Husband Q&A: In-laws, Career, Arguments!

I'm so excited to finally be uploading the Husband Q&A so many of you have asked for in the last few years! We cover the below questions in this video, so feel free to jump ahead to other time stamps depending on what you're interested in! Also, check out Usama's KZbin channel / realskindoctor and subscribe there too!
TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 Introduction
1:44 How did you meet?
2:48 When did you get married?
3:45 What is your ethnicity/languages you can speak?
6:03 What does your husband do for a living?
6:25 How many kids do you want to have?
7:26 What’s your relationship like with your in-laws?
9:15 Most annoying thing about each other
11:18 Biggest shock when you started living together
14:17 What is your age difference?
14:30 Do you share house chores?
17:44 What do you argue about/ who apologizes first?
21:43 How does Usama feel about Shirin being a resident with long hours?
24:23 Did being married young affect your studies?
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@halalgirlnewyork - halalgirlnewyork
@realskindoctor - realskindoctor
WHO AM I?
Hey friends - I'm a Doctor who graduated from King's College London (in London, of course!) and moved to America to pursue my dream of Residency training in the USA! I'm a first year resident (intern) in Manhattan and I live here with my husband who is also a Doctor (@realskindoctor) from the UK! I share all things Medicine, Fashion and Lifestyle on this KZbin Channel and on my Instagram @halalgirlnewyork !

[@aliabdaal]

Good stuff

[@rw3745]

@SIMUG dude chill it’s his free will. Can you stop telling people what to do/not to do. Bossy much

[@sadmanthenonexistent6833]

Man you need more vocabulary 🤣

[@shairsko9360]

@@rw3745 aren’t u doing the same ☝️😂😂🤦‍♂️

[@RAHMATULLAHNOWRUZ]

You will marry too and make similar videos.

[@tahsinuddin]

how's the wife quest going 🤔

[@yesbeautifulyou7406]

Yes we need a separate whole story of how you guys met

[@ammarakhan6255]

yes!!!

[@mar.yamaaah]

Yeahh!!!

[@shairsko9360]

Definitely do not need the long story 🤦‍♂️😱😂

[@danielmichel8658]

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[@ti1781]

Please can we have the one hour version of how you both met! Loved this video, may Allah always preserve your bond ❤️

[@aishshaa5401]

WE NEED THE STORY OF HOW YOU TWO MET, IDC HOW LONG IT IS😭

[@fasogeeek]

usama's theory on dusting is smart, it actually just goes in the air and we breathe it in. thank you for that.

[@shahmahnoor1134]

I love how considerate Usama is about relating his answers to yours so he doesn't sound mean at all

[@emmanleo4347]

This was incredible in so many ways! I honestly had cascades of laughter from Usama's comments, his humour is really unparalleled. 😂😂 You guys are a truly blessed, inspirational couple and that really shone through this video. So excited for future content involving you both! (Praying for Usama's wellbeing after that dangerous behaviour 🙏😂)

[@mar.yamaaah]

We need a whole store of how you guys met and Everything, make a separate video☺️💖

[@shirinsyed]

Aww thanks Maryam! Planning on it!

[@mar.yamaaah]

@@shirinsyed am very excited, you guys are soo cute together may god bless you🥺❤️

[@saidularefin5884]

@@shirinsyed This is not Islamic way of wearing Hijab. You have to cover your chest with it. Otherwise, It's nothing but imitation of Jews & Christians, which is completely forbidden in Islam.

[@hamnafarooq5310]

Finally 😍 Loved it. We def want a longer version of how you guys met!

[@khadijasiddiqui6906]

We need full storyyyyy!!!! Also I love how you guys are!!❤😍 So humble,genuine and honest.🌻

[@humaamalik]

This video was so sweet. I still need a seperate whole story video.

[@hanifabibi177]

My uncle is getting married soon.Can everyone pray so that everything goes well thank you 😍😀😀😛👌😍👌

[@mahsamazdak2755]

I just wanted to watch half of it ( thought it would be like other's Q&As) but MAN this video was so much fun and you guys are so wise and inspiring 🙌 ❤ 🙏

[@durkhanaibibi]

So genuine. Please stay this way.

