How to Raise Successful Kids

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@VALUETAINMENT
@VALUETAINMENT 3 жыл бұрын
What would you add to the list?
@comocuandodonde
@comocuandodonde 3 жыл бұрын
Well, first thing I would add DO NOT VAX THESE INNOCENT KIDS WITH THIS TRIAL SH*T. KEEP THEM SAFE AND HEALTHY!!!
@delasonbentick
@delasonbentick 3 жыл бұрын
Along with the list you just mentioned i'll add, Elements of Entrepreneurship. Little before Covid hit I bought a huge box of chocolate and give it to my 9yr old son and told him to try selling the candies to his friends and everyone else he knows. I did that because there were couple of lessons in that task I wanted to talk about with him. Now, he has created his own brand that will be a spin-off into other things. I'm documenting and posting this journey on my channel now.
@streetbillionairementor
@streetbillionairementor 3 жыл бұрын
Raise them through their experiences and own games...
@tokyodoru
@tokyodoru 3 жыл бұрын
this is brilliant advice
@ebusarmedusar
@ebusarmedusar 3 жыл бұрын
Taking more self-responsibility for their acts by enforcing them to take more action throughout the day.
@gord2358
@gord2358 2 жыл бұрын
My three sons all turned out to be successful. Starting from a young age I encouraged them to make their own decisions. I told them that if they made a mistake it was just an opportunity to learn how to do it differently next time. Today, they're all in positions of responsibility, either as supervisors or managers.
@WolverineXXXX
@WolverineXXXX 2 жыл бұрын
Hmmm...successful doesn't mean not douchy. JS.
@mr.makedonija2627
@mr.makedonija2627 2 жыл бұрын
@@WolverineXXXX shut up
@WolverineXXXX
@WolverineXXXX 2 жыл бұрын
@@mr.makedonija2627 Saw a bunch of asses in high places. Not suggesting anything.
@BRBallin1
@BRBallin1 2 жыл бұрын
Great way to raise them. I plan to raise my future kids this exact way. Fear of failure is such a huge barrier for many people
@yaminaboub-jo2lb
@yaminaboub-jo2lb 5 ай бұрын
Great
@CaseyBurnsInvesting
@CaseyBurnsInvesting 3 жыл бұрын
Parenting is the most important duty to society.
@Wallewallewalle91
@Wallewallewalle91 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@saltycannuck2381
@saltycannuck2381 3 жыл бұрын
I disagree ! taking care of ones self to become educated and succsesful is far more important then having kids and thinking they are better then anyone else. As a parent without good parents it is possible and very little of my life came from my " parents"
@kellyanne744
@kellyanne744 3 жыл бұрын
@@saltycannuck2381 I think Casey was referring to people who are already parents. If you are already a parent, then it becomes your greatest responsibility.
@saltycannuck2381
@saltycannuck2381 3 жыл бұрын
@@kellyanne744 your own life is still your greatest responsibilty with out it your kids will not be raised or succsessful in any way. They end up like what we see today in society.
@kevinbaltarejo4875
@kevinbaltarejo4875 3 жыл бұрын
@@saltycannuck2381 Fair point.
@Rambleon444
@Rambleon444 2 жыл бұрын
The most important things to teach your kids these days is critical thinking, mental toughness, socialization, honesty, and adaptability. Everything else is accessible through the device in their pocket
@paulinasalih1247
@paulinasalih1247 Жыл бұрын
Well that's a very simplified way of putting it... But I see your point.
@anonymousanonymous1859
@anonymousanonymous1859 Жыл бұрын
Not to say that these issues aren’t important, but without a critical base of knowledge the “you can google it” argument is redundant. The best education research supports this. Giving your kids a huge base of general knowledge will support them in their ability to read and learn.
@yaminaboub-jo2lb
@yaminaboub-jo2lb 5 ай бұрын
Socialization , and social skills especially
@yaminaboub-jo2lb
@yaminaboub-jo2lb 5 ай бұрын
Haha hundred percent
@deplorusbrownjr.8387
@deplorusbrownjr.8387 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this... I realized almost all my interactions with my kid I call my kid's names and bark orders at them... After seeing this I called them over during different parts of the day to ask them how their day is going.. We homeschool and I work from home. I can see their faces light up.
