How To Stop Comparing Yourself to others | Christian Girl Advice | Personal Struggle

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Morgan Tracy J

Morgan Tracy J

Күн бұрын

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@SeasonswithSummer
@SeasonswithSummer 3 жыл бұрын
“When you get deeper into the pit of comparison you start thinking what is wrong with me instead of what is right with me.” This was so good, the entire video. ❤️
@MorganTracyJ
@MorganTracyJ 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you girl
@tiarahnicole21
@tiarahnicole21 3 жыл бұрын
What’s so funny is 90% of women deal with this. The devil uses the same tactics on each one of us.
@MorganTracyJ
@MorganTracyJ 3 жыл бұрын
true!!!
@tamaira6605
@tamaira6605 3 жыл бұрын
So true!
@rachelfraser350
@rachelfraser350 3 жыл бұрын
There is no life that is better than mine. I am unique and so are you. Yes you!
@breshanewbern4767
@breshanewbern4767 3 жыл бұрын
Amen sister
@nokwandathato753
@nokwandathato753 3 жыл бұрын
I recently left all social media platforms (except WhatsApp) and my self esteem and confidence literally shot up! I never realized just how much social media affected my confidence and how I was subconsciously comparing myself to these "perfect" people until recently .. I haven't felt so good about myself in a while. Thank God pulling me out of that pit!
@taniaarmstrong657
@taniaarmstrong657 3 жыл бұрын
About singleness. When I start looking at other couples and longing for my own relationship I remind myself that nothing is wrong with me. I’m just hidden “ when a man Finds a wife he FINES a good thing”. This implies that I’m hidden. I’m hidden FOR my spouse and hidden FROM counterfeits.
@NateshasAmbience
@NateshasAmbience 3 жыл бұрын
Come on now! I love this 💖
@taniaarmstrong657
@taniaarmstrong657 3 жыл бұрын
@@NateshasAmbience loll praise Jesus
@nokwandathato753
@nokwandathato753 3 жыл бұрын
You're speaking to me now!! Come on sis!! 🙌🏽❤
@zipporahmikhael3837
@zipporahmikhael3837 3 жыл бұрын
AMENNN💗
@LaCréé.e
@LaCréé.e 3 жыл бұрын
Singleness is what I struggle the most with. I am 25 still relatively young and quite happy to be single now. But I see people 50, 60 and 70+ who at this point very clearly will not get into a relationship and are miserable about it, and I just can't help myself to feel like God why?
@jessicanorris4256
@jessicanorris4256 3 жыл бұрын
I was thinking about that I am not doing enough like other Christians and that others were doing more than me and blessing them more.
@muanoligege9112
@muanoligege9112 3 жыл бұрын
This was so me this past week but we gotta work through it with God focus on his path for us an where we need to grow there is a time for everything and for every season 💫
@JazmynnMarie
@JazmynnMarie 3 жыл бұрын
Same . You’re not alone. I want to stop comparing myself to others as well . I think aiming to celebrate others achievements as we would our own would help 🙌🏽 it helps me I think
@alexiabowen4035
@alexiabowen4035 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the exact same way..
@liahhx3
@liahhx3 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@Love-qq9ob
@Love-qq9ob 2 жыл бұрын
God didn't call us to be like Christians, He called us to be like Jesus Christ!🤍
@Janaemarie99_
@Janaemarie99_ 3 жыл бұрын
"There is no life that is better than mine!" thank you Lord
@ChosenDeeDee
@ChosenDeeDee 3 жыл бұрын
Amen! Such a great reminder. Two things I try to do when I struggle with comparison: First, I compare myself to my yesterday because it will help me do and be better today. Secondly, I compare myself to Jesus standards and that sets me up for success because we are called to be like Jesus. 💕
@sinazomcinga7154
@sinazomcinga7154 3 жыл бұрын
It is so sad that some of us don't find good in our seasons we only notice it when God blesses us. The art of comparison has been ongoing rampant situation for ages, it is not new but we learn that even those who are blessed start comparing themselves to other people which might hurt God who is our provider. I pray that we learn to embrace every season we are in cause God is doing a lot of work and perfecting us for his glory, it may shock you if you'd learn that there's people who look up to you or are inspired by you but you still comparing yourself. God is faithful he will complete what he has started in our lives. I believe that the moment we learn who we are and know our purpose we would understand the stages and seasons we are in without wishing or being conjured by our neighbours success or blessings. I believe humbleness and a heart of appreciation is better than comparison. Amen Thank you Morgan.❤❤❤ sending love from South Africa.
