Your Silence After their Rejection is Killing Them | Stoicism

[@melanieoreilly2565]

I am worth way more than his disrespect and crumbs. So I switched the music off. I'm dancing elsewhere, and loving it

[@marytaylor9504]

I'm saying the sapme!!! I'm of GREATEST WORTH!!!

[@mantra9wolf]

Beautifuly said 👍🏼😇

[@Zeepjeliefs]

I'm proud of you, you are your own friend 🌻

[@bettyfelton1362]

@@melanieoreilly2565 Go tidda girl 🥰

[@TheStoicBeacon-TGG]

You deserve so much more than disrespect and empty effort. Turning off that "music" and dancing elsewhere is such a powerful move-focusing on your own happiness and growth is the best thing you can do for yourself. Keep loving yourself first, and watch how your life transforms. You’re worth everything!

[@marytaylor9504]

Silence IS GOLDEN and GOD Is MY Advenger!!!

[@sandie4870]

Amen. 🙏🏽

[@mmff5242]

silence is indeed golden. Shut up and get rich.

[@Scorned405]

A genie up in the clouds is your avenger??

[@privateuser8511]

@@Scorned405leave other people alone and focus on your own beliefs

[@maribelavila272]

Silence is my superpower, Jesus is my strength. I will no longer make him an idol above my Lord Jesus Christ my Messiah

[@TheTropics4]

It's been a long 46 days since he dumped me. I broke the NC two times at the beginning, but I've held strong 21 days now & haven't broke the NC! I'm very proud of myself. Tomorrow is Veterans Day & he was in the Army 22 yrs & served in combat in Afghanistan 4 yrs which he suffers from PTSD. It's going to take every ounce in me not to acknowledge him, but I must keep silent. This will reveal his true feelings for me as you said. Either he'll face his fear and reach out to me, or he'll stay in his own silence which I will begin my new adventure on my own! Thank you for this video!!❣️

[@claita26]

Are you sure you want someone with PTSD! Think abt that 🙏

[@Reina10]

You don't need him dear. Move on...

[@harryquinn8911]

True love never dies, fake feelings never existed. You sound like the kind of person all men dream of so be strong it will be worth it ❤

[@MargaretFrank-hg7bz]

Silence is my power now. I cannot continue the abuse. Thank you.

[@ellakidd6512]

Iam unshaken by their absent i am building my own strength

[@monikakpos7667]

Yeah!!! I have gained self respect

[@joyceclarke2390]

I'm staying strong thank you

[@zenaashworth4950]

Silence my superpower

[@julieryan8179]

Silence is my super power! It's not a weakness it's my strength and he will feel it.

[@redbertiethechampion1863]

I was her anchor, her safety net for several months. All of a sudden she told me it was over, I got devastated…shocked! I decided to go completely silent; blocked her from every social media there is, no texting, no contact at all. Today, 12 days later, she reached out to me. I haven’t answered her…Not sure i want to! But silence is pure power..💫

[@tommylee2544]

Silence is my superpower

[@bettyfelton1362]

Silence is deadly 😊🔥🫦

[@MarinaSvensson-w9d]

Thanks for this wisdom. This made me realized that by still trying to soothe them and make them feel better (although my intent was to help them and support them) I unknowingly enabled them which has prevented them from growing and learning from their mistakes. This was a wakeup call for sure. It might take some time for me to be able to let them go fully, but you made me realize and acknowledge how crucial letting them go is for my own growth and theirz.

[@vrushalideole3337]

No amount of books will bring in such deeply profound psychological truth. Thank you very much for the realist life altering insights shared🙏

[@Heaven_2U]

Thank you for the comfort of knowing and acknowledging the strength and power that is within us. Our silence is indeed our superpower🩵

[@stevenmcclam4627]

Silence is my superpower😊

[@BruceMatsche-qi5vx]

I have been used by this Women . On these sites that they are payed to Chat. I have learned a lot about these Women . And worth every penny. Now I disconnect when . I feel they are playing a game . Even though I have been taught. To street outs as I would like to be treated .I am so grateful for your information. Which give me the assurance that . I will stay strong and stay Disconnected.

