How To Overcome Struggles In Your Marriage | Alka Sharma | Josh Talks

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[@shilpaasinghh3596]

I missed to register, can I do it again if it is possible? Please let me know.

[@c.suganthichelvaratnam7411]

Great

[@annyonggaseyo4061]

Kindly give me a chance then..

[@pradnyagupte3514]

Ex(ds(

[@pradnyagupte3514]

((s

[@vinaytiwari7559]

Previously I used to think that m the only one who is suffering but now it seems like everyone is suffering and hiding it with smile. Hit like if u r suffering from inside but still smiling.

[@smithasusan4864]

Yeah

[@sapnapillai9086]

😁

[@riddhivalecha5434]

Very True...

[@noraintipo64]

😁👍

[@nikitaanand841]

Same here

[@roushanara6452]

U can't hug your bank balance, u can't hug your apartment when ur unhappy, these lines are super!!!!!!

[@emailalka]

roushanara ara thanks

[@shabanasultana2150]

@@emailalka omg u alka

[@cavychinnu3126]

U can have a pet which shows unconditional love and u can stay happy too

[@emailalka]

Cavy Chinnu true

[@Timespentless-13]

Super alkha

[@susobhanbhattacharjee9610]

"We don't fail until we fail ourselves ".....Golden statement....You are simply Great Mam💐🙏

[@emailalka]

Thanks

[@sailimahagaonkar3315]

She seems to be yet in pain. Covering up with a beautiful smile and trying her best to be strong.

[@adilasharif9383]

True

[@salonianand5744]

Aren't we all dealing with it in our own ways? Past is past but...it still does hurt..

[@adilasharif9383]

@@salonianand5744 true

[@malo3287]

Of course it is not easy it takes long time for things as such to get normal. She is a lioness very brave woman

[@anilar7849]

Vivah is a complicated for some(must think before leap,) can rectify by yoga, 🧘‍♀️meditationetc to get peace✌or bear

[@vartika.12]

"You can't hug your bank balance when you are unhappy", this line literally hit me.

[@emailalka]

😊

[@vartika.12]

@@emailalka ma'am you're an inspiration 🥺👉👈

[@emailalka]

@@vartika.12 😊🙏

[@justj2530]

but the security of having a bank balance and apartment gives you time and space to hug and heal urself!

[@vartika.12]

@@justj2530 provided u r happy n content with it🙂

[@jyotsnahanji8734]

It's been 4 months now I ended my 23 years of marriage, going through divorce is very painful, my daughters r suffering very much. Life of a woman is hell,we r simply used by men.

[@emailalka]

More power to you girl!

[@inspiringyou5642]

No..as the speaker said..you need to realise your own power. I was married and divorced before I was even 28..from that point I realised I need to take everything in my own hand..I am responsible for my life not anyone else..I came to a different country and earned a doctorate degree from which I was prevented before. The reason it happened because I lost confidence in me. Now 6 years later I am successful professionally and personally..I am blessed that went through that divorce..I would have never understood what real love is..you can argue that my advantage was my age..but I really don’t think so..it was the willpower..

[@emailalka]

Biology and Environment wow! Thanks for sharing! So inspiring!

[@rajendrarathor9427]

Madam I am a guy and I have done my role so guys are not bad

[@inspiringyou5642]

Coach Alka thanks 😊

[@meerachemistry5356]

Ma'am I was in same situation till 20 days ago. I moved on because I can't kill myself, my self respect, you are great.

[@loveikaloveika67]

But Hows your family support you your parents

[@meerachemistry5356]

Yeah my family supports me

[@rose-qr1jc]

Hey dear, How are you now? Feeling better? Everything gonna be fine dear

[@meerachemistry5356]

@@rose-qr1jc trying to heal myself. Thank you

[@rohimaakther3450]

Same situation till 4 years.... I can't kill myself because my 3.6 years son... And now I want to move forward for my son.... Plzzz pray for my New journey

[@beantkhangura2886]

You can see true pain inside for her eyes

[@rekhadeshwal4884]

Yes. U r ryt. I was thinking abt the same

[@yourinterestsarehere116]

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[@rintubhattacharjee2478]

She has been weeping constantly inside, ,while talking. What a strong lady!:💓💓

[@emailalka]

😊🙏

[@mrsparkly]

i can totally relate to her....i am still married but suddenly when you realize that this is not your house as your husband says it is his....then why i am cleaning, decorating the house, which i have to leave one day?...

[@emailalka]

@@mrsparkly 😊

[@Sooryante_lokam]

@@mrsparkly I am going through this

[@SwetaKumari-vv7cf]

I could feel the pain in her voice and hidding tears in her eyes

[@pariyagoyalpariyagoyal816]

Yes sis

[@srilakshmirani714]

Finally In our own family we will become suddenly stranger's.

[@rainofcolors6705]

Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change. Shannon L. Alder These words can change entire world.....awesome...

[@rafeeckceeyem4129]

True!!!you said it..

[@peacepeace4256]

So true and I exactly did the same.And I found myself .No one ever wants divorce. I tried for 17 years.And when breathing becomes the only important thing I walked out to breathe and live.And dont die every single moment .

