How To STOP TILTING In Games

[@Herdol90]

There is a fact that You have probably one of the most robust mindset among streamers. I haven't seen anyone keeps sane while playing Dota this far. Keep it up the great work.

[@DmytroBogdan]

There are many positive minded RTS streamers. For example TheViper from AoE2. But I've noticed they all have a similar approach to stay positive while improving. So this approach actually works!

[@bubbyk0ng]

Grubby called someone a f****r on dota. He is a commoner like us 🤣 big fan of us funny guy

[@dantefromdevilmaycry9857]

@@bubbyk0ng Yeah nah bruh... calling someone a f*cker in dota is about as mild as anyone can get in that game, it's also a fact that Grubby only occasionally does it, unlike your average dota player who does it ever 10 seconds

[@Herdol90]

@@bubbyk0ng ahaha i ve missed that. But still... This is dota.

[@andressierra4608]

no dude he already turned to the dark side..

[@landi2244]

Hey Grubby, I am impressed by how natural your cadence as an orator is. Very impressive. Thank you!

[@RSFaber-nk6lh]

Especially since his speaking voice is a little bit within mouth like many Dutchies. yet it doesn't distract

[@lucasvalenteSNG]

Far beyond his sick RTS skills, Grubby is an awesome human being. As a psychologist with thousand of hours helping people overcome their suffering, I must say your video is flawless. Thanks for that!

[@vuongnh0607l]

A Dota2 psychologist? The dynasty never dies

[@yokisullivan8647]

@@vuongnh0607l Chi Long Qua can rest in peace, assuming he's resting.

[@vuongnh0607l]

@@yokisullivan8647 I hope breaking up with dota helped his mental

[@yegorzhulin6771]

I think Grubby did a really good deed with this one.

[@jaymxu]

This is a video worth going to everyones Algorhythm So please youtube don't mess this one up. Grubby for President.

[@DmytroBogdan]

Lets all just hit the like button and your dream may come true

[@jaymxu]

@@DmytroBogdan Thank you very much my friend! ❤️

[@Robwra320]

nah it ain't

[@Robwra320]

anyway you talk too much and your opinion doesn't matter

[@jaymxu]

Grubbs, kan je aub die gast zn comments verwijderen of hemzelf eventueel blokkereb aub? Ik smeek je. Hij blijft me achtervolgen overal op het internet met opzet en probeerd te trollen. Ik heb hem al geblokkeerd maar helpt niet, hij gebruikt altijd nieuwe accounts. Kijk naar zn account en comments, hij is alleen op je kanaal om me te ambeteren. Bedankt voor je begrip 😪

[@pom7602]

This video is priceless. These lessons I've learnt so late I wish someone would've introduiced them to me earlier. And the fact is that even if you process these lessons won't prevent you from forgetting or falling, having a reminder from time to time is so helpful and meaningful. I believe we underestimate so much the importance of emotions in our lives and focus too much on knowledge and accomplishments. Thank you for sharing your kindness and meditative-like mindset. 🙏❤

[@yuriipm3973]

A very articulate and nuanced analysis, still being presented in simple and approachable terms. Very nice.

[@joenock]

Keep up the good work Grubby - much love.

[@Deemension1]

This guy.... one of the best channel in whole KZbin, if you are really good in something, you really need a strong mind too, you need to study your brain, your beign, your sourranding, and the most important thing is, to love the process.

[@Kievlar]

This is why I love Grubby! Discovering WC3 and your channel in the last 6 months, I am glad have stuck around. I knew watching you play was more than just games. :)

[@toft5320]

Incredibly well done. Sharing wisdom to be used within all aspects of life. Great video for all ages and articulated immaculately. Grubby is one hell of a guy.

[@whitemonkey7]

A book I read on tennis has a similar sentiment to you about setting goals or "side quests". When entering a (gaming) session, if you set goals to practice a particular aspect of the game, there are only two outcomes: You lose the match but you were able to practice what you set out to (success) You win the match and you were able to practice what you set out to (double success) By focusing on external goals outside of winning and/or MMR improvement, you can always find reasons why matches were worthwhile and enjoyable even if you lose. Thanks for everything Grub, you are amazing.

