INTJ Blindspots

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LiJo

LiJo

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@dacksonflux
@dacksonflux 4 жыл бұрын
Did I ever thank you for getting to the damn point? You're like, "Hey, hi, let's get started..." I very much appreciate it.
@dhisufiroafrozenseraphimdragon
@dhisufiroafrozenseraphimdragon 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao yeah I'm not very good at pleasantries haha
@raptorfalconry
@raptorfalconry 3 жыл бұрын
So agree!
@nairanasser4263
@nairanasser4263 4 жыл бұрын
WOW That’s exactly what I do! I observe other people and capture what can assist me in the future
@linyenchin6773
@linyenchin6773 4 жыл бұрын
Even how they poop!
@gdolphy
@gdolphy 4 жыл бұрын
@@linyenchin6773 : why not? There is a affective means of pooping o the pot that reduces stress on your muscles. Will promote healthy overall digestion.
@gdolphy
@gdolphy 4 жыл бұрын
How do you confuse an INTJ? Ans: follow their advice!
@TonyDaExpert
@TonyDaExpert 3 жыл бұрын
:p
@forKyrene
@forKyrene 4 жыл бұрын
2:23 That is so INTJ! Applying the known principles to other similar "systems".
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Hahah yes you nailed it 😂💯
@luishsg
@luishsg 4 жыл бұрын
Your videos are great. INTJs aren't always understood, we're a little odd maybe, so it's nice to see we're not alone!
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, my weird little INTJ family has gathered here. We can all be less alone together :)
@dontayedetails
@dontayedetails 4 жыл бұрын
Your videos are accurate and applicable. As a young INTJ, I must say, watching these videos has helped tremendously. Keep up the good work. 🤖
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
This is so great to hear. Thanks
@sum_andres31
@sum_andres31 4 жыл бұрын
Could you also make a video about INTJ as a strategist in general. Be it in life, at work, in a conflict, negotiation, and so on.
@Siansonea
@Siansonea 4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like having an ISFP and INTJ coaching each other on their weaker functions could be beneficial to both.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Yes!! For sure!
@samuel9588
@samuel9588 3 жыл бұрын
I'm an isfp, actually I use my Fi/Ni as hero functions. My weaknesses is mainly Te. I think I'd benefit from an intj. Entjs just think diffrently than I do.
@franknelson3019
@franknelson3019 4 жыл бұрын
Great video LiJo! As an old INTJ, I’ve never worked on developing my inferior functions and have been rather lonely and alienated as a result. Good for you in working to expand your horizons.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Frank! I bet you could still teach me a thing or to as well.
@franknelson3019
@franknelson3019 4 жыл бұрын
Before I retired eight years ago, I worked as a clinical psychologist specializing in Jungian psychotherapy. Despite all this old stuff, you are remarkably well-informed and a fine public speaker. You also seem to have achieved exceptional balance and poise at a young age. I’m happy to know you in the strange way people know one another in the 21st century. Keep up the good work!
@aquarius1986
@aquarius1986 4 жыл бұрын
I love all your videos! You're my fave INTJ KZbinr for sure. It's true - as an ENFP I'm quite fascinated by INTPs for example, because I love how their minds work! I had a 4 year relationship with an INTP but I find mimicking Ti quite hard. Like I don't even get it. No matter how much I read about it I still don't totally understand what it is, just that it seems kind of magical. hahaha I also dated a guy I think was an ISFJ...the Si was admirable! I loved how his environment was always a tranquil, clean, cozy place with just the right lighting, ambient music and gentle essential oils wafting in the air. He seemed to be able to maintain that all the time. He always complained about the lights in my apartment, saying they were too glaring. I didn't even notice that before he said it! Although it's definitely still not a strength, I've gotten much better at taking care of my space and creating that peaceful quality. If only the other Si traits like consistency would develop, that would be nice, but I'm working on it without being too constricting. No idea about Ti though...doesn't seem to negatively affect my day to day life perhaps in the way being Fe blind could due to social pressures? Except I really hate getting into any intellectual debate. Hard life with an ENTP father. :-| Just some rambles here. Make more videos!
@paulhorvat6
@paulhorvat6 3 жыл бұрын
Love this channel - guaranteed learning every time. Offtopic but want to raise point with my fellow INTj people. Was walking my dog yesterday and it occurred to me that our group is most at risk for future being displaced by AI for scenario planning/ big picture topics. The stuff we do well. Our stock price goes down as AI improves. We need to band together now to develop strategies while the genie is still in the bottle. The AI will be coming for us first. I’m only partially joking.
