How to Put Yourself First (and Why It’s so Important) | Ed Mylett

[@resilientman20]

God did not give you another day because you need it, but because somebody needs you and it is the new version of you that they need.

[@deosilic]

The timing of this is incredible. I just opened my company and wanted to go look at luxury things to goal set. I invited a friend and he didn’t want to come, rather than go home and wait until he wanted to go, I prioritized me and my need to dream and here I am doing what I wanted for me.

[@ladavis]

That's amazing! It takes courage to prioritize your own dreams, especially when others might not share the same vision. You've shown a powerful commitment to your goals by not waiting for someone else's approval or schedule.

[@davidgibson4007]

That's exactly right too I am going to start working on putting my self first

[@dianadee4300]

Good for you!! Exactly the right decision!! My mom always wanted me to go places with her (I lived 3 hours away and had small children) and refused to go do things by herself. So sad because it limited her life and the friends she might have developed.

[@KathyLeeHazell]

2017 I was blessed with a do over. After seizures I couldn't remember how to use a fork now I dream big. The first time I drove after that, it felt like the first time. I am leaving what isn't working behind as I am living what I want for my new life at 63 years young. Starting over with a history of success.

[@stevenmcbride9773]

I am so proud of you my friend. I’m also living proof that it’s never too late to start over and have a new life. It’s stories like yours that make me smile and give me hope. Please never stop sharing your journey it’s a light force for me and others so we also can begin to truly live and believe that it can be done. Love n respect. ❤

[@RitaBaroody]

Drop the crap and never stop evaluating. Once you are consistent with that, the sky is the limit. ❤💯💯💯

[@dorothyv8606]

Thanks Ed for the reminder not to stay where I don't belong

[@MaryBroslawik]

Ed is so absolutely brilliant

[@ChartsCantLie]

Wow, thank you!!! Can't wait to come on your show! Thank you for this opportunity 🙏 ❤️🙌

[@KathyJoles]

Ed Mylett- you nailed it! So many of us mothers… give give give to our kids/husband and put ourselves on the back burner! I can personally tell you that I was that elephant… that mom. Stuck… and trying to feed everybody and forgetting about me. 20 years ago I started a book… I am putting me first and going to finish it! Dreaming… feeding…and filling my cup first before I fill others! This is vital for your soul and being true to you! Keep on keeping Ed Mylett! You are amazing! So appreciate you and your team! Thank you!

[@lisajobarr9]

I like your candid approach to life and telling people the way it is. Self care is not optional!

[@JulieSwenson_MortgageBroker]

That’s why I’m at the gym this morning! I have a ton of work to do today but I come first💪🏼

[@larrybrinley8222]

How much work is a ton ?

[@integrity411]

Such a good man. I wish I had a father like him in my life but thats okay. I am going to live a new life.

[@mchernandez5850]

I've been told throughout my life that it's all about association , association, and association. Currently the best for my life right now is dissociation. I started with firing my doctor. I researched a top notch doctor. I chosed my current young femaile doctor after researching interviewing several. A couple were not taking on new patients. I have not been this healthy, strong, energetic and happy in a long time. I no longer feel miserable my life no longer revolves around my doctor's regular appointments check-ups and tests. Most based on age and insurance policy not my level of health. During the six months I evaluated my personal, professional and spiritual association. I finally learned how to say no to people, places and things that no longer bring value to my life. The epiphany of whom helped your father brought me to tears. What an amazing revelation. Thank you for doing your show every week.

[@ozarkcyn1]

I love that you said 63 years YOUNG!

[@johnodland8320]

Living the Airplane Analogy is critical for showing up as our best authentic genuine version of yourself daily. Most of my clients put everyone else first.

