How to Raise Successful Kids

[@VALUETAINMENT]

What would you add to the list?

[@comocuandodonde]

Well, first thing I would add DO NOT VAX THESE INNOCENT KIDS WITH THIS TRIAL SH*T. KEEP THEM SAFE AND HEALTHY!!!

[@delasonbentick]

Along with the list you just mentioned i'll add, Elements of Entrepreneurship. Little before Covid hit I bought a huge box of chocolate and give it to my 9yr old son and told him to try selling the candies to his friends and everyone else he knows. I did that because there were couple of lessons in that task I wanted to talk about with him. Now, he has created his own brand that will be a spin-off into other things. I'm documenting and posting this journey on my channel now.

[@streetbillionairementor]

Raise them through their experiences and own games...

[@tokyodoru]

this is brilliant advice

[@TRKMPR]

Taking more self-responsibility for their acts by enforcing them to take more action throughout the day.

[@JackSmith-w1t]

Hello brothers and sisters. I would just like to recommend that everyone read the book ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’. Reading that book was the best desicion I ever made.

[@Rambleon444]

The most important things to teach your kids these days is critical thinking, mental toughness, socialization, honesty, and adaptability. Everything else is accessible through the device in their pocket

[@paulinasalih1247]

Well that's a very simplified way of putting it... But I see your point.

[@anonymousanonymous1859]

Not to say that these issues aren’t important, but without a critical base of knowledge the “you can google it” argument is redundant. The best education research supports this. Giving your kids a huge base of general knowledge will support them in their ability to read and learn.

[@yaminaboub-jo2lb]

Socialization , and social skills especially

[@yaminaboub-jo2lb]

Haha hundred percent

[@BeanDar]

Getting paid for chores was great for me growing up. I learned to work hard and save money. I learned to spend wisely and started doing my neighbors yard for extra cash. I was 15yo with $1,500 and I bought myself a Nikon camera and lens and pursued my love for photography. Then I turned that into some money as well, and that led into making videos. Skills I now use for various projects at work.

[@Grannycoop]

My mom & I raised my 5 boys & 1 girl in the ghetto. With the guidance of Holy Spirit we we able to raise them to be unselfish, successful adults, even though one had to endure prison for a season. Three of them earn 6 digits & all are endeavoring to help others who grew up in similar circumstances.

[@juleswifey6003]

Amen. ❤

[@rilwanj]

Something I learned when training kids was listen to their feedback, nobody one is infallible, you don’t want them to pick up the habit of thinking they are right all the time and getting defensive when challenged.

[@kasapbandy1776]

That’s where Jordan Peterson comes in. I bet they’ll get to meet him too. “Always assume the person you’re talking to knows something you don’t”

[@art_ill]

Both of my kids are high honor roll, accelerated math and science, varsity mvp in their respective sports. They have never been in any kind of trouble and never needed more than a "no-no" in discipline when they were young. The "secret" is love and attention. Play with them as much as possible, listen to them and be attentive when they try to communicate. They are very well rounded and just good kids even though they went through our divorce when my boy was 5 and my daughter 3. Love and attention and setting a decent example and they will raise themselves right. They are their own people not an extension of yourself you get to control.

[@linus9624]

This and nothing else. Attention and love is everything. People who talk about something else is clearly deluded.

[@mikasd9]

Just being there and not being a piece of shit are 90% of the battle

[@linus9624]

@@mikasd9 sure is. Threats, punishment and ”tough lessions” are just plain stupid. Kids need love, understanding and compassion.

[@surfacing88]

"They are their own people, not an extension of yourself you get to control." I wish you could have spoken to my parents 35 years ago.

[@khoimavlogs5161]

Nice my doesn't like school but he wants to be richer than Elon Musk

[@kasapbandy1776]

There are alternatives to “because I said so” This really spoke to me, and a lot of millennial and gen z. We were taught that it’s disrespect to ask why. So many missed opportunities to explain life. It does not create respect for elders, only resentment.

