How To Use FEMININE ENERGY To Influence ANY Man

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[@SilkyChrysanthemum]

1. Look at (be mindful of) your physical stance = Do not let your stance communicate confrontation. 2. Do not match their tone (Keep an even/ calmer tone), engage and maintain in loving physical contact (eg., hug, rub the back of head or back, hand on thigh). 3. Do not cut him off. If he tries to cut you off, pause and ask 4. Affirmations (Let him know that you hear and understand what's being said, then repeat the highlights/ points said) 5. More loving physical contact. Remember: Masculine energy likes to be heard, validated. Thanks, MJ for the tips!

[@arbia.rhalia.]

😆😆

[@verovlogs3588]

Thank you, am going to try this definitely. It might be the answer to resolving our disagreement

[@sinazotame2411]

Thanks ❤️

[@GabrielleSWalker]

This is good to use with children too!! Thank you 🙏🏾 💕

[@purpleheart7270]

Thus is sooo on point I promise my husband hate for me to touch him when he's mad..he says it calms him down and he want to stay mad 😂😂😂😂😊

[@prettymakeupgeek]

This is like the old school relationship advice lol. When you think about it this is exactly what our Grandmother and older Aunts would do with their husband. They leaned into their feminine energy and silently ran the whole household lol. I’m taking notes boo 💖💖

[@simnikiwemajiki8265]

My cousins wife does this and has a perfect marriage

[@Hipiiiiii2]

Im seeing this theory everywhere lately. And it just seems like, that way women outsmart men. Hahah!! It is hard to calm down, but once u do it, u win all the arguments. Simple

[@hunny585]

sister cn u explain me in simpler words?

[@Scorpio4485]

Prettymakeupgeek and that’s exactly why they stayed together for ever..

[@kgthoughts]

Chivalry is for the most part dead....Women get defensive when a man tries to exert his gentlemen qualities and Men are super skeptical and weary when a women shows genuine interest in a lady like manner.....

[@dadoo173]

LADIES THIS ABSOLUTELY WORKS Me and my husband were mad at each other and didn’t talk for two days so I decided to follow Mj’s advice and went to my husband, sat next to him ,touched his hand and smiled, when he smiled back I hugged him and he immediately apologized and told me how much he missed me , I didn’t even have to say a word, thank you MJ 😭😭🙏🏼

[@kingpotato7183]

Deadass the best way to calm a man down is by touching him softly, it kinda catches us off guard, I just watched this video because I was curious and ended up agreeing with everything he said, like you don't even have to do all the steps mj said, just getting close to your man calms him down tremendously, it also will make the relationship last longer because the man feels respected and heard

[@jenkech5824]

Wow!!!!!!

[@jenkech5824]

I'm gonna try it

[@fadwaben1561]

This is so sweet

[@cassandrarobinson8624]

I'm so glad you resolved the problem and influencer like Mj's is a must in today's relationship it worked yesterday with our generation and it true today there's nothing new under the 🌞

[@ollin8748]

Yessssss when someone is fire the other MUST be water....

[@TheGraveWoman]

💓💓💓

[@soulsecretions461]

Yessss

[@hawaiianBombshell]

Ooooo....good one👍🏼

[@jaybae7315]

Yassss, hunty!!!!

[@user-lu4xp7iv8c]

Of course a man would say that

[@AchemySoul]

“ Whats more important… peace or your fucking point” 😂😂. I needed this.

[@daughterofyah8823]

Me too 😂😂

[@marica235]

I learned more about feminine energy in these 15 minutes than in my whole 29 years of life THANK YOU

[@ezraramirez6092]

Deadass! No one taught me 😭

[@lolaab9307]

Lol no seriously

[@daughterofyah8823]

No frfr 😂

[@reneerene7842]

Behaving and carrying yourself in a feminine way is truly a lost art. Most women today try to imitate what they see or hear in media outlets that tell us all the time to act more masculine to prove ourselves. You are speaking to me. I hear you.

[@suuzq02]

Satan controls media is trying to hack humans and break up family through crap 💩 written tv 📺 programming minds

[@daijohnson8385]

That’s funny because I’ve been doing this unknowingly.. my man literally apologize and we hug . I think I was born with natural feminine energy

[@daijohnson8385]

These tips only work on masculine men tho ! You’ll definitely know the difference, u should feel what type of Man U have

[@ladiiyb]

Right. Only on masculine men/women

[@EButta71]

That is beautiful ♡

[@lovelydove1920]

Yes, sis! You were born naturally feminine and therefore you were born with natural feminine energy!