@BeanDar
@BeanDar 2 жыл бұрын
Getting paid for chores was great for me growing up. I learned to work hard and save money. I learned to spend wisely and started doing my neighbors yard for extra cash. I was 15yo with $1,500 and I bought myself a Nikon camera and lens and pursued my love for photography. Then I turned that into some money as well, and that led into making videos. Skills I now use for various projects at work.
@OxygenBeats
@OxygenBeats 2 жыл бұрын
1000% agree on the "because I said so" and basically everything else
@kasapbandy1776
@kasapbandy1776 2 жыл бұрын
There are alternatives to “because I said so” This really spoke to me, and a lot of millennial and gen z. We were taught that it’s disrespect to ask why. So many missed opportunities to explain life. It does not create respect for elders, only resentment.
@wilfredosantiago9289
@wilfredosantiago9289 Ай бұрын
Loved your video, I am a grandmother and always want to be the best version of my position. I didn't have a nurturing foster mother, so I was not the best single mother to my son. He has forgiveness me and now I have 4 grandchildren. 3 girls and the youngest 4years old grandson'. I finally have the best relationship with him. I see what I missed when my son was little. I can't change the past, but I 'm trying to constantly learn how to be better now. I am going to start asking them all "what do you think?" Loved your stories and appreciate the opportunity to learn how to be more fun. I WILL NEVER SAY TO THE GIRLS THAT, " BECAUSE I SAID SO." THANK YOU FOR SHARING HOW YOU HELP YOUR CHILDREN BE THEIR BEST. " YOU ARE SO FORTUNATE THAT YOU ARE GIVING YOUR CHILDREN HAPPY MEMORIES THEY WILL ALWAYS CHERISH AND LOVE THAT THEY WILL BE ABLE TO SHOW THEIR CHILDREN. DIVINE BLESSING TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. ❤ 🙏 Karen Murao
@bb3ll07
@bb3ll07 Жыл бұрын
Parenting matters! My friend has 4 siblings and all of them are married! Her parents raised them with so much love that all five of their kids got married!! That’s not common in my race! So parenting is the key!!!!
@rilwanj
@rilwanj 2 жыл бұрын
Something I learned when training kids was listen to their feedback, nobody one is infallible, you don’t want them to pick up the habit of thinking they are right all the time and getting defensive when challenged.
@kasapbandy1776
@kasapbandy1776 2 жыл бұрын
That’s where Jordan Peterson comes in. I bet they’ll get to meet him too. “Always assume the person you’re talking to knows something you don’t”
@cautilli
@cautilli 3 жыл бұрын
Patrick you have no idea how much this type of content is very appreciated and needed. Thank you!
@michaelcaine891
@michaelcaine891 3 жыл бұрын
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@Grannycoop
@Grannycoop 2 жыл бұрын
My mom & I raised my 5 boys & 1 girl in the ghetto. With the guidance of Holy Spirit we we able to raise them to be unselfish, successful adults, even though one had to endure prison for a season. Three of them earn 6 digits & all are endeavoring to help others who grew up in similar circumstances.
@juleswifey6003
@juleswifey6003 Жыл бұрын
Amen. ❤
@emmanuellikealion8822
@emmanuellikealion8822 Жыл бұрын
Brother you nailed it...I’m a single parent of a 5 and 3 years old boys...you have spoken out loud my inner thoughts and ideas of parenting. Great work, we’ll speak again once they grown up and see the results
@sarahm415
@sarahm415 Жыл бұрын
Love hearing this guy talking about Parenting. Coming from a mother of 2 toddlers.
@philmehrart
@philmehrart Жыл бұрын
Pat your point about parents wanting their kids to avoid adversity and raising soft kids is exactly what happened with us as a family, my dad really wanted us to be safe and comfortable but it made life very hard for us later on, in terms of navigating the world growing up. Now I am doing my best to learn what it is to be a strong man on my own terms
@Vinnisharma1988
@Vinnisharma1988 2 жыл бұрын
Parenting is the one lesson which must be taught in schools or colleges. Other subjects will not benefit society as much as teaching good parenting. Good parenting makes a better human.
