How to STOP Being SHY! | 34 minutes of English Listening Practice (Podcast)

[@nataliadanilyuk8421]

Hi, everything you've read in the article and commented is true. All the problems are in our heads. I've been learning English just for fun, have nobody to speak with in here. I have an English friend with whom I correspond quite fluently, but I can't imagine myself speaking. I feel that if I had drunk a lot, I would have been able to start speaking with him. But there is one issue: I almost don't drink alcohol😁Thanks for your top notch episode😊

[@raniaalsoud3523]

Hello teacher Gideon, you've touched a nerve with this article... shyness is linked to several factors, including personality, environment, and even religion. But let's assume that all these factors are balanced in a person... but the fact remains that not everyone you meet possesses the same traits of kindness and tact. There are actually people who are cruel and try to diminish your spontaneity, your nature, and your purity, especially if you are a sensitive person. This fosters shyness and encourages you to withdraw from these crazy societies. I can't express myself in the midst of tribes of cynics who are watching every word and every slip-up. I need to distance myself from that. As for breaking out of shyness in learning English, that's a whole other topic. It really does require training yourself. I like shyness within limits, I think it's a sign of kindness, dignity, and respect. Thank you very much, Teacher Gid, for this wonderful article.

[@gsl-english]

Great comment Rania! I completely agree that a little shyness is not a bad quality at all, as long as it doesn’t hold us back!

[@raniaalsoud3523]

@@gsl-english 🤗🤭🌻

[@ilsecarlen8986]

Dear Gideon Your contents, your style of representation, your pronunciation, your casual way of speaking are very intriguing and a great joy to listen to. I try to miss out none of your episodes. Thank you for everything. 👍👍👍 Best greetings from Switzerland 🙋‍♀️ Ilse

[@gsl-english]

Thank you so much Ilse! I truly appreciate your support!

[@carlosandre9076]

Thanks Gideon from Brazil!

[@gsl-english]

You’re welcome!

[@amardeepsingh897]

Brilliant session I'd say , it's just brilliant, I have been having procrastination problem and whenever I try to work on it, it doesn't last for a long time but just every back and forth. I love all the insights here but some of em were related to my procrastination issues. This has given me a boost definitely. Thank you Gideon @GSL English podcast

[@brygidaskupin2800]

The most useful lesson for me, thank you so much :)

[@gsl-english]

You're very welcome!

[@englishclouds05]

What a tricky, dangerous and game changer topic😊 you've nailed it again teacher🎉

[@gsl-english]

Thanks so much!

[@chinglai7789]

Thanks a lot! It’s very helpful 😊

[@gsl-english]

I’m glad you found it useful, thanks for watching!

[@КарінаПелих-ъ3щ]

Thank you for your work!

[@gsl-english]

You’re most welcome!

[@SakshiPandey-z7p]

I like your accent specially when you say particulary

[@gsl-english]

Thanks so much!

[@ТрифонОстрянский]

This lesson is very important and useful. Thank you for your work!

[@gsl-english]

You’re most welcome, thanks for watching!

[@Yzbnir]

thank you !

[@gsl-english]

You're welcome!

[@coders7845]

Wonderful

[@gsl-english]

Cheers 😊

[@paulohoult4813]

AWESOME

[@gsl-english]

Thanks!

[@giovannirivetti1451]

Hello Gideon, I really liked this episode indeed, why!?...😅well for two reasons first of all because I like English and the British accent so much but this is a secondary reason this time, then...this is the core of it I'm a very shy person and it is effecting my daily life continuosly.😕 Don't get me wrong please, this is a very useful and well done resourse for all of us learning English and it helps a lot at least me immersing myself into the language. The ears and the mind are getting used to the language, I hope 😅, your way of speaking is clear and nice to follow....just a question if I can, do you usually talk like that in your daily life? Just to know what type of English I'm listening. Thank you very much! 🙏

[@abrahamalmohammadi]

Thank you so much, teacher, sir. I have one question how to get the book you read in class

[@nilegamer2320]

Nice video

[@gsl-english]

Thanks!

[@AlejandroQuintana-s3p]

I don't know. I'm not sure. I daren't. What if my comment isn't intelligent?. Well, to be honest, I'm just kidding. Super interesting video!!! Thanks so much for your endeavour of teaching english language in a relaxed and natural way. Keep going Gideon!!!