[@kourtneywiththekurls814]

Me too! So cool

[@shaneeh9361]

I can’t wait to have a man to do this with.. a real man🙌🏼

[@foxyboop4164]

Lol 😆

[@Pursuitofbalance]

We're all REAL MEN, some have not done the deep self work to understand their energy imbalance inside, and their short comings. You nor I are perfect! We all need to grow and step into our respective divine energy roles!

[@Ihavemadeit999]

@@Pursuitofbalance yall are males,You have to earn the title man.

[@pocnit]

@@Ihavemadeit999 Cringe.

[@muhammadedwards8425]

@@Pursuitofbalance True enough, but the norm is that most men are weak. It comes partially from lack of knowledge and wisdom, because people left tradition Now, it's either passive overpositive, but low key selfish guys, or alpha/sigma types who think money and gym makes them men who call the former betas

[@timkeypoo]

Im such a masculine girl 😭 i almost threw up thinking about all that rubbing during an argument, I am taking notes for sure to tap into my feminine!

[@sexyladyakb]

Don I’m masculine too lol grew up in the country 🤣

[@mscandy71671]

Me too!😂😂

[@user-wb1vm9ex4k]

LOL same, ughhh I am struggling with this. Really need to try it though but I’m cringing so much at even the thought

[@TiffaneyGraham828]

Lol ok!!!

[@cherylmia]

Omg true!!! 😭😂😂😂

[@HarvestGirlEXP]

Works so well. He called back apologizing again today. 😊

[@MsNatna]

Good to know that it worked! Did you follow everyyy step?

[@therecreateprogram]

This technique had me having breakfast in bed the following morning and taken out for shopping 😂😂😂❤ I noticed something I've never paid attention to before, submission is something thats so tender, comforting and heartfelt to men and being able to calm him down in that particular moment and allowing him to open up really saved my relationship. Thank you so much for this ❤

[@hyunbinsdimple5803]

This man is dropping pearls.

[@wendyfoster4887]

The Bible says a soft answer turns away Wrath!!! Amen!!!

[@vierhans1553]

I feel I‘m changing right now. I cried through the first half of the video, realizing how I have a really hard time settling in my feminine energy and showing love.

[@peacefreedom4930]

Ain’t no hope for me. I need prayer and a miracle.

[@dioak7131]

Peace Freedom 😂🤣

[@Jennifer-gv8cr]

I hope you find the love you deserve.

[@peacefreedom4930]

Jennifer Thank you. I really appreciate that.

[@curlycurl3153]

@peace freedom as beautiful as you are you dont need any miracle.

[@Julia-ow4st]

Praying for you dear

[@ALABRASILIANA]

Your channel is soooooo good. Advice from a man that dates men!!! The best!! These other dating coaches are half baked in comparison to you! Love you!

[@marie-joseeleblanc8883]

Totally agree!!

[@truckerbae5135]

I was wondering if he was gay. This is my first time watching him.

[@Melanie-le6mw]

Right! ☺️☺️☺️☺️

[@OLatreil]

Yea MJ is next level. I love his demonstrations too lol. I also like Chloe_, AskChazzEllis and Sexy Confidece channels. They taught me so much over the years about relationships and I'm making improvements with each new guy. Keeping to your standards is huge!

[@lucindakloman290]

Thank you, Women's Liberation Movement. Our grandmothers didn't need lessons on how to be in their feminine energy. We lost our way and now we REALLY NEED guys like MJ to reteach us what we've unlearned.

[@unknownoblivion2417]

💯

[@APTTMHYforever]

My first time watching your channel and this is spot on!!! I have used similar techniques in the past and have always ultimately gotten what I wanted from any man. In my 36 years, I’ve never been dumped or ghosted. Men always compliment me on my entire aura/vibe/spirit basically my “feminine energy”. Lean into what God naturally gave us and you will always win!!

[@hunny585]

wow so happy for u! Would u like to share ur tips wid us sisters? :)

[@princessirulancorrino4695]

Sis that is awesome. I’m like you Keep on your feminine journey Sending you lots of love from me a Queen to you another Queen 🌺

[@mkb5984]

Good for you! 👏🏽

[@mkb5984]

@@hunny585 You don't need tips, do you.

