Joyce Meyer, CeCe Winans: People Pleasing is Exhausting | FULL EPISODE | Better Together on TBN

This week on Better Together, Laurie Crouch, Joyce Meyer, CeCe Winans, Lisa Harper, and Elisabeth Hasselbeck discuss how to stop being a people pleaser.
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[@NakishaRHicks]

My Lord!

[@peggatheecructhfield9624]

i was shamed of my chirdhood i was put in an hoomper

[@peggatheecructhfield9624]

i,m people plteaser too

[@raimundomedeiros1190]

🇧🇷📞💋💋💋💋💋💋💥💐💐💐💐💐👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👍👍👍👍👍👍💋💋💋💋💋💋💥💥💐💐💐💐💐

[@raimundomedeiros1190]

Se este valores nutricionais e após falar com peixes valorize o seu amo você

[@irispellot687]

People pleasing will wear you out emotionally. I had to pray, Lord teach me how to let my yes be yes and my no be no.

[@wendyfree8968]

AMEN!!!

[@elizabethkienast9648]

Amen beautiful ladies!!!¡!!!

[@faznout]

I love seeing these ladies together. This is actually the type of "talk show" that needs to be on during the day 5 days a week. Not anything like The View or The Talk or all the other shows like it that bring nothing but drama, chaos, gossip and hatred. There's nothing anyone can learn from those type of shows and they add no real value to our lives. But I really wish someone would put together a panel of women as we see here, who all have God in their lives and can help people live a better life.

[@lindalynch7505]

I so agree.

[@walterhays4836]

Amen to that idea.

[@journeymurray5708]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@mirnab4313]

Hillsong has something like this, weekly... Sisterhood Table Talk... Check it out...

[@saetae9208]

What about you. If this is in you, You work to make it happen or assist someone else in making it happen 😊

[@bryantotten2757]

You eventually become enslaved to people's moods instead of walking freely in the spirit.If you know you have not mistreated someone and they are still angry with you ,walk away.

[@ShareTheGospelTV]

This is so true,🙌 thanx for this Bryan.

[@kikikiki3216]

Omg I spent a lot of my younger years being enslaved to people's emotions. Never again.

[@ydonnay3145]

Amen

[@sandrabryant8547]

That's these two. Oh my. Nothing ever is steady for them. I ask God into their area's to cause them to triumph through Jesus.

[@ladennayoung2939]

Yep. The spirit of the Lord will lead you to pull away from some people. Because He knows their hearts and intentions towards you. And He knows that they won't do by right you. They will keep attacking you verbally, emotionally, spiritually, and in some cases physically or sexually. And at the end of the day the Lord don't want you to expose yourself to any type of abuse, pain, or heartache unnecessarily. If there is any unforgiveness there. You would need to ask the Lord to help you release it over to Him, and to help you move forward with your life in a healthy way in Jesus name.

[@sla1xyz]

People pleasing can be an adaptive survival instinct to trauma known as fawning, its not a "nice" personality trait or something that should be encouraged. Yes we should help people but not at the expense of ending up neglecting ourselves and ending up unfulfilled, overwhelmed and resentful because we're not comfortable with saying NO.

[@bellagrace9812]

Well said.❤

[@SheilaTrueLove]

I LOVE Joyce Meyers so very much. This LADY helped me through the most trying times in my LIFE. I LOVE and APPRECIATE her so, so much. She is my MENTOR.

[@tyleryepes8515]

Nice one , actually I’m really depressed right now, lost a coworker. very devastating , Needed someone to talk to

[@ghis4355]

So, joyce helped you but Jesus didn’t?

[@ghis4355]

Jesus should be your mentor!

[@jojomasipa379]

@@tyleryepes8515 I hope you are feeling better. If you want to talk, please reach out. Don't suffer in silence

[@moniquewrites9046]

Saul, the former king, was in my devotional today. He was a people pleaser and was replaced for a man after God’s own heart.

