How To Stop People Pleasing x Sarah Jakes Roberts & Mo James

[@lisaharper7185]

God says the fear of man is a snare … often we don’t say no when we should because we feel guilty about setting a boundary… or we don’t want to deal with the disapproval of others … Serving others is good if the motive is to serve God … God showed me that the root of my people pleasing was to control and yes Sarah you hit it on the nail it is manipulation… it brings a false sense of security … it’s ok to want to be liked and loved but that desire should not control you into becoming a people pleaser … we can’t do the right thing if we are allowing our need for approval to control us

[@vennieher5904]

A Sermon within itself -“we can’t do the right thing if we are allow our need for approval to control us.” I need to hear this. Thank you🙏🏾

[@RetrosOverHoes]

Amen 💕

[@m_u_x0x0]

WoW 💕thank you

[@anitav522]

“GOD LOVES A CHEERFUL GIVER”

[@danieljames9037]

If it doesn't make money...it doesn't make sense! Meeting expectations is like currency! It's strategic!!

[@j-s-m-rasmr5292]

If it doesn’t make money it don’t make cents !!

[@chatwat7832]

Learning not to people please period. The black communities do it a lot to move up and get ahead and this is something we must navigate through. It will alleviate brokenness

[@RitaReeB]

“I can’t give that.” Whew! A four-word WORD! 🙌🏾

[@caimbeauty9628]

“give to the extent you are willing to loose.” NOTED!

[@ladyt.knight7602]

“Only give to the extent that we are willing to lose” truth. I NEVER lend money. If I can’t give it to you, you don’t get it. It’s my boundary, it’s clear, and nonnegotiable.

[@ms.gracefullybroken8724]

LadyT.Knight I totally agree with your comment love

[@folashade7845]

SJRRRRR, CAN I PLEEEASE HAVE A WHOLE EPISODE SOMETIME SOON, PLEASE MA'AM?!?!?! I NEED MORE OF THIS!!!😭😭😭😭

[@EatPrayDream]

Yes! I'm here google searching like where's the rest of this video at ?!

[@idaliaaa6900]

It’s on her podcast , you can find it on Spotify or the app podcasts

[@alishashelton75]

@@idaliaaa6900do you know what episode of the podcast it’s on?

[@RetrosOverHoes]

AMEN AMEN AMEN!!!!!!!!! Thank you for this vibration here Lord, Amen

[@myroyalty100]

I absolutely love this conversation wish it were longer 💕 ♥️ God bless

[@naturalfitgirl80]

Chiiiiile Chile! Edges snatched ! This was so good. Stay woke! ✊🏾👍🏾👏🏾🤛🏾

[@gorgeouswales9635]

Mrs. Sarah always comes with Real Talk! It’s good, thank you both😁

[@joycegatson6481]

I need this full podcast in my life. It ended as it was getting real good!

[@alexparker2019]

This right 👆🏽 smh.... This is why I love being part of Women Evolve. I know wasn't crazy! “If you give it and you need it to give back to you. You might not get it back.” FACTS

[@mrs.michaelahall7613]

Wow. I love MO. I met her in AZ and I love you ladies both. God thank you for your love ❤ 😍 💖 ❣

[@jordankeels5617]

Ooohh!! This was good! Dr. Brene Brown talks about stealth expectations and this was a word!

[@faithwalk.]

"We're ragedy" and Sarah whole look is 🔥🔥👌🏾💯

[@emihlembanjwa1517]

Lovely and true message indeed we live in a time where pleasing people is better than being unique. I was also in a situation at school where I was in a group of friends of which I had to please the group of friends I was in but I was not being fully me. Now that I have detached from that friend group I am finally living life and I have a new group of friends I hang around with of which I was friends with before but didn't hang around them often. I thank God for guiding me through the process and making me feel free in a place of where I am meant to receive an education. I also pray that God protects me and guides me in the preparation season for my examination season. Thank you pastor Sarah you are a blessing to many lives.

[@aneishahill1632]

Amen 🙌🏽 thank You I watch your videos everyday and I really needed to hear this i am only 19 and A young mother & I’ve always struggled with expressing the Expectations I’ve had for my daughters father.

[@NataziaBrelle]

Babyyyyy y’all need to mind y’all business and STAY out of mine!!! 😂😂😂😂 this was too accurate! Almost threw my phone!

[@LovelyDanyell]

Yesssss... "I can't give that"!

