How to stop saying Um and Ah - easy fix

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Success Leaves A Trail ®

Күн бұрын

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@SummerMeyers
@SummerMeyers 3 жыл бұрын
"What is the most powerful tool in your possession." Holds up knives--- well that escalated quickly....🙈🤭
@zyxwut321
@zyxwut321 4 жыл бұрын
I've noticed a couple of major factors in why people fall back on ums and uhs. One is that people are thinking and talking at the same time, which leads to unclear and weakened communication. The other is that people wish to keep the floor to finish their thought, especially in group conversation and use ums and uhs as placeholders so they aren't interrupted. The key to remember is that you can't talk the way you might write, constantly editing yourself or hedging on what you're saying. It's best to think through what you're going to say and how you're going to say it ahead of time, letting the power of your point overcome any nerves about communicating it, and then have it out and let it go. It takes practice, even years, but it's entirely worth it.
@SabirothCarastor
@SabirothCarastor 10 ай бұрын
I do this a lot! My mind races while I’m talking…
@MicaS145
@MicaS145 7 ай бұрын
Dyslexia💀
@ChrisA2
@ChrisA2 3 ай бұрын
I love this comment
@shyper17
@shyper17 2 ай бұрын
I think and speak at the same time, and while I do have some umms and ahhs, I know my conversations aren't that difficult to follow. But the thing is, more people are likely to listen, not just hear me out, if my speech does not have this.
@candiceuk1022
@candiceuk1022 Ай бұрын
This is so true and great advice. Thank you 🙏
@savagesfortruth
@savagesfortruth Жыл бұрын
My teacher use to say if your not passionate about what your saying then you get nervous because you are trying to come up with an explanation rather than a good explanation. If you are passionate about what you’re saying you will say what you mean even if you are scared of talking.
@SabirothCarastor
@SabirothCarastor 10 ай бұрын
I gave a speech recently for a class and I was very passionate about the subject but I still said “um” a lot
@mkt20998
@mkt20998 7 ай бұрын
thank you for sharing...
@TheBlindPharmacist
@TheBlindPharmacist 7 ай бұрын
I respectfully disagree. I am very passionate when I speak and still have trouble to um and o's.
@sandersson2813
@sandersson2813 6 ай бұрын
Did your teacher not tell you it is "you're" and not "your"?
@jaronbridges4784
@jaronbridges4784 4 ай бұрын
100%
@HydroVlogs01
@HydroVlogs01 2 жыл бұрын
I never noticed how much I said umm until I started recording a podcast. This video was super helpful thank you.
@siger03
@siger03 6 жыл бұрын
The thing is that I dont even know when I'm doing it. Until I record myself and its like every sentence
@emanuel6233
@emanuel6233 7 ай бұрын
Yeah it happens like uh all the time for me
@bartholomewhalliburton9854
@bartholomewhalliburton9854 6 ай бұрын
@@emanuel6233 It's been three weeks. Hopefully now you'd say "Yeah it happens like *closes mouth* *opens mouth* all the time for me"
@Lozzymee
@Lozzymee 5 ай бұрын
Exactly
@ChristopherFranko
@ChristopherFranko 7 жыл бұрын
whoa mind blowing, when you said "you should practice closing your mouth" i laughed to myself because my mom always tells me that.. and then you laughed.. and for a moment we were sharing a laugh and it was like you were watching me! O_O
@King3baid
@King3baid 3 жыл бұрын
Haha
@wayarise
@wayarise 2 жыл бұрын
@@King3baid hahaha
@willvrtist
@willvrtist 2 жыл бұрын
@@wayarise hahahaha
@sozl
@sozl 9 ай бұрын
@@willvrtisthahahahaha
@justinecho
@justinecho 5 ай бұрын
@@sozl hahahaahah
@ClearLooks
@ClearLooks Жыл бұрын
Amazing tip, worked instantly. In fact, it forces me to think and organize what I want to say ahead so I'm not thinking and speaking at the same time, which has been my problem.
@RenegadeThrifter
@RenegadeThrifter 5 жыл бұрын
This is like, uh, the best tip I found in a long time. After doing Over 400 videos combined on KZbin, FB, and IG, I noticed that I said way to many uh. This is a total game changer that I’m able to implement immediately. Thanks 🙏
@candiceuk1022
@candiceuk1022 Ай бұрын
Very simple but definitely powerful. I’ll be giving this a try as my online social media is full of um’s and it’s not a good look. Thank you 🙏
@RebeccaPebble
@RebeccaPebble 2 ай бұрын
Thank you! I'm a KZbinr who just watched one of my videos and noticed so many "ums".🤦‍♀️ Next time I film, I plan on putting this into practice. I really appreciate this tip! 🙌
@onemelissa2003
@onemelissa2003 8 жыл бұрын
This makes the most sense out of the other videos I looked up about this tiny verbal annoyance. Thank you very much for posting. I've listened to voicemails where I have ummmed and I had to erase and re-record. That will definitely make you aware of how you sound to other people.
