Husband’s past, more “experience”, and being intimate?? | Girl Talk with my SISTER IN LAW!

[@18masterchief]

Summer is a natural in front of the camera! She did so good 🥰 please have her on for more videos 🤍

[@Minminel]

Samar* 😂😂😂

[@s.devries2644]

@@Minminel I already was thinking how does she have a white girl name 🤔😂

[@Minminel]

@@s.devries2644 😂😂

[@aptic39]

Summer is so naturally beautiful, I don't even think shes wearing makeup. Whoever marries her is a lucky lucky man lol

[@lunalu3]

Yes she is so beautiful. Her eyebrows are goals!

[@natthecat4330]

Summer is a natural! Loved her views too and how confident she is in herself. Her future husband will be a very lucky man ( if she wants to get married of course)

[@asmaahaffejee75]

The beauty of nikaah, and the barakah Allah puts in your relationship once you're married, is unimaginable. Allah makes it so easy for the two of you to be intimate with each other, despite not being able to hold hands before marriage. It's beautiful, and calm, and understanding, but that beauty, calmness and understanding is placed in each other directly from Allah. That's the best way I can explain it.

[@Ileen00]

I'm really scared to marry the wrong person but you give me hope. May Allah bless your marriage ❤

[@maysmoukdad7877]

And that’s why it’s important to do things the halal way, so we can have Allah’s barakah. That means being very careful with “the talking stage” and having a mahram with you at all times before nikhah. That also means being careful with how you go about your wedding (intermixing/music/tabarruj are all ways that your barakah can be taken away) May Allah grant us righteous spouses that will be the coolness of our eyes and may He put barakah in our relationships

[@Aida-s7f]

Summer is so inteligent and smart! I love how she talks and explain things. Love it! She can motivate and educate girls! Please do this duo again! 😍

[@lifecaptioned1244]

Hey.. we are namesakes😁😁.. it's rare to find someone with the name Aida

[@asra9897]

The way Jasmine talks is so heartwarming ngl

[@raghdsreis1953]

summer is sooo pretty and i love the way she thinks please let her know shes precious and a such an intelligent lady may god bless you

[@tashreeqahkhan5726]

This KZbin video was so much fun to watch !! Hoping for a part 2. Please have Summer on for more video's she is so natural and her perspectives are so great to listen to. Sending love from South Africa!

[@fatimazahraamohammadiaragh848]

I think it’s important to spread awareness about women’s rights and standing up against oppression in a marriage or standing up against the oppression thats happening around the world

[@bunny9489]

It’s so good that you guys are discussing such a “taboo” questions.

[@melaninvision1261]

Marriage is not a joke! Ideally it’s a forever thing! So yeah the sex talk is definitely recommended if you don’t trynna marry Christian Grey! You can have a respectful and non detailed conversation about expectations and boundaries. Once you’re in, you can’t get out so easily. Very interesting video 🥰

[@JasmineFares]

Totally agree! Great advice 🤍

[@sahraabdi3120]

I totally agree 😂💓

[@Noblegirl05]

I busted out laughing when you mentioned Christina Grey!😂😭

[@mattb5881]

Christian grey pls 😭😭😭

[@pigeonshak7898]

Yes, truee! It can be like a conversation about "what are your thoughts on sexual intimacy? Do u think consent is needed? Do you know about the postures that are forbidden in sexual intimacy? (eg: anal sex, etc.)" I think that would be a good, serious conversation to have on sexual intimacy before marriage.(edit: but you should definitely ask these questions when you've already established a close relationship with the person later on in life. It wouldn't be a good thing to ask these questions after getting to know them for like less than 6 months. To me personally, I wouldn't think it's an appropriate time to ask those questions)

[@twicesaurous-9310]

As an aspiring lawyer YES TO THE CAREERS TALK it will be so insightful and interesting to see Summer’s perspective and how her experience as a hijabi has been in the legal industry EKKKKK PLEASE MAKE IT HAPPEN JASMINE I’D BE GRATEFUL FOR LIFE

[@patriciapaz4957]

Jasmine your sister in law is GORGEOUS

[@miriamk2354]

I disagree with the question about talking about sex. I think it’s super important to talk about boundaries. some guys might think “oh I’m gonna get married, she’s gonna do x, y, z” when maybe in reality, the girl might only be ok with x or only okay with x and y. (i’m trying to say this as PG as possible). so I think 100% talking about expectations is important before you do ur kat-kitaab and bring families involved. you don’t want your marriage to start with you two having totally different expectations for your sex life

[@miriamk2354]

@@samaalduwaisan I know what u mean, but 11:30 they said “it’s def an after type of discussion”

[@firdowskahn1158]

Yes but if both parties know what is permissable in Islam You actually don't need that discussion?? There's some things you can't do.