[@ATeam-fb5tr]

L'Tora Lane. Thanks Sarah, God continue to bless your her. Girl you walking me through this Strom. 🤗

[@froggysongsz7791]

Amen! I needed this word. Voice your exceptions*** God Bless everyone 💗🙏🏾

[@ogechukwu3b584]

Thank you for this. Thank you God.🙏🙏🙏

[@lindohlily]

And it all boils down to communicating...but it's tiring to do so even for things that seem basic..no one wants to be abused or taken advantage of, and so do to others what you'll want them do to you.

[@tboykin13tb]

STOP the people Pleasing NOW!!!! 🤩

[@lucillekluivert343]

THE MOMENT YOU ARE TRUE TO YOURSELF AND TRUE TO GOD THE PLEASING STOPS ITSELF YOU DONT HAVE TO DO ANYTHING ELSE ALWAYS SPEAK THE TRUTH DONT SUGERCOAT OR HIDE THINGS FROM OTHERS JUST BE YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF ❤🙏

[@rachellelatryce]

Wow. Just wow! Never would have pieces it that way. My God!

[@j-s-m-rasmr5292]

The pieces together bring peace

[@tywondalassiter5860]

Love this.. Need more on this

[@aprilmccain3632]

Yessss!!! I agree with you sister!

[@kimevans2819]

I needed to hear this RIGHTTTT NOWWWW ..

[@kashaylott3118]

This is true word always on time

[@damilareoyefeso806]

A word. A word. I needed this.

[@Jusb88]

Yeeeeessssssssssss Ma'am that was everything.

[@TheMoreEssence]

Oh my greatness- this is SOOO GOOD!!!

[@cashaunaalexander5998]

Got IT..... Thank you..... GOD BLESS....

[@Meditateandheal818]

Wow won't God do it! This is the answer to my prayers 😊

[@gr_id_virgo_tube9645]

Here for all of it!!! Come on now!!!

[@lijah7150]

Don't sow into what won't reap for you; that's for anything apart from sowing into God.

[@riimak4575]

Wow. Thanks ladies🙏

[@shalondradale1632]

Amen I can receive that ❤️💯💯

[@tararochelle]

This just blew my mind!!

[@tararochelle]

This is sooo good!

[@anellamorrison738]

This was great conversation i just hear a little but it was very powerful. thank for sharing you both are so beautiful and intelligent and powerful woman of God.

[@nggriffin4670]

So real!

[@quinthiairakoze3156]

That's a sentence have a heavy meaning can't stop thinking about that

[@kouladerzotis8207]

God bless everyone

[@nikashanelle4205]

Baby this is a whole entire word 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@musclegurl8302]

Real talk, I love it, that was really profound and relatable, keep diving in just like that ❤🙏👍😊👏

[@Rdy2win]

Good stuff!! Ladies woohoo 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@tabooj19]

Woooow…… 6:55 am on Saturday morning just WOW

[@annmarie_everbless3378]

Amen sister 🙏🏾 ❤

[@JazzyMB7]

So true speak girl yeesss

[@carlah8814]

Woww, this is DEEP! I love this ❤️

[@halimab.4072]

It's the voicing of the expectations

[@darash555]

Sending you both some love.

[@aprilmccain3632]

Amen yesssss!!!

[@triciaosborn8093]

"Only give to the extent that we are willing to lose..." WOW. So....expectation be gone. Lord Jesus, what if expectation (unhealthy) is part of the weight He wants is to lay aside?!?! JESUS!!!! Help me Lord to lay aside the weight of every expectation that is not from You, not for You and is weighing me down from stepping into all You are calling me to be. In Jesus name, Amen!

[@DifferentWorles]

That's so good!!

[@rhondarogers8923]

Powerful!!

[@colettebeamon7455]

Sometimes we expect to much for people

[@myroyalty100]

And when we do this it causes pain 💔

[@j-s-m-rasmr5292]

Zero expectations equals zero letdowns

[@kashaylott3118]

Sarah u right

[@The90sGirl90sstyle]

Help Lord😂 I expect and voice my expectations....then, things go left. That communication in marriage......

[@unakanor8817]

I love this ❤️

[@ChiefCedricJohnson]

James 5:16 Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.

[@porshaj.9897]

Meeting expectations is currency wow

[@sibvone14]

If you wanted my edges you could have just said that😂🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@Theconfetticollective]

I came in peace! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@TheLoveBrand]

I need a sermon about this… still got questions 🤔

[@JasmineJanae]

All of this!!!