[@meicrodon5715]

I wanted to just know how to not tilt in league, but after watching this video I completely reflected on my life and try to be a better person, thanks grubby

[@rorre1650]

When I was 4 or 5 years old, I was learning how to ride a bicycle on a small deserted stadium, my father be helping me. The learning process consisted of me riding ahead and my father holding the back of my bicycle so that I don't fall. At some point, I looked back and realized that he's not there anymore, having left me about a hundred meters ago. Of course, I fell the same second. Just a small story I remembered because of the introduction ('context'). That was the day I learned how to ride a bicycle, and not to trust even my family.

[@rorre1650]

Speaking about the goals, I feel like the second I understood that not everything in the game is up to me the ultimate goal of winning simply disappeared. My goal is and was for the longest time just to play as well as I can, and if I can do plays that would gain my own approval in the hindsight - that's my win, no matter what happens with the game outcome. It doesn't quite preserve me from being affected by my team, of course: there are countless things you are just not allowed to do while being on the losing team, so sometimes it gets boring (when you just have to sit back and wait for something, because you're 'not allowed to play the game'), and if many games go like that in a row, it's still tilting. But I do think that it impacts my mood much less than it would impact the mood of someone who's only interested in winning.

[@stickymoney]

woah wasnt expecting a self-development video from the grub! sub to the grub!

[@VanRukh]

I went into this expecting some surface level advice like don't take it too seriously and focus on what you want. I ended up understanding myself

[@Jabidy91]

This video is both a surprise and a ray on sunshine. You are an inspiration as a gamer who made it his career and you have grown and matured like fine wine. So many gamers have risen and fallen hard. I hope you keep making videos like these and keep uploading gameplay videos and streams. I even had a chance to meet you at Blizzcon 2017 but I missed my chance unfortunately. I hope down the line I’ll be able to use your channel as a good influence for my children one day. Keep up the amazing work! 👍🏻

[@attention_shopping]

great meta breakdown. v helpful. love the explanation of "expectations not being met" -- and then "I do not accept this" reality

[@PlaymeoffSia]

Nice touch with the added subtitles! I play WoW and Starcraft2 Coop. I've learned in recent days to just shrug, forget player names and move on whenever I get into a conflict with another player instead of fighting!

[@Cal_Zian]

Thank you master Grubby, really needed to ear that; i don't mind losing mmr, but always blamed myself "I could have done better" then get tilted. Love you and your work, such kindness must be rewarded with a blessed and happy life

[@ivanatotra]

This 26 minute video did for me what Jordan Paterson could not in a 1000 hours of lectures. Thank you so much man!

[@PauloAM]

When I used to play ranked Dragon Ball Fighterz, I noticed that the more matches I played, the more I tended to lose, and usually the first matches were wins. I created a rule for myself, that I would only play 2 matches per night, so as to avoid the performance drop and subsequent tilts (which in turn, decreased performance further). My rank started growing faster than before. Now I'm setting myself on a new learning journey with WC3, which I bought this week, thanks to watching so many of your videos, Grubby! Thanks for this and all your other videos!

[@Troglor048]

Guru Grubby. Thanks, man. I really appreciate this.

[@retnuHDJ]

Great video. I'm confident this will help many that fall victim to tilt (myself included!)

[@bantaibaman5662]

This was fantastic. Had chills multiple times during the video. Your philosophy resonates heavily with meditation, and about learning to enjoy the process. Thank you for this, I feel like this is worth a bookmark!

[@farenvanwyk5587]

Grubby many thanks for taking the time to make this video. Your wisdom astounds me and this is not the first time you have helped me in life so I wish to express my appreciation for your time and effort in sharing your knowledge with us. My gratitude.

[@derrick_plays]

This was so impactful Grub. i needed it so much, after losing so many times in areas that are not even related to game. you're amazing man. thank you 💚

[@apprenticekaoenview2388]

As always, great video. you never cease to amazed, long time follower/watcher/ fan from the 'old days' :D

[@p.dizzle7042]

I haven't tilted in a long time because I have this mindset already in games but as you said sometimes we need to relearn this skillset and apply it to other dimensions in our lives. I really appreciate this video for helping guide that transition for me in real personal matters. Thanks Grubby.

[@araulo22]

Share this in every multiplayer game community - much love!

[@friskydrinklunkybank1108]

This is a great video to share to my friends. I genuinely get annoyed that sometimes they just blame other people in their team because they lost, but I could never find the right words to convey this to them. I'm not saying I'm tilt proof as I do get tilted although it is very rare and probably because I had a bad day, in which case I don't even play games at that point, but it's still nice to have something to share to my friends and hopefully they stop being toxic.

