How to Stop Being Awkward Around Girls

[@howtobeast]

Let's get it!! And remember, you can get 20% OFF at EDGE Lifestyle with code 'TAKE20': edgelifestyle.com

[@agoogleuseranonymous2658]

BRO Please do more cold approaches with the entire interactions. I also want to see your rejections as this motivates me a lot. Like all these other KZbinrs show the flawless interactions. But that's not how it works IRL ... It's like showing game where you constantly win ... it's not real. Loosing is part of the game too sometimes.

[@andrewschoettler6863]

Throw in free international shipping and I'll be all over this 🤝🏻

[@davidallahgod3217]

@@andrewschoettler6863 pal, dont you throw in any asylum seekers buddy!

[@tesla9665]

Bruh stop misguiding these young lil boiz. If a girl likes you, you don’t need to do or say anything. She will come to you.

[@SxulaSpxwn-ke6hc]

I got a question for you so this is a off topic question for you right why is it when I go to the gym there are people that I see with headphones on and it makes it so hard for people to chat with each other when this is happening like my question is how are you supposed talk with people like when I went to the gym yesterday I seen like 12 people with headphones on like it’s crazy I have so many people telling me that going to the gym is one of the best places to meet people and I think that is not true because all I see is people on there phones and another thing I’m gonna say is that society has changed because people are always on there phones and the only time they are interested in you is if you have money or a nice car then the tables turn and another thing I’m gonna say is that the dating world has changed so much because people are on there phone all day and my thing is how is the world gonna change back to the way it was when people were not always on there phones all day long because for a guy finding someone is like pulling teeth going on the street trying to find people you find gold diggers and sometimes there might be that 1 person who is wife material but nowadays it’s hard to find someone like that and dating apps is also not the best way to find girls is because people catfish on dating apps for example a guy can go on there and make a female profile saying he’s 20 year old girl have everyone thinking he’s a girl but in reality the person behind that phone texting you could be a guy 60 year old guy behind that account trying to fool people to think that he is a young girl that like dating apps don’t work.

[@chrisholt4804]

Rejection is literally a part of life. Embrace it, own it and move forward

[@nolifezay4636]

I’m tired of every girl I see attractive being taken

[@realwii.e1]

@@nolifezay4636 it isnt allways about attractive, sure style is important. but personality can also be a key to love

[@JabronyPlays]

Exept most girls don't have to get rejected cause they don't have to ask

[@vekazu_is_great_guy]

What if i was the one who accidently rejected Her tho😭

[@KlarckeWatz]

@@vekazu_is_great_guyhappened to me to bro. Been different ever since. Something was telling you to do it. That’s God calling you bro

[@joeprodigy]

Props to David for showing us the rejection most youtubers won’t

[@joeprodigy]

@@drock430 nah he gets props for showing us that rejection happens and it’s okay to accept it so that we can learn from it

[@itsmellomax]

Come on man, you don't get the point​@drock430

[@joshuacarmichael9812]

that's my guy you should have seen him before he had millions of subs he was just as authentic as he is now. its tough that my two dating coaches collabed in Miami

[@TheAmelito123]

@@drock430 the guy is married dude @joeprodigy point is He is not perfect and show not only the success but the failure

[@decoder258]

@@drock430 you are a hater bro

[@sanusinonkomo4661]

You know what’s funny is that a girl just rejected me few minutes ago and when I entered KZbin you just appeared 😭🤞🏾😂😂

[@mcgardly1]

Siri was listening

[@disandestiny3655]

God wants you to get better at it

[@-_deploy_-]

​@@disandestiny3655 maybe but it is most likely the phone hearing everything 💀

[@GunneraManicata]

That shows our phones are always listening.

[@jdawggs2009]

God I good

[@Zinkdx]

It’s not the rejection that hurts, it’s her telling everyone

[@jdskinner]

Your content has helped me so much over the last 6 months. my personal social confidence has grown to a dangerous level. My friends say “oh Jeremy can talk to anyone” I’ll go up to the ceo sitting on his yacht and spark up a conversation and carry it. I run meetings at work that I’m not in charge of. Exit the meeting when I’m done. This includes women, women are the easiest of all.