@chanaguerrero5762
@chanaguerrero5762 3 жыл бұрын
Did my dude say, "pobrecito"? It came out so natural. You can tell he's been hanging with our Hispanic peeps in Texas. Two 👍👍up.
@michaelcaine891
@michaelcaine891 3 жыл бұрын
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@christycastillo7468
@christycastillo7468 3 жыл бұрын
Those were my exact thoughts!! 🤣😎
@anthonyv4678
@anthonyv4678 3 жыл бұрын
Came here to find this comment
@art_ill
@art_ill 3 жыл бұрын
Both of my kids are high honor roll, accelerated math and science, varsity mvp in their respective sports. They have never been in any kind of trouble and never needed more than a "no-no" in discipline when they were young. The "secret" is love and attention. Play with them as much as possible, listen to them and be attentive when they try to communicate. They are very well rounded and just good kids even though they went through our divorce when my boy was 5 and my daughter 3. Love and attention and setting a decent example and they will raise themselves right. They are their own people not an extension of yourself you get to control.
@linus9624
@linus9624 Жыл бұрын
This and nothing else. Attention and love is everything. People who talk about something else is clearly deluded.
@mikasd9
@mikasd9 Жыл бұрын
Just being there and not being a piece of shit are 90% of the battle
@linus9624
@linus9624 Жыл бұрын
@@mikasd9 sure is. Threats, punishment and ”tough lessions” are just plain stupid. Kids need love, understanding and compassion.
@ActionOverFear
@ActionOverFear Жыл бұрын
"They are their own people, not an extension of yourself you get to control." I wish you could have spoken to my parents 35 years ago.
@khoimavlogs5161
@khoimavlogs5161 Жыл бұрын
Nice my doesn't like school but he wants to be richer than Elon Musk
@ferfernando950
@ferfernando950 3 жыл бұрын
He is raising his kids "hoping they are going to be successful". I'm raising my kid hoping he's going to be HAPPY!!! And if he needs success to be happy, then we will go for it. Because what everybody needs at the end of the day is to be HAPPY, not just successful. I know too many unhappy but successful people... And I don't want that for my kid, nor for anybody else.
@pkc3168
@pkc3168 8 ай бұрын
Best comment!!
@Nobblin1
@Nobblin1 7 ай бұрын
Stop being delusional, teaching them life skills now will help their future. Success looks different to all. Obviously nurture your children , and let them be kids but don’t be naive. You can teach kids at an early age about health(what activities are they doing ) food they are consuming , their strengths and weaknesses how to acknowledge their emotions & how to handle , how to be responsible for future career development of their choosing , what are your kids consuming (books) etc etc.
@artsoto5459
@artsoto5459 9 ай бұрын
I love when he does videos like this, I personally don't like when he talks politics, I don't benefit from politics, but will definitely benefit from videos that help you be better at something.
@believer7280
@believer7280 3 жыл бұрын
Teach your kids to love, respect and be kind to all people. Sow seeds of goodness into their lives. Most importantly, teach them to pray. This life is short, their soul is forever.
@mercadosaldia8684
@mercadosaldia8684 3 жыл бұрын
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@MssMalak
@MssMalak 3 жыл бұрын
Very well said ! I can add to what you said Teach them to love all humans don't push your kids to much to hate other religions, respect should be to everyone in mutual way, and they are not better then any one else !
@believer7280
@believer7280 3 жыл бұрын
@@MssMalak I agree with you. As a follower of Jesus Christ, He is my example. He is loving and merciful. He even loved His enemies. And although He is all powerful, He humbled himself and laid down His life for us.
@MssMalak
@MssMalak 3 жыл бұрын
@@believer7280 respect 🙏
@gizmoe1976
@gizmoe1976 9 ай бұрын
But you must also teach them to be wary of Wolves. Being kind can teach you to be naive. The world is full of bad people who will lie, cheat, steal & injure you. I know 1st hand & lost a child forever being “nice” to everyone. Protect your children & only provide good things to those that earn it.
@JackSmith-w1t
@JackSmith-w1t 5 ай бұрын
Hello brothers and sisters. I would just like to recommend that everyone read the book ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’. Reading that book was the best desicion I ever made.