[@ashleshabhagat2541]

Going through same 🙏

[@yourinterestsarehere116]

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[@asluggishday3242]

@divyanshu pandey in domestic violence case also or marital rape or ...... someone who's dream is crushed by thier partners If life would start feeling like jail what would be the benefit of living or marriage You think they should stay with those people🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦waah your mentality

[@zareenapasha268]

U have bank balance.. u have apartment.. u have a good job. Secure life... But there are so many women they don't have it n without any reason n they are single mother.

[@rashmijames4029]

Right

[@jasminmina6922]

👍 right said

[@user-vn7vr1oy2j]

Court also don't do justice.they always favour men who are wealthy.

[@ashimpalak9974]

@sky you are right, we men have no law that protects us against female false acussation. On the other hand, there are many laws for women's rights. After all, they say they are not given justice???

[@ashimpalak9974]

@@user-vn7vr1oy2j For Men no have law that protects them against female false sexual acussation. On the other hand, there are many laws for women's rights. After all, they say they are not given justice???

[@gpreetypreet4428]

I feel emotional and I know what it is. When yr own life partner n other family members don't value you. It's never about you . It's them . N it takes time to knw n discover yr own worth.

[@emailalka]

😊

[@nehadrotch2357]

When life puts u in hard situation Dont say "WHY ME " Just say " TRY ME"

[@bhavesh099]

It's easy to say but really hard in life 🙄🙄🙄

[@nehadrotch2357]

@@bhavesh099 hnn i know but hard situations actually make u more stronger

[@bhavesh099]

@@nehadrotch2357 Hmm Are you a UPSC aspirent 🙃🙃

[@nehadrotch2357]

@@bhavesh099 yes

[@bhavesh099]

@@nehadrotch2357 vo to postpone ho gaya h na sayad ??

[@mukeshrohilla5945]

🔴🔴🔴 one Ultimate quote"The people realize the moon Only when it starts shining" . Just ULTIMATE 🙏🙏🙏

[@nalinicooner1853]

Yes we have to love ourselves. This is empowering. God bless u

[@dipankar9709]

"The Cure Of Pain Is To Feel The Pain" - Pain

[@emailalka]

👍🏻

[@anuradhagupta10]

11 years in marriage. I quit my job to take care of my kids. I am studying again and getting ready to go back in job field.

[@emailalka]

👍🏻

[@emailalka]

More power to u girl !

[@monikasharma9923]

All the best. Do your best. You can.

[@alishajamil3916]

Good for you!

[@umaimauneeb]

Same her mam, it's been 11 years of marriage and now back to study,my elder son is 10

[@vaishalihardikar6069]

I felt as if I am listening my own story. I am much older than her, but the pain and agony are the same. I am not in a position of moving out, but i will certainly try to look in the mirror one more time and see if i can find myself again. Thanks a lot and lots of good wishes to you Alka. Stand with dignity, forever!

[@emailalka]

🙏

[@mansfildawahed5062]

U should move God will give u the courage ☝️🤲👌🏻

[@29197404]

try to find solutions. its easy to break but difficult to build. find some help. dot blindly follow these type of ladies. there are n number of places are there where you can get help. Dont ignore yourself but try to be polite and think about the picture in whole. God bless you.

[@5thdimensionliving727]

Thank you Alka for a very inspirational and uplifting talk. It was a personification of breakdowns leading to breakthroughs. Coincidentally, it was in April 2015 that my 20 year marriage ended. After the trauma of the break up, I realised that it was the beginning of the rest of my life; like the rising of the Phoenix. I’m unstoppable now and live my best life because I love me first always period. Thank you for reminding me of my personal journey to greatness 🙏🙏

[@emailalka]

🙏

[@siddharthrajan24]

Brilliant bro

[@vidyasagarpandey9322]

I am also suffering from this situation,i am not understanding what to do ,as a girl it's too hard to survive in society

[@diyanguyimchunger7601]

Mentally healthy person can do good things to other and ownself. 👍

[@emailalka]

Diya Shonglu thanks

[@PUVishwa1909]

Not mentally healthy but financially free.if there is financial freedom ...Then only one can think staying outside and deal with problem.

[@Krishn8375]

How anyone can become mentally strong?

[@yourinterestsarehere116]

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[@siddharthagrawal9312]

you cant hug your bank balance ...very true

[@livinglifewithdifferenttho5652]

siddharth Agrawal but person we want to hug never have a time for us and we left alone

[@pravintiwari8777]

@@livinglifewithdifferenttho5652 thats true I agree ☺☺

[@emailalka]

This Thursday at 5 pm I will host a live session for one hour on my you tube channel . This is for all women who have asked me questions on marriage, self worth and how to handle their complex problems in their lives...Please share this with any women you know who need help. Please share any related questions here. All names will be kept anonymous. दोस्तों इस Thursday को 5PM को में एक live कर रही हो अपने चैनल पे। यह ख़ास महिलाओं के लिए हैं। आप अपनी शादी और जीवन के बारे में कोई भी प्रशन पूछ सकते हैं। पर यह कोई भी attend कर सकता हैं। आपके प्रश्नो का में इंतेज़ार करूँगी!

