How to Slay with a Big Bel-lay (Big Tummy Summer Style Tips)

[@ceralith942]

For fall: definitely the pullover sweater without feeling like a overpuffed marshmallow. Boots are always a struggle too for us big calf girlies.

[@bridgettemallory6868]

You could always go to the shoe repair and have them put an elastic band /panel on the side is fairly inexpensive I think the most my aunt 😮paid for to have what's the panel put on the side about is $20 bucks

[@secandajewell696]

For knee boots, Naturalizer and Vince Camuto. They both make a nice leather wide calf boot. My calves are appx 20".

[@shigib3892]

Sweaters always trip me up in the winter. I’m apple shaped. 😊

[@stephanniesenegal]

Gurllah, me too!

[@moodmusic2495]

V shaped neck lines are for us apple shapes. Vertical lines look great on us

[@MSHARLEYDWOKEAF]

I am too and have very large bust and belly. Sweaters make me look like a blimp so I steer clear. 😢

[@demekonrn]

Blimps are cute. I, too, am blimpish. I wear what I want. ​@@MSHARLEYDWOKEAF

[@smitty5641]

​@@demekonrnThe point is they're trying to find a flattering style. Sure you can wear whatever you want but it doesn't mean it looks good on your body

[@lucyquarles4691]

Anything A-line looks great on everybody.

[@TheKimworships]

Try doing this with an apple shape, please. This model is hourglass so this holds true for this shape. Even pear, but not apple, a truly round belly. Thanks!

[@dahliaherrod4301]

They almost never have apple shaped models. It's very frustrating

[@melodeeboo3500]

So true ❤

[@omotolaadegoke8830]

You have such a nice way of putting things. Bel-lay sounds stylish. (Don’t mean I wanna keep it though, no lie). Ditch the frump, so true. But, sometimes oversized clothing is so cozy!!!

[@dr-k1667]

The visuals were PERFECT! They were so helpful to all of us even if the belly isn't an issue.

[@muiawat]

Can we talk about the drop waist trend from the 2000s not doing the bel - lay any favours !

[@StylewithDanielle]

omg hated it! lol

[@comkver]

For reals!

[@triecampbell1159]

It did no one favors. Even people who didb't look bad, you had to wonder how the pants stayed up when they actually moved.

[@muiawat]

@@triecampbell1159 totally agree . Even people with totally flat bellies look kinda bloated … but that’s fashion I guess hahahaa … hard pass from this 90s kid

[@joyelldavis5209]

I think they forgot how bad muffin tops looked. I do not want to go back there. High waisted jean options forever!

[@nebula3660]

" You cute" thats so sweet to start a video 🥹 appreciate it 🌺

[@jeanettehale9444]

Comfortable, fashionable shoes for fall/winter. Can no longer do heels higher than 2".

[@roslynjones5886]

Is it just me or does the bigger model look wayyy better in these pictures

[@makeupunlimited]

this is helpful. if you have an 'apron' belly shape, you may have to bring out the shapewear for an assist. 😄

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

Whats an apron belly?

[@josiebfancy]

Preach 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@mightystrong5484]

That belly that hangs over your panties like an apron lol 😅​@sixteen.candles.4644

[@kirbyourenthusiasm]

@@sixteen.candles.4644when your belly hangs down instead of just being big.

[@s00prtek]

​@@sixteen.candles.4644, it's where the tummy swoops down from hip to hip in a sort of arc. Folding over like a apron over the public area.

[@Justagirlok101]

2 things that have transformed the way I buy clothes and wear them, learning my shape and learning to use a sewing machine to alter my clothes. I always described my self as a uk size 12/14 but I’ve found that I’m more like a 16 in some brands on some days. Many factors can affect your size, hormones, bloating etc. I tend to buy bigger if I’m torn between 2 sizes and tailor to my measurements if necessary 👗

[@naomiomi7340]

This is sooooooo key. Learn shape and what suits your body needs. Then tailor to fit that shape. Makes SUCH a difference. Sometimes for me, just hoisting the whole garment up at the shoulders by 1 or 2 inches takes a dress from meh to yessss! Sometimes buying a size bigger, so you have space where you need it and altering the rest is the beat course of action.

