'How to pursue someone in a healthy way?' (Aaron & Sarahbeth's Story) | HANDLEBAR SESSIONS | EP. 4

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[@reginezata3557]

" No one is the one for you until you choose them."

[@deweyonpoint5765]

And they choose you too.

[@mariah8117]

“If you don’t know what you want then don’t pursue…” 🙌🏽

[@MartinEngelbrecht-ey3rl]

Spending time with the Lord allows you to know your heart.

[@taylorlyall]

As a dad to a 10 and 7 year old daughters, this is so good for my heart and hope for their future husbands.

[@maddybrown2320]

No way, I’ve never heard anyone name their son Boaz! Love it. 😊

[@Andre25167]

Lol

[@adedayoaruwajoye]

If you don't know what you want, you won't know how to pursue. I agree 1000%.

[@jenniferwalsh1731]

If a guy tells you that he likes you, then saying it back isn't doing it first! He did it first! :D He initiated it! Thank you God for freeing us from ourselves and making us like You!

[@abigailtarpley]

Exactly!!!!! at first I thought she was saying make the first move and say you like him first and I was like uhhh no lol but now that I know he had been asking her out for a month and I was like ohhhhh okay that’s different lol

[@kaileebroadway7723]

Sooo good! NOW Elyssa and joel Next!!!!!

[@afrochinoblend]

HANDLEBAR, You heard the lady 😩

[@Akinlabi_Olanipekun]

Please do I this!!!!!!!!!!😭

[@navanolivier481]

😂😂😂😂

[@navanolivier481]

Love this response. Fortunately, I concur with her!!!

[@eyerusalemtadese4770]

PLS

[@adedayoaruwajoye]

'Make a choice and be powerful in your choice'. Whew.

[@adedayoaruwajoye]

'No one is the one for you, until you choose them'. Whew.

[@Jeremiah_Daniel_1984]

I am focused on singleness with the Lord right now, but I really liked the teaching from you both.

[@Seyi-f4c]

"Don't hear what I'm not saying", love that!

[@alyssaniehaus]

Pursue CLARITY!

[@paulaganbi5236]

I love the point she makes about making marital vows even before getting to the altar. Saying it at the altar is only a formality. For example I should have made up in my heart that I will love you for richer or for poor even before I propose to you and for a woman before I accept his proposal. Loved this video!

[@aaronpresley]

Y’all blessed me. I’ve been getting mixed answers on calling her dad or not but you confirmed it. I will still ask mentors but I want to Honor her Paremts you know

[@brow30535]

It’s my first time here. A few comments. I think this podcast was very healthy and sound advice. It was quite refreshing to see you as a couple teaching others how to be healthy when entering a relationship. On a tech perspective. I work in the AV entertainment industry, so there were a few suggestions I would like to put forward to you on your content. You have every right to ignore my suggestions, that’s totally fine. However, here they are. I’m assuming you have three cameras, it seems like there is a wide shot, a close up on a tripod and a handheld. It could also be a lock-off wide angle but you crop in to get a tight angle, however. If do indeed have three cameras, you should look into having a wide, and then a lock off tight on either side (left and right). I noticed a few times that there were two tight shots of the same person, or a tight and a wide. And it looked, to me, a bit clunky at times. Sometimes the simple options are the best. This also means that your recordings are less hands on and much easier to manage. I don’t think for a podcast such as this, that you would need a handheld, it can be shaky. If you have two cameras, then a wide and a tight shot that is on a tripod where you can turn quickly whilst still having the shot still and not shaky, or just two tight shots would look cleaner. I don’t expect you to read all of this, but if you do, I hope this is of some use to you.

[@DouglasABailey]

I hope they read it. Great content but I often had to block the left side of the screen so I could concentrate on what was said.

[@katharinastrutz9962]

I found yesterday your podcast and I love it soo much !!! Guys honestly I subscribed directly your channel 😂 and I love your honesty in the podcast and that you are both absolutely follower of Jesus 😍🙌🏼 I love to listen and to learn from you both ! God bless you guys ! Greetings from Germany 🇩🇪 😊

[@kaileebroadway7723]

Also it would be awesome to hear Gabriel and Abbies' story as well❤

[@toegum7451]

thanks aaron and sarahbeth! i just need that boost of confidence

[@karen_hockaday]

I love these stories! I hate the timer though, y'all need to throw that thing out the door 😂

[@hopekeehn4836]

THIS IS SOLID🙌🏼 And it's confirming stuff for me. Thank you!!

[@DalliseElliott]

Nahhh, imma head out before I cry lol This was so good. I love the way this is shot too. Keep up the great work!

[@niriaantonio9097]

I didn’t want to watch at first, but wow that was a great conversation ❤️❤️ thank you God bless you guys 🙏🏾

[@rebeccaemmanuel8074]

This was wholesome

[@MyUganda256]

First tymer already Love u guys.

[@valeryhilario8778]

Facts were spoken so hard

[@LearsiMusic1]

First time hearing about you both! This was great

[@AI-priest]

My name is Samuel,i'm new here and I really enjoyed and learned a couple of lessons watching this session. Thank you

[@michaeldyoung5788]

I think what they said is very helpful when she is already attracted to him. Thank you for sharing the experience.