[@Hunteriwi13]

Thanks for this video Grub, I don't play RTS or Dota competitively anymore, just for fun, but I do play rhythm games more competitively and I got stuck into a mindset of "I don't care anymore", I needed this reminder of the fun on the game itself and the fun on improving. I realized this like a couple of years ago and I rised my skills on it, but then I think I lost my sight of it and I think it's recoverable. Thanks a lot for this and for all the fun I have watching you both on WC3 and Dota. Have a nice day ☺

[@tni333]

Came here for gaming content, stayed for the profound life advice

[@jonohashmo849]

It’s such a pleasure to see a steamer you’ve been following for so long exhibit such breathtaking knowledge. I’ve always known you were incredibly smart but seeing it in this video hits so hard. Thank you for sharing your insight. I genuinely believe this video is applicable to people in all walks of life and I’ve recommended it to all my friends.

[@firelizard96]

You've always struck me as a healthily competitive person and it's great to hear your insights. Thank you!

[@Zigsquiddly]

Outside of the video gaming pond, I have actually been struggling with this a lot in my learning in the game of shogi (Japanese chess). This was very helpful to listen to, and get me back on a positive path with the game/skill I enjoy developing. Thanks!

[@stardust6004]

Such a great video. Calm. Rational. Spoken from experience and usable for gamers as well as anyone else for any aspect in Life. Good job and keep going!

[@zahhari3170]

This is actually well thought out and delivered.

[@Jzscrstsprstr]

Now this is a Manuel on How to Stop Tilting! Great stuff, cheers! I find myself appreciating stoicism and yet failing miserably in applying it.

[@georgplatzer8213]

I dont know what motivated to make this video but thank you for it Grubby! I am also struggling with my selfimage in a game i was once very good at but now i am not so good anymore. And losing in said game makes me feel bad. Its okay to lose and set sidequests got it. I will try! Again thank you!

[@calisama9215]

I usually have trouble on playing competitive games and ended up being toxic on my teammates because of my mindset that anyone is good at playing because they play. When I lose the game, I ended up playing another match to clutch a win realizing that I keep losing my time but not taking an action to solve. This help me to reflect on my past decisions and manifest my goals on what is really worth at the end of the day. Thank you Grub!

[@subhuman1637]

This video needs to be spreaded. Thank you Grubby for all of your effort. You're a good content creator

[@tritran8295]

Hey Grubby! You are my hero and want to let you know that there are many people like me who wants you to keep your work even though you also really shouldnt hesitate to take a pause to regain creativity! Its amazing how you kind a effortlessly play warcraft but in fact it is a skill processing from constant learning of your faults and improving your mindset to get that level of freedom where you can choose different ways to win or even have fun to lose. Games may be just a simulation of life but adapting the winning rules to real life and accepting failures to laugh at yourself or appreciate the efforts of your opponents may also a purpose of that very simulation. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Cheers

[@tardelibre]

Love it when u grubby talk about your life, always admire u serenity un the games , thanks why ur the Best gamer.

[@NotSoGentleJester]

Daaaaaamn Grubby that was actually very informative and wholesome.. This video could single single handedly erase gamer rage and toxic behaviour in team games. i truly believe that. Good work ma dude !

[@Cafe_TTV]

Thank you for your wisdom Grubby. ❤

[@thefullershomevideos]

Great video for the mass gamer public Grubster. I’m around your age, I turned 36 recently. And I am a wc3/dota/CSGO player for life. As a “lifer” it is so important to incorporate all these mental skills when dealing with the ups and downs of being a pubber, especially in these particular games. Due to the level of competiveness worldwide and notoriety that keeps growing. Mental health is just as important as physical health. Raging/tilting doesn’t help at all. Positivity prevails in a healthy gamers mind!!

[@coolgate3872]

This is why I sub to the Grub. You're approach to gaming is very refreshing. You play with improvement in mind, and for the enjoyment of playing.

[@dalwand]

Uitstekende video, meneer Schenkhuizen ! Zo onwikkelen we ons breder dan "slechts" als gamer.... :-) Everything outside oneself is a reflection of yourself. If you smile at the game, the game smiles back - its a mirror of you. And anything you said is not only about gaming, the game can be replaced with your work, doing an exam, and up to a certain extent to dealing with a breakup, or loss. If I am in an argument with someone, focus on myself. What is happening inside of ME. This other person is not the cause of my emotions or anger - the emotion is inside of ME and must have come from there. The person can do the exact same thing to someone else, and they might get triggered (or not) completely different, with different emotions. That shows that it is all inside of ME, and this other person is just someone who pushes the switch that is already in ME. Very interesting topic! Keep up the good work!