@jenniferlee7167
@jenniferlee7167 3 жыл бұрын
More parents should hear this. My father is successful monetarily, but our mother was materialistic and "things" were most important to her. My brother and I grew up abused and not allowed to have an opinion about anything. We were told we "knew" nothing. We were told that "children" were bad and that our parents could never have anything (material) because of "us". We grew up trying to get away from the pain that was inflicted. My brother lives on the West coast-Oregon and I live on the East Coast. Our parents are still alive in the midwest. Neither my brother nor I had children. We are 65 and 67 this year. I have learned a lot and I know that Pat has some great ideas to have a great family.
@GRANDboysENT
@GRANDboysENT Жыл бұрын
Raised by a single mother and had my first born 6 months ago. Father was never around and I swore I'd be the change. BS totaled my engagement, but it's my job to make sure my boy and his mom don't face the same levels of adversity. To all the men out there, you are the glue. Keep your head up, it's tough sometimes but there is no greater validation in life the seeing you kid flourish and succeed
@n.m.8627
@n.m.8627 3 жыл бұрын
You are a great dad and role model! Your kids are lucky to have such a great dad
@hephzibahbradshaw9509
@hephzibahbradshaw9509 9 ай бұрын
SHARING IN LOVE IS EXPLAINING TRUE LIFE.
@gerasmus
@gerasmus 3 жыл бұрын
I and brother was "spoon fed" by over protective parent. Dad had zero involvement with parenting. I had a late start in life when I was 40+. As man child become dad at 38 and 46. I learned from the mistake and now have my daughters 'bump' their heads, asking their opinions and teaching them about respect for others, property of others and themselves, love and hugs. And more. Great video thank you.
@sick1mind1
@sick1mind1 3 жыл бұрын
Read "drugs" instead of "hugs" at first and I was like 'Wait a minute...'
@mekawoods5102
@mekawoods5102 3 жыл бұрын
Oh God, 40 years! I can't imagine yet! My oldest is 31 🙏🏾
@mercadosaldia8684
@mercadosaldia8684 3 жыл бұрын
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@scarface416
@scarface416 3 жыл бұрын
best thing you can give your kids is time, attention and your happiness.
@saarthakpanda9143
@saarthakpanda9143 3 жыл бұрын
*Congratulations on the future baby to Patrick Bet David!*
@gianisain8880
@gianisain8880 3 жыл бұрын
You are the father that was never present there for me !Thank you !
@missdaisy4738
@missdaisy4738 3 жыл бұрын
I have 3 grown up boys,I’ve been married to there Dad for 56yrs,if you ask each one of them,” What was your childhood like” each one will give you a different answer. Simply because they are individual ,and see life differently. I’m a youngest sibling of six,and we were all brought up differently at least through the eyes of each of us. I don’t think you can predict the right way to bring up a child,you can only do your best at the time.
@willnill7946
@willnill7946 3 жыл бұрын
You mean “their Dad”. Did you teach your kids English?
@eperey
@eperey 3 жыл бұрын
UuJ
@missdaisy4738
@missdaisy4738 3 жыл бұрын
@@willnill7946 Is that the best you can say. How pathetic.
@Carlitherianlove14
@Carlitherianlove14 2 жыл бұрын
@@willnill7946 what was the point of your negativity ,what did it accomplish all that does is put someone down for no reason
@righthasit8136
@righthasit8136 2 жыл бұрын
@@willnill7946 were you thought thoughtfulness? 🤔
@kellyanne744
@kellyanne744 3 жыл бұрын
This video is gold.
@malinstarr3669
@malinstarr3669 3 жыл бұрын
We started at age 3 and 4 to say the thanks at the dinner table. By first grade there was no holding back. The confidence of holding a speech in fronted a crowd NP. The dining with the family a must
@michaelcaine891
@michaelcaine891 3 жыл бұрын
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@philipinkoom2313
@philipinkoom2313 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not a father or married yet but this has really educated me a lot I need to share this to all my friends both the married and the unmarried .