[@bridgettjulia8950]

I was just thinking this..the bible does NOT say that...It says we ate to love one another..Loving someone is not being a people pleaser.....Also when you love someone...it will not require you to disobey God..or allow people to manipulate you...

[@ladennayoung2939]

Yep. We got to focus on doing what God told us to do when He told us to do it.

[@Meektalk45]

Love it ❤️💯

[@nyorkiacupid4988]

@@bridgettjulia8950 except people pleasing can counteract God's favor in your life. For example, a woman stuck in an unhealthy realtionship, she wants to leave but is concerned about what others, especially her famiy, would say. That's people pleasing and it's dangerous. If she were to leave, Doors would open that no man could shut but she choose to stay on a path not touched by the divine. While each situation in life is a lesson learnt for us all, overstaying your welcome in those situations is condemning and you'd be doing a disservice to yourself. You can love someone from afar. To love doesn't mean to people please. Two entirely different things.

[@Melb321]

That’s so true omg

[@KingskidAsh]

So many people who were or are abused deserved this. Praise God and Glory to the most high name ❤️

[@NakishaRHicks]

Do not be afraid of letting people down! My God! I have received. The wall of people’s pleasing has been torn down. THANK YOU, JESUS!!!!

[@pinkrain]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@pamelaroyston6707]

Glory to GOD!!!

[@Eternitychannel7777]

To anyone struggling today. God has great plans for your life and will accomplish all he has purposed no matter how things look today. Believe God that the best is yet to come. Be Inspired!

[@jamesgungadeen9354]

Amen

[@patrickmusansi6874]

I received it in the almighty name of Christ Jesus. Amen

[@denischabriddell986]

🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@alodiaprie1]

Amen, thank you ❤️

[@tradingguy1004]

Soooooo true!!! thanKs for your words! 🔥🔥🔥

[@gaudenciaredwin2154]

You can't afford to disobey God at the cost of pleasing people, obedience is far cheeper Than sucrifice🙏🏽

[@sloanbanks1932]

Snapple Apple Fact

[@c.l.9344]

Amen.

[@OptimisticOutlook]

Nicely put

[@shaemkley]

Amen

[@shaemkley]

@@sloanbanks1932 🤣🤣🤣

[@sylviaochieng3929]

A necessary discussion. I have lived in fear of being rejected and always striving to be useful and available to everyone. The fear of being misunderstood has literally stolen potential friendships I really needed. It's so sad that these thoughts of seeking approval from people plagued my worship too. I refuse this snare and am working on the virtue of contentment. Jesus' love and approval is ENOUGH. I hope I don't have to wait to be older so that I can be bolder

[@dewhiteevans758]

I really enjoyed reading your response. I am so happy for you to get this at a young age. I am over 50 and this stole many joys

[@francessmalls4075]

I've learned how to say no now and taking care of myself, after God told me to " Be Still And Know That He Is God" my body is all burned out and God is restoring me, don't know how long it's going to take, but I'm listening to the voice of Almighty God, Amen

[@OptimisticOutlook]

I'm happy for you.

[@ladennayoung2939]

I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus name. You have to do what is best for you and yours in Jesus name.

[@JamesSmith-pn3nw]

Hello hope the virus didn't affect you..?

[@JamesSmith-pn3nw]

@@ladennayoung2939 Hope the virus didn't affect you...?

[@francessmalls4075]

@@JamesSmith-pn3nw Hello, praise be to Almighty God, no it didn't giving God thanks in Jesus Name Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@manichairdo9265]

I was critisized as a people pleaser when I wanted my house and everything 'just so' for guests. I replied, I don't want to please them I want to bless them. God, Himself, told me never to be a part of any 'in crowd'. I obeyed. My heavenly family is my 'in crowd'. 😁

[@petuia8081]

Pleasing God puts you in a position of being a blessing to people.

