How to Sing Quietly & Practice Singing When Others Can Hear You

[@TheSeeking2know]

This is less about technical singing and more of a method to overcome mental limitations and emotional stunting from the fear of criticism and judgment. I hope a lot more people find this video and discover their voices over time.

[@VirtualTeachingPro]

I completely agree with you here and thanks so much for voicing this thought.

[@jacksunbbx]

Facts, that's actually a huge step for most people

[@seufimeaqui9034]

Bruh i literally can’t do it, if i could i would but i just cant when my father works right there, in the other room, literally beside mine

[@amandataylor2487]

How do I overcome my mental critical listeners

[@TheSeeking2know]

@@seufimeaqui9034 Yeah that's a challenge indeed.

[@ralucamm]

I don't know why but I bursted out crying after singing along with you in my blanket. I think something inside my head unlocked, some mental blocker that I wasn't even aware of. I think this was the first time I've felt fully free singing, unafraid of being heard and judged. Thank you so much for sharing this idea with us. For formulating it so well, for taking it beyond a simple trick to muffle out your sound, but for also communicating it on an emotional and psychological level.

[@ElowenFaye]

this is beautiful, thank you for sharing your experience! :)

[@amynelson1682]

Same here. I literally have just busted out in release and crying. I had no idea how scared I am to be heard and Im normally sp loud. But this is clearly the mental block that has me forming bad habits. I want to be heard and I also my psychi must not want me to be heard because Im afraid. I had no idea thay evrty time I feel unheard that I actually stop singing poorly and stop with blocks on my false vocal fold being constricted and what seems like spme other constricted areas.

[@Catthepunk]

I feel like I need that. I just end up laughing and feeling like shit lol.

[@carolinastringband]

​@@Catthepunk I thought for the longest time I'd never be able to sing, and actually sound ok. Too many people told me over the years-Icouldn't, I don't have the voice, etc.. For too long, I believed them, they were wrong! With a little dedication, study, practice and tenacity-you can too! I promise you! Best of luck my friend!

[@Catthepunk]

@@carolinastringband thanks g

[@maddalenamissori8741]

I learnt to sing quietly because my parents always told me not to be loud, but because of this I don't know how to sing loudly🤣 when I try to sing loudly I completely lose control of my voice

[@chanelleg9189]

Omg! Same here , my parents always told me not be loud and I learned how to sing quietly

[@charleswaqa4997]

ME TOO!!!!

[@fitt5137]

so relatable 😭

[@meta5175]

Ahhh same!

[@JayyeMusic]

yep i hate it too

[@TheMorganeClub]

This is INCREDIBLE! I’m moving out into an apartment for the first time and I really needed this! SOMETIMES YOU JUST WANT TO SING FOR YOURSELF, not for everyone around can hear you ❤️❤️❤️

[@zubinmistry3656]

Thank you so much . My deepest gratitude for being you. Lots of love to All 😇💞🙏

[@VirtualTeachingPro]

yes 100%!! I feel you on this. I try to find time each week to just sing for me and living in NYC that can be... a little uncomfortable. this trick totally helped.

[@Concosis]

I always say that a good teacher (in any field) is someone who can think FROM the mindset of the student. This sort of intuitive lead allows the student to be cultivated from within, rather simply directed from without. So, thank you always providing such a well rounded experience! I truly grow through your videos!

[@atriyakoller136]

As a teacher I can say that I'm trying to do that but it is super hard. Because every student is so different, and as a student I often have a different goal from other students (I'm a foreign language teacher and my goal is actually to just learn about the language or how it works and functions versus being fluent in communication, I always put it into the secondary position in terms of goals) but it's very important to understand what students need and want and that actually allows me to kind of resonate with them in a way that can make them understand the material better

[@adamh4h4]

@@atriyakoller136 You're fine as long as you have some EMPATHY towards each human you teach / encounter. Problem is when you get some Sociopath + narcissist teacher who don't give a f*ck about your situation and say things like "You're stupid. JuSt Do iT." like a brain-dead, rude idiot. Ultimately, its less of a Teacher / teaching problem but a basic, fundamental Human one. You're fine.

[@kabinskakabunska1669]

What a coincidence 😁 I just "sang" into my blanket yesterday. Although it was more screaming to let go of anger, tension and frustration. I also let music play and sang along sometimes into the blanket 😄👏🏼 Great!