[@Justagirlok101]

@@naomiomi7340 for sure! These things make such a difference! 🫶🏼

[@lookingatdaisies9901]

Clothing sizes aren't consistent in the first place, I only trust my measuring tape lol, this is why I have jeans been 25 and 27 Waist, with one saying 25 but measuring 14.5 flat meaning it's a 29 💀

[@bridgettemallory6868]

The sewing machine is can be your best friend

[@kirbyourenthusiasm]

Yeah for a while I was very fit and thin…my clothing sizes literally ranged from size 2 to size 12 and they ALL fit. Some depends on branding and some depends on the AGE of clothes. Vintage clothing sizes will tend to be a bigger number than clothes nowadays. Also Asian sizes are WAY different than US sizes. I’m like an XL in US but a 3-4XL in Asian sizes.

[@mellodees3663]

My mother kind of drilled into me about making sure my outfits had lines and structure even when baggy and oversized was in fashion.

[@JP-br5os]

Loved this Danielle! And yay for the fall fashion content! No shade (but shade LOL!) I LOVE to see ANYTHING other than Shein, Target, and Zara content. Let's continue amplifying other mid- to upper-range ($$ or $$$) brands, boutiques and/or other retailers. Love the content you've done with Dilliards, Nordstrom, small businesses and stores like that. Also love styling/what to wear to... (airport, festivals, elevated casual..ski trip..etc) types of videos as well.

[@NoreeneBailey-Treece]

I would only add don't be stuck on a size number. Not all clothing manufacturers sizes are consistent. It's better to size up and tailor to fit your body. An outdoor also will look better if it's looser and you're not straining your seams and buttons. I'll wear anything from an xl, 16 to 2x and 20. It really depends on the garment. Our bodies also fluctuate a few pounds back and forth through the month. It's nice to have things to wear on your thinner or fluffier days.

[@krisrb3341]

For fall….definitely wide calf boots, always a challenge to get a classic pair that are not too trendy. Also long cardigans…what materials don’t cling but skim the body and what lengths work best for different body types…..I just watched you for the first time…and I thought your genuineness, honesty, and positivity is truly refreshing! I wish you all the best and thank you for your succinct advice and body positive message….

[@StylewithDanielle]

thanks for these! and thank you so much for your kind words 🙏🏾

[@sunshineharris6283]

Ma'am I NEVER subscribe after 1 video... we'll I did today! It's giving "good sis" vibes! You're energy pulled me right in and I love it! Definitely look forward to hanging out with you! May GOD continue to bless everything you touch 🥰🙏🏾

[@mrrpswife]

For real - she def has beautiful vibes!

[@StylewithDanielle]

Awww thank you for subscribing ❤️❤️❤️✨✨✨

[@everyday9818]

Me too! I subscribed 5 minutes into this video. First time

[@inspiredaction1]

Cardigans and sweaters! The best ones for a long/apron belly!

[@justglowlexi]

This was so helpful, thank you!! My biggest pain points for dressing in the Fall are boots & dresses! How to pair them together(ankle vs knee, etc), and I find it hard to find cute dresses that are flattering on a larger tummy and that fit the season🍁 🍂

[@valenciajoseph5261]

Loved this! For fall ideas-yes, definitely coats as they can add major bulk; sweaters (big boobs or big girls should not wear anything “ribbed”); outer layer jackets. Thank you!

[@kayesmall8641]

Sweaters and boots. Thank you for all your help ❤

[@db-gb5xi]

For fall, coats and boots. Enjoy your summer time off.

