How To Steward Knowing Who Your Future Husband Is (God Told Me, Now What?) - Part 1

This video gives advice to someone who God has told about their future husband. How do you live with the knowledge. How do you act around them. How do you handle the information with wisdom.
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[@herbee703]

The issue with us singles is that once a man talks to us we are already thinking of the family we will build with him 🤣🤣🤣 May God help us

[@naynayhi93]

Yes!!! Omgggg

[@vlogsbysusan1927]

This table 😂😂😂

Hi it’s me 🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️😂

[@TEAMCHURCHGIRL]

I just said that to my best friend

[@deeanahcreatives]

😂very true

[@WMB7]

It's literally like Adam and Eve. EVE PROBS KNEW I WAS MADE FOR MY DUDE ADAM . but Adam was asleep he did not know until God woke him up from his deep sleep

[@thebang1234]

my man must be snoozing hard then

[@royalevictoria]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 ​@@thebang1234 same

[@kiggy07]

God will not tell you that someone who is already married is your spouse. That goes against His Word & God NEVER goes against His Word. Be Blessed 💕💕💕

[@galsawomensministrypresent1383]

It’s unusual and highly unlikely, but on my journey with God He’s done and spoken some pretty far fetched things. Now those lusting after someone’s husband probably didn’t hear from God. God didn’t put together/ ordain every marriage but He has a plan for His called people. If God wants two people together He will make it happen- because there is an assignment attached to the marriage. But like the young lady says, if God told you you have to talk to God about it and the rest is God’s business…not ours. No..my person is NOT married 😅. I just love the conversation.

[@Dom0070]

I started looking for this topic because I know who my future husband is.. but I have been separated for 2yrs. And now going through divorce. But today.. I know who He is. And he is not who I’m married to right now. I don’t want to fight the feeling, I know I should be more careful or bitter even against men but I know this man is everything, but to him I’m still a married woman 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@s.e4894]

Keep in mind that not everybody marries the right person. Some People marry for the wrong purposes and some marry the wrong person because maybe he/she didn't know Christ by then. What's meant for you will be for you if it is GOD'S WILL AND ACCORDING TO HIS PLAN.😌

[@SozoSeasonFreedom]

For those who disagree with kiggys comment, please share the scripture that backs up your claim that God will take someone else's spouse and give him/her to another. Everything I have ever read on the subject reveals God's heart against divorce. He hates it and calls it violence (Malachi 2:16). His heart is for reconciliation and restoration when one spouse will stand in the gap (story of Hosea). Divorcing a faithful spouse for another person is always adultery (Matthew 5:32). ⚠️ If a message you received contradicts the Word of God, the word you heard was not from Yahweh.

[@tonikajohnson3245]

​​@@s.e4894 You are so right. Although we all know GOD is not the author of confusion and he's A God of order. A person can be married to the wrong person and have to set some order and sever the wrong ties. People forget that GOD told the woman at the wail she had five husbands and the one she was currently with wasn't hers. What's for you is for you even if that means you must close that old chapter and set the order so that GOD can then give you your GOD ordained spouse. Even in all this you don't tear up nobody's home. If God speaks something he has a plan. Sometimes God will remove Vashti to bring Esther in the palace where she belongs.

[@lesegoh8487]

It's so funny that I did every mistake that this video listed😂🤣.I am now sober minded knowing he is in a relationship I am no longer in my feelings about it but carefully observing and praying over it.I am actually quite happy that we are not together yet.Because I want to revive my prayer life and ignite it with fresh fire.

[@philipsupahaircutsug3796]

I've been doing the same ..pliz God forgive me ..

[@brittanysapology9528]

Are you with the guy yet?

[@vicydae]

@@brittanysapology9528 Right I’m wondering the same 😂

[@eliaslinea6854]

This is my to dear 😂😂😂

[@merselinegarcia4386]

Same 😂😂😂

[@just_bee9482]

After giving me multiple cues for the past three months. It finally dawned on me who my God given wife is. I was about to tell my sister on whatsapp but I deleted the message thanks to your advices.

[@WhisperingNightmares92]

Good for you, I already told my sister

[@queendalinejohnson2294]

God showed my future spouse through dream. But it’s hurting that the person have absolute no idea about you. But I have Faith, if it’s his will; everything will work out. Thank you so much, you video was satisfying. I viewed it so many times. Part 1 and 2.

