how to *really* spend time alone 🎀💭 aesthetic vlog | morning routine to night routine living alone

this video is all about why you need to spend time alone & foster the relationship with yourself :) through a living alone vlog
#aestheticvlog #livingalonediaries #morningroutine
00:00 have u been afraid to be alone?
01:52 why we should spend time alone
03:15 the world is unpredictable, rely on yourself
04:43 figure out your needs
07:48 be okay alone with your thoughts
08:59 loneliness vs being alone
11:12 better be alone, than with people who make you feel lonely
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[@daniklore]

as a person with social anxiety i always found it hard to go somewhere alone until i was put into a situation that was ‘go alone or not go at all’ it wasnt anything serious but it was important to me so i decided to gather myself and try to just go alone even tho ive never really go places alone. i ended up having so much fun on my own and talking to other people there which i thought i could never but here we go. stepping out of my comfort zone was a huge step for me but i know i should take it one day at the time. everything is going to be okay. when its not some kind of very important life decision but its on the other hand some daily small struggle, i always remind myself that i live on a floating rock. everything is going to be okay

[@RebeccaJayy]

love this 💗🌎

[@tomboyeeeyy12345]

Rigt!💘

[@user-tk2qt5ht1w]

We're you

[@taylorwolfram3871]

as a homeschooler, alone is definitely my favorite place to be, whether im on pinterest of yt, maybe reading a book of crocheting, having a random self care day, or whatever it is I feel like doing. Dont get me wrong, I love the days i have co-op or volleyball and hangouts with friends, but Alone is honestly amazing

[@mollyandpinkyplayingroblox2392]

I'm a online schooler so I can do a good amount of stuff before school.

[@miyawakiminjuu]

Watching your videos before bed is the best feeling!

[@corrine.talbot8]

I'm single and I love my single life!

[@hafsa3521]

Me too 🎉

[@corrine.talbot8]

@@hafsa3521 no men! Absolute fun! 🤣

[@Sasu123456789x1]

Same! ❤

[@MoonlitBookworm73]

Yes! Being single is not a bad thing and so many people seem to think it is.

[@nunereclipsereborn]

​@@corrine.talbot8Are goddesses created in a laboratory????????????

[@kyramalhotra2502]

The way you put things into words is beautiful!

[@whirl2]

thank you for doing videos! you make my day a lot better, especially now that I'm going through a hard time☺️

[@jensnomz]

love how you wrap all your thoughts in your vids! thanks for the share :)

[@mollypowell9878]

I love your videos! Your calm and positive attitude is infectious and a great way to start my day with❤

[@khushipatel1520]

Thank you for this video, really needed this because it's something I've been struggling with lately. Love your videos btw 💜💜

[@cl7581]

Hello Rebecca!! Tysm for this, your videos make me feel so much better and all the points you are making are spot on. Thanks so much for everything!!!

[@XxxAvaxxx921]

This girl has made my life chill,carm,Room makeover,have an asthestic house,asthestic morning and night routine ❤❤❤❤

[@lushangels3155]

This is an amazing video and I am an extrevort and it’s pretty hard for me to be alone and I always want someone to be with me even if I am just face timing them so this helped out a lot thanks

[@ghostthegirl]

i wish you made podcasts too arghh! your voice is so calming and everything you say is either comforting or inspiring. love your videos!~

[@andykolte5613]

Thank you so much for this video. I really needed this. I do struggle with this. I do spend time alone and like it a lot but it is very hard sometimes. You are awesome. Sending you love and hugs. Lots of love ❤✨️🫶💕💖🤌🩵🥹💘🫂🤎💙💚💓

[@_.moon._.x_.7]

LOVE IT! I’m obsessed with ur vids❤❤

[@cluverys]

I'm watching ur vids at 6am cuz they're aesthetic and really motivating! 🤭💗

[@lovelyjinmin]

what you say is all true! I want myself to be what I am I don't want to follow other people's words, because this is my world. thanks for motivation💞