[@BashkirCurlyGirl]

Love this idea, wish I'd known this when I was an apartment-dweller! Two things I noticed when I tried it just now: I laughed myself silly at the thought of my husband walking in on me trying to smother myself, and when I attempted said pillow-singing the cats ran in to check on me with very concerned expressions and meows. 😂

[@lisspunch873]

MY dog did this too!!!! 😂😂😂

[@TheSeeking2know]

They'll get used to it soon.

[@moomoodymoo]

This is exactly what my heart and soul needed 🖤 I feel like I've lost my voice ever since I moved into the college dorms, and then every year after living with roommates or in small apartment. Thank you so much for this! I'm excited to start truly singing again.

[@yeshuamusic5102]

Wow this was incredible. Not only great for singing but there is deep therapeutic value in this exercise for those affected by trauma in their childhood.

[@Sisnomore]

Super helpful tips! Tysm ❤ As a songwriter I am always needing to play around with my voice to figure out the melodies. I feel really self concious about anyone hearing me and it can really put a damper on the creative process.

[@TavinOriginal]

Literally one of the most BRILLIANT IDEAS EVER! I suddenly feel so free to sing whenever and however I want, thank you so, SO MUCH!

[@billdemaineiii6979]

Oh my gosh… I needed this tip desperately. We live Downstairs. We sold our home in town and build a beautiful place downstairs to help our grandmother out. She lived to be 97. I could sing my heart out down there, because she really didn’t hear me much annnnd… she wasn’t a singer. Then, in the last year and a half… in-laws moved in upstairs. He is an incredible singer and piano player. So I stopped singing fully. Not ‘loud’ as you’d mentioned… but, I sand before in a way that was my true voice, fully supported and flexible. Well, when they moved in… I kid you not, it was like he was in the other room, listening and critiquing. So, I got quieter. I noticed flaws and mistakes. I didn’t ‘express’ properly and healthily. That holding back… hurt my voice. Soon, I was clearing my throat, and just getting worse. Now, with the information your video… I will be able to reach my natural, comfortable level of pressure and easy of just letting it out as pretty as it can be, without the fear of undo and imagined criticism. Thanks so much. I know this is a perfect example of what you were trying to help us with. So I hope my story will encourage you in knowing you’ve really made a difference in not only my singing, but in my daily life. Thank you so much. God bless🙂🙏🏼🙌🏾🎶

[@jackcrescend]

Yesssss, I've been using a sing pillow for maybe a year now, it's nice to feel validated :)

[@sugah_redd]

Thank you for this because I have pretty much said annoying the crap out of my neighbors is worth not losing my voice and how much progress I’ve made as a singer.

[@PlayMyDarling]

Can you do more videos that focus on singers' psychology? :D I feel like this is an aspect that is rarely talked about.

[@VirtualTeachingPro]

Yes, I would love more videos on this as well! You are so correct that the psychology of performing isn't talked about openly very often. The more we can have these conversations the more we can really help with the emotional and mental health challenges that come with being in this industry.

[@melavie7119]

Yes please! I also would be interested in that type of content!

[@lisaadams8004]

Finally. A singer that knows how to help quiet voices. Cant wait to try out the blanket method when practicing.

[@dwheel39]

Thank for addressing this common problem for us who live in apartments

[@djblackjackshellac]

I usually do my exercises into a pillow, or into my bare arm for even more deadening. Another tip, if you play guitar or piano: I have a linen mask from covid days. It has an adjustable strap for a tight fit. It also has a pocket for a filter, but instead I put a pair of socks in there. It mutes my full voice by probably 60%. So you can sing and play with no worries.

[@ColonelFredPuntridge]

RE: "Two types of singers: those who hesitate and those who overcompensate" Some of us are versatile, and do both!

[@benbenbus]

I feel so mad, I really have never been alone my entire life and it sucks, thank you for helping me quite a bit more, I'm afraid of just everyone telling me to shut up

[@paulasposili7572]

I've always sang in the basement of my childhood home. The basement had great acoustics, and it was my safe place to do many other fun activities, play ping pong, roller skate, pool, dance, watch t.v. and sometimes just to have an extra quiet place to fall asleep. 😊

[@kathrynclass2915]

I swear you are reading my mind and creating videos for the exact things I am struggling with (in this case) or needing to work on (in past cases). From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU 🥰✨

[@luckycat2398]

This is all so helpful. I like that you talk about confidence and the fear of being judged. I tend to underestimate how much those things affect me.