@michaelcaine891
@michaelcaine891 3 жыл бұрын
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@Anthony13_
@Anthony13_ 3 ай бұрын
From a fatherless broken home I’m really glad I found your channel. Started following for your business acumen but equally as impressed with you (& T-Ellsworth) parenting. I have notebooks filled with books, documentaries, debates/ activities I want them to do. Exciting hearing some of the things I wrote down you co-sign, can’t wait to have my own. Hitting rock bottom is the absolute best - Thanks PBD & Tom!!
@tonymascarenhas5754
@tonymascarenhas5754 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you pat for this lesson.. How I wish I had known all of these some 5 years back..My kids are 9 & 7. I have a lot to improve with my approach.. Better late than never. God bless you, your family & all those people who are touched by your life. Thanks & All Glory be to God.
@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439
@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 Жыл бұрын
7 and 9 or 17 and 19. If it's the later then don't let the devil deceive you into thinking it's too late
@Bjamin9891
@Bjamin9891 Жыл бұрын
It takes a big man to accept their shortcomings and grow. My hat is off to you
@joshuaatwells
@joshuaatwells 2 жыл бұрын
Every time I listen to this it motivates me to be a better parent. My boys thank you.
@imhectoreli
@imhectoreli 3 жыл бұрын
More of these parenting tip videos please! Having my first baby girl this week!
@mercadosaldia8684
@mercadosaldia8684 3 жыл бұрын
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@JRmidwife
@JRmidwife 3 жыл бұрын
This is good. Especially explaining but not over explaining. I raised 2 sons. Respecting each one individually and teaching them to respect themselves, everyone and everyone's property has gone a long way. They were more selective with friends and now with mates. Also knowing that what I model is more important than anything. They took away a good work ethic and entrepreneurial desires and goals. They are in their early 20s.
@jaydanielcastro
@jaydanielcastro 3 жыл бұрын
Why does this not have a million views? The entire nation needs this, especially the bit on currency. Thanks Patt.
@robertlelieve2025
@robertlelieve2025 3 жыл бұрын
I live in a very poor and dangerous country sir ,your videos are so encouraging and inspiring,they are one of the things that encourage me the most to be better and fight everyday .
@tonycarrera69
@tonycarrera69 Жыл бұрын
My son is 4 and already debating and asking all kinds of questions! love him
@najnaj9493
@najnaj9493 2 жыл бұрын
First choose your partner wisely. Kids need a good mom and a dad to be successful.
@donatapowell8143
@donatapowell8143 7 ай бұрын
The most important point.
@yaminaboub-jo2lb
@yaminaboub-jo2lb 5 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@yaminaboub-jo2lb
@yaminaboub-jo2lb 5 ай бұрын
Parents have to love each other and are responsible
@sarahm415
@sarahm415 Жыл бұрын
You need to do more parenting videos. This is gold. Thank you always.
@goofywill90
@goofywill90 2 жыл бұрын
i can't wait to see your kids grown-up reflecting on their dad and how they were raised.
@Tonyswoodshop
@Tonyswoodshop 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Pat. I wanted to ask you this question. Even better you made a whole video. Much respect.
@mercadosaldia8684
@mercadosaldia8684 3 жыл бұрын
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@justinmanning
@justinmanning 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Patrick. The future looks bright with young kings like Tico and Dylan coming up.
@goreallaone4492
@goreallaone4492 Жыл бұрын
I listened to this with my kids in the car thanksgiving!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@liam4204
@liam4204 Жыл бұрын
1. One on one time with every family member 2. Balance. 49% competitive 51% teamwork 3.Debate. Teach them to question things and build ‘debating muscle’ 4. Teach independence. 5. Minimise ‘because I said so’. Explain the why behind the want 6. Choose the right movies. Pick movies with lessons and point them out/ discuss real time. 7. All kids are different. Accept it and don’t compare 8. Create a currency. Reward positive behaviours, not chores. 9. Ask them for their opinions. “What do you think?” About everything day to day 10. Generational curses. Try and break the chain of bad habits. Self deprecate in front of them. “You can be better than me”. Don’t let people compare your children to you.
@xXEYSPENXx
@xXEYSPENXx 3 жыл бұрын
Patrick Bet-David Single handedly created a better Generation with one video. Thank you
@UseYourManners123
@UseYourManners123 2 жыл бұрын
I didn’t know he had a parenting segment! This is awesome. I’m glad he has shared his perspectives. He has some excellent advice. I would like to hear more.