[@shagunmohta3214]

u give me so much positivity, never stop posting

[@renee8906]

tbh i am so in love with your videos

[@iteite9488]

this was so calming and inspiring

[@Izzy_hii]

You are so motivating and inspiring, thank you so much for making these amazing videos

[@hayishkim9878]

Your video was so relaxing and much needed😊❤️🐰

[@sonyabratan2755]

I am so happy when I see a new video of yours.I love your videos,they really help me become the best version of myself and accept and love me.Thank you sooo much for posting,we love you❤❤❤And never forget:Your are soo beautiful and strong 🤗💕💕

[@britc2792]

I watch one of your videos every day to start my morning and it inspires me to be more productive ❤️

[@stonecoldgrace123]

that is an amazing idea

[@Luhvlaraa]

I like spending time by myself because I get to just listen to music or do other productive things, however I do like hanging out with people and just being around them. So both is great for me! :D

[@RebeccaJayy]

love that you have a balance💗

[@sallygarcia960]

Thank you, Rebecca for sharing your journey! :)

[@ambikadikshit4906]

Thankyou for healing me! Sending you the greatest hugs and positive vibes! 🥹💫❤️

[@RebeccaJayy]

☺️💗💗

[@staysunny1136]

🐰 :) You inspire me more than you will ever know! You always post just what I need. Watching your videos feels like connecting with a big sister who’s always got your back. I hope you know how amazing you are!

[@RebeccaJayy]

thank you for your support💗💗🐰

[@marccolomayt82094]

aesthetic morning routine vlog… sounds relaxing to me ❤ Rating: 10/10

[@Triplecharmlove810]

Heyy Rebecca your one of my favourite KZbinrs because I learn so much from you and your video’s are so interesting so I love you so much ❤ your the best❤

[@MaddilynDmlio]

Ily and ur vids and I’m also reading the inheritance games it’s very good and btw ur very pretty and motivate us

[@jigyasabharti837]

Watching your videos really make me comfortable 😊❤ and you will get well soon 😊

[@DariaSeminario]

omg your editing style is so cute!!!! 💗

[@DaughterOfTheKingdom16]

I am an only child so I am certainly very used to living alone. I never had to share a room with siblings and my parents worked opposite schedules so we barely did anything together. So I am usually hyper independent and interdependent with the relationships I do have. I used to always wonder why some of my friends cannot be alone but then I realize that a lot of them have siblings so they’re so used to sharing their space. Two years ago I went on a trip to Mexico with some friends and I’m the type of person like when I go out with friends I will just leave and kind of wander off and do my own thing because I am so used to just doing things by myself. All of my friends were like where are you going and I’m like why do you care where I’m going? I didn’t realize all of them are so used to having their brother or sister asking them where they’re going, but for me, I’ve never had anybody ask me like where I’m going besides, my parents when I was a kid. I didnt have any roommates until college and I left after a month couldnt stand it, then had 2 more roommates afterwards but thats it. I can never live with anyone unless in the future its my husband and children. So I love being alone and doing things on my own. Movies, concerts, restaurants, traveling. I’ve done it all solo

[@NomsaNdlovu-rf1ob]

I love coppying your routines❤️💛💚💙💜💓💞💕❣💝💘💖💗

[@christll06]

Yayy she postedd🎉❤

[@emileepaige]

This video was so pleasing to watch! Thank you!

[@hibalahmer9314]

You know what . I like watching ur vlogs before sleeping ik it's not the best choice cuz i can read or just go off screen but it's hard for me so i watch you instead your voice is so calm and realxing and better than watching drama episode after episode 😂❤

[@barbaracaleffe49]

I love my life! And I love watching your videos

[@dotpenji]

Hey Rebecca, excellent video and I love how open you are about life and how to navigate through it. The section where you focused on knowing what your needs are was so spot on! How do you expect to be satisfied in life and have meaning if you don't even know what you want? Great video and can't wait for the next one.

[@monalizapantoja8490]

It's an opportunity to reflect on your needs, goals, and happiness without external distractions.

[@monicasoriano8581]

Same here, I mostly found comfort in my solitude.