@AsuraPsych
@AsuraPsych 4 жыл бұрын
Hey there, interesting video, I think you make some great points here. INTJs can certainly struggle with functions not in their preffered function stack (Edit: Captain obvious checking in haha). I'm not sure if you have seen any of my videos/content but if you have any interest in talking typology feel free to reach out. I have been checking out a few of your videos for a couple months now and I think you have a lot of good things to say. I only know the basics of the OP system but I am interested in hearing about it from another INTJ.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Haha I think any type struggles with functions not in their preferred function stack. And hello! Yes I've seen yours as well :) send me an email - cloudtogroundcreative@gmail.com
@AsuraPsych
@AsuraPsych 4 жыл бұрын
@@InternetLiJo Just realized how general that statement was haha, you are very right. I will reach out, thanks for responding!
@misshaam6721
@misshaam6721 4 жыл бұрын
The Concept of the „Toolbox“ is really incredible and has been my self improvement strategy for about a year now. The worst thing to do is to get yourself comfortable in your „own stereotype“, e.g. „I am an INTJ, so I am Bad at SE“ and just externalize your weaknesses for that reason. Being Bad at SE is a fact but never an excuse. I obsess over this, because being Ni-dominant but also being able to state things in a concrete way (Not only abstract concepts and thoughts, which was my weakness) like SE can, is a very powerful combination. For me, it worked out really well in my work environment as I could persuade a wider Range of people with this. But also in The private context or anywehere else where socializing is needed, developing SE is very useful in regards to doing smalltalk, which will be always a necessity in my life (Fake it til you make it, as you stated, Lindsay). Thanks for your great Content as always, this helps alot in reflecting. Third edit, was too excited about this Toolbox-Concept. So, this is a perfect approach in Order to rationalize your weaknesses. It prevents you from falling into the trap of the stereotype-comfort-zone and also states a clear vision of what you actually want to achieve, which is what I always need to have in mind *for everything* I do (which also makes things sometimes more complicated)
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Wow... you are speaking my language 100%. Yes to everything. Glad the toolbox reference made sense. It really is how I structure my growth areas.
@toolboxevolution7456
@toolboxevolution7456 4 жыл бұрын
She's my Caucasian identical identical twin. I love this show.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Yay glad you’re here!
@glueball214
@glueball214 3 жыл бұрын
I really liked this one. It strikes a nice balance and understanding. I watch the extroverts in my world. I consider my sister magic with people.
@dirtywhitellama
@dirtywhitellama 4 жыл бұрын
I finally realized that one reason people tell me boring ass stories (to me) that I don't even care about but might be mildly relevant somehow to the situation we are in, is that they are just trying to connect and don't know what I may or may not find interesting. So if I like them, it's optimal to treat it as a connection-oriented social experience, rather than a story with an end of its own (which it has none and therefore sucks and is boring.)
@maneli
@maneli 4 жыл бұрын
Great video! As an INTJ musician / artist I find Fe my least developed function. I’m lucky to be in a relationship with an INFJ that has Fe superpowers. That helps my Fe enormously and is a sort of mentor to me where I help out with her Te blindspot. It’s been a beautiful journey learning from each other’s blind spots!
@NicStride
@NicStride 4 жыл бұрын
How/where do you see lack of Fe being a problem/weakness as a musician? Am fascinated. I feel like Fi might be good for it.. I'm also unconvinced that the deciders matter very much, beyond Di dictating approach. :)
@maneli
@maneli 4 жыл бұрын
Nic Stride as a performing artist I rely on Se aspirational actually and tap into my ESFP subconscious. It was so damn scary at first getting on stage and performing, especially because I’m a one man act. And Fi has been great as I get to share my internal feelings of what the songs are about. The cognitive transitions are so fascinating and as an INTJ I believe to really grow and find fulfillment is willingly go into the Se as much as possible. So many great things will happen. That’s actually how I met my INFJ partner. The lack of Fe can be an issue for me outside of the stage setting and for my day to day life.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing perspective! Beautiful to hear.
@NicStride
@NicStride 4 жыл бұрын
@@maneli I dunno what you mean by Se aspirational. :) Your technique is very clean and fluid though, so you're definitely not all in on that Ni. :D
@maneli
@maneli 4 жыл бұрын
LiJo thank you!
