How To Sexually Escalate - Without Looking Creepy

How do you sexually escalate with women without looking creepy? It's one fo the biggest fears guys have and one of the most common questions I get asked by clients when they've lined up dates.
IT's so easy to feel awkward and uncomfortable trying to change the topic of conversation on a date to anything sexual, or to try and land a first kiss.
But often this is because we've hidden that part of our selves right from the beginning.
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[@AlternateKek]

This is the part I am the worst at LOL! So many times I am literally being handed the P and I fuck it up because I bad at escalating it.

[@supercat8755]

Wow this makes sense, gotta try what you said . Thanks for the amazing content 👍

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

My pleasure!

[@HighHopesAndDreamsWill]

True. Good points. Agree

[@undrakhalimbai6289]

You are doing great job! I appreciate what you do what anybody can not talk about. As you allow us to tell our experience, there is a situation that you did not mention. I sometimes allow the man touch my body (not having sex). But it’s never about I like him or I don’t like him, just a situation because I’ve not been doing it for long time and I can not hold myself anymore:-( How do I get a private coaching from you? Hope you respond, Best regards

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Hey mate, thank you for the appreciation - send me an email [e-mail] and we can talk about coaching there :)

[@Cloxxki]

I've not been the type that escalated in public. Once reaching the couch or sitting to gether stage, it's proven very powerful to me to just allow passive closeness to warm her up. Gentle caresses on the outside thigh with the back of the hand. Maybe a slight bit more. When the woman gets the idea that she wants it more than the guy does, a beast awakens.

[@Nijlandboy]

I feel a lot of times that I have these initial feelings turned off somehow. I know for a fact I like the girl, but the "nasty/sexual" energy one would normally have is just very hard to come out. I also handicap myself by being a peoples pleaser. What do I mean by that? I am very good at communicating in every other setting. I take a look at someone, see how the react, am confident about what I am saying, use humor, good body language and calibrate during the convo to make sure that the convo is appreciated. I never adjust my opinions to fit the person I talk to. But I guess just this particular setting of going out to a bar/club setting where females are out there to be talked to by cool males, it is just unusual. Rejection is something that never happens in these scenarios. I always get good feedback, a smile, a laugh etc. But rejection is part of putting oneself out there. You see how they contradict eachother? I should probably start daygaming! However, any tips of opening oneself up to these sexual feelings every man has? Becasue like you said, the moment you have these feelings / thoughts in your head and you communicate, people will notice/feel it.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Well the best place to start is when you aren't hitting on the women the women so like.. when girls are serving you at shops, or when sitting on a bus, or at work etc... Just get comfortable having that energy in a space that you would normally suppress it - but that isn't as hardcore as doing an actual approach.

[@Straga_Severa]

Hmm, that's very interesting. Because of your advices about sexual tension, I got an unusually good date with a cute girl a few days ago. I'm gonna use this advice about sexual escalation on my next date with her, we'll see if I manage to get it to work ;-)

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Great to hear mate :)

[@Straga_Severa]

@@SchoolOfAttraction Yeah, it worked fully! Thanks ^_^

[@lavans06]

Being around women isn't the issue...it's when you want to begin approach then you forget to be present and thoughts creep in. So it's easy to 'look from afar' or gaze or whatever So just as you said earlier not to push those thoughts down, then similarly, don't have said thoughts to begin with? --> Me the socially anxious introvert

[@Cloxxki]

What if you say that a guy was just going off on another guy on how hot she looks and would like to share a great time with her? And if she asks who, just say "that was totally me, why?"

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Sorry Cloxxi, I can't quite make sense of the question :/

[@benjaminoake]

@@SchoolOfAttraction think what the person means is if you go to a girl and tell her that a guy thinks she looks good etc. and she then asks: "who's the guy?" You then reply "that guy would be me, why?"

[@Cloxxki]

@@benjaminoake Bingo, thank you. A typo and short hand ruined my question, sorry. Bit of a cheeky way to introduce oneself as somehow how has the hots for her.

[@stormyboy129]

This should be taught at school instead of the useless math calculations.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Sign me up!

[@ProfWho-ut5he]

I'm never around (single) attractive women 🙁

[@ProfWho-ut5he]

@Tuscan417 No, big city. I am writing a book about sexual dynamics, and as a researcher I made an experiment. Over the past few years I interviewed the most attractive women I could find, all across the world. So far I am at 236 women that I interviewed. Basically, I talked to every 9+ out there that I could find. Of those, not one was single. 236 out of 236 were in long-term relationships; most of them married . (Note : I only included really attractive women in this. Good looks is not enough ; they need to appear feminine and good behaved). Highly attractive women are always taken, no exceptions. When guys say the opposite, they usually refer to women who are not really attractive. If a woman has a nice character, is healthy (physically and mentally) and good looking, there is no reason in the world why she would be single. Not happening.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Hey mate - there is a very large amount on unscientific things you have positied in your 'research'... A proper study wouldn't do the following: 1) Use one man's assessment of attractiveness as any kind of reliable reference point 2) Use a vaguely defined scale such as "feminine and good behaved" Also, as a guy who isn't a researcher but is in bars and clubs a lot, I can tell you the world is full of very attractive, intelligent, feminine women who are single. I'm sure that more than half are in relationships at any point in time - but one step into a classy bar aught to put your research findings in doubt. Also, I'd offer my left testicle as a wager that no guy here could walk out in public and without looking for wedding rings, successfully find 236 taken women in a row. Statistically, think about this - you're suggesting that at least over 99.5% of attractive women are in relationships - Social Science never gives anything so well defined.

