"What is the most powerful tool in your possession." Holds up knives--- well that escalated quickly....🙈🤭
@zyxwut3214 жыл бұрын
I've noticed a couple of major factors in why people fall back on ums and uhs. One is that people are thinking and talking at the same time, which leads to unclear and weakened communication. The other is that people wish to keep the floor to finish their thought, especially in group conversation and use ums and uhs as placeholders so they aren't interrupted. The key to remember is that you can't talk the way you might write, constantly editing yourself or hedging on what you're saying. It's best to think through what you're going to say and how you're going to say it ahead of time, letting the power of your point overcome any nerves about communicating it, and then have it out and let it go. It takes practice, even years, but it's entirely worth it.
@SabirothCarastor10 ай бұрын
I do this a lot! My mind races while I’m talking…
@MicaS1457 ай бұрын
Dyslexia💀
@ChrisA23 ай бұрын
I love this comment
@shyper172 ай бұрын
I think and speak at the same time, and while I do have some umms and ahhs, I know my conversations aren't that difficult to follow. But the thing is, more people are likely to listen, not just hear me out, if my speech does not have this.
@candiceuk1022Ай бұрын
This is so true and great advice. Thank you 🙏
@savagesfortruth Жыл бұрын
My teacher use to say if your not passionate about what your saying then you get nervous because you are trying to come up with an explanation rather than a good explanation. If you are passionate about what you’re saying you will say what you mean even if you are scared of talking.
@SabirothCarastor10 ай бұрын
I gave a speech recently for a class and I was very passionate about the subject but I still said “um” a lot
@mkt209987 ай бұрын
thank you for sharing...
@TheBlindPharmacist7 ай бұрын
I respectfully disagree. I am very passionate when I speak and still have trouble to um and o's.
@sandersson28136 ай бұрын
Did your teacher not tell you it is "you're" and not "your"?
@jaronbridges47844 ай бұрын
100%
@HydroVlogs012 жыл бұрын
I never noticed how much I said umm until I started recording a podcast. This video was super helpful thank you.
@siger036 жыл бұрын
The thing is that I dont even know when I'm doing it. Until I record myself and its like every sentence
@emanuel62337 ай бұрын
Yeah it happens like uh all the time for me
@bartholomewhalliburton98546 ай бұрын
@@emanuel6233 It's been three weeks. Hopefully now you'd say "Yeah it happens like *closes mouth* *opens mouth* all the time for me"
@Lozzymee5 ай бұрын
Exactly
@ChristopherFranko7 жыл бұрын
whoa mind blowing, when you said "you should practice closing your mouth" i laughed to myself because my mom always tells me that.. and then you laughed.. and for a moment we were sharing a laugh and it was like you were watching me! O_O
@King3baid3 жыл бұрын
Haha
@wayarise2 жыл бұрын
@@King3baid hahaha
@willvrtist2 жыл бұрын
@@wayarise hahahaha
@sozl9 ай бұрын
@@willvrtisthahahahaha
@justinecho5 ай бұрын
@@sozl hahahaahah
@ClearLooks Жыл бұрын
Amazing tip, worked instantly. In fact, it forces me to think and organize what I want to say ahead so I'm not thinking and speaking at the same time, which has been my problem.
@RenegadeThrifter5 жыл бұрын
This is like, uh, the best tip I found in a long time. After doing Over 400 videos combined on KZbin, FB, and IG, I noticed that I said way to many uh. This is a total game changer that I’m able to implement immediately. Thanks 🙏
@candiceuk1022Ай бұрын
Very simple but definitely powerful. I’ll be giving this a try as my online social media is full of um’s and it’s not a good look. Thank you 🙏
@RebeccaPebble2 ай бұрын
Thank you! I'm a KZbinr who just watched one of my videos and noticed so many "ums".🤦♀️ Next time I film, I plan on putting this into practice. I really appreciate this tip! 🙌
@onemelissa20038 жыл бұрын
This makes the most sense out of the other videos I looked up about this tiny verbal annoyance. Thank you very much for posting. I've listened to voicemails where I have ummmed and I had to erase and re-record. That will definitely make you aware of how you sound to other people.
@SquirrellyDan8820 күн бұрын
I have a major group interview for a high level position. I notice practicing answering questions in the mirror I kept saying “um”. So I will do this! Thank you!
@ALEXH19977 ай бұрын
Thank you. It's always been a big draw on my confidence and this has really helped me.
@mounikathalla34405 ай бұрын
I will try to follow it sir, thank you.
@imystrohdg14346 жыл бұрын
When he said close your mouth I cackled loudly.. because it was simple and I immediately understood how affective it can be.. good job
@_EternalAurora5 ай бұрын
Thank you I will definitely use this advice for my podcast recordings
@kazz10037 ай бұрын
The most effective way how to do it 🙏
@uditgoenka8 жыл бұрын
David, you are amazing. Not only your video was helpful, but you were hilarious with your one liners.