@gepisar
@gepisar 4 жыл бұрын
one thing occurred, and i hear it said from time to time about Fe is that they know what others want. I have long suspected that they may or may not know in actuality. BUT are convinced they know. And have that conviction to carry through on that commitment. I have modelled this, and presented the behaviour - and it gets the responses, as observed. THEN... because it "isnt me", when the person im being present with goes "deep", i feel like confessing, "actually, im not the person you need"... and that puts me in a quandary. And the end of the day, as INTJ myself, i just dont care and dont want to know about the bullshit!! I have enough self-generated crap to last a lifetime! So, how do you get over this - (that you have "passed" as an Fe, into a situation that is sub-optimal for INTJ skills) Im kinda learning to not go there and to apply to other realms...?
@doughalversen7303
@doughalversen7303 4 жыл бұрын
Is everybody born with their personalities or is it grown into them? ✌🌠💜
@t5396
@t5396 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! One thing I've wondered for a long time, and studying MBTI has enhanced, is how different the human experience is for different types.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Isn't it fascinating!!
@lisaia7877
@lisaia7877 4 жыл бұрын
I’m a jumper ni/fi. o/ I do these things you speak all the time for the same reason. It’s a big reason I’m into personality types. Being able to identify and work with weaknesses and blind spots for growth.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Oh awesome! Are you in class?
@lisaia7877
@lisaia7877 4 жыл бұрын
LiJo I finished the beginner series and am now trying to figure out how to actively partake in the class. I have a question about that but I’m driving atm so if you don’t mind, may I ask in a bit?
@lisaia7877
@lisaia7877 4 жыл бұрын
LiJo been in the class and watching random informative videos for a lil over half a year now whenever I see them pop up on KZbin.
@lisaia7877
@lisaia7877 4 жыл бұрын
Do you recommend to -watch the weekly videos that are released and type alongside Shan and Dave or watch all the old archived videos and also keep up alongside the class? Personally I’ve watched a few of the archives but they don’t seem to be overly necessary from looking at the titles but just wanted another classmates thoughts on it before I shut it down entirely and just continue on the weeklies.
@omdam9
@omdam9 4 жыл бұрын
I'm an INTJ-A with a lot of social experience. Founded clubs, joined startups talked to conferences and seminars ... In short, I now can be quite outgoing and, let's say pleasing to be with ? The only problem that remains is ... stamina, so the introversion part, I still don't know what to do with that. The problem is that sometimes it just falls on you in the middle of a "hanging out" session like a big fat sign that says "you need to get out of here before your mask cracks and your true face shows". In this part if I was another type of introvert it would be okay, but you know when an INTJ is tired, some feelings are bound to get hurt. Otherwise, observing and deducing, making a whole database of behavior and words is something I do from middle school to this very day, so it was an INTJ thing to begin with ? Didn't know.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Everyone has a different energy threshold no matter the type :)
@ninadiener9806
@ninadiener9806 4 жыл бұрын
Very good explanation! I've practiced Fe and Se because those trip me up the most; I haven't really sought people out to observe, they kind of arrived on their own, but I guess noticing their functions is already a Se thing; I want to believe I suck a bit less at it nowadays 🙃
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Haha same I Hope I suck slightly less
@john_dee1431
@john_dee1431 4 жыл бұрын
Good video. I think the INTJ can be blindsighted by people they've come to trust giving rogue info and when they feel they should have anticipated it. On the flip, I gather an INFJ is blindsighted by a situational change in a process which could have been foreseen too.
@Priust189
@Priust189 4 жыл бұрын
Lol blind spots . Others emotional states
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao ok ... well... when you put it like that 😂
@bridgebum826
@bridgebum826 4 жыл бұрын
Fe Trickster!
