HOW TO MANAGE A SELFISH HUSBAND | சுயநலம் மிக்க கணவரைச் சமாளிப்பது எப்படி? Dr Shuba Charles

There are some men who think that they are the best. They don't try to respect others, they don't try to understand others feelings,
Do you want to know what Dr.Shuba Charles think about this kind of personality
Watch...
மற்றவர்களை மதிக்காத,மற்றவர்களின் உணர்ச்சிகளை புரிந்து கொள்ளாத,மற்றவர்களை காயப்படுத்தும்,அழ வைக்கும்.மட்டம் தட்டும்
தான் செய்வதெல்லாம் சரி,தான் சொல்வது மட்டும் தான் சரி,
நானே இந்த உலகத்தில் சிறந்தவன் என்று நடந்து கொள்ளும் நபர்களை பற்றி
மனநல மருத்துவர் டாக்டர் சுபா சார்லஸ் அவர்கள் தனது கருத்துக்களை நம்முடன் பகிர்ந்து கொள்கிறார்கள்
காணத்தவறாதீர்கள்

[@anthuvangrace6582]

When I was listening to your Counselling, I really cried, because many of us are undergoing the same situation. Thank you for your advice. 👍

[@bhuvanapalanivel6928]

Same I tooo cried unconsciously t

[@gengadevi7350]

Same to me 💔💔💔

[@saranyar8591]

Same situation...can't handle

[@lperianayagamary7249]

Thank you madam

[@vijaykutti5193]

Inga yaralam intha mam sonatha feel panniga

[@sunithanarayanan2517]

Mam you are saying same my position in life.now only I understood my husband is narcissistic.same words he used to say.now I got confidence. thankyou so much mam.God bless you with more blessings for many women like me. thankyou mam

[@ajeeshprajeeth9427]

Really you are a eye opener amma, i was n depression stage m jus felt alone m not having mother n father i felt who will there for me by gods grace i can see this video,i will take your words that comes from my amma n appa who was there in heaven love you ammmma...

[@RelaxPleasetamil]

Be blessed dear 🌹🌹🌹

[@angelfranciscafrancisca1946]

I am living with this type of husband, for 30 years l thought he my god, pass 3 yea,rs l realize who is he ,and it is too late,so 33 years of my life is wasted, but educated my children very well, my life full of tear and my age 54 , your,s angel Francisca

[@Tha_21]

Same life for me 😭

[@padmasubash7691]

The same situation for me .I am 65 years old. How r u mam??

[@sindhumathi4878]

S correct mam. My father-in-law also this type man. We suffer lot mam. My husband goes in to depression. He told to his son (my husband) you need not go to job. I have much money. I give you more money than you earn. Then he told to others he is useless I am the great man. They are live in my earnings. Like this more and more .so my husband goes in to depression mam. He addicted to alcohol also mam.Thank god now my family support us. Now my husband improve from depression. Thankumam .

[@sunithanarayanan2517]

Really very impressed.i have seen many counseling videos but your video was upto the point in understanding what situation we are in. thanks a lot mam

[@merinalprince749]

Amma...crores of thanks..

[@vershaasrinika]

Andha ammaku Enna advice kudutheenga mam.please vediola explain pannunga.neriya peruku usefula irukum

[@hanaartsandfashions4942]

Yes please

[@smdk17683]

Please please sollunga amma

[@ramyabhaskharan1078]

Arumaiya sollirukinga dr....antha lady ku free counselling nu sollitinga....really great....Unga program niraiya tv la pathiruken dr....ippathan u tube la pakren....ovonna pakren dr....romba romba use agudhu....ella vedios m use agudhu....engaluku counselling kudutha mathiri irruku....ungala nerla meet pannanum dr....

[@sanjayvishwa503]

Super correct madam enakay sonnathu pola eruku thanks madam,,

[@satturmuruges]

Dear Sister, Your service is respectable.

[@devasrees.s5835]

Romba arumaiyaaga paesineergal amma.ungal advice kettu enakku en meethu nambikkai vanthullathu.nandri amma🙏🙏🙏

[@priyams1805]

Lovely counseling, Thank you so much.