@Bazzillion.7 жыл бұрын
You are a GENIUS this is by far the most effecylt thing I've ever received from any video
@babbisp18 ай бұрын
"What's the most powerful tool that you use in your profession?" "Umm..."
@zeronikonogist48295 жыл бұрын
OMG THIS GUY IS AWESOME I HAVE NOT SAID UM OR AH FOR A MONTH STRAIT!!!
@DARKBRINGERx4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the tips you offered. I have just recently garnered a following on my channel and began to upload content with me speaking. I realized in all my videos I found myself pausing and saying uhh or umm several times and was embarrassed of the constant use of the two. I tend to think rapidly with several precise thoughts coming and going and it becomes difficult to articulate myself appropriately with my audience, although in my head it makes sense it just seems to come out as if I'm completely lost on what I want to say. I will be applying these tips in my future content
@cirespeedreviews2 жыл бұрын
I just recently did a live stream for the first time, I went back to look at how it sounded, and wow.. So many umms and ahhs. I feel the same as you.. In my mind it sounds like I'm making sense but on replay it's a train wreck. I will also try rhis technique. Thanks for sharing.. This is exactly what i was thinking.
@thehaydenwaltbradleychanne7022 жыл бұрын
Thank you, every time that I record a video for KZbin, I have to take several takes because slowly but surely, my sentences will contain more and more um's until the word um becomes the sentence.
@nightowls73246 жыл бұрын
I got into a terrible habit of this because I hung out with a guy who used to say "uhm-ahhhh" while talking in business. I started talking like him. Even after I stopped communicating with him I kept doing it. I hate it! Thank you for the tips.
@cobsg9386 жыл бұрын
always glad to see a top bloke come out of western australia
@lacpt013 жыл бұрын
Thank you soooo much. I am going to try. I did not realize the reason for why i say so many ums. Makes sense "I'm thinking"
@NorhanizaRomzan7 жыл бұрын
Amazing tips. I should practice closing my mouth while thinking. :)
@ninahunt60517 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video. I’m going to try it as I’ve just received a comment on one of my videos from someone saying they love my videos, but have to turn the sound off because they find my constant use of the word ‘um’ so annoying! 🤞
@fatwalletboy26 жыл бұрын
Im sick of being conscious that i am urring and umming in job interviews but i vow never to replace it with the word "so". Will try your technique over 2 days and see if i can improve how I communicate.great video. Short and to the point 👍
@theweridohassan3 жыл бұрын
How’s the progress going?
@dezarey Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Quick video and quick solution
@jasonpan65377 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you so much kind sir!
@abdou-vg7ul2 ай бұрын
Finally someone who explains it well
@lovelifedotcom13 жыл бұрын
very nice
@ron.poulard4 жыл бұрын
AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The simplest answer.
@2ndaccount433Ай бұрын
Thank you.
@lawforthelay12505 жыл бұрын
This guy is adorable!! “Bush fly” but also very helpful - cheers mate!
@lawliet22633 жыл бұрын
You lay eggs honey??
@planetfrog4 ай бұрын
THANK YOU
@RatneshKumar-jw3mc3 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot Sir 🙏😊 ( from India )
@FabioPedrazzoliGrazioli Жыл бұрын
Precious tips, thank you for sharing Sir!
@jpolar3944 жыл бұрын
When people talk and they say " You know what I mean " quite a few times in the same topic, I know automatically what I have to deal with. So what I do is i stop them every time they say it and I say, No , I don't know what you mean. Beleave it or not it works. After a few more sentences they stop saying it.
@fredthegamerschrarder77164 жыл бұрын
Do they get mad at you?
@jpolar3944 жыл бұрын
.Most of the people who say it are younger people and when I mention it to them , they shrugged it off, but with the older people, they feel surprised when I bring it up with them.
@trapstar007148 Жыл бұрын
Thanks blessings
@uptownphotography3 жыл бұрын
Great advice...
@SuccessLeavesATrail9 жыл бұрын
Try this, I know it works...
@IrishThreeFour5 жыл бұрын
You said outc uhmm quite a few times.
@divangibran80074 жыл бұрын
Ummm...
@thedonaldtrump70294 жыл бұрын
Appreciated sir
@alexvonueman Жыл бұрын
Thanks, tate mad some points about this
@bamisepeter95195 жыл бұрын
Thank you David
@theglowingcommunity9 ай бұрын
Definitely trying this!
@auroraboraas3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, great video!
@ilknurgkcgl4 жыл бұрын
Wow. Good advice.
@CHARLESFLOYDIII-k7q11 ай бұрын
Great video
@MohanKumar-zx5dj4 жыл бұрын
Nice explanation sir
@g.olvera7 жыл бұрын
Great tip!
@sir.raphimrevelator86447 жыл бұрын
thanks for this helpful video
@alinicky7120 Жыл бұрын
You are right 👍
@stefantrisic-produktivnost29634 жыл бұрын
This is awesome. Super useful. I appreciate you!