@N0B0DY_SP3C14L
@N0B0DY_SP3C14L 4 жыл бұрын
This has been an interesting one, as it's quite a lesson in chameleonism. It's odd because the behaviors you describe are basically theatre to comfort the other person. If event X then action block Xa, probable response is positive (X+Xa=1). The tough part is keeping the present face when the cause of the other person's distress is something that we find completely stupid. And sometimes the lesson is "DO NOT DO THIS.". :)
@SOULJAJOE010
@SOULJAJOE010 4 жыл бұрын
Lol at the skin noodles joke, I can imagine the responses of people that I'm acquaintance with just being like, what??haha Thank you for the vid Lijo :D
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for laughing at my joke Joseph haha
@garic8423
@garic8423 4 жыл бұрын
That moment you want to change as an INTJ but dont know what exactly, dont know if anyone can relate to that situation... :/
@balancemode2228
@balancemode2228 4 жыл бұрын
You have a very good looking face. Also I like your process for improving areas of weakness. I’m doing something similar myself. Lots of journaling and structure for me is so good.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Lol thanks for the face approval 🙃
@balancemode2228
@balancemode2228 4 жыл бұрын
LiJo yes it’s quite activating haha
@sivanlevin3023
@sivanlevin3023 4 жыл бұрын
Im an Infp and u just describe my very first strategy in life ever since i was a child. Back in school days, i didnt want to belive everybody else was stuped, boring, and less then me( becous it unmoral belive), even when it felt like that, so i tried very hard and in a very actiely way to brick out of these point of view... my goul was to make a trip to others people mind, field, point of view territory, to got some new external expirence and infotmation outside of me, and get to the point i realy convinced other people are equal and have a value. From pure analitical point of view, To assume u alredy know everything and smarter then anyone is irrational, and can be contradictory by looking on how your one mind few years ago , u can see how thing thas looks like a logical axiom turend out to be wong, the big picture has been changed... and it can allways be chang complitely by adding more information. It interesting to ixxp to see were the graph of that convergent equation is going....
@neurohackstv5723
@neurohackstv5723 4 жыл бұрын
Good video Lindsay, I've been trying to do the opposite and completely capitalize on Ni and Te instead of hedging my bets in the way you describe it with a toolbox.
@jasonkatz1540
@jasonkatz1540 4 жыл бұрын
I'd love to follow you on instagram! you have some really great content coming from an intj
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Hey I don’t really use insta anymore 😬but I’m @wonderbubblez
@daniellabinjo6046
@daniellabinjo6046 4 жыл бұрын
Good tips LiJo there's some very nifty computational thinking at work here...thanks for sharing!
@valerietuckler8571
@valerietuckler8571 4 жыл бұрын
_*Reports for duty in the comments after getting excited for new vid_ I got really hopeful when you started telling info about the functions, but then it all got pretty vague. I don't mind vagueness 🙂. One thing though, I honestly never believed people could actually have problems with physical things until I saw the consistency with which you struggle here. Wow. You go girl! 😎🤯
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Hahah the real world is so strange Valerie 😂 I try
@valerietuckler8571
@valerietuckler8571 4 жыл бұрын
@@InternetLiJo I never thought the OP thing was real, I constantly thought about the concept in my mind _(as soon as I woke up)_ but when I compared that concept to the reality that I experienced later in the day (spying other people), it didn't match, and I thought It was a fanclub or smth, but it's looking a little real. I need to think more about it haha. Keep uploading your vids, I get new information everytime (even if it's vague 😉)
@elypelowski5670
@elypelowski5670 4 жыл бұрын
Really good advice to strengthen our weak functions by .... "studying people who do those functions well" ie in their top 2 slots. Mimic those usage behaviors until it feels more natural.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! You get it!!
@ryryhc
@ryryhc 4 жыл бұрын
Your information is great, got my answers, subscribed.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Welcome 👽
@dreamaboutsuccess
@dreamaboutsuccess 4 жыл бұрын
If "Te" situation occurs, then I should [applied tool] to equal a desired outcome. The example you gave for Fi was very interesting. How could an INFP Te more, when needed..? Could you give me an example?
@rareaqqle
@rareaqqle 4 жыл бұрын
Determine what would work for everyone by taking criticism from the tribe, good or bad, and track where the majority resides in more
@rareaqqle
@rareaqqle 4 жыл бұрын
Example: helping one of your employees become better at their job or help them learn certain techniques and stuff... something like that
@dreamaboutsuccess
@dreamaboutsuccess 4 жыл бұрын
@@rareaqqle wow, I actually do that and I really enjoy it..!! I used to work in her position and I know how to get some tasks done in a short amount of time. Back then I received critisism for the way I did stuff, so that fits as well :) thanks!
@floranova7565
@floranova7565 4 жыл бұрын
Fi + Ne is good at figuring out people's motives. For example, someone compliments you that they are really happy with your performance, but you feel they just said that to be polite or out of pity, because you didn't think it went that well. But they might have meant it. You could use Te to check if your feeling is correct. Look at their behavior like a detective: is this a person who always gives compliments out of politeness, or only when that is justified? Is there another possible reason why this person said they were happy? Could something else have coloured their opinion of your performance? Maybe did you judge your performance too harshly, because you were in a bad mood?