[@ashwinkale473]

Bank balance may cause someone else to hug you.. and that may make you an eligible bachlor or bachlorett..

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[@nehachauhan160]

I feel so anxious listening to her, having had to experience failed relationships, I tend to feel I am not good enough. But I believe life is all about choices that we make considering us or people around us. If we could choose with a heavy heart to fulfill our own needs, we might not see ourselves dwelling on past. Because atleast we made choice for ourselves and made us happy. People are so easy to give up on relationships these days because we don't need anybody to support us in any of our needs, so that mutual give and take doesn't exist. I believe finding a love and true affection that embraces you after understanding you beyond flaws is a true blessing. I choose to be that person and I believe I will end up with such a person. Love to you all going through a messed up relationship, may you choose yourself

[@emailalka]

👍🏻

[@wildcat.7834]

When people put you down your whole life,its hard to love yourself and feel motivated.Mocking,belittling,words have a huge impact on your life.I know I have been through it.

[@shivaniverma-tu4os]

I can relate i going through the same after marriage

[@positivevibes5610]

U can't hug ur bank balance , u can't hug ur apartment when u r unhappy superb line🥰 stay happy & healthy life mam❤️

[@umaimauneeb]

But if u have bank balance and apartment, u still have a Peaceful place to go and heal urself and wait for ur time to come, so many women don't have either of them despite being educated and professionally qualified, for some working couples too, it takes years to purchase their own house

[@akankshusodhi273]

What a strong woman!massive respect "Boss Lady"

[@ganapathibhat888]

We may be liking to stop learning, but life never stops teaching....

[@rojareddy8562]

That's absolutely true....

[@kashmiratamhane1258]

Very true

[@chinmaykalmankar1404]

True words brother.

[@aveclasse17]

The life of a south asian woman... always putting others first. :(

[@sunithaacharya4340]

Marriages don't fail when you put others first... this lady seems to have put career first. She appears to have learnt one of life's lessons the very hard way. The tears she is trying to hide are a give away.

[@rajeevarora5452]

It happens for both gender dot generalize based on gender. Man also face same issues n put fmly first n face challenges in relationships

[@l.l.l364]

@@rajeevarora5452 ye video female ke bare m hai smartass tbhi usne "woman" likha

[@payalgovil2314]

@@sunithaacharya4340 i think you are lucky that you have not met wrong ppl in life......easier to judge others.....plz don't do in future....I can relate to her.......we don't understand others pain till we enter their shoes

[@wisdompeace5569]

I agree with you to a large extent. When a wife thinks he is my husband and he is my life, a good husband always protects her wife and family. Many a times this logic doesn’t occur if either of or both couple have bad personality (and it is the case often), they go for divorce, extramarital relationship or live painfully for life (90% case). The remaining 10% couples are blessed and are made in heaven.

[@sanchitabanerjee356]

Absolutely right...it is the relationship with oneself that matters.We forget this under the burden of societal pressure.

[@emailalka]

😊

[@muhammadrashed9810]

No matter what happens, you are still lucky (because you are alive).

[@srd-srd]

" You are on the right side always , either of youth or of wisdom or of experience. You are on the right side if you are on your side. " Awesome talk.

[@emailalka]

Thanks 😊

[@vanisubbaiah3179]

I just found myself thinking of what madam said. It’s never too late to start thinking about respecting oneself. Thank you for waking me up through your speech.

[@emailalka]

Take care

[@MS-ms5wj]

Every story has three version Your version Their version Truth.

[@ajaychavan2475]

m agreed

[@3012ay]

That's why we say 'tali ek haath se nhi bajti'

[@mallikasahana7244]

Beautifully said

[@pratibhakaushal8300]

True

[@deepikayadav1203]

Right

[@chinmaykalmankar1404]

This lady is so positive.

[@simranjeetkour7842]

Exactly true....every one has it's own struggling story with excruciating phase...even me too suffer 14 years n finally divorsed n live happily with my 2 kids...we have a power to change our belief to believe that we r worthy n attract what we deserve...proud to be woman .......gbu

[@emailalka]

Thanks and more power to you!

[@bahheh7759]

You'll never walk alone

[@emailalka]

This Thursday at 5 pm I will host a live session for one hour on my you tube channel . This is for all women who have asked me questions on marriage, self worth and how to handle their complex problems in their lives...Please share this with any women you know who need help. Please share any related questions here. All names will be kept anonymous. दोस्तों इस Thursday को 5PM को में एक live कर रही हो अपने चैनल पे। यह ख़ास महिलाओं के लिए हैं। आप अपनी शादी और जीवन के बारे में कोई भी प्रशन पूछ सकते हैं। पर यह कोई भी attend कर सकता हैं। आपके प्रश्नो का में इंतेज़ार करूँगी!

[@emailalka]

Shefali Joshi sorry to hear. Do join your live on you tube at 5 pm. I am taking questions and providing tips to deal with problems.

