stronger bodies and minds will realise later and maybe never, but for those that will hit that black hole of nihilism, remember that God loves you and Jesus will heal you of that emptiness.

[@MrTrollbaby]

I dont change my game...i intensify it

[@zugzug6773]

your lucky to have people to doubt you, some of us only have ourselves to do that

[@Susson]

I just don’t understand the acceptance of TRT, when under the age of 40…your test should be fine as long as you’re doing the right things. It’s cheating. Bottom line.

[@okaySam]

It's not just cheating. It cuts down on lifespan.

[@YouTubiez]

Cry more 😂

[@gavynrich1034]

All I have to say is you don’t know peoples stories man, People with hormone disorders exist. But yes if you don’t need it you shouldn’t be on it

[@victorinprogress]

Cheating? Lmao. Most people don't even hit the gym. It's not as big of a deal as you think

[@mr.sketser1468]

6:57 DAMNNNN, STONE COLD DEAD EYED KILLER 🥶🥶

[@samricher]

There’s no other revenge. Ignore them

[@barefootarts737]

There's a lot of layers to this. For example, immigrants coming to America focused on making money (Alex's father) could be an example of a lack of imagination, and playing someone else's game. I mean, is wanting to be more rich than the next person not exactly like trying to beat someone at their game. Instead of making your own? The cycle of wealth is an unimaginative game of one upmanship. Especially if you frame it in how much money you are making. Our words often give us away.

[@anabltc]

oh so many immigrants have been playing that game since forever "to buy some land and the envy of your village over a beautiful white German car" conquering the world yet never getting away from your original circle 🤷‍♂

[@samuelayandokun9292]

Where is the full podcast

[@angry_Australia]

No one believed in me but I'm just happy I spent tonight sharing a $80 tomahawk steak with my girlfriend here in Boracay.

[@Bethune_Groundstaff]

🔥

[@mrsmart5221]

Bonapetite brother be safe 🙏🦾

[@ianidas300]

I’ll be your friend Chris. Just don’t try to put on more muscle than me because neither of us will leave the gym here in Austin

[@milehighyt2097]

where's the full episode?

[@AlexHAcademy]

I love him❤

[@Simo.offisiell]

Hey, could you make a video on how you made friends after having such a rough childhood. I have been dealing with the exact same thing!

[@EvanLoewen]

I can't speak for him. But he will likely give you the advice to chase after something you really care about. In that pursuit you will find like minded people and naturally make a few friends in the process.

[@Simo.offisiell]

Thank you! Appreciate the help my friend :)@@EvanLoewen

[@EvanLoewen]

@@Simo.offisiell it's hard making friends as an adult.. The few I found were within car groups when I was into cars. And then I started pursuing a goal to buy a sailboat and live on it full time. I made a bunch of great friends while chasing that dream. And the dream is still being chased. Pick something you're passionate about and don't let anyone tell you you can't do it. Including yourself! Have a great day :)

[@Simo.offisiell]

Yeah, that sounds like a great idea! Thank you so much. It is easier to make friends around like minded people. I would pursue that idea. Have a great day! Appreciate it a lot :)) @@EvanLoewen

[@MrBayo1212]

Perma-jacked is craaazy 😂

[@d.h.1999]

Now that he mentioned it, Chris does come across as your typical Biker Mice from Mars kid.

[@user-gq5ns6dl4n]

G O A T

[@Goals9]

As you get louder no one can hear them.❤

[@YOBREADKNIGHT]

Cute convo boys, but not really Mamba mentality. You accidently put Kobe on the thumbnail. Thank you

[@Veronica-d3g2j]

Bro u have big triceps

[@eonryan8491]

8:37, 10:00, 10:53

[@RajBeats]

Fucking great clip

[@mhuntprofessional]

Fuck! ...I came here with a negative pre-fabricated opinion of buff trucker hat Jesus from obnoxious KZbin commercials ready to dismiss whatever thing he was peddaling and I learned a bunch of things and really like Alex now. 😒😂 He seems super down to earth for a guy who's trying to sell me how to make my first million dollars every other ad that pops up. Gonna have to watch the full ep now.