@rareaqqle
@rareaqqle 4 жыл бұрын
@@floranova7565 oh yeah that's true, I almost always ask for the negative feedback rather than asking for what they like because their response is more authentic and don't take their criticism personal when I use Te. If I do get offended, which is unlikely, I know I'm using Fi.
@DiamondsRexpensive
@DiamondsRexpensive 4 жыл бұрын
Is there a tool for dealing with people who naturally live out their joke-y element? It is like visiting the mad hatter
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Haha are you talking about ENFPs?
@jerusalem4492
@jerusalem4492 4 жыл бұрын
Love how you added outro music to the video! 👍🏼
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@Jo8Nathan
@Jo8Nathan 4 жыл бұрын
Hi LJ, Your first sentence after the intro is so valuable. Because that´s what typology is. A tool for growth and understanding of observable patterns in human personality. I would like to know the following: - Have you done research on the big 5 personality traits? => if so what is your viewpoint on them and my following statement? I have observed that the big 5 are more well defined and closer to the core dimensions of human psychology. The 16 or 512 types of mbti/objective personality are a specific [but open to a certain deviation for each dimension] combination of these 5 traits. The 8 cognitive functions are also a combination of these 5 traits and their distribution along the measurable scale of deviation. But still we can work quite well with the patterns behind this combination of traits in form of the functions because they are the most common combinations and work to a satisfying degree.
@andreagreenwood93
@andreagreenwood93 4 жыл бұрын
The way the test is structured, big 5 has much more negative or positive connotations. Here's a desirable quality, you either have it more or less. Myers Briggs places characteristics as a dichotomy opposed to each other...if you don't have these quality, then you have these others instead. Looking at the moderate correlation between the 2 systems, an ENFJ would be the perfect person in our society according to the Big 5, because they have these desirable qualities. But Big 5 leaves out so many opposing qualities.
@intjmarc243
@intjmarc243 4 жыл бұрын
She's pretty ... and so smart
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Oh Marc!
@troywesterbur706
@troywesterbur706 4 жыл бұрын
For me my greatest weaknesses also drain my energy to the point of needing a nap. Being extroverted really takes a lot of energy. when I was young it was easier to be extroverted by drinking. So that doesn't serve me any purpose. I don't do self destructive behavior just for the sake of fitting in. I don't fit in so I have just become ok with it. Feelings are also one of my biggest weaknesses. I try really hard to express them but it also drains me to exhaustion. When I am upset about something it is also like taking sleeping pills. I have to rest and recharge.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Oh gosh yes feelings are exhausting. Drinking never really helped me extrovert or provide me any real value at all.
@troywesterbur706
@troywesterbur706 4 жыл бұрын
@@InternetLiJo no but I thought I would mention it as a pitfall to watch out for. I would also say drug use as well but I think everyone knows not to do drugs. Well i guess if that were true there wouldn't be any drug problems. But when I was younger I hadn't come to terms with myself. I really just wanted someone to like me. The only people that did where the outcasts or outlaws however you want to look at it. There was nothing there but trouble. I got older and realized that the problem wasn't with the other people it was with me. I needed to change my perspective. I found out I was a pretty good person and didn't need approval from anyone else. But for getting along with co workers I had to learn how to deal with them. It wasn't they needed to deal with me.
@IntuneGP999
@IntuneGP999 4 жыл бұрын
Hey LiJo! When you said Global Conciousness, I got curious to know what you think about McLuhan's Global Village and other comm ideas. Are you a communications student too?
@tomwright9904
@tomwright9904 2 жыл бұрын
I'm really not sure if personality (and capability theory) is solid enough to really describe "choosing a personality type" as that muhc more of a game than finding one with test - particularly if you are summoning the concept of "jumper" to walk outside the theory...
@daneillesaunders9659
@daneillesaunders9659 4 жыл бұрын
I apply all those in my life already glad to know others do it love the hairstyle ❤️
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Yay!