[@toshianitah3882]

Follow lady Ann pray for your future husband,.. don't just say God's will you need to content in the spirit

[@--Purple--]

@@toshianitah3882kindly send the link. Thank you 🙏🏿

[@jessicatolbert6045]

I almost through this phone when this video popped onto my feed. When I tell you every word you spoke was either clarity or confirmation for me. For a few months now I have known who my kingdom spouse is and you have clarified so much. Thank you for being a vessel. God bless.

[@jem_14]

Hi sister...are you married now to your kingdom spouse?

[@stephaniegoldman5830]

This is so powerful thank you so much for your obedience to God and starting this channel

[@sinaimulamba3252]

This was so good. Thank you so much❤❤. God bless you!!

[@komuhangikate7468]

Thanks so much woman of God. This is purely God speaking to me Through you. I receive this with thanksgiving 🙌 🙏

[@MkatekoNkuna123]

WOW interesting. Thank you Mel .

[@QueenFlo]

As I’ve started following you on Tiktok 2 months ago and I have decided to catch up on all your videos here to get more transformative ❤ Thank you so much and I thank God for directing my path to women who fears God.🙏

[@christineasaba4730]

I love love love your teaching. You have explained something most people in church have failed to understand. A number of ladies are in this place but no one ever gives advise, they just shut you up with 'that's not from God, forget it'.......God bless you my dear. You have helped many out there.

[@raventurner8726]

Right when God gave me confirmation about this guy, this video popped up😭 it’s gonna be hard not to tell anyone lol thank you for this video!

[@Dionne95482]

Yes ma’am yes ma’am . New subscriber here! Thanks for your help!

[@UnmodernDaughteroftheKing]

Wow. Wisdom. Amazed I haven’t seen this earlier!! Thank you!

[@mildredmalobola4591]

This podcast came at the right time...Actually God answering my questions.....

[@happinessdons1378]

WOW I WISH I COULD LIKE THIS VIDEO A MILLION TIMES.THANK YOU DID 😍

[@bamacountrygirl21]

Love this video. This is so helpful. God bless you!

[@gloriacoffie6744]

In times like this, God wants us to "focus on him" and believe him to work things out. Great video👍

[@aliyahsfaith]

Perfect timing, God’s timing. Hallelujah. Thank you Jesus. And we appreciate you Melody for being sensitive to God’s voice and walking in his purpose for your life, helping us in the process.

[@HouseOfHostingHeaven]

Thank you so much Sis. So encouraging to hear!!!

[@gypsyqueensha4758]

I really needed this video. Thank you ❤️

[@SophiePlayz7802]

You are beautiful and spirit filled. Thank you.

[@elizabethsanyaolu4922]

God knows i needed this. Thank youu

[@galsawomensministrypresent1383]

Great job with this video!!! ❤

[@Mary-gr3mr]

i just got rejected by a really nice guy i work with 😞 Ladies guard your heart I thought he was the one

[@theechosen_]

Sorry ❤

[@angelaeden9218]

Thank you SO much, sister! This first and second video is FULL of so much wisdom! And I had thought I heard it all. I’m going to be watching these two again and again for references. P.S. Also going to be praying for other sisters who KNOW and are waiting for their Boaz. ❤️ Blessings!

[@HouseOfHostingHeaven]

So happy to hear that Angela, thank you. Standing in faith with you & your friends for your journey to marriage. AMEN.

[@thobekamlondo2280]

I needed this video thank you, you know when you know it God 😭😭😭😭.

[@user-pi4ye3fh5y]

It's like this video is meant for me , thank you for being a vessel

[@sharonchippy]

Love this sis thank you 🙌🏽

[@HouseOfHostingHeaven]

You are welcome Sis!!! Happy to see you here!!! :-D

[@morishaq1084]

Thank you for this ❤

[@pricaaweko6710]

I received a dream about him and I didn't even care about this guy,i asked God what it really meant and I haven't received any feedback, but I started paying alittle attention to him and I noticed how his face light up with a smile whenever I look his way, this is scary for real cause we are totally different,i mean different race, religion and so on, thanks for this video cause I really need God to protect my heart more than ever

[@TheSoughtAfter1]

God cannot go against His own Word. Please read 2 Corinthians 6: 14 He will not tell you a none Christian is your husband