[@pharxahghxst3654]

This happened to me too keep your head up stay strong

[@lifeisfunnyespeciallyyours]

Praying for you love ❤

[@lifeisfunnyespeciallyyours]

Just about made me cry 😢

[@defalcotransport]

I am Unshaken by their indifference. I’m building my own strength and worth! Amen 🙏🏻

[@abasstiger26]

Silence is my superpower🙏

[@Brightestlightt]

This helped me tremendously thank you 😊

[@debbieumah6343]

I'm free now in Jesus mighty name and thanks for thus great video

[@naysilverspirit5411]

My situation is a little different.. we both love each other but he needed space. He has a kind soul not narcissistic… I haven’t reached out to him because of the space 😢 it’s just sad

[@poohsroadful]

I have a similar situation you and I just did this to my man it took 4 days before he was begging me back and showering me with gifts and asking me what I needed from our relationship. He recognized my worth in his life and it didn't take long it's not always about self-reflection or whatever your man seems to think he needs it's about what you need don't wait around too long if you're worth isn't enough for him it will be for someone else and I know how hard it is because I just did it and I was a complete mess for those days but it had to be done life is short and no one is promised tomorrow take care of yourself be true to yourself put yourself first then you can truly love and be loved I hope everything works out for you the way you want it to and you are truly loved the way you deserve

[@naysilverspirit5411]

@ thank you , your words mean a lot❤️❤️❤️

[@Brutalismus_]

Same here. He needed space to reflect on his problems but he left lines of communication open and no bridges were burnt. I told him I'll give him space. It's been almost a month and it hurts but I'm not giving in. The ball is in his court.

[@larverncatron5360]

Silence is my Super Power!!!

[@MariaPeros-Bradica]

Keep it up! 3 months into my silence and I’m feeling strong 💪🏻

[@manischafer1919]

Silence is my super power

[@patriciazello1308]

Am progressing forward in my quiet withdrawal from family members. It's hard but I realize my silence is what I need to do for self preservation.

[@StoicPerson0312]

This video was incredibly empowering and insightful! The message about the silent strength we hold and how it reshapes our worth was so moving. It’s a powerful reminder that silence can speak louder than words, fostering growth and clarity. Thank you for this profound perspective on reclaiming self-worth and understanding the true power of silence. Truly inspiring!

[@opudo]

Keep it ooooh this is the best channel for heart break,yes am taking notes...the pain in my heartache is cooling down this video has saved my heart break

[@TheWisdomJourney1]

Thanks for the feedback.

[@joelmalcolmstewart4868]

Silent is my super power. This is my so called Family Members. Am finally alone with God Again and I’m feeling so relieved,Happy And Strong. Snapchat is the only social media I have left and finally they are sending me request. The best thing I’ve ever done is block all of them. I don’t need and more Narcissistic people around me. I have had enough. And living in Paris France is another Narcissistic place. I don’t have Friends I enjoy my own company. People Drain my energy. Everybody looking for something. If I could live on another planet alone or on an island 🏝️ I would be more happy. I want to leave France but it’s just a matter of time. Don’t forget in your prayers 🙏🏿 God bless you and keep up the amazing work❤

[@graceokoye84]

Everyone is looking for something

[@defalcotransport]

Silence is my Super Power. Amen

[@lynnbain2909]

I am open to God for my new chapters 🙏 ❤ Thank you so much for all of the confirmations!!😊

[@ellakidd6512]

Silence is my supper power

[@monikakpos7667]

Am staying strong....

[@paulclarke3621]

Brilliant advice and so important in these times of mental health increase.

[@jemimamentoor]

Lord strengthen me,empower me with super power from above

[@User-z1j]

From start to finish - powerful speech and thank you so much for sharing ❤️.

[@SammieDuncan-v3u]

Staying strong

[@beautifulspirit2973]

Silence is my superpower ❤ I claim me back!

[@aishablacksa8632]

This video make me stronger than ever😊 thank very much

[@thoudamindibati1505]

Karma is real. Karma will judge equally. Om namah shivay 🙏

[@abj99861]

This was brilliant, watching again to fully digest

[@tayechbelete7381]

Silent is my super power

[@sallydaly5597]

Thank you too, for this excillent self management.

[@evelindasuchiang9641]

Inspiring ! Thank you. God bless

[@stevieblackburn3811]

Silence is OUR super duper pooper scooper power 😮in Christ

[@florencekafumbe7966]

Silence iz my super power

[@jemimamentoor]

Silence is my superpower.

[@LiamScanlan-p9m]

Silence is my super power.

