How to Mastermind a Goal | INTJ

[@kevinfukthezetamale4298]

Best to keep your goals confidential instead of revealing it to everyone.

[@InternetLiJo]

Why do you know me so well 🙃

[@Butteredthanatoast]

The #1 thing I tell my teachers: tell me what you want so I can do it. Do not tell me "there are no wrong answers" then give me a 85%. Please.

[@InternetLiJo]

Hahah yes. Tell me exactly what you want. That’s how you get the Te (knowing what works for them) so you can apply your Ni (figuring out the best steps to get there).

[@johnnatandc]

Well. even at work.. you'll have bosses like this.. they have an idea but they dont know how to make it concrete... so you are navigating and creating shit that is never to their liking.. It is frustrating and infuriating. I am always asking... please let me know exactly what do you want and what are you looking for.. I hate to lose time re-doing shit all over again because it is not to your liking.

[@clintwestwood4545]

Finally. A mature INTJ on which I can learn life stuff from.

[@InternetLiJo]

Hey! Glad you see me as part of your journey!

[@dirtywhitellama]

You forgot step #1, research the heck out of it so you actually know what you need for the rest of the steps XD

[@InternetLiJo]

Haha true! All depends on the scope of the project.

[@emiyasaif4151]

Me, an INTJ-A, watched and learned tips from you, an INTJ too, to become more effective INTJ. Thanks 😄

[@InternetLiJo]

Wonderful to hear! We can all help each other in different ways :)

[@linyenchin6773]

I can teach people of how poo-pin is the solution to all their problems...maybe?

[@heedmywarning2792]

"more effective INTJ" the MIB will not like this. Start making robotic duplicates NOW!

[@TheBittenBullet]

@@heedmywarning2792 was that supposed to be "MBTI", or did you really mean the "Men In Black"?

[@heedmywarning2792]

@@TheBittenBullet Men In Black...... and all of the alphabet agencies of the gooberment.

[@ifonlyunu994]

Just break it apart into small steps and remember the deadline. Getting something done at the last minute is considered procrastination but I still get it done. An A is an A. I remember being dejected by the Js in school. I'll never forget that time when i got an A doing a project solo...they got a B, lol. Thank you for this video.

[@InternetLiJo]

Haha awesome Dawn. Get it.

[@PhotoRubio]

(INFP) @ 1:43... Couldn't hold my "P" anymore. @ 3:54... Had to catch my emotional breath. @ 4:29... Already stressing over a project due in 30 days, and it's not even MINE!

[@InternetLiJo]

Had to catch my emotional breath lmao

[@absmith4724]

"grandma rolls into town" 😂

[@InternetLiJo]

Lol... you know how she do.

[@hotbarbie]

I think you're the only INTJ that I don't dislike. - sincerely, INTJ

[@InternetLiJo]

This means a lot. Thank you.

[@mid-sizesedan488]

Sly Owl why?

[@hotbarbie]

@@mid-sizesedan488 don't know if anyone experience this, but I can never clicque with other INTJs. Some of them even risen up my defense mechanism.

[@kevinchavarria6792]

@@hotbarbie Because she is a healthy INTJ, unhealthy INTJs don't act like her at all, as an INTJ myself a try to admit my mistakes and understand people more

[@TheNiNeShowOfficial]

Not going to lie, I originally thought this was titled "How to mastermind a goat" That needs to be a thing. ~ Jono

[@InternetLiJo]

YOURE NOT THE FIRST PERSON TO SAY THAT!!!

[@DandinXY]

In handwriting analysis, I learned that left-slanted handwriting meant emotions tend to be held back in the specific writer. INTJ Fe-PoLR and your handwriting seems to still work out with that logic...

[@InternetLiJo]

Very interesting

[@bonkahermitakaintjudge9228]

Very good. When I was living off grid I found myself having to use a similar approach when I was confronted with problems that you would ask someone else to help you do. I would dissect just what it was that I would need that other person to do. Once I looked at my problem with that approach I was quickly able to resolve the problem and carry on by myself. Thanks again for another great presentation Li Jo

[@InternetLiJo]

Glad you came by Bonka!

