how to not give a f*** what people think of you

[@simonesimmons]

LMAO yo I just realised I cut off the ending. OOPS

[@nikitayumnam]

I thought what just happened! 😂

[@rxhrevfr98]

yeah hahah i was confused "agora hills" played automatically after. Mother I follow u on insta too im a supporter haha

[@itsjustanaccount5838]

I was so confused 😂

[@rxhrevfr98]

@@itsjustanaccount5838 🤣🤣🤣

[@johnsonjo8454]

​@@nikitayumnamhi 💋💋💋🤎

[@id_mahi]

i relate so much when you said "every time someone said i couldn't do smth, the more i felt like proving them wrong" THAT FEELING JUST SLAPS DIFFERENT.

[@iidentifyasjeffbezos]

my sisters smirked at the fact that I wanted to be an Engineer, it wasnt easy, but I'm solving math and physics questions after starting from the foundations, and I WILL pass an examination for Mechanical engineering 4 months from now! Never let people define you

[@id_mahi]

@@iidentifyasjeffbezos im so proud of you, keep going

[@mbtimiaaa]

rightt but like ur not supposed to be dependent on other people’s opinions yk even if there good or bad. Like it don’t matter either way.

[@ratanhansda614]

I’ve read a lot of books, but women’s magic truths on borlest is on another level. It doesn’t just talk about vague concepts-it reveals secret techniques that can actually help you attract almost anything you want in life. This isn’t some watered-down law of attraction; it’s the real deal. You won’t believe what you’re missing out on until you read it.

[@znvmrr]

People nowadays use the word "narcissism/you're narcissistic" just anywhere without even knowing what it actually is. That's so true when you said confident people get called narcissists on the internet. Not just confident, but any type of behaviour that THEY don't like will be termed as narcissism🤦‍♀️ cz honestly if we really start caring abt what other people say or their opinions then we just won't be able to achieve what we want in life. How tf is not caring about other's opinions narcissism? They need to educate themselves.

[@mesCheerios]

The term is rly needed by people who experienced genuinely extreme personalities to describe what they have been through without having to go into triggering details, and it has become meaningless and useless to victims of this. Also makes it seem like ppl can't experience abuse from ppl who are otherwise nice or even kind. It's so important for ppl to realise we are ALL capable of doing terrible things, and we also need to be able to realise that to become better if we are effing up

[@ohohpelia2166]

Exactly it discredits actual victims of narc abuse

[@hinaguiza8810]

The person I was "close" to with NPD cared alot about what people had to say. For example if he felt humiliated or even slightly threatened he'd not show it infront of them but lash out in different ways at his family/weaker ones this showed he was extremely triggered by it. He was excessively paranoid about how he appeared especially smelled and looked to the extent of taking shower twice a day. He was also power hungry, chasing materialism and validation/trying to fit in with the upper class and belittling us despite him belonging to the same class as us like??💀 these are just to say that these ppl to do care about how they're "perceived", he had alot worse counterparts but one thing good about him was his drive for power that made him successful/well known in his field but that never satisfied him, he wanted to fit in with his ideal class.

[@Valerz7]

Simone’s got the sixth sense she’s always here at the hardest times

[@smriti2461]

I relate so much to "people get intimidated by me so much" but it is what it is. They either level up to not feel that or have no relation with me at all.

[@leksisatka6110]

Girl the shrinking yourself to not intimidate others part, I feel SEEN

[@Mishapindisguise]

I related so much to "People who are insecure and afraid of their potential would always want to bring you back to their level" so real! Some people will just not keep their mouths shut and bring you down everytime, just to not feel miserable about themselves. Ps. I m seriously thinking about plastering Simmone's quotes on my wall❤

[@noah.m2007]

the people who care the most abt ur life don't care much abt their life

[@margaretdoliet1630]

Well said 🙌

[@kristinakristina101]

I love what you said in the bullying part. As a girl who was bullied in school, it really made me feel better. Thank you

[@Kimhanah_Coolanime]

Same their this 3 girls that would constantly making me feel left out , trying to pull me down, make me feel isolated and lonely.Their this main girl who used for tell the 2 girl's to not get close to me to her 2 friends who used to be a close friend's of mine. Ofc someone I was close to suddenly isolated me I felt confused...hurt..triggered and was hurting I felt so unfair I started talking about this to everyone...I falked about how bad and unfair it was...but coming across these videos I realized their no point for me to vent/trama dump and complain this to anyone. Whatever happned it me happned to me for a reason and "It is what it is" 🤷‍♀️. This taught me a lesson to "Not trust the wrong person "be carefull" this taught me ofc more but now I realized why? They did this to so I pity them now..I absolutely don't care and never will I did had tough time and cried but I had to and I knew it but now I have moved now and I don't regret anything❤