@randomcharachter2 жыл бұрын
Oh my word thanks for this
@boguslavkievregion21004 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the tips! Will try using them :)
@najmaul78307 күн бұрын
Let's try
@successtheorynoor8 жыл бұрын
thank you very much for this video. I like how it effectively helps.
@sudeep2k2 жыл бұрын
Really helpful tips... life changing. Thanks for sharing wonderful videos
@DouglasLee96 жыл бұрын
Simple and effective. LOVE IT!
@catmgal6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! I am going to try this tomorrow. Just got off the phone with my aunt and she said she never realized how many times I say "um" and "but".
@Areusadjr11 ай бұрын
Thank you
@bhuvaneshr32227 жыл бұрын
very nice..😊
@dollyparekh84383 жыл бұрын
Thanks David , I will try and practice this 🙏🏼 will leave my feedback
@kdizzlebeats074 жыл бұрын
Thank u
@HustleNinjas5 жыл бұрын
Great lesson. Thank you!
@shawnbrown64425 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Great!
@jonathanjitters5356 жыл бұрын
Thank you I’ll try it out
@fridakwon7 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! Really great & practical advice! Ive been looking a bit but this seem most feasible! will try asap
@nyc88972 жыл бұрын
i always preferred texting and I never really paid attention to talking or about what am talking.. recently I started to record my conversations and I start hearing ahhh... noise. Nobody has ever told me about this before. I keep making this noise a lot. i think most of us have to record our conversations to see the mistakes we make ..
@jannarkiewicz633 Жыл бұрын
I may owe you big time :-) I'll let you know how it goes.
@topaznora20557 жыл бұрын
i love you. thank you so much.
@officialfadi4 жыл бұрын
Thank you much really helped me out
@cindylevenburg31186 жыл бұрын
Thank you and I am definitely going to try this to break this awful habit. .
@angelajones31298 жыл бұрын
thank you...this is very helpful. i will practice diligently.
@sharengutafson50604 жыл бұрын
Awesome! I could listen to you all day! THANK YOU for your advice on getting rid of the ums and ahs. My sister (who I do video podcasts with) will be so happy. I'm going to surprise her in our next video. YAY :D
@VXDRG7 жыл бұрын
WOW thanks im going to try it
@AnnaG19967 жыл бұрын
This is amazing!! Thank you!
@BravoCharlie5 жыл бұрын
This is brilliant. Thank you.
@gypsygirltarot24513 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much, going to try this immediately!
@Brickcellent4 жыл бұрын
I said "ehhh..." when he asked me what the most powerful tool in my profession is
@aboodammar18_174 жыл бұрын
Caoimhín Ó Caoimh sameee omgg
@Hugodenbeste6 жыл бұрын
You said it exactly, when we leave our moth open while thinking it creates that weird sound. I've never thought about that before.
@theresachung703 Жыл бұрын
Thabk you
@Metallicuz9 жыл бұрын
thank you for the video. it makes perfect sense, and you described everything very well. thank you!
@CroweDharmaReloaded8 жыл бұрын
Uh, thank you! This should work!
@sheikhshakoor50623 жыл бұрын
Your funny 😂
@Todayus916 жыл бұрын
Good video mate Ive shared this on many a channel thanks again!
@fatumofarah3 жыл бұрын
wish i knew this sooner thank u!
@JennyMayor4 жыл бұрын
your method really works! thank you. New subscriber here. I will be closing my mouth for the next few days!
@frankchangshow3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this. I will practice closing my mouth for 2 days and let you know the results.
@jasonedward5 жыл бұрын
Amazing!! You're such a good speaker. Thank you
@anandakundy35805 жыл бұрын
This is amazing, however, will this technique also be useful to avoid verbal pauses, that is, using words 'like' in speeches, any advice on avoiding the word 'like' in presentations or speeches
@NickBunton6 жыл бұрын
I need to rectify this, going to give this a good try. Thanks 🙏
@SeanFitzgerald6 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@hadassaheliasbrandao7558 Жыл бұрын
that looks quite difficult to me but I will try!!
@Shesaidit_ooo5 жыл бұрын
I'm reviewing videos of me interviewing people and I cannot stand all my "uhms"- I'll definitely be trying this out. Thank you :)
@FrankieTheOne4 жыл бұрын
I need to work on this. How do I stop using the word "LIKE" in every sentence while speak. Always happenes to me!
@samuelsmithmed2144 жыл бұрын
Great video, such a useful tip for communicating!
@zeronikonogist48295 жыл бұрын
HOW DOES THIS DUDE ONLY HAVE 384 SUBS IF MORE PEOPLE KNEW ABOUT HIM HE WOULD ME THE NEXT PEWDIPIE
@wealthwise24720 күн бұрын
I watched this in 2025; I liked the video and subscribed. Doesn't make sense why he has 157k views with barely 2k subs.
@karenedonald5 жыл бұрын
How do you stop the gulps ?
@learningp85533 жыл бұрын
Thanks! This video is so cool and fun to watch! Also I believe I’m making great progress in stoping my “uhms”!