[@nachlebollywood1281]

Keep doing

[@jaruwanpromjan7524]

Hey, Good night, I'm BB from Bangkok, well, nice to see you again, can you do podcasts about Gamma? , by the way, I appreciate it , Thank you❤

[@gsl-english]

Hey BB!

[@miguelangel__cg]

In my younger years, I often found myself caught between the devil and the deep blue sea when it came to social interactions. The mere thought of speaking up in a crowd, or even the simplest act of making small talk with strangers, was enough to make my stomach churn. It was as if my tongue was tied in knots, the words trapped in my throat, while my mind raced with thoughts of how I might be perceived. Would I be judged? Would I be found wanting? These questions, relentless and unyielding, would send me into a spiral of anxiety.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I remember one particular instance at school when my English teacher, a formidable woman with a voice like a foghorn, called on me to read aloud. I could feel the eyes of my classmates boring into me, and my heart thumped so loudly I was sure everyone could hear it. My hands trembled as I fumbled with the pages, my voice barely a whisper when I finally began. The words, which I had so effortlessly absorbed in solitude, suddenly seemed alien, difficult to grasp. It was a classic case of the cat getting my tongue. I muddled through the passage, my cheeks burning with embarrassment, and when I finally finished, I felt as though I had run a marathon.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Looking back, I can see that my shyness was often a self-imposed prison, one that I constructed out of fear of rejection and an overwhelming desire to fit in. It was a double-edged sword, offering me the comfort of solitude while simultaneously cutting me off from experiences and relationships that could have enriched my life. It was easier to keep myself to myself, to blend into the background, rather than risk standing out and potentially being knocked down a peg.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ But as the years have passed, I’ve come to realise that shyness, while limiting, is not an insurmountable barrier. It's something that can be navigated, like steering a ship through choppy waters. I began to challenge myself in small ways, pushing against the boundaries of my comfort zone. It started with little things-striking up a conversation with a stranger at the bus stop, volunteering an opinion in a group discussion, or simply making eye contact with people I spoke to. Bit by bit, I found that the world didn’t end when I let myself be seen and heard.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Of course, old habits die hard, and there are still times when shyness rears its head, reminding me that it hasn’t entirely been shaken off. There are moments when I find myself hesitating, holding back, but I’ve learned not to be too hard on myself. After all, Rome wasn’t built in a day. Shyness, I've come to understand, is just one part of who I am. It doesn’t define me, nor does it dictate my path in life.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ The journey through shyness has taught me the value of patience, both with myself and others. It has also instilled in me a deep sense of empathy for those who, like me, struggle with their own internal battles. I’ve learned that there’s no shame in being shy, just as there’s no shame in being bold. We each have our own way of navigating the world, and that’s perfectly all right.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ In the end, shyness is not something to be eradicated, but rather embraced as part of the rich tapestry of the human experience. It’s a reminder that we all have our own hurdles to overcome, and that there is strength to be found in vulnerability. As the old saying goes, “a smooth sea never made a skilled sailor.” And so, it is with a touch of shyness and a growing confidence that I continue to chart my course through life, ever mindful of the balance between fear and courage, solitude and connection.⁣ ⁣ In a nutshell, not only did I find this video entertaining and thought-provoking, but also relatable, dear tr Gideon. Thereby, your reflections brightened my day! 🌞 To put it simply, words cannot express my gratitude - your thoughtfulness is truly appreciated, sir! 😍🥰

[@gsl-english]

This was such a beautifully written and honest story. Thank you so much for sending this through. I think many will be able to relate to your experience and take encouragement from it. Thank you so much!

[@juancarlosredondorey4321]

Hi, muy name is J.carlos. How have you came to control english in that way. Full of impresive expresions

[@AlejandroQuintana-s3p]

This comment is impressive!!! You are a writer, aren't You? How long have You been learning English? This is brilliant!!! Lucky You!!!

[@changjinlee7585]

Frankly, I’m a so shy person. Hhh

[@chomsscintaring2777]

I'm not confident when I speak English. I can't express my opinion it makes me look stupid. It seems I can't find the right words to say. On the other hand I feel confident to speak Chinese.

[@gsl-english]

I see! Perhaps you’re over thinking in English and that’s preventing you from expressing yourself clearly?

[@chomsscintaring2777]

@@gsl-english Thank you, next time I should make myself more relaxing.

[@em6348-i7o]

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