[@estudiopoyard]

Ed you have a GREAT impact in peolpes lives and you dont imagine. Just like me a 41 year old woman from Argentina. So grateful man!!!🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@davidgrammer3610]

Yes God first. You nailed it. ❤ I must fill my own cup

[@stevenmcbride9773]

Thanks for being a beast in this space ED you and your content have helped me through some of my toughest days and challenges. I truly appreciate your hard work and dedication and your service. Guys keep watching and hit that like button and share the episodes. Let’s get ED to a million followers on this platform. At the time of me posting this he’s a little over 960 k followers. And before I get bashed in this comment section about caring for the numbers. I don’t care. Ed has earned every single one of his followers on this platform. So let’s help him get what he deserves. Let’s go everyone stay blessed and praise God and work hard

[@christianleadershippartners]

This is so true! The only way I can add value to others is to be valuable myself! These broadcasts are so important to my own personal development. Thank you for take the time to produce such great content!

[@leadgenjay]

The concept of the 'empty or full cup' really puts personal capacity into perspective. For entrepreneurs, it's crucial to remember that nurturing your network can be like filling your cup. A quick tip: segment your contacts based on their interests and interaction levels, then tailor your follow-ups for higher engagement. This personalized approach often leads to more meaningful connections and opportunities.

[@camillebanks3676]

This is so timely for me. I wrestled for awhile the whole idea of loving me first. This is confirmation. God bless you Ed!! 🥰⚘️🙌🙌👍

[@wendyann6]

Thanks for the reminder Ed. I can't serve from an empty cup. I need to wake up!

[@ChristopherRangon]

Thank you so much for sharing this Ed. I watched this a month ago and I came back to watch this again. Thank you for sharing this!

[@ladavis]

Putting yourself first is not selfish; it's essential for your well-being. Just like the instructions on an airplane to put your oxygen mask on first before assisting others, taking care of yourself enables you to better care for those around you.

[@legacymindset23]

Ed, I want to say what a great episode. Just a few thoughts I grabbed from it. Keeping your guard up and protecting the temp of your interior is crucial. There will be people who come along family and friends that try to create chaos by breaking through borders you have setup. Don’t let them! Pray on it. 👍

[@astropilotred]

I’m so glad that so many people have benefitted from your rant on the very basics.

[@amritbooth4670]

This is soo good!! Yes, the timing was great!! It’s time to step up & keep that dream alive!! I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!!

[@KathyLeeHazell]

As a first responder and training instructor, I learned how important PPE is, and now I have a new mental meaning: Peaceful Positive Enlightened Emotional Triage : Is it serving my Positive Peaceful Existence Or are you caught on the Emotional roller-coaster. I believe 🙏 I have found my purpose. I am fighting for myself. Psychoneuroimmunology Is my new story built on my past successes.

[@CJII269]

This came right on time. Thank you! 🙏🏾

[@justinstephens4915]

This is so good Ed... thank you so much. This is what I needed to hear

[@andreasgimel5791]

great man! you are just so inspiring! continue the journey.

[@AllavieMusic]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 this is why I love you!! Gotta put me first besides God. Period!

[@mwilliamsinspirit8078]

Wowzer!! How did you know? Thank you forJesus!! Thank you Mr MyLett!

[@katherinekane6137]

ThankYou !,You’reLike a Superman for Good!🎉

[@jvanniekerk1]

12:06 you belong in your dreams: "I belong in my dreams" 12:49 Make it bigger, Dream big, think big thoughts, dreaming is free (Dream your life bigger). 13:39 "I" should be priority number #1 in my Life (after God). 16:23 External circumstances do not dictate the ultimate direction / destination of your life. It's You and your faith (God). This is called the "internal thermostat" of your life. Your thoughts, concepts & beliefs about yourself. No matter how hot/cold things get outside (circumstances), your own identity (thermostat) determines your life's thermostat. 1) 24:38 Add people to your circle (with a hotter thermostat than yours: faith, business...) 2) 25:19 Shock your system. Behave differently Raise your water-line. 28:54 Allgin your goals & identity. Identity + Goals = Effort & Results 3) 29:13 Stop what's no longer needed (people, thoughts, behavior, emotion) 4) 30:37 Are you stuck in a story? Evaluate who you are NOW. Bonus: 37:26 Talk to yourself! 38:08 Don't believe every thought. Steer them... 40:13 Your mess does not disqualify you (God loves you)