[@NarutoUzumaki-ky5jn]

Firdows Kahn that’s not the only thing that matters. Some people have higher drives than others. Some people have unrealistic expectations too

[@miriamk2354]

@@firdowskahn1158 oh you’d be surprised. just because someone is Muslim doesn’t mean they adhere to what should be followed. just because someone’s muslim doesn’t mean u can assume they pray 5 times a day, fast, go to the Mosque, don’t smoke, don’t party, don’t sleep with other women etc. so yes, a conversation should be had unless you wanna get married only to realize your husband expects you to give him a blow job. you can’t assume someone follows their religion to the extent you do.

[@miriamk2354]

@@NarutoUzumaki-ky5jn exactly. if a guy I’m talking to had/have watched porn that’s something I need to know before marriage, not after.

[@blahblahboy8330]

In regards to talking about intimacy before marriage is most definitely something to talk about even if it’s awkward because it is critical and you may find out something that’s important in making the decision to get married or not, and don’t delay too long in asking such related questions before getting emotional connection with the person because it’s important like asking about STDs, sexual history- as a potential partner you have all the right to ask and you should because you don’t want to end up finding out about your partner having STDs after the wedding, of course people can lie but that’s the wrong way to start a marriage and Islam doesn’t say you cannot ask/talk about intimacy before marriage because there are things that people may want to know before getting into the courtship and marriage .

[@0y187]

a career oriented video would be amazing!

[@Valeria-95]

These types of videos should be turned into podcasts!

[@diat3766]

Yesss, it would help the modern world a lot!

[@subtlebookish]

In regard to the question about 'more sexual or emotional experience with other people', I wish I would have waited for my forever partner. It makes it so much more special, I think (and I'm not even religious). However, dating doesn't necessarily mean having sex with multiple people. Dating people, in my eyes, means getting to know them to see if something for long term could be in the cards. Please correct me if I'm wrong, but I feel like for Muslims and Christians as well, courting is seen as this huge thing that you only do with a potential partner, and it's seen as a 'bad' thing if it doesn't work out, but I see it more as in getting to know multiple people in order to get to know myself and what I do and don't like, without it being this sexual thing.

[@nasrinsultana3319]

Yea as Muslims we believe that when you date someone your intentions have to be that this is someone i could marry unless you discover things about them that you don't like or if your morals or outlooks don't align.

[@subtlebookish]

@@nasrinsultana3319 I totally get those intentions. I think going into a relationship/courtship with someone should always be about that intention. I just also like to believe that dating could be more normalized (without the sexual parts of course) as a form to learn oneself and know what you do and don't like from a potential partner.

[@XoskittlezzoX]

Yeah I get where you’re coming from. From an Islamic perspective and also a south Asian and middle eastern cultural perspective, you’re encouraged to wait until you’ve gotten yourself together and know yourself before adding another person into your life. I don’t know if dating should be used as a tool to learn about oneself. When one is ready to make that commitment, they’re a lot better at filtering out people that won’t meet their standards/needs without having to emotionally drain yourself with multiple people. There is still a process of learning that happens when you seek out a forever partner. When both sides are looking for the same thing - cards are laid out upfront and things become clear as to whether or not you should be with this person very early on. Lol that was a lot … I hope it made sense?

[@subtlebookish]

@@XoskittlezzoX It definitely makes sense! And maybe it is the 'better' way to go about it, I don't know... I've never given much thought about it all before, since culturally for me, it was seen as 'the normal thing' to date. There is heaps of pretty good things about Islam in my opinion, but some things just don't really make sense to me as well. But I'm still trying to learn about the religion, so I might change my opinion on those things.

[@detectivedaffodil437]

I am a muslim and i 100% agree with this. Casual dating can just be about getting to know someone inorder to find someone you like.

[@nabeelahajam2410]

I appreciate the rawness of this conversation💯

[@aminabelloulou6099]

Girls that was so much fun!😂♥️ Thank you & summer is a natural!

