I believe this works. I just got my husband ordered to take one of these courses. I’m leaving and don’t want to stay with him after 5 times trying to leave. But he’s still in denial and minimizes his abuse. He’s even said he only hit me because I was emotionally abusive. Not sure if there’s hope for him but at least I tried!
@GustitisLaw2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this personal story with me. These types of cases always have a push-and-pull to them. I wish your husband the best. I also wish you happiness in the future. Thank you for visiting.
@AlvinEugene1111 ай бұрын
How did it go for you?
@fredymelendez47737 ай бұрын
Get a new husband
@megabitcoinycriptomonedas9772 ай бұрын
What about you ? You don't need any helps?
@kristiroyer85544 жыл бұрын
I think it's great being a victim who has chosen to stay through the years of abuse I hope this can help my husband and my family. We have 3 boys and I want nothing more than to stop the cycle
@GustitisLaw4 жыл бұрын
Yes, a BIP program is great training and can help an offender to develop new skills and coping strategies. I wish you and your family the very best. Thanks for your comment.
@belrapture2 жыл бұрын
Girl what..LEAVE
@megabitcoinycriptomonedas9772 ай бұрын
What about when a victim is a mi a man?
@user-bd4bo4tb8u5 жыл бұрын
1) What if a child was present and has witnessed other several assaults? 2) What if the most damaging abuse is emotional in nature and manipulative? 3) What if the defendant shows no remorse, tells his son he was provoked, and doesn’t seem sorry (at all) even after 9 months?
@GustitisLaw5 жыл бұрын
If the child is old enough, they are potentially a witness in court. Second, your state penal code may, or may not, proscribe emotional abuse since assault is a result oriented crime and emotional damage is too difficult to quantify. Lastly, lack of remorse is a punishment issue and could possibly make a person’s punishment greater, if convicted. If this is your personal story, I’m very sorry this is happening. I appreciate your question. I wish you the best.
@user-bd4bo4tb8u5 жыл бұрын
Gustitis Law Thank you so much! -I assumed reconciliation was not even an option based on his no contact order and other things. So this was surprising to see. -My son is 16. I don’t want him to have to say bad things about his dad, but an acknowledgement of wrongdoing would be beneficial. -The emotional (psychological, social, educational, etc.) damage is from years of other “events” unrelated to the two current assault charges and might be quantifiable by psych and medical bills, visible changes in functioning, etc. (?) At the time, I didn’t have the energy to deal with it legally, so I’ll look into that now. -I’m in Texas, so I’ll definitely watch the other videos. Very helpful and understandable. -Thank you so much for your time!
@GustitisLaw5 жыл бұрын
You are very welcomed!
@dr.mohamedaitnouh45014 жыл бұрын
@@GustitisLaw Sir I have a domestic violence dismissed misdemenor (Not Guilty) and I took BIPP for 6 months. Is this still considered a conviction? since it is dismissed and i was found not guilty. I think I was not convicted but I want to make sure.
@GustitisLaw4 жыл бұрын
@@dr.mohamedaitnouh4501 I would not consider this a conviction.
@juliedavis1761 Жыл бұрын
Hi Mr. Gustitis, I want to ask you 2 questions if you don't mind. The Texas Code of Criminal Procedure Chapter 15 is arrest under warrant Art 15:18 is out of County warrant Art 15:21... RELEASE ON PERSONAL BOND IF NOT TIMELY DEMANDED. If the proper office of the county where the offense is alleged to have been committed does not demand an arrested person described by Article 15.19 and take charge of the arrested person before the 11th day after the date the person is committed to the jail of the county in which the person is arrested.. Question: A person commits offense in county A is out on bond, is arrested in county B on warrant for cnty A remains in Bs custody for over 3 months before being transferred to cnty A, released, arrested again by county cnty B is there for 16 days before being transferred to county B. This has been an almost 3 year ordeal. So my question is regardless of the prior arrests does art 15:21 still apply to the accused if the procedure was not lawfully followed? 2: Is Excedrin considered a dangerous drug and could land you in jail with that charge? Thank you so much!
@GustitisLaw Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry. I cannot answer your questions. It requires me to provide legal advice and I cannot do that in this KZbin situation.