[@believer7280]

Teach your kids to love, respect and be kind to all people. Sow seeds of goodness into their lives. Most importantly, teach them to pray. This life is short, their soul is forever.

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[@MssMalak]

Very well said ! I can add to what you said Teach them to love all humans don't push your kids to much to hate other religions, respect should be to everyone in mutual way, and they are not better then any one else !

[@believer7280]

@@MssMalak I agree with you. As a follower of Jesus Christ, He is my example. He is loving and merciful. He even loved His enemies. And although He is all powerful, He humbled himself and laid down His life for us.

[@MssMalak]

@@believer7280 respect 🙏

[@gizmoe1976]

But you must also teach them to be wary of Wolves. Being kind can teach you to be naive. The world is full of bad people who will lie, cheat, steal & injure you. I know 1st hand & lost a child forever being “nice” to everyone. Protect your children & only provide good things to those that earn it.

[@emmanuellikealion8822]

Brother you nailed it...I’m a single parent of a 5 and 3 years old boys...you have spoken out loud my inner thoughts and ideas of parenting. Great work, we’ll speak again once they grown up and see the results

[@chanaguerrero5762]

Did my dude say, "pobrecito"? It came out so natural. You can tell he's been hanging with our Hispanic peeps in Texas. Two 👍👍up.

[@michaelcaine891]

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[@christycastillo7468]

Those were my exact thoughts!! 🤣😎

[@anthonyv4678]

Came here to find this comment

[@Vinnisharma1988]

Parenting is the one lesson which must be taught in schools or colleges. Other subjects will not benefit society as much as teaching good parenting. Good parenting makes a better human.

[@najnaj9493]

First choose your partner wisely. Kids need a good mom and a dad to be successful.

[@donatapowell8143]

The most important point.

[@yaminaboub-jo2lb]

Exactly 💯

[@yaminaboub-jo2lb]

Parents have to love each other and are responsible

[@CaseyBurnsInvesting]

Parenting is the most important duty to society.

[@Wallewallewalle91]

Amen!

[@saltycannuck2381]

I disagree ! taking care of ones self to become educated and succsesful is far more important then having kids and thinking they are better then anyone else. As a parent without good parents it is possible and very little of my life came from my " parents"

[@kellyanne744]

@@saltycannuck2381 I think Casey was referring to people who are already parents. If you are already a parent, then it becomes your greatest responsibility.

[@saltycannuck2381]

@@kellyanne744 your own life is still your greatest responsibilty with out it your kids will not be raised or succsessful in any way. They end up like what we see today in society.

[@kevinbaltarejo4875]

@@saltycannuck2381 Fair point.

[@scarface416]

best thing you can give your kids is time, attention and your happiness.

[@missdaisy4738]

I have 3 grown up boys,I’ve been married to there Dad for 56yrs,if you ask each one of them,” What was your childhood like” each one will give you a different answer. Simply because they are individual ,and see life differently. I’m a youngest sibling of six,and we were all brought up differently at least through the eyes of each of us. I don’t think you can predict the right way to bring up a child,you can only do your best at the time.

[@willnill7946]

You mean “their Dad”. Did you teach your kids English?

[@eperey]

UuJ

[@missdaisy4738]

@@willnill7946 Is that the best you can say. How pathetic.

[@Carlitherianlove14]

@@willnill7946 what was the point of your negativity ,what did it accomplish all that does is put someone down for no reason

[@righthasit8136]

@@willnill7946 were you thought thoughtfulness? 🤔

[@gianisain8880]

You are the father that was never present there for me !Thank you !

[@bb3ll07]

Parenting matters! My friend has 4 siblings and all of them are married! Her parents raised them with so much love that all five of their kids got married!! That’s not common in my race! So parenting is the key!!!!

