How To Stop Neediness With Women

2 powerful strategies to help you stop being needy around women.
Women consistently rate neediness as being one of the biggest turn-offs - and yet so many guys find it hard to reduce the amount of needy behaviour that finds its way into their interactions.
Imagine if you could stop feeling so 'thirsty' for women and instead started focussing on what you really wanted from a woman and being willing to walk away.
It's a myth that women are the gatekeepers of sex - in fact you should be your own gatekeeper as well, and insist on meeting better quality women.
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[@zachfriedman92]

Hi, Damien. I just found your channel and started watching your videos about a week ago. I really love your content so far. You're nuanced and interesting and make really good points, especially with subverting common dating and relationship advice. I appreciate what you do and wanted to thank you for making these videos. Keep up the great work :)

[@martintheguitarist]

"On average women don't approach men" - It's more like 99.9% of the time. Great video though.

[@ryanbarker3978]

Great stuff sir. It's amazing how fast we forget that if we want a successful relationship with someone else, it actually needs some kind of foundation of mutual respect to be built off of. I always laugh when I see pick up centered around things like the "5 magic text messages that will make her crazy about you" because it completely de-humanizes interaction. Sure, there are effective psychological and physiological tricks you can learn to trigger dopamine release and help you get your foot in the door. My question back to all of these programs is what are you supposed to do when that is all you have going for you and that dopamine high crashes down? Relying on a feel good hormone that also happens to drive the brain's addiction center to get you what you want doesn't exactly scream healthy relationship to me. More likely, you enter a situation where someone doesn't like you, they like the way you make them feel. How is that winning for either person involved?

[@MyRocker24]

It’s a great video. Reminds me of what Mark Manson said in Models.

[@corichang]

Thank you, Damien. This is what I've heard. Women are gatekeepers of sex. Men are gatekeepers of relationships.

[@monkeytrollhunter]

This frame would not work one bit if you have nothing going for yourself, a.k.a if you're not a high-value man. If a girl has to jump through hoops or tries to impress you, then she will do that not because you change the "frame" to make her earn it, but if you're worth earning it. But one thing I agree with is that yes, putting her on a pedestal and other needy behaviors are turnoffs.

[@sportgamer5853]

Hey, just made a tinder account and got Gold, unfortunately I swiped loads at really bad times and at the start my profile was really bad so didn't get tonnes of matches, I also haven't used my boost. If I delete and re-install Tinder will I get my boosts back and will my ELO score be reset?

[@Straga_Severa]

Sorry, but no. She has a choice - to approach or not to approach. She is not prohibited from approaching, she just decides to use her female privilege to not get rejected. If the guy was a rockstar, she would absolutely run up to him and try to talk to him, forgetting about this "societal conventions" crap in a second.