@FinancialShinanigan
@FinancialShinanigan 3 жыл бұрын
Kids are a great visualization of their parent's personality
@michaelcaine891
@michaelcaine891 3 жыл бұрын
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@FranciscoRodriguez-dh7rr
@FranciscoRodriguez-dh7rr 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, Pat. I needed to hear this to steer my rapid growing younglings in a better manner.
@robertpennington1200
@robertpennington1200 3 жыл бұрын
You need to raise "happy" children. Successful almost immediately puts pressure on them to live up to some ideal. just make sure they are loved and given confidence and the rest will follow
@ex7229
@ex7229 Жыл бұрын
Hapiness isnt the most important thing in life it is a by product of other more important things. Accomplishment is a big one.
@JessicaOrban3606
@JessicaOrban3606 3 жыл бұрын
Great discussion and tips. Parents should also pay close attention to what the child needs as an individual. Rules are rules, boundaries are essential, but a one-side-fits-all approach on how to teach each kid doesn't work. I love that you said to not compare them to each other. One of my kids is very strong willed and asks 1000 questions. I love explaining things to him, and people are always blown away with how much he knows. If I just answered "because I said so" or "that's just the way it is", he would not feel valued or have his need to understand his world met. My other son is calmer and quieter, but he needs more emotional support and physical connection to feel loved and heard. They're both amazing little dudes, and I am so thankful for what they teach me.
@sonz4205
@sonz4205 Жыл бұрын
Old video but gold. Great advice as always!
@mR-dc4oq
@mR-dc4oq 3 жыл бұрын
I saw this and said YES! Why? I hadn’t even heard it yet but I have a lot of respect for you and your opinions. I had to listen. I had a lot of challenges in my life from a young age (who hasn’t?). I have one child and now grandchildren. That child of mine has grown up into an amazing, intelligent, successful (that’s measured in many ways) ,and loving human being. So now I’m working on my grandchildren!😌 Thanks for all of this. Good ideas and many I employed. They work!
@ZRSmetalgrooves
@ZRSmetalgrooves Жыл бұрын
What great insight and advice. I have 3 kids and this is very helpful to hear.. Thank you sir much appreciated, 👊
@michaelfalgares
@michaelfalgares 3 жыл бұрын
Really love the parenting videos you make. As a new father it’s very helpful
@nirolama112nd8
@nirolama112nd8 3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant! Thanks for the wisdom and the great advices.
@mercadosaldia8684
@mercadosaldia8684 3 жыл бұрын
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@JedymyJedymy
@JedymyJedymy 3 жыл бұрын
You are a machine Patrick - keep pushing 🚀💸🦈
@Luxurytainment
@Luxurytainment 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing - that’s a long time for a test !!
@Blazejones31
@Blazejones31 3 жыл бұрын
You just wanted the first comment didn’t even watch
@samarmas5082
@samarmas5082 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 36 years old, and I got 6 kids, 4 girls 2 boys. And they all have different personalities, so it is hard to raise them to be successful but I'm just trying to do my best and teach them about respect. Respect and honesty are really important. I paint cars in a bodyshop and a mechanic at home. So my kids like what I do and my daughters help me at home. They know how to use my tools and know their names. They are smart but I don't tell them , I let other people see and tell them that. And that makes me proud
@michaelcaine891
@michaelcaine891 3 жыл бұрын
√•W~•H~•A~•T~•S~•A~•P~•P•√ ~+~1~2~1~3~2~8~2~4~2~2~5~.........
@billionshadesgirl
@billionshadesgirl Жыл бұрын
Tell them that they are smart please. Coming from you, it will live forever in them
@wrbk19
@wrbk19 Жыл бұрын
As a father to a 2 year old son and another on the way, thank you for the great insight!
@rushrush1209
@rushrush1209 2 жыл бұрын
Be supportive and caring. Encourage them to succeed, but also show tough love. Make them accountable for bad decisions, and never reward bad behavior. Also, hope for some fortune as well.