@fhulu.38
@fhulu.38 3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️ I'm all the way in South Africa🇿🇦🇿🇦
@rosatoledo9359
@rosatoledo9359 2 жыл бұрын
Am bless by God!!!! Thank God!!!!! Don't need to comparison from nobody!!!! Am different & bless by God!!!!!!!
@kayyd4463
@kayyd4463 3 жыл бұрын
Whoaaaaa I was just thinking that I am not doing enough like other Christians and boom this video shows up❤️❤️🙏
@jessicanorris4256
@jessicanorris4256 3 жыл бұрын
I know right exactly.
@kamarisinclair6941
@kamarisinclair6941 3 жыл бұрын
WRD
@sacdaabdurhman
@sacdaabdurhman 3 жыл бұрын
“Success is not measured by what you do compared to what somebody else does. Success is measured by what you do compared to what you are capable of doing “ sharing some love with all of you guys
@brenettasmith9338
@brenettasmith9338 2 жыл бұрын
What a word. I prayed this morning for a word from God. Then said to myself or lead by the Holy Spirit to look through your videos and rested on this one. Wow, I had watched this video before but my God, this ignited my spirit. I have 2 test to pass by June 30, 2022 to get my teacher certification or I will have to come out of the classroom but my faith is contagious ignited my soul. I’m no longer looking at this date. I’m going to increase my faith and believe God who put me back on this path because I have been here before. I asked God for a word this morning. I got it, my faith is contagious. Increase my faith. Don’t doubt my God. The delay is not DENIAL. Thank you, thank you, thank you Morgan. God is truly using you. I pray your ministry which it has keeps growing and growing. Like you said, don’t put no limits on our God. Praise him, praise him for his word and for you Morgan and your ministry. I will continue to follow you and the word that God gives!!!
@danielleisrael2949
@danielleisrael2949 3 жыл бұрын
I do this all the time. Especially in relationships, and it sucks. Why does God bless others and I'm still waiting. I hate comparisons. I need prayers.
@crystalmarshall7445
@crystalmarshall7445 2 жыл бұрын
“When you get deeper into the pit of comparison you start thinking what is wrong with me instead of what is right with me.” OMG this resonated with me because this was me. I desire to be married and have a family and I used to wonder when was it ever gonna be my turn?? Thank you for this video this truly blessed me to stop comparing myself to people and just focus on God and let him do it on his time!!!
@MS-ns4ki
@MS-ns4ki Жыл бұрын
I really don't, but I notice that when I got engaged, everyone HAD TO get a better ring, and people are always staring at me, thinking I am bragging when I am not, and forget it with anything I have. It's the TOP THAT game.
@sacdaabdurhman
@sacdaabdurhman 3 жыл бұрын
Read this louder Ignore what everyone else is doing. Your life is not about everyone else; it’s about you. Instead of focusing on their path, pay attention to your own. That’s where your journey is taking place. Sharing some positivity with ya all
@mizzmeliinspires
@mizzmeliinspires 3 жыл бұрын
This blessed me! I began to feel discouraged with my business but I'm going to keep pursuing and not going to give up. It's fully dedicated to God and I have to trust He loves me just as much as everyone else no matter the outcome.
@MorganTracyJ
@MorganTracyJ 3 жыл бұрын
Yes that’s beautiful
@allthingsbrie924
@allthingsbrie924 3 жыл бұрын
I definitely find myself doing this often. And agreed, we are on our own path 👏👏❤️❤️ Can you also add scriptures to it for the next video?
@MorganTracyJ
@MorganTracyJ 3 жыл бұрын
Every video has scripture references, sometimes I do not highlight do to time issues. But will definitely take this into consideration!
@allthingsbrie924
@allthingsbrie924 3 жыл бұрын
@@MorganTracyJ thank you, love your videos 💗💗🌸🌸
@twinmamacooks2469
@twinmamacooks2469 2 жыл бұрын
Crazy how you hit so many practical points in just a short amount of time. You are so on point and hit further than the surface. My sister sent me your channel and I’m so happy to be here! 🙂💕💕💕🙏🏽🙏🏽
@Patience7813
@Patience7813 3 ай бұрын
Hey, let's compare ourselves to the Word and the standard He outlines. Not even to ourselves, cause self is a leaky boat to be in
@mimimelendez8810
@mimimelendez8810 3 жыл бұрын
I really have been struggling recently with comparison because there’s certain criteria‘s that I have to meet in such little time and that people have already been hitting and I haven’t so it’s been really detrimental to my mental health and I haven’t even noticed but yeah I fell in the pit today and I was like really down and now watching this video I realize what I’m doing to myself and I realize how far I have come and I feel like the angels are just giving me a round of applause for my small wins🏆 and growth God bless you sister in Christ
@jamarlbryant1445
@jamarlbryant1445 Жыл бұрын
Appreciate you needed this message Been comparing myself to others for 2 or 3 years felt like I was not as gifted or talented as others. Felt like my life was boring that is why I try to take breaks away from social because it can take away your joy and happiness. I even had times were i compared myself to my family or friends felt like I was behind. that’s how bad it can be but thank you glad you made this video 🙏🏾🙏🏾.