@PsiCorps85
@PsiCorps85 4 жыл бұрын
Ever look back and see what kind of eye movements you use? I'm sure you're an INTJ, though a fair bit here you seem to use Ne. In some of my videos, I notice I used Si a fair bit while trying to remember everything I intended to say. It's probably just that certain situations require the usage of nonpreferred functions.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t study the eye movement stuff much. I have lived with someone on the Ne-Si axis for over 10 years though so I’m sure that does something. Also sometimes I’m trying to avoid the lights in my room with my eyes so they don’t reflect on my glasses.
@scarecrowsound8563
@scarecrowsound8563 4 жыл бұрын
Oh so you're a soul harvester too? I mean... you cherry pick aspects of other people's personality for yourself, too?
@scarecrowsound8563
@scarecrowsound8563 4 жыл бұрын
This is a very Ni trait. Fe does it too but I notice only in the moment to harmonize with someone. They call INFJs chameleons, but they dont even suspect us that's how well INTJs do it.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Lol they can keep their souls but I steal their tools 🙃 yes we are very sneaky.
@nihonmaksudur7662
@nihonmaksudur7662 Жыл бұрын
@@InternetLiJo as an intj i think i can just mimic others traits
@forKyrene
@forKyrene 4 жыл бұрын
I usually do a pep talk to myself in doing any Fe or Se! I have to constantly weigh the consequences or benefits of doing them based on my Fi. Doing my Se or Fe blindspots was, is, and will always be a work-on-progress! (Well, living Life is always a work-in-progress.)
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Being a work in progress is the only way I wish to be :)
@chiathepooh
@chiathepooh 4 жыл бұрын
Where do you go if you want to be typed by professionals using the 512 scale? I know online tests aren’t the most accurate, but I’ve always gotten INTJ on them and as I’m learning deeper about this type I am interested to be typed accurately by professionals.
@EminentJade
@EminentJade 4 жыл бұрын
I can relate to the "toolbox metaphor" so deep, and turning on my "sandbox mode" is my daily approach, i'd say for now the Fe(i seldom take my Fi serious daily) tool consume the least cpu in my "sandbox", but im still easily overwhelmed by too much stimulation from outside world(still cant fake being natural at Se), im gonna work on it
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Yes the toolbox is real!
@Kuultyc
@Kuultyc 4 жыл бұрын
Lol skin noodles...sounds like enfp lingo
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao my husband has influenced my language
@LarsGuerra
@LarsGuerra 4 жыл бұрын
would be interesting to know how dominant function act/execute differently in conjunction with other functions, Ni doms for example how it works differently for INFJ vs INTJ. not sure if anyone has covered this already xD
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
That's a great subject. I would really want to have an INFJ on to articulate that most accurately, but I love that idea.
@thesheepsaysmoooo
@thesheepsaysmoooo 4 жыл бұрын
What books would you recommend to learn about this stuff for an INTJ with dyslexia? Used this site applymagicsauce.com/demo to find my type. Somebody who suffered a lot of harsh criticism in school and never really had good guidance or direction in life. I'm currently reading Ray Dalio's principles but a lot of it goes over my head. I read Carol Dweck's growth mindset and that really got me focused on improving myself and my situation. Planning on reading the road to character and the power of habit. Any advice or recommendations would be greatly appreciated.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
I would recommend audio books :) and for books I recommend anything by Brene Brown
@jessicali8594
@jessicali8594 4 жыл бұрын
Unless it's auditory dyslexia, in which case the Davis Dyslexia program is worth every penny.
@keny53
@keny53 4 жыл бұрын
Your background/lighting look good in this video.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@adamsteguera9321
@adamsteguera9321 4 жыл бұрын
Ok Lijo thank you so much
@zzslye
@zzslye 4 жыл бұрын
Amen, sister, been think9ng about this
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Yeeee :)
@at____vt
@at____vt 4 жыл бұрын
Why do you think we are not capable of it? Can’t we develop both intuition functions? For example, cause I think we can do it with every other function. How are you sure you don't use these functions? People always used to say, that something couldn't be done and look...
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Everyone can do everything :) but not everyone can do everything very well.
@gurumack
@gurumack 4 жыл бұрын
Dat thumbnail
@AndeAndrea
@AndeAndrea 4 жыл бұрын
Very well said.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks girlll
@nightcrawlergap1733
@nightcrawlergap1733 4 жыл бұрын
Let's say you lost your keys, what method would you use to find them?
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
I have certain spots I always put my keys so I don’t lose them in the first place. If I didn’t have these systems in place I would waste so much time trying to find them because Im less aware of the physical world around me.