[@howtobeast]

keep beasting brother 💪🏼

[@Mathew_22]

w brother, dont let woman be your main priority now save some for the rest of us 😂

[@existence.5806]

HOW TO??? AAAA SHARE YOUR TRICKS KZbin COMMENTS MAN

[@Ziggle-ky9kv]

There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

[@vincentnee5227]

Where is this book?

[@adriandasilva7697]

This is fake, he posts the same comment under every video like that to get sales!

[@ulticommetitan]

alternatively, The Game from Neil Strauss

[@Luv_myself08]

Bro he’s even on bertos vids

[@mooniswani1873]

Hey ur the same guy I saw on the other video

[@talesfromthetrailz]

Bruh, definitely an introvert myself and I've had a lot of the problems you've mentioned and it took me years to overcome them. The biggest one I can give to introverted men out there is to take up space, not in a domineering manner but more like "Yeah, I'm here and I'm him". But actually believe that by the work you put in. It not only shows you're confident, but also that you don't care what others think. That's the number 1. Love your content mayne! 👊🏾👊🏾

[@basseysamuel108]

Congrats on baby beast again. So proud how far you've come and it also keeps me going too

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*The concept of being present and genuinely listening to the other person can really change the game. It’s all about connection, and I appreciate the reminders to be myself and not overthink things.*

[@nyanhtetaung8518]

1. Don’t second guess what to say next. Observe the girl. Stop worrying about what you gonna say. 2. Slow your words down. Let there be a pause. 3. Outfit matters

[@lazarjocic5829]

I approached three people, two girls and one friend today, now after these tips i am addicted to approaching. You saved me. We’ll see how the week goes, i’ll update you tomorrow lets fucking goooooo

[@LeeStewart]

I'd run out of things to say to one girl which resulted in awkward silence. I hate when you can't think of something to say and the silence comes.

[@static7335]

thats okay. enjoy the silence. most times they are gonna break it and say something. just dont say anything until you think of something. awkward silence is good. tests the water yk

[@kinnyg27]

My guy. If you’re at a loss for words or don’t know what to say next. It’s critical that you have emergency questions, ie: “If you were to go to one place in the world” typa stuff. I haven’t really had to use them but know that I always got interesting questions with substance that can keep a conversation flowing

[@--pussypatroll--]

Just rip a huge fart... that will get things moving forward again.

[@quintonmaldonado8368]

If you have the intention of legitimate interest in people the conversation carries itself.

[@z0ned_0ut.]

Ask her what brand is her microwave

[@muratakd3779]

I ve been catching up with your channel and challenge programme sometime now since 2020. I can tell this Episode is Legendary !!

[@zToxin]

0:56 Instructions unclear; im in jail now

[@___anand.m.__]

Underrated 😂

[@LEGENDTHESTUD]

One of the best videos you have ever made.

[@chrissjelin5815]

Bro thank you for the honesty and putting yourself out there like that

[@1LWiLNY]

2nd point was literally a game changer for me, being way more laid back allows her to feel the same way and less uptight/awkward.

[@cyberwolf331]

Awesome vid Beast, would you and Julia do a updated vid about your hardest of times, or arguments you overcome in your relationship? Congratulations on joining the Dad club too bro. 🤘

[@AJ-rk6zf]

I've noticed for me the most natural conversations are the ones where you say what's on your mind that's it works for me in other words when it comes to girls talk to them like anyone listen be calm ask questions if she's not interested move on.

[@LiminalEcho]

Holy shit finally In find one of these types of videos that actually gives reasonable advice from start to finish. I have a girlfriend and honestly most other videos like these for me usually boil down to "How to be a cocky douchebag who hates women 101", but this video I find will actually be helpful to people who are having trouble with dating. Also dude witty. Props for the video.