@Vic-Attempts
@Vic-Attempts 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for uploading this video. I was comparing myself to others today, God was speaking to me through you.
@sheentheexplorer3859
@sheentheexplorer3859 3 жыл бұрын
I definitely struggle with comparison like 24/7
@sarahkenney6330
@sarahkenney6330 3 жыл бұрын
I fully love this! I love the idea of comparing yourself to yourself, where you have come from etc. So so good. You never know, the person you are comparing yourself with, might be comparing the self to you and there is a vicious circle that is just destructive to both! Someone once told me "comparison is suicide. By looking at others you are not true to yourself, therefore you have killed yourself by not being who you were created to be" Thank you for the encouragement hun!
@collirvctth
@collirvctth 3 жыл бұрын
No such thing as a life that is better than mine - my path is unique to the woman that I am becoming and there is no need to compare because the blessings that God has for me is already Done ❤️
@amarijackson4615
@amarijackson4615 3 жыл бұрын
something I'll remember is comparing myself to myself that's really good Morgan
@geriyoung4300
@geriyoung4300 3 жыл бұрын
Compare yourself to yourself . This is great. Once you do that.... you will see your growth .
@NateshasAmbience
@NateshasAmbience 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been comparing myself for years. I didn’t realize it until right now. My joy was affected yesterday because I got caught up in it. Thank God for understanding! 🙌🏽
@Jaiyastudies
@Jaiyastudies 3 жыл бұрын
Another video to make me Get up and do what God needs me to do 😊😊
@MorganTracyJ
@MorganTracyJ 3 жыл бұрын
Great!!
@keshiam88
@keshiam88 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I’ve been in a pit of comparison for 3 days and I know that God intended for me to see this video.
@alexiabowen4035
@alexiabowen4035 3 жыл бұрын
Bless u love! This has been a life long problem and it has actually been the cause of years of severe anxiety and depression ... the word of encouragement is like medicine tho n much appreciated!💙🙏🏽💙
@TeamKerie
@TeamKerie 3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you soooo much! 😁 Thanks for another powerful message Sister 😘😍
@destinyswisdom4669
@destinyswisdom4669 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ☺️ this was good as I declared and decree there is nobody life better than mines! 💪🏽🙌🏾🙏🏽
@MorganTracyJ
@MorganTracyJ 2 жыл бұрын
In Jesus name! Amen.
@Mylifefullofhope
@Mylifefullofhope 3 жыл бұрын
You are awesome Morgan! I learned so much from you in the past couple of days since I found you! May God Bless You!
@Gawdess_Sunnie
@Gawdess_Sunnie 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I’ve struggled with this smh it took my joy because I was looking at others and I had to get out of it because I was causing my own unhappiness. Have you ever heard the song by Jonathan McReynolds called Comparison Kills, It’s a nice song.
@BeccaDoss
@BeccaDoss 3 жыл бұрын
Such a wonderful and needed message, sister! And it’s so important to be willing to acknowledge all areas of growth; it can be hard to get into that practice in the day to day, but when we’re working on following God’s plan for our lives, recognizing the growth helps foster the drive for more growth.
@uniquelyshellz
@uniquelyshellz 3 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah I can definitely relate..but I realize the purpose that God has for me is for me and he wants me to focus on my purpose and not lead astray from what he has given me to do.
@marcymcfadden6966
@marcymcfadden6966 3 жыл бұрын
Thank-you for that Word! I shared this video with a precious teen! She agrees!
@teddylove3675
@teddylove3675 3 жыл бұрын
I am glad that i met you in youtube...honestly God gave me some personal revealations through your videos...i got answers for the questions that was searching for the past 5 years ...God bless you ..!🖤
@maliraheem8340
@maliraheem8340 3 жыл бұрын
Another classic video. Keep up the great work.