[@saifelkasabi7995]

The most beautiful thing is that you guys have the same opinions cause of your religion which answers alot ❤

[@angeshade]

Yes, please do a career Q&A! Great video and advice 🙏🏽

[@tammytam199624]

imo talking about sex before marriage is very important cause you need to understand and see if you two aligns on sexual boundaries. It's also important to figure out if your partner has any sexual disorders (both in physical health perspective and mental perspective) before you are married for the rest of your lives. For me personally it's a bit immature to not discuss that topic at all before marriage because I can't imagine how much of a nightmare it would be to only find out "red flags" related to sex after I am married to someone.

[@melaninvision1261]

Agreed! I think two mature people can talk about sexual expectations and boundaries before marriage without disrespect! Now! This is something that you can’t do with someone you just met, it has to be serious!

[@bbydino]

What would be classified as red flag?

[@tammytam199624]

@@bbydino I don't think there's "right" or "wrong" answer when it comes to red flags because everyone has their own preferences. What I can think of on top of my head right now is that I would definitely want to know if my partner (whom I am in a serious committed relationship with) has any sexual transmissive diseases. Some people might find it important to know if their sex drives aligns too. It could also be a deal breaker if between a couple one person finds something sexually arousing while the other find it hard to accept. Again there's no right or wrong answer but I think it's important to make sure the person you choose to be your life partner is a good fit for you in all aspects.

[@zaziehagen6230]

I agree. Its very uncomfortable and should be kept at a vrry respecful and factual conversation but certain expectztions should be discussed, like what you would not feel comfortable with, see if they are understanding of not doing "it" on the firsf night. Also due to waiting for marriage many guys in the muslim community turn to pornography and i would like to know about that since it can have a huge negative impact on our sex life as a couple. But def an awkward convo and should not turn flirtacious, boundaries should be kept as you are not yet married.

[@memoalalawi8237]

I agree, I think it should be factual and formal, just setting a couple boundaries and facts, like any STD’s or can’t get pregnant, I don’t think you should talk about kinks and arousing things before marriage tho.

[@tanz6275]

Jasmine I must say you are so spot on with the way you answer questions 💕also who wants another QnA careers related cause I do 😅😅❤️

[@samartime4374]

I think having a talk about it sex is important. Keeping the intention of the reason for talking. Not to get turned on but to get informed. Make sure both parties are safe, learn about them, etc

[@Mio9898]

1- it's religiously not accepted to get so intimate and open to a non-mahram. 2- What kind of questions are you going to ask? Like what position he likes most? How often he wants sex? I mean whatever question, it is so inapropriate and cringy. 3- Say you two could'nt get along, that person will know your very very personal and intimate information, are you going to let it happen? Do you trust that person that he will not spread rumours about you?

[@saraspiano2]

@@Mio9898 and there are always gentle and okay ways to talk about it, without talking intimate details….

[@samartime4374]

@@Mio9898 See the thing is you’re taking it too far, and not once did I talk about being inappropriate. Of course you’re going to keep the right intention when talking and you’re going to be appropriate and an adult when wanting to learn about that. So I don’t appreciate you making that kind of assumption saying that this is what I will be talking about if I’m trying to learn that about the person. There are other ways to learn about a person without going too far and crossing boundaries boundaries.

[@mfar7400]

@@samartime4374 exactly sis! A man needs to know that he should be respectful in the bedroom as well and respect a womens intimate desires and comfort level! Thats the main thing to get across if ur going to be talking about sex! Someone else also said sex safety! Stds not being able to have children all of that should be told sooner rather than later!

[@samartime4374]

@@mfar7400 I swear the guys on social media act like such a prude and think it’s such a taboo topic to discuss! And then when they do make assumptions, they go completely past the line and make it seem like the women are sexual being who are being inappropriate. SMH… Like if I want to learn that you have STDs, I have every right to… Safe sex should 100% be discussed Anyways. He’s an umbilical boy. Who can prob never please a lady Thank you for your reply!

[@maryamtahir92]

"please dont give me a thumbs down" I instantly gave you a thumbs up Summer

[@yem1122]

We need more videos like this please! Ps : you both are sooo gorgeous MashAllah ♥️

[@StarsabovetheEmeraldForest]

Great video. I see a trend where Muslim women are told to lower their standards, or settle when it comes to finding a husband, but Muslim men are told to have very high standards and not to settle. They get to say they want someone that looks like Barbie but we are expected to go for badly built bodies, bad teeth, bald heads, and he may have a past.