[@hunny585]

@@mkb5984 i doo pls.

[@SuperFaith4ever]

Going to try in my next life😂. 63 years now and my patience is gone. Just me and Netflix 😄.

[@sexyladyakb]

Freethinker4ever okay?! This is gonna be me 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Itsallaboutlove52]

I’m 49 and it’s me and my cats. I literally only had 3 relationships and they’re the only people I even kissed and it’s too late for me. Listening to this man just shows how crazy men out there are.

[@StandupGirl-ym3ey]

Lol yep I feel the same I'll be 39 next month and its been Non-stop KZbin for me!! 😂😂😂😘😘😘

[@gwill3097]

@Courtney HP it's too late because the older WE get the worse THEY are! I've met almost 50 yr old men who play games I had no time for in my 20's!😒😒😒

[@Cherie6361]

@@Itsallaboutlove52 it's never too late sweetheart. Never!

[@passportpapi713]

I don't know how I found this channel but I'm a heterosexual masculine man, and this person mj Harris is speaking 1000000000% facts. Every time my woman moves into a her feminine and doesn't fight me, I feel bad Bc I'm not a bully I'm a protector , so wen I see my woman wants no issues I don't want to create any and I feel sooooooo Fukin bad for even taking it too far. And I always end up apologizing, she wins EVERY FUKIN TIME 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I'm weak to feminine energy. Now on another note give me a masculine fighting heffer and we going toe to toe and luckily I don't fight women Bc she could get knocked out. NEVER HAVE I EVER FELT LIKE KNOCKING OUT A FEMININE WOMAN. Just a masculine one Bc it's confusing as a man it's like hold tf up this a nigga. Wats up?!!? So I agree. First of all a woman shouldn't be taking it to the point of escalating into a fight you can't win physically , UNLESS YOU ARE DEFENDING YOURSELF FROM A MAN TRYING TO BULLY U. Besides that calm down. This is gold!! Respect

[@camilleh992]

Being in my feminine energy is sooo much fun! Especially at work where there’s all types of guys who just seem to be attracted to my presence.. it’s just exciting :)

[@unknownoblivion2417]

Huh? That doesn’t sound right at all🤨🤨 don’t play around with them, unless it’s your man you can have him enchanted with you all you want but then men at work are colleagues not toys for amusement, don’t have fun at their expense (they won’t realize they’re doing wrong by giving in to you and falling for you, then all they’ll think about is you and they may start being dissatisfied with their home life or spouse) hence why fornication is a sin, a sin is a sin for a reason, it has too many bad consequences that makes it so not worth it small picture and big picture as a society,

[@camilleh992]

@@unknownoblivion2417 this was 2 years ago. In a happy relationship now 😊

[@mary-annnyam8677]

Please drop notes

[@glamwithtrika]

So i just want to say i used this technique on my boo and it works!!!!! I tapped into my feminine energy through texting. by the end of the conversation he apologized to me (and he NEVER apologizes) even after apologizing he canceled his plans and was asking to see me! ladies listen to his advice!!! it workssss

[@geounderstanding3924]

How did u do it thru text sis

[@Summerbeeuty]

What did the text say dear?

[@Nehesi]

He droppin gems, ladies. Even if he*know* you're doing this, if its from a sincere place it'll work.

[@jasminealexia]

Walter Varner 💯

[@iamchangingtoo]

I had someone do this too me! At first I thought why would I want a hug from you? I realized that it was soothing and relaxing. We were able to talk and I finally realized what was pissing me off. Back to you though, good points here.

[@Nyan246]

Does anyone else notice that his skin is literally glowing with femininity? 😳 What I need to know is your skin care routine

[@Footmasterr]

It's called good Makeup 😄

[@winnersneeddiscipline4926]

@@Footmasterr 😂😂😂😂man make up😨😨

[@neelamkadri2953]

🥰

[@Pursuepeace0715]

this is why every straight woman needs a gay best friend! thank you for all this advise. I am taking notes 👓✍🏼 and learning! you are wonderful!👏🏼❤😊

[@nicestar2198]

exactly!