[@yolandawooten-mitchell1404]

Amen!! Thank you for your encouragement. I needed to hear this message. You nailed it.

[@lovefelix1566]

Flattery vs. Encouragement. There is a difference (love that)

[@JustMe-qq3rc]

I agree, I think these women convening every day of the week to broadcast to everyone within hearing distance would be awesome.

[@judygraessle7358]

Thank you Lords ladies. You are wise, awesome, amazing, selfless, humble and so kind and thoughtful to share yourselves with us. God bless you and your families.

[@GospelLoveSongs90]

To whoever may be reading this, don't let your emotions take over you. Do the right thing. 🙂

[@jeeolsen9993]

Cry out to God for everything and read and trust and believe what he says you really don’t need any one to make you happy and also you don’t need to please anyone. That is the true freedom in Christ !!

[@reenacolborne6736]

I came upon this for a reason I am a recovering people pleaser It’s really tough though I still explain myself And am reminded strongly To STOP I needed this 🙏🏼

[@STAUG2001]

same. praying for us both

[@reenacolborne6736]

@@STAUG2001 Amen so good to know that we never alone As humans we can care from a distance 🙏🏼💝

[@cdcc3088]

I love these types of communication related to spiritual thoughts, it's so uplifting..And reading the wisdom/discernment people have and share in their comments.

[@judyculich2635]

I believe you always have to remember ' Its not about You'. Its about God.

[@marcusdiego2777]

Hello Judy, how are you doing 😊

[@sknoche1981]

“If I say should in my mind, I don’t need to should all over myself” great quote!

[@marcusdiego2777]

Hello Susan, how are you doing 😊

[@Xjessicamartins]

Hi Susan I could not understand the meaning of that quote, since I am learning English. What does it mean to should all over yourself ?

[@judyculich2635]

I love Mrs. Meyer. Her honesty, and her story I can relate too. Thank you, Jesus for showing me Your Love and who you are and always being there with me. You are my Father.

[@terrisolaroli4169]

Amen!!!

[@tyleryepes8515]

Nice one , actually I’m really depressed right now, lost a coworker. very devastating , Needed someone to talk to

[@judyculich2635]

@@tyleryepes8515 Hi Tyler, just seeing how your doing? Hope your well.

[@CliffBell]

Love this. Great topic, excellent guests, powerful prayer at the end.

[@wylancslass]

Wow! I was meant to find this today! I have been hurt real bad recently and have just realised because of this video it's because I am a people pleaser! I never realised that until now. I had a friend who I adored and did everything possible to "please" them. Low and behold when I was not "useful" anymore I was "blocked" in every which way you can imagine. Thank you so much for this video!!! What an eye opener!!

[@nanungimaureen368]

Ouch this is a sensitive and necessary topic thank you ladies..

[@pattistuber8018]

Thank you all so much for the transparency in sharing from the word and your own experiences. I have been so encouraged and ministered to by this ministry. Plus, it's such a wonderful blessing to see sisters in Christ of diverse backgrounds and ethnicity coming together in love like Christ wants. It's a huge witness in our chaotic world. 🧡❤️💙💚🎶🎶

[@ashleym5000]

"I'm so necessary." Lol I feel you, girl. I deal with that, too. Just remember that God is what gifts you, girl, so if you let someone down, God never will.

[@thekidz2899]

Thank you so much! This was on time for me. Especially the words of Elizabeth regarding her mother in law. I needed that! All of this was powerful.

[@ChosenChildofGod1]

GOOD MEMORIES LADIES. RELATED TO JOYCE & LISA AS IN FELT! ALL GOOD INFO 👍 👌 I💙💕RECEIVED in The MIGHTY NAME of Jesus AMEN 🙏 🙌

[@christthelord91]

Those 2 together!!?? Epic!! Cece and Joyce!!! God bless the others too

[@alexandraanderson3988]

Yesss their my favorites never thought they'll be in the same room together it's amazing and iconic at the same time the rest ae awesome to very inspiring

[@bobshoptv9860]

God is faithful to strengthen us when we face temptation and trials. If you are in a tough situation, learn into the Lord. Allow his word to build up your faith. God wants to remind you that he is there for you, especially in our darkest moments. He promises that we that are his will be protected from the traps of the evil one.