@nightcrawlergap1733
@nightcrawlergap1733 4 жыл бұрын
@@InternetLiJo Exactly. I know my patterns so I'll look in places I always put them first. This goes into my theory on how you say we simulate functions we don't have. In the case of losing them(not being in my normal spots). In some cases I've found the method of retracing my steps through memory more helpful than thinking of where they might be. I'm curious if it's possible to simulate a different organizing function.
@Jeff-Champwild
@Jeff-Champwild 4 жыл бұрын
I can relate to your videos, but I don't understand a lot of your jargon.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
What would help you understand it more? Or do you even want to understand it more?
@alutzlft
@alutzlft 4 жыл бұрын
Its your camera white??
@myasser2008
@myasser2008 4 жыл бұрын
It appears to me that it is white .
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@jonathanecheverria414
@jonathanecheverria414 4 жыл бұрын
ENTPs seem very unreliable-ENTP
@paulbaker3465
@paulbaker3465 4 жыл бұрын
Why am I torn on Gary Vee?
@NicStride
@NicStride 4 жыл бұрын
He's kinda obnoxious.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
He's so extra. Take him in small doses and realize you are coming for specific information, not just to take in everything he has to offer haha
@NicStride
@NicStride 4 жыл бұрын
@@InternetLiJo You treat motivational speakers how Tai Lopez treats books? :O INTJ truly are fascinating creatures. :P
@lachezarvalentinov8751
@lachezarvalentinov8751 4 жыл бұрын
#greedy :)
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Yeeee lol
@sinfulyetsaved
@sinfulyetsaved 4 жыл бұрын
Call me enfp here!!
@iincisif8599
@iincisif8599 4 жыл бұрын
Hey, can someone help me to type someone plz ??? I rly need to but i can't on my own...
@za2648
@za2648 4 жыл бұрын
Look up CS Joseph on KZbin.
@iincisif8599
@iincisif8599 4 жыл бұрын
@@za2648 I dont have time for this
@iincisif8599
@iincisif8599 4 жыл бұрын
@@za2648 it dont help me
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
How would you like us to type you. Do you have an hour long video we can reference?
@iincisif8599
@iincisif8599 4 жыл бұрын
@@InternetLiJo nope , only my memory ... U can just ask question to me on discord or here , and i'll answer
@SHREDTILLDEAD
@SHREDTILLDEAD 4 жыл бұрын
What the hell is an Intj?
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
haha a personality type for very strange humans
@SHREDTILLDEAD
@SHREDTILLDEAD 4 жыл бұрын
@@InternetLiJo ok, thanks. My comment may have appeared rude ,.sorry
@patrickmooney4135
@patrickmooney4135 4 жыл бұрын
I don't understand this topic. If everyone has blind spots then why should I consider these weaknesses that need to be worked on and improved? Don't we already have the ability to communicate with everyone? Do I really need to know the root cause of everyone's point of view, especially if these people are all wrapped up in their feelings? Isn't that obvious? Do I really need to be able to communicate with emotional people on an emotional level? I wouldn't do that. It's too exhausting and I just don't see the benefits. But I admit I need to study this personality typology stuff a lot more beyond the basic level. Thanks.
@FernJuice
@FernJuice 4 жыл бұрын
Patrick Mooney 😂 way to live up to the stereotype....
@annebourgonje
@annebourgonje 4 жыл бұрын
I think INTJ's always want to improve everything, so that's why. Also, wr have a whole life to spend on this planet so why not improve ourselves? I thinl it's valuable.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
If you can get what you want more efficiently isn't it worth it?
@NicStride
@NicStride 4 жыл бұрын
Skin Noodils. :O
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao you made it to the end!
@NicStride
@NicStride 4 жыл бұрын
@@InternetLiJo I did! The concept is simultenously mind boggling, amazing and scary.. For some reason I want it to be cute, but it keeps getting internalized as Tim Burton-esque. :P
@marcgoodman4561
@marcgoodman4561 4 жыл бұрын
Nope still too bright to watch comfortably.... Aspergers and the INTJ personality seem to go hand in hand.. Many Aspies find bright light quite over whelming... Good luck with your channel.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 4 жыл бұрын
Can you turn down the brightness of your screen?
@lastraven7205
@lastraven7205 4 жыл бұрын
let me watch your blindspot! if u marry me ill become your most useful chess piece! and I can take care of all the whimsical "fun" stuff as an enfp
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