[@Reggieincontrol]

Lol

[@kimmieg1407]

@vstar68 I totally agree. I miss mine he moved to another city

[@aekay_]

I knoooow right!!!🙅🏽‍♀️

[@HalosOrbit]

Same sissss

[@CS-pl1re]

Boy the way you was looking at the camera I almost got them chills. 😂😂😂Your verry good👌

[@shyleekyles6724]

He knows how to play both sides very well you can tell he’s experienced 👏🏼❤️

[@Michelle-bg3mo]

This super hard to do and ONLY worth doing with the right man. If he’s not worth it just walk away in peace

[@XYZ-ln2qk]

Men dynamics is as maintening world peace: diplomacy, flattery, gifts, kisses, hugs, petting. Your tips sound as customer service customer handling.

[@rudinaalbania]

Haha yeah

[@tajthegreatone9326]

Idk about this for me. I have been told quite often that the WAY I say things is jacked up. My masculine energy got me feeling like "fk y'all I ain't about to baby your grown azz." However my feminine energy is a little willing to try. Wish me luck y'all! Lbvs😃

[@phoenixbg2096]

My mom keep telling me the same thing and I never listen, but how you demonstrate this, it feels so nice and relaxing, it’s the best advice ever! I am so happy that I find you! They all just talking, you are revolutionary in showing us how to really do it! Thanks!

[@TashaWashington]

Never did I think I would be getting feminine advice from a man, but here we are lol. This was SO helpful I’m trying this for sure. Thank you for the advice!

[@Tktikipunch]

"A hug is an unspoken positive reinforcement."

[@ondrea5451]

I just want to thank you for this video. It can be so difficult as a black woman to be vulnerable and soft in the midst of a verbal disagreement, but being gentle makes all the difference in the world. It doesn’t make you meek; it’s almost like a super power. Your ability to diffuse a situation simply from the energy that you exude when you learn to tap into your divine feminine is truly empowering. 🌸💓 I love this.

[@yasminjackson5140]

This really worked omg. We got into it and me saying calm and soft , he got relax and became understanding . He used to toxic behavior such as being hit and scratch on so I can see him taken off guard when I react differently.

[@joshuagregoire9504]

Nigga you scratch him?

[@demariomw]

@@joshuagregoire9504 lmfaooo

[@gu2357]

I’m not really masculine myself but I grew up with a lot of masculine women ruling the house by spewing fire this is all new to me..😂😅

[@ama7430]

Welcome to the journey sis

[@LayelleTee]

Me too .. my god lol

[@gigioldsoul2628]

“cause once he turn on his ears turn off” 🤣🤣🤣

[@noneya-hv2vu]

😭😩😂

[@tandt7694]

Love the advice, but this is confirmation of my resting securely in my singleness. WAY too much work involved in this !! Best of luck to you all with your relationship endeavors.

[@tampfrompensacola]

Lol

[@dolcenina28]

Tand T I’m with you I’m not sure if a relationship is for me I like my own space too much now.

[@user-wb1vm9ex4k]

LOL ugh same , I’m cringing so hard

[@classykisses9654]

I just do the rubbing and get him where I want lolol

[@kelamo7067]

Tand T Girl....preach!!!

[@lucywaitforitramirez1737]

Most men’s love language is touch!! The stroking, the hugs, you’re literally conditioning them to respond better, and are awarding them with your touch (like the hug) when they do respond well! This is genius!!

[@emilyjenkins489]

MJ, I've taken many communication workshops/trainings, this is absolutely great information! I tell folks to ask themselves, "Do you want to be right, or do you want to be happy?" Thanks for this wonderful communication strategy...you are a BEAST!

[@user-wb1vm9ex4k]

Does anyone else feel like they need Jesus after watching this lol? Ughhh the struggle 😂

[@lettya2005]

I tried many of these techniques but I was perceived as week. My boyfriend expected me to yell back, because those behaviors were normal to him. He actually told, me that his ex wife and exs would yell and cussed at him. My behaviors were too strange to him and found a new girlfriend who can cuss him out regularly 🙄

[@kaycampbell364]

He's an idiot move on...he doesn't know value and he was raised by ghetto mother

[@MegaLadylove2012]

Student Student Thts also my fear abt doing these because ppl either gonna think you’re weak or can be win over too easily. It’s sad what’s happening in today’s world of dating and relationships. I was sort of seeing a guy at work and saw how he dismissed my feelings but validated the feelings of the women who were considered quote, unquote ‘tough’ gal energy. It shocked me bc I thought he liked feminine women but boy was I wrong. So gotta be mindful of whom this technique is practice with