[@hope0401]

@@TheSoughtAfter1 Sometimes God speaks what is to come and not at the present. He is simply revealing the end goal. God showed me a guy and made it clear in my dream he was to be my husband and I refused to believe because he wasn't a Christian. But God gave me a dream telling me that he will become a Christian and I should intercede and let Him do the work. This was some years ago. I don't have contact with the guy at all but God through dreams will let me know what's going on in his life and how I should intercede. He later showed me he was starting to question things about Jesus and after a few months I saw him in church praising God and praying. Something that I thought would never happen. So yes, if he isn't a Christian and one is sure God spoke to them, God could be speaking of a later period when the guy/girl would have become a Christian. The key is to let God do the transformation work and not to interfere or go before God. Stay blessed.

[@niaelie6347]

It won’t work being unequally yoked

[@leveldadup893]

Then you havent heard a testimony about a women who married a non believer and that non believer became a Christian. One has to discern God's voice for himself. If God told Hosea to marry a prostitute and Hosea said "Nah man. I aint hear God right. Then Hosea has the spirit of religion which puts God in a box. I aint saying marry non believers but God sometimes have certain people do far fetch things like commanding Abraham to sacrifice Isacc when the pagans were doing that and human sacrifice was prohibited by God, Gideon to fight an army with only 300 men, a donkey to talk semse jnto Balaam, etc​@TheSoughtAfter1

[@toshianitah3882]

Am helped by this video honestly

[@zarrzarr9989]

Good advice

[@michellealgie5566]

Wow sister amen! Thank you so much for this post and may god bless you! 🙏

[@blessing1824]

Wow 😭😭I really needed to watch this video Keep your head on your neck😩 Learnt a lot Love from swiss🇨🇭

[@marilynkhasnabish6845]

I wish I had done these things but I already made all these mistakes. Yet I believe God will still do it however it can be difficult.

[@bowserjuniorsaid2009]

I Know I Keep Asking God Are You Sure God, Are You Sure He’s The One You’re Calling Me To? It Seem So Impossible That I Ask God How Are You Going To Work This Out. Or Maybe God Just Take This Cup Away From Me.

[@bowserjuniorsaid2009]

😂😂😂

[@apillerinthetemple]

I’m dead you talking about take this cup away from me like you Jesus 🤣🤣🤣

[@kchigasa]

Thank you for this

[@HouseOfHostingHeaven]

Thank you for watching Sis!!!

[@TEAMCHURCHGIRL]

Needed this

[@merselinegarcia4386]

I love love this ❤❤

[@pearl_of_great_price]

You are wise.

[@chynatv4247]

I had three dreams I seen my husband. The first dream i couldnt see his face but i seen his body. He was tall brown skin with a low cut . 2nd dream i seen the wedding location. my 3rd dream i wasnt sure if i was hallucinating, but i seen this guy i knew for a long time . i was in a house . it was a child in the house and i seen his mother that he take care of in the house . the house was big and i seen him driving in a red corvette. i remember asking him could i go with him to his friend video shoot and he told me . it look like i lived in the house. the body type look him but i could be wrong.

[@vicydae]

Update? 👀

[@debraglick8217]

Hi Hun! Thank you for this! I wanted to ask, I have believed I've known about my future spouse. But This process has been almost six years. Right after I started learning about him I got sick, stomach and throat stuff. I'm doing better now. But the wait for him has been a roller coaster, but yet seemingly purposeful. I haven't met him yet.

[@JaejoongPrincess]

Starting at 6:42 is the reason why I'm crushing at a guy at my job and not my future husband who lives in another country who doesn't even know me yet.

[@tamekawarren4198]

NO MA'AM! God will never go against his word! He said do not covet another man's wife that also pertains to another husband! Ma'am this is very dangerous what you're speaking out to God's people! I pray for your wisdom❤

[@HouseOfHostingHeaven]

Keep me in prayer Tameka and thank you for your comment.

[@gogogadgetgore]

Johnny Cash was a married man when he met June Carter. She led him to Christ and they fell in love. They remained happily in love until their respective deaths. Shouldn't box God. He works in mysterious ways.