[@nobodysperfect06]

One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him. Another guy, not until 35 unfortuneately. He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Since women are always guaranteed attention or dating options because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention. A lot of guys hate and resent how nature and reality dictates that men have to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and do the pursuing but unfortunately there's no other way. Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women. He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long. Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past. Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel. Probably because women are just a guaranteed options and attentions for just existing and breathing or having a pulse but it's not true if you're a guy or a human male. Men have to learn all of these skills or behaviors or know how to talk and behave a certain way or act a certain way to attract women( I got even more pissed off when a guy said that men also have to learn how to talk a certain way and behave a certain way or act a certain way in order to get a job or get certain social ranking in Society), that pissed me off a lot because that's a different issue and that's a different matter and plus the way you talk and behave and act in order to get a job or get social ranking in Society is different than what it takes to attract women, women however since they play a passive role, I just don't understand why or how women have to learn any skills in order to attract men, I just don't get it, that doesn't require any learning or I just don't see how it requires any learning. So yeah I get very mad and annoyed that there is even dating advice for women on how to attract men But yeah I get very angry whenever people think men have it better than women do in dating. I feel like I can relate to him because I didn't really have a breakthrough or a long-term relationship until my early 30s, I'll forever be sad and depressed and bitter and resentful that I didn't have a long-term relationship in my 20s. Yet people still think men have it better than women do when in fact women have always been and always will be less at risk than men do at being chronically alone or single later than normal like I described. It won't surprise me if you are the type of guy or the type of person who has the mindset that it's better to be a man than it is to be a woman at the end of the day. Overall, I will forever be angry and bitter, resentful, that I didn't have a girlfriend until later than normal. I didn't have one until my early 30s, beginning of my 30s, yes obviously that is late in life, sadly can't do anything about it. I remember when one person told me that I should just be glad that I was able to get a girlfriend or have a girlfriend now and enjoy the fruits of my labor and that just made me more angry and pissed me off even more it sounds like that person has the mindset or mentality that a guy or a man should still be happy that even if he finally managed to get a girlfriend even in his 50s or 60s or as a senior citizen. Yeah I have the mindset that women are the only gender that are owed a relationship but men are not. It naturally feels like women are owed a relationship but men are not, because when you're on the receiving end of sexual attention it means that you always have options and choices or it just means that you are in abundance by default for simply just existing. Other comments only added fuel to fire and just further pissed me off even more "But yes, you have to put in the work. Fortunately, even that is very rewarding and satisfying, since men are wired to enjoy striving and building." Well that was never me, and i'm sure for many men worldwide as well. "expecting to not have to put effort into anything and get rewarded is just pure delusion.", Yes more true for men than for women, its quite obvious that women don't have to do squat or jackshit to make a relationship happen or be formed between the 2 sexes, men have to put in all the effort and work, and i get more angry that men are not supposed to view that as work. Another guy also pissed me off more when he said: "Why would you be bitter once you got what you wanted? Even if it took that long why does it matter? You can still enjoy the fruits of your labor now", Because it happend for me late in life, happend for me when i didn't want it happen, i would have preferred it to happen when i was younger, and it reminds me, i had to work hard in order to get it while women just had to sit back and relax and just let it all happen to them, women didn't have to lift a finger in order to get a date or get into a relationship, the man had to do everything, it should be obvious as to what i'm talking about.

[@ivindise]

Ain't reading allat

[@Jdöpjfn]

Bro yapping

[@marsius7909]

Bro, that`s life and it`s tough. Women have their own problems and it`s stupid to compete with who has it worse or better. It`s okay to be angry if you think something shouldn`t be the way it is. But ultimately you need to decide to let it go and move forward.