[@shaleenaabron2520]

Beta male

[@strawberryshortgirl2637]

He wasnt raised properly and grew up in a bad environment and was influenced by it. That's why he picks the verbally abusive women

[@Lovejoi222]

He wasn’t meant for you. Thank the universe he left...u don’t deserve toxicity

[@luv90d61]

Teach Us Ladies all #2020 I'm here for it . New subscriber ‼‼

[@Julia-ow4st]

"Don't match him, mother him." 🙏

[@lilulilu4298]

ew

[@Ihavemadeit999]

Nigga ew

[@mkb5984]

He got a Moms.....I'm his Queen. You're welcome..

[@biggooeyyy]

no way

[@phi-losiphy2038]

​@@mkb5984frr

[@skylarcrystle]

If I earned money every time I rolled my eyes I’d have 3 digits in my bank account I’m so stubborn. But I’ll try .🤦🏽‍♀️

[@rekuu27]

Mee too.

[@akillaco5571]

Skylar Mims bruhhhhhg on God. I honestly don’t feel I’m being stubborn when I say this but a very deserving man has to be able to receive this energy. You go and try to do this on any dude and they will take that as a weakness and milk you

[@blessingashanti7039]

@@akillaco5571 factsss smdh

[@MollyJOfficial]

The way I felt this comment. 😭🤦🏽‍♀️

[@lorenaperez9807]

🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@Abundantbossbabe]

Being mostly masculine energy I really learned a lot from this video. YOU ARE AMAZING 💋

[@moreofkevi6940]

Check out sheraseven

[@copyscastle]

This is so true. Especially about the part where you pause and remind him that you listened to him and that you want him to also hear you out. I did this before watching the video so when i heard you say that i smiled. And of course it actually worked. He even felt a little bad about it and said I made him feel sweet/soft. Its all about how you talk to them bc a lot of times people in general will know when theyre in the wrong or unrightfully lashing out. And so speaking to them kindly and reminding them that they should also be kind to you as you are to them will make them realize this themselves. Especially if its a feminine energy paired with a masculine energy. He will see you as something to be treasured but also fragile. And would make sure to protect and care for you.

[@lowkee777]

Thank you 💕... I truly needed to be reminded of this. Because sometimes I get in defense mode and meet energy with energy...then things go left

[@StandupGirl-ym3ey]

Yesssssssss I'm always on GO!!

[@mysti6557]

I don’t have the patience for this lol 😂 I need to work on my temper first cause I be ready to go tf off!

[@annmurugi9738]

😂

[@nikkig6035]

Me too 😂😂😂

[@honeywest39j95]

You will most likely mellow out as you grow older. I did.

[@qunbeeisale2184]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@pikuthecreator2380]

🤣😂😂😂

[@idkyaful]

Now I gotta start an argument to see how well this works 😂😂

[@MollyJOfficial]

For reeeeaaalll 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@spiceutley7467]

Screamingggggg 😂😂😂😂

[@loveydovey2805]

😭😭😭

[@empress9857]

😂😂

[@urgirlfaye2096]

You need a podcast

[@francilliabenjamin]

I wish I could love this video fifty-eleven times. Bless you, you were right on time with this video. Dropping all these gems. Compromising, building trust, practicing healthy communication, intimacy, PATIENCE, RESPECT, and the list goes on. Love alone!!🥰

[@kellyl.petrus2170]

Thank you MJ...that is the essence of the Queen Code...knowing how to respond to your man and NOT be at war (...this is not to be wasted on anyone else but the righteous man).

[@makeupbypati1878]

🤫🤫🤫'' don't stop rubbing on him '' 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂

[@tabetha1111]

Teaching me all of the things my mother should have but didn’t 🙌🏼😩🙏🏼🙏🏼 many many thanks❤️

[@taeythecreator8929]

tabetha1111 same here girl frfr

[@Nuday477]

LET HIM TALK!!