[@ProfWho-ut5he]

@@SchoolOfAttraction Great to see you in the comments gain. Love your dedication.
Yes, you are right with almost everything you say. First, of course, this ‘research’ is just my subjective world, e.g. it’s not an overall assessment of how things are. Second, of course, when I approach women, there it is difficult to have a scientifically valid scale for behaviour and attractiveness. What should that be? I think it doesn’t matter. What matters is that I am attracted to woman or not because of their behaviour. My experience is that those women that I love due their characteristic behavioural traits are also loved by other men, and therefore, they are not on the dating market anymore. But -as a researcher - I was very well aware of these bottlenecks - that’s why I did a proper scientific study (actually I did several) to test what really is going on - more to it further down. Where I have totally but really absolutely disagree with you is your assessment, saying that “…the world is full of very attractive, intelligent, feminine women who are single”. There you are simply wrong and I can prove it to you. Again, I did a lot of research on this, and my numbers are convincing. I may send you a paragraph of what I wrote, but I haven’t finished the chapter yet. In any case, please don’t forget; I am not only a researcher, I am also a normal man who is going out into the world. As I am older than you, I can say that I likely have more experience than you. I estimate that I talked to about 40,000 women over the decades. I went out literally thousands of times. Most women are not attractive nowadays. And those who are, they are not on the market. When I go out, I usually do not see a woman I am interested in. There may be hot women, but not attractive ones. Maybe every now and then; about one to two women each month. So far, never ever, one of these girls was single. I am going out into bars, clubs, business meetings, streets, airports. Lounges etc.. since almost 40 years; I have a lot of experience. Here is why I think you and some other dating coaches have a disagreement with my numbers: You say that - according to my numbers - statistically, at least 99.5% of attractive women would be in relationships. And that is exactly what is happening. My guess is around 99.9%. In very rare cases, a highly attractive women may be in-between relationships. But not for long. (I also interviewd a few 10s, and they all admitted to monkey branching; meaning they were never single since age 16 or so). I have the data to prove it. If she is intelligent, has a university degree, has a job, no history of psychological illness etc.. statistics from Sweden and Germany show that such women are - on average - 90%+ in long-term relationships. But these numbers include all ugly, fat, and feminist women. So to assume a 99%+ “taken’ rate is actually to be expected and exactly what I observed for highly attractive, feminine women. I think your view on this (and I found it repeatedly with other coaches) is affected by your assessment of what is attractive. I went out into day- and nightlife with many coaches, and we almost always disagreed with what girls are attractive. They all have very low bars of what they thought was attractive. They would say “Hey. Look at her, she is hot”, and I would say she is a 4 or 5, maybe a 6 at best. Where we never disagreed though was when I liked a girl; then they always always always agreed. And that’s why those girls are never single! One reason, I think, lies in the fact that almost all coaches have their origin in pickup; where you subconsciously select for hotness, but not overall quality and attractiveness. The 236 women I approached were all 9s or 10s, where I would classify a 10 as 1 in 1,000 women of a certain age group. So, the creme de la creme of attractive women. But to come to the point; yes, my personal experiences are not scientific; that’s why I did a proper study. I asked people online to think about the three most attractive men and women they know (I gave an explanation what I mean with attractive); and then they had to write the relationship status of those people. So far, I have data to almost 650 women who are ranked as the most attractive women. No influence of my own taste; this is a proper scientific study. So far, ALL the women identified as highly attractive in the study, 100% were in relationships, proving that my theory that 99%+ of the highly attractive women are taken is - in fact -absolutely true. qed We should jump on a call discussing this; I would love to discuss it in more detail.

[@DmitriOrtsiev]

@@ProfWho-ut5he This is very interesting. So you pretty highlighten the most attractive women and studied them. I'm extremly picky, but I think you passed me like F1 car! Just out of curiosity, would you mind name or show what girls you consider are 10? Or 9. Physically I mean.

[@DmitriOrtsiev]

@@ProfWho-ut5he Yeas, of course. The attraction originates from several "angles". Sometimes a girl is a 9 physically but then you see the way she speaks and behavies and she looses all the points. And sometimes it's other way around. I'll check out the movies you named. On pictures only Grace Kelly looks stunning! And I think my best friend has her photo hanging on the wall of his room.

[@NickGreiner1988]

If you think you need to watch this video, it means you don't have the natural instinct to do whatevers involved in escalation... In other words, it can't be over because it never began .. give up.