[@brysoncain7506]

Jesus is king

[@maskedky]

🙏🙏🙏

[@minecraftnoob5492]

Truth

[@BadrElbellili]

He ain't

[@EthanAyres-w4m]

@@BadrElbelliliwomp Womp

[@MegaMarm0t]

Bruh… what does that have to do with the video 💀😂

[@szn1580]

Great video man I have to self improve your journey helping men has been amazing to see bro

[@c00L-pin3appl3]

forget the girls bro, he a baddie

[@sadraesmaili3174]

Zesty ass bro

[@stevo1110]

Fym gang😭

[@jonathanolivier6932]

When you talk with girl , just talk to them like a normal friends , you will know with conversation if you are more than" friends "

[@jonathanolivier6932]

@gmsi7d371 ya but when you talk to her , you can tell if she want you or not , not like a normal friend would do , check how she look at you,how she ask about yourself , you are near from each other when you talk , this is all the sign

[@gmsi7d371]

@@jonathanolivier6932 hello how are you doing ?

[@Mr.Random9813]

Guys don’t be like me. I took cut of the “head” to seriously 💀

[@killaskinz3]

A famous cia agent once said first impressions are not all that important. The last impression is how someone remembers who you are.

[@emmanueladeyeye4602]

Fire vid bro. Imma definitely save this one

[@WishfulEscapist]

This video was great motivation for my mile. Thank you. 24 single man that wants a family one day. No dad so life and God teach me valuable lessons and men like this man right here 🎉 thank you sir

[@GTS300Coupe]

Good points thanks for sharing. You've earned a new subscriber cheers

[@kosdimitriadis]

Bro! Congrats for the little baby beast coming! Be careful at this rail behind you, a baby can escalate this, its very dangerous. Stay beastly!

[@CeciledeLuire]

oh and guys: women get rejected too 🙂 maybe often later in the process, but they too. we all just need to be tough it seems.

[@initiatorhater0688]

"you gotta break some eggs to make an omellete. im sure i creeped out tons of girls over the years". That was a powerful quote or statement I heard from another guy, a dating coach, who gives advice to men, it's in regards to men getting better at just approaching or interacting with women. I just want to be sure I interpret it or have the right mindset and that is, men even have to risk getting labeled creepy or just even screw up and mess up interactions, that results in getting negative reactions from women as in the woman is uncomfortable from the man's presence, makes her feel uncomfortable As in its part of the journey of getting better, do I have the right mindset or not? "It's the learning process. EVERY guy goes through that. Every GIRL goes through similar things, where she reacted in some awkward way to a guy, shooed away a guy she regrets shooing away and now assumes probably hates her, etc., etc. The way you deal with it is by continuing to improve socially, so you can be SMOOTH instead of awkward. This is what everyone does, men and women alike. It is part of the GROWING UP PROCESS." so is making mistakes socially with women, as in, getting labeled or perceived as creepy or weird when approaching, messing up interactions in which the woman was uncomfortable, is that part of the process of getting better? was the ever the case for you David or guys you helped, knew? Do i have the right mindset, right perspective or not? Do i have the right mindset, right mentality or not?

[@mystik-der-klänge]

it's kinda shit that it has to work that way and for women be offered involuntary for practice and the guys being exposed to humiliation. Not nice from our Lord in Heaven

[@Pologram]

Or you can just be yourself without any strategy and if she cringes that’s her problem.

[@Jime0326]

Thank you.

[@XYstudio886]

Needed this. Just got rejected for specifically this reason.

[@vitusndelu6630]

Dave, it's my 23rd, another year of staying beastly ahead!

[@scottj.7105]

Love the video ! Every day I consciously try to use your techniques... 👍

[@Nd_ruben77]

Best video a watch in a while thanks bro😢

[@kellycharleston5796]

Barefoot in the house making a laid back video, cheers David you earned it

[@icefireicefire105]

Beast- A Masterpiece of Advice. 💯🤜🏽🤛🏽

[@mmig2116]

Coach kyle is a smooth dude good vibes

[@virgiltracey1292]

the moment you said your an introvert i smiled :) good video better than i thought dude..