[@thehandlebarpodcast]

Thanks for your feedback Michael! ❤️

[@michaeldyoung5788]

@@thehandlebarpodcast Sorry I was a bit harsh in my earlier comment. I just got rejected by a girl whom I really like from church for a coffee meet. She told me she just wants to be friends. Will you share how you asked your wife on the Chick fil a and Coffee meet before your official date? Did you say that’s to get to know each other (it’s a hangout and not a date)? I think that’s the key to everything else you said here.

[@Oreoluwa]

Upperrom lover from Nigeria here. Didn't know they were marriedddd🤭❤️

[@ronaf.5760]

I love you guys. I’m always waiting for your new episodes.

[@marilynjauregui6789]

You both are so cute! Loved this podcast. For the next one you guys should get some lighting!

[@oziascantos3384]

Love this. Thanks for sharing!

[@jacoblin2314]

Just discovered this very good ! God bless !

[@Nai-09]

So good! Short and sweet!

[@VMorales923]

BEAUTIFUL ❤️

[@TheBlazerSociety]

Love the vibe!

[@ariah5093]

So wholesome!!

[@itsnotcrisman]

The bars 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@navanolivier481]

This is so goood Aaron and SB!! Love you guys! This was needed! 🔥

[@aez378]

y’all have the CUTEST KIDS! loved this one 💖🥲

[@josephhickman4005]

Love you guys and this podcast. The questions always line up with where I’m at in life.

[@sumwhere08]

I feel like she wasn't even initiating anything because he had already made the first move by asking her out. I dont think I'd want a guy talking to my dad or mom prior to a date 🥴 I need an episode on how to get a date 😅

[@milicorrea8415]

so good! i def took some tips from this!

[@marcusw9894]

this was great.

[@genova4578]

I think calling the dad before the first date may be a bit much but maybe im wrong on that. Im all for meeting parents early and stating intentions but i feel like there should at least be a couple of dates to even determine if it will actually go anywhere. It would seem wierd to call up the dad telling him about these intentions to persue his daughter only to change your mind the next day.

[@MartinEngelbrecht-ey3rl]

Follow your sanctified conscience!

[@andreaclaire8043]

love you guys!

[@caro.jahdis]

Hi Sarahbeth 😊 at what kind of dating / friendship stage have you been when you texted Aaron that you like him? We’re you guys good friends and have you known each other for a long time?

[@davidlavrinovich2257]

Hey guys, when will this be on Spotify? I love listening to them in the car :)

[@thehandlebarpodcast]

Hi David! The “session” episodes are something unique we have done that are KZbin only. However season 5, which comes in November will be on Spotify and apple. ❤

[@davidlavrinovich2257]

@@thehandlebarpodcast thank you!!

[@achanwol]

this was soo cute awww

[@caro.jahdis]

Wow! What’s the song in the background so lovely!

[@3unhy3]

Soooo helpful!! Thank you ❤

[@JoyousDeMark]

Yes! Such good advice!👏

[@Isaiah53_John3.16_ChangeUrLife]

9:29 - 9:50 This is so cute 😭

[@evillynbm]

So good!!! 💚

[@Raq777]

Couple goals! Jesus help 😂

[@fortuneanya-nga8258]

So beautiful❤❤❤

[@SaiMyName4]

MIC DROP 😂BOOM!

[@juliaaa3580]

so good 🔥🔥

[@yurireyes176]

Be upfront don't waste your time with someone who is not worth it

[@LiyahLova]

I always cringe when couples talk over each other and interrupt each other 😬 but other than that this was super helpful to singles 🙏😩

[@lameilleurepart]

What's the name of the song at the beginning?

[@lilijomusimenta9601]

Tv by billie eilish!

[@lameilleurepart]

@@lilijomusimenta9601 Thanks! :)

[@MartinEngelbrecht-ey3rl]

Self versus God's purposes

[@justacarat2638]

Wow. You guys even look alike

[@alliceson6464]

dang this is good!!!

[@dgluhovski]

Amen

[@Dwellevator]

😂😂😂 “Not yet!”

[@AaronSmith-kk9xu]

IYKYK ❤️

[@cassandrabustos3004]

🔥🔥🔥

[@melikahabibi4207]

Omggg a guy told me he admired me when I confessed like what does that mean shhshshhsjdjd

[@justexploringsomeuniquesou3355]

If you don’t get a response back from the guy you say you like he is probably not ready.

[@Sunburst6520]

Matthew 13:18-23 18 Hear ye therefore the parable of the sower. 19 When any one heareth the word of the kingdom, and understandeth it not, then cometh the wicked one, and catcheth away that which was sown in his heart. This is he which received seed by the way side. 20 But he that received the seed into stony places, the same is he that heareth the word, and anon with joy receiveth it; 21 Yet hath he not root in himself, but dureth for a while: for when tribulation or persecution ariseth because of the word, by and by he is offended. 22 He also that received seed among the thorns is he that heareth the word; and the care of this world, and the deceitfulness of riches, choke the word, and he becometh unfruitful. 23 But he that received seed into the good ground is he that heareth the word, and understandeth it; which also beareth fruit, and bringeth forth, some an hundredfold, some sixty, some thirty

[@keidyesteban3586]

Cute! ♥️♥️

[@Dwellevator]

🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@3AMentality]

I admire you? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