[@marieandree3431]

Facts

[@arianacmoi]

Lower standar is the worst thing to do because the things you settled for will eventually bother you few years after.. never settle

[@arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700]

What is considered a “Badly built body”?

[@hazel_mvedits9082]

​@@arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700 Maybe fat, smelly, unhygienic beard or body

[@bil-v6h]

​@@arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700depends on the person.

[@1991faithy]

Summer is so cute and natural in front of the camera actually and she has some intresting point of views. Absolutely enjoyed this.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@maisdarwish7817]

Yes! I’d love to see a video about your careers! ♥️

[@insafkhalfaoui882]

Summer is so lovely 🥰 hopefully we can see her again in your channel 🙏🏼❤️

[@karolinase7000]

the dying monstera plant in the back 😂😂😂

[@beethovenn]

Summer is so sweet and has such a calm energy, masha’Allah!

[@farahyasmin3825]

i’ve always loved your girl talks!!!

[@muslimahh07]

These girl talks are soo interesting ❤️❤️

[@juwairiyah9898]

Summer is so prettyyyy I like her teeth xD MashaAllah she’s so beautiful. That joke in the beginning, anyone would be lucky to look like you but she’s just amazing as herself already

[@farzanaqasimi6977]

I needed this, perfect timing!!

[@shadowstorm5261]

4:14 - Kind of disgusting to talk about your sex life to your firends. this is forbidden in Islam. only women and men with no modesty do this 14:14 - this is wrong. if someone is seriously interested he can see the woman without hijab. but must cover her awrah of course 18:18 - it's about money. by goal people mainly tak about materialistic things. so yes its about money 19:08 Proves it

[@lizaminasyan9255]

Your sister in law is so beautiful and natural and confident 🤍

[@hebaahmed8381]

This video opened my mind so much, you both gave such great advice! JazakAllah Khair

[@mahdiaali7889]

Jasmines expression in the thumbnail was so funny, I can’t 😂😂😂

[@moo854]

WE LOVE a jasmin with sister girl talk 💖💖

[@rahmaberriahii832]

So funny !!😂😂I would love to see a career Q&A please love you so much guys❤️❤️🤲

[@ahakeemmabof258]

I love them togethert their bants and energy together 😂😂

[@Eliza-sky-Emy]

I feel like I was listening to my favorite podcast. Please do more girls talk vid.

[@diat3766]

Wow loved listening to you two🤗🤗 great advise, very similar or better said exact to my faith and I’m a Conservative Christian. Blessing to you too!!

[@TheBlushingGiraffe]

Loveeee these girl talk discussion videos! 🥰🤍

[@Micaela-mm9mi]

Love to see more videos with Summer😂😂😂

[@gabyslifeAsYouKnowIt]

OMG YESSSS TO THE CAREER TALK VIDEO !!!!

[@sarahrose2665]

I can always count on you for giving the best advice mashallah. Thank you for these girl talk videos you have no idea how much they help🙏🏻 may Allah bless you❤️❤️

[@heyitsunaiza4980]

Ahh I love this girls! You guys are so inspiring and helping me to become a better person ❤💗

[@titab]

I love how both smile a lot 💖

[@zeeposts]

We should stop pretending Muslim men and women are not sexually active or intimate before marriage. I understand you don't want to support that behavior and that's respectable, but it's happening.. a lot. It's so common for marriages to happen where one person has been active prior.. and so it's crucial, in this day and age, to have that conversation before.. if anything, for your sexual health and to know whether you are even comfortable that the other person has/has not been active. It doesn't have to be a detailed conversation, it can be done respectfully and maturely.

[@user-ht9ug4zv6v]

There's still plenty of people ie Muslims that are saving themselves some people who waited don't prefer to marry someone who committed Zina. I think they'll ask the potential spouse if they did anything just so they'll avoid the person who isn't waiting.

[@deepthinker4125]

@@user-ht9ug4zv6v I always ask because I made the strong effort to wait despite temptations and pressures. It wasn't easy and there were lots of tears. But I need someone who shares my values and also has the same strength and purity

[@reezis1619]

@@deepthinker4125 Are you a woman or man?