[@kavitasharmasacademy1542]

@@shefalijoshi3978 ...take the case to the court...

[@RDd188]

Jos Talks plz stop changing Camera Angles every 2secs it's really Distracting...

[@nitashasharma1297]

Mam yr voice is just above all Parameters....lots of love and respect

[@emailalka]

Thanks

[@jayanvs2887]

I was so depressed today. . Video made me sentimental and I feel to cry... But alka one thing I want to say ur eyes, ur voice... Reflects ur love to yourself.. Thanks for a bst motivational vide

[@emailalka]

Awww thanks Jayan

[@jayanvs2887]

@@emailalka my name is dhanya.. From Kerala... Ur speech made me realize that we should love ourself.. ...

[@emailalka]

That’s nice Dhayan! I love Kerala

[@akshayarumugam7542]

@@jayanvs2887 yes you should dhanya. Love yourself.

[@jayanvs2887]

@@akshayarumugam7542 ... Life force us to remind that we should ourself... I am a family oriented person.. But everywhere denial denial......... So better love at least ourself

[@positivelife6815]

She is not talking but spreading that life that energy and that love through her words around her 💚

[@KusumsLifestyle]

Self dignity is very important than any thing, your story inspired me . every women has same story ......

[@dkpatilsir7290]

Correct

[@unsolvedmystery2398]

True ☺

[@nikaljenayan]

👍👍

[@anniesapna7229]

Me too...

[@touchingsongitshartsveryni158]

Ture ..self dignity important....married k bad use ka bhi kader honi chahiye yani

[@akshays2504]

mam u r an huge inspiration 2 me....i m 32 ... son of an ARMY OFFICER...often feel i m worthless.....i get soooo motivated watching videoos of people like u...wish u all success in life💙💙💙

[@disha4613]

She is so beautiful inside out how can someone leave such a nice women

[@managementharvard6851]

Which country u r.. India Pakistan

[@disha4613]

@@managementharvard6851 India and you ???

[@managementharvard6851]

@@disha4613 also India.. Which state u r what kind of ur business like student professional... U looking very pretty in this dp in red garment with shine face like moonlight... Masha allah

[@seemapatilseema6085]

@@managementharvard6851 ya she looking very nice and beautiful.

[@seemapatilseema6085]

Because everyone want to beautiful and young wife, she is beautiful but not look like young, how cheap her husband. So sad 😔

[@hidayatunnissa]

Don't allow to be used in unhappy relationship.. walking away gives u more relief than holding on to it painfully..

[@anitamishra7225]

2 dan

[@priyakaira8068]

Alka I new you are a positive soul but with this talk I absolutely become fan of yours. You talk so well. It just hit me directly. Every women has same story but very few are brave like you. Proud of you.

[@blahblahboy8330]

wow, your story and your view of yourself during this traumatic time resonated so much with me. while trying to hold on to a failed marriage, i forgot to love myself, enduring all the mental and emotional abuse in the hands of my spouse. many desi women get so engulfed in trying to keep their failed marriages upfloat bc of culture and society that they forget to love themselves , thank you for reminding me to love myself and stand up for myself

[@emailalka]

Thanks 🙏

[@faithaugustus5127]

Sometimes women don't know how else to please their spouses thank god for bringing me out of hell these controlling men out there are the ones who are the ones with the problems narsictics.

[@emailalka]

This Thursday at 5 pm I will host a live session for one hour on my you tube channel . This is for all women who have asked me questions on marriage, self worth and how to handle their complex problems in their lives...Please share this with any women you know who need help. Please share any related questions here. All names will be kept anonymous. दोस्तों इस Thursday को 5PM को में एक live कर रही हो अपने चैनल पे। यह ख़ास महिलाओं के लिए हैं। आप अपनी शादी और जीवन के बारे में कोई भी प्रशन पूछ सकते हैं। पर यह कोई भी attend कर सकता हैं। आपके प्रश्नो का में इंतेज़ार करूँगी!

[@aryanpunisher3685]

Also go through the report of misuse of 498a and domestic violence laws to harass husband. How husbands are getting murdered by their wife and her lover due to their extramarital affairs. In every 8 minute a guy commit suicide due to the matrimonial issues. You wander why you don't know these issues cuz our gynaecocentric media does not raise these issues.

[@emailalka]

ayaan reyansh if your fear this then you are next! All the best!

[@sachinkapse110]

@@emailalka actually nobody can predict future or possibilities... Secondly..such sarcasm can bite those women back who have sons ...and if you have one then why Ayan should fear ..? So all the best to women who have sons and sympathies to those who lost them...

[@sachinkapse110]

@@aryanpunisher3685 yes absolutely..and due to this we have women who have stood up against women centric laws which r not gender neutral and destroying families... About family brawls many problems can be resolved when two women can work on their ego issues and nature ...like two fighting brothers should.. Thanks mgtow and men's right movements has been stared earlier in India..because no matter what ,women will keep harming other women with words...

[@meenatiwari3865]

As you suffered so much problems in your life but u full of courageous.u build up yourself.