[@matiaspizarro7960]

I've always shat on self-help books and videos but boy did I enjoy this one. Always happy to learn from you Grubby.

[@andigaming1991]

Great video Grubby. I am just getting back into Dota and I can relate so much to these feelings, as I'm trying to just learn and deal unpleasent teamates better (myself included, I'm no saint if someone has a go at me) rather than purely focussing on winning/gaining mmr.

[@shinryu2777]

Very nice video Grubby, thank you, I really liked it ! What you said is a good remember that the voyage and the present moment are essential in life, way more than the destination. The real victory is more about adjusting our mindset living the present moment to the fullest. Applied in gaming like in life in general, whatever the situation, we can always find ways to learn new things, to have fun and to improve ourselves to give meaning to our time.

[@metinmanful]

Great video. Thanks for doing that one Grubby.

[@therealzizmon1748]

One of the best videos I've ever watched. Thanks Grubby, I really needed to hear this! It definitely doesn't just apply to games either :)

[@Rhein360]

Oh man!!! You made me cry! 😢 thanks for this video, this learning, it's invaluable, thanks!!!

[@Nazarov7781]

Thank you Grubby for this video, I want to be kid again

[@MCKejml]

Thank you. It is a long time since I played Dota or Wc3, but I'm struggling with something similar in Magic Arena and this video did help me.

[@hernanecchikun415]

great video, it's funny to see how many things in common we have in the way we approach competitive games, even though we don't have the same goal lol, it's sad that in the end it's up to people to accept this advice and change themselves, but hopefully it reaches whoevers needs to listen to it

[@a.f.7650]

Now, that's the CHAMPION's CONTENT right there! MOAR!! Nonparadox collab SOON™?

[@shannliegl5556]

This is an incredible video Grubby, i decided this morning, that i’m don with tilt because i wan’t to improove my rank in HoTS. I recognized myself i everything you said ( as a tilted player ). What i just saw and heard here will help me a lot… And maybe will I finaly allowed myself to stream some HoTS an WC3 games… Thanks for the great work. I just love all your content man !!

[@jurryrig5570]

Commenting to support other kinds of Grubby content, love you man!

[@Hettette]

Great stuff! Bookmarked as this is one I will be coming back to, multiple times, I'm sure!

[@AvazeGorgha]

Beautiful video! I will be sharing this with every competitive gamer I know.

[@Funnybone_FB]

Great philosophy and meditation from Grubby. Uncanny eloquence in a second language too.

[@Ai.Why-SoloPlayer]

You have my gratitude for remind us if every game is not easy, and we need to learn, always and that much, and stay positive in every moment, even ur friend or team blame you for everything Failure is not that bad, as long as you see the opportunity to being succeess after that

[@natebook9694]

Thank you Grubby, i needed that

[@FaradFadadakhov]

Thank you, Grubby for showing the way!

[@whiteindark3236]

I come for wow 3 gameplay so i can eat while getting entertained, and I left with knowledge and satisfied tummy. This is not my initial goals, but in the end i realized this is what I need. Salute for the king, and hope everyone can get better at anything while having a improving mindset of thinking o7

[@Murkharto]

my man you have an insane talent for talking about stuff like this, you should do more of that!

[@MrElectrikFeel]

cool vid bro! very elaborated. you've put words on things i had unwittingly noticed but never really thought about. nice new content

[@NatronFatumallafalla]

This was cool grub..appreciate ur time and words 💯

[@89mrdha]

Grubbs, I gotta say this: Awesome work and explanation! I think you would make a terrific psychologist and an even better parent! Keep improving and moving foward dude, we are cheering for you and learning with you! Sending much love! s2

[@shoogles_]

What a hero you are.

[@OfflaneSenpai]

Thanks Grubby! this helps the community a lot

[@ALREIN]

Great video, I will watch it 3 times probably to really get into these thoughts. From the first view, I cannot get the following: 1. If I give myself the permission to lose, I will try not that hard to win, coz I can let myself lose. 2. If I'm convincing myself I already lost in the future, why is it worth even trying to win the future?

[@remembergandhi5583]

This was a very good lection for my live and only a small one about Gaming.