[@mahnoorzafar1654]

You guys are so sweet. Really enjoyed it. Can't wait for more such content ❤️

[@muzaffarhussainmuzaffar6117]

I am shocked to see u guys speaking Urdu & on top of that to get know that u r both from Pakistan🇵🇰. God bless u guys. From Kashmir

[@PalestineWillBeFree437]

You've posted after SO LONNNGGG. I'M SO HAPPY

[@btsarmy1359]

I love how you talk . Your words are soo clear and direct. You guys are the cutest so MashaAllah. May Allah bless your marriage

[@traineesurgeon]

Long awaited QnA. Welcome back

[@asifaijaz6768]

Yesssss we need the whole video on how you both met ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@juwariyah4412]

Gosh! I am literally drooling over this video!😍❤️❤️❤️ We wanttt your whole Love story in a seperate video for sure!!💞 #couplegoals 💓

[@mustaneeraazhar4942]

We'd love to hear the long story!

[@dr.rehmatsafdar1578]

Love you Shirin❤️ So happy to know you better! Sending love!

[@shirinsyed]

Aww thank you Rehmat!

[@shamima20]

Yes we need a whole separate video of how u guys met😍🙌

[@rhussain9012]

Yayyy after a day of lectures this video is perfect! ❤️

[@aishshaa5401]

We definitely need more Usama, I'm in love with his wittiness *_*

[@emaanbouss1633]

Shout out to Maryiams bday being the beginning of the best couple I know :) loved this xx

[@g.18atqiyahasan56]

Myyyyyy favvvvvvvvvvvvouriteeee doctor couple!!!!!! Usama is so sarcastic love his humor !!!!!!

[@sdfist123]

You guys are AMAZING!!! ❤️❤️

[@ShabnamKhan-mq1wy]

Really enjoyed the video just keep it up and I'm super excited for the 1hr version of how you guys met!! Love you lots and your urdu accent is just unexplainable!!

[@khouloud7606]

My beautiful Shirin is back finallyyy!!! Although I'm following you on Instagram so I see you litterally every day, but I miss to see you here on youtube ❤ Welcome to Usama also!! Love you girl ❤❤

[@tanz6275]

Rlly enjoyed this 🤍 so happy that u uploaded x

[@tanz6275]

I’d love a full story on how you both met ☺️ love watching those type of vids :)

[@sanaiqbal6719]

How could two people be sooo cute , sensible , comforting and understanding of each other mashallah mashallah . U two are such an inspiration for creating personal and professional life balance . May allah protect both of u from an evil eye ,may god always keep those faces smiling and bright ❤️

[@mahumdua]

Love this video!!!! We need a sep video on how you two met!!!💗💗

[@aghnafaryal6275]

Loved it. I was smiling throughout the video!!! mA tA🥰🥰🥰

[@nawalh7931]

You guys are so wholesome😭

[@hiras.3407]

Your Urdu is completely fine! We speak Englurdu (a combination of English and Urdu) in Pakistan anyway. And the hint of the accent is desirable tbh.

[@ridazahra1685]

You can not be more Accurate 😂

[@araa_n9348]

Yes I’ve noticed Pakistanis who have been in 🇵🇰 their whole life role their “r”‘S to sound foreign lol

[@aamnahere6250]

While her Urdu is fine, not all Pakistanis speak Englurdu. Pakistan is not just big urban centers. Yahan ab bhi shusta Urdu bolne ka riwaj hai baghair Angrezi ke tarkey ke. Joh Pakistani baahir ke mamalik mein rehte hain un ka accent hona qudrati baat hai lekin Pakistan mein zyada tar log English accent ke saath Urdu nahin bolte, sirf maghrib zada log jin ko apni zabaan pe sharam aati hai woh apni ehsas-e-kamtari dikhate hain.

[@araa_n9348]

@@aamnahere6250 MashAllah, you have said everything so well and 100% with you dear. Yes, forcing this “English” accent is only a sign of self esteem and embarrassment about ones own identity

[@samawercheema774]

This is an absolute banger ! 🔥 keep it up.