@SquirrellyDan88
@SquirrellyDan88 20 күн бұрын
I have a major group interview for a high level position. I notice practicing answering questions in the mirror I kept saying “um”. So I will do this! Thank you!
@ALEXH1997
@ALEXH1997 7 ай бұрын
Thank you. It's always been a big draw on my confidence and this has really helped me.
@mounikathalla3440
@mounikathalla3440 5 ай бұрын
I will try to follow it sir, thank you.
@imystrohdg1434
@imystrohdg1434 6 жыл бұрын
When he said close your mouth I cackled loudly.. because it was simple and I immediately understood how affective it can be.. good job
@_EternalAurora
@_EternalAurora 5 ай бұрын
Thank you I will definitely use this advice for my podcast recordings
@kazz1003
@kazz1003 7 ай бұрын
The most effective way how to do it 🙏
@uditgoenka
@uditgoenka 8 жыл бұрын
David, you are amazing. Not only your video was helpful, but you were hilarious with your one liners.
@Bazzillion.
@Bazzillion. 7 жыл бұрын
You are a GENIUS this is by far the most effecylt thing I've ever received from any video
@babbisp1
@babbisp1 8 ай бұрын
"What's the most powerful tool that you use in your profession?" "Umm..."
@zeronikonogist4829
@zeronikonogist4829 5 жыл бұрын
OMG THIS GUY IS AWESOME I HAVE NOT SAID UM OR AH FOR A MONTH STRAIT!!!
@DARKBRINGERx
@DARKBRINGERx 4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the tips you offered. I have just recently garnered a following on my channel and began to upload content with me speaking. I realized in all my videos I found myself pausing and saying uhh or umm several times and was embarrassed of the constant use of the two. I tend to think rapidly with several precise thoughts coming and going and it becomes difficult to articulate myself appropriately with my audience, although in my head it makes sense it just seems to come out as if I'm completely lost on what I want to say. I will be applying these tips in my future content
@cirespeedreviews
@cirespeedreviews 2 жыл бұрын
I just recently did a live stream for the first time, I went back to look at how it sounded, and wow.. So many umms and ahhs. I feel the same as you.. In my mind it sounds like I'm making sense but on replay it's a train wreck. I will also try rhis technique. Thanks for sharing.. This is exactly what i was thinking.
@thehaydenwaltbradleychanne702
@thehaydenwaltbradleychanne702 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, every time that I record a video for KZbin, I have to take several takes because slowly but surely, my sentences will contain more and more um's until the word um becomes the sentence.
@nightowls7324
@nightowls7324 6 жыл бұрын
I got into a terrible habit of this because I hung out with a guy who used to say "uhm-ahhhh" while talking in business. I started talking like him. Even after I stopped communicating with him I kept doing it. I hate it! Thank you for the tips.
@cobsg938
@cobsg938 6 жыл бұрын
always glad to see a top bloke come out of western australia
@lacpt01
@lacpt01 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you soooo much. I am going to try. I did not realize the reason for why i say so many ums. Makes sense "I'm thinking"
@NorhanizaRomzan
@NorhanizaRomzan 7 жыл бұрын
Amazing tips. I should practice closing my mouth while thinking. :)
@ninahunt6051
@ninahunt6051 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video. I’m going to try it as I’ve just received a comment on one of my videos from someone saying they love my videos, but have to turn the sound off because they find my constant use of the word ‘um’ so annoying! 🤞
@fatwalletboy2
@fatwalletboy2 6 жыл бұрын
Im sick of being conscious that i am urring and umming in job interviews but i vow never to replace it with the word "so". Will try your technique over 2 days and see if i can improve how I communicate.great video. Short and to the point 👍
@theweridohassan
@theweridohassan 3 жыл бұрын
How’s the progress going?
@dezarey
@dezarey Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Quick video and quick solution
@jasonpan6537
@jasonpan6537 7 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you so much kind sir!
@abdou-vg7ul
@abdou-vg7ul 2 ай бұрын
Finally someone who explains it well
@lovelifedotcom1
@lovelifedotcom1 3 жыл бұрын
very nice
@ron.poulard
@ron.poulard 4 жыл бұрын
AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The simplest answer.