[@MaryWanjiku-nh7cs]

Lets keep going we have to do this my dear lovely friends give beast long

[@sandraharding6890]

I'm strong and deserved more than an indifferent

[@SheilaMaher-x6y]

Silence is my power to rebuild my own Life

[@YasminFisher-o9o]

Keep it up!

[@JodiScott-e6f]

Keep it up.

[@Marinaknetge]

30 years and I'm now understanding what I was dealing with. Now it's silence and he disappeared into the night. So painful..

[@lizcc6833]

Keep it up. Its been 18 days

[@monikakpos7667]

They need to face their journey alone

[@rinkledtomato]

Keep it up!!

[@PhilTate-s1g]

forget apart past relationships if they didn't work either a cheat ??or just move up be happy with yourself meet someone else or not 😮

[@maryanndiamond1690]

Wow, now I see I was weak in showing all of this in showing kindness. .. You don't know your worth when you give.

[@Nola5427]

Kindness is not weakness.

[@LiamScanlan-p9m]

I choose myself & silencce

[@brendapezeron4984]

Thanks

[@lynnbain2909]

Keeping it up 🙏💯

[@dododoreen1]

Keep it up

[@dedereimer5472]

The end of his last text said, "I'll come visit you this summer sometime.". I saw thru his lies & texted that back. 4 mos. later, I accidentally touched his number but I hung up right away. He called back but I did not answer. He asked for me to do him a favor. He then said, "We (his mom) miss you, I miss you.". I still kept silent, never called back. Did my accidental call ruin my "silence?"

[@nancyaustin4665]

I am free now

[@ellakidd6512]

My silence is my strength

[@poohsroadful]

I don't think so. I think he admitted his discomfort. But sometimes it's hard for a man because of their pride to admit that he needs you back. But I think that you are doing the right thing by staying silent so please stay silent. Stay strong and just stay committed to being true to yourself and true to your needs at this time. I just did this with my man and it took 4 days before he realized my worth in his life and he was showering me with gifts and asking me what I needed in our relationship and we're doing better now. So just stay strong but don't wait too long because life is short and everybody deserves to be loved the way they want to be loved

[@uagang3872]

Do yall have a child together or any other ties that cause you to still have their number in your phone? If not, it may be best to delete his number and block it to prevent any further accidents.

[@Lightwhite136]

Iam free now

[@mariajosefinagravides3711]

I'm happy to see comments that they're healed. I hope I can post a comment like this

[@SammieDuncan-v3u]

New people ❤an want what I'm hoping 🙏 for

[@stevieblackburn3811]

Drop the WORLD 🌎 CHANGE THE WORD love TO trust AND UNDERSTAND THE MICRO AS WELL AS THE MACRO

[@melanieorcia4631]

My silent is reality, my silent is my power, my silent is my truth, my silent is killing them??sarot??? hehe my silent is God honor and glory🙏

[@RichardSansone-y8u]

Iam Julie I need this to help me with the choice my adult child has made to not communicate with me n cut me out only to see me when she is acting in a show she invites me but that's it she went almost a yr not seeing me or talking n now another year. There was nothing in particular like a conflict or anything that happened I was not there 20 yrs ago but I thought that was forgiven. It hurts so much my only child 33 yrs old. I was diagnosed with cancer 3 yrs ago n now in remission. I am happy for that.n if she loves me time will tell. This silence is worth a try. Love to all n anyone that read this n prays for all hurting n lost . Pls know you r not alone. Xxoo ❤❤❤

[@florencekafumbe7966]

my silence is my tregth

[@bugzdesilva8216]

I built the power of silence, he seems happy and replaced me with a bauble. I don't care though. I don't want to see myself step back into a garbage pile. I see and work with him most of the time however I see in his eyes that he repents the high quality prize he lost.

[@Unrattled]

She said she wanted me to leave her alone, so I left her alone. No calls, no texts. I stopped existing in her world.

[@monikakpos7667]

Am irreplaceable...

[@scallacamp]

I am ready to move on

[@wildflowerfreetobe9532]

What if they are waiting for us to reach out? What if we are both expecting each other to?

[@RichardSansone-y8u]

I want to live again happy

[@KingStoic101]

Staying silent after being rejected is not about hurting others, it is about maintaining your dignity and peace. Could this quiet strength be the ultimate sign of self control and resilience?