[@Madhra2k24]

Excellent ma'am 👍...u r my great inspiration...i too have dealt like this with my husband, brother and father ! 👍

[@kmmohamedmagdoom6401]

madam, you have inspired me and I have started reading books on narcissism thank you very much root cause of damaged marital relationship may be linked to narcissism and codependency please release the video on ''co-dependency ''

[@RelaxPleasetamil]

Sure

[@mahavaradhan8680]

Exactly suits to my father in law, my husband

[@rajathatm9411]

Well said "Enga unarchiku nangadhan porupu ethukanum "

[@tamilbangalore8496]

Unmai

[@kumuthamprabhakaran8972]

I am very happy to listen this video because l learn protect my self .super.

[@seekinglifepartner9548]

Excellent Video content ❤ but it could be understandable by educated and highly matured people. இன்னும் சற்று எளிமையாக கூறும் பொழுது அடித்தட்டு மக்களுக்கு சென்று சேரும் ❤

[@swatigupta2064]

Very nice video

[@petersheeba5003]

Thank you so much mam very useful message for many women Tq

[@felixpremkumar6770]

You are really a light to others. Thanks

[@sabilabanu6779]

thank you mam arumaiyaana pathivu enakku neenga sonna maathiri irukku

[@pawnkuttychellam3301]

Such a great doctor

[@xpressmobile669]

Good service.Thanks to mam.Publsh it.

[@glorymanohar9117]

Super madam super

[@bhargavimohan2463]

Am dealing with this type of husband

[@seethadevidoss766]

Thank you so much mam for your valuable words 🙏

[@divishaprs7261]

Really useful video mam

[@deviraj1341]

Mam I am 90 kids ukka speech ennaku eppavum atuthala eruthu iruku

[@dhanasekaransekaran8811]

Super maa kulappam thelivadaindhadhu nanri valga valamudan 👍👍👍

[@dhivyavimal7028]

Ethuku mam ethana ok, but unga karuthuu super

[@regi.g3830]

Superb video💪💪👌👌

[@m.jeyakumar1217]

Thank u for ur msg it's v useful to us

[@platha8630]

Thank you Doctor 😷 for the video

[@natraj140]

❤ஹிஃஉங்களுக்கு

[@rdharshana5491]

Yes I'm also living with this type of husband.always my husband suppressed me and beating me. so I'm in depressed I m tried suicide many times I have three daughters this is also a main reason.my marriage is love marriage but he's behave like this mam I can't explain more mam😭😭😭

[@akilaramazin]

Better you leave him.. 3 daughters life is important.. you have to live for your daughters.. Free from depression, self support is strength.. U get some support from your relatives friends and families.

[@periyanachim8802]

Same problem sis fr my life...

[@ramanaramana654]

Even I am also same he always make me feel guilty of my self even though he is not worth of what's he is

[@saranyar8591]

Yeah...Going through same situation..Full of selfishness and never regret for wt he s doing..Need a counseling..

[@Homelyplantss]

Sathama pesuna adichi koduma paduthuvanga pa better divorce pandrathu nalathu even I am pregnant he is beating if he is getting anger nd being psycho

[@umamaheswari5849]

Simply 👌

[@divyab1250]

Madam how 2 manage ourself by avoiding husband...By doubt and misunderstanding and over superstitious personality mam....identifying remedy for all the problems by supertitious only mam

[@m.y.mubeenamariyam3045]

😣iam with this type of husband.extremely fed up.and exhausted.

[@RelaxPleasetamil]

Don't be fed up. You can change your situation. Try and see the positive aspects

[@selviselvam2029]

Also who manhandles his wife , uses abuse words, breaking house hold things, pulls my parent family, always loots my harden money for drinks, smoke. He has taken my gold when I was not at home without informing me

[@nagarajp8181]

Madam pl explain how to manage self wife would be the same opp i am doubt pl explain sorry for asking this

[@RelaxPleasetamil]

Yes. Very soon. I am caught in Delhi.