[@loriwashko8745]

Love this! Exactly my why in organizing wellness retreats for Christian women. I struggled with this for years. ❤

[@kristalswint22]

how the hell can you read my mind ed? seriously freaky how you posted exactly what I needed today!❤

[@waynekellett8465]

GREAT Tuesday Morning !! Thank YOU & AMEN

[@grateru]

oh wow you have joel on , hes another powerful game changer in my life , i listen to him almost every day as well

[@mupetabobo9906]

Thanks Ed, needed to hear this today, right now....

[@merielgordon]

Me again, this is the most profound insight that I have experienced. I hope everyone watches this video to the very end. I believe it can change lives!❤

[@dianetiseo8776]

Wow I love you my friend. Job well done my faithful servant. Keep up the good work. Diane from Detroit ❤🎉

[@amyvanslambrook]

I echo all of this..at 51! So true! We minimize even the way we minimize our own needs. If we don’t practice what we preach the people we serve FEEL it and wow it’s a constant area of growth for me ❤thank you!

[@ljones6350]

I'm so teaching this too!!! So excited to help people learn this ❤

[@brianyerger583]

Perfect timing Ed. I needed this because I put my relationship first and put myself last in goals, personal care, ect. It's left me feeling empty, behind in life, and unfulfilled

[@karinaclement1817]

I've left so many comments, hopping you can see them and feel how thankful I am for you Ed. Learning from you has been essential in the journey of loving myself. I love myself so much that nothing comes between US😁 your message touches me in a deep way. I am a better human, wife, mother, woman because I listen and learn from you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me be the best version of myself. I'm Maxing Out!!!❤

[@tilopeck6441]

This is the thing that holds me back the most, especially when cultural expectations are put in , you’re taught that putting yourself first is really selfish and frowned upon & I’m just so depleted and feel stagnant and not really happy with life. Sometimes I don’t know where to start , currently weighing up between moving to a completely new state where I know no one and really just focus on myself . Maybe this is a sign I need to do that ?

[@mceely]

Love your Solo episodes. In my opinion, they're the best. This one is truly exceptional. Thank you so much for your positive energy.

[@bimala8334]

Thank you for inspiring me every single day MYLETT 😇😇 can’t wait to come to your show at Calgary 27-2024 🔥🔥🔥 #maxout

[@moniquegarcia4886]

I so needed this message right now, 100% hit home. I’ve definitely got some work to do, starting Now! I’m making me a priority, once and for all, so I can be there for others… I want people to remember me in a positive light! Thank you so much for your inspiring words ❣️🙏🏻

[@pd8505]

Best Episode this year so far.

[@mrelixirgalactic]

I love you, Ed Mylett!!!! 💯❤️🔥

[@nelsonrubio6732]

Thank you so much edat you. Have me thinking and every video. I believe you are God favor.

[@stevejelly3161]

Bless You .... Ed Mylett 🙂

[@yanadrazner8320]

Love this Ed! Divine timing as always! Working on my identity now❤️

[@barbaradebruin3565]

Life changing! Thank you

[@coffeecoctailsconversation]

This one hits hard. I preach about not having a victim mentality and I’m doing that exact thing 😮😂

[@thelifeinsuranceman4026]

Happy Saturday! Thanks for the gift!

[@merielgordon]

This is so true, Ed! I remember someone asking me how I was and the first thing that just popped out of my mind was as well. The kids are OK, parents are OK.. I must be OK. I eventually learned that if I wasn’t looking after myself first, then I couldn’t look after them. BTW, when I wake up in the morning, there’s often a song playing in my head and today I realized the song playing in my head is the theme song to your show😂

[@terresabyrnes4607]

Thank you Ed! You are making a difference in my life!