[@mekawoods5102]

Oh God, 40 years! I can't imagine yet! My oldest is 31 🙏🏾

[@mercadosaldia8684]

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[@n.m.8627]

You are a great dad and role model! Your kids are lucky to have such a great dad

[@adebowalegbenga4316]

My Mum used some of these your techniques on me, despite no father, and it worked like charm. Perfect!! I recommend this video for every responsible Parent out there 👌👌

[@mmatrainee]

I have never clicked so quickly AFTER thinking about the subject matter

[@mercadosaldia8684]

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[@ferfernando950]

He is raising his kids "hoping they are going to be successful". I'm raising my kid hoping he's going to be HAPPY!!! And if he needs success to be happy, then we will go for it. Because what everybody needs at the end of the day is to be HAPPY, not just successful. I know too many unhappy but successful people... And I don't want that for my kid, nor for anybody else.

[@pkc3168]

Best comment!!

[@Nobblin1]

Stop being delusional, teaching them life skills now will help their future. Success looks different to all. Obviously nurture your children , and let them be kids but don’t be naive. You can teach kids at an early age about health(what activities are they doing ) food they are consuming , their strengths and weaknesses how to acknowledge their emotions & how to handle , how to be responsible for future career development of their choosing , what are your kids consuming (books) etc etc.

[@sarahm415]

Love hearing this guy talking about Parenting. Coming from a mother of 2 toddlers.

[@gerasmus]

I and brother was "spoon fed" by over protective parent. Dad had zero involvement with parenting. I had a late start in life when I was 40+. As man child become dad at 38 and 46. I learned from the mistake and now have my daughters 'bump' their heads, asking their opinions and teaching them about respect for others, property of others and themselves, love and hugs. And more. Great video thank you.

[@sick1mind1]

Read "drugs" instead of "hugs" at first and I was like 'Wait a minute...'

[@philmehrart]

Pat your point about parents wanting their kids to avoid adversity and raising soft kids is exactly what happened with us as a family, my dad really wanted us to be safe and comfortable but it made life very hard for us later on, in terms of navigating the world growing up. Now I am doing my best to learn what it is to be a strong man on my own terms

[@kellyanne744]

This video is gold.

[@rushrush1209]

Be supportive and caring. Encourage them to succeed, but also show tough love. Make them accountable for bad decisions, and never reward bad behavior. Also, hope for some fortune as well.

[@FinancialShinanigan]

Kids are a great visualization of their parent's personality

[@michaelcaine891]

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[@liam4204]

1. One on one time with every family member 2. Balance. 49% competitive 51% teamwork 3.Debate. Teach them to question things and build ‘debating muscle’ 4. Teach independence. 5. Minimise ‘because I said so’. Explain the why behind the want 6. Choose the right movies. Pick movies with lessons and point them out/ discuss real time. 7. All kids are different. Accept it and don’t compare 8. Create a currency. Reward positive behaviours, not chores. 9. Ask them for their opinions. “What do you think?” About everything day to day 10. Generational curses. Try and break the chain of bad habits. Self deprecate in front of them. “You can be better than me”. Don’t let people compare your children to you.

[@philipinkoom2313]

I'm not a father or married yet but this has really educated me a lot I need to share this to all my friends both the married and the unmarried .

[@michaelcaine891]

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[@tonymascarenhas5754]

Thank you pat for this lesson.. How I wish I had known all of these some 5 years back..My kids are 9 & 7. I have a lot to improve with my approach.. Better late than never. God bless you, your family & all those people who are touched by your life. Thanks & All Glory be to God.

[@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439]

7 and 9 or 17 and 19. If it's the later then don't let the devil deceive you into thinking it's too late

[@Bjamin9891]

It takes a big man to accept their shortcomings and grow. My hat is off to you

[@JRmidwife]

This is good. Especially explaining but not over explaining. I raised 2 sons. Respecting each one individually and teaching them to respect themselves, everyone and everyone's property has gone a long way. They were more selective with friends and now with mates. Also knowing that what I model is more important than anything. They took away a good work ethic and entrepreneurial desires and goals. They are in their early 20s.