[@Easycookingsmallkitchen]

Super 👏👏👏👏👏

[@abinayakandhasamy5640]

I need your counseling mam

[@akshayasaai7167]

Mrg aagi 3month only completed but still now so many fights...misunderstanding ...he didn't understand my feelings mam already I committed suicide for him..after that only he marry me but now he told go to ur mother home nu illana sethu ponu soldran....really I m very depressed he dont want me I dont know wat i do nu..love mrg dha 🤣😂🤣😂 I m totally confused

[@deepsj3720]

Give some time akshaya. Stay calm fr another 3 months. Be happy with ur self. Observe again and decide after jan 2020. Staying happy with ur self changes a lot , even if its standing alone or leaving in a family

[@yasmeenbanu3205]

அவரை தேர்ந்தெடுத்தது நீங்கள் தான்.உங்கள் தேர்வு தவறாகாது என நம்புங்கள்.அவரை நேசிப்பது போல,அவர் உங்களை நேசிக்கவும் முயலுங்கள். எதுவும் முடியவில்லை என்றால் , உங்களை மகிழ்ச்சியாக வைத்திருப்பது முதலில் உங்கள் கடமை என எண்ணுங்கள்

[@kevinjason4781]

Wat about female narsisitic person?

[@bhuvanapalanivel6928]

Mam really suprb

[@NishaNisha-dw7ql]

👌

[@ezhilmathy674]

Mam can i change this naracissit behaviour or shall i come out of this relationship

[@tamilbangalore8496]

Avasara pattu decide pannathinga

[@jeyasrivilvadurai9714]

😔😔😔😔

[@abeethajee7683]

Same problem

[@geethalavanyageethalavanya2892]

Mam Sooper mam I Love You ❤

[@natraj140]

❤ஹி

[@maharajag9888]

Ama en husband um apdithan but enkida madum than apdi

[@hamsabegam1743]

poonai pattri solli irutheegga mam.100 poonaihaludaya balam.ungga reaction adhuva mam.

[@RelaxPleasetamil]

Ha ha ha 😂😅🤣

[@smdk17683]

Please inform any narcissistic person cured?

[@smdk17683]

Please please please inform anpu ullangala

[@BalaMurugan-op6sm]

Mam good morning Last friday I attended suicide mam In that time my mind totally disturbed.. But feeling ashame of that incident and never so like that mam My husband is like that u said in this video but A small changes mam.. He didn't leave me anywhere even though temple, relations house, amma house also... Whether go to shop for any purchase also Eventhough sticker also he come... I accept all these things mam Back 10years drinking alcohol mam Now past three years it becomes over

[@BalaMurugan-op6sm]

And irritating me in bad words... எல்லாரும் சொல்றாங்க மேடம் குடிச்சிட்டு பேசினான்... எனக்கு என்ன கவலை என்றால் செய்யாத தப்புக்கு நாம் ஏன் தண்டனை அனுபவிக்கனும்...இதனால் தான் problem increased aagudhu mam My husband also telling mam Naa drinksla pesaradhuu feel pannandhaa like that mam But... How can i manage the situation mam When my husband is in drinks Pl Pls Pls Reply mam

[@deviram415]

Mam....en husband enai mathikirathe kidaiyathu....mam..romba stress mam enaku

[@thanuthanu2165]

Same Inga yum avar romba down Pani pesrar

[@thanuthanu2165]

@@deviram415 ena Pana terila change pana mudyatha habbits ...verukudu life hmmm

[@deviram415]

@@thanuthanu2165 10 years aguthu Avar change agala....nanthan kandukama irukyn..life pidikala,

[@thanuthanu2165]

@@deviram415 Inga na inum kalyanam panala Akka August seiya iruken ...nanum years kanakila apdethan iruka poren ...hmmm paravala kavanama irunga

[@deviram415]

@@thanuthanu2165 kalyanam panaliya enapa purila

[@gowthamkumar1861]

Narcissists never expose them like this

[@thanuthanu2165]

Madam na enimeldan wedding Pana poren avar ena romba down Pani pesrar ...

