How To Understand Men

[@natibelfortunato6879]

the first section of the video: exactly this. they say they want or don’t want something - then women adjust for them and they complain or whine or ghost or cheat. or whatever else. but then women are the emotional ones? we are the babies? hmm. why are men SO unwilling to look in the mirror? it seems like some would rather die than just face themselves, seek help, and work on themselves. what the actual frick is going on.

[@andziagreen4922]

I totally agree with your comment 👏 that's my experience with men

[@sugarmaplehill]

SAME!!! ​@@andziagreen4922

[@Iamqueenkeey365]

frfr

[@elharrop]

This all seems to be true from my experience. i.e asking them to do something reasonable such as responding in a timely manner but them refusing to do it and giving attitude about it because i asked him to do it. Incredibly frustrating to be on the recieving end of. Are there any men out there that can act right without being manipulated??

[@heyyashleyyy2669]

They are master manipulators so I’m starting to see that you have to be that way back to them to get out of them something meaningful

[@user-yq4cd2ux8k]

This is like the most important dating video of all time

[@SovereignQueen9]

For SURE!🎉

[@caturpillah1046]

What about my "narrative" as a woman with a large chest. I have been slut shamed while wearing a turtleneck and even a sweater. My "narrative" is not in my control, so why would I care? Same goes for a lot of things people can't change about themselves. Many physical things have particular connotations, are we now responsible for others' perception and even prejudice of us? Also I think this idea of "narrative" rly sucks because as a teenager I was afraid no one would ever like me for me because quality men would be repelled by my "slutty" looks, and lewd men would be attracted to me. Covering up also does not help because it makes me look unflattering, like a sack of potatoes, and then I feel insecure. Insecurity also attracts bad men. It all turns into a cycle of self hate instead of self acceptance, obsession over stupid narratives instead of using that same energy for things that make me happy.

[@africansister]

I would like to say u r wonderfully and faithfully made by the most high hands. If u want to dress classy according to your body shape check for such videos I guarantee u we can all look nice and glamorous without looking trashy and cheap. Fully covering and choosing the right colours, styles , fabric will always make u look slay 😊. There r men who like a fuller breast just find the right clothes, I don't which age u r and if u could exercise a bit it will lift your spirit and u may meet Mr right at the gym or dance class. Good luck

[@mysticapixi]

#2 attention it feels like. If a guy had more self worth he would treat you with the kind of respect your body deserves. If a guy is looking for something disassociative, quick and easy maybe he's not really thinking about sex too deeply. Nor is he thinking about your body (which is terrifyingly beautiful) as something to..... Properly respect and dedicate time towards. So he may neither be dedicated to a lifetime of like real awe with you. I was literally processing this today. Just thinking about were there any guys who actually touched me & had deeper intention... & who felt like they could fully gaze upon me. Did I ever feel my body was ever fully witnessed by a guy? Idk it's interesting to me as I learn to love and respect my body and my own needs. I also think my own self worth can relate to how I'm willing to respect and venerate my own body / temple (not to seem religious) Thank you 😂 love the title and your humour

[@zephorahnure]

I really like this comment❤️

[@zephorahnure]

I also wonder if there are men who pour into women the same way women pour into men. That would take a basic relationship to the next level 💕

[@mysticapixi]

@@zephorahnure ❤️ I wonder what it really looks like

[@ТаняБирюкова-э3м]

My ex was like that, he couldn't do the non-verbal communication during sex. I couldn't understand why, what's going on (he was my first, I was inexperienced), I talked about it. But he just continued to disassociate. I couldn't relax and reach the peak with him. I wish I had the strength to leave him earlier.

[@sherylcastro5688]

“Let these broke men come to you” 😂

[@tigerbellethesagemouse]

Mr. T another Great video. TY. The movie is called "Say Anything" boombox was playing the music saying the words he couldn't say.

[@abbyphillyhrm]

Thank you Tomisin❤ Happy New Year

[@mattanderson6672]

Fantastic discussion Excellent analysis Thank you Sir

[@clairefoxall2313]

And who says …Men aren’t complicated 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️😖🥴

[@Chichi-mo2pc]

It makes me wanna just say forget it bc this is too much

[@ram47863]

Wait until he care about your need first and want to understand you and make your life better, before you tell him what you want I need to always remember this, and stop over sharing when the man doesn't even care

[@abingdonsovereign3904]

Great analogies, thank you

[@tyraly333]

Great video. How to approach the fantasy inquiry if you are not at that level yet? Thank you.

[@DeserttoGarden]

A large black man 🤣

[@africansister]

12.58 😮😮😢 so true

[@Gracejohnys]

Communication. Messed it up two days ago 😢

[@sevdamustafazad3564]

❤ for algorithm

[@IsabellaGough-wp9ii]

Jesus loves you 💕

[@chinemerem8]

And you too

[@semihasunshine3951]

So true ❤❤ He is my one and only true love 💕💕 💕

[@aliyahwagner]

Much love ❤️❤️❤️

[@Florida_gyrl]

Amen!

[@marcellam2406]

Jesus loves you and died on the cross so you can salvation through him before this world passes away. Acts 2:38 commands us to repent, be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ (not the titles) & receive the Holy Spirit. John 3:5 also states that we cannot enter into the kingdom of heaven without being born of the water and the spirit. First you must believe in Jesus who died for your sins (John 3:16). Find a church/community that baptizes in Jesus name and believes in the Holy Spirit

[@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes]

🎉

[@marcellam2406]

Jesus loves you and died on the cross so you can salvation through him before this world passes away. Acts 2:38 commands us to repent, be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ (not the titles) & receive the Holy Spirit. John 3:5 also states that we cannot enter into the kingdom of heaven without being born of the water and the spirit. First you must believe in Jesus who died for your sins (John 3:16). Find a church/community that baptizes in Jesus name and believes in the Holy Spirit

[@Stein99]

Nope. Jesus is not magic. Stop with your nonsense