@antonioharris47774 жыл бұрын
Hi I have a question. Between my Ex-Girlfriend & i, i got charged with simple battery (FVA). She say she didn’t mean for it to happen the way it did far as me getting arrested. Between the two of us the situation wasn’t serious enough for the police. We are separated now with no contact at all. How can I beat or get the charges dropped alone?
@GustitisLaw4 жыл бұрын
I doubt you'd have much luck attempting to convince a prosecutor to dismiss your simple battery case. You can certainly try, but since you lack the training and experience to leverage the weaknesses of the prosecutor's case, they will be difficult to persuade. That is what experienced defense attorneys are for. I recommend you hire one to help you achieve your objectives. I appreciate your question. Thanks for stopping by.
@philbroyles2780 Жыл бұрын
The title of this video gives the impression BIP's can be used by a person who is abusive to get the case dropped or charges reduced. In many States the laws have diversion programs for 1st defense misdemeanor crimes that require BIP completion as one of the conditions and in other States the BIP is required post conviction of misdemeanor or felony charges to complete probation conditions in liue of more jail time. Often parole for someone who's done prison time for the domestic charge has bip completion as a condition of post prison supervision. As someone who's started and worked at many BIP's, I have not heard of any change in prosecution status of dv cases come about as a result of pre conviction enrollment in a BIP. If the person charged with domestic violence accepts a plea deal that includes completion of a BIP and believes they are innocent of the charges in that particular incident then use the program as an opportunity to reflect on other examples of abusive behavior and be accountable for changing the patterns in your life that brought you into contact with the criminal justice system. #teras interventions and counseling
@GustitisLaw Жыл бұрын
There are many ways to resolve a criminal case. The job I get paid to do is obtain the best possible result in all cases with any legal means at my disposal. Your argument falls short in its assumption that diversion programs are available in all jurisdictions. They are not. If a BIP program helps a couple resolve their problems and their behavior, and the case gets dismissed by a prosecutor who has absolute authority to prosecute, or not, then I’ve done my job. What do you think a BIP program is designed to do in the first place? Punish or rehabilitate?
@philbroyles2780 Жыл бұрын
@@GustitisLaw First of all- I am not arguing except to say I never argue with attorneys about anything. As I said..in "many" states...not all. Also like I said-behavior change is the ultimate outcome one should have no matter what the final outcome is of the case. I can only say what I see in the Oregon courts when it comes to cases being dropped. I am not criticizing your intentions or legal practice. Many critics of BIPs like to say that "abusers" use BIPs to "get away with abuse" or to manipulate the outcome of a custody hearing. As the executive director of a nonprofit that does BIP counseling I am somewhat biased but I believe a good programs and an excellent attorneys such as yourself would not be so naive to allow that to happen. My hope is one day Prosecution of domestic violence will be unnecessary the majority of the time because we have made a difference in our participant's lives and those new behaviors and values are passed along to the next generation.
@GustitisLaw Жыл бұрын
@@philbroyles2780 First, I don’t mind you sharing your opinion. Don’t be afraid to argue with a lawyer. We are not super-human. Further, I will always share mine, especially when I believe there is a misconception or weakness in someone’s position. That’s what I do for a living, after all. In any case, keep your opinions coming and be prepared for the counter. 🙂
@debbiecarter86875 жыл бұрын
Debbie How can I identify who the prosecutor in the case for domestic violence against my husband. I would like to seek the reconciliation rout for the case. My husband needs behavioral counseling for anger management. He was raised in an abusive environment.
@GustitisLaw5 жыл бұрын
Debbie: That should be a straight forward process. Simply contact the prosecutor's office and ask for the name of the assistant handling the case. Since you are the victim, they should be happy to assist. Good luck!
@megabitcoinycriptomonedas9772 ай бұрын
What about you? You don't need any heps?
@lilbrainyballerina Жыл бұрын
I was framed for a crash that was actually caused by my husband, he is claiming I rammed him and I'm now facing felony battery charges. I've been offered a deal to go through this program and ultimately the charges will be dismissed. Will I need to admit responsibility/fault in order to complete the program, even though I was actually the victim?
@GustitisLaw Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but I have no idea. Please speak with your defense attorney to answer this important question.
@twymdsn88102 жыл бұрын
Will this BIP program help the defendant in the state of AZ to reduce the DV penalty? Or any states in the US?