[@kristinakristina101]

@@Kimhanah_Coolanime I had a similar situation, too! I am glad we both got over it, and try to use in our advantage.❤️

[@novasubliminals111]

1. unless the person doesn’t bring value in to your life or they are not in a position you want to be in, don’t care about them. They’re not in your reality. 2. Don’t take criticism from someone you wouldn’t take advice from. 3. Have confidence in knowing who you are and your own values 4. Strut that place down and focus on you. (and the people who truly care about you)

[@julianacamargo2022]

Simone I need a video of "the fear of saying NO" or something like that. Most people say things like "you just do not need to feel guilty about it" but they don't see what is behind that fear or that "habit". (I mean when someone's upbringings are in an environment of not being able to say NO or are too afraid of people's reaction

[@HelloFreya]

this is so true because i always wanted to do affiliate marketing since i started uni people used to tell me “only influencers makes money off of it” then one day i just started, yes it took time for me to understand how to make money but now i am making money even though it’s not a lot but I just bought my first louis vuitton bag and it feels so good to have been able to prove them wrong looool sooo a win is a win

[@Leila-u6d]

I just want to add that sometimes friends and family do not truly want the best for you. Especially if your bond with them is made of a bad behavior that you're trying to get rid of or if they envy you for something you have. Family can be toxic and friends can be fake, learn to identify and remove.

[@mesCheerios]

rly appreciate u calling out the narc name calling issue. No one is going to understand the severity of what i experienced when i tell ppl i had to live with a sociopath as a teenager because ppl are throwing these words around like they aren't describing v extreme beyond toxic behaviour

[@Eggmuffin-px5vq]

i love you simone. i've been following you for a year and you've changed my life so much

[@saffwa.]

i did not prepare for my favourite university’s entry test bc my cousins indirectly told me that i cant do it, and my aunt LITERALLY SAID IT ON MY FACE. and i went for test without studying bc my friend forced me (with NO preparation) & scored 69/200, and actually im proud of myself that i got 69 lmao when i thought i’ll score 5 or 0.. now i’ll prepare for it and go for test again, 😡, i just vented.

[@saffwa.]

@@Kleillaa2121 i get it now, thank you so much for this, i really like it when someone older tells me good things 🤍

[@bananabre4d]

u have been raising me for 2 years now I LOVE U SIMONE💗💗💗

[@MahimaDondapati]

Yaas we love mother 🎉

[@vaibhavi127]

It's really life changing advice that makes my path clear to whom I have to remove from my life and negatives belief in this society to make you weak by showing their ego and gratitude towards you, I really understand what mistakes and things I have to do to achieve my goal since this times. You are great ❤

[@lovelylickyricky]

Simone gets prettier each video like WHAT DO YOU DO

[@simonesimmons]

pretty when I cry pretty when I cryyyyyyyyy

[@hellosouuu]

Wow I relate so much to people feeling intimidated around you. I’ve been trying to find ways to make people “not intimidated”around me, why was I even doing that. I didn’t need to go out of my way to make people comfortable, they don’t even make me comfortable.

[@adorbeva5697]

I’m trying to become more confident as I’m a 14 year old girl who gets embarrassed by everything at school and always goes red if anybody even talks to me because I don’t have confidence at all. Thank you, this is slowly helping me. Also your accent is so nice.

[@RealzMe]

I watched this video on mute because I don't need anyone telling me how to not care about people. Now your video is helpful! I didn't listen to a single word. I figure there might be some depressed child out there who needs to hear this 9 minute video about how not to give a f. good video keep up the great work!

[@TanisKumar-i9n]

This video is so insightful! I don’t usually recommend things in comments, but I have to mention the book women’s magic truths on borlest. It’s full of valuable information on wealth and self-care that could really change your perspective. Take care, everyone

[@sarbunoemi4454]

Damn, Simone, been listening to your videos since June and now I am attending university and got a better a job because of you! Shame on you for inspiring us to be better, I hope one day I can meet you! :D

[@bts4everrr]

I just love watching your videos.. they inspire me, guide me and empower me. Thanks so much for being out here. You're one of the best content creators I've seen on the internet. Keep going, and I'll always keep supporting you. Much love and gratitude, ~Your subscriber.

[@spiritmadeofstars]

I started running and writing one blog a month about it. On my first post, an old man commented that I should not run or I will be paralysed when I'm older. On the second, he commented that I am not running enough and should be ashamed for even putting my journey online. Now he thinks he knows everything about my running form from a few photos that do not even capture my real running, because my old camera is unable to actually take photos of my real run in a sport mode :D so I mostly just hop to emulate the look of running. His comments made me feel sad for a moment, but I do not care, I am doing it for myself and sharing it with others to keep me motivated and accountable.