[@nghin4vacsf]

Wow! Why hadn't I thought of this? I can now do my exercises without hesitation. Thank you Ms. Harvey. ▲

[@artjunkie19]

I’ve always had a fear of public speaking and a fear of being judged. As I get older it’s gotten worse. I can’t tell you how much I need this right now. Thank you for addressing this.❤

[@Hexspa]

I find that singing with ear buds / iems also helps. After doing this for awhile, I find that I think I’m a lot louder than I am.

[@mobinamohammadi3839]

This was the most helpful thing i’ve learned over anything! because im always that kind of person who hesitates for the exact same reasons you mentioned and never really thought about mentioning it to anyone cuz i thought it’s a me problem so cuz all of that i can only enjoy practicing when im home alone Thanks you sooo much for this💗💗💗

[@johnperry6874]

This is an astonishing breakdown. So glad I found this🎶 THANK YOU

[@MichaelAntus]

Wonderful advice Madeleine. Much respect...

[@Almarsu79]

Honestly, that's a true talent and a gift to be able to teach the audience the way you do. THANK YOU SOOO MUCH for your guidance and advices ❣️

[@britony381]

This video has changed my life. Thank you so much ❤❤❤❤❤

[@dottie_mayfield]

This video just changed my life ....wow thank you so much wow wow wow wow didn't realize I was walking into such honest introspection of myself and I couldn't be happier this moment came!!!! Omg thank you what!?!?! Ahhh I'm so grateful right now.

[@Bytheewaay]

Wow! This is a great great idea for a video! I've just got the notification and can't wait to see it!

[@zenetheajones2858]

LOVE IT! TRULY GOD SENT!! A BLESSING TO ME! ❤️

[@jacobespinola9335]

Living in an apartment, this is a solid tip and trick. Thank you for sharing.

[@straighttalker3459]

Ha! You have done it again darlin!” It seems you read my mind on a regular basis!!!!

[@phoebenevins9629]

This was so helpful, thank you so much!

[@cygnelle1232]

Dude what!? This is the wisest, most somatic, most trauma-informed singing advice I've ever heard 👏👏👏

[@arlosethv]

Singing in the perspective of the environment you grew up in is top tier understanding. 🤯

[@zhiarempola]

Thank you for this!💕 Its too accurate for my situation lol it felt like this video was made for me. 🙈

[@viniciussanctus]

Best advice i've heard in decades of singing! Thx for that, just improved my singing voice immensely!!!

[@spookybuk]

Thank YOU for including yourself into my musical journey :)

[@crash936]

Good hand work

[@viktoriab4293]

It's really about finding the space where you overcome fear of judgement/ an overly critical environment and ask yourself: am i expressing myself fully? 1. Do you hesitate or push more under pressure? Between those is freedom, freedom of expression 2. what do u need to feel safe? 3. Sing into a blanket and see what it feels like then ask: did I express myself fully? And try it out loud. This can help activate intuitive expression.

[@ciaopete]

Thank you so much for posting this video. Part singing, part therapy all brilliant. Liked and subscribed :-)

[@VirtualTeachingPro]

These are my fav type of videos just like said with part singing and part therapy :)

[@BetyKawaii]

lovely dress and beautiful voice.

[@chelseadaley9770]

Thx for this I really needed to hear this from someone else that’s actually knows the real truth

[@marciavox8105]

Your most recent videos about mindset for singers and inner self-talk have been incredibly helpful! The video about envisioning yourself using your voice in the highest level you wish, and then viscerally feeling those emotions that you will experience in that moment, was extremely powerful! It helped me past a mental block that I have had since I was young. Thank you, and keep it up!

[@tanayaberry]

Thank you so much! It was so much easier to sing. Now I know that I could never sing to my fullest potential, even after so much practice, because of my fear of judgement. The cover trick helped a lot! :)

[@ranasinghdeo2299]

Excellent Ma'am 👍👍

[@VirtualTeachingPro]

THANK YOU! I'm living in NYC and couldn't find a way to practice in my apartment and feel safe while expressing myself fully.

[@emokid2916]

Thank you!!!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@timotimorrison3448]

Amazing come back to youtube. Glorious intro.

[@danjosephmusic]

The ‘belt box’ is good for this too, pillows are cheaper, freedom of expression can often be overblown, you articulated so well the balance I think of as no man’s land, the sensation of onset as well as freedom and flow is important, all need to be explored without inhibitions. Thank you 💫

[@lekaniko]

This is so useful thank you so much

[@ca8547]

I learned how to sing quietly because of Morissette because she’s such a good speech level singer. It’s all about speech. Singing is just supported speaking.