[@JedymyJedymy]

You are a machine Patrick - keep pushing 🚀💸🦈

[@imhectoreli]

More of these parenting tip videos please! Having my first baby girl this week!

[@mercadosaldia8684]

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[@saarthakpanda9143]

*Congratulations on the future baby to Patrick Bet David!*

[@goofywill90]

i can't wait to see your kids grown-up reflecting on their dad and how they were raised.

[@GrowYourWealth101]

Amazing video Pat! 💪 Parenting is the most important part in your life! 🙏

[@UnschoolingCOM]

Truth!

[@GrowYourWealth101]

@@UnschoolingCOM 🙏

[@georgeg2369]

1. One on one parenting 2. Balancing teamwork and competition 3. Creating opportunities to debate 4. Teaching independence 5. Limit the use of “because i said so” 6. Watch the right movies to watch with kids Eg. Walk the line, Johnny Cash Remember the Titans 7. All your kids are different 8.create a currency for kids 9. Ask your kids their opinion 10. Setting an example

[@nishantyagi619]

Thanks

[@MisterMonsterMan]

Keeping them out of the public school system could be a start. Separate school system or even home schooling if possible can give kids a big advantage over public educated kids. Especially with all this identity social justice type of stuff being taught in many public schools today.

[@mariaguzman1552]

I agree!

[@kyleelyk2650]

True that tan man ! The schools are a joke now days and I feel as if all it accomplishes for the majority is teach them to be an order follower Think for yourself question authority 😁

[@TheSilverLining80]

100%

[@JessicaOrban3606]

Great discussion and tips. Parents should also pay close attention to what the child needs as an individual. Rules are rules, boundaries are essential, but a one-side-fits-all approach on how to teach each kid doesn't work. I love that you said to not compare them to each other. One of my kids is very strong willed and asks 1000 questions. I love explaining things to him, and people are always blown away with how much he knows. If I just answered "because I said so" or "that's just the way it is", he would not feel valued or have his need to understand his world met. My other son is calmer and quieter, but he needs more emotional support and physical connection to feel loved and heard. They're both amazing little dudes, and I am so thankful for what they teach me.

[@joshuaatwells]

Every time I listen to this it motivates me to be a better parent. My boys thank you.

[@michaelfalgares]

Really love the parenting videos you make. As a new father it’s very helpful

[@ZRSmetalgrooves]

What great insight and advice. I have 3 kids and this is very helpful to hear.. Thank you sir much appreciated, 👊

[@robertlelieve2025]

I live in a very poor and dangerous country sir ,your videos are so encouraging and inspiring,they are one of the things that encourage me the most to be better and fight everyday .

[@theGodfella]

The best advice on children....have one. Pbd you da best

[@michaelcaine891]

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[@gr8_22-15]

As a father, and who is someone who is constantly wanting to be better, this was one of your best videos for me. Thank you!

[@malinstarr3669]

We started at age 3 and 4 to say the thanks at the dinner table. By first grade there was no holding back. The confidence of holding a speech in fronted a crowd NP. The dining with the family a must

[@michaelcaine891]

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[@jenniferlee7167]

More parents should hear this. My father is successful monetarily, but our mother was materialistic and "things" were most important to her. My brother and I grew up abused and not allowed to have an opinion about anything. We were told we "knew" nothing. We were told that "children" were bad and that our parents could never have anything (material) because of "us". We grew up trying to get away from the pain that was inflicted. My brother lives on the West coast-Oregon and I live on the East Coast. Our parents are still alive in the midwest. Neither my brother nor I had children. We are 65 and 67 this year. I have learned a lot and I know that Pat has some great ideas to have a great family.

[@beastwithredpill]

Damn sorry to hear that, my parents raised me in a similar fashion. I was the only child that seems to not have been a fuck up. And to this day my parents don’t know why 1/9 of their kids is doing good while the other 8 are doing shitty. But I owe it to myself to have an enjoyable life and when I have kids to right the wrongs in my family by having great children who are at least prepared for the real world!