[@helleaplays140]

I'll stay being awkward it's part of who I am if someone don't like it they don't like me if I change because most people don't like it then I am no longer me and just a puppet of the world stay who you are and you will find people that like you and people you should be around change and you will put yourself in a place you don't want to be

[@ralpha1]

Too much eye contact can be awkward.

[@1levitation414]

5:53 Great sales pitch bro, I bet you got alot of traction from it ( I'm an advanced digital marketer so I know my stuff ) :) + the 20% off ( the urgency ) very well formed sales script :)

[@ChrisLyon567]

I don't even approach women anymore, if I do it might happen once a year. I'm done wasting my time and energy trying to find a girl to date. being someone who has been single 31 years, never once taken a woman on a date, never once been in a relationship. Yes I have tried, but every time, women would reject me saying i'm ugly, and not attractive enough to date them. Even though I've been working on myself lately going to the gym 4-5 days a week, Still need to work on the wardrobe a bit I think, but no matter what I try to do, it's never good enough. I've hit the MGTOW.

[@szn1580]

Never give up bro. I know it’s hard but every man brings something to the table. It’s a numbers game

[@ChrisLyon567]

@@szn1580 hard part is, I right now live in a very small town I moved to a year ago for work , and there's really no places to go to try to meet people, and one girl who I helped get a job in the same place I am, is keeping me in the dreaded friendzone, so i've been pulling back and not really even contacting her. I don't really have much of a social life. well I never really did have a social life.

[@kc270352]

well go on MGTOW video then, this is not a place for complaining

[@ChrisLyon567]

@@kc270352 I wasn't complaining about anything.

[@terrancemaulana4058]

​@@kc270352come on bro u aint helping

[@bophelomohapi]

ayo David the last tip is not practice, instead it is feedback bro because practice does not make perfect instead feedback makes perfect.

[@bryceellis112]

Let’s go Beast

[@Jaylionad]

thank you for the wisdom.

[@seangabriellen.fruelda6865]

i find it most difficult talking to girls i find attractive or beautiful in my eyes, like i can't even maintain eye contact

[@wanman1]

This stuff cracks me up! 🙂

[@itsjakobcurry]

Eyes contact changes the game

[@brantleyerik]

When men slip up and say one wrong thing, women run away. Isn't that a perfect example of a woman overthinking? Why does she feel like overlooking that would be bad?

[@KRYSBENEDICTCAETE]

i did step 1 now im in jail

[@AcaGajić]

Fantastic. 😊

[@ArticulateArena]

Ive never asked a chick for her number... and ive got into triple digits before 30. Maybe i should make a youtube channel

[@BENEATH_THE_SEWERS]

Prostitutes don't count.

[@eshw23]

Fat broke girls dont count😀

[@ArticulateArena]

@BENEATH_THE_SEWERS I agree, but ffm tbrresomes do

[@amirhosseintabari82]

PRACTICE Man just PRACTICE❤

[@DeTvåTrillingarna]

no

[@REAPER--_--]

"Nerdy dude"..🤣🤣🤣😂😂

[@Chewbachi]

Go to the gym and get your body right y’all 💯

[@grimview]

"I'm an introvert that does NOT like meeting new people" Few minutes latter "join my nation to get live call with me" Pick one?

[@DanielMartin-s8u]

Being stylish is fine but I'll do it on my time not for any validation from others- male or female.

[@ThomasShrlby]

I was trying to see if the girl in the thumbnail was there :

[@sedrickgipson8088]

This what I’m trying to learn how to stop doing

[@liftingnthrifting]

11:52 why did you blur you feet😭

[@adaneureste9152]

Another bangerrrrr - Australian accent 🤝🙂‍↕️

[@BFG-Based]

Lmao the silence pause was so funny man I loved that

[@smoothvelvetsinger]

It's true about the first 60 seconds

[@loyisotshandu342]

That 12 minutes of confidence was funny.😂😂

[@hanneshovmoller1314]

That first clip was painful

[@alvinbalazuela1401]

how i wish edge is available in philippines

[@DodgeDak02]

Blurred out the foot for Feet-Finder. Nice.