[@bonkahermitakaintjudge9228]

Li Jo Thanks for your response.Always nice to hear back from you. Take care

[@bonkahermitakaintjudge9228]

Thanks for the thumbs up 👍. I appreciate all constructive feedback

[@tfranc347]

This INFP thanks you for making this video lol, I need all the help I can get

[@InternetLiJo]

Yayyyy

[@RevRideReason]

That Ni brilliance coupled with a little touch of developed Se. Well Done

[@InternetLiJo]

Thanks so much I appreciate that. I’ve worked very hard on my Se lol

[@RevRideReason]

@@InternetLiJo it shows ; )

[@zoez8185]

Such a valuable lesson of Te function Lindsey! I wanna do scientific experiment about telekineses and I procrastinate for one year and a half, after watching your video I immediately have a plan lol.

[@InternetLiJo]

This brings incredible joy to my Fi to read 😍

[@Kuultyc]

Around 3 mins in a I realized a I zoned out thinking about making a youtube channel and now I'm watching again from 2 mins in 2x to make up for speed...INTJ problems, lmao...side note I will, if I do that, subscribe to you on my new one because you're awesome and I love you lol.

[@kreepikrawli6301]

Is this a coincidence me being INTJ and loving lilac? Nice hair LiJo :)

[@InternetLiJo]

Hahah thanks!

[@cookiecaramel6187]

One of the few best tools to mastermind your goal is the mindmap it.

[@tommydaynjer5334]

My goal is to hang out with you more often! Because you know how to goal plan!

[@InternetLiJo]

I’ll make a list just for you!

[@tommydaynjer5334]

LiJo now you are talking my language!

[@legendzfall]

With regard to the "most critical" things, I like to think of most things in terms of the "80/20" rule. Which means, with most things, you can get 80% of the way there with the right 20% of the effort. After those critical elements, your return on investment usually drops off, and you'll need to put in the remaining 80% of the effort to get that last 20%. It's not an exact science, but a good "guideline" -- figure out what 20% of effort will get you the most results toward your goal.

[@batlaizan]

Your handwriting is not terrible. It's average good. Please, don't belittle yourself like that. False modesty and accepting compliments, something many of us a INTJ could learn from.

[@JC-qq9sw]

Deadline 9am, halfway written essay at 6:28am

[@mikekaufmann7086]

ok, in this case the method to „learn as you go“ works pretty well. are you intj’s try to approach different situations with the perfect method everytime or how does that work? if yes, how you know before you’ve done something, what will be the best method? masterminding the method based on the situation and on top of that using the „learn as you go“ method? 😄 shit im confused. thanks for the interesting video. nice style.

[@InternetLiJo]

Ni is all about predicting the best possible alignment for the pattern to succeed. There’s a lot of guess work because it’s based off concepts that should work together, and if you have Ni they usually do. Add Te in there for the logical guess of what should work best

[@Koffent]

First off, your handwriting isn't bad at all. Second, I think the red or orange _(can't tell I'm partially colorblind)_ marker you used is dying. I can see the beginning but as it gets lighter it's almost impossible for me to decipher. Can you please use a higher contrasting color for your color deficient fans _(black, dark blue, purple, dark green, etc)._ Most people don't think about it so no harm no foul, just keep it in mind in the future. There's a large chunk of people who are colorblind to some extent and a lot aren't even aware of it. I wasn't aware until I was 20. Red/Green deficient is the most common. When in doubt contrast is your friend. I use similar methods while doing a project. I am a visual and hands on learner so I play around with things and do several dry runs before even deciding which road to take. Never understood how some people learn by watching a ton of videos or reading a lot about something without using it. The only thing I don't do nearly as often as I should is set deadlines, especially with any artistic projects. I'm usually done when I'm satisfied with the end result, otherwise I'll keep tinkering or redoing it over and over. That's something I need to work on. As always great advice and keep'em coming.