@2ndaccount433
@2ndaccount433 Ай бұрын
Thank you.
@lawforthelay1250
@lawforthelay1250 5 жыл бұрын
This guy is adorable!! “Bush fly” but also very helpful - cheers mate!
@lawliet2263
@lawliet2263 3 жыл бұрын
You lay eggs honey??
@planetfrog
@planetfrog 4 ай бұрын
THANK YOU
@RatneshKumar-jw3mc
@RatneshKumar-jw3mc 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot Sir 🙏😊 ( from India )
@FabioPedrazzoliGrazioli
@FabioPedrazzoliGrazioli Жыл бұрын
Precious tips, thank you for sharing Sir!
@jpolar394
@jpolar394 4 жыл бұрын
When people talk and they say " You know what I mean " quite a few times in the same topic, I know automatically what I have to deal with. So what I do is i stop them every time they say it and I say, No , I don't know what you mean. Beleave it or not it works. After a few more sentences they stop saying it.
@fredthegamerschrarder7716
@fredthegamerschrarder7716 4 жыл бұрын
Do they get mad at you?
@jpolar394
@jpolar394 4 жыл бұрын
.Most of the people who say it are younger people and when I mention it to them , they shrugged it off, but with the older people, they feel surprised when I bring it up with them.
@trapstar007148
@trapstar007148 Жыл бұрын
Thanks blessings
@uptownphotography
@uptownphotography 3 жыл бұрын
Great advice...
@SuccessLeavesATrail
@SuccessLeavesATrail 9 жыл бұрын
Try this, I know it works...
@IrishThreeFour
@IrishThreeFour 5 жыл бұрын
You said outc uhmm quite a few times.
@divangibran8007
@divangibran8007 4 жыл бұрын
Ummm...
@thedonaldtrump7029
@thedonaldtrump7029 4 жыл бұрын
Appreciated sir
@alexvonueman
@alexvonueman Жыл бұрын
Thanks, tate mad some points about this
@bamisepeter9519
@bamisepeter9519 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you David
@theglowingcommunity
@theglowingcommunity 9 ай бұрын
Definitely trying this!
@auroraboraas
@auroraboraas 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, great video!
@ilknurgkcgl
@ilknurgkcgl 4 жыл бұрын
Wow. Good advice.
@CHARLESFLOYDIII-k7q
@CHARLESFLOYDIII-k7q 11 ай бұрын
Great video
@MohanKumar-zx5dj
@MohanKumar-zx5dj 4 жыл бұрын
Nice explanation sir
@g.olvera
@g.olvera 7 жыл бұрын
Great tip!
@sir.raphimrevelator8644
@sir.raphimrevelator8644 7 жыл бұрын
thanks for this helpful video
@alinicky7120
@alinicky7120 Жыл бұрын
You are right 👍
@stefantrisic-produktivnost2963
@stefantrisic-produktivnost2963 4 жыл бұрын
This is awesome. Super useful. I appreciate you!
@randomcharachter
@randomcharachter 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my word thanks for this
@boguslavkievregion2100
@boguslavkievregion2100 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the tips! Will try using them :)
@najmaul7830
@najmaul7830 7 күн бұрын
Let's try
@successtheorynoor
@successtheorynoor 8 жыл бұрын
thank you very much for this video. I like how it effectively helps.
@sudeep2k
@sudeep2k 2 жыл бұрын
Really helpful tips... life changing. Thanks for sharing wonderful videos
@DouglasLee9
@DouglasLee9 6 жыл бұрын
Simple and effective. LOVE IT!
@catmgal
@catmgal 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! I am going to try this tomorrow. Just got off the phone with my aunt and she said she never realized how many times I say "um" and "but".
@Areusadjr
@Areusadjr 11 ай бұрын
Thank you
@bhuvaneshr3222
@bhuvaneshr3222 7 жыл бұрын
very nice..😊
@dollyparekh8438
@dollyparekh8438 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks David , I will try and practice this 🙏🏼 will leave my feedback
@kdizzlebeats07
@kdizzlebeats07 4 жыл бұрын
Thank u
@HustleNinjas
@HustleNinjas 5 жыл бұрын
Great lesson. Thank you!
@shawnbrown6442
@shawnbrown6442 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Great!
@jonathanjitters535
@jonathanjitters535 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you I’ll try it out
@fridakwon
@fridakwon 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! Really great & practical advice! Ive been looking a bit but this seem most feasible! will try asap
@nyc8897
@nyc8897 2 жыл бұрын
i always preferred texting and I never really paid attention to talking or about what am talking.. recently I started to record my conversations and I start hearing ahhh... noise. Nobody has ever told me about this before. I keep making this noise a lot. i think most of us have to record our conversations to see the mistakes we make ..