[@thatchickzsa]

Super helpful and now I know I picked at least 1 good wedding guest dress. 😊

[@compactgirl]

K great but not every fat girl is gifted with the fat flat belly there are some of us whom have that pop belly like the beer pop belly yeah like those men with the beer pop belly that always look like they're pregnant yeah how the heck can I me with a beer pop belly whom always look like I'm seven month pregnant how do I style this belly instead of my pop belly styling me yes people do ask how many month am I yeah sometimes I go along with it and sometimes I just say I'm just fat. Thank you for reading

[@maryross3951]

Agree, l’m the same way

[@hipperdanhop2877]

Same here! Maybe i should look at maternity wear 😂😂😂

[@crystalmrstessaroifyourena3505]

I'm trying to hide extra stretched out skin from having kids ...

[@cynthiaholland13]

I would recommend maternity clothes. Also going to your doctor to see if anything hormonal is going on. Also see what they recommend for losing that weight because abdominal weight is the most dangerous kind. It's not about being cute and skinny but literally getting that fat from around your heart and organs. That's why men with pot bellies are at high risk of heart attack and strokes. Take care sis

[@laceandribbonsviolin]

@@cynthiaholland13my mom struggles with that and she has fibroids I’m pretty sure, so I’m not saying that’s what’s happening but like the previous commenter said, it’d be good to check❤ I’m sorry! I hope you can find out answers

[@franv4153]

Loved the comparison! Excited for the fall content, boots and sweaters are always tough for me to find flattering pieces in plus size. Wishing you a relaxing summer hiatus.

[@biancamack1730]

This was a great video. Can we talk about jeans, pants, and bottoms for the fall? Thank you so much for your content!!

[@jam_is_jammin]

Yeah. How to pick pants for a big bel-lay? I’ve got the bel-lay and narrow hips. I don’t know what’s going on with my body. I can find jeans, but not pants. 🤔 It’s a mystery.

[@vindictivetiger]

For fall, Boots. I'm tall, so they never make them with a an 18" shaft that comes up to the knee. I don't want over the knee boots bc the leather bends at the wrong point. Great styling tips. Subscribed.

[@carolesmall-diop2333]

Hi! This is the first time i have come across you, and your work is amazing!!!! I would love to see some videos that work for us older ladies, though. I love the looks you showed, but i definitely can't show all that skin! I also look best in long lengths (I'm 1m80, i think that's around 5'10 or 11). I live in a hot country, but people cover up (especially older women like me) for religious reasons, but that doesn't mean i want to walk around in a tent. I am going to subscribe, hoping you will do me a favour! ❤❤❤

[@Cekatu]

I'm new here too. Love your suggestions. And like you, I don't show too much skin....

[@MSHARLEYDWOKEAF]

Love love this video. Thank you. First time viewer and immediate subscriber. 😊 I'd like to talk about shoes when one can't wear high heels. 👠 I still want to look cute. 💙🙏🏽💜

[@sandyberger-r9j]

Yes, I love that you pointed to the color palette. Finding the colors that suit you makes a huge difference!❤

[@kirbyourenthusiasm]

Yes! I have 3 shirts that are exactly the same style, just in different colors. I ALWAYS get compliments when I wear one of the colors and RARELY get compliments wearing the other two.

[@mamabirdjr3194]

The visuals are so helpful! Thank you for sharing!

[@Sophia8983]

Woman you are too funny. Great information. Thank you!

[@StylewithDanielle]

thank youuuu!

[@buzybea7267]

First time coming across your channel. Love you teaching how to accentuate the positive and camouflage the negative. An English teacher talked to the girls in class on these points over 50 years ago. Much needed today.👍

[@daniellelecorps6388]

Thank you for this video! Love it! Can you make a video about layering clothes in the fall and flattering fitness outfits? Thank you

[@annalauryn966]

"He'll yea I wanna pick.out some clothes" ❤😂

[@keishacowan5498]

Great video! Wished it came earlier in the summer season! Can you do a similar video for fall-winter clothing. Enjoy your time away!