[@leveldadup893]

​@@gogogadgetgorei agree. Saw a video about a man who was wed to a witch at his birth. Was this a union honored by God? Of course not. What people fail to understand is "WHAT GOD HAS PUT TOGETHER. " LET KNOW MAN BREAK APART. BUT people dont realize the devil puts people together, witches put themselves with others, people chose others without going to God, etc. We cant put God in a box.

[@dorcaskwaramba3979]

The date is far😂😂🤭 can't wait to read.

[@HouseOfHostingHeaven]

hahaha...be patient Sis...lol

[@Ursin101]

Thank you for teaching me 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@tinalouisedeane3683]

Bride in waiting ♥️👰🏻‍♀️🌹 I haven’t told a single soul !!

[@rosleenp]

I personally believe God gives hints and indication of who will be a suitable spouse for you, but I don't believe He is saying that person must become your husband. I've had multiple indications of who will make a good spouse to me and looking back I see how we could have fit together, but I don't think that person will necessarily become your husband, especially if both of you decide to take different parts.

[@HouseOfHostingHeaven]

I love that view-point. Very very valid!

[@isaacxvasquez]

I agree but I also believe there are occasions when God shows directly who. God works a lot through our personalities and for example autism / add / adhd personalities are many times very focused on the one thing that gets their attention, that’s why when they find a hobby or a goal they often do it better than the “normal” person. So yes I do believe these people God could be speaking more directly towards a person because of how they bran/personality works. God bless

[@winsavierelias]

Excuse me but what is the purpose of this comment.ln our seperate walks with God let us encourage each other not step on each other's hearts.How do you think she feels when you pratically say she is delusional. Love her by respecting her personal walk with Christ.God bless you.Let us pray for each other.

[@dorcasdu]

Personally God showed me the person through dreams, other person and directly after my prayers !! So I would say it depends on the person God doesn’t act the same way with everyone

[@ci.ci.1998]

@@isaacxvasquez Totally Agree❗️

[@user-rz3bl4np1d]

Amen.❤

[@crystalmorgan9118]

Why didn't see this before

[@eddiegaming-ep9dc]

Amen am praying for my spirit husband Amen 💖

[@blaqasiann2127]

I shared before I knew it was wrong

[@TEAMCHURCHGIRL]

I had to get permission from God to tell my best friend

[@Lor912]

I ask God to reveal me my f. Housband and he did. Now I found myself in an uncomfortable situation cause I was going to the place were he work but he didn't talk to me or even watch me.. Everyone have done except him... I understsnd that it wont be easy at all 4 me... I have even think abaut contact him in social 4 work... But Im afraid to do it... God tell me that this is his job to create the occasion to talk and known each other but I'm living in stress cause I want to do something just don't know what I don't feel to do nothing... It's so hard know everything before the man...

[@iamemmy27]

How do you know that this is the man God wants me to have?

[@skinbeautyproducts1998]

Hmmm very interesting!!🔥 (Great video) but I find it very interesting that you was speaking to a select group of individuals, but I don't fit into either category, while relating to quite a bit of what you said lol 😆 So to the people you warned not to fall in love, well when my GOD Ordained Husband and I first met, it was love at first sight for us both, instantly and immediately, even though we both tried to runaway from our feelings lol but kept our strong connection.... Never hugged him, touched him, or kissed him, and over these past few years our connection is Electric! GOD revealed who he was to me during our third interaction, but we kept taking it in turns with running when the other was ready lol smh I know, but when a connection out of nowhere is so strong like that, and you meet in a destiny type of way, it is a lil scary, especially when neither him or I was looking for a relationship with anyone! But we both knew one day we'd like to be with someone, and when we met and ticked all the boxes, it's like we wasn't ready to accept it, like we don't deserve it (the devil is a liar) A year later he revealed to me he has a girlfriend, who at the time he then started to force himself to act like he 'likes' her knowing full well he's in 'love' with me and she just doesn't compare on any level lol But I never once told him to leave her, nor did I ever get involved in their fake Relationship for social media, I was hurt and blocked him, but when I left, he realized he can't try and lie to himself, and he fell into a depression because I was gone..... the story goes on but I'll leave it there cause I've been typing for ages lol but GOD always gets the Glory, and we're never to try and intervene if they already unfortunately have a partner.....(crazy girl became so Obsessed with me, and copies absolutely everything I do and how I dress 😩 thinking it'll make him feel for her, how he feels for me #RealLove) ❤️

[@oneworldjournalist]

What happened in the end ?

