How To Talk To Angry People

[@jenuiyne6919]

It's not easy when they have anger problems, and they are talking over you and repeatedly saying "shut the f*** up" every time you try to speak.

[@clairejohnson7809]

Time to walk away.

[@cesarramirez8163]

But what if they are a very violent person in a small enclosed place

[@captaindan3129]

@@cesarramirez8163 you shut it down tell them you don’t want any trouble and if they get too close to you let them know what’s up

[@gianinepreuss9999]

What is it called if your spouse reacts with violently throwing an object, swearing at you, yells at you to answer and when you try to answer one question, they are already ramped up to at least 3 more questions? I try to say their name calmly, and I try to understand, but it's a massive truck of anger at me. At what point is it verbal abuse or toxic? What is normal?

[@willhagan2104]

Easier said than done when in the heat of the situation.

[@edgreenwood4255]

Darn, I always jump straight to #4. It's probably more of a self-defense because I dislike confrontations and want them gone asap. Good tips. Thank you.

[@andrebroomfield]

One day, me and my mom got in an argument over how I had to wear my elastics,(rubber bands during braces to straighten teeth) and what I did was 1, stayed calm, 2 told her I understood her anger, and she was asking me why I wasn’t angry like her, and asked me if I understood the situation.( I had put off finding out how my elastics went on for 3 days, until that day) and I said that being angry isn’t going to solve anything, and 3rd, i posed a solution and I would say the most important thing to do when talking to an angry person, is staying calm. By the way, this is a really informative vid, thanks for the help!

[@smartguygiyo]

This is what i have been doing for long time.Recently i realised i have this ability to calm people down.I was looking to fine tune my ability,that is how i landed up on your video You tips work,i know.

[@Medietos]

Geo: You calm every type of person down? i am good with more sensitive, intelligent ppl, but not rough, simple, , common-behavioured ones.

[@uhuh30]

What if they just don’t like you but lives with you?

[@helenmcintosh9880]

And the boss says , do you think your a mind reader 😂

[@marvindavis352]

KZbin should be flooded with videos like this during this time

[@skionen1781]

Excellent tips, thanks for sharing.

[@masaj9672]

Anyone else here because they pissed a buntch of people off...at the same time...sos

[@helpiamstuckonthismanshead3385]

No not me

[@masaj9672]

@@helpiamstuckonthismanshead3385 can't believe that was a year ago 🙆‍♀️

[@ramenmalik3515]

We were playing monoploy and my bro got accused of cheating when he didnt,he ran upstairs starting cussing my dad and broke his chair.My dad couldnt do anything since my bro is crazy big and has done boxing for 5 years.He just lelt silent as my bro told him to fuck off infront of everyone.im sick of this shit.

[@bluelady214]

Doesn't work. Best thing to say is 'sorry' or 'you're right'. No eye contact.

[@hanmas4lifer679]

Right now, I'm pissed because of someone saying it's a joke but it's really offensive. But now this doesn't help them calm down but helped me calm down omg-

[@yocrosshair5092]

I have anger issues and i learned to not get really angry but i still get angry if other people get angry to me

[@kimchi3148]

Alan Ramos no u

[@priyalsharma7477]

Yesterday i was stressed...i saw your video...today i applied it in real...felt blessed i handled someone very smartly i feel.. Thanks ...

[@norcal5971]

This was soooo much more helpful Dr. Conte's video on the same topic. He's an Anger Management specialist/Psychologist, but his video was so unhelpful.

[@thecoyote2226]

What if the other person wont back down? Youve done all the right things and they still carry on, and really want to milk this

[@Medietos]

@Firelight157 Honesty may be good there, saying you are not sure what to say but that you really care for them to feel better and to find a solution together.

[@andrebroomfield]

@The Coyote at that point I would walk away and give them time to let out some anger. If the other person can’t stay angry long, then it should be easier to talk after a while.

[@alinecardoso9668]

It is hard to be rational when somebody are screaming with you, but agree that is the best way to handle it, other thing that I'm learning is shut my mouth, because some people wants to be right, they have the necessity to end a fight or a conversation, for example, if you stop talking they stop, it is funny but with my sister it worked.