@LILOJB
@LILOJB 3 жыл бұрын
The whole video was amazing !!!!! Like it lowkey had me reflecting and crying
@JazmynnMarie
@JazmynnMarie 3 жыл бұрын
Staying off of social media helps ! I use to compare myself to others girls beauty , bodies, etc and since I’ve been off of it more, I don’t do it as much 💖
@mariesylva7563
@mariesylva7563 3 жыл бұрын
thanks!! I follow you from Italy and here there aren't young Christian's KZbinr...so for me, you and your messages are always a blessing! and as always this video has come at the right time too! God bless you!! Sorry if there are mistakes but I'm still learning English... xoxo
@MorganTracyJ
@MorganTracyJ 3 жыл бұрын
Welcome so happy my content is encouraging you!!
@musicmovement6366
@musicmovement6366 3 жыл бұрын
,,one reason you shouldn't compare yourself to others is because 'there are an infinite amount of differences' so don't waste your valuable time--plus; your fine,,,,,
@snowflakeartwork
@snowflakeartwork 3 жыл бұрын
Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. Romans 12:2
@krystalmarie8479
@krystalmarie8479 3 жыл бұрын
He knows what my heart desires!!🙌❤ I will be patient, never compare, and see my growth!! Thank you!!
@lara_milk
@lara_milk 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks God for send me this video!
@kindell1
@kindell1 3 жыл бұрын
This video just encouraged me! Thank you so much for this! ❤❤❤
@whitneyjacksonn
@whitneyjacksonn Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this Morgan. God bless you
@stephaniedasilvaox
@stephaniedasilvaox 3 жыл бұрын
Love this
@TheWholeMamaLife
@TheWholeMamaLife 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being such a blessing with your wise words!
@dezerismith7529
@dezerismith7529 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this word young lady you are wise beyond your years, that is why I’m subscribed , you are so beautiful inside and out God bless you.
@shenicesmith3586
@shenicesmith3586 3 жыл бұрын
I always look forward to videos ... Don't stop we need you in the kingdom
@rachel-ov5bq
@rachel-ov5bq 3 жыл бұрын
God bless you sister. This message truly was for me
@estherjtrotman6478
@estherjtrotman6478 3 жыл бұрын
Very timely reminder. Such a real and beautiful video 💕
@CM-mc7xl
@CM-mc7xl 3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I found this ❤️❤️
@1vpjesus514
@1vpjesus514 3 жыл бұрын
God bless u ! I'm French, i hope learn english with your vidéos.
@hlamulogift1634
@hlamulogift1634 3 жыл бұрын
Been waiting for the video.. Much love from me here in south Africa
@Its-sarahj
@Its-sarahj 3 жыл бұрын
Loved every bit of this! God bless you girl💕
@noziqhamorosed.450
@noziqhamorosed.450 3 жыл бұрын
I was there a few weeks back for quite some time & I am so happy I am out of it. I’ve started admiring what others have that I don’t and learn from them. ❤️
@denikawilliams6286
@denikawilliams6286 3 жыл бұрын
Td Jakes has a sermon on this it’s so good this is so Good ! I am so thankful you made this thank you ! This is helpful! Thank you ! I love that shirt btw 😍
@kiarajaney5222
@kiarajaney5222 3 жыл бұрын
There is no life better than mine! Thank you for this! I love your videos! Such an inspiration for single Christian women 🖤
@elsieatieno4421
@elsieatieno4421 3 жыл бұрын
So timely
@MsQueenB
@MsQueenB 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this ! I was feeling all of these today but your words have taught me that NOBODY’S LIFE is better than mine! Thank you
@Shaunpeters105
@Shaunpeters105 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this,keep doing these type of videos ❤️❤️
@shalomchild7414
@shalomchild7414 3 жыл бұрын
Great words of life 🙌💐
@prissy_krissy
@prissy_krissy 3 жыл бұрын
That song is called Love yours by J Cole, is also a great song to listen to daily! As a reminder of all the things you’ve stated above
@aguedareyes7781
@aguedareyes7781 3 жыл бұрын
Be careful on what you listen to, learned that the hard way. Blessings ♥️.
@mani2272
@mani2272 3 жыл бұрын
Can I hear your experience?
@LaCréé.e
@LaCréé.e 3 жыл бұрын
@@mani2272 There is some christians that are fervently against any type of secular music. I personally think it's a Roman 14 type of case so...
@NaturallyToldbyMara
@NaturallyToldbyMara 3 жыл бұрын
This topic was needed! Currently struggling with this as I work on my KZbin channel. Getting comfy for this one!