[@emailalka]

🙏

[@annapurnah8627]

I am really proud of you madam. Many many women are facing the same problems which you addressed I hope you are the best example for all those women. God bless you

[@emailalka]

Thanks

[@revathyishwar1964]

Alka...your every word really touched me in every. way possible...i agree with how u challenged urself n remained positive...thank you for sowing the seed of positivity in me

[@aliahassan8359]

I listened to this today...as I sit separated... going on a month n a half. My only despair in this 20 year wrap up is the loss of my 11 year old child who is extremely angry with me n doesn't want to be with me. While my heart hurts for him, I feel my finally leaving is for his good so he doesn't grow up to be a person whose wife has to walk out on him coz he didn't know how to respect a spouse. For him to think it's ok to mistreat a wife is ok..

[@emailalka]

I hope you reunite with him. Work on self worth. Your energy will improve your environment and relationships. Don’t give up.

[@samikshadani]

Alia I thought the same that in future my son will learn the same it’s ok for a woman to get yelled and cry and then I left my husband though he is a good father but in front of his own emotions and feelings he doesn’t care for anything . It’s been 2 months away from my son , as of now I hope he doesn’t hate me but I afraid in future he will . I sometimes feel like to ho there again just for the sake of my son but my conscience doesn’t allow me . I really miss my son sooo much it gives me immense pain and that pain makes me weak .🥺🥺🥺

[@samikshadani]

@@emailalka Alka/ Ali I thought the same that in future my son will learn the same it’s ok for a woman to get yelled and cry and then I left my husband though he is a good father but in front of his own emotions and feelings he doesn’t care for anything . It’s been 2 months away from my son , as of now I hope he doesn’t hate me but I afraid in future he will . I sometimes feel like to ho there again just for the sake of my son but my conscience doesn’t allow me . I really miss my son sooo much it gives me immense pain and that pain makes me weak .🥺🥺🥺 My story is so weird without any issues it all happened , my husband never listened , never understand if anything g wrong happen to him why did it happen what is the root cause , he always blames others especially my family , It’s always he is ALWAYS right. I always listened to him I always follow whatever he asked for I never complained for anything, I wouldn’t say he didn’t care for me but I don’t why did it all happen. I am stuck I am missing my son so much Alka.

[@sanjuktasamom3923]

Oh God, this is exactly what is happening in my life. What did I do, that i landed up here. Why such punishment when I have worked so hard in life. I had to even leave my job to go with my husband. I am suffering inside.

[@emailalka]

Take care

[@kagorinya2205]

Be strong dear soon m gonna divorce my husband its all about our dignity...wtever consequences may be hve to face.

[@vikasbhat6077]

Be strong and think independent life...you are more courageous than what you were after marriage.

[@gwangphungangmei1197]

Hi dear Sharma, It's me Gwangphun from Nagaland. Watched your msg and I was moved and engrossed deep in my own life. Your msg hit me hard with new light. Thank you

[@Ghanshyamtiwari19]

Gangmei come babe

[@farinnaim5040]

If a 10 year marriage can end in one argument, was that even a marriage or was the other person just looking for a bahana to get rid of the wife. Real life story hai.

[@touchingsongitshartsveryni158]

So sad bahut galt...yr koy other person k lie esa bahut galt ...ager such app jiske sath mrg kar rahe ho use pyar hai to hi shaadi karo .... to vo kya jo apne pyar karte huwe bhi unke shaadi ki ..why??..or ager all ready koy other person hai to socho ....kya unke sath Rista..ager other person sath apna pyar k sath shaadi ki or kay sal k bad todte to vo murak ...Kyo ki vo bass ek khichav h fir koy or life me aya or fir esa ..yr chodo esa jo pyar mila h uske sath kubsurat life bitavo...bad jab khafi time niklega tab yaad ata h..

[@touchingsongitshartsveryni158]

Ager one argument karti h to Kyo kiya ..vo sunna chahiye or dur karo ....ab ulta ho jab argument kare to vo degi na ....yr kisi or k lie apni pyar k sath Nata todege....to fir jaisa uske sath huwa esa hi apke sath hoga..pyar ek se hota hajaro se nahi or mrg soch samjke karo jo apse Pyar karata or puri life time sath de to hi karo ..or mrg me pyar bhi jaruri h..self love bhi ..kehte suna mrg bad sabka man uth jata h...esa suna h..Per ager dekha jaye dusre najariye se to tray to kijiye jaise mrg beautiful life ki ek ek pl jiyo sath or zagdo fir mana lo ..fir dost bano fir jiyo ..ye bhi ek do dost jaise hi life jo ek ladka or ladki sath batate jara ek dujje k sath batate dekho..per usme bhi point koy raz na hona ,her ek bat share karo,ek dujje sath her ek pl jiyo,ek dujje ki kader karo, kabhi bhi sabke samne nicha na dikha vo, ek dujje Ko age badne ki kosis karo, do no ka dukh ek dujje ka esa samjke jiyo, her ek sichvetion me samna karo ..per ye tab hoga jab ap do me ek dujje trust hona chahiye or todna kabhi ny ..ager esa huwa to keh to apni bat rakh do life fir chal padegi ..per tute ga nahi per shak na ane do .ager lage do no me esa ki uske dil kuch h to pucho use or dur kar do ..be happening hogi life ..it's my thought..meri shaadi ny fir kaha..pata mujje again bare bas kaha..

