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Have you been in a conversation that feels like it’s drifting nowhere?
Oscar Trimboli is an Apple Award-winning podcast host, professional speaker, and author of How to listen: Discover the Hidden Key to Better Communication. He has done extensive research on the topic of listening in the workplace.
What makes this episode interesting is how Oscar challenged Mick in taking his deep listening skills to the next level by heightening his awareness of a third presence in every dialogue, which in this case is the listeners of the podcast. Applying this illustration in leadership, the third person can be your stakeholders or your competitors and what they would think about the situation you are talking about.
Oscar shares that listening is not about making sense of yourself, but helping the speaker say what they mean. Scientifically speaking, we only hear 14% of what the speaker thinks; hence, great leaders notice even what is not being said. He also talks about the four villains that limit someone’s ability to deeply listen: dramatic, interrupting, lost and shrewd.
Listen to this episode to know how to use your listening compass to make sure your teams feel seen, heard and valued before, during, and after a conversation: kite.link/Art-...
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