[@saontop7266]

I cant hold eye contact bro I start laughing 💀

[@Zgod5S]

same here but only with a friend who looks funny

[@gnarwhal7562]

Top tier advice. That first point especially is a simple, but very effective strategy

[@GozuTob]

Would you consider time stamps for your videos??

[@edisercer]

There goes 15 min and 13 sec of my life for nothing.

[@LemonKushDeadside]

Great video david, a few videos back i commented something along the lines of being in a dark spot and unemployable, today that changed. I spoke to a highly respected and well known sales representative for a marketing company and i have an interview thursday. Thanks david for everything. Stay BEASTLY fellas anything is possible

[@Phoenix-g8c]

Thank you for your Videos and the Tips you share with us👍 PS: Also thanks for making me laugh. I start the Video and im confused: why the fuck is Mark Zuckerberg at the third image😂

[@nico_aroundtheworldd5922]

So Basically, to get a girl. You need to talk to ther like she is a child.

[@willweber320]

Bro wait till you ask them out at the checkout and there’s three people behind you 😂 was awkward as fuck looking back on it so funny 😂

[@AlejandroGasatan]

i got exam tom, and here i am watchin this (im allergic to girls)

[@sonbucky18]

What about school conversations?

[@Cjnhanj]

Who cares if women think you’re awkward or “cringe”

[@Mr.StanddOnBusiness]

Exactly.

[@deshaqaun]

prolly everyone

[@Cjnhanj]

@@deshaqaun sadly

[@Patricksele750]

I'm going to let you in on a secret. A little awkwardness is completely normal and part & parcel with many forms of flirting. Many girls find it cute, possibly charming, especially as you get into your 20's. However, there is a line where too much awkward can be dull, or worse, creepy.

[@Mr.StanddOnBusiness]

Many women will only find it attractive if the guys already attractive.

[@helloits_beanos]

In all my video games I make my character look like he is a circus. 😭that tip can’t help me

[@psychopath1773]

Just seeing the video after being awkward around girls ...

[@RENEGADECODMWZ]

those clips in one emoji,😬. Anyway, W content How to beast, you make the world less cringey place.

[@Mmksen289]

Dam love the opening… normalize rejection it’s part of the process also makes for some of the best funny stories 😂

[@Peterstarzynskitech]

7:26 Did Julia just do the U Cant C Me?

[@jackdiamond5340]

Maybe we should teach Women how to be respectful to Men and to choose partners based on better criteria before we try to teach men how to be smoother around women.

[@KubishCZ]

Is anybody here in Prague to go to aproach girls in tandem?

[@firmlytalking]

Come to Stockholm bro, I live here

[@Anadrolus]

@@firmlytalking How are girls in Stockholm personality wise ? I want to move there I'm French, I was 6 times in Sweden and you people seem so friendly, but I wonder how hard it is to seduce girls there

[@fabio_0]

yep

[@AnoNymous-bm5cq]

At least you’d the courage to ask her pn

[@TimForber69]

I bought three pairs of the pants I've seen you advertising... They haven't arrived nor have I gotten a confirmation email. Starting to think it's a scam. What do you think? Should I register it as fraud?

[@howtobeast]

If you ordered them from EDGE lifestyle, then no reason to worry. But there have been a few scammers running fake ads on Instagram with different brand names.

[@FashionMF_]

I AM NOT GOING TO "EDGE"LIFESTYLE 😭😭

[@MrSoap-x2t]

Hey I’m 15 and can’t afford these prices, any other recommendations

[@CusPedro]

Not awkward but self doubt

[@IVIALL0Y]

did bro blur his feet? Yall down bad💀💀🤣🤣

[@seanical_sa]

Can Edge be delivered in South Africa?

[@howtobeast]

Yes we ship worldwide