@edsida
@edsida 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you pat and valuetainment team
@mercadosaldia8684
@mercadosaldia8684 3 жыл бұрын
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@kashemvai5025
@kashemvai5025 2 жыл бұрын
Im setting a reminder in email for 5 years so that i can rewatch this video
@paulasanda1486
@paulasanda1486 7 ай бұрын
I’m grateful for your knowledge. I wish you could open a school for parents! God bless you and your beautiful family!
@jordanwilliams8040
@jordanwilliams8040 2 жыл бұрын
I do the same with my kids. I made a list of the best 30 movies that we should watch together that are age appropriate for middle school. A great way to learn lessons outside of school
@ginatran4698
@ginatran4698 2 жыл бұрын
Would it be possible to share that list with us?
@jordosara
@jordosara 2 жыл бұрын
I would love to know your suggestions too. I have an 11 and 8 year old
@mshairdesign1800
@mshairdesign1800 2 жыл бұрын
F
@jordanwilliams8040
@jordanwilliams8040 Жыл бұрын
@jordosara FOREST GUMP THE COUNTE OF MONTE CRISTO FAR AND AWAY LEGENDS OF THE FALL DRAGON THE BRUCE LEE STORY CANT BUY ME LOVE SAVING PRIVATE RYAN RUDY CAPTAIN CORELLIS MANDOLIN A.I. INDIANA JONES first movie SCHINDLERS LIST at age 14ish Those are the ones I can remember for now
@Shiloh_Speaks
@Shiloh_Speaks 3 жыл бұрын
This is gold. I am listening.
@mmatrainee
@mmatrainee 3 жыл бұрын
I have never clicked so quickly AFTER thinking about the subject matter
@mercadosaldia8684
@mercadosaldia8684 3 жыл бұрын
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@melangreathouse2209
@melangreathouse2209 10 ай бұрын
Mr. Ben David, Brother, you are spot on here! Asking our kids( as early as 3!), is so enlightening to us parents. Kids are smarter than we take them for, and it takes a very sagacious person to be able to spot an exceptional child, and to develop their curiosity and intellect. HIGH KUDOS To You.
@sandip.7968
@sandip.7968 3 жыл бұрын
Such great advice, right on-target. My children are out on their own now, but how I wish I had been taught this when they were infants. Pat, you would be a fantastic instructor in a parenting class.
@TheNationalWellnessOrg
@TheNationalWellnessOrg 2 жыл бұрын
You are so so appreciated. Thank you. ❤️
@Frasianfamily
@Frasianfamily 2 жыл бұрын
I would say that you do know if you’re doing a good job in parenting before they become adults. If they regularly communicate with you, trust you, and want connection with you, then you’re doing good. Parent the kid you have, not the kid you want and they’ll be their best self.
@ex7229
@ex7229 Жыл бұрын
What if your kid is lazy and I want them not to he lazy. I guess I should accept that. No thanks I was able to steer that poor behavior out of them.
@theGodfella
@theGodfella 3 жыл бұрын
The best advice on children....have one. Pbd you da best
@michaelcaine891
@michaelcaine891 3 жыл бұрын
√•W~•H~•A~•T~•S~•A~•P~•P•√ ~+~1~2~1~3~2~8~2~4~2~2~5~.........
@Je.rone_
@Je.rone_ 3 жыл бұрын
Raising kid right is so difficult, and so important... but anyone with the urge to "you know what" can have kids😳😳
@freeindeed8416
@freeindeed8416 3 жыл бұрын
That’s crazy
@mrd799
@mrd799 3 жыл бұрын
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@elvinedmeade9846
@elvinedmeade9846 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. More please
@happycoconut8260
@happycoconut8260 3 жыл бұрын
Even I am not a parent or dating anybody, this is a good advice. Thanks Pat :)
@champtunes
@champtunes 2 жыл бұрын
Great points, thanks for sharing. As a new father, I appreciate this.
@ikickrocksi
@ikickrocksi 2 жыл бұрын
Hardest job I’ve ever had is being a mom but the most rewarding. ❤
@ruthchavarria119
@ruthchavarria119 Жыл бұрын
Thank You 🙏 Patrick, I also wanted to add, Always let Your Kids know how important they are as a person and to you as parent and How much Loved they are .
@debbiereynolds3498
@debbiereynolds3498 Жыл бұрын
We don't raise children, we raise adults ~
@christian_the_armstrong
@christian_the_armstrong Ай бұрын
Dang, well said!
