Your opening statement re positivity got my full attention. Been saying for years- change the conversations you have with yourself about your hair. It all starts there. Besides drying an styling my washday isn't even an hour. The time I leave my deep conditioner on and airdrying takes the time. Also its about attitude. I shampoo and then do housework while deep conditioning. If I do kids' hair, I detangle and shampoo, then deep condition while kiddo has breakfast or a snack or watch a cartoon while I make pancakes or a treat or we do a quick art project. While styling we watch something on TV. I find if kids' are distracted or I add a treat that they really enjoy ..... Something they like that only gets done on washdaymakes things are just so much easier. I don't have kids but I used to wash friends' kids hair to give them time to do some housework or run errands. So washday was a treat for kids. You know how kids are ..... I do exactly what their moms' do but they don't fuss wheb I do it ..... Simply cos I am not their parent. But I learnt I had to make things fun. And yes it takes half an hour. They spend more time playing with foam bath and bath crayons or making snacks or doing a quick craft than we actually spend on hair. And then there's this thing of copying me. So I do my hair while doing theirs and let their moms' try skipping a step when I don't do their hair ...... They will remind mom promptly what they're supposed to do. Washdays for kids can and should be fun. Do what you wished your wasdays were like as a kid. I know mine were horrible until a big cousin taught me how she did her washday and I took over my own washing and conditioning and mom only did the styling.
@ncbynovella2 ай бұрын
Wow thanks for sharing! I agree 💯 with everything you wrote especially "Do what you wished your wash days were like as a kid" that right there 👏🏾.
@rosetranvan87083 ай бұрын
I too have a lot for my daughter's hair thanks to your routines, her hair has changed and grown a lot. All black or African mothers must know you. Thank you from Senegal and France May God bless you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@ncbynovella3 ай бұрын
Hey sis 👋🏾! Wow Senegal and France, how lovely. So happy my videos are helping you to confidently care for your daughter's hair. Thank you, God bless you too 🙏🏾
@LisetteNgah3 ай бұрын
Thank you for these beautiful videos as usual. Thank you so much. I am following from Cameroon🇨🇲 and the knowledge you share has been a game changer for my hair and my nieces hair that i also care for. God bless you❤
@ncbynovella3 ай бұрын
Aww you're so welcome sis, wow all the way from Cameroon 👋🏾! I'm so pleased to read this. Comments like yours honestly keeps me going and is a confirmation that I'm doing something right. May God bless you too 🙏🏾👑
@rosetranvan87083 ай бұрын
I too have a lot for my daughter's hair thanks to your routines, her hair has changed and grown a lot. All black or African mothers must know you. Thank you from Senegal and France🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@unedited31713 ай бұрын
Hi Novella Thanks for the information. Do you provide hair consultation for adults living in the Uk? Thanks in Advance.
@ncbynovella3 ай бұрын
You're welcome! No just children currently (worldwide) 👑
@unedited31713 ай бұрын
Thanks for the reply.Hopefully in the future, this is something you will look into my dear. Many of us ladies who are currently natural weren't taught how to take care of our hair when when growing up- so we are now struggling. Xx Isle of Wight.
@ncbynovella2 ай бұрын
@unedited3171 you're welcome, I'll definitely consider it for the future 👑
@misselle14303 ай бұрын
I have been watching everything on mute for sooo long due to my newborn that I have to say ...beautiful voice 😅❤❤❤ But she's turning 3 so I really should get back to reality some time soon 😅😅
@ncbynovella3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂! Thank you sis, I remember those days of watching things on mute because of my newborn 😂