[@carolinewakonyo5]

Thanks ladies for having this uncommon conversation

[@Refreshing_Words]

This is so good. I am overcoming the people pleasing tendencies that I have. It has been a lifelong journey of allowing God into my most vulnerable places of trauma.

[@lindacalisto9034]

One day I am going to be on the Better together show

[@beatriceowusuachaw6210]

Oh God help us not to please anyone but God

[@King_Of_Glory_Music]

To anybody who's reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind right now. May clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life. Amen

[@lumkancinitwa8682]

I pray to God to release me from being a people pleaser. I suffered a lot of rejection and I guess it resulted from that. I always longed to be loved and felt like people don't understand me.

[@OptimisticOutlook]

Dont let the enemy of our souls win this battle. I know its hard, but trust God. Ive prayed for you.

[@tyleryepes8515]

Nice one , actually I’m really depressed right now, lost a coworker. very devastating , Needed someone to talk to

[@raquelwilson9190]

Lumka, I understand completely dear

[@OptimisticOutlook]

@@raquelwilson9190 yep

[@juliacoello1907]

I stand in agreement with you in your prayer 🙏

[@victoriousvictory8899]

As a Nurse or a Doctor period we have to be people pleasing as customers service. Yes Joyce you are right we have to please God first when our integrity goes against the will of God!

[@KuroshiOwo_official]

That’s not the kind of people pleasing she’s talking about.

[@oriade1889]

Live for the audience of 1.. I live to please God

[@lucillelaurenzi4510]

Thankyou ladies for this show.I'm very inspirational fed.

[@soloangel625]

Doing what God wants me do is the best. for me. Older and bolder Amen 🙏

[@lovegospelsongs8575]

To the beautiful soul reading this, GOD is going to big hug you so tight that all your broken pieces will fit back together.Just trust in Him.Amen.🙏🏾🌍❤

[@natalienakazwe8716]

I love the sister who spoke about idolising her mother in law. When in in God's presence I find that I'm so authentic but when I'm far from him wow I'm so fearful and people pleasing. I hate that FOLPD Syndrome...thanks sisters and mamas. Mama Joyce I love you.

[@mercyadoda4683]

Thank you ladies for being so open with the truth, I was so blessed listening to you all today. God bless you all. I will watch this again and again.

[@KCal1213]

Can’t stand TBN but love, love, love Joyce and CeCe

[@racheltoby9648]

LOVE YOU Cece...

[@desalinewilliams-johnson9278]

Thanks ladies I have been battling this for years …. God continued blessings on your lives .. 🙏🏾

[@msbeautifulll68]

This is such enriching and eye opening. Praise God for His healing and deliverance. Bless each of these women, but also every woman that can relate to what they experienced, got the help to help others. :-)

[@tyleryepes8515]

Nice one , actually I’m really depressed right now, lost a coworker. very devastating , Needed someone to talk to

[@JamesSmith-pn3nw]

Hello hope the virus didn't affect you?

[@tammiesherrie]

This is really good thank you ladies💓 this is one of the things that I go through. I encourage everyone to please God & not man ✨

[@ms.leticiahernandez6592]

This is empowering. I needed this

[@damararobinson3264]

Amen I needed to hear this! Thank you Jesus 🙏🏽❤️

[@oraldinepoellnitz4475]

Hahaha 💕 "well will you sign this then " such a good spirit 😄 lovely women of God that have ministered to my spirit so many times and on so many levels 😉 Blessings to you all. good health protection and happiness to each of you.