[@Songfugel]

What a great video! Will be spreading it around to my social networks

[@nicolassznajder780]

Thank you so much. I feel better

[@sickthoughtz]

the doggo metaphor got me chucklin :D

[@Gniewomir82]

I'm not a Blizzard supporter these days but I like watching your WC3 matches. As an older player (40 years+) I am impressed with this material. Young intelligent man. It is a pity that a large proportion of young people are regressing intellectually and emotionally. What young people are doing these days scares me (example of behavior in Chicago). Pity. After all, there is hope in people like you. Good luck in the game and in real life. I wish you every success. Cheers.

[@christopherdigirolamo9879]

While younger than you, and certainly still a young intelligent man, Grubby is 36 at the time of this writing. He is a role model though for those of us both young and old. At least he is a role model in his videos/streaming-perhaps he steals candy from children in his free time 🤷‍♂

[@Gniewomir82]

@@christopherdigirolamo9879 didn't know his age :) but anyway great Man and great video.

[@mails65]

I got out of lemphoma Cancer recently and I am struggling getting back to my normal self. This video is my new mantra. Luck and health to all and sub to the Grub.

[@Knut92]

15:40 in Tekken 3, the house rule is not to spam grabs, because its near impossible to counter them without a lot of training.

[@bakouzad5321]

Thanks for this video grubby, I needed this wisdom for both my gamer life and studies in university xD keep making the good content man ! PS : I had wc3 as a child but never trully got into it besides the campaigns, and so even now as I try I find great difficulties in actually playing because of my very limited skill in micro/macro and knowledge of items, unit preferences and such (I grew up into more of a monster hunter player in the end) but I still had some interest in wc3 because the game is actually good and there's so much potential, and so you were in some sense a way for me to experience the game to a higher level without playing it myself. I watch your videos while having lunch or during breaks from studies and really enjoy your creativity and positivity, so thanks for making wc3 content and making it fun and entertaining :) ! That was a big PS I know lol

[@mausten]

One of the best motivational videos I ever watched Grubby. We love you man. GigaChad feelings! Maust.

[@artimus142]

This should be a mandatory watch for anyone who competes in any capacity. GGWP

[@brenoaoi]

This video goes way beyond gaming, I feel this is useful to a lot of things in life

[@Gwgitu77]

Thanks grubby, i hope you stay healthy and happy

[@roniroukoz6040]

Wow, i waited for a video like this for years… thank you sensei ❤

[@uberle]

Now that's what I call gaming: vol Grub Excellent breakdown on overcoming negativity induced habits. Can't help but smile watching the Grubster enjoy life.

[@Brandon-s6j]

Just wonderful!

[@greatsarmatae]

I just can't help being amazed by everything Manuel does...

[@AgainstTheBladeOfHonour]

Nice! Is this your first video on personal development? I LOVE IT

[@blondjon]

Grubby, you really are a great influence on the gaming community as a whole.

[@pavelshchegolevatykh5447]

Great video! Love learning tutorials from you.

[@maniac6655]

i expected a guide to decrease tilt ... not to cure my depression ... good job :)

[@tulinos903]

Incredible video Grubby, very inspiring!

[@marclaliberte4118]

Awesome video Grubby! I needed that. You did a good deed today!

[@nextgen101]

Rambling comment warning. I've tried to approach games in this way for a long time. I usually end up losing interest in pvp games, not because of lack of skill necessarily, but because the fun is coming in diminishing returns and I'd rather just move on to the next experience. I find that cooperative gaming is a much more entertaining and long lasting outlet as a result. Something like Vermintide still allows plenty of room for improvement and learning leading to plenty of fun along the way. While I'll always have a bit of interest in pvp gaming, running into others who take it so seriously that they turn it into a negative experience for themselves and others will really take me out of it if I haven't already grown weary of the content on my own over time. Regardless of skill level though, teaching others and helping them on their own journeys in small or big ways is a great experience on its own and certainly puts one in a better mood whether it's cooperative or competitive gaming. Even for a single player game, tips and advice for others can go a long way and there's always ways to challenge yourself for fun with "house rules" (like speed running for example) to make any experience interesting and fun if you've decided that the content is still worth exploring. Finally, I love that Grubby mentions stoicism. Big ups for that! 👍

[@zerocrusade2531]

"He claimed that he copulated with my mother last night" caught me off guard. Hahaha!

[@SeesSean]

Thanks man, i will try to put this mindset to my real life.