[@ZiggyLu-og3zp]

The best thing to do is first realize that they are most likely being irrational. Some people have a reason to be Angry but others look for reasons to be angry or to express their anger that is misplaced. If you are dealing with a narcissist thing you simply act as though nothing is penetrating you and play Gray rock. Listen to them, acknowledge their anger and why they are angry, and then ask them how they would like to resolve the issue.

[@jackiebohannon322]

Thank you for sharing

[@Vee-.]

that moment when you have anger problems and then you rant to others because of a thing that happend and they say "You could have just ignored them"

[@jimblack2144]

Good advice

[@diontaedaughtry974]

Thank you this was very helpful and informative 👍👍

[@xxskyscop3sxx95]

Thank you

[@jessicaf2270]

It should be noted that this advice along with similar advice is appropriate only in such cases where the ‘angry’ individual is not perceiving a situation in full and is rather influenced by a past of unresolved circumstances that now cause them to be ‘triggered’ and react inappropriately to present situations. Those who are fully perceptive in a moment and express anger do so appropriately and should be respected and learned from. For example, if you lie to your wife, her anger may very well be appropriate, and thus your only path to reconciliation is to surrender yourself (your ego) to her. People often do not know how to do this because they are too busy watching videos like this one to figure out how to prevent or fix something. In the case of anger and you’re at fault, you must surrender, and no video or how to guide can help you with that.

[@Jokaanan]

he said that at 4:10 jessica

[@donnawoodham868]

This was good . Thank you . ✝️

[@davidwoek3041]

Nice video!

[@renewalof48]

Great video.

[@dogwoodsall7109]

This is really a big help

[@alfinyudanal-habsyi2005]

How angry people do you

[@koenverhack8824]

alles gaat om de stabiele persoon die tegen de agresieve op gaat, maar waar is het om een met een persoon die met issusze zit tegenover een zelfde persoon. dat is meer een probleem. Gelijk we allemaal pyciators zijn ... en zeveren uit ons welstellend leven

[@saffacakes2435]

Brilliant

[@RominaLamberti]

Just some suggestions on how to make your video better. You speak a lot about what actions to take when dealing with angry people, which is all logic/left brain thinking. However, you don't touch upon FEELINGS, right brain thinking, the emotions we are having as a response to angry people that prevent us from reacting in the correct manner. Feelings such as feeling threatened or unsafe, caring too much how the other person perceives you, feeling hurt that they are reacting in this way, which comes from low self worth and internalization. When you work on your FEELINGS, you don't need to know how to react or what to say because your reaction will be coming from a place of feeling safe, worthy and calm. Therefore you will intuitively know what the right response is. See people's programmed reactions are based on emotions, not logic. Therefore telling people what to do instead of getting to the root issue will not give anyone true lasting results.

[@zombiesage3689]

Anyone seen venom? 😂

[@ChildishName]

This guy kind of looks like him lol

[@alfinyudanal-habsyi2005]

How to mad angry

[@rodpowell9686]

Sometimes you just have to allow them to talk without interrupting and very often they anger will get become less in other words you bide Your time until you see the opportunity to respond

[@xxcole_personxx3664]

Nice

[@FirstLast-ve3mv]

My childs mother is super angry every day. Literally everything this dude said to try just got me fucking smacked. My 3year old starting to hit me when he thinks shes mad.

[@JTCLAN1]

Well for me I can't calm down my girl when she's sad.. no matter what I say she always brushes aside and I'll write whole ass paragraphs full of motivational words and she'll reply with some bs like WHY CAN'T YOU JUST FUCKING ACCEPT MY HELP?!

[@Didnt_ask69]

Why would your boss be mad about getting wet on a jet ski

[@quarneshathomas4160]

lol 😂

[@grasshut23]

Unless they are expecting you to be angry back and telling you they don't feel connected because you aren't creating raport.

[@daniyalthegamer671]

J7nun

[@princessoffood6761]

I am here to calm foen angry roblox players tbh XD

[@JasonManners]

You could just punch them in the face.

[@jballs1118]

This guy lives in Idaho lmao

[@DontbeAsshole]

. . . . .. . . If I sent this to my angry father, he would be PISSEDDDD