[@QueenBree_27]

We raggedy Fr 🤣🤣

[@bobbydelarosa5059]

GOD IS KING 👑✝️

[@caroltanner5219]

U love the topic 🙏

[@ange77338]

I love you, I'm rolling 🤣

[@daniellemarshall3251]

"Give to the extent that we are willing to lose"

[@suni3959]

I'm Humbled All Day Everyday Just To Get Through The Day Without Incidents An Accidents 🤍🕊️

[@tulettebitner221]

You guys are killing me lol

[@loreenjoyce4006]

Encouraged

[@stephaniepolk8744]

I peeped it too, Sarah.

[@chichis7768]

That's right.😊😂😂🤗😘💕💕💕

[@iMustPandaLean]

🔥🔥🔥 wow 🙌🏾

[@tonyanovak639]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Dr.J1972]

Great 🙌🏾

[@MaryBieber7]

I miss the delegation and rescue Eve☹️☹️ I know SJR is doing a new thing with the podcast, but rescue Eve was so unique and made the podcast really special 😌 I support SJR regardless but just wanted to put that out there!

[@desireerandall7161]

Amen

[@sunshine-qz3xn]

Hey 🥰 🌎 this is good wow

[@lovetogroovemovement]

Whoooooa!!!!!!

[@cristalroberts9962]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@alphaandomega1332]

Sarah will read you in such a Christian way…I need to take classes …

[@bcdmovement6856]

Yes offer to give a bath 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@lucillekluivert343]

I HAVE NO EXPECTATIONS OF ANYTHING I JUST KNOW IT BEFORE IT HAPPENS SOMETIMES I WISH I WASNT LIKE THIS I DONT THINK I JUST KNOW ,A FRIEND OF MINE ALWAYS SAID WHY ARE YOU LIKE THIS I SAID ITS NOT ME CREATED MYSELF GOD DID ,EXPECTATIONS HURTS THATS WHY I DONT HAVE IT I LOVE TO BE HAPPY AND SPEAK THE TRUTH ALWAYS EVEN IF PEOPLE DONT LIKE IT I DONT CARE AM SORRY I LIVE WITH A SMILE ON MY FACE 24/7 I DONT GET ANGRY PEOPLE DO THATS WHY THEY GET ALOT OF DESEASES LIKE BLOOD PRESSURE AND CANCER NO BABY NOT FOR ME IF YOUR ANGRY AT ME AM GONNA LAUGH AT YOU CAUSE AM A COOL AND CALM PERSON AND I DONT EXPECT THINGS FROM PEOPLE BUT FROM MYSELF

[@godswarriornana5860]

🔥💖🔥💖

[@bobbydelarosa5059]

JESUS LOVES YOU

[@naturestruththerapy]

Facttss

[@tstephens9178]

OUCH!!!!

[@karondalittlejohn]

Oh my gosh, don’t sit there and read me like this 😅

[@lynette1988]

😆

[@musicnew2]

Hi Sarah Jakes, my pastor, I'm Eden Dumelo switching from South Africa Capetown and watch out for my new gospel song release (such away I see) via all music platforms and KZbin channel and I wish that with all your support that you could use my song to sustain and allows my public ministry to accelerate even further and I thanks

[@lucillekluivert343]

I DONT EXPECT IT I COMMAND IT JUST LIKE GOD COMMANDS ME I DONT SAY TO MY SONS AM GOING TO CHURCH ARE YOU COMMING NOOO I SAY WE ARE GOING TO CHURCH ON SUNDAY ITS WE NOT I ,WE DO EVERYRHING TOGETHER AND I TALK ABOUT IT FIRST ,WE ALL HAVE FREE WILL AND GOD DOESNT EXPECT THINGS FROM US HE COMMANDS US ITS YESS OR NO ,IF I HAVE 1000 USD AND SOMEONE ASK ME FOR MONEY I WONT SAY I DONT HAVE MONEY I TELL THE TRUTH I HAVE IT TO USE IT FOR SOMETHING I CANT GIVE YOU ,HONESTY AND TRUTH IS WHAT PEOPLE DONT LIKE THATS WHY THEY EXPECT OR HAVE HIGH EXPECTATIONS ,AM A WEIRD PERSON I KNOW IT BUT I HOPE SOMEONE CAN UNDERSTAND ME CAUSE THERE IS ONE PERSON WHO DOES AND THAT IS ME (MY TWIN ) AND HE DOESNT FIND ME WEIRD HE SAYS AM SO LOVING AND THAT IS WHO I AM

[@dasajalanier7534]

this one was real ❤️‍🩹