[@veliborvasovicofajax5358]

But what exactly is he selling...that is of substance ?

[@robertdepesci3418]

idk... michael jordan always remembered all his naysayers and took it real personal.

[@ethan-scott]

You don’t “make people regret” anything. You focus on what you can control, not the opinions of others. This is a waste of mental energy.

[@ethan-scott]

@@gyrate98 On the contrary, occupying your mind with what others think about you is childish.

[@anthonypillarella]

In fairness, that is more or less what he says in the clip.

[@ChrisWillx]

Did you watch the clip?

[@anthonypillarella]

@@ChrisWillx This says it was a reply to me, I assume it was for @ethantennell?

[@CONEHEADDK]

Even if your goal doesn't have ANYTHING to do with fx making people regret something, reaching it might have that side effect. And if you then realise, that that is the case, you have to be a rather strange "above reality and normal human reactions" person, to not get a bit of pleasure out of "the win".

[@ghadasmallworld]

❤

[@MasterMalrubius]

There is no need for revenge. Revenge for what? Someone saying something to you? If that causes you issues then the problem is in you.

[@RobertLoyale]

Chris. Your voice is like AI. Sheesh

[@d1m18]

Why would that ever be a goal? Seems very vindictive and not a positive motivation

[@pierpallescroti1477]

1:40

[@dinosemr8141]

❤️💖❤️🙏💖❤️💖

[@CONEHEADDK]

"you got the genes." - spot on.. Without the lucky genes, you can work your azz off, and still never get to look explosive.. Same with brainy stuff.. Sad that most people seem to believe, that effort equals impressive results..

[@Chris_JG]

I disagree completely. To build muscles, one needs to engage in regular workouts. It's not as straightforward as naturally developing significant muscle mass. While certain individuals might have genetic advantages like height and limb length, the majority of muscle growth relies on factors such as maintaining a proper caloric surplus, ensuring appropriate workout intensity, and adhering to a consistent routine. Some individuals might exhibit an early advantage due to prior engagement in cardio exercises (which studies suggest can accelerate leg muscle growth) or a history of higher overall physical activity. Stop blaming genetics bro It's all in the mindset And what you do

[@Chris_JG]

Same with "brainy stuff" Read a book about a journalist who became America memory champion in 1 year of consistent everyday all day work It's called "moonwalking with einstein"

[@KD0MOO]

​@@Chris_JGThat's only true of memory techniques

[@donstaramos]

Isnt there another clip of this guy talking about how to not care about other peoples opinions? Doesnt that completely contradict this clip lol

[@James_36]

it amazes me how much people buy into this tripe these folks keep spewing on the internet, it is just scamming, this guy did not make $100m with gyms.. it is laughable, the real successful people are not trying to get hits on the internet to gain guess what... MONEY.

[@donstaramos]

@@James_36 really good point

[@antoniopena1183]

Gut krap

[@amirreza8574]

Bro stop spreading wrong info, Iranian women could drive for a long time now(surely it covers the period your father has been born in Iran unless he is from medieval time) despite everything going on in Iran at the moment

[@willy100ful]

Great video but absolutely destroyed it with the amount of adverts you put in honestly please stop with the adverts you kill your own videos

[@Ri-eb1ns]

Two steroid abusers working things out mentally…. 😂

[@Ri-eb1ns]

@@Kevin-kj5th good question…. I would imagine when you start looking freakish or with no visible neck among other things. Could it be that hormozis nose is constantly plugged up cuz it’s just to bloated with growth ?

[@youraveragejosh-]

Such a horrible mindset. Doing things to make people regret doubting you. A very egotistical thought process.

[@Sirnewtzz]

"How to make people regret ever doubting you". Wtf is going on with the internet seriously. Instead of focusing on yourself, you are busy worrying about how to make Lucy regret. You people are sad.

[@Adamod3df]

I can tell you haven't watched it and if you have, you haven't understood. He covers this at the start with his story.

[@galaxy5086]

Sorry but Alex is the goofiest looking dude