[@ellakidd6512]

I am irreplaceable

[@poohsroadful]

I know, right? That is a good point in this message.

[@sallydaly5597]

So what about the new supply? Is she not able to help the narcissist in times of these desperation?

[@carolynshook1053]

Amen been there

[@RobinetteWortham]

Im not worried. Silence. Is. Golden 😂😂😂😂

[@stevieblackburn3811]

Alone

[@sallydaly5597]

I won't see, for i am in no contact mode,and silence is my navigation mode.

[@jenelynceb0731]

My situation now 💔

[@sandie4870]

Unfortunately, I broke my silence and he never responded. It’s been 2 wks and I haven’t reached out again.

[@mommafoxxdiaries6509]

Yeah..Don’t forget the reason you went silent the first place💯🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@XPR_cocoabean]

Kp it up!

[@beverlygarcia6475]

I am on that silent journey because the ex lie to me so I was done and I went silent

[@Scorned405]

This whole thing about “ no contact” and “ Playing little games to make them miss you” is ridiculous. I’m seeing this everywhere. Gents if she walks out on you it’s over. She is not at all interested in you. A woman is not wired that way. Women do not emotionally bond with men. It’s a transaction to them. That’s all it is. This video is so wrong. She’s not replaying anything or even thinking of you. She is not thinking of you anymore than u think of the clerk at the convenience store. When she leaves, delete her and quit trying this getting her back thing. You’re just running in circles cause she does not miss you or even think of you. Actually she’s glad u are gone. You’re a pest to her. Yes dude emotionally she is going somewhere. She is not like a man. A man has the ability to miss a person when they walk out. The vast majority of females are not like this. This video is very misleading and not correct. You never meant anything to her. You were just a transaction. Please don’t sit there in depression and pity. There’s plenty more chicks out there. When she moves on, u move on. Actually u should be spinning plates because most women are spinning plates too.

[@lisa5821]

Do you think it's the same if the man was the one that walked on the woman? My ex's never come back to me, not sure how all these women get ex's to come back who left them 🥲

[@stevieblackburn3811]

The dead IN Christ SHALL rise 1st... says so ....can't wait sir

[@florasadoa-nm6bs]

Is silence means anything when he is already has another girl

[@marywarrior47]

KEEP IT UP SILENCE IS GOLDEN 😂❤ I'M FOCUSING ON BUILDING MY VALUE I'M MORE THAN ENOUGH "" GOING ON 4 DAY'S OF NO CONTACT & COUNTING, HE NEVER SAW IT COMING, 😢I MUST ADMIT THAT IT STILL HURTS " BECAUSE I KNOW THAT HE'S HURTING I WILL MOVE ON THE HEARTACHE IS LESS & THE TEARS IS LESS BECAUSE THIS IS THE 2nd. TIME THAT I LET HIM GO, THE FIRST TIME I LET HIM KNOW, THE 2nd TIME I DIDN'T EVEN TELL HIM ANYTHING, I JUST DISAPPEARED. SO I FEEL MUCH STRONGER 💪

[@PhilTate-s1g]

actually this would work of they actually were bothering about you ,if not move on to something else, give them nothing if you wanted to come back lol 😆

[@theophilusmaccado6101]

I'd say it works for some people, in my case,I gave the woman the world,all the vacations,the flowers time,love, care,protection, in the end I got dumped coz I asked why she never want to spend her money on me,4 days of no contact,she already monkey branched,and she did told me once tht she'll never be single,😂😂😂,I don't believe this will work on someone that cold,but either way,her loss,and it hurts,a lot.

[@stevieblackburn3811]

The hyenas have had their last laugh at the creators yes yes yes

[@lisa5821]

Unfortunately I lashed out after he got distant after sex. But I blocked in everything, didn't sit and wait for a response. and never looked back. Saw him on a dating app recently and he looks sad in his new pics lol

[@tamraholland2285]

staying strong… 🎉😂 hope he finds a new victim. i did my time

[@RichardSansone-y8u]

It's julie😢😊

[@SomesaAn]

KZbin found just few it’s sound makes sense 😂 & Facebook none different earth 😅

[@sallydaly5597]

Keep it up😂.

[@nirmalasanjiv7624]

No never such cunning cheaters waiting us to move on ourself n enjoying thier life bzc what they wanted from us to set thier life is served. Loss is for us hence we r in tear my question is with universe r u always with cheaters? Why?