[@ruthchavarria119]

Thank You 🙏 Patrick, I also wanted to add, Always let Your Kids know how important they are as a person and to you as parent and How much Loved they are .

[@justinmanning]

Thank you, Patrick. The future looks bright with young kings like Tico and Dylan coming up.

[@FranciscoRodriguez-dh7rr]

Thank you so much, Pat. I needed to hear this to steer my rapid growing younglings in a better manner.

[@ikickrocksi]

Hardest job I’ve ever had is being a mom but the most rewarding. ❤

[@goreallaone4492]

I listened to this with my kids in the car thanksgiving!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@mR-dc4oq]

I saw this and said YES! Why? I hadn’t even heard it yet but I have a lot of respect for you and your opinions. I had to listen. I had a lot of challenges in my life from a young age (who hasn’t?). I have one child and now grandchildren. That child of mine has grown up into an amazing, intelligent, successful (that’s measured in many ways) ,and loving human being. So now I’m working on my grandchildren!😌 Thanks for all of this. Good ideas and many I employed. They work!

[@sarahm415]

You need to do more parenting videos. This is gold. Thank you always.

[@davidhoj]

never let my son win at board games, card games, sports, etc teaching the fundamentals needed for each ... went easy to build confidence, but now my son feels better beating the old man now

[@Frasianfamily]

I would say that you do know if you’re doing a good job in parenting before they become adults. If they regularly communicate with you, trust you, and want connection with you, then you’re doing good. Parent the kid you have, not the kid you want and they’ll be their best self.

[@ex7229]

What if your kid is lazy and I want them not to he lazy. I guess I should accept that. No thanks I was able to steer that poor behavior out of them.

[@Shiloh_Speaks]

This is gold. I am listening.

[@kashemvai5025]

Im setting a reminder in email for 5 years so that i can rewatch this video

[@TheNationalWellnessOrg]

You are so so appreciated. Thank you. ❤️

[@happycoconut8260]

Even I am not a parent or dating anybody, this is a good advice. Thanks Pat :)

[@edsida]

Thank you pat and valuetainment team

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[@sandip.7968]

Such great advice, right on-target. My children are out on their own now, but how I wish I had been taught this when they were infants. Pat, you would be a fantastic instructor in a parenting class.

[@champtunes]

Great points, thanks for sharing. As a new father, I appreciate this.

[@samarmas5082]

I'm 36 years old, and I got 6 kids, 4 girls 2 boys. And they all have different personalities, so it is hard to raise them to be successful but I'm just trying to do my best and teach them about respect. Respect and honesty are really important. I paint cars in a bodyshop and a mechanic at home. So my kids like what I do and my daughters help me at home. They know how to use my tools and know their names. They are smart but I don't tell them , I let other people see and tell them that. And that makes me proud

[@michaelcaine891]

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[@billionshadesgirl]

Tell them that they are smart please. Coming from you, it will live forever in them

[@jaydanielcastro]

Why does this not have a million views? The entire nation needs this, especially the bit on currency. Thanks Patt.

[@debbiereynolds3498]

We don't raise children, we raise adults ~

[@melangreathouse2209]

Mr. Ben David, Brother, you are spot on here! Asking our kids( as early as 3!), is so enlightening to us parents. Kids are smarter than we take them for, and it takes a very sagacious person to be able to spot an exceptional child, and to develop their curiosity and intellect. HIGH KUDOS To You.

[@paulasanda1486]

I’m grateful for your knowledge. I wish you could open a school for parents! God bless you and your beautiful family!

[@TylerSinden]

That's a unique way to look at parenting. It's a 40-year test where you get your results.

[@michaelcaine891]

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[@tomashbaugh8891]

Patrick- I love your natural curiosity! You are a great master of questioning and interviewing. You encourage me, thank you sir!