[@pankajgarg3232]

Those dislikes must be from your husband's family😂 Btw you are really awesome ...I see sparke in your eyes that even motivated me so much ...Thanks for this wonderful speech

[@emailalka]

Pankaj garg haha 😂 that’s so funny! Thanks for your encouragement! 🙏

[@pankajgarg3232]

😊🤗🤗

[@tiwarihimanshu]

Do you know his husband???? Robin Sharma .. Search on Google. .

[@dr.dhineshkumarmbbs.5685]

@@tiwarihimanshu her* husband

[@emailalka]

This Thursday at 5 pm I will host a live session for one hour on my you tube channel . This is for all women who have asked me questions on marriage, self worth and how to handle their complex problems in their lives...Please share this with any women you know who need help. Please share any related questions here. All names will be kept anonymous. दोस्तों इस Thursday को 5PM को में एक live कर रही हो अपने चैनल पे। यह ख़ास महिलाओं के लिए हैं। आप अपनी शादी और जीवन के बारे में कोई भी प्रशन पूछ सकते हैं। पर यह कोई भी attend कर सकता हैं। आपके प्रश्नो का में इंतेज़ार करूँगी!

[@faizafayyaz7270]

Proud of u......well done....Exactly " we don't fail until we fail ourselves "So true

[@emailalka]

🙏

[@samudraholidaysgoa2522]

Learn to forgive...when you forgive healing begins...peace and relief from the pain that hurts you and makes you cry..brings tears...sadness..etc....forgive the one who hurts you not because they are right but because you need peace.

[@Shikshika980]

Totally correct

[@celinafernandesgracias9658]

She has so much Pain in her voice ,but one thing is very clear she is still not out of him completely .You can see it in her eyes ...All I would say is God Bless you n give u the strength to face all the ups n down that comes in your life Alka Sharma

[@jagrutimudliar7499]

My husband of 14 years abondon me and my 2 kids for another women. Not ready to give me divorce, has blocked me every where. God help me

[@emailalka]

Stay strong work on your self worth! There is light!

[@nsingh6157]

Jagruti , sending you healing prayers and Hugs!! All would be good !!

[@suliptaDas]

Stay strong and focus on yourself and your growth. That husband of yours doesn't deserve you anymore. File a case and divorce him. You will get pass this for the good.

[@shubhangighubade4845]

just think that r u gonna get whatever u want ( may be love, emotional balance, financial support etc) after divorce. if yes then go for it but if not then what does it make a diff to u if he has left. divorce will only help u in getting legally married to another person. so fo u want that. just list your objectives of getting divorced and be practical. if his financial support is gonna help in ur childrens education then fight for that. even children can case against father to support them in education and marraige expenses if he is not supporting. for this no need of divorce.

[@nandini2999]

don't worry, god is there,

[@life_rules04]

Her energy and grace come out in such a wonderful way.. It is really tough to manage things and be a responsible person...every responsibility come with a golden opportunity... I like her attitude towards life.. First be comfortable with yourself ...i love this video..

[@emailalka]

priya saini thanks 🙏

[@life_rules04]

@@deepsingh8247 how with you?

[@life_rules04]

@@deepsingh8247 we are here to listen 😊

[@life_rules04]

@@deepsingh8247 actually I have no whatsaap account.. I didn't use that.. I have only you tube.. Even not a facebook... I want to be more realistic as a person. So I haven't that.. Sorry.. 😊

[@life_rules04]

@@deepsingh8247 even I don't mind if you consider me as your sister 😊

[@serenaroseauthentics1391]

I need to reparent myself using these philosophies. What an awesome approach to life. I’m going to listen to this again & again until it’s sunk in.

[@rupeshdass8216]

Iam going thru clinical depression, finding it very hard to cope... inspiration lik u are needed to cheer people lik me, when helplessly wandering thru lyf and lik u said, questioning ourselves, asking why me ?? Great job alka mam. 👍👍

[@stargirlfan5824]

I feel you

[@bibiali8877]

Never give up dear it is now the end of the world ..our destiny was created before we were born stay strong

[@AB-ss6ey]

Bibi shauhar na padle 😂

[@SHARAD9930]

Ms Alka, Hats off to you for courage and willingness to fight. Please do get over the pain and agony that your words , voice and the body language conveys to us. Be HAPPY and forget the past ASAP.

[@ruwanthiweerasooriya3304]

Thank you ma'm.. awesome speech!! Many times I have the same feeling..."WHY ME???" Your speech gave me a new hope.

[@mayanandalall3580]

Experiences make us stronger🎈....be unhappy alone than to be unhappy with someone else 🥺💔well said speech

[@rainbow_world5560]

Yes, Be yourself.. there's nothing more powerful than that!! 🙂👍

[@emailalka]

🙏

[@Sona77.]