[@deepthinker4125]

@@reezis1619 a woman, why?

[@arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700]

@@deepthinker4125 tears because you couldn’t have premarital sex??? Lol tf 🚩

[@zainabo.7940]

I LOVE yall together 🤣🤩!! I would LOVE to see a Q&A from Summer regarding her career as a lawyer as an aspiring attorney myself

[@angeo3830]

I’m not Muslim but I feel like these topics are important because there is many young women with questions I know I was one lol I was clueless 💖

[@tay764]

I was totally against marriage idea until I turned 24 , it's like a sudden switch I didn't decide to get but it happened automatically

[@Dancerjspa887]

love her! a business q&a would be amazing!!

[@Rajaas_Reading_Corner]

Both of you are adorable! I binge on your advice!

[@ASJattar]

So glad you're back Jasmine!!! Sits to watch girl talk video even though I'm a guy and have no business being here LOL

[@GracefulKindness]

For your future reference bro 😉

[@nilimakazi745]

More Jasmine and Summer videos please!! I love the SIL duo 😍😂

[@imansolo2394]

Excited for this video❤️❤️❤️

[@hajadjalo4219]

i love y’all relationship, and i loved this video you guys should definitely do a part 2

[@Nari_The_Real_Deal]

Yaaaaaay she is so adorable （╹◡╹）♡ Im so excited to watch that video

[@masyitahmohsen8145]

Heyy jasmine!! Woohooo new vid's out🤩 Interesting n fun bond w ur sister in law, u both look so great masyaAllah haha💕

[@ck7586]

Really enjoyed your talk and different perspectives! You look like sisters, both beautiful MashaAllah x

[@user-jr8sq7ku7f]

Loveeeee youuu guys😩💓

[@sleepymariella8961]

I really loved Summer 😍I wish you'll take more video with together🥰 I want to watch your conversation about how you grew up as a Lebanese in a foreign country. 🙏

[@kristinratti5254]

Summer you did fantastic! Would love to see you in more videos! And jasmine your sister as well!

[@farwaali3353]

I love this duo ngl ❤

[@thebusolaade]

More videos with summer please 😂 y'all made me laugh

[@jennyswelt7025]

Please more videos with summer! ❤

[@afnan_s]

This was really fun to watch! 😆

[@deepthinker4125]

I think the zina in the past thing is oversimplified by our community. It's a major sin. People who commit it should marry those with whom they committed it with or someone who's also had the same past. They'll be best suited to each other. Why should they be entitled to someone who's worked hard to keep themselves chaste?

[@ruhmm]

💯

[@antonbyebajraktaraj1349]

Get your point but what if someone who was raised in a non religious non muslim family where brother sister cousins etc have had relationships and its normalized to go on dates and have sex and that person gets guided from allah, converts to islam and regrets it from the heart and is trying his best now to find a muslim women who doesnt judge him on his past even though he‘s honest about it. I think zina shouldn‘t be the only criteria to judge on just because a woman has never done zina doesnt single mean that she is a better marriage partner then someone who did

[@s.a.1083]

@@antonbyebajraktaraj1349 well said, its not right to judge someone's past sins, its between Allah and that person only and you dont know the persons heart at that time, they may have repented and worked hard to earn forgiveness. Someone's past doesn't determine how they should be treated and certainly doesn't determine what they are or arent worthy of in any way whatsoever. I feel like if you refused to be someone just because of their past and think that only a certain type of person can deserve you that would just be arrogance.

[@InshasChoice]

@@antonbyebajraktaraj1349 aren't they discussing people who were raised in a muslim household? Even then a lot of non muslims i.e. Catholics, Jews practice chastity.

[@sarcasticbookworm9352]

@@antonbyebajraktaraj1349 When someone converts to Islam everything before that is forgiven and they are not to be judged for their sins before Islam. If someone marries a convert then they will know that their spouse’s lifestyle was different before and they would understand.

[@capitalistvirgin2156]

Summer 😍 is so the girl every Muslim mom wants for her son! quelle belle 👌loved xoxo this vid

[@Yasmeen2308]

This was such a good video! Please invite her to be a guest star more often!!