[@Onyx.Artistry1]

MJ SEDUCES ME 🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️

[@mskaniki6213]

Me too😩😩😩😩

[@MollyJOfficial]

LMFAOOO 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@JaylaChristina]

I feel like my bf would push me off of him he be too mad😭😭😂

[@princessbritqueenbrat8994]

Jayla S bruuuuu😂🤣 ! 🤯

[@Redd91ful]

Jayla S girllll😂same. I’m thinking “how can I pull this off”

[@JaylaChristina]

Egypts Pyramid 😭😭😭😭

[@akillaco5571]

Jayla S Lmaooo fr

[@JaylaChristina]

faith umuk I did 🤣

[@BB-sg6ey]

Thank you!! It worked!!! You are saving my “situationship!” Amazing. I didn’t think I could do it ..”don’t stop rubbing him” every time I started to get irritated I remembered what you said.. keep the “feminine energy”. Worked like a charm. I feel like I tamed the beast!

[@khensuahabuhetepre1372]

This is something I use in my spiritual rejuvenation classes , the gatekeepers have to learn to heal again and use their sexual energy to rise above all this negativity

[@tawainahollis4770]

ken abahbu hetep rayay TEACH!

[@hawaiianBombshell]

Who is the gatekeeper?

[@claudiao7743]

This is gold. I need to find my patience first before I can work this level of finesse.

[@haleyparker1111]

Wow. Thank you so much for this! I couldn’t understand why he kept feeling this way towards me and this really helped me to self reflect and see all the things I’m doing to contribute to the situation. I will definitely be applying these to my life and relationships!

[@coolcoloursbeautyngozioji8772]

I laughed the whole time. This is awesome stuff.

[@elsaea3175]

Omg... your energy just made me feel so good 🧘🏻‍♀️😊. Thanks for sharing this!

[@zahararay5611]

Knowing me My execution of this would be hilariously awkward. Stumbling to hug him, my ring getting caught in his hair while rubbing his head, getting something in my eye while trying to give him non flinching eye contact, needing to fart while he lays on my chest, this is good advice but will take practice or luck to pull it off smoothly lol

[@prettyhendrickson2726]

😂😂😂

[@RosalynnAnne]

That’s cute tho lmao. It would work Bc of the lightness of the energy lol

[@zahararay5611]

@@RosalynnAnne thanks for the faith lol

[@U_neekliss]

🤣🤣🤣🤣me too lol😅

[@amunford1]

Im going to start wearing one bluetooth earphone nonstop at home, so that the next time my husband and i have a confrontation, i can discreetly listen to you 'remind' me what to do! Thank you for your much needed advice (especially from a man's viewpoint)!

[@blissreframed1681]

I enjoyed this video! I am a naturally feminine woman. I just ended a long-term relationship with a beta male. It ended up horrible. I thrive with a very masculine man. Next relationship I MUST have a man with respectful strong masculine energy. I love the interaction!

[@lesleymay6757]

Did you find one?

[@lashayalibey6094]

I just cant get enough of you MJ Harris, its like you speaking to my soul. Happy Holidays.

[@Redd91ful]

omg this makes me want to go start some sht about the way he cooked his tacos and see if I can pull this off🤣😜😜😜😂

[@KB-ri9so]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Iamwhitneygreen]

Lmaooo 🤣

[@chilove9955]

Don't disrespect the tacos 🤣🤣

[@kelamo7067]

This only works if a man is in tune with his mental health and in good mental health for that matter. A lot of black men, especially in poor urban areas, suffer from severe mental illness which they keep bottled up inside and have a lot of feminine traits that are often displayed when angered. Remember, a lot of poverty stricken men, including heterosexual black men, were raised around manly and masculine single mothers who held the fort down alone and not by choice. So that, and being surrounded by violent communities, definitely takes a toll on the mental. Black men, in regards to the ones aforementioned, definitely are fragile and need to be handled with a SPECIAL kind of care!!!

[@veganmagick7251]

Or avoided at all costs!

[@amerokeewiya1320]

Handled with care? Are they handling THEMSELVES with care? They should get counseling & take care of themselves 1st. No one has time to be “handling” a grown ass man with care.

[@Solov_d444]

Your smile is so big and beautiful! 😍😍😍❤️ thanks for the advice

[@GennySui]

I’m so glad I found you... late af but things happen for a reason. Because watching this had me thinking how I handled past relationships & how I could’ve made it better. Best believe I’m taking mental notes now 🖤

[@TheVioletWolf]

This was incredibly valuable. I love that you employ compassion, listening, and touch. And you've given me some points to check in on my own heightened emotion in the event of a disagreement. Body language, mirroring, the whole nine. You are a GEM.