Women are amazing. We give men so many chances. They simply did not deserve you! You deserve better. You’re a great example to your children. It’s better to be alone, than to be with a maniac. Best of luck I hope you find happiness.

[@emailalka]

Thanks 😊

[@mayuripalaniswamy5740]

Everything is mine... Everything is no longer mine... Very true words

[@emailalka]

Isn’t it?!

[@mayuripalaniswamy5740]

@@emailalka .. very true.. ur speech made me cry n I'm in tears...

[@emailalka]

Mayuri Palaniswamy ❤️

[@richachourasia5838]

she is just amazing ..These videos are really so motivated!! And "thank you" josh talks.

[@indiangirl1052]

You are just complete package of love and beauty, ur voice is just so sweet, ur misty eyes can describe what you have faced in ur life and achieved today.... God bless you, I hope many would learn a lot from you.... U r d best lady in my eyes, you take courage to stand and make life for her dignity

[@emailalka]

Sista designer collections thanks 🙏 gratitude!

[@tseringlhamo4583]

Tomorrow onwards I will say the same thing, "You are awesome" because I had the same experience as you had. I got separated from my child's father after having a relationship for 12 years. I kept asking why it had happened and why he did that? Well now I am ok and I am almost at the end of my studies and I promised to live my life happily and fulfilling with my son. Everything happens in its own good way. I believe there is always a reason for everything.

[@GG-be7ks]

Power to you sister, stay strong, life your life with high head

[@chaitramjain8108]

Actually a person who will go through all difficulties, he will be better person in life...

[@dilipkumarverma4165]

Each person has a unique way of unparalleled life.....

[@satishchilakamarri]

we dont fail till we fail ourselves... and every one is a teacher in your life, including those people who you pushes at edge also...

[@emailalka]

👍🏻

[@chandadevi235]

This period of hard time teaches one of the strength and weakness and how and what we value the most.

[@emailalka]

Thanks 🙏

[@monikathakur5082]

When she says.. you can't hug your bank balance when you are unhappy you can't hug your apartment when you are unhappy ... That really hits deep🤗

[@emailalka]

Thanks 🙏

[@anitbadaseth1431]

Alka madam, ur speech largely inspired me not to be depressed in several difficties and problems those I have been facing till today. Gradually I am trying for to be over come the demoralise mind which happens to my mind deliberately from the every day and every time.. I always wants to be strong in mind leading to happiness. I pray to God for rescue me from problems which I have been facing... I follow the Josh talks and self motivating in the plight condition

[@emailalka]

Blessings and best wishes for you

[@muanboingaihte7420]

Most important is how you treat yourself true

[@MsJayeshjain]

Alka ji you really struggled hard and now u have stand up again. U know i have lost ppl in life. My family gone and i have no friends, i m in ca final year, i dont know how to love urself, i beg ppl to be with me but nobody cares for anyone in this cruel world. Kis se milu kaha jau kuch samajh nahi paata uppar se purani life me huye incidents dreams me aake taklif dete hai. Akela rehta hu for past 2 years koi social gathering attend nahi kiye na festivals dekhe hai kyonki akele kya tyohaar kuch accha nhi lagta. Kuch guidance dijiye mujhe aap kahoge ki aake milu aap sabse delhi mumbai toh even i m ready to come but mujhe jeena sikha dijiye apne aap k saath itna strong bana dijiye ki me logo ka sahara dhundhna bandh kardo. I live in indore. Thank you

[@MsJayeshjain]

Shivshakti Vishwakarma can i say something

[@MsJayeshjain]

Shivshakti Vishwakarma give your mail id

[@seemafarheen4024]

U are awesome mam..self respect is frst priority..Plzz all parents out there trust ur girl child's too..and never teach them to compromise in every situation.. specially in married life..when women's respects their husband's then it's their right to get respected by them too

[@emailalka]

Thanks 🙏

[@tanujatomer6566]

Self dignity is important that's y I luv me

[@emailalka]

This Thursday at 5 pm I will host a live session for one hour on my you tube channel . This is for all women who have asked me questions on marriage, self worth and how to handle their complex problems in their lives...Please share this with any women you know who need help. Please share any related questions here. All names will be kept anonymous. दोस्तों इस Thursday को 5PM को में एक live कर रही हो अपने चैनल पे। यह ख़ास महिलाओं के लिए हैं। आप अपनी शादी और जीवन के बारे में कोई भी प्रशन पूछ सकते हैं। पर यह कोई भी attend कर सकता हैं। आपके प्रश्नो का में इंतेज़ार करूँगी!

[@tapaswinisamantray2407]

@@emailalka hiii I have some problems in my marriage

[@emailalka]

@@tapaswinisamantray2407 sorry to hear

[@greenhealth164]

Beautiful talk. Her courage is worth billions n trillions. God bless her. Yes it's totally understandable that she has pain. And she is doing positive things like this talk to overcome her pain and channeling that energy into positive action and wisdom for others. Highly commendable. And everything she did for family went unappreciated n she lost her whole sense of purpose when the rug was pulled from underneath her. WhT she learnt in the process...was priceless. Love yourself. Value yourself. Treat yourself as your best friend. Nurture yourself. Take care of yourself. Talk to yourself lovingly kindly compassionately. BE the person you are looking for ....everywhere outside. Give time to yourself. Know your worth.