[@yeisonmartinez235]

Awesome advice! I just want to add how important it is to bless them with our words and affection, saying l love you, you are smart, strong, happy... Because we know the world outside is trying to tell them otherwise... Thank you PBD and God bless you!

[@vericakramer6237]

You are blessing for someone who doesn't have a father. Thank you for all your advices. ❤️😊

[@jordanwilliams8040]

I do the same with my kids. I made a list of the best 30 movies that we should watch together that are age appropriate for middle school. A great way to learn lessons outside of school

[@ginatran4698]

Would it be possible to share that list with us?

[@jordosara]

I would love to know your suggestions too. I have an 11 and 8 year old

[@mshairdesign1800]

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[@jordanwilliams8040]

@jordosara FOREST GUMP THE COUNTE OF MONTE CRISTO FAR AND AWAY LEGENDS OF THE FALL DRAGON THE BRUCE LEE STORY CANT BUY ME LOVE SAVING PRIVATE RYAN RUDY CAPTAIN CORELLIS MANDOLIN A.I. INDIANA JONES first movie SCHINDLERS LIST at age 14ish Those are the ones I can remember for now

[@federicogiller5741]

Thanks Pat, great vision. I appreciate your thoughts to help me be a better parent. Loved the content, especially the creation of the shadow YET not shielding the kids so they too have a chance to develop their own power.

[@Xlino]

How do people dislike this? This is great advice!

[@elvinedmeade9846]

Thank you for this. More please

[@VINTAGE-AMERICANA]

Patrick. Would you please give us 25 of the movies on your list? This would be most helpful for me to consider as a single father. --I have used documentaries, movies and other entertainment to help with life's lessons, but in the last few years I have found it time-consuming to decide which movies to watch. Little help please, and thank you for another very educational video.

[@anxi3098]

Maybe a good example of a movie to watch with your children if they are 13 years or older is Hacksaw Ridge. I watched it with my dad when I was 12 years old and it taught me a lot about comradery and developing thick skin to prove people wrong.

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[@97JG]

Not a parent yet but I keep my future family and children in mind as a strong motivation pulling my closer to my goals. Always interested in how Pat raises his kids, thank you for this 🙏🏼🙏🏼🔥

[@tonycarrera69]

My son is 4 and already debating and asking all kinds of questions! love him

[@krotsin]

No matter how perfect you try parenting your kids it’s not guaranteed they will succeed in life.

[@royaltylifestyleofficial848]

It doesn't guarantee it, but as a parent, you do your part hoping for the best and keeping faith. 🙏🏾

[@ln3041]

No matter to guarantee, but it is all about the odds, which you can increase as a parent or not.

[@krotsin]

@@ln3041 I see how many parents put too much pressure on kids with their expectations

[@ln3041]

@@krotsin anything exaggerated is an issue, and I agree on that point. But it is a different discussion.

[@justindavis2711]

I duno, I reckon if you did perfectly prepare them for anything, it would be almost imppasible for them to fail

[@creativeartbyluvensky]

Such a great method, Team work, the explanation of why when it comes to a parenting decisions, and creating a currency are gold. Thanks for sharing Patrick.

[@MindfulAttraction]

This dude really Photoshop the baby in his hands

[@potatocheyy]

Ur ok dude?

[@GBMM7]

What’s your point ?

[@martinmurage780]

😂

[@nas8326]

I didn't see any dudes in the video

[@tookay4ever]

I mean none of his kids are babies so what did you expect him to do, hey I know covid is going on but can I hold your baby without a mask for my youtube? Lmfao cmon dude.

[@xXEYSPENXx]

Patrick Bet-David Single handedly created a better Generation with one video. Thank you

[@scaldon2]

You know how . Let kids get raised in household with both biological parents. That's how

[@ChikisRozae]

I believe the same thing but what if the dad is has anger issues and the kids grow up with constant arguing 🙁

[@asyr4fasyrafw36]

Yes thats true chikie, I would agree with the first statement but not everyone is lucky enough to have both biological parents in the same house..