[@RelaxPleasetamil]

கவனமாக இருங்கள்

[@ashikaashi7437]

Mam ungala eppudi contact pannrathu... Enaku intha problem iruku mam...

[@amsathbegam2034]

இப்படிப்பட்ட ஒரு கணவர் தான் எனக்கும் அம்மா. அதிகாரம் ,சுயநலம் ,கோபம், என் உணர்வுகளை சற்றும் மதிக்காதவர் .இருந்தாலும் நான் அவரை உயிராய் நேசிக்கிறேன் முடிந்தவரை பொருத்து தாங்க முடியாத பட்சத்தில் தற்பொழுது விவாகரத்திற்கு முடிவெடுத்திருக்கிறோம் அவரும் சம்மதித்து விட்டார் தயவுசெய்து நான் செய்தது சரியா என்று நீங்களே கூறுங்கள் அம்மா குழப்பத்தில் இருக்கிறேன்

[@RelaxPleasetamil]

தவறு

[@amsathbegam2034]

Thanks amma.. For your reply.

[@amsathbegam2034]

அம்மா நான் எவ்வளவோ முயன்றும் எங்களுக்குள் விவாகரத்து ஆகிவிட்டது நான் எவ்வளவு நேசித்தும் எனக்கு துரோகம் செய்து விட்டார் உடைந்து போய் இருக்கிறேன் அம்மா .தாங்க முடியவில்லை .எதன் மீதும் நம்பிக்கை இல்லாமல் இருக்கிறேன்.

[@divin5074]

What u did is not wrong.. how are u now

[@ShahulHameed-ob2rk]

Me too🙄🙄🙄

[@samuelj5781]

narcisstic wife epdi handil panurathunu

[@divyabharathinagu1406]

Nenga sonnathala 100% En husband pannuvanga mam

[@tamilbangalore8496]

Sari aayidum

[@SaranyaSaranya-nn8rp]

Ayo ithe maari oruthar irukaru meratitu elame namma thappumu namalave kathara vitruvaru

[@Sasideevi]

Amma en husband apdithan irukaru,nan kastapatan ipo en pasangalum kastapadranga. Twin babies 2 and half year than akuthu. Forign la irukam. Romba kasta padram amma. Divorce paniralama nu daily daily yosichittu irukan. Ana pasangala nenachuthan bayabadran. Amma. Enaku en family support kooda illa.nanum 10 years ahe kasta padran

[@natraj140]

ஏன்என்னப்ராப்லம்ஃமேடம்❤ஹி

[@natraj140]

நல்லதைநினைப்போம்❤ஹி

[@hariragav3583]

👏👏👏👏👏👌👌👌👍

[@jothimani6007]

வணக்கம்டாக்டர்தங்களின்பதிவுகள்எனக்குமிகவம்பயனுள்ளதாய்இருந்துஆனால்சமீபகாலமாய்எந்தவொருபதவுகளிளும்காணமுடியவமுடிந்துமிக்கமகிழ்ச்சி🎉❤

[@ptselvi]

Ipadi oru psycho kita than nan maatikittu mulikaren, very abusive and violence also

[@vinothasanju8979]

Mam...epdi erundhu suicide panitu poitar mam...over selfish

[@vinothasanju8979]

Correct correct super mam

[@prabharavisundar4252]

Not matching

[@RelaxPleasetamil]

Ok

[@selviselvam2029]

How to handle a vvvvvwey short temper husband. Who always blames wife for his mistake

[@tamilbangalore8496]

Porumaya explain panni parunga

[@gokulbudy]

First come to the situations of husbands.. not money and emotions paly aa role. Nenga nala wife ku vachi kadha pasuringaa.. I would have blessed if my wife is like the client in u r story... but there aa some pisasu.. who cannot understand the atleast small feelings... ..soo ippadi la pasi irukura konja Pisasa adigam panidadingaa... please .. unga husband aa nala pathukongaa podum .. if he is blessed..

[@kiruthikanagesh]

Mam, I am under similar kind of situation. Please let me know how to contact you and help please