[@gan8849]

this video was so fun! and the long hair answer was so hilarious

[@aymensubhani7008]

I thoroughly enjoyed this! 😍

[@hammadrafi435]

❤️❤️❤️pushtoons felt proud Q&A was 🔥

[@aamermirza5410]

Prayers for you guys, eternal happiness and blessings ❤

[@delwarabegum6085]

Finally you are back... Waiting for too long !!! ☺️

[@Esxae]

Liking before I’ve even watched it because I’m just happy to see you’ve uploaded 😂

[@shehreenkhattak1112]

SO HAPPY TO HEAR USAMA IS PASHTOON!! we want our rur to do a video speaking in pashto or something

[@khaoulaal1914]

So much happy when I saw the notification 😍😍

[@deborah_obeng]

This was so beautiful to watch I would love to see more couple videos from the two of you 🥰🤗

[@shirinsyed]

Aww thank you so much Deborah! We plan to!! 😉

[@aishamalik2282]

You talk so aesthetically pleasing haha, I just clicked but now I watched a whole video of 28 minutes i never have so much patience. But it was so fun!! Ma sha allah

[@fathimarana4579]

Greattt video...would like to see a whole seperate video on the other topic ❤️

[@asmauzurmi7547]

we definitely want the whole love storyy

[@Akta]

omg this is so wholesome 😭 ❤️

[@zimalfaisal8181]

This is literally the best YT video ever , loved the acting shots in between 😂💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞

[@shirinsyed]

Haha thank you zimal!

[@arifchowdhury3424]

this is pretty awesome! you guys should do more couple videos and I am liking everyone of those

[@leslienkwonia1075]

Really cute and funny video!!❤ Please keep up the good work!!

[@sofiarashid2411]

Great video! Your husband has such a good sense of humor, had so many laughs! May Allah bless your marriage!

[@saniyamallick5388]

Ufff I enjoyed that part sooo much “biggest shock when you started living together “ 🤣🤣🤣🤣 usama’s honest answer

[@chooselipstickk2782]

You’re both are amazing! Hope you stay the way you are

[@RaNa-rk1sh]

Literally 28:25 minutes of cuteness! I love this couple so much, wish you a happy life forever!🤍🤍

[@sugacube5733]

You guys are so sweet🤍 We need more video like this with usama💫❣

[@fairuzbintealam4064]

You guys are so cute Mashallah!! I really liked how you guys share the house chores, I just wish my siblings and I could be on the same understanding level with chores as well

[@Zealiyadiaries]

Aaah can't believe it's been a whole year since you filmed this! Time really flies, and mA you went from thinking about having 4 kids to your very first one subhanAllah! Love Usama's humor so much! Can't wait for more couple videos P.S women do shed a lot of hair, and taking photos is something all males struggle with lool

[@alexsoris8386]

May God bless you both and gives you happiness, many children, always strong health and a lot of wealth! You both are amazing couple!

[@Reem-dw8bz]

He’s funny lol we need more videos of you together!! Love your videos

[@shirinsyed]

Thank you Reem! I’ll let him know.

[@Reem-dw8bz]

@@shirinsyed You’re welcome :)

[@lightmelts3533]

I am just at the beginning of the video and your energy I LOVE IT

[@sabrinasifat2631]

At last! Please post videos regularly 💕

[@shirinsyed]

I’ll try my best! Thanks for watching!

[@FaisalJamshaid]

We need more of these!!

[@SaraSiddiqui]

Separate story about your first meeting! 😍

[@sumayyah_ibm]

Loved watching this video ❤❤❤

[@suri5107]

Masha Allah you two are a beautiful couple! Love this 😂 also I can relate with the masculine and feminine verbs, but in gujarati

[@shamima20]

Ahhh that's what I was waiting for a long time🥺🥺♥️♥️🔥

[@shirinsyed]

Aww thanks for watching

[@shamima20]

@@shirinsyed 🥺♥️... My inspiration 👉👈😫♥️

[@ashrafulalam483]

It’s really pleasure to have you both in a single screen talking about each other😍 Hey Usama bro, How can I find a better half like her? 🥰 Love from🇧🇩

[@areebakulsum7021]

MashaAllah you both are so cute ❤️🤩. Enjoyed this video thoroughly, and we really missed you on KZbin!!