[@nyx-0907]

wake up babe, queen is here to level us up

[@dylanpringle4314]

I’m glad I found your channel seriously I feel like there’s a lot of people in my life take advantage of my kindness and I would really like to fucking get over that it’s all in my head one in the acceptance

[@id_mahi]

aint pregnant but u always deliver, love this video and ill be applying these in my life. ty simone!

[@ameliarachanska4682]

queen posted two days before my presentation 🙏 god bless

[@hinaguiza8810]

I remember watching a video of yours back then And I was deeply triggered (one of those lifeless people💀) because how dare a girl be this confident and speak her mind huh? But god how how I subscribed quickly 2 minutes into the a video! I've healed much and I'm thankful, including your videos into my healing journey from bpd.💗 Love you Simone, that energy you radiate is not that of a commoner!! It's magical, I mean it.

[@arfaasif1842]

Omg I needed this today.😭 thank you queen !!💕

[@joseniasguilhermesantiago4060]

SIMONE, THE ONES WHO MAKE FUN OF OTHER PEOPLE, MAKE FUN OF THEMSELVES.

[@joseniasguilhermesantiago4060]

WE ARE ALL ONE.

[@jigyasa345]

PLEASS START A PODCAST ON SPOTIFY

[@Shraddhatvv]

Too grateful ❤

[@Vanuuieee]

2:44 so true girl .. they wish they are you but not even 00.1% . You keep going girl🙌🏻You are amazing ❤❤

[@jamiewilliams8107]

When you are left to your own devices there are no f@@@s to give!

[@jqwpiter]

Simone is so real

[@Nicksroom]

I love this video. As a trans person who’s still in school, people can be brutal. I struggle so much about what others think, but after watching your video I feel just so much lighter. Thanks Simone, your videos always save :)

[@nineplustentwentyone26]

I am so glad that I have watched this video today. I really needed these words. Thank you

[@Valerz7]

YESSSS I NEEDED THIS

[@jilyyyyy.]

"Let people feel the weight of who YOU ARE, and let them deal with it."

[@aysegulcelik5886]

The thing you said about constructive criticism was so right

[@thatgirloncommentsection8798]

I love you so much Simone...

[@ayeshallastname6225]

hi ! simone can you please make a video on school and all that stuff !!!

[@malaaka7177]

Hey simone can you do a video on how to rely on yourself as much as possible bc most people avoid helping

[@TilikaVispute]

Build self trust. Do the small habits you said you would do to firstly build confidence with yourself.

[@kzoomgacha]

6:17 bro.. that’s me fr I need to stop

[@lalalalalalalalalol]

Hey simone! I love your vids so much!! because of you, I have decided to dedicate my teen years to focusing on the truth of life and being the best version of myself. your advice has helped me so much ever since ive started watching your vids a few weeks ago and I feel so proud of myself.

[@mansoor3159]

Makes my day when you make new videos Simone😀💖

[@FloppedASF]

"true" NPD is rare (which is a mental disorder) but narcissistic tendencies traits or behaviors are common

[@aranzaaranda]

Thank you!! 🫶🏼

[@charpearson_]

will definitely be coming back to this video.

[@playtpuspower3241]

I KNOW THEY WANT TO LIVE THE LIFE I LIVE PERIODDDDD I’m out here affording to be able to live by myself, have a great remote 9-5, getting book for well paid DJ gigs, getting sober working on my health like…

[@magz-ho1gf]

simone is just casually being my Australian/Perth queen atp

[@go.11bananas49]

oh, i love it when Simone is serious talking like that 😆

[@gabi8096]

I can't believe I didn't click on this bc I thought I already didn't care, when my clown self can't get my own ass in the internet bc she's insecure about people not believing in it! the realization was delayed but I'm here

[@punpunr.3703]

I kinda need this reminder right now. Thank you very much!!

[@Nikoletak23]

I agree with you 100%, what do you think about people who react badly to constructive criticism? How would you deal with them if you tried to help them with it, but they turned you into their worst enemy after this?

[@taraalao7055]

Can you please do a video on how to get over past mistakes and forgive yourself 😂

[@aakankshajain8555]

Omg you posted this 3 mins ago and I can’t wait to watch!