[@LaTanyaSchwalb]

Always appreciate your tips and styling! My pain points in the fall are coats, boots, and sweaters/sweater dresses. How to balance proportions and not look so frumpy. Also, for colder climes, any suggestions on wearing ankle boots? Enjoy your time off!

[@lorismith38]

Happy Sunday Danielle Here's to another great video!💯 Kudos to the vendor for using two different sized models, reaching out to you to have you pick out some clothing and to you being savvy enough to use the vendor models in the video. Girl, you are ON IT!😁 Great explanation and the visuals are spelling it out! First and foremost, yes one must have that "baddie/hottie" confidence! The white dress example is so on point. Who would have guesed? The second dress looks like a bedsheet! The magenta dress isnt working. The cutout dress is hot AF!! (Yes I said it!) The two piece white maxi is hot as well. BTW Your energy is contagious and you humor is the best😆 Have a great week! Best wishes always Lori

[@StylewithDanielle]

thank you so much, Lori!!!! 💕

[@solenastokes9965]

You are so hilarious, I almost cried out loud laughing when you said (I almost fell). It’s the way you said it. 😂😂😂Girl I really like watching your videos ❤

[@StylewithDanielle]

lmaooooo thank youuuuuu

[@sali6522]

Just love the title .....lol😂

[@comkver]

Sweater dresses, that's where I need the biggest help. In the fifth example is a perfect visual for the Rule of Thirds. The dress divides the model into 1/3 top and 2/3 on the bottom.

[@kweenjade01]

2:12 this is the 1st time I've been to your channel and i gotta say i LOVE your commentary! ❤ 7:41 you're excellent at explaining and the words u use make it easy to understand u while also in no way shaming somebody. The imagery is top notch. You'd be an awesome teacher

[@StylewithDanielle]

Thank you so much! 🥹

[@MeghanStader]

First time watcher and I'm in love!!! This was a great example and got me thinking! Thank you! Now I'm going to binge watch all the posts lol

[@StylewithDanielle]

thank you so much!!!

[@smiles5029]

Thanks for the tips...good advice... for fall.. for us full figure women... how about fashionable wide calf boots! That is ALWAYS an issue

[@Zee-Lady]

Thank you for saying what you said. As a plus size girlie I definitely used to feel as though my body was not deserving of cute clothes. I know that it is important to lose weight for our health, but it is also important to love your body in its current state and all along the way in your weight loss journey. This is important because if you constantly have a self-loathing relationship with your body then you will continually sabotage your efforts to lose weight or get to better health. That's why sis is emphasizing that we need to know that we are cute. We are worthy of wearing cute clothes I'm feeling confident no matter our size.

[@StylewithDanielle]

you got it!!! 💯

[@ronnie_p_rochester]

I LUUUUVED THIS . THANK YOU QUEEN!! YOU'VE ALWAYS BEEN SO INFORMATIVE. SMOOCHES

[@StylewithDanielle]

Thank youuuuuu

[@mills8]

First video I’ve ever seen of yours. Randomly popped up on my for-you. Subscribed 2 mins in. Wasn’t looking for you, but definitely needed you

[@StylewithDanielle]

Awesome! Thank you! lol

[@kristinahoflin4425]

Lol so did I 😊

[@sparklemocha8781]

This was so helpful, ty! Never looked at lines and how it can make or take away your shape. 🥰

[@Katrn30]

I love how you show the different sizes and what works! Well done! I need you when I go shopping!

[@grumpypotamus7143]

My daughter and I both have this issue, you had me at "you cute"!

[@toshibagriffin4059]

Wonderful video! Thank you for the tips. Cardigans, sweaters, long jackets, and boots for us blessed with less height 😉

[@shirleymiller336]

Love your energy and expertise...thank you Danielle 🙂

[@anitadelacruz4897]

Great tips!❤ Fall is my fave. I think finding cute boots that are not high heels is a problem for me since I broke my ankle over 4 years ago. I have no balance, but want to look classy. I have doc Martin's but don't wanna wear that style boot with everything.