[@deborah-keirpaulsen1973]

so profound! so thankful for Jesus putting this on my home page. just what i needed to hear! i've been struggling with difficult friendships in my life and God is really taking me on a journey. so much encouragement and wisdom that i can carry with me on this walk! so excited!

[@joymuigai1244]

This is soo good. So blessed and encouraged. ❤

[@carolynharris7920]

I so Loved this discussion. It was just the breakfast, lunch, dinner & snacks I needed...GOD BLESS 🙌

[@vivianoguche169]

This is so real, so valid. Thank you ladies. Lisa, nice to meet you.

[@brit204]

So happy I've overcome this!

[@elizabethdegrate3728]

GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY 🙏 AND GOD BLESS YOUR MINISTRY 🙏

[@marcusdiego2777]

Hello Elizabeth, how are you doing 😊

[@Brandonsingz]

CeCe Winans is really beautiful.....wow!!!❤️❤️❤️

[@ladennayoung2939]

Thanks for this video. I really needed to see this. And I have been praying to the Lord to move myself into this season where I can be in a position to do His will, and enjoy what I'm doing at the same time. Which is what I know that He called me to do. Otherwise we can become grouchy, miserable, and inflict that onto others. It's not good for you, anyone you come in contact with, or anyone else around you period. We have to learn that the word no is not a bad thing. In fact it can be a blessing in disguise and a good thing. We have to let God be God in our lives and get out of His way.

[@PatriciaLopez-fn8el]

God bless 😇 Joyce Meyer 🙏❤♥ Cece Winans Great 👍👌👍👌 Show

[@jaitoutmulangaclemence6545]

Amen 🙏 thank you so much to you all ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@sherrywaldrop2827]

Amen , I needed to hear this , this morning Thank you Lord 🙏🙏

[@tyleryepes8515]

Nice one , actually I’m really depressed right now, lost a coworker. very devastating , Needed someone to talk to

[@cheptoolimo2187]

Thank you.

[@tammimiller4146]

I thank each of these ladies for sharing their stories and for speaking God's Word in to my heart through my time of need. God Bless you each.

[@OptimisticOutlook]

Do the same for someone else now.

[@tyleryepes8515]

Nice one , actually I’m really depressed right now, lost a coworker. very devastating , Needed someone to talk to

[@OptimisticOutlook]

@@tyleryepes8515 was due to covid?

[@JamesSmith-pn3nw]

Hello hope the virus didn't affect you..?

[@phyllispoteat6043]

I'm a people pleaser and the Lord have dealth with me about bow down to men.

[@pedromas55pm]

Wow Awesome These beautiful women just started my day right How refreshing Thank you , Bless you 😎♥️🙏

[@felixr.martinii6588]

Great set of minds and spirits. This is what society needs to tune into. Thanks

[@sydneylol9]

I thank God for this video, from.the bottom of my heart. This has been such a blessing, truly. As I'm beginning my walk with the Lord and as I continue to die to self and ask Him to search me and refine me, there are so many things that He's exposing to me that root from my past abuse that I was oblivious to like people-pleasing. And it's hard to ask for help when you don't even know what the problem is, so when you feel stuck and confused, and hear something like this that these women are bold enough to address, it helps brings to light things that have been buried for so long, so again I thank God for this video because it really helped me get understanding of how I can stop self-sabotaging and help others who are doing the same. Bless y'all and your ministry, according to His will

[@tyleryepes8515]

Nice one , actually I’m really depressed right now, lost a coworker. very devastating , Needed someone to talk to

[@gracemukemba88]

I Love Joyce myer

[@anngudenrath3028]

Such ab3autiful teaching from a beautiful group of women! NO flattery here LOL💗

[@e.w8917]

Wow how did KZbin pop this video up for me. I needed this !!!