@jannarkiewicz633
@jannarkiewicz633 Жыл бұрын
I may owe you big time :-) I'll let you know how it goes.
@topaznora2055
@topaznora2055 7 жыл бұрын
i love you. thank you so much.
@officialfadi
@officialfadi 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you much really helped me out
@cindylevenburg3118
@cindylevenburg3118 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you and I am definitely going to try this to break this awful habit. .
@angelajones3129
@angelajones3129 8 жыл бұрын
thank you...this is very helpful. i will practice diligently.
@sharengutafson5060
@sharengutafson5060 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome! I could listen to you all day! THANK YOU for your advice on getting rid of the ums and ahs. My sister (who I do video podcasts with) will be so happy. I'm going to surprise her in our next video. YAY :D
@VXDRG
@VXDRG 7 жыл бұрын
WOW thanks im going to try it
@AnnaG1996
@AnnaG1996 7 жыл бұрын
This is amazing!! Thank you!
@BravoCharlie
@BravoCharlie 5 жыл бұрын
This is brilliant. Thank you.
@gypsygirltarot2451
@gypsygirltarot2451 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much, going to try this immediately!
@Brickcellent
@Brickcellent 4 жыл бұрын
I said "ehhh..." when he asked me what the most powerful tool in my profession is
@aboodammar18_17
@aboodammar18_17 4 жыл бұрын
Caoimhín Ó Caoimh sameee omgg
@Hugodenbeste
@Hugodenbeste 6 жыл бұрын
You said it exactly, when we leave our moth open while thinking it creates that weird sound. I've never thought about that before.
@theresachung703
@theresachung703 Жыл бұрын
Thabk you
@Metallicuz
@Metallicuz 9 жыл бұрын
thank you for the video. it makes perfect sense, and you described everything very well. thank you!
@CroweDharmaReloaded
@CroweDharmaReloaded 8 жыл бұрын
Uh, thank you! This should work!
@sheikhshakoor5062
@sheikhshakoor5062 3 жыл бұрын
Your funny 😂
@Todayus91
@Todayus91 6 жыл бұрын
Good video mate Ive shared this on many a channel thanks again!
@fatumofarah
@fatumofarah 3 жыл бұрын
wish i knew this sooner thank u!
@JennyMayor
@JennyMayor 4 жыл бұрын
your method really works! thank you. New subscriber here. I will be closing my mouth for the next few days!
@frankchangshow
@frankchangshow 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this. I will practice closing my mouth for 2 days and let you know the results.
@jasonedward
@jasonedward 5 жыл бұрын
Amazing!! You're such a good speaker. Thank you
@anandakundy3580
@anandakundy3580 5 жыл бұрын
This is amazing, however, will this technique also be useful to avoid verbal pauses, that is, using words 'like' in speeches, any advice on avoiding the word 'like' in presentations or speeches
@NickBunton
@NickBunton 6 жыл бұрын
I need to rectify this, going to give this a good try. Thanks 🙏
@SeanFitzgerald
@SeanFitzgerald 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@hadassaheliasbrandao7558
@hadassaheliasbrandao7558 Жыл бұрын
that looks quite difficult to me but I will try!!
@Shesaidit_ooo
@Shesaidit_ooo 5 жыл бұрын
I'm reviewing videos of me interviewing people and I cannot stand all my "uhms"- I'll definitely be trying this out. Thank you :)
@FrankieTheOne
@FrankieTheOne 4 жыл бұрын
I need to work on this. How do I stop using the word "LIKE" in every sentence while speak. Always happenes to me!
@samuelsmithmed214
@samuelsmithmed214 4 жыл бұрын
Great video, such a useful tip for communicating!
@zeronikonogist4829
@zeronikonogist4829 5 жыл бұрын
HOW DOES THIS DUDE ONLY HAVE 384 SUBS IF MORE PEOPLE KNEW ABOUT HIM HE WOULD ME THE NEXT PEWDIPIE
@wealthwise247
@wealthwise247 20 күн бұрын
I watched this in 2025; I liked the video and subscribed. Doesn't make sense why he has 157k views with barely 2k subs.
@karenedonald
@karenedonald 5 жыл бұрын
How do you stop the gulps ?
@learningp8553
@learningp8553 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks! This video is so cool and fun to watch! Also I believe I’m making great progress in stoping my “uhms”!
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