[@egamble1215]

This is my first time watching you. Danielle, your personality is amazing. Continue your good work!! Much appreciated!!

[@ebonyharbut7641]

Ouuu so glad this came up, loved it! Need that white dress…. Subscribed and going to watch more…. 😊

[@StylewithDanielle]

Yay! Thank you!

[@scorchedcat1572]

Ty!! I don't usually watch styling videos but this one made me rethink and relook at some outfits I wouldn't have considered before!! I oversized every damn thing 😂 You have great energy and the visuals were perfect!

[@StylewithDanielle]

thank you!!

[@cametriaw974]

Love the video! Biggest pain point: dressing in layers to account for multiple different environments/temps within 1 day (inside/ outside + early morning/evening)

[@michellegibson4102]

I am in my 50s. For once women should play to their high points. Let us ALL Live!!!

[@grumpypotamus7143]

Preach! I'm mid-50s, not dead! I still want to look cute, be comfortable, not be super self-conscious, especially when I have to go to my husband's work functions. We want to be cute too!

[@hothamonggirl]

Kudos to you. I love the examples and the detailed explanations! Subscribed.

[@StylewithDanielle]

Thanks and welcome

[@ninasimone36]

This video was sooooo helpful. I've been doing it all wrong!! That last look was amazing!

[@kristinahoflin4425]

Love the video! THANK YOU SO MUCH!! I really struggle with fashion.😢

[@karenbransome6978]

First time watching your videos, and i was blown away by all the information you gave. The menopause hasnt been kind to my body, and im try to dress for a new shape. Curvy, voluptuous,when I feel good and chunky and fat sized when I feel bad about myself . Big boobs in shirts or dresses with buttons feel me with fear.... I used to love wearing shirt dresses now, I just use the shirts like a jacket to hide my chunky arms. You, my dear lady, made me smile, and your use of visuals got me rethinking how i dress and clearly what clothes i need to banish from my wardrobe. I will be watching more of your videos, and i will be hitting that subscribe button. Thank you from Leicester England 😊 ❤

[@ninaprior49]

Thank you ! Very informative video. Loved it beautiful ❤

[@Londya]

I been looking for a video like this for a loooong time. There are other plus size girlies who have made a video similar to this one (for which I am grateful), but I feel like you really touched on ALL the obstacles I run into when I'm trying to pick out something to wear. Thank you, just subscribed! I would love it if you can do a styling video for more inexpensive clothing stores if possible?

[@Ryan-pw9ve]

Thank you for your expertise….. needed this 😚

[@krismcculley2247]

Love ur positive message and u r so right on the clothes suggestions

[@gsherk6978]

Danielle you are so full of energy and flair ❤

[@irhenewilliams33]

I love this! Thank you, much needed content.

[@oneJuicyPisCes]

The curve model looks better in everything

[@turiyahall7526]

Great examples, I’m thinking that two piece set needs to be in my closet

[@nickiee4022]

Me: taking this refresher on what to wear and how to wear it ❤

[@ashra9905]

I'm here looking at you and realize you resemble Lisa Raye. thanks for the information😍😍😍

[@StylewithDanielle]

Wow, thank you ☺️

[@wileko4459]

Great video! Can you please do a fall one covering sweaters?

[@terrortara6994]

Fall winter outfits get so bulky and square feeling .i am not a house not even a brick one ❤

[@hrhsophiathefirst4060]

Great visuals and great explanation.

[@SweetT116]

you are fabulous & beautiful & a genius! so glad i discovered you! finally youtube's algorithm came through.

[@babysisdolls3336]

love you! plan a trip to Hawaii...i need to be cute.