[@emailalka]

😊

[@bandanabagh8936]

Knowing your self worth is always important for a woman wherever you stay....amazing speech.Respect for u....God bless you.

[@emailalka]

😊

[@akshaykhard3357]

This speech very clearly depicts that is was said direct from the heart. Mrs. Alka Sharma YOU ARE AWESOME 👌👌👌

[@farazahmad9444]

Very Inspirational... Motivating... Reality based ... Sharing ...

[@emailalka]

Thanks

[@sagardipak364]

Her energy was tremendous, her way of delivering speech is way beyond than others, loved that, thanku josh talks for such hidden divine motivators

[@emailalka]

Sagar Dipak thanks

[@sagardipak364]

@@emailalka Ma'am it would be honour to learn something from you, that too in early stage. A dilemma of my mind, Is it okay to have no clear plan of future?

[@emailalka]

Sagar Dipak yup that’s perfectly cool!

[@tanupriya355]

@@emailalka love you maam

[@tanupriya355]

@@emailalka salute you

[@jayshreesharma2360]

Hi Akka .....just saw your josh Talk ...it's 25 yrs of my marriage life and I never every had a single day not struggling....have 2 grow up kids ...... Just like you even I just walked away from my marriage and now leaving my life as I like ...... teaching is my passion....

[@nidhiraj1547]

you are always on the right side when you are on our side! best line

[@emailalka]

😊

[@geetanjali7256]

Today i really feel so.....depressed😢..but after watching..this owsome...vedio...i again recharge......tnq u 🌼jhosh Talks🌼..to motivate me....tnq Alka mam...🌻

[@emailalka]

geeta njali thanks 🙏

[@anantharao1188]

Admire you for your immense courage and deep belief in yourself, Alka !!

[@emailalka]

😊

[@kartikdewan7586]

The excitement, happiness and joy of sharing your experience reflects in your talk and I guess this is what josh talk is all about.

[@NrityaSankalpa]

You are always on the right side. Either of youth, or of wisdom.....love the beautiful sparkle and gleam in your eyes. Sending you love.

[@mamtashrivastava8024]

Motivational speech and you are fighter ,a winner . there is so much pain in your voice that I noticed ,hats off to you that you handled the situation courageously,all the best for whatever you want to do or doing.

[@rafiqvandary6323]

Situation and people makes us learn Everything is a blessing. .

[@smtiic]

When I leave bed I say to myself I have given another day to do many good things big or small in my life.

[@PriyankaBaranwal]

Amazing talk !! It takes a lot of pain to be able to shine through everything. More power to her

[@SnehaSingh-lm5my]

I took my decision to separate my hubby for my dignity, respect,.. n I m living alone 5 years .. My family also not supporting me, but I m still struggling alone,.n I m happy with my decision n I m enjoying my Journey of struggle.

[@pallavinaik1784]

Hey am also deciding to separate from my husband even my family not ready to take me back 😭

[@kavitasharmasacademy1542]

@@pallavinaik1784 ...why family dear...u can do anything...at least try to make ur identity ...choti hi sahi.. But think what can you do best and go in that field ...all the best dear

[@pallavinaik1784]

@@kavitasharmasacademy1542 your correct.but I have small baby 1.3yr .I can't go out to do something .No one to look after her if I go for work. And moreover am jobless right now.nor I have financial support

[@kavitasharmasacademy1542]

@@pallavinaik1784 ...tab tak stay there and beti KO bada karo and take tuitions at home and financially strong bano

[@nutanfatech504]

@@pallavinaik1784 same yaar .

[@suryaprakashrao699]

I can feel the pain in words, thank you for sharing your wisdom, god bless you and help you in having a peaceful and successful life...

[@emailalka]

😊

[@parthabaruah8597]

Thank you maam, your words made me realise that i didnt take a wrong decision

[@emailalka]

🙏 thanks

[@emailalka]

This Thursday at 5 pm I will host a live session for one hour on my you tube channel . This is for all women who have asked me questions on marriage, self worth and how to handle their complex problems in their lives...Please share this with any women you know who need help. Please share any related questions here. All names will be kept anonymous. दोस्तों इस Thursday को 5PM को में एक live कर रही हो अपने चैनल पे। यह ख़ास महिलाओं के लिए हैं। आप अपनी शादी और जीवन के बारे में कोई भी प्रशन पूछ सकते हैं। पर यह कोई भी attend कर सकता हैं। आपके प्रश्नो का में इंतेज़ार करूँगी!

[@gladisstanley5091]

@@emailalka will you give your KZbin chanel link?thank you!

[@NehaSingh-dz1sx]

@@emailalka Mam can I Have your number please or is there anyway I can contact you

[@rajendramishra6407]

Every thing is alright but living separately with an innocent child is the utmost . If somehow child affection is managed n child does not feel sad , everything is alright otherwise not