@GustitisLaw2 жыл бұрын
It is possible. But remember that any effect will depend upon the facts of the case, the defendant’s criminal history, the prosecutor’s policies, the victim’s wishes, the juries in that jurisdiction, and the judge who might preside.
@omaro87503 жыл бұрын
Judges frequently asked people who have no history of any domestic violence to take this course forcefully and they threaten them if you do not take it the new our content in contempt of court
@GustitisLaw3 жыл бұрын
Well, if you are accused of FV and you’ve entered a guilty plea in exchange for a punishment recommendation, the judge is allowed to order this course. I’d recommend taking it and finishing it successfully. Good luck.
@anthonyromero49533 жыл бұрын
@@GustitisLaw I've been accused of dv and 100 percent did not commit dv. I pled not guilty and there hasn't been a plea bargain. But they're making me take the course because california requires it
@GustitisLaw3 жыл бұрын
@@anthonyromero4953 Make sure your criminal defense attorney is aware of all the facts you believe are relevant to your defense. Do not make ANY decisions without the advice of a defense attorney.
@emilianozapata37722 жыл бұрын
I seek to be proactive and would like to enroll in such a program pre-arrest. Would the court be included to honor such efforts or will they begin by sending you to get an evaluation
@GustitisLaw2 жыл бұрын
Discuss this with your defense attorney. DO NOT tell ANYONE you are participating. If things go bad, they can use that against you. Take your attorneys advice.
@greekbride18445 жыл бұрын
I have a qiestion im in Massachusetts my husband got arrested 5 months after the incident amd i was given a summoms today as he has court dor a dangerousness hearing. What are my rights as a wife
@GustitisLaw5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your question. Once summoned you have a legal obligation to appear in court at the date and time specified on the summons. Your rights are governed by Massachusetts law from that point. Since I practice law in Texas, I could only speculate. However, if you are supporting your husband in this matter, consider talking with his attorney about how you can help the defense of his case. Also, you may have the ability to hire a lawyer to represent your interests. I hope this helped.
@fabianbutler84683 жыл бұрын
Can the employee of the BIP stop you from enrolling in the program even though it's court ordered?
@GustitisLaw3 жыл бұрын
I don't know the BIPP policies of the agency you are talking about. Consequently, I really cannot answer your question.
@LeafFreedom3 жыл бұрын
I don't know if you would see this but, I am not a lawyer and I do not understand how these things work. I was thinking that if before the first trial you started the BIP that would be in a sense admitting guilt. Is this an incorrect assumption?
@GustitisLaw3 жыл бұрын
It is. Successful completion of the program is used in negotiations. If you are not guilty, then ask your lawyer about setting the case for trial. Otherwise, as them about the utility of completing the program. They will know best.
@LeafFreedom3 жыл бұрын
@@GustitisLaw I am not guilty luckily, the whole event was recorded on video and the charges were dropped. I just thought I would add that for anyone who is truly not guilty, maybe don't do the BIP until after your lawyer advises.
@TFitz2 жыл бұрын
Apparently you aren't supposed to say they had it coming
@GustitisLaw2 жыл бұрын
That's not what the US Constitution says. Thanks for commenting, nevertheless.
@georgecarrera184 жыл бұрын
Hey Sir may I ask you how to use woman's battery defense in a case
@GustitisLaw4 жыл бұрын
Ask your question and I’ll see if I can answer it. Thanks.
@georgecarrera184 жыл бұрын
@@GustitisLaw my mother was in a very dangerous and bad domestic abusive relationship with her ex from 2016 to around 2020 of may of this year . That man has mentally physically emotionally abused her has choked ect stalked and had spoken of gang hours on her or her family my mom tried to get away multiple times but he'll stalk Cyber was or ask around looking for her he'll call my phone ect .there's been afft. Against him reports ect My mom in mid may was allege to have done something after emotionally and mentally finally snapping may I ask what can she possibly do to prevent prison time
@georgecarrera184 жыл бұрын
@@GustitisLaw sir thank you for taking time out you're day . My mom had a payed lawyer but we had to motion of separation due to lack of work on her half or lack of following up on leads to what I was speaking about to pull records and statements ect. .
@dannypalmer77012 жыл бұрын
Dont hit!!
@GustitisLaw2 жыл бұрын
People are imperfect. Sometimes this happens. These people need help to improve their lives.