[@twillett100]

You are adorable! Great energy💜💜💜

[@StylewithDanielle]

😊 thank you

[@salty7172]

Girl come thru! You did that! New to your VLOG thank you soooooo much!!!!!🎉🎉'🎉🎉'

[@kivigray0423]

This is a great video! I just shared it with two family members. Thank you! And to answer your question about my biggest pain point of the upcoming season, mine is finding boots with not just wide calves, but with *extra* wide calves. For reference, I wear a U.S. 6 in women’s shoes, and my calves are 17” & 17.5”. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@TanyaEJ]

Thanks, bestie! Love the visuals and advice; very helpful! Sweater fabric would be helpful cause as I get older, I realize that I sweat more. So I want to keep warm and comfy yet breathable? So that once I do sweat, I can swiftly cool back down. Thanks! Enjoy your well-deserved break xoxo

[@shellshell9929]

Extremely helpful as I gear up to curate a year round capsule wardrobe 😎👍

[@StylewithDanielle]

so glad to hear that!

[@constancehill9909]

Very helpful ma'am! Thanks

[@theladynextdoor313]

Great content, helpful visuals and I love your vibe 💕👏🏼, subscribed. I definitely struggle with a tummy, large bust, and also large calves. Finding quality tall boots is like mining for treasures! It’s difficult!!

[@theladynextdoor313]

Also best advice I received from an older friend years ago was “try it on anyways!” It may not look great on a hanger, TRY IT on anyways! Or you might love it on the hanger and it looks meh on. Be open to trying new things. It has served me well over the years.

[@barbaracoleman1949]

Thanks Danielle, I really needed to SEE this, I really needed this, this has changed my style, right on time too 😊

[@tinaburgard7814]

Came across you by accident. It's a happy accident. You just crack me up and you made so many good points. I liked how you compared outfits. I'm going to go check out your other videos and subscribe. 😊 I would like to be able to wear a cardigan where I don't feel like my belly is the focal point.

[@StylewithDanielle]

thank you so much! just posted a video on sweaters a few minutes ago: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l4e9g3maacuLmdk

[@lucybyrd1810]

That plus size one looks real good. She is my size❤

[@sarathompson6628]

New here, loved this video! For cooler weather, I really would love to know more about jeans, cardigans, boots for those of us with larger-than-life legs, etc.

[@StylewithDanielle]

heyyyy! welcome 💕

[@MsRoz2U]

SUPER helpful!! 🥰

[@hayley623]

Very helpful tips I’m a visual learner so thanks for adding examples 😌👏💕

[@StylewithDanielle]

Glad it was helpful!

[@jnelsimpson1190]

I love your energy and you’re saying all the best things!! New follower! ❤

[@josiebfancy]

This was extremely helpful!!! Wish I had seen this before I placed my most recent clothing order. I'm realizing I added some pieces that won't flatter my belay as much.

[@zolli6769]

I JUST had this conversation with my sister! She bought a dress that was too big for her and she just knew it would fit me. She wears big, no shape, mini dresses and they look amazing on her with her twisty bird legs! 😂 She’s maybe a size 10 and maybe 5’4”. I’m size 16-18 and 5’8” with very large legs! Yes, I fit the dress, but I looked like SpongeBob 🟨😂😂

[@danihamm29]

Hello Danielle, I’m Danielle too!!! The boots for fall is always my down fall!! I have big calves and I love boots but none look good on me anymore since I’ve picked up so much weight!

[@LexxieDivine]

The funny thing is that I like all the outfits regardless lol. But that purple dress!!!?! amazing video, can you do swimsuits for big belly girls next 👀

[@lbrown8201]

This video was so helpful. Yes we are cute. The visuals are great. Fall, styling loafers with all the pants (straight, wide leg, etc?)

[@CordeliaWhimsy]

Incredibly helpful video

[@thebusybees2006]

You are funny! Thanks for the tips

[@BlessedtoSOAR]

New follower here. This was super helpful

[@lindawright3936]

Fabulous video, xx