[@drebieretebela3734]

What if you already told several people 😢?

[@user-eu8jm4rg9p]

Please pray for me Katarina born 5.5. ...please pray for R. born 21.3. ...please pray for my brother D. born 2.3. ...thanks, God bless you ...

[@linnet-gutsykariuki7305]

What if I messed up already 😢

[@Pacifica74]

I thought God prepares us at the same time. So there are testimonies when this isn't the case?

[@thobekamlondo2280]

What do you do if God has told you His the one but not the right time but the man is trying to pursue you?

[@marqueedahudson1815]

🙏💙😇

[@JesusLightsYourPath]

God would not send you someone who's already married.

[@user-pi4ye3fh5y]

It seems like everyone here is being answered 😅

[@selenanaz2580]

Funny I have landed on this video today when I had a dream about my hubby 😂🤣 Let me see what tips I'll get

[@selenanaz2580]

I mean future hubby currently am single

[@TK-el4sr]

What was the dream

[@drrelaxedfocus5714]

Update?

[@jem_14]

Update?

[@shaunabyers7138]

Almost 20 years waiting…

[@lovekarmen3401]

Why?

[@courtneyc1789]

Have you asked God for confirmations? Have you gotten any?

[@rosariovarela1551]

I messed up so bad I told one individual that I know it’s jealous of me 😞😞what should I do I know she wishes me wrong

[@rayraybutler2723]

Same here I did the same thing and this person has a jealous spirit as well. So idk what to do

[@latoyathornton1871]

Me too, but looking back I question did God really even said it but he is no one I would ever choose for myself. I walked away from him. I never plan on going back either. Even though I believe we where unequally yoke at the time maybe it is the future him but I am over it either way.

[@rosariovarela1551]

@@latoyathornton1871 🤔🤔it’s kinda complicated in my case I Feel that we were attracted to Each other and we are equally yoked but nothing else has really happened I’ve met counterfeits but I’m blessed to Be able to identify them quick and move away but im still praying and expecting my God ordained spouse 🙏🙏Blessings to you and praying so God can soon help our spouse fina us 🙏🙏

[@shavonda4447]

@@latoyathornton1871 pray for the person that you told and go into the presence of the Lord and ask him what should you do. Always remember that God is more powerful than any mistake that we make. Sometimes what we think is a mistake may have been something to help the jealous person get a step closer to seeking Christ. God bless you sister in Jesus name.

[@shavonda4447]

@@rosariovarela1551 pray for the person that you told and go into the presence of the Lord and ask him what should you do. Always remember that God is more powerful than any mistake that we make. Sometimes what we think is a mistake may have been something to help the jealous person get a step closer to seeking Christ. God bless you sister in Jesus name.

[@JesusLightsYourPath]

I don't know who he is. There are a couple guys it could be.

[@BoazsCrown222]

I like your advice, but I don’t believe that God would ever give you someone else’s husband. Ok, listening further, yes, the other spouse will have to have passed first before he could be your husband.

[@shaunabyers7138]

Your husband from God will be equally yoked the man will be waiting on you.

[@shaunabyers7138]

Honey God doesn’t work in that way take it from me, your man will be on the same journey as you, if he wasn’t he wouldn’t have the same gifts to give you! God works in perfection. God will give you a man experience do you have a spiritual connection?

[@noluvuyozungula5765]

This is true

[@marilynkahaunaele1419]

I can’t believe he told me when I have such a big. 👄 . It’s been a year and I’m still in shock.

[@love-nsky]

So, your husband could be already married?😳😳 is divorce forbidden by Christ...? I am a bit lost in this part...

[@vicydae]

I have a question.. is divorce only forbidden when it’s godly? Like a lesbian married couple.. would their divorce still be forbidden? I’ve always wondered stuff like that..

[@ElizCarter]

@@vicydaeTheir marriage was forbidden…

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

I honestly didnt know God can speak to a lady before a guy. I find it difficult, almost a burden to females. A married man can never be your husband ladies. A guy in a relationship, perhaps.

[@jojo-gt2ng]

God will not tell u that somebody who's already married is youre husband just stop

[@Keonahawk24]

And she said exactly that. She said if you feel God told you someone else’s husband is your husband, God didn’t tell you that! Watch the video to it’s entirety before commenting

[@shelia4879]

🤍❤️💙