@breanna2159
@breanna2159 3 жыл бұрын
I subscribed in .2 seconds. I needed this thank you so much 😭😭😭😭
@MorganTracyJ
@MorganTracyJ 3 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the Family, glad this could bless you
@kamarisinclair6941
@kamarisinclair6941 3 жыл бұрын
Yup
@leilanatui
@leilanatui 3 жыл бұрын
I love your talk and what you share ❤️ very inspiring x
@briannawilliams8725
@briannawilliams8725 3 жыл бұрын
Such wonderful words to start the week off with. Really needed this. I'm in my first semester of university, so I'm in a new environment and it's quite hard to make friends and relate to others because of differing beliefs. I often find myself comparing myself to others, saying "they have such a nice friend group, blah, blah, blah". But bless God for these words.
@Monique3577777
@Monique3577777 3 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking to myself like, “what am I doing wrong”, “is it possible for me”, “why questions”, etc. this was much needed! Thank you 💕
@synthichemukania6030
@synthichemukania6030 3 жыл бұрын
I need to compare myself with me, and my life is good ❤️. Love you gal, thanks for the word
@heathersilas4595
@heathersilas4595 3 жыл бұрын
I have thought this stuff ... I needed this
@thebestversionofme8625
@thebestversionofme8625 3 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this thank you Queen May the lord keep blessing you
@prissy_krissy
@prissy_krissy 3 жыл бұрын
Great way to start my week! Thank you 😊
@Ibs983
@Ibs983 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing message 💕💕💕💕💕
@Im_Monique
@Im_Monique 3 жыл бұрын
Great vlog💖, comparison is the thief of joy~Theodore Roosevelt
@MorganTracyJ
@MorganTracyJ 3 жыл бұрын
So true!
@AMomentWithMonica
@AMomentWithMonica 3 жыл бұрын
This was so helpful to me. I’m thankful for this reminder today. My life is good! ❤️
@YouthOutreach4God
@YouthOutreach4God 3 жыл бұрын
Needed this there is no life better than MINE 🙌🏾
@MorganTracyJ
@MorganTracyJ 3 жыл бұрын
yes girl!!
@elenam9435
@elenam9435 3 жыл бұрын
Takeaways: THE WHOLE VIDEO!!!! LOVE IT!!!🌹🌹💖💖💖
@danellesutton3880
@danellesutton3880 3 жыл бұрын
Amen! I've been feeling the same way lately and had to check that thought immediately. Andy Mineo song "You Can't Stop Me" states, "my biggest enemy is me and even I can't stop me"..
@Mutsa_c
@Mutsa_c 3 жыл бұрын
oh my goodness l was literally telling God that im having trouble with comparing myself;thank you so much for this video!!!!
@naomiegrandpierre6026
@naomiegrandpierre6026 3 жыл бұрын
Love you girl🥰😍
@MsCharnita08
@MsCharnita08 3 жыл бұрын
Wow this is right on time..
@CarronC
@CarronC 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. It’s so easy to fall into that pit of comparison. God has a unique plan for each of us!
@zaedzaed1245
@zaedzaed1245 3 жыл бұрын
I just love you sister. Thank you for allowing God to use you
@akosuaagyarkopoku4453
@akosuaagyarkopoku4453 3 жыл бұрын
first time this early so proud. love this
@latiaashley
@latiaashley 3 жыл бұрын
Girlll Where have you been?! 😄 Thank you for this necessary video and your channel! 🙌🏽❤️ An absolute blessing!!
@Naaaybay
@Naaaybay 3 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this! Thank you so much. May God continue to bless you!❤️
@MorganTracyJ
@MorganTracyJ 3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@AllNaturalCandice
@AllNaturalCandice 3 жыл бұрын
U look go different and thank you for this video
@TVFTG
@TVFTG 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks very much .. I really needed to hear this
@marvelousfaderin9404
@marvelousfaderin9404 3 жыл бұрын
It's like every message released is directly for I have been blessed. And I pray for more of God's annointing upon your life ma'am.
@trellishiadelbridge361
@trellishiadelbridge361 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this. God bless you and your ministry.. I've been going though. I needed this! I Love Your Channel, You Really allow God tp use you. I'm in tears. People need this channel everyone is going through in this time of need and everything going on!
@MorganTracyJ
@MorganTracyJ 3 жыл бұрын
So glad this could bless you!!! All of Jesus
@nmasiwyna9412
@nmasiwyna9412 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sissss
@keishareed1005
@keishareed1005 3 жыл бұрын
Loved this!! It encouraged me to Praise God and congratulate myself for the Minor Miracles
@MorganTracyJ
@MorganTracyJ 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!!! I love that
@wholesoulwithleahelizabeth
@wholesoulwithleahelizabeth 3 жыл бұрын
Great tips!!
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