[@avenida1340]

What a nice conversation... it makes me want to be there God bless

[@kennethmood535]

thank you God Joyce Meyers is top of the Christmas tree amen well done

[@indaycalo3728]

What a wonderful Gods story in ur life ladies

[@FransceneJK98]

Having been raised by multiple narcissists and catering to them all my life, it feels so selfish to take care of me and to say No to them. They guilt trip me. When do you consider someone as actually being selfish when they say no? Is it when they have alternate motives? Please share. This is so new to me

[@belbee9761]

LOVE THIS. Ive always had this problem and now that I have a child it is really time to fix it.

[@balancedviewpoint7418]

Joyce Meyer that was heart wrenching experience but I affirm you. It is well now that you are in God's hands. You inspire many across the globe.

[@jerishiabeasley764]

Wow this message was so for me me hands down this is confirmation

[@carleeroseterangi6923]

And pray for lees four sons suppose to move overseas. Protection. Bless you.

[@elsagonzalez-qp2ob]

😮❤OMG THIS NEEDS TO BE REPEATED, REPEATED AND REPEATED ❤❤❤❤❤

[@sayezulu8071]

1 God be the judge of all this!!! Wisdom and love abides with God!!

[@willenefranklin8465]

This was totally divine. Thank you ladies for allowing Jesus to use you for such a needed discussion. May The Creator God continually shine upon you individually and grant you peace eternally.

[@willibce1]

Divine indeed

[@mariaayala2649]

I so enjoyed watching a group of ladies of Faith, touch on a sensitive topic as people pleasing, something I too have struggled through many years of my life; and have finally come to realize, that the only one I should be pleasing is my heavenly father who will always love me unconditionally. May the Lord Jesus Christ continue to Bless us all with the fortitude to stand strong, Amen.

[@tyleryepes8515]

Nice one , actually I’m really depressed right now, lost a coworker. very devastating , Needed someone to talk to

[@justinwhite600]

This topic was so relevant and also very confirming to some things

[@alodiaprie1]

Father thank you for this message and these awesome ladies for being open about their weaknesses, It strengthens our faith by confessing one to another. You said we overcome by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of our testimony. May you be Lord over every area of our lives through Christ Jesus! ❤️💯

[@OptimisticOutlook]

Let it be so

[@thegymnasticgirls1927]

Joyce, your story is amazing. Your mom’s fears of making it on her own relates to even today’s mother’s fears. So many women feel this way. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@mrs.ericalaurenhornmason3825]

Merry Christmas 🎁🎄👼🏻👼🏿🦌🎅🏻✨🎠🧸🛷🎼🩰☃️❄️🧚🏻🧚🏾‍♂️🧚🏻‍♀️🎠🎠🌠⛸⛸🎼🛼🛼❄️🌹

[@Indigowind]

I like the color of Mrs. Meyers lipstick

[@manuelar7743]

I ask you Lors to help my mom say No when she needs to.

[@AKingZWldAQu33nZUnVZ]

My Mom Is A Christian And I Love Her But Sometimes I Feels Like She Follow The Flesh In The World And Instead Following God First I Am Still Praying For Her Being Control And Always Feeling To Be First And Controlling And I Will Be Praying For You And Your Family🙏🏽💜🙏🏽💜🙏🏽💜👑👨‍👩‍👧‍👦👨‍👩‍👧‍👦👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

[@khoatyingwangnao9797]

Thank you....that was exactly what I needed

[@oghoghoahanor533]

Amazing message from these ladies

[@kathygritzmacher90]

She's Brave

[@mariamontoya3318]

NEVER be a people pleaser let everyone ROT in their own mess LOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😊

[@marcuscheehong8979]

let us share the Gospel of Grace in social media groups especially Rapture is near for God so loved the world, Abba father beloved!!All Glory to Abba father!!

[@chrispleasantable]

"Whatever you do work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men. Since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward, for it is the Lord Christ you are serving."- Colossians 3:23 & 24 "Whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him."- Colossians 3:17

[@daniellaoladele8101]

Being a people pleaser enslaves you .