[@kristineambas]

Absolutely! This video is worth to watch ^_^

[@lyricssession5576]

Your aesthetic vlog is a masterpiece! From morning routines to night routines, you've nailed the art of spending quality time with oneself. Thanks for the inspiration!

[@ryanvalenzuela551]

Solid Content Thanks for the insights

[@carmencatalina9086]

I am ending my 3 day fast today and vlogged and posting today. And feeling good and motivated and podcast episode. Your videos are motivating.

[@lillianmarilley3884]

Oh my goodness I am struggling so much with this now, and it has really impacted my mental health, so this video came just in time. Ly 🥰🐰

[@RebeccaJayy]

☺️💗🐰

[@wei2gori]

loved this 💓💓

[@iluvv__sunghoon6114]

as a person who lost all of her friends , has social anxiety/anxiety and got bullied for the past three years this really helped me somehow to go outside whitout feeling scared.

[@shimmerngspirit]

I am so sorry about the wisdom tooth pain! I hope you feel better soon. . My cousin used to encourage me to take myself on dates when I was single. I realized I actually liked spending time with myself.

[@natthakamonsutthipanya8839]

I’m sooo enjoy while watching your video.🥰🥰

[@user-so3ug4gb6t]

Yay, I'm early! I know this will be so helpful

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

Good morning Rebecca happy Saturday morning and happy weekend and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you

[@nikachol]

I really like her, she gives me motivation

[@katiewithlove]

I feel like this video found me. Thanks for sharing :)

[@mansoor3159]

Yayyy!!! Finally Finally Rebecca you came with this vlog because I was eagerly eagerly waiting for this vlog you're looking so pretty and I wish you have a best day 💖💫🤗

[@RebeccaJayy]

have a great day too!☺️

[@paigeschiemann6225]

Favorite hobbies to do alone; journaling, reading, working out, painting, coloring, being outdoors

[@DAYSTAR-TV]

This is so suiting and relaxing to do

[@isaontheoffbeat1126]

I love reading and writing! 🥰 Watching Anime sometimes Yoga and journaling ✨

[@devanshishah5315]

Ur video is soo motivating!! also im earlyy

[@Itamy1912]

Nice to watch this today💗

[@TantasiaLavelle]

Yes I’m afraid to be alone but then again we came in this world alone so we have to learn to manage but we all can do it so yeah 😊

[@LexieMoon321]

A new video! Been looking forward all week! ☺️🤍

[@RebeccaJayy]

I hope you enjoy💗

[@kimmelizadejelo2484]

you've always taught me how to romanticize my life thank youu d so much for this video to remind mee, it helped me a lot especially now that i have some detachment issues. 🐰

[@brunagregolon6999]

the begining... just... perfect

[@ngaizualichhangte7002]

I love your video 💜

[@HoneyBeeDreamer]

Just got broken up w today… needed this ❤️❤️

[@elisadannibale8809]

Hi Rebecca ❤, i always wait for your new video and you never deceive. Your videos are so cool and calm, and also you deal important topic, like this one. ❤ I know what you mean, i always try to cut a little time for my self and stay alone in nature or maybe in one of my favorite place ❤, hope you feel better with your tooth pain. ❤❤ I give you a big hug and positive vibes 😊.

[@rheannellanorit]

AHHHHHHH new vlog

[@sugandhaapte5010]

Hi Rebecca hope you tooth pain has stopped bothering you now , I just want you to know how u enlighten my worst days and make the valuable . Lots of love ❤️ have a good day

[@KittyKatSlimes]

Hi! love your videos❤

[@bushriinaofficial4039]

I watch this video before l start my day❤

[@nikkikeiley9817]

This couldn't have come at a perfect time I broke my leg so I had to leave my husband and family and son to go to rehab therapy for my leg I've learned a lot about my self and it's been hard I've been away for almost a month now it's getting easier but your words have truly helped me because I've been so depressed being lonely thank you Becca 💗

[@MoonlitBookworm73]

I hope your recovery is swift and you are able to see them soon! ❤

[@AylaAei]

