How To Make Your Husband Happy - Dr. Saeed al Qadi - Light Upon Light 12

How To Make Your Husband Happy by Dr. Saeed alQadi at Light Upon Light Winter Conference, 2018.
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Mashallah, jazaka Allah jairan ya akhi , I needed this, the situation of every home is different, but we need to work it better , I will try my best inshallah, I pray that Every home lives happy and protect us from the shaitan.

[@hassangedi9738]

Masha Allah Jazakalahu kheir

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Daylife Aamin Allah

[@jasminejeanine2239]

Perhaps this is why I had so many guys propose to me as I've always been 100% not jealous, not judgemental, not materalistic and always treat them with love and respect I also always choose trust over fear as I learned that this actually equates to them striving to prove my faith in them to be CORRECT. Whereas if I don't trust them, they'll strive to prove THAT right too.

[@ahershey8523]

this is for a HUSBAND not guys

[@zahidabegum7314]

Subhanallah!!! ❤

[@mustang9724]

Why is he saying, if you dont spend time with him, he will spend time elsewhere? I mean it doesnt apply to men alone. Men think they are superior to find other women outside of marriage? Women too will search for another man outside of marriage if men dont give time to women. Its both ways. As women, we have the ability to cheat as well. So long as both are giving in for their partner the time and attention, such can be avoided.

[@shahabsaif01]

Assalamu Alaikum. There is a full lecture dedicated to men too. That lecture is entitled "How to make women happy" by Sheikh Saed Rageah:)

[@joon_choco]

If you want to see what a husband should do, then you can watch that video, but this is for us women that’s why he’s giving us advice

[@omabdullah1991]

Thanks sheikh

[@hanifakorane2944]

Wise

[@sisssss6827]

Again it's always the women that have to lower our expectations or to have sabr. it's never the guys to lower their expectations.

[@miqbal424]

ChubbyCheeks I think it applies to both, but the speaker is talking about specifically having realistic expectations you would have of any normal human being

[@sisssss6827]

Tenac 300 I don’t need a lecture from you. I’m speaking the truth a lot of imams emphasize the women to lower their standards. And the whole stereotype of us being on the phone a lot is disrespectful.

[@sisssss6827]

M Iqbal still he kept giving the narrative of the women waiting at home for her husband to come back from work. Like a lot of women are working too. Plus he had to say we use our phones a lot that’s disrespectful.

[@sisssss6827]

Tenac 300 I don’t need scripture to back up my proof. It’s common sense, it’s democracy, it’s equal rights for men and women. If women can’t work why did the prophet marry Khadija who was a business women. She took care of him, she was the breadwinner.

[@miqbal424]

Tenac 300 I think you both need to cool it. We will be asked about this conversation on the day of judgement by Allah! So fear your creator! Speak kindly to one another.

[@fortunelinks]

It is easy to make a husband happy, but too difficult to make the wife happy ..

[@jasminejeanine2239]

Btw my personal stance comes from being raised around lots of men thus I learned in many ways men NEVER stop being little boys. Thus NOTHING gives them more pride then having total trust & for you to LISTEN & to understand their HEART. As they naturally wish to be the protector and leader. But all too often especially women say they want to be lead up until a guy decides to lead then they want to take BACK control out of fear. (or resort to nagging, passive aggressiveness and resentment. This ONLY occurs bc they're STILL fighting for control. Just like how sex IF you have absolute trust is one of God's greatest gifts, & you can have NO boundaries. Whereas if someone you didn't trust did the same it would cause you great psychological harm and distress. The same applies to trusting men in other ways as long as you keep putting up walls you CAN'T experience the happiness and peace God wishes for you. BUT you'll NEVER know what will actually happen UNTIL you decide to trust but without trust there is NO chance of things going well. Thus I rather take the chance and get hurt then to insure my own unhappiness.

[@jasminejeanine2239]

This trust MUST be absolute as IF I have the option of choosing NO I'll deal with the mental stress of making the choice every time I'm afraid and frankly ppl makes horrible choices when they're fearful. Thus I have it 100% all the time as no relationship will work without it thus since I'm IN a relationship.... You get the idea as this fear ONLY causes both parties great frustration, resentment, fear, anger etc... I rather replace it with love, understand, kindness and DEFINITELY the patience of a saint.

[@ahershey8523]

again- this is for 1 HUSBAND- not for numerous men and numerous relationships- and YES INDEED there ARE boundaries with sex in marriage-

[@MacNcheese619]

25:41 how can you trust your husband when he doing deeds and looking at filth?

[@ummuameen]

I dazzle be nice to him, spend more time together with him so you distract him from doing lots of things ,pray and give sadaka and make tawasli with it so ALLAH can guide him

[@joon_choco]

Pray a lot, do lots and lots of dua

[@fayceedat670]

What must i do if my husband does not want to communicate.

[@fatoubadjie211]

Make a dua try your best and live the rest to Allah

[@yungmonet8312]

What’s the quote at 16:00 from?

[@fatimamohammed8507]

Surah Taha ayah:131