[@timglover4180]

Do you know what I’ve heard this so many times but never really listened, however i was super fit, had a 6 pack and was 12 stone, my family hit hard times so I stopped the gym and started working 80 hours a week plus to keep my wife from panicking and crying with how we are going to pay everything, I got so stressed I went back to my old drug habit to deal with it so I could keep going….im now trying to get rid of the drug problem again, I’ve got debts coming out of my ears anyway, I’ve ballooned to 18 and a half stone and my wife told me I’m not the person I was and she’s leaving me 👍🏼🤦‍♂️😆 look after yourself first!

[@VeeAnnHollero]

This is made for me and it is just right on time. I love you,Ed! Thanks for bringing value to all of our lives.

[@RudiZimmerer]

In every case, we decide if it is in our self-interest or not… to help or to do. Everyone has different self-interests… Selfless doing is not possible, because we act after our self-interests! I remembered this discussion with my siblings, age 10 years… Most people do not even understand this… Because they are brainwashed.

[@BoostedPastime]

Thank you Ed

[@thomasalimohamadi9140]

I love your content ed it’s powerful 🙏🏻

[@thehoneytable6820]

This really speaks exactly to me! Thank you Ed!

[@Alexveguilla]

Needed to hear this today 💪🏽🔥! Thank You 🙏🏽!

[@LynWesthoff]

Great message Ed!

[@mahinsaleh9492]

Thank you ❤ you...❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@dianadee4300]

There has been such a wave of self-care lately. What did we do last 50 years before "self-care" became a "thing"??? It's really important though to give ourselves what we need, especially when we have families. We cannot allow Ourselves to become run down or upset about being everyone's support person. Need to construct support for US!

[@ericahewlett8528]

Thank you ed for all the wisdom you’ve shared with us

[@lawrencenkwocha]

This blessed me. Thank you very much coach Ed for this ❤

[@jeffgadbois1707]

Thank You For Your Time And Knowledge 💯🤝

[@michelleg1076]

Thank you ❤

[@jaydeebawden]

Thank you again Ed. I always look forward to your real talk. I'm very grateful that you give so much back. You've really helped me to change my life for the better. Keep em coming. It's working

[@TaraCarpenter-w4h]

I really appreciate you & what you do/say, thank you

[@frankmengotto1700]

I see exactly what you’re saying.

[@dylanmylett]

you helped me so much, i just received yiur book 10 minutes afo

[@tiffanyvandemark6968]

I so needed this today ❤ thank Ed.

[@zatelier2020]

Great video! Thank you!!

[@jasonmagruder7008]

100% make yourself #1

[@edinaalic4500]

Thank you

[@ericahewlett8528]

Listen right now !❤

[@markphillips9822]

Awesome podcast today. 👏

[@brianbonito]

Great compilation, Ed. Perfect

[@ritalima77]

Oh, gosh! I was thinking about this right now before going online.

[@mrelixirgalactic]

I know I’m the one in my family Ed. It is a gift and at the same time so incredibly painful and difficult and sad. What have you done to overcome as the one?? I know what’s Help me is listening to you.

[@parisconstantinou8299]

unfortunately its correct Sir!very correct!

[@margaretr7040]

pure gold

[@elviebruggmann7281]

SOOOO GOOD!

[@meagangibbons1639]

Thankyou

[@Axiomsciences]

beam me up Mr. Mylett. Would love to meet you again sir

[@bha1246]

Nice call on the comment contest Ed!

[@MarySitton]

Thank you👏👏👏

[@AndyLoRusso]

Love this share ED

[@garethellison01]

PASSION PASSION PASSION! A real affinity to help try to steer others. THANK YOU Ed. 🙏🏼 PS I'm in no man's land. Transitional period I like to think. But no more friends for yet such a social chap. I feel released and FREE. It's an amazing feeling. Although lonely, somehow, it feels my true path in life. Hope to magnetise like-minded folks one day. ❤

[@michellerichardson7611]

Love this one ! !!!!

[@michaelmcgowan8666]

Great Stuff!!

[@Restinbeast]

Awesome!!!

[@priss_e]

Looking forward to this one

[@davejarvis7522]

That's correct