[@shifaashraf5628]

Omgg Jasmine is so cool as always But i love Sammar more and more after every answer I hope there are more videos with Sammar Girls talk are best Lots of love Jasmine and Sammar 💕

[@fateme.h1378]

I LOVE ur videos and i actually enjoy watching them hhahahh

[@alizaamir5366]

Big YESSS to career discussion videos🙌❣️

[@ahqhatod]

Wow!! MashAllah Summer is so intelligent and wise 💗💗

[@lamiaakhamis5527]

Samar you are so. Natural and spontaneous on the camera and i liked the way you have talked so much keep it and let see you again

[@aishas4664]

“Younger people.. less than 20” Me married at 19😳

[@dunjadiab7427]

Me at 28😂🙆🏽‍♀️

[@aishas4664]

@@dunjadiab7427 loooool

[@dunjadiab7427]

Omg I Just recognized I tipped 28 I MEAN 18 GUYS !!! I MARRIED AT 18 HAHAHH

[@aishas4664]

@@dunjadiab7427 looooool

[@user-jr8sq7ku7f]

The outrooo noo😭😂😂😂

[@ramphastidae9235]

Yes, please do a career orientated Q&A! I'm also a law student in Germany and I would love to learn from your experience in Canada!

[@MuhammadFaisal-np7tc]

What do mean career orientated

[@sarah_nary1123]

Hello, so im from the US and I’ve been talking to a guy from another country. We both grew up in different cultures but we like each other and want to try to make it work. We have been talking about marriage. However, I’m not 100% sure if I’m doing the right thing or not. I have certain goals and things I want to do in life such as live abroad for a bit and travel but he doesn’t like the idea of me being alone in a foreign country for work. He wants to get married as soon as possible so we can be closer to each other. In this video it talked about career and goals. I have a college degree and he does too however he hasn’t had a professional job until recently. And if he comes to the US after we get married, he would probably look for work in a factory or warehouse of some sort. I don’t want my future family to struggle. And it doesn’t sound like he has any plans to go to school here or anything besides work. I guess what I’m trying to say is it seems I have more ambition than him. And I have things in life that I want to do and traveling is a big one. I feel a bit confused as to what I want. I need advice!

[@sarah_nary1123]

@@Kaltunhashi thank you 🙏 we ended up breaking up last month but I still have feelings. He got notice yesterday that the visitor visa he applied for got moved up faster to this April but we’re no longer together so I don’t think he’ll come 😕

[@hansatanveer3672]

Definitely need to do more videos with Summer tht would be great!!! X

[@nasroabdi7461]

It’s the smile your guys have the same smile

[@103-n8v]

The difference between Summer and Jasmine's sister🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@aishas4664]

Ahhh she is so cute Ma Shaa Allah,🥺🥰 Allahuma barik to both of you❤️

[@myriamkhanafer8901]

Goo go gooo Summmmer🔥🔥♥️😘😘😘

[@amnie]

amazing. i love this ❤️

[@fatimagames4821]

Summer, you and jasmine together rock!

[@user-yr2bo1iq5j]

In the thumbnail u looked like twins 🤣 I thought I had double vision

[@bookslover8820]

Girls you are both beautiful. And summer Si such a matur girl. Grettings an blessings from Cuba.

[@rayaan_1]

11:55. Hold up- that's a good answer Beauty being it" The way she explained made me feel different cuz no cap keeping it halal and then Doing the things as couple does after married is actually beautiful

[@im.m]

yesss pls more with summer

[@alifiafatima329]

Thank you soooo much for this. 😭😭😭❤️

[@rubinashaheri1396]

Masha Allah loved your video. The answers to the questions was spot on. Excellent answers as it should be like that. Lots of love from England.

[@sanahr7530]

Could you please make that whole video about the spouses past question!!

[@Sona77.]

Personally I didn’t feel ready for a potential partner until 25. Also, it’s so important to earn money BEFORE you get married because you never know how your husband will turn out. You really have to protect yourself!

[@luckyahmed200]

The sex question really has a place in the comments lol. I agree that there’s no right or wrong but people lie at the end of the day so it’s hard to distinguish what is true and what’s not from someone you’ve met a handful of times. People show the best versions of themselves when meeting a potential partner so idk man. That’s a tough question

[@luckyahmed200]

@@princessraj5921 it’s not a Muslim people thing. It’s a cultural thing. It depends on the background of the parents, some people get to know each other then bring up to their parents that they want to get married, some involve their parents from the get go, some don’t have the choice because their parents make the decisions for them expecting the children to follow through because that’s what was done for generations