[@ruth5316]

Damn right! Feminine energy is being a lady not a brat! I am just saying 💋💅🏼

[@danellamil4504]

You are so right in everything you said I am a married woman that has suffered from communication issues in my marriage, you hit every point exactly right.

[@alexandramonaco5499]

Your channel is by far my favorite. Im on here consistently learning and trying to self improve but your channel has taken me to next level. 🙌🙌

[@hannahkufuna4657]

Fu*k!! Your calm down!! 😂😂 Why am I listening to this at work I just cracked up. This is good info I'm about to get it!!

[@elegantj2924]

“Don’t stop rubbing him” 😂😂

[@princessaleiah]

MJ is putting us on game. I can't thank you enough. 💕

[@greenteapeng_]

The exposure goes up when you say “feminine energy” at 3:33. Angel number 333 😇 how beautiful

[@Mindofedward]

I just came across your channel. OBSESSED!!! You are so important to the LGBT community. Respect. Thank you for your work.

[@uraddictionx]

This is hard to do... I’m a Latina come on!!! I snap back with my eyes!

[@ama7430]

Same here... tryna tap into my femininity and its hard but it feels so good

[@ellensimmons6262]

First of all, I appreciate how you snapped on us! This hit on a different level. 🤣❤

[@saadiathomas4145]

3 years later I'm revisiting this and it's still very effective

[@Nowshepaints]

I never had anyone teach me this... I love you and I pray for you!

[@HarvestGirlEXP]

I had this situation at dinner last night at a restaurant so we where already sitting down when he said some bullshit that made me want to snap and leave yet I didn’t went off into my feminine and even as his ass was talking I rubbed on his knee and half way up the thigh and shoulders and looked at him sensually and understanding as he spoke and then when he finished I let him know in such a lovely sensual way on how I was not for the shits and after all that he apologized and said maybe he used the wrong wording and said something more suitable for me to deal with yet I’m still bout to use it to my advantage for some things i want to happen. Feminine honey works!! So happy I’m learning this! I’m getting better!! I love myself and this divinity.

[@m.xoxo.b]

AMEN TO ALL 15 MINUTES AND 13 SECONDS OF THIS VIDEO! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💕💕💕

[@timeka30]

Best Advice Ever!!!!!! I will be applying this to my next relationship. You are so awesome MJ!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@justbeingmarilyn5007]

I am so upset that I just found your channel. So much wisdom and encouragement! I don’t care how hard life gets hard for you please keep giving because it’s working. Love ya! 💋

[@miaaxx7882]

I do this already ... thank you so much for this I’m sure it’s very helpful to a lot of our Queens out there ❤️

[@lisamaree296]

MJ!!! You always come right on time here I am trying to figure out how to communicate better❤️❤️

[@Lilahalo]

This is too specific 😩😍 I love. You basically calmed me down and I wasn’t even disagreeing with you 😭

[@iwjfhaifn2950]

I did it once. All he said was "stay away" The other time when i tried to do something it just didn't feel right, it felt like i was hugging a wall

[@mkb5984]

Cause it ain't right!

[@LadyAngela678]

I love manipulating men at work to do things for me. ..I think they like it too. 😁

[@chay7224]

First Name Last Name same same same

[@hunny585]

how do u do at work..share pls

[@Redd91ful]

Hina B. Girl it’s so simple. Be nice, look good, SMELL GOOD & SMILE ..men co-workers would do the MOST. open doors, pick things up. you don’t have to be flirty, but be friendly

[@Lovejoi222]

Yes ma’am you’re right

[@zion7152]

why do men need to do things for you?

[@mrsbefort1616]

It be fun to do the topic of working with male bosses or femine energy in the workplace

[@lollykiss2000]

Mrs Befort girl I use this on some men at my job and it’s so funny to see how they treat me compared to other women

[@Itsamytarie]

This man knows what he's talkin about omg! :D must apply these tips ASAP

[@drewisours]

No one ever taught me any of this. Thank you so much for teaching us ❤️

[@anitabrown1302]

I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate

[@anitabrown1302]

He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay

[@anitabrown1302]

Whtsaap him"**

[@SunnyGlade]

This is honestly the best detailed ACTIONABLE advise I’ve heard in years on KZbin. Thank you!