[@sonz4205]

Old video but gold. Great advice as always!

[@yohannsimpson9879]

This is such a quuuuaaaaallllliiittttyyyyy video!! Perfectly clear, timed, and relevant. I just became a Dad. This video is saved and is going to be Reference material. Thanks a mil!

[@muhammadghazialgifari2016]

this video doesn't lose any meaning or substance even for me as a teenager listening, it takes away nothing, even though it's still a long way for me to go, even though i don't really know if i'll have kids or not, i can safely say that the lesson spoken here will be used by me for at least something in the years to come, dope video

[@ocero14]

It is not a recipe (meaning it will not necessarily work for everybody )but is useful information. Well organized. Thank you.

[@blongth89]

I press like,share and saved in the first 30 seconds. Awesome content

[@pcb8059]

I cant recall a single childhood memory of one-on-one time with either parents, it was always %100 group dynamic and group relationship with 4 siblings at once, usually over dinner. After 50 years, I dont have a relationship with either parent, we talk small talk on the phone about twice a year the past 25 years. But basically Ive no parental relationship and my daughter knows nobody from my side of the family.

[@salfetka]

Love tbe parenting videos. More of them please. Which films apart from the 2 you mentioned we could watch with the children?

[@Tonyswoodshop]

Thank you Pat. I wanted to ask you this question. Even better you made a whole video. Much respect.

[@mercadosaldia8684]

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[@TheLubiDiary]

Requirements to bring a new human into the world: None I've always thought that to be pretty wild. Yet many of us struggle at times and think we're supposed to know how to do it all. We need more people discussing how to take accountability as a parent and not just put the responsibility on the daycares, schools, teachers, and other influences around us. Children can have age appropriate responsibilities, learn to help in the home, and think critically if adults allow them to express their opinions well. I also agree with explaining to children why they need to do what they're told. It's an important part of discipline vs obedience. Good points Patrick!

[@mercadosaldia8684]

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[@saneng4058]

Patrick absolutely LOVE this video and agree so much as dad of 3 teenagers. So many nuggets. Ok to reshare this in our 13,000 strong parenting newsletter?

[@guzzlar5836]

I wish my parents knew everything discussed here🙂💔

[@ihavetubes]

Some people wish they had parents.

[@guzzlar5836]

@@ihavetubes I understand. I’m so grateful to have someone to call “MOM” and “DAD” What I wanted to say is: My parents make soo many mistakes and leave a wrong example for me. That’s not healthy. So I wish they didn’t do the things they do as a parent which I would NEVER do to my children ♥️ Take care♥️

[@ihavetubes]

​@@guzzlar5836 No one is perfect, and people make mistakes, all we can do is learn from those mistakes and go foward.

[@guzzlar5836]

@@ihavetubes haha I know what you mean. But things get different when it’s about parenting. My dad said:”You are an Idiot. You can never be anything in life. Stupid people like you who dream too big ALWAYS end up going astray and lead a miserable life.” And he said it because I didn’t want to be a doctor or engineer. He said either listen to me or get out of my house. Now he forcibly got me to study science. And this is affecting my mental,emotional, spiritual and physical health very badly. So... With due respect, I want you to understand; everybody can make mistakes but they can’t mess up everything. People should try to learn from others and avoid the mistakes. Some mistakes can NEVER be forgiven 💔

[@cauler6627]

@@guzzlar5836 they can… They TRULY can… But… BUT! ONLY with the help and power of Jesus Christ… Look intuit… (Intuit- work out or understand by instinct(A nice little double entendre for ya)🤗

[@livelifewthanks5684]

Wish I knew so many things when they were little …. To add those good and other’s good true concepts … but I am working at it… thank you for sharing ❤️🙏🏽

[@ImageNationProject]

The real question is where did Patrick get the baby for the thumbnail!