[@anneaugustin1155]

The therapy session I didn’t know I needed

[@victoriaskyful]

An incredible video. You’re amazing for even thinking of and sharing this.

[@madeupname3008]

This is so fun and useful!!

[@carolinastringband]

Thank you! A practical recommendation!

[@kimmynguyen2608]

Exactly what I am looking for love it.. thanks so much 💐

[@FitnessnFaith]

You explained this very well!

[@Asheuri]

The best vocal teacher on yt

[@Vinitafoto]

Exactly what I needed 😍🙏🏻

[@sugarfreedom]

Funny, I went outside and sang Balfe's I Dreamt I Dwelt In Marble Halls to the chickens last evening. :)

[@DotsSinging]

Great video Madeleine, I've seen so many students with the same issue. Singing into a wardrobe is another good idea.

[@billdemaineiii6979]

Dang, was that you playing the piano? I knew you were pretty and so smart about singing and human voice anatomy. But, that is one of the prettiest things I’ve ever seen.

[@krodby5893]

THIS!! I’ve been searching for this!!! 🔑

[@michaelbernard2797]

This is deep stuff. Thanks!

[@lon90x]

So cool of u, sis❤️

[@koogan1965]

Fantastic video. Thank you

[@tkctrlofevltn]

Thank you so much

[@elisabethmurrell5179]

Super useful approach! Thank you.💖

[@powers6253]

This is fantastic!

[@justinpiper8756]

Madeleine is Back💥 bigger & brighter than ever💃✨ Yes!!! Thankyou💐🍎

[@pieahgee8180]

My favorite vocal teacher is back 😊😇

[@christianreyesmusica]

so usefull class, thanks so much, this is a really interesting topic and first time I see something about.

[@Japtune1]

This is exactly what I need!!!

[@labrabellart1380]

I have CPTSD, and one of my triggers is being too loud. I have this constant fear that I'm going to bother people by being too loud. I love to hum and sing and I'm desperate to learn to sing more, but this fear gets in my way so much. Here's hoping this video helps me achieve my goals! Edit - 2:22 I wrote my comment before getting to this part. Now I feel called out 😂

[@calabriafoti4508]

Thank you so much!!!

[@TheProtestantPope]

Hi Maddie Harvey, a few years have lapsed since you did my vocal evaluation......just popped in to show you where my voice is at in 2022......it has grown and evolved massively.....religiously been doing scale exercises now I am a vocal beast....a force to be reckoned with all around the neighbourhood and BEYOND. I also notice you no longer offer your vocal evaluation service so this is the best way to reach you with one of my latest video covers. I'll post it separately under this post just in case you block posts with KZbin links this specific post will still be visible. Hope all is well in your life in general and you musical life more specifically. Keep the dream alive for yourself and others.

[@apg4068]

Love the new intro!!! Yes!!!

[@berttingal]

this video is helpful.

[@sumglory24]

Awesome. Thank you😁

[@shikhasonik4496]

god bless you !!!

[@OtaConnor]

Didn't know this was exactly what I needed

[@thewhatnow]

starts at 4:33

[@Myriako]

Thank you so much for this video! 😀🌺

[@catch.2022]

This is super useful. Thank you!

[@QueenB33-s3b]

Do you give diagnostic reviews of audio clips?

[@josueacunauwu]

Some days ago I was singing a love song with my door closed while my mom was downstairs. I thought she wasn't hearing me, but when I went down I realized how loud my voice was. She didn't say anything but I felt very ashamed although my singing voice is getting better. I know it's no use just to sing for myself and not let anyone listen to me, but I'd like to improve more before the day they do. The real problem is: when will that day be?

[@2024years_since....]

at these moments, when I need to "be quiet" is when I bring out my singing straw :)

[@chimmylights7323]

I’m the hesitant one, I only sing for few but I love singing 😂

[@Nicole-cr7tl]

Love this idea！thank you～

[@rafaellavasconcelos3807]

😍 omg it was so helpfull!! Glad I found you 🌷

[@GeorgeBreadman]

Cool trick!

[@Rosannasfriend]

This is a good topic for me. Thank you.

[@vickac]

That INTRO THOUGH 🙌😍

[@hele4299]

What's the intro music called and who made it?? It's gorgeous!!

[@michaelrobson1627]

This was excellent!! Just subscribed, never seen you before but I'm sitting in my car with my towel (lucky I had one) and that really really helped! Love it!