[@aishaazeem8703]

we need the longer version

[@araa_n9348]

What a mature, funny, kind, amazing couple. MashAllah

[@rabiyaghazanfar4377]

You guys are so cute together MaShaaAllah. May God bless you ❤️Would love to see another video on how you both met

[@aishaskitchen2022]

Need whole story plz, love you❤❤

[@idasan1290]

I very much enjoyed this video! How We Met video coming up soon??? 🥺💚

[@zaidsohail7753]

Lovely video! I am 100% with usama on the sleep hygiene lmao. Getting married next month and this is the thing I am worried about the most lol

[@fatimaarifrehan853]

Hahahaha that urdu part was the cutestt!! Your pakistani fans love you shirin 💗💗💗

[@mariabhattay8453]

I don’t usually comment on videos but this made me really LOL!! Usama, 5-10 mins late isn’t really late, definitely not for a woman!!

[@louisenielsen7106]

I will totally be your friend! And btw, Usama, my good sir, the clothes thing is indeed completely normal. How else are you supposed to decide on anything? 😂 And it's also perfectly normal to leave hair everywhere. Especially on our partners, it's a loving souvenir, a keep sake, a good luck charm of shorts 🤪 Please do give us more couple videos, and do by all means give us the full story of how you guys met!🤞✌

[@abturahmankawasmi8101]

Fabulous and gorgeous couple , Both of u are a stunner and amazing doctor , ilysm both of u , Really cool couple and so energetic .. Omg that's so chemistry in the air I felt between u guys

[@nabihasalimMughal]

This was such a cute video🤩❤️

[@shirinsyed]

Thank you!! 🤍

[@izzaashraf4225]

Just started watching and omg you guys are GOALS!!!!Such a cute couple MashAllah❤❤❤

[@makabeer1383]

It would be my honor to be called as Shireen's friend. I wish that I could once talk to u. U both are amazing and the bond u guys share is alhumdulliah the best

[@yumnaabdullah2841]

Loved it ❤️

[@ridhasaraff9604]

I actually couldn’t stop laughing at the “your friends aren’t normal”. Usama bhai is absolutely hilarious and I totally relate to him. He’s a male version of me. 🤣 I love you guys x Full story video please 😍🤩

[@abturahmankawasmi8101]

So much and tons of Respect

[@Muslimah3391]

This was a beautiful video MashaAllah. You guys did really well in both your studies and life. May Allah bless you ameen.

[@desertechodrums4687]

MashaAllah- you’re both so sweet! May Allah Increase you in closeness and love 💖

[@zarintasnimkhan8506]

Please tell us the one hour long version ❤️

[@tamannahajira]

Wee want a "how we met" videooo from you docs!

[@immabitch2458]

You guys are so cute and look so good together 🤩

[@shirinsyed]

Thank you!

[@jashra1]

This is one of the warmest video ever with Usama 😇

[@ayeshaqayyum6666]

We need longer version

[@makabeer1383]

BEST URDU SPOKEN IN THE WORLD. LITERALLY BECAME A FAN OF UR URDU

[@Zealiyadiaries]

Wow I'm really seeing the resemblance!! I'm always late too and my brother keeps complaining about that. He also easily gets tired of taking photos of me when I'm like 'dude it's only been 5 mins and I'm not satisfied' haha

[@shirinsyed]

Hahah glad you can relate!

[@bushrajan1351]

You guys are too cute!!

[@saniaamar1543]

The way I'm wheezing- 🤣 Y'all are cuteee MashaaAllah!!! Really enjoyed watching this video. Can't wait for more 😍

[@shirinsyed]

Awww thank you so much Sania! 🤍

[@shirinsyed]

Haha aww thank you Sania!