@anxi3098
@anxi3098 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe a good example of a movie to watch with your children if they are 13 years or older is Hacksaw Ridge. I watched it with my dad when I was 12 years old and it taught me a lot about comradery and developing thick skin to prove people wrong.
@mercadosaldia8684
@mercadosaldia8684 3 жыл бұрын
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@GrowYourWealth101
@GrowYourWealth101 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing video Pat! 💪 Parenting is the most important part in your life! 🙏
@UnschoolingCOM
@UnschoolingCOM 3 жыл бұрын
Truth!
@GrowYourWealth101
@GrowYourWealth101 3 жыл бұрын
@@UnschoolingCOM 🙏
@salfetka
@salfetka 2 жыл бұрын
Love tbe parenting videos. More of them please. Which films apart from the 2 you mentioned we could watch with the children?
@gr8_22-15
@gr8_22-15 3 жыл бұрын
As a father, and who is someone who is constantly wanting to be better, this was one of your best videos for me. Thank you!
@blongth89
@blongth89 3 жыл бұрын
I press like,share and saved in the first 30 seconds. Awesome content
@Xlino
@Xlino 3 жыл бұрын
How do people dislike this? This is great advice!
@markcassara
@markcassara 3 жыл бұрын
*I am raising Twins and Triplets, and IT ISN'T EASY! Most days I feel like a huge failure... People outside the family tell us how good our kids are, so maybe we are doing something right :) Raising kids, running a business, working a 9-5 and trying to find the proper integration techniques is a science. Thank you for this insight PBD! Look forward to more on parenting from you!*
@markcassara
@markcassara 3 жыл бұрын
@Valuetainment b YOU ARE A SCAMMER!!!!!!
@hlengiwemasondo2858
@hlengiwemasondo2858 2 жыл бұрын
When you have doubts remember u are a great dad
@adebowalegbenga4316
@adebowalegbenga4316 3 жыл бұрын
My Mum used some of these your techniques on me, despite no father, and it worked like charm. Perfect!! I recommend this video for every responsible Parent out there 👌👌
@davidhoj
@davidhoj 3 жыл бұрын
never let my son win at board games, card games, sports, etc teaching the fundamentals needed for each ... went easy to build confidence, but now my son feels better beating the old man now
@MisterMonsterMan
@MisterMonsterMan 3 жыл бұрын
Keeping them out of the public school system could be a start. Separate school system or even home schooling if possible can give kids a big advantage over public educated kids. Especially with all this identity social justice type of stuff being taught in many public schools today.
@mariaguzman1552
@mariaguzman1552 3 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@kyleelyk2650
@kyleelyk2650 3 жыл бұрын
True that tan man ! The schools are a joke now days and I feel as if all it accomplishes for the majority is teach them to be an order follower Think for yourself question authority 😁
@TheSilverLining80
@TheSilverLining80 3 жыл бұрын
100%
@yeisonmartinez235
@yeisonmartinez235 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome advice! I just want to add how important it is to bless them with our words and affection, saying l love you, you are smart, strong, happy... Because we know the world outside is trying to tell them otherwise... Thank you PBD and God bless you!
@tomashbaugh8891
@tomashbaugh8891 2 жыл бұрын
Patrick- I love your natural curiosity! You are a great master of questioning and interviewing. You encourage me, thank you sir!
@VINTAGE-AMERICANA
@VINTAGE-AMERICANA 3 жыл бұрын
Patrick. Would you please give us 25 of the movies on your list? This would be most helpful for me to consider as a single father. --I have used documentaries, movies and other entertainment to help with life's lessons, but in the last few years I have found it time-consuming to decide which movies to watch. Little help please, and thank you for another very educational video.
@livelifewthanks5684
@livelifewthanks5684 Жыл бұрын
Wish I knew so many things when they were little …. To add those good and other’s good true concepts … but I am working at it… thank you for sharing ❤️🙏🏽
@pedramghozat
@pedramghozat 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Pat! Can you give us a top 50 movie list of yours?
@mariamataleo6784
@mariamataleo6784 3 жыл бұрын
💯💯🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️ I need that list too! Hope he sees your comment!
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