[@ankitasarkar3646]

the much needed video just dropped. 🎉

[@sondoussesetti]

what if you work but you lose . and this people win in the end

[@MryamaKids]

I don't have friends, I don't have anyone, I need videos to motivate myself

[@yanatewari5354]

thank u for this❤️❤️❤️

[@irmakch]

every time i watch simones videos i feel more powerful and more confident thank u❤️

[@mesCheerios]

algorithm always welcoming me to your second channel but not your first

[@mareli6256]

Don't forget let's make things clear you CAN'T IGNORE peaple's OPINION IN YOU however you can direct it in a way that develops you, caus girl we live between those peaple, so fr exampl i told you you're not brave wich is true you can use it to evolve and prove them f***wrong❤

[@kostantinakaras9559]

thank you in advance, i'm writing this after listening to 2 secs of the video

[@biancaanabella]

I love your words of wisdom ❤❤❤ this is trueee

[@jasmintea8825]

It’s also worse bc I know logically why I should not care that much but I can’t execute it 😭

[@kandacepereira795]

Love your videos ❤

[@gameover9321]

Mother has postedddd wake upppp 💃🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@HamzaHabi-z7h]

I am proud of you😊

[@hawa004]

Hello Simone and everyone :) I have a question that's probably a bit mirrored from this video. I accidentally raised my voice at this friend but I was actually half joking at the time. It's about her not finishing her presentation slides when it was her turn on that day. I finished my presentation earlier than them because of some issues. After I finished my presentation, our teacher asked my classmates to take a number each randomly from these pieces of paper to decide the flow. And they had a week to finish it. She was sick when we fought but it just started 2 or 3 days before her presentation day. She asked me to use my laptop on that day but I couldn't give it to her because my laptop can't be used for presentation. When I tell that to my friends, one of them was confused because she has a tablet and a phone. I know that using a phone can be quite tricky. But she can use her tablet. Our other friend used her own tablet to finish all of our assignments. On that day, my friend ( if I'm not wrong ) asked her whether she finished her slides and she said no. Then I said, " you have your tablet. You have your phone" with a loud voice by accident. She cried after that. My friend that was sitting next to her told us both that she replied slowly, "I know you finished your presentation. No need to show off". I wasn't showing off, obviously. And I'm planning to not apologize to her because I stated the right thing in my opinion. She's actually kinda problematic so my other friends also told me that it's fine. I just want to know other people's opinions. What do you guys say? I'm sorry for this long question. I'll delete it later. Thank you so much for answering. Hope you have a great day/night❤️ and of course, thankyouu so much for this video, Simone. Lots of love! ❤️

[@OpheliasAdvices-mp9km]

Thank you for the reminder!

[@mario125ww]

How do I meet people like you. I want level up but i feel like im surrounded by those who ok with being average

[@blizzzardsu]

Simone... Can you make a video on those people who just judge people by the length of thei clothes and how much revealing it is? Nowadays it is almost seen that everyone is talking about the length of the dress and the revealing clothes. Everyone says that because of the girls wearing revealing clothes, rape cases are increasing nowadays. In this way, girls are also becoming enemies of girls. What is your opinion on it? How can we respond to such judgmental people or how can we handle them?

[@blizzzardsu]

And also I love your videos... Your videos really help me ❣️❤️ thankyou queen

[@wvniez]

Mother served as always 🤭🤭💗💗

[@sunnyshin6298]

yess

[@wvniez]

@@sunnyshin6298 YASS STAN WONYYYY

[@yvesburgers]

okay yess needed !!!

[@Mynessly]

Thx for the recommendation

[@おらあ-u4e]

Is this ending right?? It is so sudden (I watch all your videos Simone x)

[@ImTheRealGru]

No way this was on my home page💀💀

[@klonca]

Thanks! ❤

[@pakistanicanadianvlogger]

What is the color name of the lipstick you're wearing?

[@OmedyStories]

Hey , I just watched your video and I must say that it was really informative and well-made. I was wondering if I could help you edit your videos and also highly engaging thumbnails which will help your video to reach to a wider audience .

[@biancaanabella]

True i love thisss ❤

[@Peace34_]

Gooo girl.. make much video.. you influence me... in positive way

[@lindsei9838]

3:27 - 3:47

[@mouna6006]

❤❤❤شكرا

[@SunilBhai-om9lv]

It's crazy how no one is talking about Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest. This book has secrets that could change everything, but people seem blind to it. Wake up and see for yourself!

[@georginaminter]

2:02 which youtubers?

[@haveanicedayever]

I don’t care bc i know who i am. Also am i right?

[@ibrahimhussain6060]

very good video

[@yuliya212]

Fact check. Narcissist is a spectrum, and while diagnosed narcissist is really a 1% of population, in reality on the spectrum there are a lot more narcissists in life, some more, some less, but 1 in every 6 people is a narcissist.

[@osnapitzem]

also peep the tinder match LMAO

[@moacirschneider5096]

❤❤

[@adrilous]

💛💛

[@seryjsk]

Ок

[@Mondscheinelfe]

purr