[@InternetLiJo]

Ah I really appreciate the colorblind intel here :) thank you. Will keep in mindx

[@boryman2999]

You would kill the game as an independent contractor. for reals. I'm at a loss, i need to hire one. I'm stuck at what a goal is as an analytical theory. I can conceptualize a goal as the triple point of water, it boils condenses to liquid then freezes to a solid all at once, like i said its abstract.

[@InternetLiJo]

Haha thanks! That’s would be an interesting choice.

[@Jumc93]

Nice, I'm going to do what you suggested with the "thing."

[@InternetLiJo]

Awesome, let me know how it goes!

[@DandinXY]

Do you schedule/make deadlines for responding to comments? (Since it is sometimes time-consuming?)

[@InternetLiJo]

No I just try to fit it in during any free moments. I can bite of 5, 7, 10 with little pieces of time and that all ads up so I’m not taking a larger block to do the whole thing.

[@robertr954]

Why doesn't the video run smoothly? Your last videos are pretty laggy

[@InternetLiJo]

No idea they run the same for me

[@TheBittenBullet]

Was happened in that outtake at the end? I couldn't make out what you were saying.

[@InternetLiJo]

Oh gosh my dog got his squeaky toy and I had to get it from him or else he would have been squeaking through the whole video 😒

[@dodediaries7589]

To get shit done!!!!

[@InternetLiJo]

Get it doneeee

[@dodediaries7589]

I adore when people swear. It's the little things

[@TheBittenBullet]

Your handwriting looks fine to me, but for some reason it didn't show up very well on the paper. It looks faded.

[@InternetLiJo]

It was an expo marker... and it was dying lol

[@kinderlich]

u guys (INTJ) redeem Te for me. thx :)

[@InternetLiJo]

Woot woot 👏🏻

[@heedmywarning2792]

no work breakdown structure? No allocated hours and external financing? Kraft services? Heads will roll! Where's my cucumber water?

[@InternetLiJo]

Hahaha 😂

[@riooo8072]

Intp here trying to be more “j”

[@DandinXY]

It's "LIE"-Jo??

[@DandinXY]

@Sneakers O'Toole ah yes, I see that now. For a moment I thought they were regional variations... Like LieJo for American markets; LeeYo for the Chinese. My Spanish-speaking neighbors watch "Li-Ho", etc.

[@BoldTakes]

What is your Zodiac sign? just curious :)

[@InternetLiJo]

Gemini ♊️

[@aoeuable]

Is that a "d" that's written starting with the line, not the arc? If so then you're one of three people in the world (I'm aware of) who are doing that, and I must confess I stole the idea from the third. Which leads me to a hypothesis: You spent, in aggregate time, at least a month in school filing away at your handwriting (which is perfectly fine) instead of listening to the insufferable bore in the front.

[@InternetLiJo]

Haha I have no idea how I make the letter D... I think with the line first? My handwriting is interesting, it always looks different, never really the same lol

[@epchester]

Just to double check, are you saying most people write the letter “d” starting with the arch first?? If so, my mind is blown.

[@aoeuable]

@@epchester Well, every cursive ever does that as it's the obvious point of connection to the previous letter. Once you add pen lifting to your primary school cursive planar movements to get (semi-)print, though, it's the one letter where at least I needed to change the starting point to get legibility while smearing away without care. In particular, my "d"s would turn to look more like "cl"s with loopy "l"s and some deliberately obstinate teachers would mark spelling errors even though none of my actual "l"s have loops. (Explaining them the concept of ligatures and that the "r" in "er" doesn't need nor should look the same as in "tr" was much easier. In "er", my "r" has no downstroke, it's a hook flowing directly out of the "e". "t" OTOH ends mid-height, exactly the right height to continue with a downstroke) I *may* have overthought this all quite a bit and I *may* have despised my French teacher. It was mutual, though.

[@reeve8640]

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