You inspire me ❤

[@ankitadas231]

You're the best ❤❤

[@zule9696]

Thank your for a new vlog 🐰

[@cj_369]

I left a toxic abusive marriage in 2020 and now spend every second of every day 1 million percent alone. At first it all seemed cool and I loved my independence. But after 3.5 years of complete and utter isolation, I’m depressed as _____ and often feel like this is the worst possible way to live on this planet and often wish I wasn’t even here anymore. Careful what you wish for!! 🙌

[@sujalgameti]

your vedios are inspiration ❤️

[@a.m.5456]

I'm learning that now while recovering after breakup. I felt better with someone but time alone can be fulfilling too. My biggest problem though is that I find it hard to find things to do... let's say I have a whole day off, can't meet with anyone that day, it's scorching outside so no walks etc.. I do some hobbies for a bit but ending up on my phone anyway

[@limelover]

🐰❤ thank you for such an amazing video!

[@RebeccaJayy]

☺️🐰 glad you enjoyed!

[@wei2gori]

also, hope that your dry socket is all healed up and feeling better now •ᴗ•

[@kaths.cottage]

Thank you for your videos. They are so affirming💗 I hope your mouth feels better soon!🦷

[@blcats.mp4]

I hope this message finds you well. I just wanted to take a moment to let you know how much of an inspiration you are to me. Your talent for creating aesthetic vlogs is unmatched, and I am always in awe of the effort and creativity you put into each and every one of them. Watching your videos has become a source of joy and motivation for me, as you have a unique ability to brighten up my day with your content. The way you capture moments, curate beautiful visuals, and share your experiences is truly remarkable. It's evident that you pour your heart and soul into your craft, and it truly shows. I genuinely admire your dedication and the passion you have for vlogging. You have proven time and time again that hard work and authenticity pay off. Your vlogs have not only provided me with entertainment but have also taught me the importance of chasing my own dreams, no matter the obstacles. I just wanted to express my gratitude for the positive impact you've had on my life. You have created a real connection with your viewers, and for that, I am truly grateful. I wish you nothing but the best in all your future endeavors.

[@RebeccaJayy]

Hi there, I wanted to thank you so much for your kind words 💗 I was having a difficult day and your comment really was able to brighten my day. I appreciate you and the time that you take to watch my videos so much and I hope that you’re able to achieve your dreams whatever they may be💗 sending you love!

[@stephybaby974]

Amazing 🥰

[@rawr_ari]

As a kid I always thought that I needed to be around my friends or else I would be lonely and sad (since am an only child) but now I understand that I don’t have to be around my friends to have a good time! 💕💕 GIRL AM ALSO CHINESE and I live in canada too! 😋

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[@YohansRelationshipAdvice]

Nothing wrong with not wanting to be alone. Some people don't have the strength to be alone and I don't see anything wrong with that. I think we are stronger together and in love and also we don't fight for love hard enough and we aren't desperate enough for love or marriage. I personally don't like spending time alone but a balance is nice.

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its not even funny how bad i need this... i never clicked so fast.

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My name is Adiba and i love your channel it really inspired me. I'm 13 years old and I have gone through a lot. I I had toxic friends and I stop being friends with them I know I have two really really really really good kind and supportive BFFs whom I am so grateful to have. Often I become really lazy and stop taking care of myself and and stop keeping track on stuff and stop doing my work/ homework and you Channel inspires me to be more productive than lazy and I love watching videos so much. Because of you now I have really good grades and on track of everything I need to keep track of. I love you so much I hope you see this!❤ you are helping me a lot through my tough journey I am currently going through!!! ❤😊 Please give feedback if you can!?!

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I like your video

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You are like the big sister I never had 🤍

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I love your shorts but prefer a good old fashioned vlog. I feel it's a better way to get to know you. Peace 🕊️

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[@Fatiath]

Have you ever tried making a podcast series ? I think you’d be pretty good at it 😊

[@RebeccaJayy]

I’ve gotten a lot of comments to make one! maybe in the future💗